The art of cunnilingus is something to be perfected. Being able to make your beloved twitch with the flick of your tongue will empower you, and bring her to her knees. With her on her knees, she will find something of yours down there to repay the favour.

The expression no two snowflakes are alike is apropos when referring to your ladies precious parts. All women react differently, and more important than the technique, is that there is always room for more pleasure. Just because your ex-girlfriend liked you to pay close attention to her doorbell, doesn’t mean your new partner does. Understanding how to please a woman isn’t done once, but is a dynamic process with each new bed mate.

If there was only time for one last orgasm, your partner would surely want it to be the most euphoric experience of her life. This article will help you get there with her. No matter how long you’ve been a couple, truly pleasuring your partner’s parts is essential to a good bedroom relationship. When you decide to take the plunge and delve into her soft, velvety desires, think of these four tips to ensure an earth shattering experience. First, set the mood; next make love all day long; third, ask her questions; and last, finish what you start. Follow these simple and erotic ideas, and you are sure to make her weak in the knees.

Setting the mood is more than just lighting candles and turning down the lights. “Distractions are one of the major things that prevent couples from really connecting in bed” said Nancy, a councillor in Vancouver. Email, TV, kids, bills, and work stresses all wreak havoc on our dear friend Libido and make it hard for it to come out and play. After having been in a relationship for some time, it’s common to plan ‘sexy time’. Most people advise against this, but not me. I understand the value in a quick romp, but to become better at pleasuring her, it takes time, effort and focus. When time is put aside, she can clear her mind of any interfering thoughts and focus on your head between her legs.

Making love doesn’t just happen in the bedroom (or the laundry room, or garage…) Making love to a woman happens all day long; from the way you kiss her when she leaves in the morning, to the text message you send her mid day, to the way you snuggle on the couch at night. “Women crave physical attention all the time, especially outside the bedroom. It’s a way to show you love and care for them” shares Cindy, a dating expert in Whistler. It’s a lot easier to make your woman feel sexy when she feels loved by you. Make a woman feel sexy and you’ll unlock her wild side; she’ll lose her inhibitions, and get down and dirty. When you warm her up, her tender juices will flow with ease.

A man who has pleasured a woman has thought proudly to himself, ‘yep, I know how to give good oral sex’. As this may be true for the one you popped, it’s not necessarily so for all women.  “It’s easier for men to tell women what they want, and more acceptable for a guy to ask for a blow job. For women however, we struggle to share what we like; instead we wriggle our hips around when he’s going down on us trying to make it feel right when he thinks he’s figured us out” said Tiara, an Escort in Whistler. Some women are shy, and others don’t know what they like. Take charge as chief pleasure giver and ask specific questions on how things feel. If she’s too shy to answer, tell her to moan or move her hips when something feels good. You can take those clues and make her cum to her senses.

The last yet important clue to improve your thunder down under is to finish what you start. Making a woman orgasm from oral sex can be tricky, and sometimes time consuming. You need to be patient and loving throughout the process. “When I first started dating my husband, he used to get frustrated and complain his jaw hurt because I was taking so long. This made me feel bad so I started avoiding being pleasured ‘down there’”.  Eventually we saw a sex therapist (for other reasons as well) who helped us understand that being a good lover requires patience and practice” said Laura, a school teacher from Seattle. She may not peak with pleasure on your first try, but patient practice makes perfect, and in time, she will thank you for it.

Having a great oral sex with your partner makes the relationship stronger, and expands the possibilities of gratification. By setting the mood, you will have your lover primed and ready for a trip to the big O. By making her feel sexy all day, she’ll be ready to dive in and get wet the moment she gets home. Communicating with her and asking specific questions will get you the answers you need to make her climax to the highest peaks. And finally, by finishing what you have started, you will both have a lot more pleasure in understanding how to set your lovers loins afire.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I can promise you this: your lady craves clit action! If you want to blow her mind with oral techniques she’s never experienced before, check out my program on the matter: Oral Rapture.

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“Nobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort.” – Jerry Seinfeld

As much as I like Seinfeld and his tidbits of urban philosophy, I don’t think that’s a lesson worth teaching men out there. You don’t just close your eyes and hope for the best when you get down on your woman. I mean, come on, you’re better than that!

Sure, your girlfriend will appreciate that you made the effort, but once you get on that path, why do it superficially, when with just a few tweaks and tricks you can achieve perfection? Especially since I’m here to make sure you became the oral sex guru she’s always dreamed of.

First and foremost, if you fully enjoy the experience without losing anything in the process, not only will you grant her the much desire oh! moment, you’ll also take a few steps forward in your relationship, because the degree of intimacy between you two is definitely going to be much higher after this.

Do you think it’s all too good to be true? Follow my steps, touch her where and how I advise you to, and you’ll be instantly awarded with the much desired award of greatest provider of delight.

Don’t get right to the main course! Work your way… down.

If you don’t give her enough time to get wet, your kisses won’t be at all pleasurable. In order to achieve that, you have to make sure she’s aroused. Gently lick her breasts, neck and belly, making sure you also use your hands. When you feel her body starts to tremble, touch her down there with your fingers, to see if the coast is clear… and wet!

When nature isn’t all that giving…

If your partner is having troubles getting wet, use lubricant to smooth things up. Make it even more pleasurable by trying out different kinds of flavored lubes, but make sure to ask her a few days after if she liked it, because some flavored lubes use so much sugar in them for flavoring that it can affect the delicate balance of her nether regions negatively (meaning: they can give her an yeast infection).

Leave the clitoris alone… at first.

Start with the area around it, stimulating the vulva. If you aim directly for the clit, which is the most sensitive part of her body, you risk her finishing off too early, which can also be a bit unsatisfactory. Once you feel her vagina pulsating under your lips, touch the clitoris with the tip of your tongue, pressing it gently. Tease her by taking your attention away from it for a minute, then go back and circle the area with smooth movements. Don’t expect it to be like a magic button that secures the orgasm when touched, the clitoris is more like a complex network of interconnected circuits, all waiting to be stroked and explored properly for the ultimate satisfaction.

Double the pleasure

By inserting your fingers into her vagina, you’re making sure that she receives double stimulation. However, before doing that, make sure your manicure is ready for the job. Take a moment to file and trim your nails, ensuring that any hangnails are removed completely. If you’ve recently cut your hand (even a paper cut) clean it, cover it, and then wear a finger cot to ensure safety for the both of you.

Danger zone! Groping is a definite no-no

When you go too fast, too hard, too deep, the result is not going to be satisfactory. There was this guy I once knew that, when going down on me, always used this Robocop moves that left me almost frightened, not to mention orgasm-less. Use sweet and slow kisses and caresses, to build up pleasure, and let her direct the rhythm and speed. Ask her what moves she likes best and what she wants you to do next. You’ll be surprised how open women can be when their orgasm is on the line… and they can almost feel it. Also, pay attention to her breathing, to see where she’s at sexually. Breathing deeply and relaxed? She’s ready for you to up the ante with something new. If she starts panting though, she’s found the pre-orgasm phase, and she’s ready to climax. Some women will also clench other parts of their body the closer they get (teeth, fingers, toes, legs) or make really weird faces.

Have a delicious week!

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Remember that turning a woman on is just as much about the body as it is about the mind. Stimulate both for total success. For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.

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“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is”- Barbara Bush

It’s the same for girls. Except for the “bad” part. We like it to be done right. And we know you can do it. I for sure do, because if you’re here, reading my column, it means you want to improve your skill and blow her brains out the next time you oral her.

Oral sex is not only the perfect foreplay before making love, but also a practice completely satisfactory in itself, which can proportionate really intense orgasms. Like all sexual practices, it is a summary of affection, reciprocity, passion and love.

It can also lead too bland repetition, which can cause slow orgasm on her part and frustration for both of you. I know you’re all familiar with the traditional postures for cunnilingus, but how about some crazy ingenious ones for a change? Check them out bellow!

The chariot of love. Leaning on her feet and palms, with her entire body mid-air, your girlfriend is sure working her abdominals! But that’s not the only thing she is doing. She is also focusing on orgasmic feelings, while you’re busy pleasuring her with your tongue and lips. Resting on your knees (or whatever position you find most comfortable), try and remain motionless and caress her clitoris on an on-going basis. Because her body is already tense from the position she’s in, she is not going to last long, so don’t worry about growing tired. This is the perfect position if you’re both in a hurry and want to get the maximum of pleasure in a minimum of time.
The exercise lover. While she’s still positioned as described in the previous paragraph, you should be laying beneath her, with your head between her legs. Move your tongue to caress her labia, clitoris and vagina as she moves up and down. I love practicing this position because I can both work on my abs and tighten my buttocks therefore preventing the appearance of cellulite in a simple, effective and inexpensive way. So this is a win-win situation for your girlfriend: she is feeling intense pleasure, maintaining the forms of her body and saving a subscription to the gym!
The reader. While she’s sitting on a side, with her feet slightly arched, deeply lost in reading a book, how about you surprise her with something a thousand times for exciting and explosive than the plot of that novel? Start by gently kissing her thighs than, if she’s not resisting you (and she won’t, trust me on that!), move on to her vagina. If the book she’s reading is erotic, than you’ll be giving life to her most secret hopes with your touching and licking. This position is ideal if you want her to be relaxed and happy.
The leaning tower. While she’s resting on her back, with her knees brought to her chest, approach her laterally. Kissing her clitoris from a different angle than what she’s usually used to, you’re doubling the pleasure. If she’s really been a good girl and you want to award her with the best orgasm she’s ever had, try caressing her breasts with one hand, and inserting two fingers from the other hand into her vagina. You’re thus stimulating three main spots of her body: breasts, clitoris and vagina. If she’s into it, try inserting one of the fingers into her anus. There will be fireworks!
The sleeping beauty. Or how to wake up in the most romantic atmosphere possible! If you haven’t tried going down on your girlfriend at dawn, you must definitely try it the next time you have the chance. As she begins to feel the warmth of your hands and the softness of your tongue on her clitoris, she’ll swear she is having the best dream of her life! When she will be finally fully awake (the orgasm is surely going to shake her up really good), she’ll be thanking you for the most perfect start of day. Set the alarm a few minutes before and give her the best waking call ever!
The oral train. This position is very comfortable, it requires no effort on either side, and is also giving your woman an intense pleasure. While you’re quietly lying on your back on the bed or on the floor, tell her to kneel on your face and lay her sex over your mouth. Be careful though, in the heat of the moment she might not realize that she’s… suffocating you.

Have an exquisitely sensual week!

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Play with more than one position per orgasm, the change will prolong her pleasure! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about oral sex CLICK HERE NOW!

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“Be naughty- save Santa a trip”- Author Unknown

There are some things that you just CAN’T do when it comes to oral sex. Because the stimulated part is so sensitive, you have to be extra careful how aggressive you are, when and where you can speed things up and how rough you’re allowed to be.

From my own experience, I’ve learned that men get carried away by their passion and desire to stimulate women and don’t realize when they are going too far. Their intentions are good though, and I always appreciate that. That’s why I made this list of common mistakes so that you get exactly where you want without any hinders or problems.

Play the gynecologist. Of course you’re curious to see what your girlfriend looks like very closely. Go ahead and take a good look. But don’t spread her labia so hard that it feels like she’s having her annual pelvic exam at the gynecologist. Just use your fingers to gently keep her lips apart and slowly slip your tongue inside.
Shake it ‘till you break it. Don’t try to imitate those awfully exaggerated oral sex techniques they do in porn movies, particularly the movement where the guy sticks his tongue right inside the vagina instead of licking, and shakes his head so hard that his ears are touching the girl’s thighs. It seems stupid even on screen and it doesn’t work in real life.
Blow into her vagina. Do not vacuum around her vagina with your lips and, most importantly, do not blow into it. Your girlfriend is not an inflatable doll, you know? Blowing lightly or breathing in or around her vagina might be exciting, but it is also dangerous and it can lead to serious problems.
Over the top watery licking. It’s good to lick, and it’s good to keep your tongue relaxed. But be careful not to become too… slobbery. Too much saliva paired with too heavy panting is not very sexy. If your cunnilingus technique reminds her of her Golden Retriever, it’s not going to be exciting for her. Just keep your cool and take small breaks to ingest the excess of saliva.
Heavy sucking of the clit. Sucking her like a lollipop is “college material”, but if you really want to leave your mark, do it on her neck, arms, breasts or thighs. Do not lock your mouth around her clit and suck so hard she ends up having a lesion. A strong suction of the clit can be very painful and we don’t want that, do we?
Doing her after you’ve had more than your fair share of alcohol. The chances of ruining the moment are sky high if you’re drunk. In order for you to do a good job, you should be able to pay attention to the signals of pleasure she’s sending you and coordinate your moves accordingly, and if you’re drunk you certainly can’t do that. Not to mention if you grow tired or fall asleep mid-work and leave her completely unsatisfied.
Press and stab. Having someone push and push their pointy tongue on your clitoris and inside your vagina is very unpleasant, trust me. Doing that makes you look aggressive and unsure of your technique. My advice is that you relax your tongue and take your time. Gently caress her clitoris and let it bring the labia to you.
Dentures and pubic hair don’t mix. Some of you may still wear braces. If so, make sure she shaves or at least trims her pubic hair before going down on her, or you’ll end up having to solve a very… hairy and painful situation. Keep your licking and caressing at the surface and do it almost in slow motion, to make sure nothing will stand in the way of you pleasuring her.
Swallow in silence. It’s good to make some noise when you’re giving her cunnilingus. Moans are ok, most women like that. Even swallowing (somewhat) noisy is acceptable within certain limits, because you’re letting her know that you’re enjoying this as much as she is. Don’t overdo it though; she might not like that very much.
Keeping your nails too long. Unless you are a follower of the extremist “without hands” technique, even the tiniest nail brushing to help supplement your tongue can transform the whole act into a remake of Edward Scissorhands. Don’t butcher her private parts with your enthusiasm and your sharp nails. Cut them short! It’s for a good cause. And this will also give you an altruistic excuse for biting your nails.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Show your girlfriend this list and ask her what she thinks about it. Her answers might be just what you need! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about oral sex CLICK HERE NOW!

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“Love ain’t nothing but sex misspelled”- Harlan Ellison

You know how the say that knowledge is power? It’s the same with sex. As long as you’ve done your homework correctly, you have nothing to fear about. Knowing how the female body functions (especially the intimate areas), you’ll know exactly which trick to pull out of your sleeve and when.

If you think that learning anatomy details is redundant, you’d better think again. Learning about the Mount of Venus, for example, which is just as sensitive and worth stimulating as the clitoris, will give you more to work on the next time you’re treating your girlfriend with her most treasured gift: oral sex.

The vulva. The vulva refers to all the external genitalia: Mons Venus, small and large lips, and clitoris. Anatomically, it also includes the vestibule, the urethra, the vaginal opening, the hymen and Bartholin’s glands, but you won’t be dealing with these, at least not when it comes to cunnilingus, so there’s no need to go into further detail about them.

The Mount of Venus. This region, named after Venus, the Goddess of love, is the pad of fatty tissue and thick skin that covers the lowest area of a woman’s abdomen. The Mount of Venus lies just below the pubic bone and above the labia majora. It serves as a “cushion” to absorb the impact between man and woman during intercourse. Its many nerve endings make it very sensitive to touch. Stimulating this area can be for many women as enjoyable as stimulating the clitoris. On your way down to her vagina, stop on this particular region to trace thin lines with your fingers. Keep doing that even when you’re busy licking her labia.

The labia majora. These are the most external genitalia of women. They consist of two folds of skin, made of adipose tissue, and measuring 7-8 cm in length. Full of glands and nerve endings, the two lips come together, covering the labia minora and the clitoris. During sexual arousal, blood flow in the vessels causes them to swell and grow apart from each other, thus exposing the vaginal opening in order to facilitate penetration. This phenomenon is more marked among women who had a child. On the other hand, after menopause, the labia lose the bulk of adipose tissue that gave them shape, and they do not swell as much as before. When performing oral, it’s good to start with them. Don’t be afraid to kiss them and set them apart with your tongue, when you want to reach to the labia minora and the clitoris, which are more valuable in terms of how much pleasure they can cause.

The labia minora. Also called “the nymphs”, they surround the entrance (or vestibule) of the vagina. They are, in fact, a part of the vaginal opening; they close and protect it, just as much as they close and protect the clitoris. With no fat cells, they are thinner than the outer labia, but have many nerve endings that make them more sensitive to touch. Under the effect of excitement, the small blood vessels that crisscross the spongy tissue make them change color: they then pass from pale pink to bright red or amber (a clear sign of the odds of reaching orgasm). Simultaneously, they also become larger because of the influx of blood which makes them swell. After orgasm, both large and small lips quickly resume their normal size and shape. If you have problems figuring out if she did have an orgasm or not, now you know what clues to look for. When she pushes you away, claiming she peaked, look at her inner lips, if they aren’t brownish red, she was probably faking it.

The clitoris: a miniature penis? Located at the top of the vulva, this erectile organ has many nerve endings.
Like the penis, the clitoris has an inner and an outer part. It consists of a root (tiny button at the bottom), and a body- the shaft (usually covered by the labia minora), both made of erectile tissue, similar to the penis. His many nerve endings make it particularly sensitive. When he is sexually stimulated, he is erect, but still not as rigid as the penis. The root and the shaft become engorged with blood, increasing volume, and causing the clitoris to stand and become very sensitive to touch. The root may even double in diameter. But the size of the clitoris is not necessarily proportional to the degree of excitement. Be very gentle and always remember that when it comes to this particular area, less is the new more!

Have a gorgeous week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If there’s anything else you’d like to know about the mechanics of her private parts, ask me in the comments section! For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.

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“Great food is like great sex; the more you have, the more you want”- Gael Greene

There are men that are not that passionate about cunnilingus, and not because they find the whole process demeaning or anything, but because of the smell and taste of women’s intimate parts.

If you’re one of those men, don’t give up on the idea for good, you’ll make your girlfriend incredibly unhappy and you’ll lose some pretty special feelings also. Oral sex can be revived by adding food and beverages to the process. Here are some of my favorites, along with their benefits.

1.    Mint cream. In the old days, the majority of the famous luxury brothels had as specialty of the house the mint cream fellatio. I tried that with my husband once and he was extremely pleased with the result. After that, he decided to do the same to me. And man, the thrills! Here’s what you have to do: take a spoonful of mint liquor in your mouth, and then let it drip onto her private parts. For a brief moment, her lips are going to look like The Incredible Hulk but then the fun begins: the alcohol will start to gently tickle her skin, making the whole area incredibly sensitive. Cool it down by blowing cold air (everywhere BUT inside the vagina), which will result in an extraordinary mix of sensations. Soon she’ll start to feel her labia deliciously numb, at which point you should start your regular licking and kissing routine. If you’re on a budget, a strikingly similar effect can be obtained with mint mouthwash or sucking a mint candy.

2.    Cinnamon oil. In addition to the pleasant taste this gives to her intimate parts, a few drops of this heavily perfumed oil will make her feel like she’s on fire, tingling all over the place. The feeling is slowly phased off as you kiss her, but she won’t need that much time anyway, because is trick guarantees a fast and strong orgasm. Again, if the budget is limited, you can also try with sorbet- although not as effective.

3.    Tea. Take a sip of Earl Grey tea, after having let it cool in the cup for five minutes, then embrace her labia, making sure you don’t spill a single drop. (The best position for this is for you to kneel in front of her, while she’s standing, because this way your mouth is parallel to her body.) The heat that she feels brings additional pleasure to cunnilingus, and, as long as you manage to keep the tea in your mouth, the taste of her vagina will be much improved.

4.    Ice. This is excellent when alternated with tea, because you go from one extreme to the other, and the feeling is exquisite! Take a small cube of ice in your mouth and start sucking it while sucking her vulva. This can be done anywhere and at any angle, because the ice doesn’t stain the sheets.

5.    Yogurt. If you’re not the biggest fan of cunnilingus, yogurt can change the whole act into a friendly and delicious game. You simply anoint the vulva with it and then start licking it slowly. You can also add strawberries, cherries or even noodles, if you’re in for a treat. Be careful not to dedicate your entire attention to the process of eating solely the food, making her feel like a mere plate. Pace yourself and move the food here and there, revealing what’s worth kissing.

6.    Champagne. Even if it does not fit what Dom Perignon had in mind when he invented champagne, the trick works nicely. Take a sip of champagne and let the gas bubbles stimulate her while you’re doing your number on her. However, don’t think that you can save money by substituting champagne with 7up or Coca Cola, because these contain acids that will cause her vaginal sores.

7.    Whipped cream. That’s a classic, don’t you agree? Its sweet flavor covers all peculiar tastes and smells and you’ll be more than happy to go down on your girlfriend while she’s covered with it. A word of advice: spread the area of licking. Put whipped cream on her breasts, her belly, her thighs, hell you can even suck her fingers. Seeing you that into it, she’ll grow more relaxed and she’ll orgasm more quickly.

Have a gorgeously sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Make it a double feast by asking her to do the same to you; she’ll be more than pleased!

For more naughty secrets and tips and tricks on how to make cunnilingus sessions as hot as possible, check out my program on the subject – Oral Rapture.

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“I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty”- George Burns

Be spontaneous and surprise your girlfriend with oral sex when and where she least expects it. As it is more discreet than intercourse, oral sex is easier to put into practice, so you have total freedom to try it in the coolest places. By the way, make sure you check what’s legal where you are located! I don’t want you to get in trouble.

Let’s get started.

1.    In the car. You’re planning a road trip to your parents in law? Or maybe just a quick visit to those friends of yours that live in the opposite part of the city? While driving change the route when she’s not looking and park near a park or somewhere where there’s less visibility. Before she evens gets the chance to ask what’s going on, pull up her skirt and start kissing her down there. The surprise will turn her world upside down and the tornado-like orgasm will make your friends wonder why she hasn’t stopped smiling upon arrival.

2.    On the beach. Sex on the beach is one of the most common fantasies. Convince her to choose a more remote part of the beach and after you’ve massaged her with sunscreen lotion, get busy. The heat of the sun and the softness of your tongue will amplify the pleasure, and she’ll soon become the lucky receiver of one of the hottest orgasm ever! When things get too hot too bear, jump in the water and while she’s in the floating position, lift her bum and finish the job. You might get a little salty taste in your mouth but it’s totally worth it, especially if she agrees to return the favor. I recommend looking for a beach where you have no “legal” problems! if you know what I mean.

3.    On the balcony. Do you usually spend quiet evenings or week-ends in the balcony, talking or reading a book, enjoying the fresh air? Don’t let this enjoyable activity fall into… routine. Spice things up with a little “danger” in your lives! Make two cups of hot cocoa and invite her in the balcony for a friendly chat. Put your chair right next to hers and while she’s telling you about her daily quarrels with that bitchy co-worker, start by gently caressing her leg, moving upward to her thigh, then to the main focus of her attention. To make things even hotter, do this while looking straight into her eyes. When you feel she’s wet enough, untie her rope and put your head between her legs. The fact that she’ll have to suppress her moans so that the neighbors don’t get suspicious will get her into an even more intense state of arousal, and the orgasm(s) that will follow are going to prove it.

4.    In the kitchen. What place can be more ideal for oral sex if not the kitchen? You can pamper your taste buds with food from the refrigerator, you can choose from a number of hot positions (her, sitting on the kitchen table or you, sitting on a stool, while she’s standing in front of you, the options are numerous). Here’s my most intense scenario: while she’s busy cooking, approach her from behind and start kissing her neck and rubbing her breasts with your hands. If she lets you, descend slowly until you reach her vagina. Start creating circles with your fingers, while slowly turning her to face you. Kiss her abdomen and pull her towards you firmly. After the first scream of pleasure, start licking her. You won’t know what’s burning more, the stove or her vagina. Be careful not to let yourselves too carried away though and spill things hot all over the place. Since you’re the one more aware of what’s going on around you, make sure to keep her from danger.

5.    In the elevator. It’s hard to undress and start intercourse while in an elevator, for once because it’s messier, more difficult to find the right position and it takes more times. Oral sex, however… it takes less time, it’s much more convenient and is just as exciting. Don’t wait to get stuck to take advantage of it! Press the blocking button and press her to the wall. Kiss her passionately and start working your way down under her clothes. When she objects, cause women sometimes tend to be like that, more safety-oriented, kneel in front of her and start kissing her private parts. She’ll keep quiet and savor the moment. I know I did…

Have a strictly sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“The smell of her hair, the taste of her mouth, the feeling of her skin seemed to have got inside him or into the air all around him. She had become a physical necessity”- George Orwell, 1984

The connections between our sense of smell and sexuality, emotions and memory, are profound and primary. For years experts have been informing us that the link between sex and certain flavors is as simple and logical as the happiness it brings.

There are scents that calm you down or make you feel confident, just as there are scents that naturally contribute to sharpen your senses and feeling when you’re in bed with a woman.

Massage oils or those used in aromatherapy are known for their properties of balancing both sex and thyroid hormones. These flavors work not only the body, but also the mind, relaxing you and helping you be more open to sex.

The essential oils that are perfect for romance and sexuality contain one of the following flavors: rose, jasmine, ylang ylang, patchouli, resin, pine, nutmeg. If you want to give your girlfriend a sexy massage, than choose a massage oil that contains, besides one of the flavors enumerated before, at least one of the following spices: cinnamon, ginger, or black pepper.

However, you should not heavy up the atmosphere between you two with too many scents, oils and lotions, because there is a fine line between a sexy smell and a heavy smell, which ruins the mood.

There are numerous studies conducted to support aromatherapy theories, and the majority of them have found that women are attracted to the scent of men with a similar but not identical genetic code, while men prefer the natural scent of a woman’s body during the days of the month when she is most fertile.

Scientists have tested 30 flavors and their impact on women. The results:

–       40% were aroused by the strong aroma of musk, chocolate liquor, red wine and body oil

–       31% were attracted to the flavor of pumpkin and lavender

–       30% were in the mood for sex after smelling liquorice

–       Women were not attracted by the scents of shaving lotion (surprisingly!), steak and cherries.

Top 5 flavors that excite women:

1)    Musk– the scent that is the most similar to that of male pheromones. So, it wouldn’t be bad if the next perfume you buy for yourself is with musk. If however you don’t like the smell of it on yourself, buy incense, candles of massage oil with musk.

2)    Patchouli– the aroma of this flower is incredible! Not just for the smell but because it really excites women. Specialists believe that the scent of patchouli awakens and provokes sexual energy.

3)    Mint– it energizes women and motivates positive thinking. Perfect for sex! It might even encourage her to try something new in the bedroom.

4)    Ylang ylang– have you ever smelled it? If you close your eyes and smell it, you can instantly imagine yourself with your partner, about to initiate a steamy sex night. If you’re in the mood for burning passion, turn to room spray, flavored oil or incense.

5)    Jasmine– with a fine but powerful scent, it rapidly manages to invite all your senses to new sexual experiences.

If you want to impress your girlfriend tonight with a romantic twist to oral sex, make sure you set the mood properly. First, see if the room is well ventilated, and maintain a nice, soft temperature, around 25 degrees Celsius. Then choose the perfumed items you want to use: bath salts, shower gel, massage oil, body lotion, candle, incense, etc.

Red candles are really aphrodisiac, the yellow or orange ones energize, and the blue and green ones relax you. Chose her favorite scent sticks and if the deed is going to the done in the bathroom, choose the right bath oil, then fill the tub with warm water.

After a creamy scented relaxed shower, take her to the bedroom, lose the bath towel and start massaging her all over her body. The candle light, the steamy aromas that incite all her senses, everything is set up for an unforgettable night of passion and love. Kiss her slowly, don’t rush anything and let her enjoy all the preparations you made for her. If that’s not a sign of love, I honestly don’t know what is.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Check her perfume drawer and see what scents are predominant; you’ll thus know exactly what she likes and what you need to buy.

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“Love is the answer, but while you’re waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty interesting questions”- Woody Allen

Experts say that 70% of women do not orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. Nsekuye Bizimana, the author of The Secret to African love, decided to help women all over the world by writing a book especially for men, in which he tells them about kunyaza, an ancient sexual technique practiced widely in Central and Eastern Africa.

Nsekuye Bizimana, the head of a research institute dedicate to kunyaza, is convinced that this technique holds the secret to female orgasm. Transmitted orally, the art of kunyaza, “the magical caress”, as they call it in Rwanda, is said to be so effective that most women have multiple orgasms and even an ejaculation.

Since I’m always eager to find out new things and experience as much as I can sexually, I went ahead and bought the book for my husband and we studied it together.

After trying the tricks they taught us, I must go ahead and confess: it was like nothing I have tried before! I experienced the fastest and most powerful couple of orgasms in my life! And it’s not hard to do either, so what are YOU waiting for? This is a nice substitute for oral sex, if you’re girlfriend is one of those women that don’t really feel comfortable with it.

The book is yet to be published in English, I read it in French, so if you don’t know the language, check out my resumed version of it bellow. I had to share my discovery with you guys, for once because I’m not selfish and I want other women to experience the joy and happiness I felt.

How it works.

It’s basically a really intense of a woman’s private parts. You have to tap the internal area of your girlfriend’s vagina with the tip of your penis either vertically or horizontally, or both, however you feel like it. Don’t forget to pay attention to the clitoris also, but make sure she is well lubricated, otherwise she might find the tapping on her most sensitive zone disturbing. If you do it well, your girlfriend should be able to have an orgasm in approximately five minutes.

What if I get tired?

I know, you’re putting a lot of pressure on your wrists to continually tap for minutes on end. When you feel your hand can’t take it anymore, pass the job to your girlfriend, she will love to be a part of it. Another way she could help you is by exposing her most sensitive parts, so that you have an easier access inside her. If you reach and tap your girlfriend’s prostate, located behind the G point, which is a highly erogenous point, Bizimana says you could consider the job done. She’ll orgasm before you even know it!

From kunyaza to intercourse

If you want to use this technique as foreplay, go ahead and do it. Your girlfriend will be ready and excited and, because of the tapping, your penis will grow more erect and hard, which would make intercourse a viable and pleasurable option. Also, if you’re fighting erectile problems, this method is great for curing them. Bizimana conducted a study that confirmed the effectiveness of this trick against issues like that.

Kunyaza + fingering = A tornado of emotions!

A twist I suggested my husband to try was to mix this recent discovery with his fingering technique. Man, I’m glad to have thought of that! The roughness of his penis tapping against my vagina combined with the softness of his fingers and was incredible. I don’t know how many orgasm I had, at one point I stopped counting, but I sure felt like a kid with Santa’s bag of gifts only to himself. Start by stimulating your girlfriend with your fingers, covering both the exterior and the interior parts of her sex and finish her off with a nice dose of tapping. Don’t stop after the first orgasm, unless she had one so powerful that she needs a moment to catch her breath. If she’s ok with you guys continuing, go back to kissing and licking and then tapping again. She’ll reach seventh heaven!

Have a fully sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

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