If you’re sick of being single and miserable, then I think you should join me in this honest conversation about the attraction game.

Do you still believe hot women are way out of your league? Do you watch them passing by and not even dare to dream that you could be that guy who makes them moan at night? Let me tell you a little secret about female attraction: it is totally unpredictable and based almost entirely on emotion.

Which means it doesn’t matter how you look like, how much money you make or if you’re an Alpha or a Beta – not if you manage to spark that mysterious attraction that makes her completely vulnerable and completely crazy about you.

It might seem intimidating to even try to flirt with hot women. I mean they could have any guy in the room, so why would they bother talking to you? See, this is the first mistake you make: you think they’re different than other women just because they’re so attractive. Truth is ALL women want similar things: to feel understood, to create an intimate connection, to feel desired and important.

After all, a lot of 10/10 women are dating average looking guys which proves you don’t have to look like Chris Hemsworth to get their attention. But you do need to master a few techniques that will spark their sexual attraction in uncontrollable ways. If you want to ace the attraction game, I recommend this program called Kinetic Attraction because if offers a controversial technique that makes ANY woman want to approach you and be close to you. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Now let’s change your perspective on flirting with hot women in order to actually create the intimacy you crave.

Don’t act inferior

Now is not the time to be humble. If you go to her and say “I know I probably don’t stand a chance, but…” you will certainly miss your chance. Because women (and all human beings actually) tend to look for the better option. And if you don’t believe you’re a good catch, then why would she believe that?

Instead, try to act naturally around her. Look her in the eyes with no shame and even smile at times, then look away. She’ll probably ask herself if she has anything to do with that genuine smile of yours.

Don’t pretend to bump into her – confront her directly

Come on, it’s not college anymore. Don’t pretend you bump into her on your way to the bar because she’ll just roll her eyes at you. Women adore men who are confident enough to take responsibility for their own acts and desires. Plus, gorgeous women are probably so tired of these old “pick-up” tricks: bumping into them, “Do I know you from somewhere?” creepy question, accidentally touching them etc. Don’t be afraid to show your interest and fully commit to it. I noticed that most men tend to talk to each other (and even to women) at angles to avoid confrontation, while women face each other directly and maintain eye contact. Do the same thing to subconsciously open that attraction gate.

Give her a “healthy” handshake

OK, maybe a good handshake isn’t going to get you in her bed, but a bad one can certainly ruin everything. You may not know that hands are packed with tactile nerves and studies have shown that people with weak handshakes were perceived as shy and neurotic. So when you introduce yourself, give her a firm grasp (without crushing her bones). If she responds with a firm handshake as well, it means you have her attention.

Allure her with your voice

It has been shown that attractive women like deep-voiced men because it suggests high testosterone levels, confidence, strength and reproductive skills. To make your voice sound deeper, push out air with your diaphragm, not your throat. This process lengthens the column of air moving past your vocal cords, giving your voice that irresistible sex-appeal.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Female arousal is complicated… but admit it: you like complicated. It’s intriguing and challenging, even after years of marriage. This playful dynamic between men and women is my favorite thing in the world.

Is it true that she says “No” when she wants to say “Yes”? Maybe. Does she really want you when she smiles like or is it just a way to keep you guessing? You’ll never know.

You can call her a player, but the reality is this: female libido is a lot different than yours. Her brain is simply wired differently, so there are times when sexy words just won’t put her in the mood.

As I always say, women are emotional beings and they have a subconscious need to motivate their actions. Her libido is not only ruled by attraction as you may think, but also by how her brain deciphers your behavior towards her. Are you confident enough? Do you seem like you know what you’re doing? Is she really safe and relaxed around you?

The way you touch her says a lot about these things – and I’m not only referring to sexual touch but ALL kinds of touches. While some of them get you a rejection, a few of them drive her completely wild – no reasons needed.

If you want to get a more rounded perspective on female arousal, check out this controversial technique called “Silent Seduction” because it shows you how to activate your partner’s sexual triggers and make her desperate to get naked with you by simply touching her body in a certain way… NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

I’ll leave a few irresistible suggestions below:

The caring touch

Imagine you’re just talking to her casually and while you’re making a point you almost subconsciously touch her hair with your index finger, getting it out of her face, while looking in the direction of her forehead. I know it sounds silly, but it’s such a sexy gesture I’ve seen in most romantic comedies. It shows your confidence but also your caring side – you care about her comfort. Without even realizing it, she now perceives you as a capable and caring man who could improve the quality of her life just by being present. And that turns her on.

The unaware touch

As much as she likes to feel important, it’s not a good idea to overwhelm her with touch. Instead, try something intriguing that will make her wonder if you really desire her or not. When out at a bar or a party, stand next to her and touch the back of her neck but then start talking to someone else passionately about a subject you really like. Act as if you’re not even aware of touching her, but don’t take your hand off. Her heart will begin to beat faster and wish for a more explicit touch.

The hip-to-hip touch

To make her feel much more connected to you, it’s time to align those hips. Grab her around the waist and pull her hips against yours. It’s a little bit more advanced, but not in a way that forces her to pull back, especially if there’s already a spark between you too. She’ll feel some sort of familiarity, which will make her more receptive to everything you say or do. If you think it’s time to get even closer, pull her directly towards you so that your waists touch. 

The dominant touch

Even shy women love a dominant man, as long as he’s not offensive in any way. When you touch her in a dominant way, you want to make her feel vulnerable enough to let her guard down but not scared or humiliated. The easiest way to be dominant is to add firmness to your touch, making sure you’re not hurting her. Apply just enough pressure so that she understands you desire her, but don’t express it with words. At least not yet.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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This is 2019 and we all work on improving our looks. We try to eat healthy, we go to the gym, we buy fancy clothes and even get familiar with the spray tan. And while it’s important to maintain an on-point appearance, being a great lover has nothing to do with looks. And every woman learns this lesson at some point in her life.

Actually, many studies have shown that those considered attractive by most people aren’t convincing between the sheets and there’s a solid explanation for that: they don’t put in the effort. They think it’s enough to just be physically attractive and they’re used to being chased and adored. But guess what?

Attraction is such a fluid concept that goes beyond appearance or even reason. Sometimes we can’t even explain why we like someone. Or why we like an average looking person more than an Adonis look alike.

BUT there’s something about that person that makes us want to get naked in seconds, without thinking of the consequences. There are subtle details that turn someone into the RIGHT sex partner in seconds and keeps us from wanting anybody else… but him.

I hope you won’t get offended by this, but women are generally more selective when it comes to their sex partners. And it’s not because they don’t like to have sex, but because they are wired to select good genes for their potential babies.

And ironically, being a great lover has everything to do with being a great father and a trust-worthy life partner.

This also confirms the fact that being good in bed isn’t about the way you look but about the way you handle yourself… and your woman.

While every woman is different, there are a few common factors that lead them to believe you’re absolute perfection between the sheets. Make sure to include these techniques in your sensual “arsenal”:

You make eye contact like a pro

Maybe you think eye contact is a piece of cake, but not everyone can do it. To be able to look someone in the eye with confidence and even a bit of playfulness truly is an art. It can be intimidating, yes, but not for a passionate lover who has everything to give. So don’t look away when you talk to her; instead, stare deeply into her eyes like you could get lost in them. Make sure you don’t come across as aggressive or disrespectful – don’t frown but rather smile in a gentle and sexy way. I’d say study the James Dean look.

You pay attention to details

Maybe it’s not a big deal to you, but it’s probably a big deal to her. Being careless won’t say good things about your bedroom skills – because who wants a careless lover? On the other hand, a man who pays close attention to details is perceived as a generous lover. It shows you are able to explore her body and respond to her sensual needs instead of overlooking them and do what feels right for you. Attention to details is not an attractive trait only in your resume, but also in the bedroom.

You can ejaculate on command

I know this is a hard one. But it’s THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE. Nothing will ever convince your woman that you’re the best lover she will ever have more than being able to get fully hard as soon as you see her naked body AND to last for as long as you want – so she can experience her orgasms to the max. Giving her all the time in the world to enjoy herself and also to enjoy your hard penis for as long as she wants is something she only dares to fantasize about.

And even if you think it’s impossible, there are natural and safe techniques that can help you achieve this kind of performance – even if you’re over 50. If you want to become her absolute hero in bed and gain total control on your climax, check out this genius program I’ve discovered called “Ejaculation by Command”. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

You’re a good kisser

Before you lean in and kiss her, remember this is an important chemistry test. Women take kissing VERY seriously, so don’t rush it and don’t act like you’re trying to eat her face off. A good kiss is always relaxed and natural, even when you use your tongue. A woman appreciates your willingness to experiment with tongue movements, pressure and body positioning. It’s okay to gently bite her lower lip, but don’t cover her lips AND chin with your mouth. Also, remember that women don’t think sloppy wet kisses are sexy. And most of all, don’t think she’s ready for sex just because you kissed. Trust me, not rushing sex will make you even more desirable.

You really listen to her

For a woman, sex is always more than a physical act. She looks for a partner who can truly listen to her. Yes, she wants a strong and confident man, but she also looks for kindness and empathy. No matter how badass and handsome you are, she won’t ever trust you enough to have sex with you if you’re not willing to listen and bring her the emotional comfort she needs. You don’t even have to say much, just show her you care about how her day went.

You’re creative

Every time you put your imagination to work, she gets even more excited to have sex with you. Women perceive creative men as good lovers because it shows your ability to explore her body in ways no one else ever could. It also implies that sex with you will always be new and exciting. Creative people rarely like conventional stuff, so they are more likely to experiment in the bedroom.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Baby, always remember that looks aren’t everything when it comes to lust and attraction. But keep in mind that a man who can get fully hard and ejaculate on command is especially attractive to any woman out there. To become her absolute dream lover, check out this amazing program called “Flesh on Flesh”

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Do you love your partner but want more from your sexual encounters? Are you tired of the same scenarios and frustrated for not being able to say exactly what you want during your not-so-steamy sessions?

A lot of couples go through this and the bad news is that it can destroy your relationship in less than a year. That’s why it’s very important for me to make this point: sex should always be fun and exciting for both of you. Yes, even after years of marriage. I know what most people say: it’s normal to get bored after a while. These words make me sad… And even angry.

Because if you let yourself get bored, it means you’re already giving up on what you and your partner have built over the years.

So please don’t let it come to this. Especially since it’s already proven that women like sex just as much as you. So why does it seem like you’re the only one excited for that doggie session?

Luckily for you, I’m a woman so I can explain exactly what is going on. First of all, she’s lost in that old-school dynamic of “Man should initiate sex”.

Also, she still thinks you will judge her for acting “slutty”. And this unfair word includes performances like oral sex, naughty positions, role-play, dirty talking, anal sex and so on. She has set some boundaries and she’s holding on to them.

That’s why it feels impossible to make your sexual needs heard. And don’t get me wrong – boundaries are healthy in a relationship. A woman and a man have the right to decide for themselves what and how they want to have sex. But some of these boundaries are just mental blocks that prevent you from enjoying even more pleasure.

Instead of giving up on your partner, help her understand your desires and lead her to a new path of freedom and excitement. If you want to learn more about your partner’s sexual triggers, I recommend this program called “Silent Seduction”, created by my friend Brett Alcorn. His program demonstrates how a subtle touch can become the most powerful seduction tool – you don’t even need words to make her REALLY listen to you. It’s pretty controversial, so I advise you to use it responsibly – but trust me when I say that this technique will instantly make your woman addicted to your body. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Here are some of my secrets to a woman’s willingness to cooperate and fulfill your wildest fantasies while intensifying her own pleasure:

Show her respect

Not only in the bedroom, but also in your day to day life. If you show her respect and treat her like a lady, she will be less inclined to believe you will judge her for showing her wild side between the sheets. But if she sometimes feels objectified, she will become defensive and maybe she’ll even feel the need to prove her integrity.

I always say respect is the most precious ingredient of a relationship: as long as you respect each other, you will feel safe to express your fantasies and experiment more, so let this be a reminder that masculinity should not be about making your woman feel inferior or weak. Help her build her strength and she’ll become the best lover you’ve ever had.

Give her time to warm up

I know you’re tired of hearing this, but she needs more time than you to warm up before the real action. Because their partners act impatiently, most women are overwhelmed with deep frustration for not being able to respond faster, instead of giving themselves time and patience to feel real pleasure.

You need to make sure she has the luxury of warming up properly. This is the only way she will really get in the mood to experience more and show you that wild side she keeps hidden for years. The more aroused she gets, the more open she will be to truly listen to your needs and desires. So invest more time in playing with her body. Make her want more and more with each sensual caress, help her forget her inhibitions. Now she’s ready to HEAR you.

Get her in touch with her own body

Often times, women lose touch with their own body and sexuality, which makes it even harder to connect with their man. Help her understand that pleasure happens in her body and encourage her to truly feel all of it, even when it’s overwhelming.

Tell her something like, “You look so sexy when you’re aroused” to help her stay in the moment. Every time you caress, bite or lick, ask her how it feels. It’s a way of making sure she acknowledges those sensations.

Say what you want – but make it sexy

Sometimes we expect our partners to read our minds. To give us what we want even if we don’t say what that is. Things don’t work that way in a relationship. You have to communicate your desires, just not in a way that puts pressure on your partner. Make it sound intriguing and sensual and make sure to point out that you only want to do it with HER.

She’ll feel special and desired which will increase your odds to make your wishes come true. I suggest you say something like, “I’ve never tried this, but I would LOVE to do it with you”. Sexy eye contact will compliment this phrase perfectly.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Changing your approach might be the key to the wild session of your dreams. Remember, your woman is just as horny as you are, you just have to turn on the switch of her sexual hunger.

If you want to learn more about your partner’s sexual triggers, I recommend this program called “Flesh on Flesh”.

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If you’ve ever dreamed of making your woman (or any woman) absolutely crazy about you, then you know how unpredictable female attraction is.

The number one mistake men make is assuming that a woman will respond to the same triggers that they respond to. Sending her an X-rated video in hopes that you’ll get her wet in two seconds might actually make her angry and not horny. This mechanism is not easy for you to understand considering you would love to receive an X-rated anything from your lady.

And it’s not even because women don’t like porn – as I said before, women consume it as well, and some of them even admit it. There’s no shame in it. It’s just that there is a time and place for something like this.

An X-rated pic out of the context will not necessarily trigger her wildest instincts because she needs a physical connection with you. She also needs to unwind from everyday stress and feel close to you – a kind of foreplay for arousal.

The second mistake you make is not exercising the art of subtlety. Believe it or not, she could fantasize about you an entire day if you just touch her hand in a certain way before you get out of the door in the morning. Grab her ass and you won’t obtain the same effect. Weird, right? But it’s true. Her emotion system is very complex and it works in unpredictable ways.

These sensual gestures I’m about to share with you are real attraction triggers because they activate the part of her brain that makes her crave intimacy more than ever. She will only think of you, she will fantasize about having you close to her body. If you want to learn even more precious info about how to become her obsession, check out this program called “Silent Seduction”, created by my friend Brett – you will absolutely love it because it gives you the only trick you need to make your woman come to you. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Read on to become the most attractive man she has ever been with!

Spritz some musky perfume

Women have a powerful sense of smell – much more powerful than yours, I can assure you. For us, the smell is connected to feelings and emotions, it’s like a memory carousel. Studies have found that perfume is a simple way to become instantly more attractive to a woman – and she especially appreciates musk notes.

Why? Well, because musk perfume is like masculine pheromones in a bottle. It will drive her wild and make her more inclined to initiate sex or any activity that involves being close to your body. Plus, she will think of you anytime she smells that perfume. Not bad at all.

Change the way you kiss her

After a while, kisses become something we do on autopilot: we don’t even take the time to really acknowledge the sensations we get from them. Which is a shame, because kissing is a great way to build sexual tension and intimacy, no matter the stage of your relationship.

To make her horny with just one kiss, change your style a little bit – do something she doesn’t expect at all, like kissing her really, really slowly, biting her lower lip or pressing your lips against hers in a sensual way, as a high school lover would do. She will feel instantly more attracted to you.

Caress her wrist with the tip of your fingers

Her wrist is a very sensitive area and it’s connected to her feminine essence. A guy I was dating in my first year of college touched my wrist slowly with his fingertips and I can still remember those overwhelming sensations so vividly. It made me feel like I knew him for a long time and like I belonged with him. Trust me, it’s a magical gesture she won’t forget.

Say her name more often

In a loving and sexy way, of course. As with kissing, we give up on calling our partners by their name, which is such a personal and intimate gesture. She might like „honey bear” and other cute nicknames, but nothing is more intimate and sexual than hearing her real name. Say it during your hot sessions so that she can associate this gesture with pleasure and ecstasy.

Take off your t-shirt by pulling it over the head with just one hand

It’s a hot gesture which Fifty Shades of Grey character, Christian Grey, has turned into foreplay in itself. Women just get REALLY turned on by this, and if you want a logical explanation for it I have to admit I don’t have one. It simply makes you look strong and confident, the kind of man we would worship in the bedroom.

Love,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My love, I hope you finally realize that subtlety has a strong sexual aroma and can make a woman lose her head over you. Always remember that what makes a man truly attractive to a woman is his ability to read her body language and make sure she feels at ease. Take your time to really get to know her sensual triggers. If you want to learn even more precious info about how to become her private obsession, check out this program called “Flesh on Flesh” – you will absolutely love it because it gives you the only trick you need to make your woman CRAVE you every.single.day.

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Do you want to be the guy who never risks anything so he never wins anything, or do you want to be the guy who trusts himself enough to expose his desires – even when the answer might be “No”?

Even if you look like Brad Pitt in his 30s, the truth is women won’t necessarily throw themselves at you without you giving any hints. Not because you’re not worth it, but because for them is even harder to be risk-takers. Women are growing up with the idea that they should “wait for Prince Charming” and that it’s outrageous to make the first move.

The possibility of rejection is hard to accept for both parties, the difference is that you have a lot of competition to deal with. Why? Because there are a lot of testosterone-high guys out there who aren’t afraid to take their chances with women.

While they avoid pushy dudes, women still like men with initiative because they come off as strong and more masculine. They aren’t afraid to say what they want or to express their interest – even if sometimes it doesn’t end up being mutual.

So if you’ve ever asked yourself why a less attractive guy than you gets beautiful women while you’re single for months and months, well… it’s because he put himself out there. He smiled, he touched her arm without knowing if she would like that or not… and eventually, he took her home.

Remember, if you want to enter the seduction game, you can’t just sit there and watch… you have to play and give all you got. For more advice on how to make a woman simply crazy about you just by touching her hand in certain spots, check out this program by my friend Brett, called “Silent Seduction” – you’ll REALLY change the game in your favor. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Now let’s talk about all those brave seduction moves you aren’t making but should – because women love them:

Do buy her a drink

A lot of men think this is risky since women nowadays are stronger and more independent so they could easily get offended by this gesture. After all, they can buy their own drinks, right? That is very true, yes – but they still melt a little bit when a guy offers a drink at the bar. And I know this for sure because from time to time I hear one of my girlfriends saying at the end of the night: “He didn’t even bother to get me a drink…”. Women are flattered by this gesture because it’s rooted in them that the man is a provider. Even if they can buy their own drinks they love it when you do that for them. It shows you’re generous and also confident enough to come forward.

Tell her how good she smells

Even if you’re still a stranger to her say, “Wow, you smell good. What perfume are you wearing?” when you pass by. If you don’t invade her personal space, you won’t come off as a freak. Women LOVE to smell good and they often wonder if other people notice their perfume. When you say you do notice it you basically start a connection that might go deeper. This is one of the simplest ways of starting a sensual conversation – because what is sexier than perfume?

Pull her closer like you’re trying to protect her

This only works if you’re at a party or a bar, or any kind of crowded place. While talking to her, protect her of the people who might bump into her by pulling her closer to you. You could do this by grabbing her waist in a subtle way – try to be as gentle as possible. If she’s not into you at all, she won’t appreciate the gesture and she’ll get some distance. But if she likes you, she’ll remain close to you. Either way, at least you’ll know where you stand.

Say her name and ask a bold question

It’s risky since you don’t know each other well, but women love to be challenged by a bold man. Yes, it might be wiser to only say the words she wants to hear. You won’t get her mad but you won’t get her intrigued, excited and turned on either. So I say be a risk-taker, ask her something bold. But say her name as well, to make it even bolder. Say for example, “So Rachel, what is your Sunday afternoon fantasy?”. The question doesn’t have to be straight up sexual but it has to lead her there. She might say something totally innocent in return or something very erotic – either way, she is very intrigued right now.

Touch her “by mistake” when you get the chance

If she’s still standing next to you, it means you can afford to take even more risks. Touching her directly it would be too much, but I advise you to take advantage of any chance you get to make physical contact. No matter how innocent, these gestures slowly build intimacy between you two and lead her to fantasize about having you in her bed.
So say she has something on her cheek and touch her there slightly or touch her hand when you pass her a cocktail. Don’t miss a chance to be in her personal space because this is how you create a steamy situation!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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The way a woman responds to you depends on more than just looks or social status. If you’re still single or going through a divorce, I bet you tell yourself that the woman of your dreams would rather date someone who owns a penthouse or has phenomenal abs. But this will just tear up your self-confidence even more – and it’s not even true.

Here’s the truth: women look for confidence, balance and emotional intelligence more than they pursue money or looks. Ironically, confident and balanced men tend to be charming or rich just because they’ve reached that level in their lives where they think anything is possible for them.

Unlike you, they truly BELIEVE the odds are in their favor. So they instantly become more attractive to women.

Listen, I know you’re hesitant to approach a woman again. You’ve probably tried it a few times because your friends have pushed you while at a bar. And you got rejected in ways you will never forget. I know that us women can be cruel when we’re not interested in someone but it’s not because we don’t value that person. It’s because we think men approach women 10 times a day and therefore they must already be used to rejection.

We fail to acknowledge the effort you put in to make that step forward. We don’t realize the many ways we hurt your confidence and self-esteem because we don’t actually believe the act of approach is important to you. We take it for granted.

This is the reason more and more women are single. We wait for the guys to approach us but hey just don’t do it anymore. Tired of feeling rejected, they hop on dating apps, a place where starting a conversation seems easier and less risky.

But the reason I want you to approach women in real life is that it creates more meaningful experiences. It’s more effective and more interesting. More diverse.

Plus, it’s the only way you’ll get to know a woman you’re truly interested in, not someone who “happened to be there”. If you want to learn the exact techniques that turn you into an irresistible catch for any woman you’re interested in, I recommend you check out this amazingly effective program created by my friend Scott Jack called “Magnetic Interaction Mastery”. It will help you build infallible confidence and teach you how to approach a woman the right way. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

In order to become better at interacting with women, someone needs to tell you what you’re doing wrong. And why not get it straight from a woman?

You think she’s too good for you

Baby, you might not see it like this, but your energy actually has a great contribution in getting you the things you desire. If you think you’re not good enough for her, she’ll SENSE it immediately. Women are emotional creatures and their intuition is just unbeatable. She will “smell” the lack of confidence on you and no matter how nice or handsome you are, she will not be able to respect you. Therefore, she will not be ready to LIKE you.

Try to go with no expectations. You’re not there to impress her nor to take her home. Just try having an interesting conversation with a human you vibe with and see how it goes.

You become defensive

When in front of a beautiful woman, most men don’t know how to act and they just become defensive. This is something that makes you come off as insecure, so stop doing it. Also, stop teasing women that you think are out of your league with phrases like, “You think you’re so beautiful but I’ve had better”. You won’t get her attention, she won’t even think you’re funny. She’ll just look for the closest exit.

Remember to always put out positive energy because women are attracted to men who help them balance their own emotions.

You don’t pay attention to her body language

As I said earlier, women are very emotional and they tend to express their emotions through body language. Even if you’re nervous, try to connect with her at a deeper level so you can synchronize your bodies. Mirror her movements: keep your hips and your feet at the same angle as hers and she’ll suddenly find you as more relatable. She’ll be more open to a conversation, which is what you want.

You don’t balance the conversation

When starting a conversation, men usually focus on how great they are or on how hot the woman they’re talking to is. You need a balance, otherwise, the conversation won’t seem authentic and she’ll look at you like you’re a freak. Say something about how you feel at that moment, what you like about the party etc. Then ask her something about herself – something other than what she eats for breakfast to look so damn hot. Be genuinely interested in her and you’ll get her attention.

You speak too fast/loud

And your gesturing is excessive. If you look like you have ADHD, then we want out. You need to take into account that women are naturally more agitated than men, so they look for a guy who can tame their emotions. That’s why it’s so important to be calm and confident in their presence.

Practice in the mirror at home and see how your body moves while talking. Gesturing is okay, just do it with one hand, not both. And try pausing your words from time to time to get her intrigued.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more juicy tips on how to recharge your lady’s libido, check out my program on the matter, Flesh on Flesh.

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Can’t recall the last time you and your partner had sex? You’re not alone. A new study found that 53% of us want more sex, but being busy, a lack of confidence or having a higher sex drive than our partner has led to a lack of action between the sheets. Countless couples complain of losing the ‘spark’. The initial, potent sexual chemistry dampens down when you become familiar with each other. But you can still remain romantic, it just requires more of a conscious effort. Tonight is as good a time as any to get things hot again. Spend some time with each other to talk about, and work on, ways of recharging your relationship. And, while at it, check out this program called Sexual Vitality by my talented and passionate friend Susan Bratton, an initiative meant to rekindle your sexual routine and even take it to a new dimension.

TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT

Good sex takes time and energy. You have to make an effort. Do something fun away from your normal daily routine, such as taking a cooking class together or going to a new restaurant. This helps you see your partner in the same light that you saw her at the beginning of the relationship.

TAKE NOTICE AGAIN

Feel like you’re two people just sharing the same space? Make a point of welcoming her when she comes home, look up from what you’re doing and really say goodbye when she leaves. In long-term relationships it’s easy to slip into complacency. Don’t take her for granted. Humans are fragile and like to be acknowledged.

KEEP TALKING

Not talking to your partner, let alone ripping each other’s clothes off? Keeping lines of communication open is key. Relationship troubles can contribute to loss of sexual desire. If you don’t feel listened to, respected or important, it can dampen libido. But there’s no point in trying to have a meaningful conversation when you’re waiting for the plumber to come. Set aside talk time and respect it.

SHARE THE SAME BEDTIME

Go to bed together. This builds physical and emotional intimacy. But ban social media in your bedroom. It kills intimacy.

FOCUS ON TOUCH

If you’re ready to get intimate again, don’t rush into sex. The importance of touch means more than just sex. Try holding hands, cuddling, stroking or simply sitting on the sofa with your feet in your partner’s lap. Connecting through the body is so important to retain closeness in a relationship.

GET HANDY AT HOME

Sharing a project with your partner gives you a shared sense of purpose. Improving your bedroom together can be a sexy job. Even just removing clutter can have a huge impact on the harmony of this special room.

CHANGE YOUR POSITION

Still having sex, but just going through the motions? Change your position with ones that helps you feel more connected. Any position that allows you to focus on your partner’s face is an opportunity for more intimacy. Woman-on-top is ideal.

PLAN AN AL FRESCO TREAT

Make the most of the warmer weather. Outdoors, where we can hear birds sing and sense the wind against our skin, we may experience a heightened sense of physical sensation. Often the best part of having sex al fresco is the planning, so put thought into how to make your encounter romantic. Bring a rug and it will also look like a picnic rug if you need to hastily rearrange yourselves as passers-by approach.

SPEAK UP

If you have a sexual fantasy, speak up. If she seems in a playful mood, let her know you have fantasies about her, like you two are ‘strangers’ who bump into each other and really fancy each other. Keep it simple and ask if she has fantasies she’d like to share with you. Too shy to tell her face to face? Text instead. We’ve got all this technology so put it to good use. Sexy texting is a fun tease. This is especially good if the sex has stopped totally.

GO ON A ROMANTIC ADVENTURE

Sensuality is the key to hot sex in long-term relationship. Once a year, have a weekend away dedicated to sex. Buy a book of new sex positions and put it by your bed for you to try.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Sex, like everything in life, takes practice. If you want to go back to those hot first times in bed over and over again, practice Sexual Vitality and you will always be ready for the next level.

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