Sex is a multi-faceted experience. On the surface, sex is just sex. But like a pungent and fully-bloomed rose, its depths exist between the folds. So if you just want to have sex, you can certainly do it, but you’ll be missing out on the mind-blowing, next-level sensations. Sex shouldn’t be pigeonholed into a small box that only involves certain moves. Oral sex, for instance, can get monotonous. Like missionary intercourse, simple oral sex moves have a time and a place, but when you want to make your partner scream, sweat and melt, it’s time to kick it up a notch. Here the oral sex positions that will do the trick, as well as some of the best oral sex tips for pleasuring women.

Woof woof(Click here to watch explicit demonstration video) 

If you’re the lazy type or are just having a lazy day but your partner is looking for something on the wild side, this one is for you. To get into this position, have your partner sit on your lap facing you. She then needs to scoot up so her knees are over her shoulders and you can reach her hot bits with your mouth. You’ll suck on her clitoris, creating a constant suction while lightly shaking your head from side to side.

She’s on top

If you want to dive deep into the submissive realm, go ahead and let your partner sit on your face. So long as you can handle all her goodness, you’ll love her taking control and getting the pleasure she pleases. To get into this position, lie down flat on your back as she straddles you with her legs. She can ease into it by assuming a face-to-face position, and then slowly scooting up until her clitoris is directly on your mouth, her knees reaching to the sides of your head. She’ll slide up and down, back and forth, using her hands to provide elevation so she doesn’t smother you.

The fire hydrant (Click here to watch explicit demonstration video) 

Women rarely get depicted in such a power move as standing while receiving cunnilingus, but they should! Not only does it feel empowering, but it feels incredibly good, too. Be submissive by getting on your knees while she stands above you. Pull her close by her butt, then enjoy the various angles of her crotch you now have the pleasure of coming face-to-face with. The possibilities are endless when you follow one of the best oral sex tips for women.

The cliffhanger

If you want the freedom of your hands while you go down on her, this one’s for you. Have your lady position herself on the edge of the bed. She’ll then lay back with her legs draped over the edge so that, as you kneel between her legs, her vagina will be angled down toward you. This ensures you come in direct contact with her clitoris. Now, use your free hands as you please — playing with her nipples, fingering her, or getting the anus involved.

Chair goodness

Props can take your oral sex game to a whole new level, and this move is no exception. To make her feel like you put her on a pedestal, set up three chairs in a triangle shape. One will be for her butt, while the other two are for her feet. Then, position yourself on your knees below her as you gently lick her clitoris.

Sofa passion

The classic 69 position is both loved and hated by many. Why? People claim it’s distracting, while others love that it’s double the pleasure. No matter your stance, who doesn’t love a good couch sex session? Take things back to doing it on your parent’s basement couch but with a whole lot more sophistication and experience with this next-level 69 pose. Have your partner lie back on the couch with their feet on the back and their head hanging off the edge. You kneel over their head, facing the back of the couch so that you’re hovering over your partner’s face. They can use your legs or the back of the couch to stabilize.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more naughty secrets and tips and tricks on how to make cunnilingus sessions as hot as possible, check out my program on the subject – Oral Rapture.

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

The only thing more satisfying than being on the receiving end of great oral sex is knowing that you did a great job performing it on your partner. To give is to receive, if you will. Every sexual partner has different taste — literally and figuratively — and when you figure out exactly what your partner likes, it can be intensely gratifying.

Having a few go-to tips in your back pocket will make oral sex speed along for those times when you feel like you’ve been under water for hours. No shade, but giving oral sex is work, and it doesn’t make you any less altruistic if you wish it would go by quicker sometimes.

Watching porn can be helpful to research new techniques, but porn is aspirational, so you can’t always copy and paste what you see into your own sex life. So I asked my studs to share their best tips for performing oral that totally work in real life. These innovative strategies might be just the thing to push your partner’s buttons. Feel free to go to town and claim all the bragging rights, you cunning linguist.

Don’t stop

Some people tend to feel extra sensitive after an orgasm, but one patient suggests to keep going after your partner has orgasmed because, “there’s usually more left in the tank,” he says. That’s true for some people, and studies have found that if your moves are slower and less forceful after your partner has climaxed, it might be easier for your lady to have multiple orgasms. Talk to your partner, and see if that works for them.

Don’t rely solely on your tongue

One patient suggests gently sucking on your partner’s clitoris, and using your tongue at the same time. “Suck and hold it in your mouth, then use your tongue; it’s not all tongue-out licking,” he says.

Make eye contact

While you’re going down on your partner, make eye contact with them, suggests a patient: “I love seeing my partner close his eyes and roll them back.” Your woman will love having your entire focus on her.

Vary your speed

One patient suggests varying your speed and pressure while giving oral sex. “I’ve found that alternating between a steady, rhythmic motion and then going fairly slow is effective,” he told me. This tip also gives you a little bit of a break if you’re tired — win-win.

Be enthusiastic

A lot of people get stressed receiving oral sex because they’re worried their partner isn’t enjoying it. If you act enthusiastic as you caress your lady down there, your partner will feel much more relaxed about it and be even more turned on, one patient says.

Stimulate the anus

One patient says she likes it when her partner “puts a finger in my butt.” You can also both try wearing butt plugs during the duration of oral sex.

Finger fancy

Do double-duty and use your hands while you stimulate your partner’s clitoris with your tongue: “Whenever I’m performing oral, I like to do a little fingering (usually two fingers pressed up against the anterior wall of the vagina, aiming for that G-spot) while I lick her clitoris,” one patient says.

Embrace the vibration

Don’t be afraid of breaking out the vibrator! It can be an invaluable tool to the art of oral.  The average woman takes 20 minutes to climax from oral sex, so you’re going to be there for a while. There’s no shame in implementing the help of a tried-and-true toy, suggests a patient. “Use something small and easily handled so you can still feel like you’re in control,” he says. “Put the vibrator on the clitoral hood, then spend some time with your tongue in the labia area.”

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more tips and tricks on how to rock your partner’s world with oral, check out my program on the matter, Oral Rapture.

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

Oral sex is one of my favorite topics because it’s so complex that it turns me on every time I exchange opinions with other women. And guess what I’m about to tell you: you simply NEED to become an expert because it’s the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm.

Why is oral sex so pleasurable for a woman? I would bet on the tingly sensations she gets when you use your tongue, easily the most powerful muscle in the entire human body. It gives subtle but firm stimulation, which is exactly what she needs to reach the climax. Plus, if you do it right, you hit the main spot: her clitoris. And boom! – an orgasmic journey begins.

But did I tell you some men don’t even know where the clitoris is located? Don’t worry, I’m not trying to be patronizing, just want to make sure you don’t overwork your jaw in vain. Make sure to explore your lady’s sexy area enough to know all of her sensitive spots. You should be able to feel the clitoris with your hand if you massage the area right above her urethra – you’ll be surprised to find out it’s not as close to the vagina opening as you may have thought.

This is the main reason why it’s so hard for women to reach orgasm. It’s nearly impossible to stimulate the clitoris through penetration alone, which is why she’ll enjoy some tongue action in the area.

If you follow my secret steps she will reach erotic euphoria every single time!

1. Tease her first

A lot of men treat oral sex as foreplay, just as they do kissing and touching, but because it’s so intense you should wait a bit more before getting to business. Believe or not, she needs to be wet and aroused to actually enjoy the treat. The clit area is very sensitive, but if she’s not aroused your tongue strokes will just bring physical discomfort. So wait until her breathing becomes heavy and start by gently massaging it with your hand.

2. Explore the WHOLE area

Going straight for the clit won’t bring her the extreme climax I want you to be able to give. The mistake you make is focusing on one spot – instead, treat her V-zone as a whole and explore it gently, slowly. Make her want it so bad that she begs for it. I would say using a combination of hand, lips and tongue will make you a winner in the “best orgasm of the year” category.

3. Start with gentle strokes

Every woman is different, but experience has thought me that most women like gentle strokes at first and then, the more turned on they get, the more pressure you should apply. It’s pretty tricky to get it right at first, but remember to ask her what feels right as you go… It’s the only way you’ll reach perfection. Anyway, if she says “Yes”, “Harder” or pulls your head in closer it means she likes it and wants more of it.

4. Let her take control

Being completely passive isn’t that exciting for your lady. She might feel comfortable lying on her back, but taking control would bring so much pleasure. Most women reach orgasm through grinding against their man’s mouth. Unfortunately, they are ashamed of doing that. If you don’t have anything against it, I suggest you encourage her to grab your head, hold it firmly against her and then push into your lips. It’s one of the most erotic moves you can experience together – with 100% chances of climax!

5. Stop making this unsatisfying move

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is trying to penetrate her vagina with your tongue the same way you would with your penis. This does absolutely nothing for her and for many women is actually very uncomfortable. Use your tongue in the outside area and insert two fingers in the vagina… but only if you feel she’s wet enough.

6. Put a pillow under her butt

This makes it easier for you the reach the famous G-spot while fingering. Plus, it will give her more leverage to move her hips against you in a way that feels more amazing than you imagine. Such a simple but effective trick!

7. Use a sex toy

If you two lovebirds don’t own a vibrator, I feel for you. Especially during oral, it’s a great pleasuring tool because you can use it in her vagina while stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. It will feel ten times better than using your fingers, mainly because of those naughty vibrations.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I appreciate men who take time to learn the tantalizing techniques of oral pleasuring – they are such a rare find! Baby, if you’re willing to discover even more advanced tricks to pleasure your woman with your mouth, I recommend you check out my explosive program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

Cunnilingus – what a complicated name for a complicated business. Just kidding! Pleasing your partner with your mouth shouldn’t be guesswork, but I get why it’s still something you’re not confident about.

If done right, all women LOVE oral sex, because it’s that one form of stimulation most likely to give them an orgasm. That’s because your tongue is the most powerful muscle in your body and also the most sensitive – the chemistry is simply irresistible, and when you add your lips to the mix, she will have no choice but to surrender to waves of continuous pleasure.

Still, many women say they don’t like what their partners are doing and many men actually avoid going down on their lady because they’re not sure what they’re supposed to do. I blame the lack of effective communication for this: if you would be willing to learn more about her preferences on the matter instead of pretending you already know everything, you would become the expert she craves. If she would choose to guide you instead of pretending what you’re doing is right, again – she would receive that orgasm she craves.

It’s not easy to give her exactly what she wants because when it comes to oral sex, intuition is just not enough. Every woman is different, so experience doesn’t really matter. You have to discover together the types of stimulation that make her hungry for more.

The good news is that by now I have a pretty good idea about what most of the women I’ve worked with really want when it comes to oral sex. There are a few techniques they have agreed on, and I’m willing to share them with you.

Here are the women approved techniques you should try on your lady tonight:

Start off with a little hand play

A lot of women agreed on this: they like it when you play with your hand first until they get warmed up. Rub her clitoris slowly using the palm of your hand, but do it over her underwear. You will feel her getting wet. When that happens, take off her underwear and continue to massage her clitoris with your hand. Kiss her mouth, her neck, her breasts… then press your mouth on her clitoris and move slowly in circular motion. This will drive her crazy.

Experiment with your tongue

You don’t have to get it right from the start. Just remember that there are a lot of things you can do with your tongue and she’ll not love all of them. But to find out what she likes, you have to try everything. You can make your tongue flat, pointy, stiff of soft and you can draw circles, suck, or flick – just ask your lady what feels good and you’ll hit the jackpot eventually.

Swirling

A lot of women also suggested swirling your tongue around her clitoris in small circles, clockwise and then counter-clockwise. You’ll certainly find the right spot, just listen to her moans.

Reverse hug technique

A lot of women like the reverse hug technique. If you’re in good shape, you should nail this hot oral position.  Hold her upside down in front of you – her head and shoulders should be on the bed while her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that you ease the pressure around her neck. Then wrap your arms around her waist and lower your face between her legs.

Start with a softer tongue

For a lot of women it’s important that you use the flatter and softer part of your tongue, especially at the start, when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the pressure and speed that the tip of your tongue will bring.

Make out with her clitoris

A lot of women suggest you treat your intimate area like their mouth – just make out with it. Start with soft kisses all over,  then bring your tongue in, slowly at first. Don’t rush it, just try to be sensual. Let the tongue go deeper, suck the clit AND the whole intimate area, then go back to just using your lips. Have fun with it.

Eat her from behind

A lot of woman like oral stimulation from behind – it feels a bit different and it turns them on. Use your flat tongue to apply pressure on her entire pussy area, use your fingers to penetrate her vagina and then slowly make your way to the clitoris and stimulate it with circular motions.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Baby, oral sex should be fun, so don’t be afraid to experiment. Challenge your partner and try all of the above moves, then let me know what she liked the most. If you want to learn some seriously advanced oral sex techniques, I recommend you check my sexy program – Oral Rapture!

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

When it comes to sex, oral play is the cherry on top. You don’t need it to make the act worthwhile but you have to have it in order to make it extraordinary… On one condition: to be good at it.

Cunnilingus is not an easy walk in the park if you aim for intense pleasure and erotic abandonment. It is a complex process, an elusive dance of sensation, intuition, and technique, and it requires very personal knowledge of your partner’s sweet spots in order to offer her the gift of complete pleasure. Despite the effort, it’s all worth it in the end because you’ll become the most powerful activator of unlimited pleasure… The only one to know the code for out-of-this-world pleasure and lust.

See, it’s well known that almost 50 percent of women can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone – no matter how crazy good it feels, they just can’t reach that point of maximum pleasure. Imagine how frustrating that can be.

And the main reason for that is the inability of proper clitoral stimulation during basic penetration. While it’s enough for you to stimulate the penis, your lady’s extra sensitive spot is not the vagina, but the clitoris. This hood-shaped spot located above her urethra is packed with millions of nerve endings which make it pulse once stimulated, giving her the most intense orgasm ever (many women say it’s more intense than the vaginal orgasm).

While there are ways to involve her clitoris more during penetration, the good news is that cunnilingus offers you the opportunity to make it the star of the show. What does that mean for your lady? Intense climax, 100% guaranteed.

Now there is one more detail that could compromise your cunnilingus performance and this one has nothing to do with you. Most women are not comfortable with spreading their legs in front of your eyes/tongue – they feel vulnerable and insecure. Which makes them tense, unable to experience an orgasm. Remember that she needs to feel completely relaxed in order to reach climax.

Here are my favorite techniques of intensifying her pleasure during cunnilingus:

Don’t rush it

Most women who complain about their partner’s technique say he’s turning it into a marathon, thinking that this is the sure way to orgasm. In reality, you’ll only make her tenser. As I said, she needs to be fully relaxed and feel safe around you, which means you have to take your time. Show her how much you enjoy exploring every inch of her vulva and tease her until she begs you to get to the clitoris.

Taking your sweet time means you can also explore and experiment more, getting to know exactly which moves get her off. Because cunnilingus is not an exact science – every woman is different and you need to find out what YOUR woman likes.

Warm up her clit before you “attack”

Most men go straight for the clitoris thinking that it will speed things up and make her come faster. Truth is you will get the opposite result. The clitoris is very sensitive and it needs to be warmed up before stimulation – otherwise, you could even cause physical discomfort.

Teasing is the way to go. I always recommend treating her vulva like a clock (with clitoris being noon) so that you can reach all the other areas while the clit is getting warmed up. That way, when you begin to stimulate it the amount of pleasure will be overwhelming.

Give her variation

As with pleasure of all kinds, variation is key. If you only use one type of stimulation, you’ll get a weaker response over time. I suggest you alternate tongue and lips and even hand. For example, applying pressure with the palm of your hand might feel a lot more pleasurable than inserting fingers while licking her clit. Also, the tongue is not your only asset. A lot of women say they love it when their partner uses the entire mouth to stimulate their intimate area. Pressing your lips on her clit and lightly sucking on it could make her go wild!

Try an exciting position

Yes, there’s more than one position for oral sex. My favorite one is the “Chair” position because you have access to all of her sensitive parts AND you’ll be able to also use your hands for greater stimulation.

Lie on your back with your knees bent and put a pillow underneath your head for support. Have your lady lay on top of you and move her feet by your head while resting her head on your knees. You’ll have an awesome view, not to mention the intense stimulation she’ll get.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Sweetheart, oral sex is one the most intimate and pleasurable experiences you’ll enjoy as a couple but in order to make it truly epic she needs to be comfortable and relaxed. And she needs to trust you completely. If you think you’re not there yet, I recommend this sexy program called Oral Rapture.

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

I want to give you an advantage over all the other men your woman has ever met or will ever meet in her life: tongue strategies to make her melt in your mouth.

There are very few men who really know how to please a woman with their mouth, lips, and tongue – so when we finally find one… we become OBSESSED. Why is that? Women can get so frustrated when a man is doing it wrong because they rely on oral to get maximum stimulation and to reach climax.

See, we need A LOT of clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, so penetration is often not enough. The clitoris is such a sensitive spot, and it can create a million tingling sensations in her body that she never even knew she could feel…

So my first thought was to clear out all the misconceptions about oral sex and finally tell you what really works. That’s why I created my Oral Rapture program – full of precious insight and delicious techniques your woman will be mind-blown by.

I feel like there’s so much information surrounding this subject, but it’s just all the same. What about some novelty? You’ve probably already tried every oral technique you found on the internet… so how about I give you something different and much more potent?

Try these spontaneous oral moves to give your lady the ultimate orgasmic pleasure! Let’s have some fun, shall we?

Get more access

What about an all-access oral position? If she’s not shy about it, tell her to sit on her hands and knees while you slide under her body, exactly like an auto-mechanic. You will love this position because it gives you a great view and access to all those hot spots you wanna hit.

I suggest you start with anything but her intimate area. Make her beg for oral by touching, kissing, and licking her nipples, the sides of her stomach (a very sensitive spot), her inner thighs… By the time you get to the clitoris, she’ll be soaking wet.

Alternate the pressure intensity

Many men don’t know that the clitoris craves pressure in order to become completely orgasmic. Sure, lips and tongue are great for stimulation, but when they masturbate women mostly rely on hand pressure. Just press the palm of your hand against her clitoris while making an up and down type of movement, alternating pressure from very low to hard. She’ll go crazy!

Do it somewhere else

It’s summertime and maybe one night you realize you’re alone in the pool. Don’t miss the chance to use this scenery in your favor! Have your lady sit on the edge of the pool with her legs on your shoulders while you’re inside the pool. This view is so sexy that you don’t even need to try too hard to impress. Use your tongue, as well as your lips, to make that clitoris vibrate. You can also rise up from the water and give her a deep kiss on the mouth to make her feel like she’s part of a sexy commercial for swimwear.

Sexy suction moment

Everything will feel even better if you manage to increase the blood flow to the area: her lips and clitoris will engorge, making the orgasm more powerful than ever. So while she’s in a squat position, sitting on your face, use your whole mouth to suck on her labia and clitoris, alternating with pressure moves. She will love it so much that she’ll probably need help maintaining that squat position.

Give her a hot view

Women are just as aroused by porn as men are – 1-2 minutes of X-rated videos can make them seriously horny. So while she might get defensive when you express your desire to watch porn, she will be more than happy to watch some seriously hot videos while you go down on her. You’re busy with kissing and licking so she won’t feel embarrassed by whatever is happening in the video – because she’s the only one watching.

This will help her achieve a more intense orgasm and also to become more inclined to watch porn with you.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My darling, oral can become your biggest asset if you learn how to master the right techniques. To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

Men always ask me what is the secret to female orgasm and I always answer: the clitoris. Whether you stimulate it using your tongue, your lips, your hand or even a vibrator, this hot spot will send your lover into an orgasmic mood almost instantly.

But its sensitivity is what also makes it tricky to work with: too much rubbing will turn her off completely. Using your tongue like a pointy knife will have the same effect, even though you’re convinced that this is your best oral trick ever.

When I created my Oral Rapture program, I made sure to uncover the real winning moves when it comes to oral stimulation, so that your lover’s clitoris receives the best of the best.

I’m actually really passionate about oral sex and clitoral stimulation in general because my husband used to be very bad at it. So I had to become better and better at finding out what moves I really like and also at expressing what I want. Because I know women have such a hard time asking for what they really want…

Of course, I fantasized about my husband reading my mind and getting me aroused without any guidance at all, but I slowly began to realize that this wasn’t realistic at all. It was just something that was going to keep us from evolving as a couple.

So after I became an expert in everything related to female orgasm, I shared my knowledge with my husband and now we’re always on the same page.

But not all women share this same story – in fact, most women are still waiting for their partner to read their minds, which means they have little to no chance to receive the right kind of stimulation.

Luckily, I am here to share some universally orgasmic techniques – so read on to find out how to treat her clitoris!

Keep your tongue flat and apply medium pressure on her clitoris while slightly moving the tongue up and down. This will mimic the move she makes with her hand when she masturbates – it’s what allows her to reach orgasm in less than 2 minutes.

Apply pressure around her clitoris, not directly on it. This spot is so sensitive that sometimes direct stimulation actually prevents her from reaching orgasm. Try stimulating the skin around the clitoris, which is packed with millions of nerve endings, and see if she likes it more that way.

Massage it with your erect penis. It’s not only a very erotic view, but it also feels amazing, mostly because of the warmth of your penis. The skin-on-skin contact will feel so good that she will implore you to penetrate her. So tease her as much as you can.

Use some coconut oil. Every move you make down there will feel better if she’s slippery, especially since the clitoris is so sensitive. So apply a small amount of coconut oil on your palm and start massaging her whole intimate area – not just her clitoris. Do it slowly and even insert one or two fingers into her vagina.

Suck on her labia and clitoris while fingering her. This combination will take her by surprise which will amplify every sensation.

Draw circles around and on the clitoris. Studies have shown that ladies adore this type of movement, so do it for about 15 seconds while fingering her. If she starts moaning harder, apply even more pressure with your tongue – especially around her clitoris, not directly on it. Try not to keep your tongue too pointy.

Caress her clit with feather-like touches. Use your fingers to barely touch the area, going up to her belly button. You will awaken her whole body!

Change the angle of approach by kneeling in front of her while she sits on a table. You’ll have more access to the key areas and you’ll be able to create different sensations. This position is also one of the sexiest you can try because it brings a little spark of domination – she’ll feel hot and powerful and this will work in your advantage.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I can promise you this: your lady craves clit action! If you want to blow her mind with oral techniques she’s never experienced before, check out my program on the matter: Oral Rapture.

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

Great oral sex need not be a chore or challenge. I’m going to give you tips on how to get the act right.

Many find oral sex, which involves using your mouth, lips and tongue to provide sexual pleasure to your partner, intimidating. However, it’s a proven fact that it helps enhance a sexual encounter. If you are looking for a complete guide on how to ace the game, look no further. PS: You can thank me later.

Get the basics right

Firstly, hydrate yourself. Oral sex is a lot of effort involving the use of saliva. You don’t want to be tired or dehydrated during the act. Brush your teeth and use a mouthwash. Make sure your partner cleans up his genital area beforehand too, for optimum overall hygiene. Oral sex is about your mouth coming into contact with the most intimate part of your partner’s body. To ensure that there is no cross-transfer of any infections or bacteria, it is vital to maintain hygiene. Genital fluids, urine, sweat, pubic hair, are all carriers of infection. Similarly, your mouth may also be a carrier for bacteria, especially if you are prone to mouth sores and ulcers. So are your hands, if you’re using them on your partner’s genitals. For this reason, hygiene is of utmost importance.

Don’t ignore the foreplay

Be it intercourse or oral sex, foreplay is bound to amplify the pleasure. Even if you’re planning to have oral sex, you needn’t start off there for stimulation. You can turn your partner on with foreplay—kissing, undressing, caressing, and stimulating each other’s erogenous zones. Not only does this prolong the pleasure, but also helps you find the right posture for the experience, and once you do go down on her, she’s more than prepared for it. To set the mood, talk dirty or whisper sweet nothings into her ears.

Get your technique right

A few time-tested methods go a long way in optimizing the experience. Start off gently, then pick up pace. The clitoris and the sides of the labia are sensitive points that react easily to stimulation; focus on them. Once her vagina is adequately moistened, it’s time for your mouth to work its magic. Ensure smooth movement! While some women don’t mind teeth, most find them grazing against delicate skin painful. Ask before you take the plunge! Needless to say, nipping and biting are a strict no-no.

Use your hands

Oral sex doesn’t necessarily translate into a hands-free experience. In fact, oral sex is enhanced with the combined use of hands. While using your tongue on the clitoris, you could also use your hands in tandem to ensure the base of the genital area gets some action as well. Also, it’s difficult to sustain oral sex by using just the mouth, since it can get exhausting. Using your hands interchangeably can help pace it out. Plus, a change of pace can help prolong pleasure and delay the orgasm. For more information on amazing fingering methods, check out my program called Flirting Fingers.

Communicate openly

Just like with penetrative sex, even during oral sex, communication is key. You should take cues from what your partner likes or dislikes. Don’t give into pressure; work within the boundaries of what you’re comfortable with. After all, even with oral sex, you need to be invested in it – it can’t be viewed as an unpleasant task that one needs to get done with; that’s not what your partner would like either. While verbal cues from your partner are important, watch out for non-verbal cues too. Throbbing and twitching are signals that she’s enjoying the experience. Lastly, be confident. A man who acts like he’s in charge of the oral sex experience is always a huge turn-on.

What’s your position?

There are several positions that work for oral sex. Your partner lying on her back, with you straddling her legs and bending over is the most popular and convenient position. Use enough pillows to prop her up, and offer you better leverage. The other option if you’re fit, is her standing, or sitting on a chair, with you kneeling down before her. The 69 position is great, because it also enables your woman to return the favor; however, this can be clumsy unless you guys are pros. A way to work around it is to do the ‘sideways 69’, which involves you two lying down on your sides and replicating the position.

TAKE IT UP A NOTCH

The 69 position ensures equal pleasure for both partners. The key to enjoying is to let yourself go, without worrying about how you’re performing. Use this chance to pleasure body parts that you wouldn’t otherwise have access to during penetrative sex – the outside of her thighs, and even her toes and ankles. For foreplay, let her lie down on the bed sideways, while you stand on the floor over his head. Then start kissing her, and work your way down her body until you’ve reached her vagina. If you’re on top, make sure you’re up for your arms and legs supporting your body through the act. If you’re below, you should be okay with your partner controlling how they maneuver their genitals onto your face. Another way to ensure that 69 is comfortable is to lie down next to each other, with his legs near your face and vice versa. Replicate the position, but with support for each of you.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Oral sex is a heavenly experience for both the giver and the receiver. And if you invite your fingers into the action as well it’s even more awesome. For more information on how to work those hot digits, check out my program on the subject – Flirting Fingers!

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…

There is nothing quite like the feeling of a warm, wet mouth on the vulva and clitoris. The tongue, with all of its flexibility and maneuvering abilities, has tremendous potential to give a woman erotic pleasure and bring her to orgasm. Some call it “going down,” “eating out,” or “giving head,” but the clinical term for oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris is cunnilingus. The word is derived from the Latin words “vulva” and “lick.” Licking the vulva of your female lover is a classic way to really get her juices flowing.

Before I get into the nitty gritty of going down the right way, I have to tell you to check my Boobgasm program because it contains very creative ways to use your tongue on her two girls and send her right on the path to an earth-shattering breast orgasm.

One way to get creative and have a little more fun with oral sex is to add some delicious flavors or treats. Stimulating your taste buds can make your sexual experience even more sensual. One option is to purchase flavored lubricants or condoms. Or you can try kissing and passing candy, mints, or gum back and forth between your mouths. Another option is to use syrup or liqueurs. Pour them on each other’s genitals and lick them off. Try smearing food on each other’s erogenous zones and then devour each other. Certain flavors like mint or cinnamon can add a tingly sensation — especially noticeable on the genitals — that your lover may really get into.

Yet another way to get creative is to play with the temperature and sensation. Try using an ice cube in your mouth as you give oral pleasure to your lover’s genitals or other erogenous zones. Sometimes cooling things down can really heat things up! Or warm your mouth with some hot water or tea before performing cunnilingus or fellatio. See how the extra heat adds to your partner’s pleasure.

Essential tip

When exploring your lover’s various erogenous zones with your mouth, you may find a responsive body part. She may communicate this to you verbally with her moans and other sounds of delight or with her body movements. When you find a responsive spot, hang out there for a while. See how much pleasure she can handle in that one area before you move on to another.

Don’t stick to the same old spot all the time

Your lover’s genitals are not the only parts of her body that are capable of deriving erotic pleasure from your mouth. See what other parts might be responsive. Take a tour of your lover’s whole body with your lips, tongue, teeth, and open mouth. Lick, suck, nibble, bite, and blow your way around her magnificent landscape. See the different responses you get from the toes and fingers, ears, neck, nipples, and navel.

Stimulate the G-Spot

Often, if you stimulate a woman’s G-spot while performing cunnilingus, you will send her to the stars. This works best once she is already very aroused and close to orgasm. It can greatly intensify her orgasm. To reach the G-spot you will need to insert one or two fingers, palm side up, inside of her vagina. Press toward her pubic bone, about one and a half to three inches in. You are feeling for a spongy bulb of tissue. When you find it, use a come-hither motion. Check in with your lover and explore any other motions that feel particularly good to her.

Take her all the way there

Bringing your female lover all the way to orgasm may require that you have both patience and endurance. Her arousal has to build at its own pace. It will help if the erotic energy between the two of you has been building for a while before starting cunnilingus. When you feel like she is getting closer, keep up the stimulation in a constant and steady manner. Be careful in your excitement not to overdo the pressure on her clitoris. It is fine to increase the pace a little bit, but let it build gradually. When she starts to come, don’t back off of the stimulation just yet. See her all the way through the end of her orgasm, or until she asks you to stop.

Once your lover has an orgasm, you may need to ease off of her clitoris, which will most likely be very sensitive at this point. Rather than abandoning her vulva altogether, however, you can cup your hand lightly over the entire area. This is a soft way to stay in contact with her as she makes her descent back down to resting. It allows the two of you to bask in the afterglow of her orgasm.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. According to Chinese Taoism, performing cunnilingus is way to increase one’s vitality. The ingestion of vaginal fluids, or feminine elixir, is considered a health practice. You know what else is good for your health – and hers? Bringing her to orgasm by enjoying your favorite activity – playing with her breasts. Check out my Boobgasm program for hot and new ways to make her come via boob play alone.

Click Here For More Advanced Sex Secrets…