Regardless if you’re partnered up or flying solo, there are always times when there’s nothing else we’d rather do than have a little fun in the bedroom. Not only does sexual intercourse and foreplay help to release stress, it also produces feel-good hormones that can instantly boost your mood and confidence. But when it comes to women (and men, actually!), while she might be fantasizing sex on a Tuesday morning, by that evening she could be totally put off and would much rather cuddle with Netflix than you.

This is because women’s sex drives are often complex and confusing for couples to navigate. There’s also all sorts of misconceptions and surprising truths about what entices women’s bodies for sex, making the connection between two people pretty difficult to describe. Why? It’s always changing, and oftentimes, there’s no rhyme or reason for a woman’s varying shifts in desire and lust. A woman’s desire for sex can change throughout her life and there is no ‘normal’ level to experience.

Now that you know that she can be hot and cold whenever she feels like it, consider these facts about sex drive:

When it comes to getting in the mood, it’s not about her genitals

When it comes to what makes a woman excited to get naked, it’s less about what’s going on between her legs and more about mental attraction. Women feel desire for sex in different capacities and it can be affected by a variety of outside influencers: stress, anxiety, sense of emotional safety with a partner, hormone balance – these are just a few factors that can affect whether or not she wants to get busy with someone.

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Soy can lower female sex drive

From giving her an energy boost before working out to helping her get through that 3 p.m. afternoon crash at the office, what she fuels her body with is the driving force that connects her body to action. Women who have high-soy diets might experience a decreased desire to get jiggy with it. It has been reported that women who eat a lot of soy products usually have a low sex drive. Although soy products are high in nutritional value, they have phytohormones, which are known to change the endocrine system. This in turn lowers the female libido by seventy to eighty percent.

Women don’t like sex less than men — they just experience it differently

The running joke in nearly every television show or sitcom is women complaining about their partners initiating sex on the regular. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Some people are surprised to learn that there is no scientific evidence that supports the assumption that women simply have a lower sexual desire level than men. Our culture bases our understanding of sexual desire using male desire as a default, so anything that appears different from men’s sexual desire must be abnormal in some way. Every couple, every person is different.

Female sex drives might be more complex than we think

Because of how women’s bodies are built and the various chemicals they process, the act of getting it on is a different experience than it is for men. A female’s sex drive is more responsive, meaning that women don’t get ‘spontaneously’ turned on, but rather, they react to what their partner is doing in a given moment. Women respond to situations, initiation, or closeness with arousal. They may require more emotional intimacy, relaxation, relationship happiness, as well as sexual stimulation to build arousal. Cuddling and physical closeness has been found to have the same positive chemical response in women as sex, and may be the thing they desire at one moment or another. Testosterone was linked to desire in women if their cortisol levels (amount of stress) were low.

Another thing that might make a woman’s inclination toward intercourse more complicated is that what turns a woman on one day isn’t always the same thing that turns her on the next day (or sometimes, even the next hour). Women also tend to have more flexible sexual arousal patterns and orientation over time, meaning the things that get them hot change and can include different genders or sexual expressions. So while men have more spontaneous sexual feelings, women’s desire may be more complex, and highly linked to other factors that may need to be awakened to start a sexual connection.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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And when I’m talking about erotic moves, I’m certainly not only talking about penetration. I know you’re anxious to get in her pants (or maybe my intense training over the years has taught you a little about how to enjoy a hot prelude just as much as she does), but the erotic teasing à la Mr. Christian Grey (the guy from Fifty Shades of Grey that all ladies fantasise about) will make her wet her panties all day. Brushing her teeth, putting her tight skirt on, listening to her colleague complaining about her boyfriend in the office… she’ll be obsessing over you this whole time.

See, the female brain is very interesting when it comes to erotic pleasure. Of course, everything starts in the brain for you as well, but women are wired to make a lot more of those emotional connections that sometimes make her so… intense. This ability will heighten her imagination and create amazing scenarios that would put to shame any porn video you’ve ever watched. And while she’s thinking about all these hot scenarios that involve you, she often gets even more turned on than when she’s actually having sex — because anticipation is just unbearable. Her heart starts beating faster, she breathes heavily, her cheeks flush and she’s touching her neck without even realizing it. Yeah, she wishes you were inside her right at this moment.

But how can you subtly make a woman craving you all day long — even when she needs to get some serious work done but still can’t help but having wild thoughts about you? Prepare yourself because your sex game is about to get a total makeover. Here are my favourite powerful moves you can make on a woman to make sure you invade her brain pretty much non-stop.

Introduce a new move in bed

A friend of mine, let’s call her Amanda, had a great relationship with her boyfriend, but after only 3 months of passion, she was already starting to say no to sex. “Don’t get me wrong, he was a great lover. But I just got bored”, she told me. I wasn’t surprised, because it’s something all couples go through. They do the same things over and over again, and no matter how great it felt in the beginning, too much of anything can take away the excitement factor.

But this is where Amanda’s story starts to get spicy! “One night, everything changed between us sexually. I was trying to just be present for him, expecting the same scenario, when he surprised me with a totally different approach. First of all, he changed the way he was performing oral by using more lips and less tongue, making firm but gentle moves with his mouth and applying more pressure… slowly, which felt so amazing! It was impossible for me to control my body anymore. But that’s that all. When he finally got inside me, he started to grab my waist and pull me into him, like this strong sexy beast that I didn’t even know anymore. The sex was so great that I fantasized about him non-stop the next day. Not just about the sex itself, but more about his attitude. He already knew my body and what I liked, and he took this information and used it to create even more intensity. Wow, that right there changed our sexual dynamic forever”, Amanda confesses.

I can tell you for sure that there’s no greater way to stimulate imagination than novelty. Start a sexual revolution in your bedroom by introducing new moves when your woman least expects it and watch her body tremble with desire (her mind will, too!).

Talk at a slower pace

The way you talk is actually a key factor when it comes to attraction. Biologically, men are attracted to a higher pitch, while women love a confident lower pitch, which signals an interesting man who knows what he’s doing. Something as simple as lowering your voice while still keeping it strong will turn on the arousal button in her brain and make her think you’re inside her even if your conversation has nothing to do with sex. So an efficient method to obtain this voice effect is simply trying to talk slower than normal.

When you talk slower, every word is articulated properly and your tone becomes deeper and more sensual — at least to a woman’s ear! Actually, go even further and combine this trick with a sensual, “innocent” touch on her thigh while talking about something completely random, like the news you read in the newspaper yesterday morning. If your circumstances don’t allow for sex right now (maybe you’re on your lunch break), just know that she will have her way with you in her head until you meet again.

By the way, if you want to learn much more about how to build excitement with your woman through simple conversational strategies, check out this program created by my friend Jessica Lastimosa — it’s called “Speak to Spark Arousal” and it contains some interesting and original tricks which will help you stimulate her mind the right way. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

Play a little game

This gets me every damn time. A little fun game in the bedroom will make you both feel like partners in crime and will just stimulate her mind to let go of inhibitions.

Games make us feel safe and free because they remind us of a time in our lives when we had zero responsibilities. When we were happy and careless. This really helps in the bedroom because it makes her let go and enjoy the fun. So say something like “I’m going to just sit here and do nothing. I’ll just look at you until you tell me what to do.” In other words, offer her total control. Challenge her to think of the most pleasurable moves that she wants you to do on her and to say it out loud so that you can execute accordingly. This will not only make her horny as hell and eager to have you again as soon as possible but will also give you the unique opportunity to learn more about what truly awakens her passion.

Take it to the next level and make this game into a secret ritual: tell her you want to play a different game once a month and let her pick the next one. This will keep her mind busy… sexually.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Believe it or not, the things you say matter more than you think. Language is very important when it comes to attraction, especially during those first few stages when we “dance” together, completing a mating ritual. Every little word or tone of voice can bring you closer… or further to the woman of your dreams. And no matter how handsome you are, you’ll never get to awaken that passion within her if your sexual communication skills are down to the minimum level — she’ll simply stop finding you attractive after you start talking. One of my best friends, Laura, is a great example of this dynamic. “You know, I was out with some friends and I spotted this incredibly handsome man at the bar. He was sitting there alone, looking at people, and I started imagining what he was thinking. I was ready to believe all the good stuff about him: that behind his pretty face there’s certainly an intellectual and emotional being that could take my emotions to the next level. Because you know how I like to idealize men that I’m attracted to. But when I finally approached him, he just made an indelicate remark about my butt which completely erased the attraction I was feeling towards him. I just walked away laughing at myself for thinking I wanted this man before even talking to him”, she confessed the other day.

This is why language is not just a simple tool for interacting with people. It is a way of expressing yourself, and the way you express yourself determines people to see you in a certain way. Women have a higher emotional intelligence — no offence! — so language is so much more important to them, especially when it comes to attraction and mating. Actually, women choose their mates based on their social and communication skills. This doesn’t mean you have to be the most popular guy in the building, you just have to be able to use language in a way that makes her feel sexy and desired. It is time to replace your boring phrases with these sensual remarks that make her want you more&always.

You say: “Let’s have sex.”

Say this instead: “Your skin looks incredible. I can’t wait to kiss every inch of it.”

Being direct isn’t a bad thing but especially in a long-term relationship, it becomes really boring and unattractive to simply say you want to have sex. In the first few months, it may be enough (not for every woman, though) because the novelty of the relationship keeps those butterflies alive — but nothing fades quicker than physical attraction, believe it or not. The most intense sexual encounters are actually sustained by both physical and emotional connection.

Complementing on her skin is every woman’s dream. Skin is the most “carnal” concept in the human subconscious, but it’s also related to confidence, self-esteem, and femininity. When you say that, you’re not only implying your desire for her (which is predictable) but also the reason for that desire: which is her beautiful skin. Plus, the simple word “skin” has proven to be an aphrodisiac to the female brain, instantly triggering her desire for sex and intimacy.

If you really want to expand your sexual language, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros” created by Mike Wright — it presents some irresistible strategies to make your woman addicted to your body. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

You say: “You’re so tight.”

Say this instead: “Wow, it feels awesome to be inside of you.”

It’s true that women are generally self-conscious when it comes to the “tightness” of their vagina, and they may like it when a man makes that kind of remark. On the other hand, this expression is getting old and can even come across as insensitive in the modern era we’re living in. It’s too specific and a little selfish because it sends the message that it’s all about your pleasure. Telling her how awesome it feels to be inside of her has a totally different connotation because it’s like saying “I like being with you in general” while also implying that she is tight down there. It will make her feel more connected to you, which will intensify her sexual desire. My favorite part is that the words which give her pleasure get stuck in her mind forever — this means she will think intimately about you even when you’re not present.

You say: “I’m so horny right now.”

Say this instead: “I could do this with you ALL night long.”

Telling her you’re horny will only make you look like a desperate teenager who’s having sex for the second time in his life. I mean the phrase is pretty acceptable for quickies, but if you really want to make her wetter than she already is, say something that will stimulate her imagination — my suggestion will instantly have her think of countless of unbearably pleasurable sensations. Tell her how you could ride her all night long, and she’ll know how much you desire her at that moment. Because this makes you both feel connected sexually, your woman will respond with that same intensity — trust me, things will go from zero to 100 real quick.

When you’re trying to say something to instantly activate her sexual hunger, always think of a way of involving her in the sensations you’re describing. Knowing that SHE’s the one who makes you feel that way will definitely intensify her appetite.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Attraction is the energy we send to others — sometimes we click, sometimes we don’t. When it comes to women, the beauty of this attraction game is their intuition. You don’t have to be too obvious, because they’ll just know if you’re really connected to them, emotionally and sexually. That being said, you still have to show your enthusiasm, because this is one of the ways of building that intense and lasting attraction.

The way you express yourself when you’re around her — either with words, gestures and overall attitude — can make her feel even more attracted to you…or, on the contrary, it will make you seem like every other guy out there.

Listen, this doesn’t mean you have to give up on being yourself, but there are little specific details you can add to your sexy escapades together, to make things even more intense and to make her that more crazy about you. Check them out to score big!

Be more vocal during sex

I’m not telling you to scream louder than her, because that’s actually not attractive at all. But most men are completely silent during sex, which is not as “manly” as you may think. Yes, we like it when you have control over yourself, but at times she might feel… alone in that hot moment of passion between you too. Make her feel even more connected and attracted to your body by becoming more vocal when you feel amazing inside of her. Moan slightly, say things like “Yes, baby” or “This feels so good” and whisper in her ear while penetrating her even harder. She will feel so much closer to you and crave you more.

You can also learn more about the benefits of expanding your sexual language by checking out this program created by my friend Mike Wright, called “Elixir of Eros” — you will learn some pretty amazing strategies on how to increase the level of attraction she has for you. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

Show more interest in discovering her body

You know what’s really attractive? A man who takes his sweet time during foreplay, teasing his woman until she becomes fixated on his body. I know you want to get to the good stuff quickly, but if you want to make her crazy about you on the long run, you have to show her what few other men could: that you love discovering every sensual part of her body.

Spend more time teasing her before sex — lick “strange” areas of her body, like the back of her knees, her wrist etc. Make her whole body feel wanted, and she will connect with you on a deeper level, which will make her want you more and more!

Put your hands to good use

I’ve said it before — women have a strange biological attraction to your hands, so make sure to take advantage of that. Make her more attracted to you during sex by using your strong, sexy hands A LOT. Massage her clitoris with two fingers during penetration, to make her orgasm 10 times more powerful, or reach around and get her off with your hand when you’re in doggie-style position. You can also show your dominant side (which all women like) by grabbing her neck while you whisper sexy words into her ear. Trust me, you need to use your hands more to become absolutely irresistible to her!

Introduce a hot new element

If you’re together for some time now, she’s probably becoming too used to your usual repertoire — missionary and doggie-style are both great sex positions for different reasons, but there is so much more out there if you want to spice things up and make her become crazy about your moves. Surprise her by putting her legs on your shoulders or carry her to the kitchen and have your way with her on the counter. She’ll love the diversity!

Don’t forget to make eye contact

It’s an obvious one, but sometimes you forget how powerful it is. No matter the social context, making eye contact always makes you more desirable, because it shows your confidence and your effort to connect with others in a genuine way.

This is especially effective during sex because it’s a way of becoming one with your partner — it’s sexy and powerful, increasing her arousal and erotic sensations. So try not to neglect this aspect and look into her eyes during key moments: when you first slip inside of her, when you change the rhythm or when she gets close to orgasm.

Sometimes, little touches like these make all the difference when it comes to making an impression on your woman. Because your signature gestures separate you from other guys she’s been with, making you her one and only.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Don’t forget that often times attraction has very little to do with physical appearance. So instead of feeling the pressure to look like those guys from the magazines, take into account that your every gesture and attitude has the potential of making you more attractive to your woman. 

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A lot of men are questioning their masculinity nowadays. It’s easy to think of yourself as “less of a man” or believe that you lack masculinity in a society that values „Alpha-males”, „the men that can do it all”, „the ideal man”. Also, feminism has its own contribution, since women nowadays are taught to believe that they can be more powerful than a man, so much that they may not even need a man in their lives. But we need to keep a sexy balance in order to function together in harmony since — the truth is — life would be a lot less interesting for us, women, without that masculine charisma you possess. And please don’t think otherwise — I know you have it in you. You just need to pull it to the surface and make your woman see you as the real you: strong, confident and incredibly hot.

It’s not exactly easy to increase your masculine charismatic power, especially if you’re used to not seeing yourself as a confident man — in the bedroom or anywhere else. However, remember that this is about how SHE perceives you. You don’t have to be as influential as George Clooney to be desired by your woman. In other words, to achieve Clooney-esque masculinity, you first need to simply offer the impression that you’ve already got it. This means you have to enhance those masculine features that women are wired to get turned on by. Read on to make it possible!

Challenge your woman

You may at times forget that challenge is the whetstone that sharpens the blade of masculinity. Challenge, in general, is a useful tool of making things possible: it spikes your adrenaline, making you more excited and even more turned on which in exchange sends pheromones to your woman — those are chemical substances released by our bodies, which encourage attraction and mating.

And yes — it’s a good idea to challenge yourself from time to time, to make sure you boost your confidence. You can achieve that by introducing a new difficult exercise in your fitness routine or learning how to tango, for example (oh, I would find that especially sexy!). But it’s also important to challenge your woman because this will send a powerful message: „I am your man and I want you to do anything for/with me”. A challenge will make her want to impress you like the old times, satisfy and please you like no other woman could. It will also increase your masculinity and your power over her desires. So tell her something like, „I want you to [insert action] for me”. Just make sure that the challenge consists in something new and erotic, that will make things hotter for both of you.

Spice up your body language

Body language is one of the best ways to turn your woman on because it’s something natural and primal: in the wild, animals mate by using different gestures or poses to attract a partner. To make yourself look confident and masculine, your posture is very important. Here’s how to correct it if you need it:

Stand up as straight as you can, as if there’s a string pulling at the top of your head.

Relax your arms and shoulders — masculine does not mean tense.

Raise your chin just slightly.

Distance your legs as if you have a big “package” — but don’t exaggerate.

Now that you can dominate your posture to look confident, use another sexy weapon: your smile. This is a bit tricky because the way you smile can attract women, or… give you a free pass to friend zone. A recent study has discovered that women prefer men who smile softly and gradually — so don’t give her that wide creepy grin all of a sudden.

To REALLY turn her on with your body language, use the soft smile technique in conjunction with an intense eye contact, while keeping your chin slightly raised. This a very masculine pose and it sends an erotic message: “If you knew all the things I would do to you…”.

Also, if you want to perfect your attraction techniques through body language, check out this video which demonstrates a surprising and efficient technique. Quick note: This was NOT created by me.

Dominate her sexually

Most mating rituals are dominated by the male — which means to women it comes naturally to “offer” their body in order to receive pleasure. Of course, it’s exciting to change roles from time to time, you don’t have to be dominant all the time. But it’s a necessary technique if you want to surprise your woman with a powerful dose of your masculinity. As always, posture is very important, especially if you plan to dominate her sexually. Stand straight and flex your muscles while pulling her closer to you and kissing her harder. You can even pull her hair slightly, to make her understand you’re in control. But be careful — power games are dangerous. Don’t be too rough and always ask her permission if you wish to experiment a new erotic move.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Darling, always trust your instincts and intuition if you want to reveal your sexiest masculine power and make your woman tremble (with pleasure!) while looking into your eyes.

For more juicy tips on how to recharge your lady’s libido, check out my program on the matter, Flesh on Flesh.

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There is a secret trait that makes a woman develop great passion and attraction toward you and that you overlook most of the time: Patience. Great sex starts before you take your clothes off — and that’s because the female brain thrives on anticipation and sexual tension. You may like to get to the desert as soon as possible, but she LOVES to just think about how delicious that desert will be. She likes to imagine it, to fantasise about it until she reaches maximum levels of excitement. You see, women like the anticipation of sex just as much as actually doing it. There’s a reason why 50 Shades of Grey became such a successful book among women.

So if you want to make her desire you with unprecedented intensity, then you need to do more than just taking her clothes off. And don’t worry — the game of seduction is something you will enjoy just as much as her because it’s a primal impulse, a very familiar mating ritual.

The only thing that stops you from making your woman crazy about you is not taking enough time to enjoy those little sensual clues that truly matter for both of you. And I get it: we are all busier than ever, we spend more time on our phones than with each other and we have important projects to take care of. But if you try to squeeze in these simple seductive strategies in your everyday life, I promise you will have the hottest sex ever!

Show your sexual confidence

You can send sexual clues without getting nude. This will create tension and attraction between you two before you even start the actual hot session. One of the most powerful masculine gestures is gently grabbing the back of her neck (or her chin) with your hand while looking at her lips when she’s speaking to you. The secret here is to not kiss her, even if she wants you to. The imaginary kiss will have a lot more power over her, triggering her sexual needs.

If you are interested to learn intense seduction strategies, check out this program called “Rise Of The Phoenix”, created by my friend, Sebastian Harris. He is a recognized seduction coach who has helped thousands of men already.

Give her a sensual treat

No, it’s not sex. The idea here is to build as much sexual tension as possible, so offer her something that will make her fantasise about getting naked with you. I recommend a sensual massage since women love it when their men help them relax. Use a bit of scented oil and apply just enough pressure with your hands when you reach her erogenous zones. She might beg for you to get inside of her once the massage is over…

Have a “hands-off” conversation

Talking about sex is always fun, and it can be amazingly hot when you do it without touching each other. Casually start commenting on how sexy she looks when you penetrate her from behind, and then tell her about your favourite erotic moments with her. Ask her questions: What does she like the most about your sexual encounters? What are her secret fantasies?

A deep, intense conversation where you have permission to say whatever you want, no matter how explicit, will make both of you feel sexually liberated… and very eager to taste one another.

Touch her in strategic places

This is also a great way of building sexual tension — subtle touches in strategic places. Because this will not only spark her passion but will also keep her wondering — “Why did he stop there?”. So when you are alone with her doing random everyday stuff touch the side of her neck slightly then walk away. Other great places are the wrist of her hand, her belly, and her clavicle. Touching her in these places without immediately initiating sex will bring out her vulnerable side and make her desperate for more sensual touching!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: You can achieve a lot more than you think by simply insinuating erotic desire. These simple tools will help you get your woman’s attention more than ever before!

If you want to learn more on the matter, please check out this program called “Flesh on Flesh”

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What does the secret world of female sexuality look like? Do women like sex just as much as you do? Female desire can be very confusing, especially in the modern days, when movements like #MeToo create this huge discussion about what women don’t want. It can also make you doubt your every movement, every attempt to approach her in a sexy way: what if she will misunderstand?

Actually, it’s no surprise that sometimes your woman’s sexuality confuses — trust me, I’m a woman and sometimes it’s just impossible to understand what I’m feeling or what I want. Women are very intuitive when it comes to sex, but they are also limited by their own inhibitions. However, if you can find new ways of discovering her sexuality and what triggers her passion and trust, you will soon convince her to come out and play. So here are some interesting facts about female desire that may help you approach her the right way tonight.

1. You may need to adapt your sensual “repertoire”

As you already know, sexual desire is incredibly individual, even more so when it comes to women. The physical response in their bodies is driven by their hormones, and the level and mechanism of those hormones are different for every woman. Your woman can even experiment sudden changes in her sexual drive depending on her hormonal cycle. Testosterone is the main star when it comes to sexual desire, and women have it too — so there’s no reason to believe that she’s less sexually driven than you.

However, women are very different physically. Studies show that almost 40 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to be able to orgasm, while others reach the big O through penetration alone. Some women experiment climax when you perform cunnilingus, others prefer a more intense kind of stimulation.

In other words, you need to learn what your woman likes — but also learn to adapt when she just wants you to do things differently. You may discover new sensual preferences of your own.

If you want to learn new ways of activating her sexual triggers, I recommend you to check out this helpful video. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

2. Age is not relevant

You may be tempted to believe that women lose their appetite for sex as they age, but that is not the case. Actually, numerous studies found that women in their 30’s or 40’s are more sexual than younger women. Women between the ages of 27 and 45 reported having a lot more intense sexual fantasies than those in the 18-26 age category. You can also blame it on the hormonal changes — but don’t forget to enjoy it as much as you can. I challenge you to give her a wet dream!

3. Her clitoris continues to grow throughout her life

Yup, that’s true. After the age of 45,  her clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when she was 18. No wonder women can experiment stronger orgasms as they grow older. Clitoris is packed with millions of nerve endings, and the bigger and visible it is, the stronger the orgasm.

4. Ginger stimulates her arousal

If you want to get her in the mood, you might want to learn how to prepare a proper ginger tea. Scientists have proof that ginger helps stimulate her feelings of excitement associated with sex.

5. Deep penetration isn’t always necessary

Sure, it feels great to you, but she might not always agree. Her vagina is most sensitive to sexual stimulation in the first third from the opening, so try to experiment with shallow penetration or using your fingers to stimulate this area more.

6. She has a sexual bucket list

I’m sure you have a list of kinky fantasies you want to try out — well, your woman has a list too! The tricky part is to make her feel comfortable enough to share it with you. Even if she seems reluctant to trying new stuff, her imagination is definitely going wild from time to time. To see what she might be into, tell her about your own fantasies — you’ll start a sexy conversation that could lead to a whole new erotic chapter.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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When it comes to your woman, the attraction button is hidden in some small details you wouldn’t even think about. Some women are crazy about the way you smell when you’ve been to the gym, some love a masculine cologne. Women can go crazy about a fresh haircut, but some of them like a wild hairdo. We are all different and like different specific details, but there are attraction triggers that all women have, no matter the age, culture or level of education — because they are based on biological instinct.

I don’t think there’s a secret to anyone that instinct is what actually fuels attraction. Unlike feelings of love and emotional connection, attraction or lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature and it focuses on the physical. That being said, women are not always attracted to a physical feature: more often than not it’s about your attitude… or both. My favorite part is that love and attraction complete each other to form a long-lasting bond. Love would be uninteresting without attraction, while lust would be short-lived in the absence of a deeper emotional connection. But if you feel like you need a little revival in the attraction department, here’s what triggers you woman’s sexual needs.

The way you interact with her

The most important thing when it comes to accessing your woman’s lust is how you make her feel when you interact with her. While you are mostly focused on the physical aspect, she’s going to need more than that to fall hard. Your conversation style reveals crucial information about your inner power. Are you confident? Are you driven? Are you reliable? I know it sounds strange to you, but a woman needs to know that you’re a worthy kind of man before moving into sexual territory. So feel free to leave those sexual hints for later and focus on REALLY talking to her. Make surprising revelations about yourself and make them with confidence. A man who knows his worth is far more attractive than a man who keeps trying to get in her pants.

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Tuning in to her needs

Women are biologically attracted to men who can prove they can take care of them in difficult times. So no matter how handsome you are, you won’t be very appealing to her if you always focus on your own needs and desires and neglect hers. Actually, for a woman, there’s nothing more unattractive than selfishness and indifference. So to trigger her attraction you have to be able to create a balance between giving her attention and making her craving for more. Listen carefully when she speaks, be present. Even if you think what she’s saying isn’t very important, trust me — it’s important to her. She wants to see that you can be there for her, she wants to feel happier when she’s around you. So encourage her, reassure her… and then let her come to you by taking a bit of a distance. I don’t mean ignoring her completely — just show her that your existence is so much more complex than she thought and that you have a lot on your plate. She will admire you while also craving that same attention you already showed you are able to give.

Sexual confidence

It’s very rare for a woman to want to be the one who dictates what happens once you go nude. She will feel a powerful attraction towards a man who gives the impression that he knows what he’s doing when it comes to sex.

Sexual confidence is something you need to achieve in order to make your woman fantasize about your erotic sessions. Make more eye contact, touch her firmly, show interest in her body. This doesn’t mean you have to know what she likes just by looking at her. But when you ask about her preferences, do it with confidence — like you want to be the man who gives her incredible moments, not like you’re absolutely clueless when it comes to women. Say something like, “I want to fulfill your dreams, show me how you want to be touched”. I promise you, she’ll get wet in no time!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Men always ask me how female attraction works. Why can’t they get a woman’s attention by being nice to her? Are women indifferent to good men out there and prefer to go nude with jerks? And my answer is no. You don’t have to be rude or aggressive towards a woman in order to get her (sexual) attention. On the contrary – women are much more in control of their lives and sexuality nowadays, and many of them will not tolerate being mistreated. The jackpot is actually a mix between nice and… dominant.

You can be a good man and a dominant man. And trust me, this combination makes you irresistible to your woman, leading to hotter than ever sessions in the bedroom.

Why do women like dominance? Well, first of all, it’s a biological instinct: at the beginning of human evolution, women didn’t have much to say in who they were mating with. Men had total control and the goal was to procreate. And second of all, ironically, the modern woman craves that same pleasure of abandonment. The reason is purely cultural: more and more women are taking control of their day to day lives, they are making more money than ever, they have loads of responsibilities and they are fierce bosses. So it’s natural to want to let go in the bedroom. To want a confident man who knows exactly what he’s doing – which makes them more relaxed and free to enjoy total pleasure.

And dominance is even more effective when it’s subtle because it immediately triggers long-lasting attraction and even emotional connection. Being more sexually dominant does not always imply handcuffs and whiplash (although it can be very thrilling), it’s often about confident gestures and attitude. Because it makes her give in, relax and enjoy the moment.

No matter how bossy, every woman loves confident men. It just takes the pressure off, not only in day to day life but also in the bedroom. And confidence has a lot to do with a dominant attitude. Here are my favorite ways of letting your woman know that you’re in control… which helps you intensify her sexual emotions.

Start by dominating her brain

No, I’m not talking about demonstrating you’re smarter than her. I just want you to demonstrate your mental power. This has nothing to do with how fit or tall or handsome you are. Mental power may be the reason why an average guy gets to date a gorgeous supermodel – it just instantly makes you sexier and more masculine.

Subtly lead the conversation by being the one who asks questions. Start with random, “nice” questions and then suddenly move into the erotic territory by asking something like: “So what turned you on today?”. This will catch her with her guard down – she will feel submissive and turned on by your dominance.

Introduce foreplay dominance

Don’t be that man who doesn’t care about foreplay if you want to make your woman so wet that she begs for you to have your way with her. It’s no secret that women like foreplay, and why wouldn’t they? Sexual play is fun and intense and makes her orgasms stronger. It can be equally as fun for you if you change your perspective: imagine you’re the big lion in the room and you have nothing to fear. You can do as you please, without the fear of being judged or not being enough. As long as you make sure she’s enjoying it, you can let go of any inhibition.

Small but powerful gestures like grabbing her neck while kissing her deeply or pulling her closer with one arm will put you in charge… and she’ll love it.

Introduce “strictly forbidden” elements

Remember, you make the rules, so you decide what’s strictly forbidden during your hot sessions. Bans will make sex hotter and intensify her arousal, so tell her, for example, that she’s not allowed to speak or even make a sound. When she starts to moan, “punish” her by covering her mouth with your right hand. This will make her give in to pleasure completely.

Keep an open mind

Even if you’re the one in charge, at some point it will get boring and uninteresting to only recreate your own fantasies. Indulging in her erotic scenarios while maintaining your dominant attitude is the sexiest thing you could do for your woman. As a dominant male, your job now is to provide a safe space for your submissive woman to really let her imagination go wild. Challenge her to surprise you and NEVER make fun of her fantasies or fetishes.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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