“Remember, if you smoke after sex, you’re doing it too fast” – Woody Allen

Behold! All the latest sexy, fascinating and useful pieces of information you’ve ever wanted to know about female anatomy, your own, and the awesomeness of sex itself, plus a few “what-the-hell-is-going-on” surprises. Because the more you know, the more you O!

A woman’s breasts can swell up to 25 per cent when she’s aroused, making them super sensitive. Plus, nipple stimulation activates the same part of the brain as clitoral, vaginal and cervical stimulation – so engaging all of them at once makes for a whole lot of fun.
The average speed of a guy’s ejaculation is 45 km/h. And semen can keep the smile of your partner looking gorgeous. It contains zinc and calcium that fight tooth decay. At the same time, know that semen isn’t low carb – it’s mostly made of sugar. Also, it’s possible for you to orgasm and not ejaculate. So if she doesn’t see any, uh, evidence, calm her down, that doesn’t mean you were faking it. This is a piece of information worth sharing with your partner, since the majority of women have no idea this actually happens.
Nerve endings in the clitoris extend out to the mons pubis (where a woman’s pubic hair grows), which is why grinding against you feels so good for a woman. Therefore, even though the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings and it doesn’t stop growing (by age 32, a woman’s clitoris is four times larger than it was at puberty, that’s why a woman’s odds of climaxing increase as she ages), resist the temptation to just hit the jackpot. Diversity is always good.
Not only does it feel amazing, your orgasm also has other things going for it. It releases endorphins, which are natural painkillers, and oxytocin, which makes you feel more connected as a couple and overall happier. The National Bureau of Economic Research in the US found that having sex often can make you feel as happy as earning an extra 100,000 $ a year does. Even though the typical female orgasm lasts 25 seconds (boo-hoo!), all these feel-good hormones rush through her entire body in no time. Also, studies show that sex can boost your immune system while sex during her period can ease menstrual cramps.
She can amp up your pleasure during oral sex by stroking your inner thighs. Because this area is so close to your genitals, the extra flow of blood will heighten your sensations. Also, she can apply a minty lip balm before kissing – it will send tingles to your package. If you’re close to climaxing, she can buy some time by squeezing the head of your penis. If she’s the one prone to not lasting very longer during oral, tell her to sprinkle salt on her tongue before going at it. It helps lessen her gag reflex. Another tip: touching the sides of your torso triggers a nerve that makes your erection harder.
Thrusting flexes a woman’s pelvic floor muscles, which triggers orgasmic spasms. That’s why a woman can feel that she has an overall orgasm during the whole period of having sex, if your technique of thrusting is really amazing. Also, compliments in bed make her more likely to orgasm. Another piece of quirky information: a woman is more likely to orgasm if her feel are warm, so even though socks are the least sexy item in the bedroom repertoire, have her wear them during sex. It will feel more amazing than ever. If you want to be the one that makes her temperature rise, touch her chest of face, it’s more effective than touching her arms or hands.
Research shows that men who have sex within a relationship report greater pleasure than guys who have no-strings-attached sex. That’s because having sex at a certain pace and with a certain constancy helps. Sex three to five times a week can also prevent erectile dysfunctions, as it keeps your package in shape. Also, your relationship happiness is related to how often you’re touched by your girl. So grab away. Especially since hugging for 30 seconds is also a good way to get in the mood. Cuddling boosts oxytocin (aka the bonding hormone) and libido.
Women can have wet dreams too. It happens in the REM cycle (about 90 minutes into her sleep), when blood flow to the vagina increases. Also, fourteen per cent of women have experiences a “zone orgasm”, which happens when a part of the body other than the boobs or vagina are stimulated. Another good news for your lady counterpart: core-gasms do exist. In a recent study, 51 per cent of women reported having an orgasm during an abdominal exercise. And it’s not just for crunches. 20 per cent said they’ve experienced orgasm while practicing yoga.
A guy whose girlfriend hangs out with his mates too much is 92 per cent more likely to have difficulties getting erect, because he feels emasculated. So be careful before you change your partner into “one of the guys”.
Eating celery while with your partner? You may want to jump her – the vegetable releases odors that make you horny.
When you kiss someone, you exchange hormonal and health information. It’s nature’s way of allowing you to assess if you click sexually. A good sexual match is more important to women than to men. Fifty per cent of women say bad sex is a relationship deal breaker, but only 44 per cent of guys agree.
If you find it hard to stay hard, avoid girl-on-top as your penis will be fighting gravity. Also, don’t hold your breath during sex. The more oxygen that gets to your genitals, the more aroused you’ll be.
Women with a more prominent upper-lip tubercle (the puffy spot) have greater odds of having an orgasm.
Sex can actually blow your mind: transient amnesia (temporary memory loss) can be triggered by wild sex.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Forty-six per cent of Americans think they are more likely to see Bigfoot than to climax at the exact same time as their partner. I guess they haven’t been reading my column. For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.

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“Sex is like washing your face – just something you do because you have to.” – Sophia Loren There’s a whole wide – and wild – world of naughty knowledge out there that even a carnally curious dude like yourself hasn’t been clued in on. For an erotic education, read on.

You’ve probably heard that it takes 20 minutes for a woman to get aroused. But using thermal imaging of people’s bodies, researchers at McGill University determined that women get aroused as rapidly as men do – in about 11 to 12 minutes.
Research shows that lying down can dampen sensitivity to smell and sound. So missionary is not going to be as multi-sensory as a position in which you’re able to sit up.
A survey by the Family Planning Association in the U.K. found that condom failure often occurs because the prophylactic is too big (and winds up slipping off)  or too small (and winds up tearing). So take your ego out of the equation and make sure your rubber fits like a glove.
Scatophilia: sexual gratification from talking about naughty or obscene matters with a stranger, often by telephone.
In Uganda, many young women pinch and apply a mixture of herbs to their labia to elongate them. They believe men find this attractive.
One unconventional way to prevent pregnancy: polyester undies for you. According to research, men who wore polyester underwear became temporarily sterile, possibly due to abnormally high testicular temps and electromagnetic fields.
Why does semen sometimes have a bleach-like smell? It’s due to the chemical spermine, a natural disinfectant that buffers the sperm from vaginal acids.
She’s having trouble getting turned on? Before you assume it has to do with you, consider changing her birth controls. The combination of hormones in different pills can have a marked effect on her level of arousal, including the amount of natural lubrication her body produces.
Ultrasound tests have revealed that male fetuses are capable of getting erections during the last trimester.
A University of Florida study found that narcissists are more likely to have casual sex. Apparently, these self-involved folks look at sex in terms of power, not caring and love.
In ancient Athens, a cheating male was sometimes punished by having his pubic hair removed and a large radish inserted into his rectum.
Yes, it is possible to have too much of a good thing. One rare but very real problem for some women is PSAS (persistent sexual arousal syndrome). Those affected experience constant sexual excitement that cannot be relieved by orgasm.
For some women, the hottest time to have sex is in the middle of their cycles. During the second week (day 11 to 15 leading ovulation), she’s bursting with estrogen and testosterone, making her especially sensitive to touch.
Interspecies sex is a known phenomenon. For example, polar bears have gotten down with grizzlies.
In Thailand, males are offered free vasectomies on the king’s birthday – often, more than 1,000 are performed in his honor.
A male experiences an average of four to five nocturnal erections while he’s sleeping.
A Durex Global sex survey found that Greeks are having more sex on average than any other nationality. They are followed closely by Croatians.
The length of a flaccid penis has no direct correlation to the size of the same penis when erect.
If your partner is a bike rider, she may seriously want to consider taking up a new sport. A study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women who participate in competitive bicycling experience decreased genital sensation.
German researchers have found that a woman’s libido begins to drop once she’s in a secure relationship. After four years together, less than half of the study’s female participants wanted sex as often as their partners did.
Among the nobility in 18th century, it was common for a married woman to hire a cicisbeo – a male escort, confidant and lover.
Stress and pelvic tension can cause men’s penises to shorten. On the flip side, a relaxed pelvis can help increase penis length.
According to research, the most common erotic fantasy is sex with a past, present or imaginary partner.
A study done at Wilkes University found that college students who had sex once or twice a week had 30 percent more immunoglobulin A, which boosts your immune system.
A small number of women are allergic to semen. Proteins from a man’s prostate gland can result in itching, burning, and hives both on the genitals and other parts of the body.

Have a great week, Gabrielle Moore P.S. Knowledge is power when it comes to sex as well. Who knows when you are going to find these tidbits of information particularly useful, right? If you want to know how to give her amazing squirting orgasms, check out my program “Sizzling Squirting Positions“.

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“The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform.” – Alfred Kinsey

They are chic, sleek and used by nearly half the population and can totally help you and your partner spice up your sex life. I’m talking about vibrators, and if your only related experience involved a threatening penis-shaped slab of plastic, you’re missing out. Not only are the most recent vibes to hit the market way more aesthetically pleasing, but they were created by designers to make contact with your partner’s body (and yours!) in the most nerve-tingling ways.

Erotic… and elegant

What sparked the change? It started back with Sex and the City. Seeing a character like Charlotte get acquainted with a vibrator helped break stigma on sex toys. The trouble was, there wasn’t a large selection of sophisticated products available at the time. Enter designers who realized that they could apply their eye for luxe design to the untapped sex-toy market. In 2002, a few years after Charlotte got her buzz on, Ethan Imboden, an industrial designer, began fielding client requests for custom-designed vibrators. Women wanted sex toys that looked sexy, not scary. This realization caused him to start up Jimmy Jane, an upscale vibrator company based in San Francisco.

Imboden and other designers – including Suki Dunham or OhMiBod and Nomi Tang, creator of vibrators like Better Than Chocolate – began doing research with sex experts for insight into the ideal vibrator. They quickly discovered that penetration isn’t necessarily the most effective pathway to pleasure. Many women tell me the best sensations from their vibrators come when they’re being used by their partners around the clitoris and vulva. These revelations led to a new generation of toys that hit all of a woman’s hot spots and are worthy of displaying on your bedside table. For example, the Jimmy-Jane 2 vibrator looks like a postmodern sculpture of a rabbit – with each ear designed to stimulate either side of her clitoris.

Welcome to orgasm central

Even if she’s one of those lucky chicks who can climax quickly, you owe it to her to help her experience a vibrator-induced orgasm. That’s because there are actually nerve endings surrounding the clitoris that respond best to the speed and strength of vibrations, so she will be experiencing pleasure she wouldn’t feel through sex or manual masturbation.

And if reaching an O can be elusive, spending time experimenting with a vibe can give you insight into where she needs to be touched to trigger the big release. Once you’re ID-ed those precise areas, it makes it that much easier for you to follow lead. Not peaking due to a mental block? Using a vibe in front of you is a great way for her to let go like never before. A lot of women have trouble reaching orgasm in front of their partner, because they’re either self-conscious or overwhelmed by so many sensations. Focusing on her own needs can sometimes be just what she needs to lose her inhibitions. Try it out by asking her to give you a sexy show, which will double as a hot-for-teacher tutorial. Watch then take the lead to demonstrate what you gleaned from viewing her technique.

Toys for two

While vibes can help women get through a dry spell or over the, ahem, hump of performance anxiety, they can be just as essential in a long term relationship. A study has found that almost 40 percent of women have used a vibrator with a partner, during either foreplay or intercourse. Some tricks to try: Alternate oral sex with vibrator strokes to her labia, or hold it in the palm of your hands as you stroke her down there with your fingers. Or consider a couple vibe, like the innovative We-Vibe, which she uses while you’re inside her. One end of the toy touched her clitoris, and the other buzzes against her G-spot. Adding this toy to your sexual arsenal guarantees plenty of hot hookups. Which is much more than I can say for sexting.

Have a hot week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you end up inviting your vibrator into the action, make sure it receives the role of a supporting player, not the main course. I recommend taking a look at my program – Lusty Vibrations. In this program, you’ll learn exactly how to choose the perfect sex toys, and how to use the most discreet and powerful vibrators to blow her mind!

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„Ok, oral sex does not mean talking about it.”

Statistics show that men receive fellatio more than women receive cunnilingus (aka, muffin-diving). I have no idea where these statistics came from, but I’m just going to go right ahead and assume that it’s true. I’m also going to propose that we do something about that. It should at the very least be equal. So, guys, shave that beard and trim those fingernails because you are about to get sticky.

1. “Easy does’er.”
Arouse her slowly by kissing her and stroking the back of her neck. Touch her breasts lightly and begin kissing her face, neck and earlobes. Let your hand trail down and stroke her breasts, from the nipples down to the crease where her breast meets her body.

2. “I’m moving south.”
Gently trail your finger from her tummy to her groin. Lightly touch her over top of the panties and down at the crease where the thigh meets the pubic area. Move down and begin kissing her breasts, stomach and inner thighs. Move down even further and lightly brush your mouth against her area over the panties.

3. “You won’t be needing these.”
Remove her panties, but don’t do anything just yet. Let the air hit her wet pussy. Start teasing her again by kissing and licking her inner things and the crease. Go further in, gradually, by licking the outer lips of her labia and the inner lips around the vagina.

4. “We’re goin’ in.”
Open her up with your thumbs and lick her clitoris very softly. Focus on the hood, which is just above the clitoris. If the clit isn’t fully aroused, it’ll be too sensitive for direct contact just yet. NOTE: You can tell if she is fully aroused when her clit is erect and her labia swelled. Then, and only then, can you go in with tongues and fingers ablazin’!

5. “With tongue.”  

a) Spell out the alphabet with your tongue. You can make them wide to cover the whole vaginal area and/or make them small, focusing more on the clit. Variety of stimulation is key.

b) Flatten your tongue and lap her up, from her perineum (the skin that runs from her anus to the opening of her vagina) to her clit. Mix it up with some more alpahbet licks.

c) Lick the inside of her vagina while rubbing your nose around her clit. Get your whole face in there and shake it from side to side.

d) Roll your tongue into a tube around her clit and slide it back and forth.

6. “And now for some fingers.” 

a) Place your mouth around her clit and suck on it while flicking it with your tongue. At the same time, insert your thumb into the opening of her vagina.

b) Insert just the tip of your index finger into her vagina and move it around in circles. The spot just inside her opening is very sensitive.

c) Rub your thumbs in little circles around the clit while licking the head with a pointed tongue.

d) Insert your fingers deep inside her and make a “come hither” motion. This should hit her g-spot.

7. “Back in five.”

Since women are capable of having one orgasm after another, you can start from the beginning and do it all over again. What can I say? I guess we’re just lucky that way.

Like men, women enjoy eye contact while receiving oral sex, so crouch down between her spread legs while she’s lying flat on her back. Listen carefully to the sounds she makes. Obviously, if she sounds excited, continue doing what you’re doing. If she doesn’t, try a different variation. And be open for suggestions, as some women like to direct. And hey, have fun down there. Don’t worry, you’ll get your turn eventually.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

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If you haven’t already learned that amazing oral sex is fundamental to pleasing your woman, I’m here to tell you: IT IS. As we have mentioned in several of our other articles, many women can’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone, so it’s up to you to find other ways to please her. The percentage of women who orgasm from oral sex is significantly higher than that of vaginal sex, so if you’re thinking of polishing up on your oral sex skills, you’re on the right track. Only 30% of women say they can cum from vaginal sex alone, while 80% say they can cum from oral, and 70% of men and women prefer oral sex to intercourse.

Oral sex is usually done in the traditional way. The woman lies on her back, spreads her legs open and her man gets in between and goes to town. But guess what? Just like there are other positions to stimulate better sex, there are other oral sex positions that will have her clutching the sheets and moaning for more, more, MORE.

On the edge… With this position the woman lies on the bed with her butt just at the edge and her legs hanging down. You will get down on your knees in front of her on the floor. Remember to put a pillow or some kind of cushioning under your knees. This gives you the perfect angle and view of her vulva without having to hunch over her in bed and strain your back. Instead of having to use your arms and hands to prop yourself up like in the tradition position, they will be totally free to stroke her thighs, stimulate her nipples, and finger her. This position doesn’t have to just be used in bed either, it’s the perfect position to try out when you’re trying to get out of the rut of bedroom sex. Prop her up on your office desk, your kitchen counter, the dining room table, a lawn chair out in your backyard… get creative!
A new take on doggystyle – This is just how you might have imagined it. She gets on all fours on the bed and you give her oral sex from behind. A lot of men love this position because it gives them that irresistible view of their woman from behind and on all fours. One downside is that your partner might get tired holding herself up on all fours while you’re going to town. If that’s the case prop up a few pillows and have her lean on top of them so that her butt sticks up high in the air. This has two benefits. First, as we mentioned, it might be more comfortable for her. And second, leaning down in this way gives you better access to her clitoris. This position also has the benefit of giving you full access to her butt and if you’re interested in trying out anallingus, this is a great position for you.
Sit on my face – We’ve all heard the saying before, but it’s actually a very erotic and sexy position as well. You lie down on the bed and she straddles your head and lowers herself down so that her vulva is right in your face. This allows her maximum control over the intensity of your tongue and you get to lie back and enjoy the view! Make sure she has something comfortable under her knees (like a pillow) so she can relax and let go.
Assisted 69 – You have probably tried the 69 position before. You may have loved it in theory, but it’s sometimes hard to manage comfortably. The assisted 69, on the other hand, is comfortable and easy and best of all, HOT! You should lie on your back on the couch with your butt against the end of the couch and your legs draped over the arm of the couch. She will straddle your head and position herself accordingly to give you head at the same time. The couch will sustain you and keep you both in position.
The lazy giver – Don’t worry, you’re not actually going to be lazy with this one, but you will be more comfortable and therefore probably do a much better job! Have her lie on her side with her top leg bent to give you access to her vulva. You will also lie down on your side right in front of her. Use a pillow to prop up your head if you don’t quite reach. This will keep your neck and back from killing you after a while of pleasuring her.

 

Good luck trying out these sexy oral positions, men! I’d love to hear what your partners had to say about them in the comments section below.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

PS. Don’t forget that communication is key to pleasure. Ask her if a new position is working for her or how you can modify it to maximize her enjoyment! To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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“Real sex is as much about reciprocity as it is exploration and if you need a reason to resent a man later on, just consider the guy who doesn’t believe in cunnilingus…” ? Roberto Hogue

Okay, men, what is better than oral sex? Seriously, can you think of a single thing? Most guys love getting a great blow job, and it’s not any different for women. Oral sex is the sexual act where one person can just lay back, relax and completely receive from their partner. As the giver, performing oral sex can be the ultimate gift. The only problem with oral sex? All that giving can be tiring. Your mouth gets tired, your arms get tired from propping yourself up, and it can turn a sexy gift into “can we just get on with it, please??” Here are 5 amazing new oral sex positions to change things up and avoid stiff necks and backs!

1. Over the edge – In this hot position the woman lies down on her back on the bed and scoots her butt to the edge so that her legs are hanging off the end. You sit or kneel on the floor in front of her. There are several benefits to this position. 1) You don’t have to prop yourself up with your arms so they are free to finger her or touch her anywhere you want. 2) It’s also less tiring because you can sit and have full access without bending over. 3) If her butt slightly hangs off the bed you can also have access to her butt for some anal play. *Tip* Place a pillow under yourself to make it more comfortable, especially if you’re kneeling.

2. Oral Doggy Style – As you would expect, this one has the woman in the doggy style position and you’re behind her going down. Men love this one because it gives a great, sexy view of their partner and they have full access to her vulva, clitoris, vagina, butt and anus. It’s all right there on display for you. *Tip* Instead of having her on all fours , try having her bend down to rest her elbows and forearms on the bed. This will be much more comfortable for her and it will give you a better angle to reach her clitoris. This position also doesn’t have to be just done on the bed. She can bend over the arm of the couch, the kitchen table or any other spot to change up the location and make things a little more exciting!

3. The Sidecar Oral – In this position she lies down on her side, bends her top leg at the knee and places her foot flat on the bed. You lie down on your side with your head right at her crotch. This is very comfortable for both partners. You won’t get tired out propping yourself up and you won’t wake up with a terribly stiff neck. Make sure she really opens up that leg so you can get right in there. Hook your top arm around her leg to grab her ass. You can also use that free arm to stimulate her breasts, finger her or anything else you’d like to do.

4. Puzzle piece 69 – The 69 position is another popular favorite because it means you get to enjoy a little of your own oral sex while also going down on your partner. This particular version of the 69 is the best and most comfortable way to do it. You fit together like perfect puzzle pieces. First the man lies down on the couch upside down, meaning that his legs are draped over the back of the couch and his back and head are resting on the seat. Your butt should be scooted to the back of the couch just like you are sitting upside down on the couch. Then your partner will straddle your face and bend over to go down on you. This position is more relaxing and much easier to stay in place than doing it in bed.

5. Sit on my face – This is another favorite among men. In this one you’re lying down on the bed and she’s kneeling over you, straddling your face. She lowers down onto your mouth and you get to work. This is super comfortable for the man since you are the one who gets to lie back, but it’s also highly erotic. One thing to keep in mind with this position is that it might not be comfortable for very long for her. If she seems to be getting weak in the knees (literally) then it might be time to change to one of these other positions.

Have fun, boys! Remember, you will have an extremely thankful partner if you try out one of these steaming hot oral positions tonight!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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They say that oral sex and finger stimulation go together like bread and butter, like peanut butter and jelly, or like… well, you get the idea. And if you haven’t heard that one before, believe me it’s true. Oral sex is fabulous. Finger stimulation is fabulous. And together? I can guarantee you that it’s better than any old peanut butter and jelly sandwich you’ve ever had! Combining fingering techniques with oral will take it to the next level. Today I’m going to share some of the best combination techniques out there.

You might not know this yet, but when it comes to clitoral stimulation, variation is key. If you don’t vary your technique then you might end up numbing the area from the same repetitive motion. Obviously that’s the last thing you want. Changing the sensation slightly can have an amazing effect. Try out these four incredible techniques to have her crazy with lust in no time:

1. Check under the hood – With this first technique it’s important to review a little bit of the female anatomy. Like the penis, the clitoris has something similar to foreskin, which goes over the glans to protect it from over stimulation. This is called the clitoral hood. If you gently pull back the skin that covers the clitoral glans you will leave it exposed and can do some gentle, but very rewarding stimulation. Here’s how it works. First you need to get her very turned on. Since it is a sensitive area immediately stimulating it will be way too sensitive to be pleasurable and might even be painful. So, begin by using your favorite foreplay techniques to get her really excited. Then when you have made your way downtown you can try this technique out. Ever so gently pull the clitoral hood partially back. Very quickly dart your tongue over her exposed clit, pausing between flicks of your tongue and changing the direction. Do this ever so gently since this is a sensitive area. Do it too hard and it won’t feel good at all. Once you notice that she is pushing up toward you, asking for more with her body, return the clitoral hood to its position and return to giving her regular oral and methodically finger her until she cums.

2. Onward and upward – With this technique you’re going to sweep your tongue gently and slowly up underneath her clitoris, over and over again. You might be tempted to go harder and faster, but this slow, deliberate and gentle movement will build up an incredible and intense orgasm that will have her tingling all over her body. Remember, keep it gentle and slow even when it seems she wants more! Once you start getting a really positive response, take it to the next level by inserting one finger. Continue the same movement with your mouth, but now add G spot stimulation with your forefinger. Methodically tap her G spot from inside as you go down on her until she just can’t take it anymore.

3. Wrap her up – Sometimes you don’t even need the power of the combo pack to get her really hot and bothered. Start out in the following sexy and intimate position. You will sit on the bed leaning back on a few pillows. Open your legs and have her sit between them so that she can lean back on you. This position gives you full access to touching her body all over. Not only do you have total access, but you also have a fantastic view of her hot bod AND this position is extremely intimate since she will be totally wrapped up in your body. Slide your hands down her body and begin gently massaging her clitoris and vulva with gentle, slow circles. Make sure you use plenty of lube and don’t touch her too hard or fast. Take your time and really explore her clitoris and vulva, paying close attention to what parts get the best reactions.

4. Hands on, Hands off – For the technique we’re going to try a combo stimulation that allows you to take a little break when your mouth gets tired. You’ll start with oral sex alone, making gentle circular movements over and around her clitoris. Once she is really turned on you will insert on finger and move it slowly in and out as you make circles with your tongue. When you need a little break, use your thumb to gently massage her clit as you finger her. Make sure that it’s nice and lubricated.

Okay, guys, I’m not going to keep you a minute longer from trying out these amazing techniques. Have a blast! I can’t wait to hear how she rewards you after you try these out!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Oral sex is an amazing thing. It feels wonderful and for women, it’s an incredibly intimate act. Some women will feel seriously vulnerable with you down between her legs. Others might feel seriously powerful. Have you ever wondered what she might be thinking and feeling about your work down there? If you’re at all doubtful about your skills, or even if you just want to brush up and improve your method, you need to check out my list of oral sex tips. Here we go…

It’s intimate, VERY INTIMATE – For women, having a man’s face right up in her vulva is a very intimate experience. Women will likely feel very differently than men about it. She might love it, but most women will have a least a little bit of insecurity or reservations about you being that close. She might be self conscious of her odor or the way her vulva looks. Just remember to never make anything but positive comments about her nether regions and you’ll be good to go. You don’t want her worrying what you think when you’re down there, you just want her to enjoy the ride. Let her know how much you love going down on her by telling her how much it turns you on and how much you like it.

Don’t suck hard – When a woman is going down on you, you might like her to suck with gusto, but the clitoris is much more sensitive and sucking on it vigorously is probably going to feel pretty uncomfortable and possibly even hurt. Sucking ever so lightly will provide an incredibly delicious sensation that will drive her wild.

Just because she doesn’t ask for it, doesn’t mean she doesn’t want it – Many women feel embarrassed asking for oral sex or admitted just how much they love it. They might not want to say they would love you to do it more, but chances are, they do! Make it a regular thing and you will have one happy woman on your hands!

Let her finish – Oral can be a great warm up before vaginal intercourse, but a lot of women don’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone. If you use oral only as a warm up then she might be missing out on her big O. Let her finish before moving on to sex. Or you can also finish her off with oral sex after vaginal sex.

Don’t worry too much about your fingers – A lot of guys try to finger a woman fast and hard while they’re going down on her. A finger inside her can feel amazing, but you don’t need to put all your focus on your fingering and you don’t need to go fast and hard. Just the slightest in and out movement will provide great stimulation.

Use it frequently – Although it’s amazing to finish oral sex when you start it, you can also use it during sex when you’re changing positions or need to take a break (Think: if you’re on the verge of cumming and you don’t want to).

Take your time – Another thing women worry about is taking too long. Ironically, her worrying about taking too long will usually make things take even longer! She’ll be so worried that you’re getting bored, your mouth is sore, your back hurts, or you’re just over it that she won’t even be able to fully enjoy it. Make sure you never rush her and you just enjoy it no matter how long it takes. Never ask, “are you almost done?” as that sends a clear message that you’re ready for her to be done. Instead you can reassure her by saying things like, “God, I love this, I could do it all night,” even if you really couldn’t!

Magic fingers – If your mouth is getting tired and you need a little break, use the pad of your thumb to gently massage her clitoris. The change in sensation will usually escalate things for her if you do it the right way and it gives you a chance to rest your tongue for a minute. However, she probably prefers your hot, wet tongue to the pad of your thumb so as soon as you’re ready, dive back in there.

These are all the things she wants you to know about oral sex, but she may not have the nerve to tell you. Remember these tidbits and memorize these tips and your lady will be very satisfied.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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What can a guy do to make sure he is a master at oral pleasure? Learning all the best techniques and figuring out what your partner loves is definitely at the top of the list, but there is also something else. Do you ever find your mouth and tongue getting sore and tired, but your partner isn’t nearly ready to finish? Do you feel like there must be something else you can do to secure your spot as the best oral sex giver she’s ever had? Well, I’ve got the answers for you in today’s article.

The tongue is a muscle, so if you think about it, exercising it, just like any other muscle in your body, is going to result in a stronger, more powerful muscle. Having a stronger tongue muscle will not only ensure that you won’t get tired out quickly during oral sex, but it will also ensure that you’re providing the best oral ever. Here’s what you have to do…

* Practice these exercises at least once a day. For best results, practice once in the morning and again at night. Factor them into your daily routine by setting a time that you do them everyday. For example, right when you wake up in the morning and are still lying in bed and right before you go to sleep. If it helps you can also set a reminder on your phone.

1. Curl your tongue up so that the tip is pushing against the roof of your mouth. Flex your tongue so that it is both pushing up to the roof of your mouth and trying to push out of your mouth. Hold this for 2 seconds and release. Repeat this 8 times.

2. Use an object (like a spoon) to push down on the top of your tongue while you push up with your tongue. Repeat this 8 times.

3. Stick your tongue all the way out of your mouth and extend it as far to the right as possible completely flexed. Now move it as far the the left as possible and move it back and forth from right to left and left to right hitting each corner 8 times.

4. Place your index finger on the outside of your cheek. Then push against the tip of your finger as hard as you can with the tip of your tongue. Hold it for 2 seconds and then release. Do this 8 times on each side.

5. Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as it will go. Flex it completely out, then flex it completely flat. Alternate 8 times in each position.

6. Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as it will go and move it flexed up and down as far as you can 8 times in each direction.

For an extra fun exercise that you might not have time to do every day, try your oral skills on a piece of fruit. I like to suggest a soft fruit with soft skin, like a peach. Once you have broken through the skin you can continue to lick and suck your way to the core… but no biting allowed! Use other food to practice as well. You might want to do this alone, as it could look pretty strange to have a man going to town on a piece of fruit! You can also try applying chocolate syrup, honey or something else sticky that you have to lick clean using only your tongue.

The final and best way to exercise your tongue in the exact way that you will use it during oral sex is to GIVE MORE ORAL SEX! Nothing will compare to the exercise and movements that you do when you’re actually down there, but the above exercises will definitely help you out a ton if you do them every day. However, if you find that you are out of practice when you bury your head between her legs, it might just mean that you’re not down there nearly enough! It’s time to start “practicing” more on the real thing. I’m guessing she won’t complain one bit. For optimal exercise (and satisfaction), try to go down on her once a week until she comes. You can of course do it as often as you want, and even as a part of foreplay even more than that.

Who doesn’t love good oral? The best part about these exercises is that they can help you be an even better lover when it comes to using your mouth to please all parts of her body, when kissing her on the mouth, and everywhere else!

Wet kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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