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“Tantra embraces the natural energies of the bodies and connects you with cosmic, universal energy. It is becoming one with the other, and the very cosmos itself.” – Swami Nostradamus Virato

Ahhh tantric sex – for couples who are patient, extremely sexual and extremely open, it can be the most powerful intimate experience of your entire lives. Intended to help a couple to expand, to be free, and to be liberated, it involves channeling your energies and becoming one – in the process you’re able to enjoy the most incredible, mind-blowing, convulsion-inducing orgasms you’ve ever had, explore your most primal urges, and really connect on a whole new level.

Intrigued? I don’t blame you. The reason I know so much about this ancient ritual is because I was with a divorcee who used to practice tantric sex with his ex wife. We saw each off and on for almost six months, and it was hard to let him go after connecting with him so intimately. He was thorough, intense, and generous between the sheets, and if often took me nearly an hour to stop my legs from shaking after one of our marathon lovemaking sessions.

So let’s look at how tantric sex will improve your sex life.

It will bring you together

Because the very foundation of tantric sex is experiencing an openness and vulnerability, forcing you to forget about your inhibitions, tantric sex can help you to connect with one another, both in and outside the bedroom. It may be a little awkward at first (one of the first exercises you should practice is just staring into each other’s eyes in silence), but once you get past that initial discomfort, you’ll find yourselves on a new plateau.

While tantra can heighten sensations during sex, it can also help you deal with disagreements, stress, and boredom in the relationship. Once you feel this new chemistry with your spouse, you’ll find yourself communicating in a healthier way as well as looking at things differently.

It will make you more confident

When you and your partner are able to engage in slow, passionate tantric sex, you’ll find that your inhibitions fade into the background and you’re able to act more freely behind closed doors. This new-found freedom can be a major confidence boost. Not only will you find that you’re more willing to show your vulnerable side during sex but you’ll also walk with your head held higher knowing that you can make a woman’s eyes roll into the back of her head for hours.

Sex in general will be (much) better

Learning the principles of tantra takes some time, but once you’ve got them down-pat, you won’t know how you enjoyed sex before it. Both men and women who practice tantric sex have experienced deeper, longer orgasms as well as multiple, compounded orgasms to boot! Similarly, men who engage in this sex ritual learn more about their physical responses and hence can “train” themselves to last longer or be able to go for several rounds of romping in one session.

It will help you focus on the present

Forget about the meeting that went sour at work or your son who keeps getting in trouble in school – tantric sex forces you to be in “the now,” to focus on the present without any outside distractions. You’ll welcome the sexy diversion.

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“The power of love to change bodies is legendary, built into folklore, common sense, and everyday experience.  Love moves the flesh, it pushes matter around…. Throughout history, ‘tender loving care’ has uniformly been recognized as a valuable element in healing.”
– Larry Dossey

The science of love is a strange discipline; rife with misinformation and hype, but people the world round have been seeking knowledge and wisdom in this field for thousands of years, perhaps since the dawn of mankind.

Every field of scientific study has taken a stab at understanding what makes our hearts tick and our loins enflamed. Have you ever taken the time to wonder about the forces behind your love and lust?

Sexual Alchemy

Alchemy has long been seen as a pseudoscience, but even the modern day chemists have now taken the quantum leap and admitted that we owe much of our interest and scientific theory to early alchemists, even if we are to believe that what they wanted was to turn lead into gold.

Another claim of historical alchemists is that they desired to find the secret to eternal life. Well, does that differ much from modern day scientists, really? The truth about alchemists is that what they ultimately sought was a way to turn that which seemed useless or nonfunctioning into something worthwhile. Wouldn’t you like to do the same for your relationship?

Alchemists, like their Buddhist and Hindu predecessors, saw the world as made up of inherently opposing forces, the union of the masculine and feminine being the ultimate chemical reaction. So, what exactly is going on in our body chemistry when male and female come together?

Good Chemistry

The chemistry of love can be broken down into three different stages over many years. Of course, not every relationship makes it to the final stage, but if you are here reading this, it’s safe to say that you probably have!

Stage one is lust, that physical pull that makes a man’s head turn and a woman’s body gyrate on the dance floor. The major sex hormones estrogen and testosterone are ultimately responsible for this dance, the push and pull that drive us to seek out sexual partners. Of course, these chemicals aren’t particularly discerning. Pretty much any hottie will do if the getting is good and the consequences are low. What happens when that first head-turn becomes a crush?

Attraction is the next stage of chemical love. Sometimes called New Relationship Energy or NRE, lack of appetite and trouble sleeping is characteristic of this kind of love. The chemicals responsible for this buzz are the pheromones dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin which act as uppers to stimulate the brain and make everything more exciting! This happy-go-lucky love might only last a few months, but can take several years to wear off. So what happens when it finally fades?

Attachment is the final stage of love. When all the crazy-making chemicals finally finish production, you are left with oxytocin and vasopressin. These particular chemicals are different than in the previous two stages of love. Why, you ask?

They are unique because you don’t make them automatically just because you happen to be in a relationship, or because you might want to have sex sometime in the next few weeks. Nope, like some kind of silly physiological joke, in order to produce the chemicals that make you want to get close to your sweetie and cuddle up tight… you have to get close to your sweetie and cuddle up tight. Yes, that’s right. These are the same little molecules that help mothers bond with their babies and avoid post-partum depression, the same little things that cause an infant to feel the force of love for its mother when it first latches on to a breast. They can turn a light caress into an afternoon quickie and a midnight cuddle into an early morning romp! So what’s the moral of the story here? If sex is what you want, start slow and try holding her hand!

Forces of Physics

For thousands of years, humans have been searching for the key to perfect sexual union. The answer of course is that there’s no such thing, at least not universally. Lucky for us, our ancient Hindu friends have done much of the work for us in this field, mapping out every possible combination of body type, libido, foreplay technique, sexual positions and techniques for truly ecstatic union. Whether you are having trouble just getting to the point of sex in your relationship right now, or your sex is amazing and you just want to make it last even longer, now is the time to take up the tantric arts and become a master of your own sexual destiny. Take a deep breath, clear your mind and get ready for an erotic adventure you won’t soon forget!

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“Good for the body is the work of the body, good for the soul the work of the soul, and good for either the work of the other.”
– Henry David Thoreau

When it comes to tips for improving your sex life, the word “Tantra” gets thrown around a lot among new age spiritualists, modern sex-positive gurus and media moguls alike. If you have taken the chance to read any of the thousands of magazine articles and books published on the subject, you might be a bit confused about how a rational, practical guy like you could benefit from such a spiritual endeavor, so I’m here to clear up your questions. The benefits of Tantra are incredibly personal, but this life-altering practice has some universal benefits for anyone who dares to try something different.

Expansion

Maybe you’re not interested in expanding your mind, your consciousness or even your belief structure, but if you want to change your relationship, you do need to expand your experience! Tantra gives you a new perspective from which to view your love and sex life, along with a slew of new ideas for ways to experience this new perspective in your actions.

Rejuvenation

Health and vitality are a huge part of the Tantric experience. Practitioners of this ancient art recognize that your state of physical, mental and emotional health plays an integral role in your ability to share sexual energy with your partner. Regular practice allows you to recognize your own energy levels and makes a point of focusing on exercises which improve the flow of this energy.

Empowerment

With new and exciting ways to focus on your love life and your ability to communicate, Tantra can empower both you and your partner to try new things, giving you a new sense of confidence and love for yourselves! Feeling at home in your own body and mind will allow you to get outside of your past relationship history and truly revel in love and pleasure.

Satisfaction

These experiences of pleasure will lead you to entirely new feelings of sexual satisfaction, as well as a more intimate loving relationship. Learning to focus your life experiences on these most satisfying moments will change your entire outlook on life for the better, making you an overall happier person who is more enjoyable to be around and a more interesting lover!

Alleviation

All this focus on happiness and health can not only alleviate the stress and depression associated with a struggling relationship, but can cure symptoms of chronic fatigue, high blood pressure, digestive problems and many other medical conditions associated with living in a high stress environment.

Elevation

Making these changes in your life will not only elevate your mood but might just make you feel a closer connection to others in your community besides your lover!

Prolonging

One of the major aspects of Tantric lovemaking is to slow things down, well known for the ability to prolong your lovemaking and your experiences of pleasure to something that might seem epic to you now. Increasing the amount of intimate time you spend with your wife is the best way possible to prolong your relationship.

Healing

One of the things that often keep us from fully engaging in our relationships is our own wounds from past loves, family issues and social conditioning. Tantric practitioners are encouraged to explore these old hurts and share them with their loved ones, so that together you may heal them. It is also important to explore our own ideas and possible misconceptions about sex and love, which give us an opportunity to heal ourselves, our loved ones and others in the world simply through changing our own minds.

Deepening

This kind of healing work can only bring you closer together with your friends and lovers, deepening your connection to each other in a way that makes your love the kind about which fairytales are written – the good kind! If you have ever wondered about you and your wife, “Why are we both still here?” then Tantra is the key to discovering the answer.

Changing

All of these incredible things about Tantra will change your life in countless unique ways that you won’t know until you try! What have you got to lose, besides fear, anger, depression, sickness, dissatisfaction and shame? Tantra gives you an entire toolbox with which to change your attitude, your relationship, your life and ultimately the world! Take a chance and try something new…

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“There is no god higher than truth.”
– Mahatma Gandhi

I know that “god” can be a tricky concept to discuss in mixed company, but it is an important part of Tantric theory and practice, so I want to take a few minutes to share some interesting beliefs on the subject.

God-Hunger and the Crown

According to traditional theories of human needs and desires, “god-hunger” is that sensation, when all our physical, emotional and mental needs are met, which drives us to seek out explanations for that which we by definition cannot understand. It can be hard for us to reconcile this desire within our rational minds.

Even if you belong to an organized religion, finding a place to fit Tantra within its boundaries can be a difficult and confusing process… but science doesn’t lie. Studies have reliably shown that prayer, meditation and musing on the divine actually changes the brain, lighting up the parts that control focus and concentration while shutting down the center of the brain that controls individualization and leaves us feeling separate from everyone else. Wouldn’t you love to find a way to feel more connected and in tune with your lover?

Transcendental Meditation

Finding a happy, quiet place in your mind is the first step to making Tantra a physical reality. Meditation can take some time to get used to, so start slow and take it a few minutes at a time, working your way up to a good ten to fifteen minutes a day.

The easiest way to make meditation a daily practice is to create safe space for yourself inside your mind. Sitting quietly and comfortably, try using some kind of “dropping down” metaphor, like an elevator or a set of stairs, a magic carpet or a floating cloud, visualizing yourself going down, down, down deep into your subconscious. You will know when you reach the bottom of this journey, and there you will find a door. When you open the door, inside you will find your special place, a place of calm and peace.

This place can be anything you imagine it to be – a quiet field, a verdant valley, a still lake, a rushing stream or waterfall, a beach by the ocean, a humid jungle, a snowy mountain, a dark damp cave… anything that allows you to feel calm and peaceful inside. In this place you can begin to explore your own mind and your ideas about the universe. Allow images and ideas to come to you and let them pass with conscious mindfulness.

Truth and Illusion

What is truth? Open and honest communication is often touted as the pinnacle of relationship rightness, but it can be hard balancing honesty with understanding and compassion. How do you know when you are speaking the truth and when you are simply spouting your own opinions? In Hindu mythology, Maya (Illusion) is personified as a young maiden shrouded in gauzy veils, she who obscures the truth and weaves the twisted web of life.

In your place of peace, imagine your wife as this maiden, shrouded in veils which cloud your vision and keep her partially hidden from you. Think of any problems you may be having in your relationship or your ability to communicate with her. In your mind’s eye, think about each layer of the problem as one layer of her veils. First consider your own thoughts on the problem and watch as she pulls back one of the veils, and then consider her thoughts as she pulls back the next. Consider your feelings on the subject, then hers as she reveals two more layers. Finally, consider what each of you needs in this situation as she reveals herself fully to you. When she is naked before you in your mind’s eye, muse for a few moments on what new things you have learned, both about yourself and your lover, in this exercise. Return to the real world and allow your imagination to bring the two of you closer together in reality.

When you speak to your partner in life and love, truth is that which serves us both. Talking about your opinions as if they are facts, especially when they do not benefit the situation or improve your relationship with your lover, can do more harm than good. Take the time to learn exactly how your own illusions might be clouding your ability to speak loving truth.

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#ECSTASYGODSACRED SEXSPIRITUALITY

“Trust your own instinct.  Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else’s.”
– Billy Wilder

Aside from our occasional experiences of “déjà vu” and our kudos to an accurate “gut feeling”, we rarely give our intuition any credit at all. In Tantra, learning to use your intuition when making decisions is just as important as using your intuition when making love! No matter what the situation, being able to make intuitive decisions about your next move requires a great deal of insight. Tantra can teach you how to use your intuition to make this insight more accurate and reliable every day.

Taking in Intuition

Experts in the field claim that there are several different kinds of intuition, based on the source of the information you are using to make your decision, which range from the very personal and abstract to the very concrete and reality-based. What kinds of input can you think of that leads you to make intuitive decisions?

The most abstract form of intuition is labeled as “spiritual” and it can take a lot of time and devotion to experience these synchronistic moments. The more time you spend in your peaceful place, the closer you will get to the kinds of knowing and understanding that seem to appear, fully formed, from nowhere. Environmental intuition is similar, with a more physical aspect – like a book falling from a shelf as you walk by, just urging you to read; or a block in traffic that requires you to reroute, allowing you to arrive at just the right time to find an empty parking space with a meter that’s already been paid!

Emotional and mental intuition have to do with your ability to read and understand situations, whether through the facial expressions and tone of voice your partner is using, or simply through your ability to “reason through” the possible outcomes of your decisions and choose the best option. Both of these are incredibly important, especially when the decision you need to make is “What do I say next?” Being able to predict how your words and actions will affect not only yourself, but your loved ones, is a great feat of intuition.

Finally, physical intuition is the most immediately and reliable of the bunch, especially when it comes to making love. Learning the ways of your lover’s body, how she responds to certain kinds of touch and stimuli without needing her explanation will show her that you are not only an incredible lover, but an attentive one, someone who pays attention to her needs and desires, no matter how subtle they may be.

Dreaming Your Reality

One of the best ways to improve our intuition is through the close attention to our dreams. Even if we assume that our dreams are simply our unconscious mind attempting to sort through all of the day’s input, since this “input” is the stuff which leads to intuition, learning to recognize the symbols and stories in our dreams can give us more information that we can’t always see or understand while awake.

Ritual is by far the best way to condition your mind to take in and remember meaning from your dreams. The mind appreciates repetitive actions, so it may take you a while to build up to reliable dream memory. Start by placing a note under your pillow every night before bed which reminds you when you read it in the morning to remember your dreams. Keep a notebook and pen beside the bed so you can write or sketch down any details or images that pop into your mind when you wake.

When you are used to remembering your dreams, try taking some time before bed each night to think about any major symbols or themes from your day that have significant meaning to you. Try writing down short lists before bed to help facilitate your dream imagery as you sleep, allowing your mind to use these recognizable symbols in your nightly processing. Don’t rely on books about “dream symbols”, although as your interest deepens, you may want to research Jungian dream theory in depth. When you are first starting out, what is important is what you believe these symbols mean to you personally. Books on the subject are only guidelines, and while it can be fun to see what others think on the subject, your personal experience is what matters.

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“The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said.”
– Author Unknown

Communicate skills are almost always the focus when couple’s seek professional counseling and are by far the best way to facilitate a more harmonious relationship and a loving, happy home. It can be incredibly difficult though to make this happen, as the voice carries in it so many emotions, both good and bad. How often do you find yourself shouting during a discussion without even realizing it? It happens to the best of us, which is why tantric teachers tell us that the throat is the body’s place of purification, where we get to decide whether we use our energy to hurt or to heal.

Loosen Up

The first step to proper communication is to get your negative emotions out of your systems – alone. You can’t have a loving, caring, productive conversation with your wife if you are too distracted by your own emotions to pay attention to hers. Whether you need to let the emotions drain away gently or you need to force them out violently, it needs to be done before you try to engage with anyone else.

Don’t let your anger, jealousy, pain or upset get the best of you. Go for a long walk or a vigorous run, take a long hot shower or a relaxing bath, listen to some angry music or put on some frenzied tunes and dance your heart out. If you are feeling aggressive in your anger then head to the gym and go a few rounds with a punching bag, take up a martial arts class, go chop some wood, smack a piñata (and save some of the candy for your lover!) or just drive out to the middle of nowhere and scream at the top of your lungs. All of these things are better than slamming doors, shouting at your partner or putting your fist through a wall, right?

Listen Up

The fine art of “active listening” can be divided into two different kinds – silent and spoken. It is incredibly important to learn the practice of silent listening first before you say anything in response to your lover. Start with an egg-timer set to one minute and try to work your way up to five. In this exercise, each of you will get the chance to speak… but one at a time. Do not interrupt, not even to try and express that you understand, or to ask clarifying questions. You will have your turn soon enough.

Just sit back, relax and focus on your wife’s every word. Sit still without fidgeting, maintain eye contact and nod when you understand what she is saying. Learn the fine art of communication through body language before you start working with words. Watch her body as she speaks to you. Does she sit up straight and confident, or hunch over with shame or fear? Does she speak clearly with conviction or does she mumble, perhaps a bit confused or unsure? Is her heart chakra open and accepting to your love and opinion, or does she close herself off by crossing her arms or turning her face away. Is she relaxed or tense, loud or quiet, soft and accepting or hard and defensive? Is she very sensitive about the topic at hand, annoyed, angry, sad, scared, frustrated, or excited? You can tell all these things just by looking closely at her body and listening to the tone of her voice.

Let Up

When it comes time to speak, active listening dictates that you ease up – it’s not about speaking your own mind, or voicing your opinion, or giving advice. You will have your chance to speak your piece when it’s your turn, but for now all you should concern yourself with is understanding the words your wife is saying. As she speaks, encourage her to go on by nodding your head and making words of acknowledgement. If she says something you don’t understand, take the chance to clarify. After she has finished making one point, repeat back to her what you believe she has communicated to you without judgment or interjecting your own opinion into the matter. Reword her thoughts into your own words and give her the chance to confirm or allow her to explain again if you haven’t quite grasped it. It may take a few tries to get it right!

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“There is in a man an upwelling spring of life, energy, love, whatever you like to call it. If a course is not cut for it, it turns the ground round it into a swamp.”
– Mark Rutherford (William Hale White), More Pages from a Journal, 1910

With its focus on energy and the chakras, the heart gets a lot of attention in tantric practice – a place in the body to and from which energy can be sent, stored and mindfully transformed. Love is only one of the many emotions that radiate from the heart and understanding our emotions is the key to creating long-term love that lasts.

Emotions

How many different feeling words do you have in your vocabulary? Being able to talk about your emotions isn’t just important, but absolutely vital to a healthy relationship. If you only have two or three words to work with when trying to explain your feelings, you are going to struggle to be understood clearly. “Angry” can mean a lot of things to a lot of people – do you feel frustrated, annoyed, furious, anxious, hurt, tired, overworked, betrayed, ignored, or disregarded? Where is your anger coming from and how severe is it in relation to other similar feelings you’ve had in the past? Are you furious, very angry, or a little bit peeved? If you want to be able to talk about how you feel, it’s important that you qualify these emotions so your lover can get the clearest picture possible.

Most importantly, don’t just focus on expressing your emotions when you are upset or hurt! Your lover needs to hear you tell her when you are happy, hopeful, loving, excited, relieved, turned-on, impressed, ecstatic, amazed, trusting and optimistic. If you can’t talk about your positive emotions, she will assume that the only things you are feeling are the negative emotions you do express.

Affirmations

How often do you affirm your feelings and roles in your marriage? Aside from telling your wife that you love her (which you should be doing at least every day!), do you bless each other and take the opportunity to connect as friends, confidantes and lovers? If not, this is a daily ritual you should implement right away!

Look at your lover carefully every day as you come together, either first the in the morning if you will be spending the entire day together, or as soon as you and your lover come home at the end of your work day. Can you see in her face the traces of her day – worry or hope, exhaustion or excitement, frustration or relief? Kiss her gently as a friend first, showing her that you care about her feelings. Kiss her second as her confidante, someone she can come to for comfort and love whenever she needs. Finally, kiss her as a lover, holding her hands tightly and letting the passion flow between you.

Don’t just tell her that you love her – keep on going from there! Tell her she is a Goddess, she is beautiful; she is an inspiration and a wonder. Tell her how sexy she is and how hot she makes you, how seeing her body makes you feel. Encourage her to explore her sexuality by touching herself while you watch, allowing you to witness what really makes her feel good.

Communications

Figuring out just what to say can be really difficult, whether you have hard topics to discuss or only great praise to give! If those words just won’t come, try using this simple formula:

When: tell your lover what exactly has happened to precipitate this emotion.
Why: don’t focus on your emotions just yet, instead communicating to your lover what has been difficult for you as a result of the previously mentioned actions – exactly why are you feeling the emotions that you are experiencing?
How: now it’s time to name your feelings – how do you really feel about what’s happening in your lives right now? Be specific as possible.
What: if you are addressing something that has made you feel bad, is there something different that could have happened to make you feel better about the situation? What could your lover have said or done differently to change the situation? What could you have done differently to change the inevitable outcome?

Pay attention to things like your body language and your tone of voice – they should match your emotions as closely as possible, because so much of what you communicate comes through these non-verbal cues. If you say you are anxious or afraid, but you are yelling like you are furious, you will only confuse her. If you are explaining to your lover how proud and excited you are for her, but you are speaking in a low, quiet voice with your arms crossed around your chest, your message isn’t going to make it through.

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“We need not feel ashamed of flirting with the zodiac. The zodiac is well worth flirting with.”
– D.H. Lawrence

Astrology may seem like a bit of a leap for modern man, but who’s to say that which science has yet to explain is completely useless, especially when it has governed the decisions of love and war for thousands of years! So what does your sun sign say about you?

Aries

Aries is a fire sign, associated with the planet Mars, named for the God of War. An Aries man (or woman!) adores the thrill of the chase, the conquest of successful seduction. A partner who plays hard to get and always keeps you on your toes is the type who will give you the romantic adventuring you so desperately crave. Don’t let life pass you by in boredom!

Taurus

Represented by The Bull, Taurus is an Earth sign and ruled by the planet Venus, the Goddess of Love and Beauty. The epitome of the “tall, dark and handsome”, the Taurus influence ensures a love of strength, decadence and sensuality, including good food, a beautiful home and a great listener for a partner. Taurus needs to feel secure, so focus on the aspects of the root chakra – stability, safety and dependability.

Gemini

An air sign ruled by the planet Mercury, God of communication, Gemini is represented by the twins and is often as changeable as two different people who look identical! The Gemini appreciates brains over brawn or beauty and these partners cherish their independence, so allow yourselves to be flexible in your day-to-day lives and keep open the lines of communication so you both get what you need without stifling routines.

Cancer

Cancer is a water sign ruled by the Moon, the “planet” of emotions. Expect the Cancer lover to be passionate and full of love – and lots of other emotions! Get ready for a wild ride. A peaceful household is incredibly important and family is what really matters. Your lover needs lots of love and affection and you can expect that all your emotions will rub off, good or bad, so be careful how you express your feelings.

Leo

Coming back around again to the fire sign, Leo the lion is ruled by the sun and this lover is big all around – heart, ego, and generous spirit. Leo loves to spoil, partially from a need to be constantly reassured. That big ego is a huge looming target that is easily hit and shattered, so be very careful with every word and action, and don’t put Leo up on a pedestal because even the slightest slip up could send your lover tumbling to the ground.

Virgo

Another earth sign ruled by Mercury the Communicator, Virgos are goal driven and responsible, a dependable hard worker. Virgo likely puts a lot of stock in their ability to provide and serve their lover, so they need a sympathetic ear and lots of compliments to make up for any kind of inferiority complex. A clean and tidy home is incredibly important, especially if you expect Virgo to relax and feel sexy.

Libra

Another sign ruled by Venus the Lover, Libras tend to have their nose stuck a bit up in the air, the sign that rules them. They want to be admired, adored, even worshipped and tend to be a bit passive when it comes to seduction. Go ahead and take the driver’s seat, but don’t let your assertiveness turn into aggressive behavior – Libra needs peace and harmony at all costs.

Scorpio

Scorpio is another water sign ruled by two different planets – war-loving Mars and distant Pluto – which means Scorpio often cycles between being incredibly passionate and incredibly distant. Expect mystery that borders on secrecy, but don’t push too hard because Scorpio will take any kind of concern as an attack and will fight back with teeth bared. This lover wants to try it all, so if you are a bit on the vanilla side, prepare to have your boundaries pushed!

Sagittarius

Another fire sign, this one ruled by Jupiter, King of the Gods and master of the sky and thunder. Sagittarius is a lover of the outdoors and wants a partner who is completely independent because like a force of lightning, Sag cannot be caged. Easily bored, be sure to keep things interesting by learning new things and having new experiences as often as possible!

Capricorn

Capricorn is an earth sign ruled by the planet Saturn, the god of the harvest. Like the grain that Saturn reaps, this lover needs to be nurtured carefully in order to keep up the dedication necessary to reach what might be some lofty goals – but don’t mistake, Capricorn will reach those seemingly impossible dreams, no matter how long it takes!

Aquarius

The final air sign, ruled by Father Sky Uranus, Aquarius the water-bearer has a dream, ideals and visions that might seem strange and too intellectual for the average lover. This partner needs to be stimulated in mind first before anything else, marching to the beat of their own drum in search of new knowledge. Aquarius wants a lover who can be a companion of this journey.

Pisces

Another wishy-washy water sign, Pisces the fish is ruled by Neptune, God of the Ocean. Pisces is a dreamer and needs a strong partner in life to help realize these dreams, because like the sea, these lovers are temperamental and changeable, incredibly sensitive not just to emotions but to energy, making them the perfect Tantric partners!

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#ASTROLOGYEROTICZODIAC

“The ocean fill’d with joy — the atmosphere all joy!
Joy! joy! in freedom, worship, love! joy in the ecstasy of life!
Enough to merely be! enough to breathe!
Joy! joy! all over joy!”
– Walt Whitman

If sex is just a routine for you, a way for you and your lover to de-stress after a hard day, then it’s time you took things up a notch and found a way to make sexuality and intimacy a major priority in your life. Do you have any routines that you have in your life that remind you of the sacred nature of your love? If not, start with this incredible exercise to affirm the sacredness of both your bodies! When you have some experience with affirmations, you can write your own for daily loving talk and touch.

The Five-Fold Kiss

Honoring the Feminine:

Kiss her feet: “Blessed be thy feet, that you may come to the Sacred Places”;
Kiss her sex: “Blessed be thy sex that fills the well of Sacred Spaces”;
Kiss her heart: “Blessed be thy breast, that your heart beats with the Sacred Drums”;
Kiss her lips: “Blessed be thy lips, that you may speak in Sacred Tongues”;
Kiss her 3rd eye: “and Blessed be thy mind, that you may see with Sacred Eyes”.

Honoring the Masculine:

Kiss his feet: “Blessed be thy feet, that you may come to the Sacred Places”;
Kiss his sex: “Blessed be thy sex, that lights the flame of Sacred Spaces”
Kiss his heart: “Blessed be thy breast, that your heart beats with the Sacred Drums”;
Kiss his lips: “Blessed be thy lips, that you may speak in Sacred Tongues”;
Kiss his 3rd eye: “and Blessed be thy mind, that you may see with Sacred Eyes”.

You Are

This next affirmation will give you the chance to tell your wife exactly what she means to you and your relationship, and she can do the same for you. Stand or sit comfortably and then look deeply into each other’s eyes before you speak.

Touch the top of her head and say, “You are woman.”
Touch her forehead and say, “You are understanding.”
Touch the small of her throat and say, “You are my link with the spirit.”
Touch her chest and say, “You are nourishment.”
Touch her belly and say, “You are the chalice of life.”
Touch her sex and say, “You are the maker of forms.”

Touch the top of his head and say, “You are man.”
Touch his forehead and say, “You are wisdom.”
Touch his chest and say, “You are my strength and my protection.”
Touch his abdomen and say, “You are my warmth.”
Touch his sex and say, “You are the fountain of life.”

Come together and kiss as lovers and sacred partners, than sit facing one another in a comfortable position and meditation on your love and commitment to one another for 5 to 10 minutes.

Yoni Worship

To really allow your lover to feel like the Goddess she is, you need to take the time to truly worship her, to give her the opportunity to feel pleasure and bliss without expectation, without the pressure to feel a certain way or react as you desire, without the requirement that she reciprocate in some specific way.

The next time you have an opportunity for date-night, which should be sooner rather than later, you should make it absolutely clear to your lover that the night is all about her, a chance for you to show her your love and devotion. Explain to her how enjoyable it is for you to give her pleasure and see her ecstasy, and continue to affirm it as she experiences the bliss you can give her. If she reaches to touch you in a sexual manner, explain that in order to focus on worshipping her properly, she should save her touch and desire for a date-night focused solely on you as God. Assure her that you have the whole night together, she can take as long as she wants or needs and experience as many (or as few!) orgasms as she desires, and that at the next opportunity you can take a night for her to worship you as well.

Create an environment, in which she can relax; light some candles, put on some sexy music, and give her a sensual massage before you move down to worship her sacred yoni. Touch her gently and listen to her reactions to your touch – her moans, her rate of breath and any feedback she gives you should be taken into consideration to give her the most pleasure possible. Devote yourself entirely to her ecstatic pleasure in whatever form that takes and show her that she is a Goddess in your eyes.

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