“Fashion, like sex, is very important. It is life-enhancing and, like everything that gives pleasure, it is worth doing well.” – Vivienne Westwood

It seems like there’s a new sex trend born every minute, so in the interest of staying on top of things (pun very much intended), I recruited some willing volunteers to road-test the latest ones.

The New Vibrator

Amanda and her boyfriend, Ben, tried out the We Vibe 3, a sex toy designed to be used during intercourse to provide internal and clitoral stimulation.

“Ben and I have been together for two years. We usually have sex four times a week, and sometimes every day when work isn’t too busy. We’ve never used toys together though, so we thought it would be a bit of fun to try the We Vibe 3. When We Vibe 3 arrived in the post, I was really excited to try it straight away. Ben had to work late that afternoon, so I had a sneaky try by myself. It was very easy to use and the internal and clitoral stimulation was perfect. It didn’t take long before I was close to orgasm, but I stopped before coming so I could experience it with Ben.

However, the next night we had some relatives staying over and were a little nervous about having sex in our bed, so we decided to improvise and have a play with the We Vibe 3 in the shower. As we were in such a confined area we were unable to have sex with me on top, so we had sex standing up. I generally don’t orgasm when Ben’s behind me, so we used the We Vibe to stimulate me in front and put pressure on my G-spot. Initially it was good for me because I had the clitoral stimulation and Ben’s penis was putting pressure on the toy, so it was pushing on my G-spot. However, after a while it became a bit of a hindrance: we were so concerned with the placement of the toy that it took away the spontaneity of changing positions and tempos. So we removed it and both orgasmed without it.

Overall, I think it’s a well-designed toy that stimulated all the right spots and I can see how it could benefit couples who might struggle sexually. Although we had fun with it, I don’t know if I would use it again during intercourse – maybe more for foreplay or masturbation. For me, having a toy between us that we were constantly aware of somehow lessened the intimacy. That said, if you’re yet to have an orgasm during intercourse, perhaps give the We Vibe 3 a try – it might just get you there.”

The New Massage

Ken took a lesson in bondassage – an erotic massage technique that incorporates bondage. Think Fifty Shades of Grey, minus the scary parts.

“When I heard about bondassage, I was immediately intrigued. The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon has fuelled interest in bondage and dominant/submissive behavior, but many people (myself included!) don’t want to hang out in a dungeon and endure painful prodding. Cue bondassage. After learning the most tantalizing (and not at all creepy or painful) tips, I went home to try them out on my girlfriend. This is what led me to take the following into the bedroom: a fork, to press lightly on her skin, an electric toothbrush, to buzz along her inner thighs and bellow her butt cheeks, and a sarong, to drag slowly over her body. Sensory deprivation is important – blindfolding and putting headphones on your partner heightens the sensitivity of their skin. It also allows for an element of surprise as they never know where you’re going to touch them next (or with what!). And if they’re comfortable with it, you can even tie them up with a rope or a scarf so they’re at your mercy. Having tried it out on my girlfriend, I can tell you that bondassage is definitely a great way to warm up. We were both raring to go afterwards. But it’s not something we’d do every week – you do need to be able to set aside a couple of hours so it’s not rushed.”

Also trending… 

1)    The New Sexting. I said it before and I’ll say it again: sending sexy selfies is a risky business. That’s probably the reason why Snapchat is fast becoming the new sexting tool of choice. Although not specifically designed for sexting, this app allows you to send photos and texts that disappear after a few seconds. Clever.

2)    The New Fifty Shades. Move over Anastasia Steele, there’s a new erotic series in town. The new Breathless trilogy by Maya Banks is based around three hot billionaires who dominate in the boardroom and the bedroom. The first steamy installment in the series, “Rush”, has already hit bookstores, and the second, “Fever”, is due out in April.

Have a hot week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Make it your goal this year to try everything sex-related, at least once. This way you won’t have any regrets and you won’t be able to blame yourself if there’s something not quite right in your sex life. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“When modern woman discovered the orgasm, it was, combined with modern birth control, perhaps the biggest single nail in the coffin of male dominance.” – Eva Figes

Whether you’re having trouble getting there with your partner or just want to make your orgasms stronger, my tips will have you covered… and then some. Consider this: only 30 percent of women have orgasms from intercourse alone. Surprised? I blame movies like The Notebook, where the girl magically climaxes after two-and-a-half minutes of Pin the V action. This is not reality, unfortunately.

The truth is, the way most men and women view sex – as a completely physical, penetrative, in-and-out experience – isn’t doing anybody a favor if you’re on the hunt for the elusive orgasm. Intercourse provides internal stimulation, but for women, the really sensitive parts are outside the vaginal canal. So even though sex feels good that way, you’re not hitting the right spots. It’s like a guy trying to have an orgasm by having someone touch his testicles but never his penis. Good luck with that!

Now back to what the other 70 percent of women who don’t orgasm from sex alone need. Girl-gasms are composed of two things: the right mind-set and the right moves. These mental and physical tips (and a little practice) will help you help your partner find her happy place.

Get into an orgasmic state of mind

If an orgasm just isn’t happening, you’ll need to play a few Jedi mind tricks with her before your clothes come off. We all have different hang-ups (some women get insecure, others get distracted), so try all these tricks to narrow down what works best for her.

Read or watch some sexy stuff. Whether she’s turned on by erotica, porn, a hot indie band (try The xx), or Brian Williams reading the news (hey, different strokes), partake in that activity before engaging in sexytime. You want her to go into sex already experiencing that tingly feeling in her stomach rather than hoping your hookup provides the tingles.
Eliminate distractions. Turn off your phones… or the lights if you think she is going to be self-conscious about her body. You want her to be in the moment, not thinking about her thighs.
Take a shower. All that steam will set the scene… and she won’t be lying there worrying about how she tastes or smells. Instead, she will only be focusing on how to orgasm sooner and stronger.
Don’t freak out if it doesn’t seem like it’s going to happen. On average, it takes a woman 20 minutes of direct stimulation to have an orgasm (some women take more or less – that’s normal too). It’s common for a woman to reach a plateau phase, when she’s turned on but feel like she’s stalling. Stick with what you did that got her to that point and you’ll likely get there. If you don’t, you probably will next time.

2. Find the right touch(es)

Once she’s in the zone, it’s time to get physical. No matter how good you are in bed, don’t make the common mistake of thinking you alone can give her an orgasm. She’s more likely to get her kicks if she takes things into her own hands as well (sometimes literally) and realize that it might take a little multitasking to get her there.

Lend her a hand. Touch her clitoris during sex. Or let her do it. Some women are afraid to do this because they think they might bruise your ego. Make sure you tell her it’s just the opposite – it’s a turn on for you to see her so turned on.
Let her take a peek at your playbook. You guys are usually great at taking charge of a sexual position. You adjust your stimulation, speed and angle to increase the chance of having an orgasm. Most women don’t think to borrow this strategy, but it’s smart to own your needs rather than expect the other party involved to just figure them out.
Give a high school throwback a chance. Dry humping is hugely underrated, probably because it’s called dry humping. But some women have difficulties finding the touch and rhythm that works for them, even with their own hand. When she grinds against your pelvic bone or your penis (before you enter her), animal instinct takes over, allowing her body to go on autopilot and find a motion that will get her off.
Do two things at once. While you’re going down on her, put a finger or two inside her, as she moves her hips against your mouth to help create a rhythm that feels best. Many times, it’s a combination of things, rather than just one move, that hits the magic button.

Have a delicious week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“I write about sex because often it feels like the most important thing in the world.” – Jeanette Winterson

There’s a hidden pleasure path you can explore on your partner’s body that even she doesn’t know exists. Follow my lead.

When it comes to pleasing themselves, women head straight for the clitoris. But when your girls is in your hands, it pays to take a circuitous path to her button of pleasure. One randy route: the area I’ve dubbed her M zone, which represents the letter M shape you make on her body when you touch her in this region. It can be very pleasurable when this ultrasensitive nerve-packed terrain between her upper thighs and lower stomach is stimulated. To bring pre-sex play to a more exciting level, you need to home in on unexpected places on her body that arouse her in ways she doesn’t experience by herself. Plus, it adds an element of surprise, which can be incredibly erotic and lead to better, more intense sex. To take her to M-spot heaven, follow these three steps.

Sexy Step 1

Tantalize her thighs

Have her lie down on her back on a comfy bed with her legs spread about 6 inches apart. Either kneel beside her body or gently straddle her, sitting back on her lower thighs. Don’t get totally undressed, since you don’t want to distract her visually from the main focus: her tactile pleasure.

Rub your hands together to warm them up (you can also use a bit of massage or warming oil), then rest them palm down on each of her upper thighs. Just go slowly. Women are used to being massaged on their backs, no their front sides, so she might be a little tense at first. Knead her on the outside of her thigh only and, with light contact at first, build up gradually to the point where you’re using considerable pressure (like you’re smoothing creases out of a shirt).

Slowly move up and down and side to side over this outer upper-thigh area, mixing up your moves between long, smooth strokes and circular kneading motions. Switch to softer, lighter feathering motions as you move closer to her inner thighs, where the nerve endings become finer. She will be extra-sensitive there and can be stimulated be the slightest stroke. Warning: she can also become ticklish, so gauge her reactions and facial expressions as you go.

Sexy Step 2

Slide up to her hip bones

When you’ve maxed out her pleasure in her inner-thigh region (she may get a little antsy from so much stimulation and become wet), move your hands upward toward her hips without ever lifting them off her body, stopping right above and inside the hip bones.

Now it’s time to seriously ease up with your hands. A lighter touch will go a longer way, so make gentle circles with the tips of your fingers, then switch to light swirling motions with your tongue. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will tease her, heightening the overall experience.

You can also create tactile surprises for her by rubbing a furry scarf up along the area. It’s a huge turn-on to feel sensations in places that she doesn’t expect to feel them and will send blood coursing through the area. For an added thrill, reach under her body and drag your fingers upward and across her tush very slowly, moving toward the base of the spine. Since any area where the bone is close to the skin is filled with nerve endings, gently massaging her tailbone region extends her pleasure.

Sexy Step 3

Arouse her ‘almost’ area

All it takes is a light touch to stimulate this lava-hot region. Slide your fingers diagonally inward, way below her belly button, just above where her pubic hair starts. You’ll be touching her pubic bone, which is a very erotic, highly sensitive area for women. Since it’s a bone, keep your fingertip motions extra-gentle. Try blowing on the area lightly, segueing into long sensual licks – and is she’s not ultra-sensitive, nibbling – across this smooth stretch of skin.

The key is taking your time. She’s going to assume you’re headed straight for her clitoris, so when you don’t make a beeline for it, you’re really going to be tantalizing her. The longer you wait, the more potentially pleasurable sex will be. Tip: lightly rub a popsicle across her almost area, then lick it up. The cool, then warm sensation will drive her wild. It’s also a perfect prelude to oral sex.

Have a fiery week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Warning: not every part of her body is an arousal-friendly zone, so don’t start stroking and touching every inch of her. She may get uncomfortable. If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “GSpot Orgasms Made Easy“.

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“I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty.” – John Waters

Sometimes, taking the next step (sexually speaking) can be as awkward as tucking your shirt in your underwear. Actually, on a scale of one to no-you-didn’t, going next-level with someone new (that is, deciding to have sex), can turn out to be just as uncomfortable and totally wrong as accepting to go out with a woman you’re grandmother fixed you up with. Whether it’s the long-awaited first sleepover with a shiny new woman or just an overnight romance with that hottie bartender, there are some things men sometimes do during that first trip up Carnal Mountain that, well, make it unlikely a woman will go back for an encore climb. So read on: tell your friends, tell your brothers and cousins, tell anyone who will listen – the following exploits need to be erased, deleted and completely forgotten from your hot-macho repertoire.

The Pancake

Many young players fall prey to The Pancake. In this first-time scenario, everything is going swimmingly when suddenly you start flipping her like a sizzling pancake awaiting delivery of maple syrup. If you’re a pancake man, you’re likely to flip her several times in the course of a single session – leaving her limbos akimbo, face pressed into mattress, and she wandering if she should have stayed home and cleaned the oven instead. And she hadn’t clean that damn oven in over six months, so you can imagine. You clearly think this is the best display of your sexual prowess, but while I’m all for mixing it up, The Pancake used too early on can make the pancake-ee (read, the poor woman’s vagina) feel like an anonymous orifice. First times are not for trying to recreate a porn movie.

The Proposition

This little nugget happens just as things are getting hotter than Jessica Biel sitting in the sun eating an ice cream, in a nurse’s uniform. She’s all primed and ready to go when you say, “So… what do you want me to do?” You hope she’d just smile and tell you this: “Um, to be honest, buddy, I’d really like you to just go at it hell for leather.” If it’s not working and this is not the answer you get, in fact, you don’t get an answer at all, but a whole load of awkward silence, don’t say you weren’t warned. You could at least give it a burl first, before popping this uncomfortable query. This question is best saved for when you know each other’s range inside out, so she can answer with, “I want you to do that thing with my ears, then that thing with your tongue, then back to the ear thing.” Asking someone who you barely know what butters their toast is like a woman showing her boyfriend her wedding dress before he’s proposed – premature and decidedly awkward.

The Panda

We know a panda eats shoots and leaves, but in the case of this particular Panda, it’s a case of eats, shoots and leaves. (Grammar, is there anything it can’t do?) She quite happily welcomed your cargo into her safe deposit box and had a grand ol’ time doing it – but then, instead of hanging around for a snuggle and a kip, you get up and make an early exit. Pulling the Panda after a first-time foray, well, that’s ruder than a naked photo of the Queen on horseback. The basic rules of human conduct stand even when you’re lying down – so let’s all just try to treat each other with a little tenderness. Worst-case scenario we’ll all of us be better lovers for it. Best-case scenario we’ll all be better lovers, sons, daughters, parents and people. And that’s what I call true next-level pleasure.

Have a tender week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. When it comes to first-times, always stick to the basics and change the pace according to the responses you get. You don’t know the person you’re getting hot and heavy with and you don’t want her to get out of there sooner than the foam off a cappuccino. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“The Rubicons which women must cross, the sex barriers which they must breach, are ultimately those that exist in their own minds.” – Freda Adler

On one past season of True Blood, there was one hot sex scene that blew all the others away (and given how naughty this show gets, that’s saying a lot). After it aired, message boards exploded with women writing in about how turned on they were by watching two vampires go at it naked in front of a roaring fire. The unexpected surprise: both characters were guys. And while fangs do have a way of making things sexier, women’s sudden appreciation for man-on-man lovin’ isn’t limited to the undead.

Recently, women have begun reading so much gay erotica that romance-novel publishers – like Harlequin and Running Press – have launched a series solely about male lovers to satisfy female audiences. One author of these books even told the press that close to 90 percent of her fan mail comes from chicks. Why are women suddenly so drawn to double-dude action? I found out.

Man-kissing on the rise. Before Brokeback Mountain, it was a risk for a male star to take on a gay role (and for movie studios to release films about same-sex romance) for fear that it would turn off mainstream audiences. But a combination of that movie’s success and a slew of celebrities coming out as gay or bisexual – from Lance Bass and Neil Patrick to Lady Gaga and Anna Paquin – has opened the door for more story lines involving gay characters and couples. Suddenly, we’re seeing more homosexual sex, and some of those scenarios are turning out to be a hit with women.

In the past, the rare times gay characters were featured, they were usually portrayed as effeminate stereotypes. Now, more are given depth and variety in their personalities. That means there are more characters like the ones in Brokeback and True Blood: confident and powerful. And those are two qualities women have pretty much always found sexy.

A hot mix. A big part of the appeal of gay porn is the fact that it’s something women can’t participate in themselves, which makes it feel tantalizing and off-limits. When females see something that is sexually explicit but that they can’t fully understand, it leaves room for their imagination to go wild. Women can fantasize about what it would feel like to be involved in that kind of sex, and that fantasy can really be anything she wants it to be.

But the forbidden aspect is only half of it. Physically, sex scenes involving two men tend to be more aggressive – adversely, lesbian scenes tend to be more sensual – and that taps in to a craving women have for more intense kind of sex. In other words, if your partner finds herself getting turned on watching two guys, um, manhandle each other, it may mean she’s wishing sex with you would sometimes feel more raw versus romantic. An easy way to turn a tame session more primal is to nip at her lips or neck during foreplay or push her away after kissing her passionately. A soft bite or playful push sends a very animalistic message and lets her know you’re feeling feisty. You may have to do it two or three times before she gets the hint, but once she does, she should get more aggressive with you.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Another way in which you can show your more aggressive side is to push out foreplay and choose an animalistic position (doggie-style, for example) and stick to it until she comes. If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “GSpot Orgasms Made Easy“.

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“Sex, a great and mysterious motive force in human life, has indisputably been a subject of absorbing interest to mankind through the ages.” – William J. Brennan

They’re the sex questions at the centre of women and men’s conversations everywhere, so I decided to give you the lowdown on what each question actually means and what’s the best answer for it.

Q. Should oral sex always be one-for-one?

Good sex shouldn’t be based on some sort of tally, but if you’re craving a bit of oral action, you have to be prepared to give and not just receive. I mean, if she’s willing, you have to return the favor. It’s selfish if you don’t. That being said, I must warn you about something: you should never give a sexual act just to receive one, but to pleasure your partner and experience pleasure with them. Of course you’d hope there is an equal split of pleasure being given by both people but it’s the intent during the act that you need to be aware of. The solution? How about one-for-one at same time?

Q. Why do some girls enjoy anal sex and some don’t?

Everyone is built differently. Those who have had a painful or uncomfortable experience the first time might not want to visit this again, or those with more traditional views on sex might believe that end is only for one thing. Some girls feel comfortable enough or understand their body well enough to be able to lock into that pleasure zone. And that’s because the guys they are with are able to make them relax and feel safe enough to try it. It is a daunting job, but one that’s perfectly achievable, as you probably already know if you have been reading my columns on this particular topic. Also, more and more guys are getting comfortable asking for this item off the menu because it’s so normal in porn land. However, don’t think that just by asking you’re entitled to force yourself upon your partner. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea so don’t make your significant other feel guilty if she decides to say no.

Q. How regularly should we get tested for STIs?

It’s wise to get tested before every new sexual partner, especially if you’ve had unprotected sex. A lot of men and women carry diseases without even knowing it! It’s always better to be safe than STI positive. However, due to the amazing act of casual sex, this is not always possible. How often you get tested will depend on your sexual behaviors. The more often you get checked the better, but it’s important to find somewhere to go where you won’t feel judged. You need to feel comfortable to get tested as much as you want and be able to discuss what’s on your mind.

Q. Do women still fake it?

Yes. With as many as 80 per cent of women experiencing orgasm via clitoral stimulation, all the energetic thrusting in the world might not get a woman there. Of course, that doesn’t mean it’s always your fault – sometimes a woman just can’t get there. Sex can still be great without an orgasm. The real problem with faking is that women are letting themselves down – if you think you are onto a good thing, you will stick with it. If a woman is well aware of what gets her over the edge and expresses this to her partner, there should be absolutely no problem in climaxing every single time.

Q. How often should a couple have sex?

Sex lives are going to vary from relationships to relationships. No couple is the same. Long-distance partners are going to go at it like rabbits in the small amount of time they have together while people living under the same roof might want to spread the love out a little. There is no set of rules when it comes to how many times you should be having sex. Ideally, as often as possible (if you want to do it twice a day, go for it!). Even though we live in a society where we are obsessed with comparing ourselves to others, when we talk about sex, there is no such thing as normal. If you are happy with the amount of sex you are having, why should it matter what everyone else is doing?

Q. Are women ok with us liking porn?

Depends on what you mean by ‘liking’. There’s owning a few DVDs that hide in the back of your cupboard, then there’s spending hours each day wanking to internet porn. As long as it doesn’t replace sex and it’s not becoming more important than your partner, you shouldn’t worry about it. Also, most girls find men’s ‘addiction’ to porn funny. No women really feels intimidated by something that will not happen in real life. Also, there are girls that are willing to join in on the fun. Now, that’s a healthy attitude!

Have a great week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you have questions that you don’t find the answers to in this article, please feel free to ask them in the comments section and I’ll make sure you get your needed replies! Check out my program on the subject, G-Spot orgasms made easy.

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“Fuck me badly once, shame on you. Fuck me badly twice, shame on me.” – Sex & The City

We all have sexual demons. While your head may not be spinning 360 degrees (not sexy!), you might be possessed by other annoying anxieties that are holding you back. Now’s the time to banish the devils from your bed and reclaim the glory of hang-up-free, hallelujah-hot sex.

The Demon

Orgasm face anxiety

Tragic but true. At the moment of utmost ecstasy, some men and women worry that they look like gnarling hyenas… or a mouth-agape Taylor Swift at an award show. A friend of mine used to bite her lips when she orgasmed, but then he was told by one of her former boyfriends that it looked like she was faking it and being overly dramatic. Now she’s deeply self-conscious about it and can’t fully enjoy her orgasm for fear of how her face looks.

The sexorcism

There’s an actual scientific term for freaking out about your orgasm face, and it’s not, “Dude, you’re crazy!” Spectatoring is when you’re judging your own pleasure without fully experiencing it. Don’t let your face block your penis’ happiness. Try looking into your partner’s eyes (or kissing on her earlobe and neck) to focus more on connecting  with her and less on what your face looks like. Side note: Never judge a woman’s orgasm face. Just be happy it’s happening.

The Demon

Frozen vocal cords

She’s grabbing your balls like they’re made of steel and grinding on your penis like a Maltipoo in heat. At this point, you’d love to nudge her in the right direction and tell her that her moves aren’t that arousing as she might think, but your vocal chords are paralyzed. “I’m scared to ask her to do something because I’m afraid she’ll think it’s weird or she’ll become upset and want to end the whole thing”, says Michael or his sexual silence.

The sexorcism

Talking about sex when you’re about to do the dirty puts too much pressure on everybody. Next time you’re having a conversation in the car or on the couch, let her know a couple of things she does that you like before suggesting you’d love more (penis action/oral/what have you). Most women appreciate a little sexy direction.

The Demon

Hand dependency

You love your hand. Her motor’s so powerful, it could rev up a Tesla, and she always gets you off. But things take a turn if you’re more into your hand than sex with a real, live person. It takes just enough time to ejaculate while masturbating, but I either go too fast or take too long when I’m with my partner”, says Kyle.

The sexorcism

Your magic hand can’t yank off your underwear and flip you into girl-on-top like a human lover can. So try making yourself come in the presence of your partner. Once she sees what motions turn you on, she’ll be more than happy to apply what she’s learned. Also, if you think that what you’re lacking is more friction, try a vibrating penis ring during sex with your partner. A woman wants to see you come. Include her!

The Demon

Penis shame

Getting oral from a woman who knows what she’s doing is like eating salted-caramel gelato while watching your favorite soccer team play. But sadly some men are too ashamed of their manly parts to enjoy it. Karl won’t allow women to go down on him after an ex told him, mid-oral, that his penis is “sooo bent”. Now he thinks he looks weird, so he won’t let girls do it.

The sexorcism

In porn, the huge, straight, veiny penis is all the rage. But there are no perfect penises – they come in a plethora of shapes, colors and sizes. Still, many penis-shame sufferers are disconnected from their own penises. I suggest a penis exam. Grab a mirror and bond with your magic wand. Touch yourself using different sensations – fingers, vibes, feathers! You’re built for pleasure. The more you experience it, the more you can share it with your partner.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you think your partner might suffer from some of the demons mentioned here, have her read the piece also. You’ll both benefit from it! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“Why go to the gym when you can just have sex with me?”

Men and women spill the beans on the tips and tricks that gave them the best orgasm ever. This is one time I encourage copying.

From the women

“My guy knows I like to have sex in unique locations. One time, he took me to a tree house. The unexpected surroundings let me focus on my body and head right to orgasm town.” – Jess

“I was at a bar with my boyfriend and after a couple of margaritas I was feeling really confident so I dragged him into the bathroom and demanded he kiss me down there. The public passion was a huge turn-on.” – Monica

“The best sex I ever had was straight after my boyfriend said he loved me for the first time. There was so much heightened emotion. Everything felt so supercharged.” – Sarah

“While we were having sex, my boyfriend made me laugh just as I was about to orgasm, which intensified it beyond belief.” – Sharona

“My best sex ever was with a guy who was a bit older than me. I’d never been with someone who was so confident and sure of himself, and his intensity made me feel so sexy and desirable.” – Angela

“The night I was first introduced to toys in the bedroom was the best sex I ever had. My boyfriend was very familiar with them. He pulled out a bullet vibrator and started off with a slow speed, then medium, and inserted it into my vagina and went down on me at the same time.” – Stephanie

“I enjoy being tied up, but asking for it kills the submissive vibe. I texted my guy during the day to tell him that if I put on my red robe, it meant I wanted him to take the best off and tie me up with it. The sex that night was the best we ever had.” – Missy

“I remember the first time I put a pillow under my butt while my guy gave long, sensual thrusts. He was grinding me in a circular motion so I could feel his penis massaging my G-spot and his pelvic bone rubbing my clitoris. I was stimulated after a few thrusts.” – Holly

From the guys

“My best sex was this one time with my ex. She wrapped her legs around me, and I lifted her with my left hand and squeezed her butt while gently pulling on her hair. I was able to control the depth and angle, and I could tell how much she enjoyed it.” – Maxim

“I was with a girl who started so soft and sweet. She gently kissed me and caressed my back as I was thrusting. Suddenly she turned into a wild woman! The quick and complete change in the mood was amazing.” – Doug

“A woman I was with would squirt lube on her hands, then she’d put them on either side of my penis. Instead of gripping, she’d keep her hands flat, and move back and forth as if she was rubbing her palms. The friction took me over the edge.” – Garrett

“Once my girlfriend tied me to the bed and blindfolded me. Not knowing where she would touch me next got me so hard.” – Cameron

“One girl made great noises in bed. She said my name over and over and it made the sex so hot. It let me know I was using the right moves.” – Andrew

“I was with a girl who would liven up things with some power struggle. She’d pin me down by grabbing my wrists or arms. I loved it because she was really in the moment.” – Ed

“I had a girlfriend who told me when and where to orgasm. She’d say things like, ‘I can’t wait to taste you’. I mean, I know semen is not that appetizing, so it was amazing to be made to feel as though it’s the best thing ever.” – Andy

“I was on top and the girl I was with clasped her hands around my neck, then moved them down my back. When she got to my hips she threw me on my back, put her hands on my chest and rode me.” – Zach

“I got chatting to a librarian who worked at my favorite book store. We were flirting and I said how hot it would be to have sex in a library. She took the hint and next thing we were at it in the library (it had closed). I was amazed by her confidence.” – Henry

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

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The G spot orgasm is one of those elusive sexual acts. Some people have found the G spot and swear that it’s the best thing that has ever happened to their sex life. Others have tried to locate it and have failed. Some love it, some like it and others hate it. Even the experts don’t agree on the G spot. The bottom line is, we need even more research into this sexual spot so that we can better understand what it is and how it works. The good news is that some new research has been done and we beginning to have a better understanding of vaginal orgasms and the G spot. Here is what they discovered:

* The G spot is not actually a spot! – This is something that has been misunderstood about the G spot for a long time. Both scientists and lovers have been searching for a spot that is its only separate thing on the inner wall of the vagina, but that’s not actually what the G spot is. It’s much more complicated than that…

It’s actually a whole zone on the front inside wall of the vagina that is composed of several parts. Most guys know of the part of the clitoris that they can see, but that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There is a whole internal structure of the clitoris that you don’t see. It’s shaped like a wishbone with the tip being the part that you see and the arms of the wishbone extending on either side of the vagina. The new theory is that the “spot” is actually when you stimulate these clitoral “arms,” the Skene’s gland, and the anterior vaginal wall.

* Vaginal orgasms (or G spot orgasms) ARE different than clitoral orgasms – Research has been done to study women’s brains when their clitoris, vagina and cervix were being stimulated. An MRI showed that women have different sensory pathways when their vagina is stimulated to the sensory pathways for when their clitoris is being stimulated. Another study showed that women who were paralyzed from the waist down and had lost sensation in their clitoris, but were still able to experience vaginal sensations.

* The bigger the G “zone,” the more likely the woman is to have a vaginal orgasm – We’re talking about thickness here. The thicker this area is, the bigger the concentration of blood vessels, nerve endings, muscles, and glands, and therefore the more sensitive it is to stimulation. The research shows that there are some women who have small zones and therefore it will be much harder for them to have a vaginal orgasm. That means you might be doing everything in your power to give a woman a G spot orgasm, but if her G zone isn’t particularly sensitive, it might not ever happen. For other women vaginal orgasms might be possible, but only when combined with other types of stimulation. There is nothing wrong with the women who have limited vaginal sensitivity. Just like some women love to have their necks kissed and others might not like it, the same goes for G zone stimulation.

* Which is better? The vaginal orgasm or the clitoral orgasm? Many claim that the vaginal orgasm is more intense, but then there are just as many who say that clitoral orgasms are better. The jury will probably be forever out on that one. No one can really say since it will always come down to personal preference. They are both amazing, but different.

* Vaginal / G spot orgasms don’t often happen by accident – It’s rare for a woman to happen upon one without really knowing her body. If you and your partner really want to try to achieve this kind of orgasm, the best thing you can do is explore her body and learn what she really likes. More importantly, SHE needs to do this kind of exploration in order to really get to know her sexual self.

All of this new information should be extremely helpful for all of our quests to understand the female orgasm even better. It’s important to keep in mind that women are different and there is never just one one-size-fits-all sex technique that will work for 100% of the population. So, if you have been searching for that G spot and have gotten frustrated not being able to find it, why not just begin to explore her body and learn about it and just see where it leads you?

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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