Not long ago I shared an article about how to strengthen your tongue to make it into an even better love machine than it already is. Let’s think about the mouth for just a minute. It’s warm, wet and strong. It has a lot of the same characteristics of another favorite body part for you men! But the mouth also has the ability to change it’s form in a lot of different ways in order to vary the sensation that you give your partner greatly. Plus it is also versatile enough to be used to stimulate the many sexually sensitive areas of the human body.

Today’s article is a tribute to this amazing, hot and sexy body part. We’re going to discuss how to use your mouth and tongue to please your partner in new and creative ways.

* The mouth and tongue are extremely versatile. Think about the ways you use your mouth now to please your partner. When it comes to the tongue you can flatten it, curl it, point it, flex it, relax it, and flick it. The amount of pressure you use will vary her sensation a great deal. The speed in which you use your tongue will also change how it feels for her. Your lips also have a number of different functions. They can kiss, they can suck, you can relax them softly or flex them hard. When using your mouth to give pleasure, test out the different functions and see what methods work best on which parts.

* There are certain parts of a woman’s body that are extremely sensitive, like the clitoris, nipples and neck. Try stimulating the clitoris (my favorite, of course!) using an extremely light amount of pressure. This amount of pressure will be perfect in the beginning, but as she gets more turned on she will start to buck toward you, demanding more pressure… but don’t give in. Keep the pressure light and sensual. This will actually build up the sensations for her in a gradual way so that the final orgasm will be extremely powerful. It will prolong the process, but that will only mean that she will be feeling it even more!

* Get food involved. Whip up some homemade whipped cream (it has a thicker consistency, so better for what you want to use it for!). Use whipped cream to spread on different erogenous zones and lap it up with your tongue and mouth. If you’re not a whipped cream fan, you can also use chocolate  or caramel syrup. The thick consistency is great to clean off her body because you really have to work at it.

* Take a soft fruit, like a peach or plum, and squeeze the juice and pulp all over your partner’s erogenous zones and genitals. Make sure you clean her up thoroughly with your mouth.

* Try putting a cube of ice in your mouth and pleasing her with cold sensations from the ice and your cold mouth, mixed with your hot tongue.

* Use a big flat and fat tongue when going down on her. Let your tongue go flat and let it hang out of your mouth. Without moving your tongue, move your head so that your tongue is lapping at and over her clitoris. Do this even as she begins moving around and seeming to want more pressure. This method provides an amazing kind of stimulation to the many different parts of the clitoris and the sensitive surround areas.

* When going down on her stimulate her vaginal lips as well. The clitoris actually extends into other parts of the body just under the surface, so you can make her orgasms much more powerful by stimulating other areas of the clitoral body.

* Draw on her genitals with the tip of your tongue. Gently sweep it over her clitoris and the surrounding areas. Make figure 8s, write a little message using the tip of your tongue to draw the letters on her body. But don’t expect her to be able to tell you what you wrote. She’ll be too deep in ecstasy to be able to pay attention!

There are so many ways to use your lips, mouth and tongue to please your partner. The trick is to try different methods and techniques and find the ones that your partner loves the most. And even when you find just one that she loves, keep trying new things so you make sure that you don’t get stuck in a rut.

Wet, slippery kisses!
Gabrielle Moore

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I think we can all agree that oral sex is one of the best things in life. It’s wet, it’s warm, it feels… nothing short of amazing when it’s done right. Men love it, women love it, it’s a way to give completely to your partner without taking anything in return. Oral is great, however, you want to be good at it. I mean, you want to be GREAT at it, maybe even the best she’s ever had. Although many women like a variety of different things, there are some tips that can work for everyone and a couple that are very likely to get positive results.

1. She needs to be at ease – Some people aren’t used to having all the attention on them. It can feel uncomfortable for some women. They might feel worried that they’re going to take too long to cum (hint* this will only make her take EVEN longer because her mind will be distracted). Make sure she knows you’re not in a rush. Tell her, relax, “I’m going to be down here for a while” with a little smile on your face. Don’t ask her if she’s close because this will just bring back thoughts about how long she’s taking. Some women will also worry about how they look and feel very exposed in this position. She is on her back, spread eagle, with her entire body exposed. Even the most confident woman might feel a little self conscious. Let her get comfortable in whatever way she needs. Maybe that could be covering up part of her body with a sheet or turning the lights down very low.

2. Find a good position – With oral sex it’s important that both of you find comfortable positions to be in. The giver needs to be comfortable because being hunched over another person’s private parts can get tiring. Try kneeling at the end of the bed and putting a pillow under your knees for extra cushion. For her, try putting a pillow under her lower back and butt to prop her pelvis up slightly. She’ll then lie on her back with her knees bent, her feet flat on the bed and her knees spread wide. This will help her really open up.

3. Teasing is everything – Since the clitoris is extremely sensitive, teasing and stimulating it very lightly with the tongue will feel amazing. Many men are way too rough on the clitoris even when they think they’re being gentle. The more you tease, the more turned on she will be and the more her arousal will build and build.

4. Pay attention to her body cues – Notice how she’s moving her body. Is she pushing her hips up toward you, or slinking away? If it’s the later, something you’re doing might be hurting (maybe too rough of a touch). Remember that some women are very quiet when it comes to sex, so that’s not an indication of whether or not she is enjoying it. Is she flushed, her heart beating faster, her breathing heavier and faster? Is she getting wetter? These are all good signs that things are going well.

5. Know what she likes – You can try move your tongue up and down or from side to side. Many women will have a preference. Focus on her clit and then try the area just next to the clit and the labia. Watch her cues and remember what she likes. As you see her nearing orgasm, don’t change what you’re doing. She’s likely getting close to orgasm because you’ve hit a sweet spot.

6. Don’t be afraid to enlist a little help – Don’t worry, I’m not going to suggest you bring another person into the bedroom (although some of you would probably like that!). You can enlist some help by incorporating sex toys into your oral sex play. Try a vibrator and apply it to the labia or the area close to the clitoris and allow your tongue to do the work on her clit. Another option is to use a dildo and penetrate her with it while you lick and suck her on the outside.

7. Let her bask in it – Once she has cum, let her just lie there and enjoy the moment. Just like men, some women who have had a really good orgasm just want to lie there for a while and just enjoy the relaxing sensation in her body. Don’t try to immediately have sex or request a little oral for yourself. Let her relax for a while. Oh, and don’t be worried if she doesn’t end up having an orgasm every time. Some women won’t and some women won’t EVERY time, but that doesn’t mean that she didn’t really enjoy it. Women tend to be less orgasm-focused than men, so it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t cum every time.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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The truth is, some guys are completely clueless as to what to do when they finally get to bury their head between their partner’s legs. You might doubt your skills so much that you avoid going there at all, and that is a big mistake. Most women, just like most men, love oral sex. So instead of avoiding it because you’re not sure if you’re good at it, it’s time to learn how to be a master with the following need to know tips!

1. Oral sex isn’t foreplay, so don’t go straight in – For us oral sex can, and sometimes should, be the main event. That means that heading straight for her clitoris isn’t the way to go. Just like with intercourse, you need to get her warmed up. Start with her favorite kind of foreplay. Kiss her deeply and start making your way down, kissing and licking her on the way. Don’t rush it!

2. Tease and tantalize – Tease as you’re making your way to her clitoris and vulva. Her clit will be throbbing with anticipation if you tease her enough. So start kissing and sucking on her thighs, make your way closer ever so slowly, but just as she thinks that you’re going to finally give it to her, slowly move away again. This will intensify the sensations once you finally touch her clit.

3. Continue to zone in – As you probably already know, the clitoris is super sensitive, so you want to go as gently and slowly as possible. Believe me, you would much rather have her begging you for more than begging you to stop. When you finally make it to her genital area, continue to slowly make your way toward her clitoris by stimulating the areas around the clit. It’s actually much bigger than you think it is and it has sensitive parts just under the surface of the skin. So, as you’re stimulating the sensitive areas around the clit, you’re also providing her with amazing stimulation.

4. Only positive comments – A lot of women can feel pretty self conscious about having someone’s face so close to her most intimate area. She might be worried about a lot of things like how she looks down there, how she smells or even how long she takes to have an orgasm. Don’t make any kind of negative comments or impatient sighs. If she’s self conscious or uncomfortable then she won’t be able to relax and enjoy herself. And that means she probably won’t cum either. So, instead of staying quiet, you could give her self esteem a little boost and set her mind at ease by telling her how sexy she is. Try saying something like, “God, I love being between your legs,” “It’s such a huge turn on for me to do this,” or “You’re so beautiful.”

5. Keep things interesting – Even if you notice she likes a particular tongue movement, don’t just do that same motion over and over again. Doing the same repetitive thing can feeling numbing down there after a while, and in some cases it can even hurt. You want to try different sensations. Play around with the movement and shape of your tongue.

6. Use your hands – Your hands can be used in a variety of different ways during oral sex. You can reach up and play with her breasts and nipples. You can use your hands to spread open her vulvar lips, for extra stimulation, or for fingering. You can bring in some ass play by kneading her butt cheeks or fingering her down there. Get creative, but don’t let them just sit idly at your side.

7. Be patient – It takes women longer to orgasm than men (in general), so be patient and never show it if you’re feeling tired. Even if she came in 5 minutes last time you went down on her, other times it might take her a lot longer. It doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. There could be a lot of different reasons why it sometimes will take her longer to orgasm. When in doubt, you can ask her to show you what she wants you to do.

8. Try different positions – The most important thing is that the woman is comfortable. If she’s not, she isn’t going to be able to orgasm. Change it up every once in awhile, but not when you’re already giving her oral sex. Start with one position and stick with it, in order to not break the flow. But next time you can try out a new position.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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“Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim.” – Paulo Coelho

Hit a Roger Federer-grade tennis point and you Instagram it. Beat your 10km running time and you Facebook it. Finally see what all the fuss is about with sex and you… don’t tell a soul. It’s time to give shyness the unfollow and start sharing sexual discoveries as well. And why? Because the more we know about each other’s sexcapades, the more we realize there’s not one way to enjoy being horizontal. Here, I reveal everything about what can make good sex even better. Get ready for those happy aftersex selfies!

Clitoral two-step

It sounds like something off Dancing With The Stars, but the clitoral two-step – that’s touching her clitoris, then stopping – can do things for your partner’s body that no rumba ever will. Take your fingers away from her clitoris two or three times to hold her off on coming. A longer build-up to orgasm beats a couple of seconds of actually orgasming. The reason the stop-start technique creates a bigger build-up (and release) is down to her vulva’s muscle memory. When the muscles, nerves and tendons experience pleasure from a particular type of technique, they’re triggered when that technique is felt again. For example, if you find stroking the left side of your partner’s clitoris gives most pleasure, the next time that the left side is stimulated it remembers the pleasure and intensifies it. On every restart, her muscles remember the feeling and build up even more pleasure. Which can mean a stronger orgasm when you finally decide to go all the way. High five for the pleasure pause.

Alternative oral fixes

The old oral involves going down, right? However, for some new and improved mouth time, I suggest raising the game… literally. If you lick her nipples while she’s on top, the chances of her orgasming during penetrative sex raise considerably. The reason nipple play can tip your partner over the edge is because having her nipples sucked stimulates the brain in the same way as her clitoris and vagina. It also releases oxytocin, which makes nipples go hard instantly. How? Oxytocin causes the muscles underneath the nipple to contract, pulling skin and creating that goosebump-like effect. With a bit more breast attention, oxytocin continues to be released – research in Archives of Sexual Behavior found the intensity of women’s orgasms increased with the amount of oxytocin in their blood. A rather lucky one per cent of women are thought to come purely as a result of stimulation to their nipples, known as the oxytocin pathway to orgasm.

The eye contact ban

Closing your eyes might transport you into Fantasyland (otherwise known as Eva Mendes’ bathtub), but it can seriously intensify the pleasure that you get from your real-life sex co-pilot. Being blindfolded during sex makes you so much more sensitive to anything that your partner does. Imagine the crescendo of your favorite TV drama, when your whole body is on alert for the twist that’s coming. It’s the same thing. Our eyes are such an important part of sex (eye contact, looking at your partner’s body) that when you are stripped of that sense you need to compensate. The whole feel of a partner’s touch becomes more intense; the sound of their breathing more erotic; the smell of their scent more powerful. Blocking sight really makes you appreciate all of the other crucial senses during intimacy. Just make sure that you grab a nice scarf for this sexcapade – not the crusty sock from under the bed.

The super-squeeze finish

Most of us know the “pre-finish”. That moment of mental paralysis that comes – just as you’re about to come – and makes you start to question, “Er, what if I don’t?” It’s Mortein for your mojo. But there’s an override. Instead of just focusing on finishing, you should tighten and release your penis muscles, focusing on how good that feels. It lets you concentrate on physical pleasure – rather than the mental block. You might just be part Jedi.  Or even Yoda. And it’s true. Squeezing those muscles is a great distraction. While it won’t necessarily make it any easier to orgasm, it will increase pleasure. Plus, it’s a great way to tone them. And it’s the same with your partner as well. If she squeezes the muscles of her vagina, she increases sensation during orgasm, which leads to stronger, more powerful waves of pleasure. Here’s hoping you give good resting clench face.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

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For most people, oral sex is already amazing enough without even working on improving it, but for those of us out there who are always striving to make a good thing even better, I bring you tips on how to make oral even better than it already is…

To be honest, oral is always amazing for everyone. Some people aren’t very good at giving oral and some don’t like it as much as others. However, if you follow these tips, you’ll be guaranteed to make oral something your partner REALLY loves.

1. Find a comfortable position – If your partner is uncomfortable in some way, it’s going to make it harder for her to cum. Since you want to maximize her experience, make sure she is in a comfortable position, that she is not cold or self-conscious. It’s also important that YOU are comfortable, since you might be down there for a while

2. Ask her what she likes – Don’t be afraid to get some direction from her when you’re down there. Speed, pressure, movements she likes, parts that she wants you to touch or avoid are all important things to know. The more intel you get on what she likes, the better her experience will be.

3. Genuinely enjoy yourself – Oral is all about giving your partner pleasure. For some women, it can be uncomfortable to just receive and not give. She might feel self-conscious about taking too long or how she looks. Let her know that you’re down there for as long as it takes and you love doing it and she is sure to relax and enjoy herself even more.

4. Learn how to breathe correctly – Some guys get breathless when they’re down there for too long. Try breathing in through your mouth and exhaling out through your nose in order to be able to go down on her for as long as it takes, without needing to come up for air.

5. Keep your jaw loose and open and give your tongue a break if necessary – If you really start to get tired, try changing the stimulation you’re doing. Maybe switch from using your tongue to giving her very soft, wet kisses and wrapping your lips around her clit. If you really need a break, you can switch momentarily to using your fingers, although she will be able to tell the difference! Keep in mind, if she’s close to cumming, don’t change anything up or you risk her losing her orgasm. See video demonstration.

6. Consider using flavored lube – Some guys don’t like the taste when they go down on their partner. In those cases, a flavored lube can add a more pleasant taste and it will also help to add more lubrication, which is always a welcomed plus!

7. Keep a good rhythm going – Once you are doing something she really loves, don’t change things up. A lot of women don’t need a million fancy moves. Once you’ve found something that is working for her, she’ll want you to just keep up a good rhythm until she gets there.

8. Don’t rush it – It generally takes women a long time to cum, so take things slow. Rushing won’t make her cum faster, it will just make her feel rushed, which might even make it harder for her to cum!

9. Try fingering her at the same time – You usually only need to try using just one finger while you’re going down on her. This extra stimulation often feels really incredible paired with the sensations of your tongue on her clitoris.

10. Don’t be afraid to touch her in other areas – Some women love to have their legs cradled in a man’s arms when he is going down on her or her wrists gently pinned to the bed. This gives her the feeling that you don’t want her to go anywhere and you’re dying to keep her right there straddling your face.

11. Use code – For those of you who aren’t totally comfortable talking about sex with your partners, you can come up with a code to communicate what she likes. For example, ask her to squeeze your hand or tap your shoulder if you’re doing something that she really likes. You can also come up with code for if she DOESN’T like something.

12. Change up how you use your tongue – Pointy, hard, flat, soft, wide, skinny – The tongue is an incredible muscle and can be used in so many different ways. Try out different things and see what your partner responds best to. There isn’t one, single trick that is going to work for every woman out there, so you have to see what really works for your partner.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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The tongue is an extremely strong muscle in the human body. We use our tongues all the time, all throughout the entire day… to eat, talk, swallow, and even for activities a little more exciting, like kissing, licking, sucking and sex. The tongue is an extremely important body part when it comes to sex. You use it when you kiss, when you whisper sweet nothings (or dirty thoughts) into your partner’s ear, when you run it along her body, when you go down on her and in a lot of other ways. Are you using this important body part to its full potential?

The tongue isn’t just useful, but it also has a lot of different ways it can be used. If you don’t know how to maximize its potential, you need to learn. That’s what today’s post is all about, learning to harness the power of your tongue. It will make you a better kisser, a better giver of oral sex, and an overall better lover.

Different Ways to Use Your Tongue

Flex it – The tongue is a strong muscle and by flexing it hard you can make it hard and erect. If you begin to play with your tongue in your mouth, you will find that you can flex it in many different positions. Use your tongue to lick your clean hand to see how the different sensations feel depending on how you flex your tongue. Try out different shapes. First stick your tongue all the way out of your mouth, make it into a point and flex it like a little dagger. You will notice that it will feel quite hard when you use it to lick your hand, almost like a warm, wet finger. The tip of the tongue can be used to trace small circles on different parts of a woman’s body or to put pressure lightly on a sensitive part. Next make your tongue round and flat, like a pancake. Usually your tongue is pointy when it’s in an erect state, but if you try, you’ll notice that it can be like this and erect at the same time. Now test it on your hand to see how it feels.

Let it go slack – If you let your tongue hang slack out of your mouth, you’ll notice that it is very soft and flexible, which gives a very different feeling from when it is flexed and hard. It’s impossible to move your tongue in your mouth without flexing it even a little bit, so in order to use a completely relaxed and slack tongue on your partner’s body, you have to let your tongue hang slack out of your mouth and move your head to “lap” at your partner’s body, kind of like a dog. It might sound funny when described like this, but believe me, it feels incredible on a woman’s breasts, clitoris and other sensitive areas. Practice this on your hand and notice the difference between a slack tongue and a flexed one.

Somewhere in between – The best thing about the tongue is how versatile it is. It can easily go from being hard and erect to soft and squishy in a second. It also has the ability to be in an in-between state, where it is neither hard nor overly soft. Now play around with using your tongue on your hand and notice how versatile it can be, changing back and forth in a second.

Your tongue is one of your best assets when it comes to pleasing your partner, so you want to make sure you use it to the best of your ability and that it is strong and flexible. Professional speakers and singers do tongue exercises to make their tongues stronger so they will be more powerful, but these exercises can be useful for a skilled lover as well. Here are a few for you to try:

* Push the tip of your tongue between your two top front teeth. Hold your tongue in that position as you swallow. You’ll notice that your tongue will want to move from that position, so you will have to strain to keep it in place. This exercise will strengthen the base of your tongue.

* Pull your tongue back into your mouth as far and you can and hold it for 2 seconds. Then push it out of your mouth as far as you can for 2 seconds. Make sure you are really working the muscle to get the best effects.

* Move your tongue from side to side inside your mouth, flexing and pushing against each cheek. Then do the same with your tongue outside of your mouth.

Practice all of these tongue uses and exercises and you’ll be a better lover in no time.

Wet tongue kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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I’m finally getting around to get a few article out to you. Sorry if it’s been a little while since you’ve heard from me, but I’ve been working on some REALLY exciting new material that I’m going to be sharing with you really soon! But for now, let’s talk about oral sex!

Sometimes it’s hard to know what goes on in a woman’s head. What is she thinking? Does she like that? Is she turned on? It’s especially hard to know what women are thinking when it comes to sex, since it can be a topic that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. That’s why I like to go right to the source (women!) and ask them personally what they think, what they like and what they don’t like. So, today we’re going to talk about one of the hottest topics out there: oral sex! And find out what REAL women have to say on the topic.

Marina, 33 years old

Having my guy go down on me is my all time favorite thing we do in the bedroom. The problem is that I’m too self conscious to tell him that. He doesn’t do it as much as I would like him to, but I don’t know if it’s because he doesn’t like to do it or what. All I know is that I don’t feel comfortable asking him for more, but I sure wish he would get the message. I mean, I cum so hard when he does it and I’m like jelly afterward. It’s just the best.

Jackie, 28 years old

To be perfectly honest, I feel really self conscious during oral sex. Until I met my husband, I just couldn’t relax during it and everything that was going on in my head made it impossible to even register what I was feeling. It was like my brain turned off the connection to my clitoris. I know I’m not the only woman out there that has this issue. I would just worry that my partner didn’t like it, or that I wasn’t clean enough, or that it wasn’t pretty enough. I thought TOO MUCH. My husband really helped me to relax. He would shower me with compliments and that would help to get me relax. He would say how much he loved going down on me. He would do it with the lights off, with most of my body and face covered by a sheet, whatever it took it make me comfortable. He never made me feel weird about my embarrassment. It took some time, but finally I was able to relax and enjoy it. And then WOW, I really enjoyed it!

Giselle, 39 years old

I love oral sex. My husband knows that this is my favorite way to cum. When he touches my clit with his fingers, sometimes I just cum too quickly. With oral sex there is almost always a slow build up, and that makes for an amazing, powerful orgasm in the end. I love it when he takes his time and doesn’t make me feel rushed at all. I think it’s the ultimate gift to give to a woman!

Mary, 43

Every once in a while my husband will go down on me, but he won’t let me do it back to him. Or have sex. Or do anything in return. At first this seemed unfair to me and I worried that he wasn’t really okay with it, but he insisted. Now I just recognize it as a way that he wants to pamper me and I love it. Now I started doing the same for him. Every once in a while I will just surprise him with a blow job. After I’m done, I just tell him to roll over and go to sleep. It’s the ultimate way that we give to each other, without wanting or expecting anything in return.

Barbara, 44 years old

One time, my boyfriend spontaneously hoisted me onto the clothes dryer while it was turned on, lifted my skirt up, pulled my panties down, and proceeded to give me the best oral sex of my life. I don’t know what I enjoyed more, the combination of his tongue and the vibrations from the dryer, the spontaneity of just grabbing me in the middle of the day, or the naughty feeling of doing it in a part of the house outside of the bedroom. I think it was a combo of all 3!

Wet kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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There is no more surefire way to make a woman come than going down on her like a pro. Especially since, according to most studies, only between 30 and 50 percent of women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone. So chances are the woman you’re with not needs something more. Read on and I’ll tell you why oral sex is more than just lip service and why this is the number one trick to master.

Alpha lovers out there take pleasure in feeling a woman’s body tense up, in hearing her moan, in her taste and smell. Of course they do. A woman is getting hot, and it’s because of what they’re doing to her. That’s very sexy and gives them a sense of unprecedented power and masculinity. If you strive to reach this level as well, follow my tips and techniques and you’ll find a very happy woman next to you in bed.

Tricks of the trade

As you’re going down on her, slip your hands under her butt and gently knead. Being stimulated from both sides enhances the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her with your tongue. Go the extra mile in terms of complete ecstasy and, after sitting her down in a chair, give her two full glasses of water to hold (away from any tables to rest them on). Don’t tell her why. Then start going down on her. With her hands occupied, she’ll feel helpless as you devour her bit by bit.

For feel-good, indirect stimulation, flick your tongue against her clitoris through her thong. You can even lightly nibble on it to ignite her even more. If you can’t wait to taste her directly, place your lips around her clitoris (while making sure to cover your teeth) and alternate between gently sucking and teasing it with your tongue. For an even more amazing feeling, start to hum while you’re tongue is gently wrapped around her clitoris. Bonus: keep the lights on when you’re giving her oral. You’ll get the thrill of pleasuring her while seeing her most private parts up close – a total treat!

As for positions, I have a couple of naughty suggestions for you. Give her oral while she’s on all fours, positioned over you. It’s a rare and totally hot angle. Or have her lean over the arm of the couch and go down on her from behind. The angle will offer completely new and intense sensations. But my absolute favorite pose is the following: while you’re sitting upright in bed, she should stand, facing you, with her legs on either side of your body and her hands on her hips. The blood flow to her nether regions will help her orgasm faster. If you want in on the action as well but you’re tired of the same old 69, lie on your sides, with your face by her pelvis and vice versa. Then each of you bend your top knee so your bottom half forms a triangle like frame around the other’s head.

Use that toy

A true alpha lover isn’t afraid to make the most of whatever tools of the trade can help his carnal game, so my advice to you would be to take out that vibrator and drive your partner crazy with it. For starters, run it over her hot area while she’s still in her panties. During oral, tuck and hold it around her anus – she’ll absolutely adore the feeling. Or you can use it to simultaneously stimulate yourself – hey, why does she get to benefit for all the action?

If the oral turns into full blown intercourse (it will, you won’t be able to help yourself), put it between your bodies during missionary so you can both feel the rumbling, or slip a vibrating ring onto your shaft – this way, when she climbs on top and tilts her pelvis forward, she’ll go crazy with pleasure. Or, while you’re doing her from behind, rest a bullet vibe on her clitoris. The possibilities, as you can see for yourself, are actually endless.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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No two vagina owners like exactly the same thing, and the best way of finding out what feels good to the lucky lady you’re going down on is to ask her. That said, certain cunnilingus frustrations arise more often than others – that’s why I decided to show you the most common ones and what to do about them.

Her va-va-voom doesn’t exactly taste the best. Ok, actually, it tastes kind of yucky, but this one is an easy solve. Suggest taking a sexy pre-cunnilingus shower together and experiment with flavored lube – some non-sticky options are sweetened with stevia, meaning that they won’t give your partner a yeast infection. I can tell you firsthand that the salted caramel flavor is delicious. I’m serious, I’ve tried it when giving my partner a blowjob and he also tried it on me, attesting it was indeed a great improvement to the whole thing.

She’s about to come and you don’t know how long you’re supposed to keep going. There’s a fine line between “oh my god that feels incredible” and “oh my god please remove your mouth from my sensitive vagina immediately”, and that line, I can tell you from personal experience, is usually after orgasm. When your partner says “I’m coming”, keep going until they have, in fact, come – verbal warning are great, they both tell you to keep doing what you’re doing and prepare you for the final explosion of pleasure – and then lay off the stimulation unless encouraged to do otherwise.

You can’t establish a rhythm. Consistency is key to bring a vagina to orgasm and making it waterfall-wet, but you can’t keep a beat to save your life. Try synchronizing your movements to your hookup playlist, moving your head up and down to the music – it might sound silly but can help get you into the movement.

Your jaw is aching or your neck needs a break. There’s no rule that says you have to keep your tongue in frantic motion until your partner comes. Take a break and rub your penis against her lady parts, use just your hands, or stroke your partner’s thighs while your jaw relaxes – that vagina probably won’t suddenly go dry just because it’s not making direct contact with your lips. Also, if you’re getting tired of controlling the motion, have your partner take over by placing a hand on the back of your head or holding your hair, and guiding your head back and forth, or lie on your back and have her straddle your head. Discuss either one of these beforehand – that’s just basic bedroom manners.

She takes for-ev-er to finish. This is a question of knowing when to stay the course and when to mix it up. If you’ve been doing circular movements and you feel that she’s about to come, don’t suddenly switch to something else. If, however, you’re looking to vary the stimulation, I recommend gripping the base of your partner’s labia with a churning motion using either one or two hands (and a dash of lube or spit) while the clitoris is in your mouth. Focus on it by licking it, flicking it with your tongue, and squeezing it between your lips, and don’t neglect other sensitive parts of your partner’s anatomy, caressing the insides of her thighs and the anus, if your partner’s into that. To add a vibrating sensation, try humming while the clitoris is in your mouth or even placing a vibrator against your cheek.

Finally, remember that your preferences matter as much as your partner’s. If you can’t stand doing it for longer than 10 minutes, don’t do it. If you don’t want your partner to “bury” your head between her legs, pushing hard with her hands and leaving you breathless, tell her you’re not comfortable with that. You are the king of your own cunnilingus castle. Go forth and rule.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Most women can’t get off from penetration alone (and you dudes love getting down on the ladies) so oral sex is a staple of every rocking bedroom. Use these hot oral sex positions as foreplay or as the main event.

Kinky Queen

The key to face-sitting is not having your partner actually sit on your face unless you want her to literally have a killer vagina. Have her straddle your head and give herself a light thigh workout by holding herself a couple inches above your face while you go down on her. You can reach up and hold onto her butt and hips, because who doesn’t like grabbing a butt?

Doggy goes oral

Not only is this a totally hot oral position that puts your partner in control of the angle and pressure, it’s also a good segue into the world of anilingus, if that’s something you’re into.

Sofa so good

Lie upside down on the couch, with your back and head on the seat and your legs draped over the back. Have your partner kneel over your face, facing the back of the couch. Then have her bend over and 69 away. Much more relaxing than an awkward 69 in bed, isn’t it?

The spiderman

Oral sex doesn’t normally give women much of a view, but this position gives her a full, stunning vista of your hot body. Lie on your back on the bed with your head hanging off the edge. Have her stand behind you and lean forward so you can kiss and lick her vagina upside down. Bonus: she’s also in prime position to give you a hand job while you go down on her.

The leg-up

Women usually have one side of their vulva that’s more sensitive than the other, so have her choose which leg she’ll hold up wisely, letting the other dangle over the edge of the bed. You can lick figure eights up and down the exposed side of your partner’s vulva until she spontaneously busts out in Mariah Carey’s “Hero”.

The sidecar

Lay on your sides facing each other, then slide down until her vagina is, well, in your face. Call it the lazy guy’s cunnilingus. This position is the best way to give her pleasure without killing your knees or getting a major neck cramp, and you can also get saucy by reaching around to play with her back door.

The deep V

Try this position if your partner has trouble staying in the mindset to come. Have her lie back on the edge of the bed while grabbing her thighs and holding her legs out in a V shape. (Not so flexible woman version: she should bend them at the knee.) Go down on her, using your hands to lightly massage her inner thighs, bringing more blood to her vulva. The massage also helps keep your partner in the moment so her orgasm is scream-inducing.

The cliffhanger

Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed and lay back with her legs draped over the edge. When you kneel between her legs, your head should be angled towards her vagina, giving you direct access to her clitoris. This one leaves your hands free to play with her nipples or finger her for double pleasure.

The corkscrew

Have her stand while you kneel in front of her. Hold her butt cheeks with both your hands, start kissing her labia slowly and tilt your head gradually from side to side as you work your way up and down her vulva. To up the ante, twist your hands back and forth on her butt cheeks like you’re adjust a camera lens. She’ll absolutely love this combination of sultry moves.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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