This is the second part of my article about the best ways to amp up your couple erotic experiences. Here are the other two moan zones that I’d like to discuss with you. For the first two, check out my previous article.

Moan zone. Your core

Yes, your core. Researchers studied exercise-induced orgasms and found that they are most commonly brought on by abdominal workouts. Coregasms are real – for both men and women! After all, exercise and sex are similar in more ways than one. For instance, they can both turn you into a sweaty, endorphin-flooded mess, and they both offer plenty of heart-healthy benefits. Turns out, engaging your lower-ab muscles – while exercising or fooling around – may exert pressure on your genital organs and by contract your pelvic floor muscles (the ones you hold pee in with) you can actually improve your chances at having a really powerful orgasm. Basically, it’s like killing two birds with one very pleasurable stone. Even if it doesn’t lead to an orgasm, the lower belly is a great place for you to tease your partner and for her to return the favor. The closer touching gets to the pubic area without actually going there, the more you’ll build arousal.

Erotic exercises

To strengthen your own ab-penis connection, work hanging leg raises or 50 to 100 crunches into your gym routine. Cardiovascular exercise helps to keep the heart strong and your veins and arteries in good condition. That’s essential for good sex, since blood flow is a necessary part of sexual arousal. There’s also the fact that exercise helps you stay flexible and boosts your general endurance – great for the times you want to go all night. When it comes to how you can actually engage your core – lower belly when you are in the bedroom, ask your partner to lightly trace her fingers over your lower abs when you and her are making out. You can also have her gently kiss the area as she makes her way downtown for oral. During sex – especially girl-on-top or doggie style – ask your partner to squeeze her abs and pelvic-floor muscles to make her orgasm even stronger, and to make your penis feel better in the process, because this will also create a tighter grip on your little guy – an incredible sensation for you.

Moan zone. Your voice

Nothing makes sex hotter or more satisfying than speaking up about what you want. After all, how will your partner know that you like your nipples licked as well or that you hate when she blows in your ear. That’s part of what makes your voice no just an erotic instrument but a true power center – you use it to communicate. Using your words is the most straight-forward way to get exactly what you crave when an urge hits. And once you’re comfortable talking to your partner during sex in your own preferred language, you’ll become a pro at confidently saying yes, no and “could you keep doing that?”.

Erotic exercises

Nobody likes having quiet sex or even silent sex. It’s a complete turn-off and a recipe for a very dull sex life. The first step in learning how to talk dirty is understanding why you should be doing it. It builds sexual tension, which is key for more intense sex, and it keeps you and your partner in the moment. But I do understand why dirty talk might scare you at first. For many people, using dirty words to talk seductively can feel super cheesy or porno-like. And it’s okay to feel that, it’s not completely untrue after all! If that’s your main fear, I would suggest using instead dictionary terms (penis, clitoris) or coming up with your own slang that isn’t so four-letter-word dependent, such as giving your genitals an actual name (“Betty really misses Derek”). When sex starts, use deep groans to signal you’re enjoying yourself. You can also describe in detail what’s happening in the moment. What is your partner touching? How does it feel? What does it make you want to do next? A universal pleaser: telling your partner when you’re in the process of going over the edge.

Hot kisses,

FidanPaula

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Eating food and having sex are undoubtedly two of the best things about being alive. As dining is already an integral part of dating, integrating food into your sex life is an easy peasy way to try new things in bed.

Some more extreme kinks involving food may seem pretty far out, but the connection between sex and food makes perfect sense. They’re both comforting activities often shared with those you love. Not to mention, sex is supposed to be messy.

For those of you who are intimidated, fear not: There are plenty of ways to incorporate food into your sex life that keep you within your comfort zone. Not convinced? I’ve rounded up some great foods to bring into the bedroom, along with beginner tips.

Sushi

Try out Nyotaimori, the art of eating sushi off a naked body, at home. Order your favorite rolls, and then take turns arranging them on each other’s bodies and then eating them. Traditionally, a barrier such as bamboo leaves is between the sushi and the body, but if you’re going to place it directly on your partner’s skin, you might want to make sure they’re clean first.

Cherries

Go old-school and preface your foreplay by challenging your partner to the classic kissing test: See who can tie a cherry stem in a knot with their tongue. Beyond that, cherries are a great addition to the bedroom. Run them over your partner’s body, or drizzle the juice over their erogenous zones and then lick it off.

Popsicles

I know: Popsicles look like penises. But since they’re made out of mostly frozen water and sugar, they’re not good to use for penetration, so don’t use them like this. Not only can the sugar in a popsicle throw off your partner’s pH balance and potentially cause yeast infections, but the popsicle itself might melt inside her orifices. That’s not so fun for a woman’s vagina, but it’s super fun (and delicious) for a mouth. Ask your lady to how off her blowjob skills by sucking and licking a popsicle as you watch, or sit across from each other and swap the icy treat back and forth between your mouths during a make out session. The frozen dessert is also an exciting way to introduce temperature play into your sex life; try running a popsicle over your partner’s nipples and then lick off the sweet residue.

Brie & crackers

If your taste buds prefer savory over sweet, brie can be used in the same manner as gooey chocolate syrup. Get messy by spreading the soft cheese over your lover’s nipples and licking it off while enjoying an entirely new flavor profile than the sugary treats traditionally used for food play. Not turned on by eating fancy French cheese off your partner’s body? Brie and crackers can also be served as the ultimate post-sex snack. A cheese plate in bed is pretty much the classiest and most delicious palate cleanser you can have after an oral sex marathon.

Grapes

As part of breakfast in bed, after Sunday morning sex, add grapes to your partner’s plate of well-deserved delicacies, and feed them to her Cleopatra-style. She’ll feel worship worthy for sure. Before you get to the post-sex snacks, grapes can be used for temperature play while getting it on. Frozen grapes are delicious even without the love making, so imagine how delightful the fruit can be when orgasms are involved. Place a bundle of grapes in the freezer over night. When you’re ready for some icy hot foreplay, pluck a frozen grape from its stem and run it over your woman’s nipples and other erogenous zones.

Whipped cream

If the infamous Varsity Blues whipped cream bikini scene didn’t convince you, whipped cream is a classic for a reason. It’s delicious and it has the perfect fluffy-yet-sticky consistency that helps it stay put on erogenous zones. Integrate the tasty treat into your foreplay by spraying it on your partner’s nipples and licking it off. You can also use it as the perfect segue way to oral sex by creating a line from your partner’s neck down to just barely above their genitals. Lick your way down, then proceed to eat her out. Be careful about getting the dessert inside the labia, as sugar can cause yeast infections.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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You’re all revved up and ready to have phone sex with your partner, and then the phone rings and all you can think of saying is, “I wanna li-li-li-lick you from your head to your toes, and I wanna move from the bed, down to the, down to the to the floor.” Phone conversations are hard, particularly when you’re supposed to sound sexy.

It’s completely normal to get tongue-tied during phone sex, and you don’t have to face-palm yourself if you feel this way. We are conditioned from an early age to experience pleasure quickly and silently, due to most of us growing up in households where masturbation required stealth and speed. Identifying and articulating our sexual needs is a learned skill, and one that takes practice.

And having a list of phrases to say before you start isn’t dumb, it’s brilliant. One of the ways phone sex is easier than in-person dirty talk is that it gives you the flexibility to have a cheat sheet in front of you in case you get stuck. You can think of it as a Mad Libs exercise, but for sex. Phone sex is an exercise in improv, self awareness, and communication. It can definitely feel awkward until you start to get the hang of it.

So, the next time you don’t know what to say, try one of these tantalizing, roll-off-the-tongue phrases.

Moan

If you lose your train of thought, the best thing to do is talk about how hot your partner is making you feel, and then just let moaning fill the space. The easiest solution is to act like you’re thoroughly enjoying yourself while you catch your thoughts.

“What are you wearing?”

One common way to initiate phone sex is to just ask the person on the other line what they’re wearing, because it’s a simple but easily recognizable sign of sexual interest. Initiating phone sex doesn’t have to be super witty; you just need something that gets the point across.

“Tell me what you want to do to me”

The good thing about phone sex is that you always have a partner to help you along if you get lost. But, instead of just saying, “Okay, your turn,” ask them to describe what they would want to do to you. It buys you a few seconds before you have to say something again, and will likely inspire your next topic.

“When I imagine myself inside of you I want to come”

If you’re at a loss for words, simply name a body part, an action, and how it makes you feel. If that’s too complicated, you can swap different parts or reactions in the phrase, “Feeling your _____ all over me makes me want to _____”.

“As soon as I walk into your room I feel your hands pull down my pants”

Role play doesn’t have to involve some crazy fantastical plot line, and you can totally explore things as yourself. Phrase scenarios in present-tense so it feels like it’s actually happening in real time.

“I feel my skin burning. My dick is hard. I feel heat radiating from it. My body is craving your touch.”

If you do lose your train of thought, audibly take a deep breath or two. While you’re taking those two deep breaths, check in with your body and narrate something that’s happening.

“I feel you breathing faster as the pleasure is building”

Although much of phone sex involves noises, you should try to describe all of your senses — including sounds — in great detail. Explain the sensations you’re feeling, and your partner might be able to “feel” them, too.

“I run my hands over my abs, down my belly, and slip my right hand into my underwear”

Talking about how you’re masturbating is the easiest starting point for phone sex. And if you’re at a loss for words, you could always just say nothing and let your partner listen to the natural sounds of you masturbating.

“I can see your muscles shake as I tease your button, which is begging to be fingered”

Take your time, because the longer you have on the phone with your partner, the better phone sex will be. Teasing your partner by telling them that you’re “hovering” above or around their genitals will enhance the mental stimulation even further, and make them even more turned on.

“I’m going to bring you to the edge of orgasm until you’re so overcome with need that you beg me to let you come”

If there’s a kinky sex act that you’re dying to try, but are too nervous, phone sex is the perfect time to play out those fantasies. You can bring power play into edging, for example, and bring someone to the brink of an orgasm, then slow down or stop. You might also ask your partner to ask you for “permission” before they’re “allowed” to orgasm.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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Whether you’re planning a holiday trip with your partner or merely fantasising about one, vacation sex likely plays a starring role in your vision. It deserves its reputation as particularly delicious. Stress is your sex life’s archenemy, and when you and your partner step away from what stresses you out from day to day (work, empty fridges, dirty dishes, kids, if you’ve got ’em), you may find yourselves as interested in each other as you are in the sightseeing. If you prepare for it, holiday sex can be the best kind of sex.

Since I like to do my research before proffering advice, I took my partner to an all-inclusive couples resort to conduct field research and compile vacation-sex best practices for you, my dear. (I know, my job is hard, but someone’s got to do it.)

On the menu: a weekend just the two of us, locked in our room; late-night dancing, couple’s massages, a candlelit dinners with far too much champagne. Because this is what holiday sex is all about: reconnecting physically, after a long year of battling our normal, sometimes stress-filled, fast-paced day-to-day life. Click through to discover our findings, and tips for better holiday sex — from which toys to bring to how to enjoy your bodies like never before.

Plan accordingly

In addition to packing your butt plugs and the swimsuit that drives you bonkers, you have to be prepared with some less fun sex tools, too. For example, in some countries, emergency contraception is accessible, but in others it’s harder to get and/or requires a prescription. If you’re concerned, your best bet is to just pack an emergency contraceptive to have just in case. And the same goes for other vagina circumstances that could arise, like a yeast infection or your partner’s period. It’s better to be prepared and pack an OTC yeast infection medication or a few tampons than to have to worry about running to the drugstore mid-vacation.

You will also want to bring a few discreet, space economising sex toys that still pack a punch. If you bring any battery-powered toys, make sure to remove the batteries and stow them separately from the toys so that the TSA doesn’t wonder why your carry-on just started buzzing. Also, consider waterproof toys if you’re eyeing shower, hot-tub, pool, or ocean action.

And don’t forget the lube! Sex play for hours on end has its drawbacks – sore bits and dryness. Combined with stuffy climates and soaring temperatures your bits can take a bit of a bashing. Avoid nastiness in your knickers by keeping a lube handy that will also prevent any chaffing down there.

Experiment

If your vacation is in a location with a hot climate, cool down (as you heat things up) with temperature play — meaning: apply low temperatures to provoke a sensual response. When people think of temperature play, they often think of warm wax or massage oil, but a cold toy can be more appealing when it’s sweltering outside — and you likely already have one in your freezer. Ice is a simple and sensual way to incorporate temperature and sensations into your sex life. Not only does the ice chill the part of the body it’s touching — nipples, inner thighs, buttocks, stomach, and more — but the ice water it creates can also be a fun. You can also cool a glass dildo by placing it in a bowl of ice water or, if it’s made of borosilicate glass, placing it in the freezer (soda-lime glass is more fragile, so stick to ice water if that’s what your dildo is made of).

Another pro tip: Sensations of cold will feel even more intense if the recipient is blindfolded. Just as important is to not stick to your normal routine. Don’t opt for your favourite position when you’re engaging in some mattress magic. If you usually opt for missionary, now is the time to get your woman on all fours. If you overuse girl on top, try reverse cowgirl for a change and so on.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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Vow to make the new year your hottest yet with these steamy endeavors. Talk about starting your year off with a big bang!

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Have. More. Sex

Because getting it on should happen as often as you damn well please! And research shows regular sex reduces stress by releasing endorphins and oxytocin – and (get this!) it help you sleep better, fight off colds, and can even make you healthier. So here’s how to put your more-action plan into, well, action.

Make every day a foreplay day

It’s no secret among sex experts that extended foreplay leads to satisfying sex and better orgasms – score! People usually think of foreplay as what you do during the quick buildup to the main event. But it pays to view foreplay as an ongoing seduction that begins immediately after your last orgasm and continues right up until you two are in bed again. So once you catch your breath, start revving your engines for your next time, whether it’s an hour, a few days or a week. Focus on the lusty looks you give each other in passing, the sexy texts you send, and the kissing and touching that will lead to your next session.

Screw spontaneity

There are two types of desire: spontaneous and responsive. Spontaneous is that magical, must-have-you-now encounter that starts with a flirty glance in her direction and ends with simultaneous orgasms in an outdoor shower. But guess what? Studies indicate that only about 15 percent of women (compared with 75 percent of guys) experience desire this way. So, instead, focus on responsive desire, which you two can generate yourselves. Plan a night in, make fancy cocktails, and dance really close – and let it lead to bedroom high notes that last all, um, weekend.

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Push your boundaries

Being adventurous in bed can make you two feel like primal pioneers conquering new territories (aka each other!). Research shows that frequent sexploration enhances your connection.

Dabble in domination

Finally, a from-behind position where your partner is in control. While you lie on your back, she should straddle you, facing your feet, and get on all fours. She should back it up until you’re inside her, then move at her desired pace. Her G-spot gets some serious stimulation – and you get to enjoy the view.

Get a little freaky

Blindfold her with something you already have in the house – a scarf, your tie, her cami – and trace your fingers all along her body until she’s all warmed up. Every minute that goes by will build her anticipation for when you finally remove it and let her see your hard rock erection.

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Boost your bedroom bond

When it comes to upping your coital connection, there is one way you and your partner can go: trying a trickier than normal move. Here’s one that I like: When you’re in your usual GOT (that’s girl-on-top, not Game of Thrones) and you feel you are about to climax, guide yourself to the edge of the mattress. (extra points if you two can do this with you still inside her – it’s not easy.) Let your arms and head dangle off the side of the bed while she gets back to grinding. Not only will she feel like the queen of your personal Westeros, the extra rush of blood to your head will also give you a full-body experience. It’s a skill-requiring maneuver that will have you high-fiving at your naughty teamwork.

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Master the art of dirty talk

Try these stress-free scripts that are steamy, not scary.

Text her an emoji brainteaser

Choose a sequence of emojis and then type, “Figure out the riddle… it’s what I want to do to you tonight.” Okay, so she might not fully understand everything, but her brain will be all can’t-wait-for-this.

Send her a hot voice memo

But be sure to cut it off just as you’re about to say the sexy stuff, like this: “I was in the shower and started thinking about that hot thing you did the other day, and I swear I got so…” The anticipation will drive her completely insane.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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What if you could actually convince the women you encounter to make the first move?

I know… seems rather impossible, especially since the burden of initiating a possible relationship almost always falls on the guy.

From playing the game of flirting to slowly teasing and attracting her, you often face many obstacles when it comes to get the woman you want.

It can be hard.

So here are 5 effective tips to persuade any woman you meet to make the first move.

Men who’ve used these tips got the hottest women to pursue them and beg for their attention. This is a guide to help you make that happen too.

Now that you’re ready, let’s explore each of these 5 ways to convince that naughty lady you have your eyes on to try and be the pursuer for once.

If you want to learn more about the method that guarantees you’ll never need to make the first move on a woman again, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – these powerful psychological tricks can compel pretty much any woman to make the first move. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Take advantage of the FOMO

Most women are (very) conservative when it comes to making a move on a guy. They don’t want to risk their reputation. They want to be the ones chased and avoid any bold actions and commitments. So they sit quiet and wait for the men to come to them like bees to a jar of honey.

Here’s what you can do: Create a sense of urgency. Comparing is a great tool for that. Casually mentioning another woman that you’re seeing can trigger a fear of missing out. You can make a strong case by suggesting the ways another woman has successfully peaked your interest (no woman wants to stay behind the competition).

Build your reputation

Any woman would want to pursue more a great guy than the average joe. This is normal. The greatest guys get praise and attention. That’s why your personal brand – your reputation – is of crucial importance. If she’s convinced you’re a great guy, she’ll want to be near you more often than not. That’s why getting noticed is primordial. The more she sees and hears about your qualities, the more she trusts you. And the best way to get her attention is to pay attention to what SHE cares about.

Don’t act insecure, but don’t try to impress her either

A guy who is insecure, behaves in a nervous way and who can barely look a girl in the eye for more than a few seconds is an instant turn off. Girls don’t want to reward weakness with sex, love and devotion.

On the other hand, giving her a lot of compliments or telling her a lot of cool stories about yourself isn’t going to impress her much either. She’s probably heard it all before and if you’re not natural, confident in yourself and your abilities, anything else you do will come across as false, forced or weird to her.

Don’t give up at the first sign of resistance

Women like to test guys to see how much they can get away with and how hard they can push before a guy says “No” or laughs at her for being so high maintenance. Therefore, women will often give out mixed signals, act flaky or pretend to get offended easily. Some guys don’t know how to handle this and simply give up; and fail the test. Don’t do that. Stick to it and see what happens. She’ll be surprised by this proactive attitude and want to know you better.

Have a vibrant vibe

The law of attraction is that like attracts like. By this I mean if you want to attract fun and exciting women, you’ve got to be fun and exciting yourself. If you have the stink face look all night and appear miserable, guess who you’ll be attracting? On the other hand, if you’re enjoying yourself, you’re more likely to attract great women. Men who get approached by quality women always have the vibe that projects I’m loving my night regardless! Plus, having fun is always superior to not having fun.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Admit it, never having to worry about chasing women again sounds rather spectacular, am I right? If you want to learn more about this, I recommend you check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – you’re going to learn a TON from this (he explains how to use these chase triggers step-by-step. And it’s so easy that any guy can do it, with little to no practice). NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Let’s imagine this simple scenario, shall we? You are standing around a bar table with a couple of friends when you notice a gorgeous woman across the room. I mean smoking hot. She walks up to you and says, “There is something about you, I’m not sure what it is but I’d really like to get to know you. Would you like to go someplace quiet and get to know each other?” You go off with her in the corner while your friends wonder how you just pulled this woman – the best looking woman in the bar and way out of your league.

That would be great it that is how it worked with women, wouldn’t it? They come up to you and tell you exactly how they feel and what they want, without the need to play mindless flirtation games that sometimes lead to nowhere and are just a waste of time. Plus, what guy wouldn’t want the woman to do all the work for once? But in our society, this just doesn’t happen. It’s not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make the first move.

If getting a woman to approach you and pursue you sounds like an impossible dream, I have to tell you that it doesn’t have to be. You can get a woman to invite you in her bed without much effort. In fact, the less effort you put into it, the better.

If you want to know more about this innovative method of getting the woman to basically drag you to bed, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique is innocent and ordinary, so you can’t get rejected. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Convince her with your eyes

In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for 10 percent of the total message. The rest is done through non-verbal communication: body language. And the part of your body that most “speaks” to a woman and convinces her are your eyes. But you have to learn the subtle art of the correct eye contact, otherwise you’ll just appear creepy or, worse, desperate. Here are some things to take into consideration:

The extended gaze

Anytime you lock eyes with a woman, show her you are interested by holding her gaze for a second or two longer than what would be considered a normal glance. Warning: holding eye contact is different than starring. You don’t want to find yourself starring at a woman like a crazy man. If she’s with a friend, move your eyes to her companion, but make sure you don’t spend more time looking at her friend than you did at her. This way she’ll sense she has competition, but she will still feel that she’s winning. And this is all she needs in order to start the chase.

The checkout

Choose a more subtle approach when checking her out. Don’t straight stare at her breasts and then quickly look back to her eyes, hoping she didn’t notice. Trust me, she did. Instead, first look at her face intently, than move on to the rest of her body, smiling as if you liked what you saw. Then avert your gaze and force yourself to not look in her direction for at least 5 minutes. Let her stew and fidget. Let her think of ways to have her look at her again. When you finally do look again, she’ll be so relieved and happy she’ll basically be on the verge of throwing herself to you then and there.

Walk the eye-talk

You’ve been conversing with your eyes so far, now it’s time to use the rest of your body language and movement is your best friend at this point. Get up and walk to the bar, making sure she’s watching you, and walk with purpose, with an air of confidence and even a little cockiness. Walk like you’re somebody, walk tall, with your head up, chest out, smiling, perhaps even laughing. Show her that you are having more fun than anyone there. All of these body language messages signal to her that you’re confident, that you’re interesting, that you have something to offer, that you’re fun and fun to be around.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Getting a hot woman in bed and – most importantly – having it be her idea – is not that difficult at all, as you already saw. For more on this thorny topic, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique works fast and basically all women are powerless in the face of it. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Want to amp up your sex appeal? Here’s what you need to bring back that spark in your flirting game and attract any woman fast and easily.

To this day, no-one fully understands why some men have ladies want to rip their clothes off, while others never seem to have any real and solid luck. What I do know is that for many guys this happens often – like really often. They go out, flirt their brains out and nothing works.

There are so many factors at play when it comes to erotic flirting and what women crave when it comes to seduction that it makes analyzing the phenomenon difficult to say the least.

For starters, enticing sexual desire in a woman is an elusive and complex thing. It’s mental, physical, emotional and contextual. It also occurs differently in women than it does in men, which confuses the latter a great deal. And all men have this story in their heads that the hottest the woman is, the more difficult she is to attract. That belief in itself may be limiting you more than you realize. Sexual interest has nothing to do with aesthetics, it’s something as spontaneous as it is inexplicable. It’s an energy between two people that can come about in many ways.

All that said, I have some theories about how you can feed any woman’s hunger for you. Allow me to explain, but not before I tell you this: If you want to learn more about the easiest way to get hot girls interested in you, check out this program called Rise of the Phoenix, by my friend Sebastian Harris – It’s a rejection-proof seduction system that allows thousands of regular guys to attract the hottest women around. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

How to plant the seed of lust

During your initial interaction, you have to make sure you’re forming a deep sensual bond. You want her to crave you almost without realizing it – which is ideal. This way you both view yourself as two sexually hungry people seeking release. When you turn her on sexually before anything else and focus on the carnal aspect of your connection, you prioritize your sexual desires and subconsciously let her know she will have a wild and free night with you.

When a woman gets turned on like this, instead of being lured with mechanical, scripted lines, lusty urges become almost unbearable. And when she feels pursued like this, she will want to share with you the promised pleasure and intimacy.

The problem with being too close

If you’re usually very affectionate and even cuddly when trying to lure a woman, you’re actually ruining your chances. I know it may sound counterintuitive, but a little distance makes her want you even more. Of course, proving that you’re capable of powerful emotional intimacy is important, but it’s just as important to let her know that you’re not desperate to have her and that she’s not the only woman with whom you can share a night of passion. When you relate with her as someone who exists separately from you and your own needs, you plant the seed of real desire. So it’s crucial to keep your distance in order to access and prolong her sexual craving for you.

How to make her hot for you

When a woman think she knows you, she stops being curious about you, that’s why you have to let her know that there’s more for her to explore and discover in you. Try telling her something about you that she can’t possibly imagine with her mind. Even though this game is not overtly sexual, seeing this new, unexpected side of you can pique her curiosity, which can stimulate lust.

If you want a sexier challenge, give yourself a different persona – it doesn’t have to be a big production, but it should be enough to trigger playfulness and arousal.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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