The Secret to Making Her Feel You Like Never Before

You don’t need to be bigger—you just need to feel bigger. And to do that, she needs to feel three things the moment you’re inside her:

Depth. Firmness. Width.

Most men chase size as if it’s the ultimate weapon. But in the bedroom, how you use what you have—and how her body reacts to it—matters far more. The truth? You can make her gasp, clutch, and beg as if you were twice your size… without changing a single inch.

Let’s break it down.

1. The Right Leg Positions = Instant Tightness

Her vaginal canal isn’t a fixed space—it’s flexible, dynamic, and deeply responsive to positioning.

When her legs are positioned to narrow the entrance, the walls of her vagina hug you tighter. This creates the illusion—and sensation—of greater girth. One of the simplest ways? Bring her knees together or cross her ankles during penetration. This small shift tightens her canal so much, she’ll swear you’ve grown.

Inside Bigger & Deeper, I show exactly how to use leg positioning to make her feel tighter—with Jennifer and Jenna demonstrating the moves in explicit detail.

2. Deep Thrust Positions = Every Inch Buried

Depth is intoxicating for her—not just physically, but emotionally. When you fill her completely, it triggers a primal sense of being claimed.

Choose positions that tilt her pelvis toward you. For example, missionary with a pillow under her lower back lifts her hips, letting you slide in deeper. Or try “legs over shoulders” to straighten her canal so you can sink all the way in—leaving nothing outside.

When she feels your entire length inside her, the world disappears.

Want to see the exact deep-entry positions that make her moan into your mouth? They’re all in Bigger & Deeper with Jennifer and Jenna.

3. Erection Strength = Bigger Than Size

A strong erection doesn’t just stay up—it makes every stroke hit with force.

Think about it: when you’re rock-hard, you press firmly into every inner contour, every sensitive wall. She feels it in a way that flaccid or half-hard never could. Blood-engorged firmness turns even average size into something she’ll remember—and crave.

Train your erections like a muscle: proper diet, rest, pelvic floor exercises, and arousal control can give you a firmness that outperforms size alone.

I teach the techniques for lasting rock-hard inside Bigger & Deeper—so every stroke feels like a perfect fit.

4. My Favorite Position: Tight, Deep, and Unforgettable

Missionary. Her legs crossed at the ankles. Her hips slightly raised.

This triple-combo:

• Tightens her canal
• Tilts her pelvis for deep thrusts
• Keeps your bodies close so you can read every moan, every shiver

Step-by-Step:

1. Start in standard missionary. Keep her on her back, hips relaxed. Slide a firm pillow under her lower back to tilt her pelvis slightly toward you—this preps for deeper entry.
2. Cross her ankles. Place your hands at her calves or ankles, bring her feet together, and cross them loosely at the ankles. (Loose keeps blood flow comfortable and lets you adjust mid-thrust.)
3. Guide her legs toward one shoulder. Choose a side (your left or right), and guide the crossed ankles toward that shoulder. Her knees draw closer together, narrowing her entrance and making you feel thicker.
4. Set your grip and support. Rest her crossed ankles against your shoulder. One forearm supports behind her thighs; your other hand can slide under her sacrum or hold the pillow edge to keep her hips elevated and stable.
5. Aim and enter slowly. With your free hand, guide yourself to her entrance and aim downward and slightly back toward her spine. Add lube if needed. Expect it to feel super tight—sometimes the first inch is the hardest. Rock shallowly until she relaxes, then sink in.
6. Seat fully and pause. Once you’re all the way in, press pelvis to pelvis and hold for a deep, still kiss. Have her exhale slowly around you—this melts the tightness and makes the next thrusts addictive.
7. Lift-and-drive thrusts. Plant your knees, brace your core, and thrust in a way that lifts her hips off the bed an inch with each stroke. Think upward-and-forward arcs, not jackhammering. Keep your chest close so you can read her breath.
8. Work the angles. Small shifts change everything: pull her ankles slightly higher on your shoulder for more front-wall pressure; lower them a touch for more bottom-wall glide. If she moans deeper, you’ve found the sweet path.
9. Play with cadence. Do 5–7 deep, hip-lifting thrusts → then 8–10 short pulses at full depth without pulling out. Repeat. This combo floods her with pressure and keeps her begging.
10. Ride the wave. Maintain eye contact, pin her wrist or cradle her cheek, and stay locked in. If she needs a breath, slow to shallow rocks, then build again. Keep lifting her hips with each drive until she melts.

Every time Steve brings me into this exact lock, the first inch makes me gasp… and the lift with each thrust turns the room into a blur. Neither of us lasts long—because it’s too good to fight.

In Bigger & Deeper, I guide Jennifer and Jenna through this exact setup so you can see every detail in real time.

Closing Thoughts

Feeling “too big” isn’t about genetics—it’s about mastery. When you know how to control tightness, depth, and firmness, you become the man her body never forgets.

And when she looks at you, flushed and trembling, whispering “you’re too big”… you’ll know the truth: you’ve learned the art.

Click here to watch Bigger & Deeper with Jennifer and Jenna—and become the lover who makes every inch count.

Hot kisses,
Fidan Paula
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U