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  • Nine Sex Mistakes to Avoid Like the Plague

    Many men write in to ask me about how to get their partners to have sex with them more. It can be hard to know exactly why your partner might be less interested in sex than she once was. Sometimes these things just happen in relationships and over time the heat begins to fizzle out.

    However, there are some things that you might be doing that are flat out turning her off from sex. In the beginning she may have overlooked these things, but now they just get under her skin and make her want to avoid the bedroom.

    How do you know if you’re committing one of these fatal mistakes? Consult my list to see if you might be guilty of one or two… then change your game quickly!

    You’re giving only to receive – The sign of a truly good lover is one that gives to his partner because he truly enjoys getting her off, not because he’s waiting for his own payoff. He probably even gets off just on giving her pleasure.
    You’re receiving and forgetting to give back – If you’re lucky enough to have a partner who gives without expecting anything in return, make sure you always give back anyway. It’s great to be able to pamper one another and put all the attention on one of you once in a while, but unless she specifically tells you, “no, tonight is just about pleasing you,” you should plan to reciprocate.
    You stick with the tried and true – You’re so worried about doing something she won’t like that you stick with the same boring, old routine every time. I hate to break it to you, but the routine can be just as disappointing as trying something new that doesn’t go off well. Give something new a try and then check with her afterward to see if she was into it. She will at least be please with the effort.
    Any bit of affection is a precursor for sex – Your partner knows when you kiss her passionately, flirt with her, cuddle with her, give her a massage, or whatever else, you’re only after one thing: SEX. You’ve reduced the intimacy in the relationship down to pre-sex activity instead of just being intimate and affectionate for the sake of being close to one another. This can create distance in a relationship and you definitely don’t want that. Be affectionate without hoping for anything more and let her know you’re not always after sex.
    You roll over and go to sleep right after sex – You may have been together for a long, long time, but that doesn’t mean that you should just roll over and fall asleep the minute sex is over. Give her some cuddle time, rub her back, or at the very least fall asleep with her in your arms.
    You’ve never asked her what she likes – I know talking about sex can be hard for many people. It means putting yourself in a vulnerable position, and most people aren’t comfortable doing that. However, if you don’t ask her what she likes and doesn’t you’re giving up the chance to become the best lover she’s ever had. If it’s really difficult for you, try asking her in the heat of the moment, “tell me what you like,” “do you like it like that?” or “show me.” Sometimes it’s easier to open the lines of communication through a little bit of naughty talk.
    You never give her oral sex – Many women don’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone, so if you’re giving her a peck and calling it a night after sex, you might want to rethink your game. Start the evening by going down on her for a change.
    You skip or skimp on the foreplay – I have gone over and over this, so instead of beating a dead horse I’ll just say, don’t skip the foreplay and don’t kiss her for 2 minutes and then think that’s enough. Enjoy yourself!
    You always have sex in your favorite position – Does she enjoy your favorite position as much as you do or are you just assuming that it’s as good for her as it is for you? Let her take the lead next time.

    Righting these mistakes will make you a better, more sensitive lover and definitely improve her experience in the bedroom.

    Big kiss,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Aphrodisiacs to Fire up Your Libido

    Named after Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love, pleasure, and procreation, aphrodisiacs are foods that are believed to boost your libido and fertility. Although the FDA says that aphrodisiacs are a myth, there are some researchers that have found that some foods and herbs do stimulate hormones (mainly testosterone) and other chemicals that affect our libido. Then there are “super foods” that rev up our metabolism or give us energy, which can also have benefits to the libido.

    How to Aphrodisiacs Work?

    Aphrodisiacs work in two ways, according to experts: by stimulating the mind or by creating desire by exciting the body.

    Whether you believe in aphrodisiacs or not, it certainly can’t hurt to try them and is also a great excuse to have a sexy feast for two, to start off a hot night of lovemaking!

    Sexy Foods

    Here are some of the most popular aphrodisiacs and how they may affect your libido.

    Almonds, Nuts and Salmon
    Almonds, Brazil nuts, cashews, pine nuts, flax seed and pumpkin seeds are all high in magnesium, vitamin E and fiber and contain essential fatty acids which produce testosterone and estrogen in men and women to increase libido. Magnesium is a natural vasodilator, which improves circulation to the genitals to aid in erectile dysfunction and helps increase estrogen production in women. Pine Nuts have lots of zinc as well, which helps to energize the sex drive. Many nuts as well as salmon also contain high levels of omega-3 fatty acids, which raise serotonin levels in the brain to improve sexual desire and function.

    Asparagus
    Asparagus is a great source of Vitamin E and B, which is involved in stimulating the production of sex hormones in both men and women which is important for a healthy libido.

    Avocados
    Avocados grow on trees and hang in pairs, resembling testicles, so the Aztecs named the Avocaodo tree the “testicle tree”! Rich in vitamin E, these creamy rich fruit are thought to produce “hormones like testosterone, estrogen, and progesterone, which circulate in the bloodstream and stimulate sexual responses like clitoral swelling and vaginal lubrication” . Avocados also contain vitamin B6 which increases testosterone production and potassium which helps increase libido in both men and women.

    Bananas
    Bananas are not only phallic in shape, but are also full of potassium, which boosts energy and muscle strength, making orgasm contractions more intense. They also contain the bromelain enzyme which is a male-libido booster.

    Berries and Pomegranates
    Strawberries have the visual appeal of female nipples and have always been symbols of sensuality. They contain a high amount of zinc which acts like a natural Viagra and vitamin C which helps keep blood flowing to all regions of the body. Blueberries help relax blood vessels, improving blood flow, for stronger erections and better lubrication in women. Goji Berries are one of the newest “super foods” which increase testosterone levels, improve overall stamina, mood and wellbeing. Pomegranates increase blood flow due to their powerful antioxidants, and the juice has been found in one study to aid in erectile dysfunction.

    Celery
    Celery contains androstenone, a powerful male hormone which acts as a brain-stimulating pheromone. When you bite into celery, this pheromone is released which triggers the most primitive part of a woman’s brain, to get her in the mood even if she is unaware of it.

    Chocolate
    Dark chocolate contains phenylethylamine, an amino acid that stimulates feelings of love and wellbeing, while raising the body’s endorphins and creating a sense of euphoria. It also causes increases in dopamine, said to create feelings of pleasure and tryptophan, which the brain transforms into serotonin, the “happy” hormone. Anandamide, another component, mimics a cannabis high by heightening sensitivity. Chocolate also functions as a vasodilator, improving circulation, and as a stress reliever, reducing cortisol levels. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

    Honey
    Like bee pollen, honey has powerful aphrodisiac qualities. It contains boron, which regulates estrogen and testosterone levels and provides a natural energy boost as well as the B vitamins which aid in testosterone production. During medieval times, mead, a fermented drink made from honey, was a popular drink thought to promote sexual desire. Newly wedded couples in ancient Persia also drank mead every day for a month which became known as the “honeymoon” to promote a successful union.

    Hot Chilies
    Hot peppers and chilies contain a chemical called capsaicin, which gets the blood pumping and stimulate nerve endings. But they also stimulate endorphins which make you sweat and get your heart all revved up, all of which imitate how you feel when sexually aroused. In addition, hot chilies contain serotonin which gets you in the mood.

    Oysters
    Oysters are one of the best known aphrodisiacs and contain zinc, which increases testosterone as well as the sex drive. They also contain amino acid which researchers think trigger sex hormone production including D-aspartic acid (D-Asp) and N-methyl-D-aspartate (NMDA).

    Watermelon
    Watermelon contains the phytonutrient citrulline which is converted to arginine, thus increasing nitric oxide in the body. Nitric oxide, like Viagra speeds up circulation to the genitals and relaxes the blood vessels, which improves blood flow to the penis aiding in getting and keeping a hard-on. In women, it enhances sexual desire by supplying more blood to the genitals which improves sensation as well as lubrication. The lycopene in watermelon also enhances male fertility by increasing sperm production.

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    Now that you have the ingredients, try combining them into a meal or dessert to add fuel to your foreplay for a hot night of sex.

    Main Course:

    Chile-Honey-Glazed Salmon

    Try pan fried or grilled Salmon in honey-glazed, chili, and pomegranate sauce, sprinkled with pine nuts, with asparagus and avocado on the side.

    Dessert:

    Chocolate Fondue with Fresh Fruit

    Or, how about a simple dark chocolate fondue with fresh aphrodisiac fruit? Melt chunks of dark baking chocolate in a fondue pot. Mix with honey and vanilla to sweeten and flavor. Serve with chunks of bananas, strawberries, and watermelon for a decadent dessert.

    Bon Appetite,

    Gabrielle Moore

    Sources:
    (http://science.howstuffworks.com/aphrodisiac2.htm)
    (http://www.anneofcarversville.com/body-politics/2011/5/6/sensual-superyoung-sexy-healthy-diet-foods.html)

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  • 5 Natural Ways to Turbocharge Her Sex Drive

    5 Natural Ways to Turbocharge Her Sex Drive

    “The world is little, people are little, human life is little. There is only one big thing — desire.”
    ? Willa Cather

    I just finished chatting with a girlfriend of mine who was complaining about her her lack of sexual desire in her relationship. She has been with the same guy for the last 15 years. She is still in love with him and she’s still attracted to him, but she just doesn’t feel like having sex. Not just with him, but with anyone. Her husband, on the other hand? He still wants to have sex on a regular basis and it’s been a problem in their relationship for a long time. She’s come to a point where she just doesn’t know what to do about it anymore.

    Does this sound familiar? Believe me, it’s something I hear about all the time. I hate to make generalizations when it comes to the genders, but here I go. Men tend to want sex a lot more than their women partners, especially in long term relationships. Desire might fade a bit for both people, but men still want sex on a regular basis whereas some women could go forever without it. One of the questions I hear a lot from our readers is how they can reignite their lover’s interest in their sexual relationship. Having the best sexual techniques is super important. You want to be able to really WOW her when you have her in the bedroom, but if you can’t even get to that point we need to start by working on desire.

    One thing that surprises a lot of people is that there are various lifestyle changes that have a huge effect on sexual desire. They don’t realize that how they treat their bodies has a direct effect on sexual functioning and desire. So here are my favorite 6 ways to turbocharge her sexual desire (and your own!) in a completely natural way.

    1. Exercise – Exercise is a great way to increase a person’s sexual drive and their enjoyment of sex. Of course you can’t suggest that your partner should start hitting the gym, she’s sure to take that the wrong way and assume you want her to lose weight! So you’re going to have to be creative about ways that you can exercise together. Exercise will benefit you by improving your sexual performance and enjoyment as well. Try suggesting going for hikes, bike rides, and brisk walks in the evening to settle your meal. Not only are these nice activities that can increase the non sexual intimacy in your relationship (which for women is important for sexual desire), but exercise also makes the body release endorphins which are believed to increase other hormones in the body and lead to an increased sexual drive. Working out will also get more blood flowing throughout your bodies, including to the genitals, increasing pleasure.

    2. Get Sweaty – While we’re on the topic of exercise, the next time you get hot and sweaty working out, skip the shower and go give your lady and nice big hug. There is a compound found in male sweat that can greatly increase a woman’s sexual desire. And go easy on the cologne, she should be able to take in your natural, sexy scent.

    3. Eat Oysters – Oysters have always been linked to sexuality. You’ve probably wondered if a food could really change a person’s desire level. What you eat plays a big role in desire. In general a healthy, balanced diet will naturally increase a person’s sex drive, but there are also specific foods that have been linked to increasing desire. You have probably heard of aphrodisiacs. While there isn’t one single food that she will eat and immediately become a sex starved maniac, there are foods that give the libido a boost. Oysters, in particular, have various elements that make them a big time aphrodisiac. First, they contain dopamine, a hormone that makes you feel really good. They also contain zinc, which is shown to increase testosterone, a key hormone for both men and women’s sexual arousal. They are even said to contain very rare amino acids that increase testosterone and the female sex hormone progesterone.

    4. Help Her Relax – Studies have shown that steam can naturally increase a woman’s libido, so the next time you’re in the mood for some loving, draw her a hot, steamy bath first. The steam will take its effect, but your partner will also be emotionally moved by your thoughtful gesture. Her mental state plays a big role in her desire and enjoyment of sex, so helping her to relax will certainly help to set the mood.

    5. Hot and Spicy – Make another romantic gesture and cook her a hot and spicy meal. Hot chiles, spicy curries, and cumin are said to naturally increase arousal by increasing blood flow throughout the body and to the genitals. And as an added bonus, she’ll love that you cooked for her.

    Boosting your partner’s sex drive can happen in many different ways. You can’t just rely on one way or another. Being thoughtful and affectionate can bring you closer to your spouse and increase your intimacy on an emotional level, which will in turn make things more interesting in your physical relationship.

    Hot and spicy kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Seduction Guide – Seduce Your Partner in 6 Steps

    Seduction Guide – Seduce Your Partner in 6 Steps

    The art of seduction. Seduction is truly an art form if done the right way. To seduce is not just having sex. It’s not just foreplay. It’s desire, it’s intimacy, it’s consideration, passion, and fire. It’s thinking of and taking care of every last detail. To seduce is to leave a lasting impression on your partner.

    Especially those of us in long term relationships usually are really in need of good seduction techniques. You get married or you’ve been with your girlfriend for a long time and the spark that you once had starts to fizzle out. It happens to all of us at some point. Usually both partners are unhappy with this, but neither knows what to do about it. Both partners need to put in effort into the relationship like they once did. That’s where seduction comes in. Here are your 6 ways to seduce your partner and reignite the flame of your sexual relationship:

    1. Be a Giver – Give. Give a lot. I’m not talking about gifts here, I’m talking about attention, love, cuddles, sexual favors, etc. Compliment her in a genuine way. When you have those moments when you look at her and you think “damn, she’s sexy,” tell her! When she’s had a bad day, give her a shoulder rub. When you’re in bed together do the things she likes. Surprise her with a special food or sweet that you know she loves, just because. These things might not seem like they have anything to do with sex, but for women, you being thoughtful and giving is completely connected to how attractive you are and our feelings for you. Win our hearts in one area and we’ll be much more interested in showing our appreciation in the bedroom.

    2. Caress and Show Affection – Next time you’re dying to get down and dirty, try showing some loving affection instead of getting sexual right off the bat. Women can’t be turned on like a light switch and if you try just grabbing her and starting to feel her up, she might just get annoyed, not turned on. Instead try giving her a long hug, stroking her hair or giving her a kiss.

    3. Communicate – Women like to talk (generally). If you want to connect with her then communicating is a big way to her heart and her attention. Make sure that you and your partner have time every day to talk about life, your relationship and things going on in the world.

    4. Perfect the Art of Massage – An amazing massage can go a long way toward connecting you to your partner body and soul. Just touching each other in a caring way is a great start, but when you take it to the next level and massage her, she will feel amazing physically and mentally. You can even take it to the next level by purchasing a massage table and taking a massage class to make sure you’ve really got the skills to make her swoon.

    5. Show Your Appreciation – One of the biggest complaints women have about their relationships is that they don’t feel appreciated by their partner. If we are going to generalize here I would say that many women are givers. They like doing things for the ones they love, but after years together she might feel like you don’t even notice all of the nice and thoughtful things she does. It’s time to take notice and start telling her how much you appreciate her. This is as simple as just saying “thank you.” For example, you’ve both had a long day of work and she comes home and cooks you a great meal. Just saying, “hey, I know you had a long day and thanks so much for this amazing meal. It’s delicious.” Then if you offer to do the clean up then you’re really going to win points! This will bring you closer together as she feels like you’re more in tune with her feelings and needs.

    6. Plan a Special Night – Go the extra mile and plan an amazing date night as often as you can. Whether it’s once a week or once a month, it will be a great time to reconnect and get the sparks flying. She’ll love that you came up with such a thoughtful idea. Plan the first one and then get her input on the following dates. You can even take turns planning, but make sure you commit to doing it. Don’t let life get in the way. Make your relationship a priority and you will reap the benefits!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • How to Get Into Her Head

    How to Get Into Her Head

    Remember when you and your partner first started dating, way back when? All you could do was think about each other and have sex! Is that still true today? If you’re one of the lucky guys that answers yes to this question, congratulations! The reality is, most of us, men and women alike, answer no. It’s not that we are all in bad or unhealthy relationships. A dying down of the flame between you and your spouse is completely normal, but if the flame has all but extinguished then you need to take action right away.

    If you have been following my work for a while now, you might already know that the most important erogenous zone for a woman is her brain. Before touch or turning on any other part of her body, you need to first get her in the right mood. This doesn’t have to be impossible if you know what to do.

    It all comes down to good and healthy communication between you and your partner. Women tend to be the ones who love talking things out, whereas men are usually the quieter gender, but that doesn’t have to be the case. The right kind of communication can bring you closer and get you having a lot more sex. Here’s the way to use communication to get back into her thoughts, her head… and her pants!´

    * Compliment her – Many women worry a lot about how they look, both during sex and outside of the bedroom. These concerns can seriously and negatively affect her desire level. It makes sense if you think about it. If she doesn’t feel attractive, she doesn’t feel like having sex. Unfortunately, you can’t completely fix all of her negative body image issues for her, but you can make a difference. Just think, negative thoughts about herself are running through her head and you need to find a way to combat those thoughts. The best way for you to do that is to shower her with compliments!

    Be genuine. Your compliments should be honest and from the heart. She will be able to spot insincerity. It’s great to tell her how beautiful and sexy you think she is. Make sure you do so, both in the bedroom and out. However, you should also compliment her about other things. For example, when she’s just done something great at work, tell her how smart she is and how much she impresses you. Show her how wonderful you think she is and she’ll start feeling wonderful. You both will start feeling closer to each  other and the intimacy in the relationship will grow. When women feel close and intimate with their partners their desire level grows.

    * Let her know you think about her – When you were first together you probably called her all the time, sent text messages and emails (if those were around back then!), and did all kinds of thoughtful things for her. Over the years those things change. It’s not always a bad thing, if continued to think about each other and talk like we do in the beginning of a relationship, we would never get anything done! But it’s time to start doing some of those things again. Send her a sweet message now and then. Bring her a thought gift. Send her flowers. Remember that a thoughtful gesture doesn’t have to be grand or expensive. It can be as simple as bringing her a favorite coffee drink at work one afternoon or picking up her favorite dessert one evening.

    * Pamper her – Be a gentleman. Take care of her. Give her a back rub after a long day. Listen to her rant about her boss. Take an interest in what interests her.

    * Talk dirty – Then take the communication into the bedroom. When talking dirty make sure that you do what comes naturally. Talking dirty doesn’t always have to be just one way. It can be as vanilla and simple as, “you’re so sexy, you turn me on so much.” Or it can be dirtier, for example, “your pussy is so wet and delicious, I could eat you out all day.” Do what feels natural to you.

    You can also give feedback and ask for feedback in a sexy way. Ask her if she likes what you’re doing or better yet, say “show me how you like it.” When giving her feedback always keep it very positive. Say, “it feels so good when you do…” instead of saying, “don’t do…”

    Have fun communicating and seeing the sparks fly once again!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Sex Advice from Real Women

    Sex Advice from Real Women

    This weekend I went to brunch with a few of my best girlfriends. After catching up about our personal lives the conversation turned to sex, as it always does with my friends! One of them was complaining, “if there was only a way to directly tell men what they’re doing wrong or what I want without offending them.” Even though I talked to them about how there were ways to communicate your needs without offending, they insisted that some men would just take it badly if their woman told them what to do in bed. What do you think, guys? Are my friends right?

    Based on that conversation, I decided to bring women’s sex advice to you. I’ve compiled specific sex tips from 9 real women. The only instruction I gave them was, “if you could tell your sexual partner one thing to do differently, more, or NOT do in bed, what would it be?”

    “I really love it when my husband goes really slow. He gets excited and started thrusting faster and faster and sometimes that feels good, but what feels 100 times better than that is when he pulls all the way out and then penetrates me over and over again slowly. When he thrusts too fast I start to lose sensitivity, but when he goes slow I feel every bit of him enter me and it brings me to the brink so fast!”
    -Kiley, 41 years old

    “I hate it when my boyfriend kisses me really sloppy. Sometimes he licks and sucks all over my face. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but it just turns me off. I wish I could tell him without hurting his feelings, but how can I say that I don’t like the way he kisses?! I wish he would just pay attention to the way I kiss him and get the hint THAT is what I like!”
    – Rebecca, 32 years old

    “I love that our relationship doesn’t just have to be about intercourse anymore. It used to be all my husband wanted to do, but now we have a much more interesting sex life and it’s a lot more satisfying for me. We touch each other, we cuddle, we take showers together, we give each other oral sex. Sometimes we have orgasms and sometimes we just are together. We have grown even closer and it makes me even more attracted to him, even after all these years.”
    – Melany, 54 years old

    “Nothing gets me off faster than when my husband plays with my tits and fingers me at the same time. He starts just playing with my boobs and then when I’m nice and wet he starts finger me at the same time as my boobs are in his mouth. He nibbles on my nipple and it sends me over the edge. I can’t get enough of that!”
    – Maggie, 38 years old

    “I wish my husband took more time for foreplay. I know that is such a typical complaint for women, but it’s so true! If he would just take a minimum of 5 minutes to get me warmed up and touch something other than my vagina, I would be so much more interested in sex. It just seems like it’s all about him.”
    – Lola, 43 years old

    “I know the minute my husband kisses, hugs or shows me any kind of affection that he wants sex. I wish he would do that without hoping for something in return! When I complain he just says, it’s just that you get me so hot. Sure, that’s great, but sometimes I want affection without sex.”
    – Carolyn, 28 years old

    “I never thought I would like anal sex, but one year on my husband’s birthday I decided to try it as a ‘present’ for him. To my surprise, I loved it! It’s not something I want every day, but it’s become our special present sex act! My husband takes time to get me REALLY turned on before going inside. Once he does he goes really, really slowly until I’ve gotten used to him being inside me. Then I start touching myself and I cum so fast and hard. It’s amazing.”
    – Veronica, 40 years old

    “Sometimes my husband goes down on me and won’t let me reciprocate. I love it when he does that. No matter what I do or say, he insists on pleasing me without anything in return. When he’s done I can just lay back and fully enjoy the afterglow. The next day I can’t stop thinking about how good it was. And I always make sure to return the favor another day.”
    – Carrie, 58 years old

    “I wish my boyfriend would be more creative with how we do it. Instead of waiting until I’m in bed and exhausted at the end of the day, why don’t you take me the minute I walk in the door? That would make me so hot. I would feel like you just HAD to have me that instant.”
    – Kim, 36 years old

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Avoid These 5 Sex Mistakes Like the Plague!

    Avoid These 5 Sex Mistakes Like the Plague!

    What is your biggest concern when it comes to your performance in bed? If I had to guess, based on my ten years of experience in the field and talking to thousands of men, I would say your biggest fear is probably being bad in bad. Plain and simple. No one wants to just be plain bad in bed. Not being the best seems to leave some room and possibility for improvement, but being bad? Most guys worry that this means they are starting from zero – no skills at all. I’m here to assure you, even if you’re one of the guys out there that worries about this, hope is definitely not lost. How can you avoid this horrible fate? Most guys focus on what they need to do to improve their technique. That’s a great start, but there is one other thing that is just as important. You also need to focus on what NOT to do in bed. Here are my top 5 sex mistakes that you need to avoid like the plague if you want to be a great lover:

    1. Don’t be a taker – One big complaint women have about men is that they’re selfish in bed. They just do what they want to do and don’t really take their partner’s pleasure into account. It may or may not surprise you to know that a lot of guys think just putting their penis inside a woman is good enough. They think because it feels great for them, it must feel great for their partner. Well, those guys are very wrong. Women need a lot more stimulation than that. Learn what she likes and do it!

    2. Men don’t pay attention – This is an important thing to keep in mind, especially for you, my dear readers. Not every woman likes every sex technique. You might read about a great sex technique on my site and try it out. She might LOVE it… or she might not. Just because it works for one woman doesn’t mean it will always work for all. Pay attention to her body language and physical reactions. Is her breath getting heavier, is she flushed, is she wet? What does her facial expression look like? Despite what porn might “teach” you, a woman usually doesn’t scream and moan like a mad woman the second you touch her. She might be loud or quiet as a mouse, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t enjoying things. You need to learn her arousal signals and tune into them completely.

    3. It’s all about your penis – This is a big mistake. Guys who think their penis is the only tool they have to please a woman is going to have a very disappointed and frustrated partner. If you have learned anything from me, and I hope you have, you’ve learned to use your mouth, your hands, your breath, your movements and your mind to please her.

    4. Doing the same thing every time – Routine is a killer for sexual desire. It’s a bit unfair really. Once you know your partner and exactly what you likes, you need to then start trying new things and changing up the routine so that sex doesn’t get boring! But this doesn’t mean that you have to reinvent the wheel every time you have sex. It could just be spending an extra 10 minutes on foreplay, changing the location or time of day when you usually have sex, trying a new position, or changing up the things you know she likes. You should still try completely new things, but it doesn’t have to be every time.

    5. Showing a lack of confidence – If a guy who worries too much about his sexual performance then his insecurity is going to shine bright like a beacon. You don’t want that to happen. Confidence is a hard thing to have when you’re not totally sure of yourself, but there is a trick to it. FAKE IT. Not feeling confident? Fake it. Not sure if you’re the best? Tell yourself that you are. One big mistake that guys can make is not knowing the difference between being sexy and confident vs macho and clueless. Remember the tips above, be a giver, pay attention to what she likes, treat her well! But with confidence. Confidence doesn’t mean being cocky and acting like you’re god’s gift to women.

    Avoid these 5 sex mistakes, my sexy readers, and you’re well on your way to being a great lover.

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 4 Brand New Moves to Make Her Want You More

    4 Brand New Moves to Make Her Want You More

    What do you do when you want sex more than she does? How can you convince her to have sex more without feeling like she’s only doing it to shut you up. You want her to WANT sex like you do. You want her to initiate sometimes. You want her to go crazy with desire for you when you touch her instead of just going along with it.

    One thing about women is that many times they might not be completely in the mood for sex, but they start being intimate with their partner, their desire kicks in and they DO want sex. However, you need to know how to touch her and turn her on in just the right way to make this happen sooner rather than later. The way you touch her when you’re just starting foreplay can completely set the foundation for her desire. Check out these 5 moves that will make her want you more:

    1. Show your dominant side – It might surprise you to know that a large majority of women enjoy it when their man shows his dominant side in bed. Even if she is a strong, super independant women, it still might be a huge turn on for her to have you take charge. A great move that will show your dominance is pinning her hands above her head and holding them there with one of your hands during foreplay and sex. To do this, gently move one of her arms above her head. Leave it there and trail your hands, caressing her body as you slide your hand down. If she brings her arm back down with you, gently put it back in place. Then take her other arm and put it above her head with the other. Pin her wrists down with one hand as you kiss her and touch her with your free hand. This is a huge turn on for a lot of women.
    *It’s really important to go slowly the first time you do this and gauge her reaction at every step. Some women will go absolutely wild for this move, but there are others that might not like it. If you’re getting signals that she isn’t into it, just release her hands and move on.
    **If you already know that your partner likes to be dominated and you’ve already experimented with a little bit of rough sex, feel free to be more assertive in this move.

    2. Use your hands when you kiss her – This is such a simple move, but barely any men out there use it and it’s SO effective. When you’re kissing her you should be using your hands to touch her. I’m not talking about groping her body right off the bat. That’s probably what you already do! You need to touch her how SHE wants to be touched first. Place your hands at the nape of her neck and run your hands through her hair as you kiss her. Remember that the scalp is an erogenous zone. You can even give a fistfull of her hair a gentle tug from the root as you kiss her. You can also sweep her hair back away from her face and gather it up in your hand, then stroke her face and neck with your other hand as you kiss her passionately.

    3. Shower her with compliments – Your partner might not be in the mood because she’s not feeling very sexy herself. How a woman feels, both about herself and her general mood, will play a huge role in her desire. Giving her compliments will boost her self esteem and improve her mood, making her much more open to sex. If you make the compliments about her body or her sexual skills, then it will plant the seed and get her thinking about sex with you in a positive way. For example, if you tell her “god, you’re so sexy, I can barely control myself around you,” the next time you’re in a non-sexual setting it will totally catch her off guard and make her feel great that she still catches your eye and turns you on. Another way is to compliment a particular part of her that you love: her breasts, her butt, her hips, her sexy voice, her lips, or even the way she walks. Most of the time we go through life never mentioning these things even if we notice them all the time. She has NO idea that she turns you on all the time, so why not let her know? It will definitely get her juices flowing.

    4. SHOW her you love her body – When you’re having sex or during foreplay, don’t just focus on her breasts, butt and vulva/vagina. A woman likes to be touched in other places too. Worship her body with your hands. Show her how much you appreciate ALL of her body. Use your hands when you’re making love, don’t just let them sit idle because you’re getting pleasure.

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 7 Ways to Get in the Mood!

    7 Ways to Get in the Mood!

    Let’s be honest. You might LOVE sex but there might be days when you’re just not in the mood. The general assumption is that men always want sex and are always up for it, any time, any day, just say the word. But that’s actually not the case for a lot of guys. There are days when you are tired or just don’t feel like it. And we all know that women also struggle to get in the mood sometimes. So, what can you do to get yourself in the mood and help your partner get in the mood? Luckily they are a lot of things one can do! Here are my favorite 7 things to help get you and your partner in the mood if you’re in a rut:

    1. Get your relationship in a good place – No one wants to have sex when you’re really not getting along. Take time to listen to your partner, take an interest in her life and make sure that you’re both feeling connected and close to each other. This will habour intimate and close feelings, which will lead to more intimacy and sex!

    2. Do other things in bed – I’m not talking about reading a book or playing games on your phone, but start thinking outside of the box when it comes to sex. You don’t need to have vaginal intercourse every time you have sex. If one person is tired and not in the mood and the other person wants to have sex, it might be a good opportunity for one person to give and the other to receive. A quick handjob can be really fun and feel great if your partner is not in the mood for sex. Or you could give her oral or finger her if you’re not in the mood. It’s a good way to connect without having to have sex. Apart from that, remember that orgasm doesn’t always have to be a part of it either. Sometimes you can just cuddle, give each other a massage, hold hands, make out or a number of other activities. Studies have shown that couples who engage in that kind of activity are happier in their relationships.

    3. Use a little help – There is nothing wrong with using a little pornography now and then to get the sparks flying. Women might even enjoy reading romance novels, which can be very sexual, to give their desire a boost. Porn or romance novels can put the idea in your head and provide you with an exciting fantasy to get the ball rolling.

    4. Location is everything – Desire starts to wain in a relationship because it becomes familiar and regular. In some ways that familiarity can be really comforting, but it also can kill a person’s libido after enough time together. One way to change things up without changing your partner up is by changing where you have sex. You’d be shocked at how much simply changing where you do can really turn you on.

    5. Try new things – On that same note, trying new things in the bedroom is another way to change things up and break out of the regular sex routine. Change up foreplay, talk dirty, play out a fantasy, role play, try a new position, or introduce food into your sex life. There are a lot of ways to change things up.

    6. Break a sweat together – Couples who are in great physical shape are more likely to have great sex because they’re taking good care of their bodies, but there is also an added benefit. Some of the chemicals in your body that are released during exercise are the same ones released during sex, so you are unconsciously making an association with your partner and those chemicals. Getting sweaty with her in one place will make you want to do it in another.

    7. Have more sex – It might sound funny, but the more you have sex, the more you’re going to want to have sex. You may have heard of the phrase, “use it or lose it.” Well, it actually does apply to your desire level, especially for women. If you go a long time without sex, you might actually find that you care less about having sex. But if you have sex regularly it’s a good reminder for why it’s so great for you and your relationship. Sometimes men and women have sex and desire isn’t actually the first thing they feel. They might do it because they want to feel closer to their partner, but they don’t feel desire at first. The desire comes later once they are actually already being intimate.

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Get Your Partner to Be More Open in Bed!

    Get Your Partner to Be More Open in Bed!

    One of the most challenging subjects for a couple to discuss is sex. Not only do people feel embarrassed to talk about sex in general, but when you’re talking about your own sex life you might feel especially self conscious. In this situation people can very easily get offended or take things the wrong way. Emotions are running high and everyone is sensitive about this issue. This poses a big problem because communicating about sex with your partner is one of the best ways to improve your sexual relationship. Your sex life isn’t always going to be perfect and when there is an issue, you need to be able to communicate about it in a healthy way.

    So, how does one learn how to talk about sex in a healthy way? I’m going to show you how. Learning how to talk about sex will help you and your partner open up and try new things and it will improve the quality of the sex you have because you will understand each other’s desires and needs even more.

    1. Start slowly – If you and your partner have never really talked directly about sex it’s probably not a good idea to jump in the deep end. Instead, start by dipping your toe in the water and testing things out. A good way to start is by talking to talk more during sex. I’m not talking about dirty talk, although this kind of communication can also be a big turn on for most people. Try whispering in her ear things like “I really want to make you feel amazing, show me what you like,” “I want to know what your fantasies are,” or “Tell me what you want me to do to you.” This gives her the invitation to share what she likes in bed and it’s also really sexy. In turn, she might ask you what you want and like!

    2. Just in case she doesn’t ask… – If your partner doesn’t ask what you like and want in bed, it’s important to know how to tell her in the right way. Since sex and performance can be a tricky subject, you have to choose your words wisely and make sure she doesn’t get offended. Always keep your comments positive. Try not to say “don’t do” that or “I don’t like” that. Instead try to put a positive spin on everything. Show her what you like and say “I love that,” or “wow, you’re really good at that.” Encourage her by complimenting things you like. Nothing is a bigger turn on that getting your confidence boosted and feeling like you’re really pleasing your partner. If you make her feel like she’s really rocking your world, she will be even more eager to please.

    3. Next level – The next step in working toward your sexual communication is to talk about sex in bed, but not during sex. This can actually work as great foreplay as well. Check out my previous post to learn about fun sex games you can play with your partner that also get you talking to each other about sex. For this next step, try asking your partner to share a fantasy with you next time you’re lying in bed together. You don’t have to talk about actually fulfilling it, but you can just ask “what is something you have always wanted to do sexually?” This is a great way to open up the dialogue about all kinds of sexual topics.

    4. The difficult talks – And then there comes the hard part. Since every relationship has its ups and downs when it comes to sex, there will be times when you need to talk about the difficult stuff, like why you aren’t having sex as much or other challenging topics. This can be really tricky, but there are a few ways to make things go easier. Don’t accuse. Instead of saying “you never want to have sex, you don’t even find me attractive anymore,” try saying, “it seems like you aren’t as interested in sex as you used to be and that makes me feel like you aren’t attracted to me anymore.” Don’t get defensive. Instead of immediately reacting to what your partner is saying, try considering it and thinking about it for a bit. Really listen to what she has to say. Difficult conversations can often get heated and then they cease to be productive because both parties stop listening.

    As you can see there are many ways to talk about sex. Some of them can be fun ways to spice up your relationship and others can be ways to get through difficult moments and resolve problems. But one thing that both have in common is that they have the power to bring you closer as a couple and make you have better sex, more often! It can be difficult to start communicating about sex, but once you’ve started, like any skill, it gets easier each time you do it. Your relationship will be better for it!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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