Fast sex, like fast food, is cheap, but it doesn’t nourish the body- or the soul”- Suzanne Fields

Be honest, when a woman goes down on you, you want the act to act as long as possible, right? We, women, feel the same. A lightning fast orgasm borders frustration more than pleasure. Of course, we don’t want your mouth and tongue to go numb or your jaw to get stuck and robotic, but we would really appreciate if the whole experience lasted more than a mere two minutes. Unless where on our way to work, we’re late, but you decide to surprise us with a quick number. Then we won’t blame you for being too fast, we’re just going to appreciate that you wanted us to go to work… free of any tension!

That said, if you get too excited while you’re doing your girlfriend, remember that while you’re sucking all over she’s praying for it not to be over too son, which means that she’s bound to miss the full pleasure of climaxing.

Here’s a few tricks to make oral sex last longer than usual:

1.    Don’t chase the hot spots first. In the proper sense of the word, oral sex means you can kiss and caress ALL of her erogenous spot, not just the clitoris, the king of hot spots. Most men err because they chose to take the safe road and go for what they know for sure it’s working. Big mistake! The most important aspect of oral sex is exploring, the majority of women enjoy cunnilingus when it’s their whole body that is being taken care of and cherished. It’s a sign of love and intimacy and we adore to feel like we’re being put on a pedestal and treated like queens. So, use your tongue to lick the surrounding areas: her inner thighs, her belly button, even her anus. Get creative and surprise her with different ideas and movements.

2.    Change pace. Instead of running your tongue up and down like somebody’s chasing you, lick her at different speeds. Do it in slow motion, making sure that you miss no spot, and pick up the pace when you feel she’s relaxed enough and ready to go to the next level. By changing the rhythm, you grant her sex with different sensations, thereby lessening the chances of her orgasming too quickly. Giving her time to unleash tension, you’re building up sensations and the final O will grow bigger than both of you dare to imagine.

3.    Hands off! Even if she begs you two use your hands (either to insert fingers into her vagina, or rub her breasts) don’t give her the satisfaction, yet! The fact that she feels like she’s being deprived of pleasure makes her more eager to make the most of what she does get, and when you’re finally succumbing to her wishes, things are bound to get explosive. You know what you can also do with your hands? You can masturbate in front of her. The image of you pleasuring yourself at the same time is really intimate and her entire body and mind will be flooded with pleasure.

4.    Interrupt the act. To have a sip of whine, to kiss her passionately on the mouth, to rest your hand on her thighs, to run your fingers through her hair, whatever comes to mind. Then start all over again. The pause will leave her body in expectance and the orgasm will be delayed, which she will really appreciate. Don’t stop to go to the bathroom or see what’s on TV or go grab a bite of food, that’s only going to kill her mood and she won’t orgasm at all in the end. And you’ll look terribly insensitive.

5.    Make it into a game. Laugh with her, ask her how she’d want you to do her, what she’ll prefer you to do next, tickle her softly, let her be involved in the whole act. That will get her mind off climaxing for a while, but she’ll still enjoy the warm sensations of your mouth and tongue. When she least expects it, get serious and speed things up. When the orgasm comes unexpectedly, the feeling is far greater than when you’re begging for it to grace you with its presence.

Have a deliciously sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. 85% percent of women like their oral number to last between 7 and 15 minutes. Either if they’re on the giving or receiving end. For more naughty secrets and tips and tricks on how to make cunnilingus sessions as hot as possible, check out my program on the subject – Oral Rapture.

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“Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful”- John Wayne

Many experts agree that oral sex without protection is not as dangerous as vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom. The risks are lower because the lining of the mouth is thicker and stronger than that of the vagina or anus. Also, it’s less likely to cause sores and lesions that facilitate the infiltration of infections in your blood and system. Another extra point on behalf of the greater safety of oral sex: it is believed that saliva contains a substance that weakens the viruses responsible for sexually transmitted diseases.

Despite all these good points, oral sex is still not risk free, and you shouldn’t perform it on someone whose medical record you don’t know, unless you’ve taken the necessary measures of protection.

Here’s a list of the most important ones. Don’t neglect any of them, no matter how unnecessary you might consider them at first glance, or else you’ll end up infected. Since they are easy to follow and don’t take the pleasure out of the act itself, there’s absolutely nothing to complain about.

1.    Safe fingering. If you have small cuts, tiny lesions or sores on your fingers, even imperceptible or apparently innocent ones like paper cuts, use medical-grade gloves, to prevent any risk of infection. These gloves are easily found in most pharmacies or purchased online in a myriad of colors and textures. Some even come pre-lubricated or powdered for a more realistic feel.

2.    The power of dental dams. Purchase a dental dam specifically made for oral sex; there are some that even come pre-flavored, lubed and/or with a stickable strip at the top of each use. If it’s not lubed, grab your choice of water-based lubricant and apply some to her side of the dental dam. Put it over her entire vulva, covering her Vaginal Opening and Front Commissure.

3.    How to keep the dental dam in place. The most ingenious ways to keep the dental dam secure, when you don’t want to use you’re hands because they are busy stimulating other parts of her body:

a) Ask your girlfriend to wear panties with the crotch cut out over the top of the dental dam.

b) Use garters to attach from one side to another, and wrap them around your girlfriend’s leg.

c) Apply spirit gum to temporarily glue the dental dam in place.

4.    Don’t mix things up. If you plan on some anal as well as vaginal play, make sure you use two separate dams that don’t come into contact with each other, because you’ll give her a nasty infection by moving fluids up and forth her vagina. I know it can be a bit of a mood killer to stop to take another dam but trust me, health-wise, you’re both winners.

5.    Don’t hesitate to be more firm. She’ll need a tougher tongue when using a dental dam than without. She won’t be able to feel the friction of your tongue, just the vibrational aspect, which means you should put a bit more effort into licking and sucking, just to make sure she feels it as she would in the absence of the dental dam. You can also use your teeth, but lightly- you don’t want to rip it, but you do want to apply more pressure than you normally would. So, scraping and light biting isn’t taboo here. Other neat tricks:

a) Use the edge of the dental dam and rake it along her Clitoral Head; the feeling is so real-like she won’t even remember you’re not touching her directly on the skin.

b) Roll up the dental dam and use it as a makeshift finger, either to tease her vulva and Clitoral Head, or inside of her against her G spot. Because of the strong lubrication and the little folds in the dental dam, she’ll enjoy every bit of the action.

c) Wrap the dental dam around the top of the Clitoral Head and along the Front Commissure, then push and pull the edges to rub and “shine” it. This is a favorite trick of mine, I love the feeling it gives me and the fact that it covers a pretty large area and it stimulates me more than I would have imagined at first.

Have a safely sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you’re not convinced by these methods, ask your girlfriend to go together for a whole medical check-up. Once you’re both sure that you’re infection free, you can do it however you like! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about oral sex CLICK HERE NOW!

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“I know nothing at all about oral sex. I broke up both my own marriages over it”- Marion Zimmer Bradley

You’d think that going down is easy as pie, but if you ask most women, they’d most probably beg to differ. The degree of dissatisfaction is enormous when it comes to good cunnilingus, but many women prefer to leave it as such, and not school their respective boyfriends on the matter.

If you’re here, reading this article, it means you don’t like what you’ve learned above and you want to make things better both for your girlfriend’s pleasure and your own. Find bellow the lowdown on… going down!

Step 1. Set the scene

The ideal way to create the right mood is to let your partner know, by phone, email, flying pigeon, that you’ll be giving her a very special treat when you see her. Talk about solid arousal!

Step 2. Get in her panties

Once you’re both in the same room, start with some teasing titillation. Bite gently through her panties. Once you feel she’s getting wet, pull them down with your teeth. While you are doing that, tease her lady parts manually for a while before removing the panties completely.

Step 3. Seeing is relieving

Women love being able to see what you are doing to them. Give her a double view by positioning yourself in front of a mirror. And remember to stop from time to time from what you’re doing to smile, hug and kiss her. The emotional connection is the strongest arousal tool.

Step 4. Tease to please

Good oral sex can be divided into two main parts- teasing and attacking. Before the “attack”, use your mouth, hands and hair to peak her stimulation. Here are two work-every-time techniques:

The hair flare. Turn your head around and let your hair stroke gently against her labia and clitoris. The feeling is truly amazing!

The skin flute. Brush your lips up and down her vulva. Then run the tip of your tongue to the most sensitive part- the clitoris.

Step 5. Tingle all the way

Now it’s time to gently approach her labia majora and minora with one hand. She might be ticklish at first, but as she gets more turned on, she should warm to your touch. Start by cupping her labia and if she enjoys that, try giving them a gentle squeeze. If she’s a fan, bring your mouth into play; try taking a labia into your mouth and gently sucking it. The sensation is thrilling!

Step 6. Down to business

You’ve gotta know when to move on. There’s tantalizing, and then there’s annoying. So to give her what she wants, position yourself so that you’re sitting comfortably, and go slow and as long as she needs you too. Some women orgasm quicker, others need more time. Don’t judge her for that. Start licking the surrounding area, as slow as you can, and speed things up according to her liking. She’ll soon start moving with your tongue, to let you know how exactly she wants you to continue. Take her lead.

Step 7. The pleasure zone

The perineum is the tissue surrounding her urethra, around the exterior of her vagina and extending to her rectum, and feels intensely good when stimulated. While you’re kissing her vagina, take your index and middle fingers together and apply pressure in that area using a firm, comforting, circular motion.

Step 8. Come and go

Experts disagree here. Some warn that disrupting the speed of things might mean setting yourself back five minutes, while others, however, say that women crave anxiety, and I tend to give justice to the latter. Just because you’ve stuck your tongue inside her vagina doesn’t mean you have to stay there. I recommend you return to the skin flute exercise or flicking your tongue around her inner thighs. If she seems close to orgasm, and you want her to finish, focus on the clitoris. She’ll race to the O-zone in no time.

Have a gorgeous week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Start exercising today! She’ll be more than thankful to see you so eager to learn how to please her better.

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??If you don’t know by now that the key to a woman’s orgasmic heart is in getting up close and personal with your oral assets, then you should probably go back and start reading at the beginning!

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about going down on your lover? For most men, the answer is going to be all about the sensual experience – the smell and the taste. So many of the euphemisms we have for cunnilingus come from the incredible bouquet of aromas that a woman’s nether regions can create.

Like any of the flavors and odors that the human body produces, vaginal fluid is an exquisite example of internal body chemistry – the healthier your body, the better you will smell and taste. The same is true for women, so there are some things you can do to change your lifestyle and encourage more enjoyable oral for everyone!

The most important indicator of overall health that can be readily senses is pH level – acidity or alkalinity. The balance of pH differs in specific areas of the body – for example, while the skin tends to hover around a pH of 6 or 7, the pH of a healthy vagina hovers between 3.8 and 4.5, close to the pH of black coffee, which comes in at 5, but even closer to another sensual treat, red wine.

When the pH balance of a person’s body changes, it can quickly be perceived by a shift in odor and flavor of bodily secretions and fluids like sweat, vaginal lubrication, and both male and female ejaculate. Overzealous cleansing like douching or using harsh soap can upset pH balance, and the even more likely offender is you semen, which is known to change the balance of pH in the vagina on contact.

What the pH?

So how can you go about changing the pH in your body? Ultimately it all comes down to your daily diet. If you eat a lot of grains, vegetable oils, and processed foods, and not nearly enough fruits and vegetables, it is likely that your body is having a difficult time keeping up with all the backload of toxins and sugars in your bloodstream. Eat a clean, organic diet full of colorful fruits and vegetables. Tropical fruits and well known for their ability to sweeten the body, especially the sexual fluids – who doesn’t want to taste a little bit like pineapple?

Keep in mind that when it comes to oral sex, the state of your mouth is as important as the place you’re putting it! The average human mouth contains way more foul bacteria than the average human genitals, so be sure to keep yourself clean. Brush and floss regularly, but not right before going down. Small cuts or abrasions on the gum line can increase the chances of infections and other unpleasantness. Do use mouthwash and water to rinse.

Keep in mind that anything that goes in your mouth will affect your taste and smell, including any food and drink, over the counter and prescription medication, gum and breath mints, cigarettes and alcohol. This is especially true if you have facial hair – be conscious of how your food, drink, smoke, etc. makes your beard smell. You may not notice it, but if you find your partner shying away from your kisses or making faces when you’re not paying enough attention, it may be time to invest in a yummy scented beard soap!

On the Menu

If there is something irking you about your lover’s taste, bringing it up can be a problem. If getting healthy will solve the problem, just go ahead and do it for the sake of getting healthy, and enjoy delicious oral as a side benefit. If you think there may be something else causing the problem – a yeast infection or other imbalance, meditation or other habits, be gentle when you bring it up. Talk about the problem and present her taste as one of many things that can motivate her to give up a bad habit. Use facts, not feelings in this case. Encourage her to make changes for her health, and be sure to ask for feedback yourself. She will feel much more comfortable hearing that there are changes you can both make in order to enjoy sex more if she knows that you care about how you taste as much as you care about how she does.

Whatever you do, don’t take oral off the menu. Ultimatums are not helpful. Your partner will want to hear that you are willing to work with her and help experiment, give her feedback, and enjoy yourselves along the way to making sex a tastier treat.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My darling, oral can become your biggest asset if you learn how to master the right techniques. To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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Do you remember the last time you went down on your lover? What was it like? Did you kiss your way down her body, did you kneel between her feet, did you pin her down 69, or did you come at her in doggie style from underneath? Oral sex doesn’t have to involve her lying on her back, you propped up on your elbows with her knees clamped around your ears. There’s nothing wrong with that, of course, but it might get a bit bland. If your lover is having a hard time experiencing orgasm with your oral skills, it might not be your tongue or her clit, but the rest of your bodies that pose the problem!

The way you move in relation to your lover, the attitude you possess, the shapes your body makes, the positions you choose… all of these things are incredibly important aspects of not just turning her on, but making any sexual experience arousing and fulfilling. While there are certainly a number of different “styles” and ways to categorize lovemaking moves, today we’re going to focus specifically on two styles that your wife might find enjoyable. Get a feel for how these work, then think about coming up with a few of your own.

The Shy Sweetheart

Someone who is shy about enjoying oral sex might not be inclined to suggest it as a regular activity, though that doesn’t mean she hasn’t brought it up in conversation before – she’s just less likely to find it arousing in the heat of the moment when tasked with coming up with something to do. In other words, if you want to go down on her, you should express it as something that you desire to experience. She’s probably most comfortable in a standard position lying on her back with her knees spread and you on your elbows between them, but there is no reason for you to suffocate under the covers… coax her out from under there so you can see her beautiful face!

With a bit of encouragement, she might thoroughly enjoy being licked from behind while she’s down on all fours, but trying to lift her up on top of you might be a bit of a stretch right away. Let her get comfortable with the pleasure before she’s forced to face any discomfort she may have about her body. If she is especially shy about it, you may find she begins to pull away instinctively when she nears orgasm. She may not even be doing it consciously. Discuss it with her beforehand and tell her that you want to keep going beyond that point. Employ a safe word if desired, and when the time comes, hold on to her thighs tightly and when she starts to spasm and pull away, keep going! If she is seeking multiple orgasms, this is a great way to find them!

The Show Off

If you are very lucky, there may be a woman in your life who really wants to be seen. Burying yourself between her legs while she tries to prop herself up for a good view could get boring pretty quick for her. You can surprise her by getting underneath her in doggy style and using your tongue to change up the stimulation (and give yourself a break, if you need it). Bonus: you can still use both of your hands very effectively in this position and she has the option to take complete control!

You can penetrate her vaginally or anally for the more adventurous, just be sure not to mix up which hand is for which, and use lube. If she enjoys a bit of a spank now and then, you can give her a swat or a few. You could even keep one hand free to pleasure yourself and still have your mouth and five fingers to keep her busy.

If she’s feeling extra showy, she can raise herself up and ride your face, giving you a great view. Even heavier women can thoroughly enjoy this with their partners, but make sure you figure out a hand signal to let her know you’re coming up for air. She’ll love the ability to look you right in the eye when you take her over the edge. If you don’t mind sacrificing the view, she can also turn around and start pleasuring you in any number of ways!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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One of the best pieces of advice that I can give to a man who is just learning how to pleasure a woman is that a penis is not a finger is not a tongue – in other words, your technique is determined by your tool. Your tongue is unique in many ways which make it ideal for giving pleasure, so understanding its anatomy and the physical process of taste and touch with the tongue will take you a long way in perfecting even the most practiced technique.

The tongue is one of the body’s most powerful muscles and unique in its anatomy, and as part of the mouth makes of an incredibly versatile sexual organ. The lips and tongue swell with blood and become flush with heat as the body is aroused by sexual desire. This engorging makes the mouth very sensitive, allowing your lips to kiss with great care, your tongue to lick and probe with a precision of which your fingers can only dream.

While some innuendo suggests that a long tongue is somehow a magical orgasm tool, the same way the large penis is lauded as the be all and end all of sexual pleasure, and the rumor is just as false. Your tongue isn’t even meant for inserting! Why would size matter?

The best kind of oral sex pleasure is received during full face contact with the clitoris and surrounding labia. The length of this particular love muscles is irrelevant, but the strength of it is another story all together! If you have never had a cramp in your face during oral sex, you are either very fit (and married to a very lucky woman) or you haven’t been trying hard enough.

The best practice for building up those oral sex muscles is…. oral sex! Of course, you probably don’t have time in your day for an hour long oral sex session each lunch hour. But if you could be exercising your tongue while sitting in the office thinking about going down on her, you will have worked up some strength and some stamina by the time you arrive home. Work at your tongue muscles with a few of these simple exercises to strengthen and tone, loosen and relax to improve your overall technique.

Start every exercise session or oral sex with some quick relaxation, simply tensing and releasing all of the muscles in the head, neck, jaw and shoulders. Allow your mouth to hang open and your tongue to loll out lightly. Gently pull your tongue in then let it fall back out of your mouth without tensing our pointing the tip.
Press your tongue up to the roof of your mouth, just behind your front teeth, then open your jaw as wide as possible, keeping your tongue pressed against the alveolar ridge. Hold for 3 to 5 seconds, or as long as possible, then release and repeat. When you have mastered this move, try running the tip of your tongue along the seam that runs across the top of the mouth from front to back, first with your mouth closed, then again with your mouth open wide.
Practice curling the tip of your tongue under, up to the roof of your mouth, in toward the middle to make a tube, stretching it up to touch your nose and reaching as far as you can in every direction. These are best practiced in private!
Point your tongue out in a flexed motion, stretching as far as you can, and wag it up and down as fast and for as long as you can. Rest and repeat. When you have mastered wagging up and down, try for side to side. After this, practice pointing and flexing your tongue while turning it in circles, first clockwise, then counter clockwise. Finally, try each of the moves – up and down, side to side, clockwise, counter clockwise – over again as you stretch your pointed tongue up towards your nose.
Use a small spoon as resistance to push against your tongue – up, down and from side to side – as it sticks out, flexed.
Hold a ballpoint pen between your lips with the spring-loaded button inside your mouth. Point your tongue and use it to press the button in, pushing the pen out. Repeat, snapping the pen back in. Do this as many times as you can, as quickly as possible.

 

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My darling, oral can become your biggest asset if you learn how to master the right techniques. To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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Many women find themselves suffering from a lack of confidence when the topic of oral sex comes up, worried about how they look, feel, taste or smell when their partner goes down. If your lover is having a difficult time feeling good about her precious parts, she might benefit from a bit of primping and preening… but there are so many options! What’s best for her?

Hair Removal

From a full bush to bare skin, and every amount of curly hair in between, women have a vast variety of ways they can tend, maintain or beautify their pubic hair. Most options come with some level of pain or discomfort, so not all women will be interested. Don’t pressure her if she doesn’t care about her hair! It is perfectly natural for a woman to have body hair… don’t forget it.

Shaving and Creams: if she shaves regularly and enjoys it as a beauty ritual, you may want to invest in a non-disposable safety razor. Get a high quality, natural shaving cream or lotion that will leave her skin feeling smooth and soft, and something antibacterial (and sweet smelling) like lavender to help prevent irritation. Suds up together and teach your partner how to shave you, then turn the tables and spend time shaving her. Be careful down there! Spend at least one or two shaving sessions just watching each others technique.
Waxing/Sugaring: Both waxing and sugaring use a liquid substance, placed flush on the skin (often with some kind of fabric on the outside layer), which cools and is then pulled away, tearing the hair roots from their follicles. Some women find it incredibly painful and others can tolerate it as a minor discomfort, depending on the characteristics of their hair. This method lasts a lot longer, but isn’t quite as sexy an experience to share, unless she’s into pain.
Threading and Depilation Devices: Similar to waxing, threading pulls hairs out by the root, but only a few at a time. A skilled practitioner can be much more efficient at threading than with a pair of tweezers. Depilation devices perform this same function at home, using motors and a textured “razor” style head to pull hair from the root with spot-application.
Laser Hair Removal: The next solution for the dedicated, laser hair removal is for those who don’t want to worry about ever shaving, waxing or ingrown hairs again. It can take a great deal of time to cover any significant area, and it is definitely pricey, but for those who are absolutely sure they won’t ever want to see that hair again, it can be a great treat.

For most women, removing some of the hair from the lower lips can greatly improve sensation and lubrication, but many don’t feel comfortable removing all their hair. Leaving a small bush on top, or the now infamous “landing strip” can be a great compromise. Don’t pressure her, but if you are going to discuss it, talk up the sensory benefits rather than your personal preferences. She wants to know what’s in it for her!

Body Art

Decorating the body is the next step after grooming for quite a few women, so it is no surprise that this urge often extends to their genitals. If you want to play with body art in the bedroom, try out these artistic endeavors.

Body Paint/Henna: Be sure to use non-toxic varieties. If you don’t care how long the paint lasts, try some edible body paints to brush on and lick right off!
Airbrushing/Tattoos: Temporary or permanent tattooing can be a wonderful way to dress up the body and personalize it. Vulva tattoos are definitely painful, over such a sensitive area! Whether you are considering something permanent, or just looking for a fancy way to dress up the view, airbrushed tattoos can make a lovely addition to any body. They are great for test-driving tattoo designs before taking the plunge.
Vajazzling is “The act of applying glitter and jewels to a woman’s bikini area for aesthetic purposes.“ Many women find this to be an incredibly erotic procedure which helps them to feel more confident in their naked bits! It is a great reason to encourage a bit of shared shaving, so long as you’re careful not to get glitter in your mouth when you finally stop admiring her beauty and go down.
Body Jewelery: Again, either temporary or permanent, genital jewelery is an incredibly intimate gift to give! From wearable clit-clips and clamps to permanent hood or labia rings, there are dozens of different ways to dress of a vulva with extra dangly bits. If you are interested in permanent genital jewelery, visit a piercing specialist to talk about the details. Costume jewelery for vulvas is available at most sex toy shops online.

Get pretty and get down!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more naughty secrets and tips and tricks on how to make cunnilingus sessions as hot as possible, check out my program on the subject – Oral Rapture.

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„I like to see oral sex and manual sex and intercourse as foreplay for my vibrator sex”- Betty Dodson

There’s a persistent myth floating around that women don’t really dig oral play, that all they really crave is intercourse. Not true. Not one bit true. The mix-up lies in the fact that women simply desire a different type of oral sex than men do- moves that take into account the way girls’ erogenous zones work and the specific touches they desire.

Bellow, I detail six woman-pleasing moves that will slowly bring her lust to a boil.

1) Really see her naked

Even if she’s stripped down with you before, there’s a good chance you never feasted your eyes on her completely bare body for more than a few seconds. Maybe it’s because she undresses quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for you to really take her in. But it’s a surefire arousal trigger for a woman.
When a woman sees desire in her lover’s eyes, her oxytocin levels rise, spiking her sex drive. Plus, she’ll feel sex-kittenish knowing you’re so mesmerized by how she looks naked. Therefore, the longer you let your eyes linger, the more aroused she’ll be.
While you’re on the bed, peel off her clothes slowly. Keep the lights on, so that you take in every inch of her body and she can see you doing it. Swivel her naked body around, so that you can view it from different angles, then lean in for a few close-ups.

2) Tell her how excited she gets you

Before any touching has taken place, lie close to your partner and whisper how hot she’s made you. Most women aren’t used to softer, sensual talk from their partners, so this will take her by surprise and create the much needed anticipation. Also, don’t be afraid to be explicit- for example, tell her how hard you are down bellow. Once she’s under your spell, graze your fingers precariously close to her private parts. By physically hinting at the action to come, her desire will be on fire.

3) Pleasure two body parts at the same time

After planting your lips lightly against hers, coax her tongue gently into yours. Gradually make your kiss more urgent by licking and then sucking the tip of her tongue. This suggests a primal kind of passion women love just as much as men.
While you’re thrilling her with your mouth, slowly move one hand down to her groin and cover her hot bits with your palm. As she gets more moist, build up to coarser, faster, tighter finger play. The duet of sensations above and bellow the belt will be ultra-pleasurable.

4) Lick her cut lines

Lots of women love it when a man teases the sensitive areas we call cut lines- the creases that separate a girl’s thighs from her torso. But most men don’t realize what intense erogenous zones they are. The ultimate take-her-prisoner move: while she’s on her back, scoot down so you can nibble and lick along one line, then the other. Soft touches like these warm up the skin and awaken the nerves, so you get her ready for more direct stimulation later. Boost her bliss even further by gliding your tongue along each crease while her knees are bent and her legs are spread slightly. This position will make her feel more vulnerable, magnifying every sensation your mouth makes.

5) A just-the-tip tease

Before she soaks up the entire bedding, go ahead and start licking her now more-than-eager vagina (its intense throbbing will demonstrate the sky high state of arousal you have brought her into). Form an upside-down V with your index and middle fingers and place it over her vaginal lips, as if framing them, and start licking inside. You can widen and constrict your fingers depending on exactly where you want her to feel your mouth. Plus, the feel of your hand on her labia increases her pleasure.

6) 69… but sideways

Women don’t want oral sex to be all about them (we’re generous like that!), so if you hint at trying 69, she’ll be more than happy to follow your lead. You already know the standard 69- she lying on top of you while pleasing each other orally- is smoking hot. What you may not be aware of is that it can be difficult for a woman to position herself at the angle that feels awesome for you but doesn’t result in muscle strains for her.
So try this 69 spin: you and your partner lie on your sides, your face by her pelvis and vice versa, each of you bending one knee so you form a triangle-like frame around your private parts. This gives you better access to her V yone, so you can pleasure her for a longer period of time as well as see her facial expressions and watch how blissed out she is.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Giving her an oral orgasm will help relax her body and actually prime her for another orgasm later in your sack session. For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.

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Gentlemen, are you one of the many, MANY men out there who has questions about performing oral sex on a woman? If so, you are certainly not alone. Questions about giving a woman oral pleasure are as common as stars in the sky. What do they like? What do they not like? How do I do it? The questions go on and on. The smart men know how to look for the answers and finding your way here is a good start.

Is Everyone Doing It?

The truth is, oral sex is one of the most common sexual behaviors. However, for some reason, a lot of men lack confidence when it comes to working below the female equator with anything but their penis. Oral sex can be particularly nerve racking for some men. But why? Come on guys, giving a woman pleasure through oral sex is not as difficult as you may think it is! No need to shy away from it.

The Heart of the Matter

Women love oral sex. Not only does it show them that their partner is accepting of their body and willing to give them pleasure, it feels wonderful! More women climax through oral sex than intercourse. So many women are taught that their bodies, especially their genitals, are dirty and something to be ashamed of. They worry about how they look, feel, taste and smell. When a man goes down on a woman, she often sees it as a bigger act of intimacy than intercourse. She can feel especially vulnerable as the focus of pleasure is all on her at that moment and many women are not comfortable in this role.  Part of your job is to make her comfortable so she can enjoy the pleasure you want to give her.

Finding Your Way Around

By far, one of the most important things you can do to increase your oral sex skills is to get to know your woman’s anatomy.  When you are trying to make her crazy with pleasure pause a moment and take a good look down there. Find her clitoral hood. As you stimulate her, it retracts and the clitoris comes out and gets erect. Get to know her entire genital area, her labia, vagina and anus included. Knowing what you are working with is a must if you are going to have any ability to give her pleasure. Going in blind only makes things more difficult.

Slow, Slower and Slowest

First, start slowly. No need to dive right in. Let her anticipation and arousal grow. Slowly undress her and have her lay on her back. Kiss your way ever so slowly down from her lips to her neck, then her breasts and tummy until you get to her genitals. Kiss the inside of her thighs while using your finger to lightly stimulate her clitoris. Then head back up to her lips. Repeat this trail of pleasure as many times as you like, or rather as she likes.

A Compromising Position

Second, remember the importance of positioning. Make good use of the pillows on the bed and put a couple under her hips to elevate her pelvis. This gives you easier access to her sweet spots and you won’t have to feel like you are sheet diving when trying to reach important areas.

A Warm Wind Blows

Third, think about different ways to give sensations to her clitoris. Try gently blowing warm air on her clitoris while you are kissing inside her thighs and getting her excited. Not necessarily directly on her clitoris but maybe in small circles around it and on the insides of her thighs.

Wet your Whistle

Performing oral sex on someone while you have dry mouth is setting yourself up for an epic fail. Not only does it make it hard for you but it feels terrible for her. A dry tongue feels like sandpaper against a clitoris. Make sure you are hydrated. Take a drink of water or suck on some hard candy to keep the juices in your mouth flowing so you can keep the juices between her legs flowing.

With some effort on your part to make her pleasure a priority, there is no reason why your oral sex skills cannot increase tenfold. Remember that diversity is the spice of life so do not be afraid to mix it up and try something new. If it doesn’t go as planned the first time, keep trying. She will appreciate your effort and know you really care about her pleasure.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My darling, oral can become your biggest asset if you learn how to master the right techniques. To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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“My mother told me that life isn’t always about pleasing yourself and that sometimes you have to do things for the sole benefit of another human being. I completely agreed with her, but reminded her that that was what blow jobs were for.” – Chelsea Handler

Naughty girls can teach good boys a few things about oral, and sex in general. And when I say naughty girls I don’t mean Playboy bunnies, porn starlets or Pamela Anderson, mind you. I mean girls who know what they want in bed and are not afraid to say it in their most awesome and desirable orgasm voice. If enjoying sex makes me, for example, a bad girl, I’m more than happy to assume the title, thank you very much. Therefore, in order to help you put you’re A game when it comes to toe curling cunnilingus, I’ve talked to women and asked them bluntly what it is that they want. Their answers are simple and all you have to do is follow them “a la lettre”.

1)    Verbalize. Understand this is an immutable truth: when it comes to oral sex, women want to be sure you’re feeling pleasure as well. Otherwise we’ll start thinking we’ve somehow forced you into doing what you otherwise wouldn’t and we won’t get any pleasure at all from the entire experience. Only when you are satisfied and we can see our down there region and what you’re doing with it have made you satisfied, will we be truly satisfied ourselves. So speak up. Talk to us during oral sex. Tell us what you want to do to us next, how good you feel when you kiss us there and you touch us like this. But without babbling. Nothing’s worse than running commentary, fake smiles or insincerity. Also, ask us if we’d like something different, if there’s a certain touch we’re fond of or certain moves that are proved to get us there. We’d love the same openness when we perform oral sex on you. If we’re not hitting the right spot, we want you to point us the right direction. All penises are different. Sometimes even the most experienced women can find themselves lost down there.

2)    Remember there are other spots too. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but simplicity isn’t always the answer when it comes to oral sex. It’s not enough to just suck on the tiny clitoris like there’s no tomorrow and expect a woman to be done in sixty seconds. Use your fingers and palms to arouse the entire vaginal area, not only the clitoris. Also, practice double arousal movements, for example massage our thighs and buttocks while you’re swirling your tongue up and down our vaginal lips. And don’t forget our breasts! Nothing will gratify a woman more than a man who pays attention to her entire body. This means taking it slower and building arousal step by step, which is the most important thing when it comes to how a woman is supposed to enjoy the full oral experience. And try to maintain some level of eye contact while you’re down there (we’ll thank you later).

3)    Initiate. When it comes to oral sex, don’t expect a woman to bluntly ask for it. She’d rather go without. Be the lead dance partner in this game and she’ll thank you for it. Place your hand under our skirt while we’re still at the dinner table. Stop us on the way to the bedroom, push us against a wall and go down on us. Stop mid-session, take us to the bed and continue. Be just as audacious as you’d be when it comes to sex itself. Tie our wrists to the bedposts, blindfold us. An assertive man, especially as far as oral sex is concerned, is very appealing.

4)    Don’t forget the love. Inside every bad girl is a soft center as well. She might want it hard and aloof a lot of the time, but at the end of the day she’s just as vulnerable and sensitive as any other woman. She wants love too. She’s just prepared to enjoy herself in the process of finding it. It just boils down to one thing in the end: a woman is looking for great sex with intimacy, empathy and attraction. If the physical and mental attraction is there, the sex is electric, the post-coital conversations are entertaining, and if you spoon, she’ll love you forever. Love is everything, even for sex crazed people.

Have a spectacular week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. You might think it’s kinky, animalistic, and “out there”, but it’s not a woman’s idea of a great time to be pulled into a French kiss straight after you’ve swallowed her juices. We love that you do that, don’t get me wrong – but the last thing we want to do is taste our own sort of ejaculation. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about oral sex CLICK HERE NOW!

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