You might have heard that some women can ejaculate during sex, and who wouldn’t want to give this orgasmic gift to their partner? Despite the theatrical squirting you may see in traditional porn, making a woman squirt isn’t as easy (nor does it happen as quickly) as those videos make it seem. However, while it is rare and figuring out how to make a woman squirt will take some time, it’s well worth the effort to help her achieve such a mind-blowing release. But before we delve into some expert tips, let’s answer one crucial question: How do women squirt?

The first thing to know is that every woman is unique, which means different women are turned on by different things. Another important note is that it isn’t clear whether all women can squirt, so don’t be discouraged if after several attempts you still haven’t achieved your goal. 

If your sexual activities span multiple relationships, you’ll find that each partner requires a unique approach, so try a few different things to see if you can get her there. Even a single partner’s tastes can vary, so if you’re researching “how to make my wife squirt,” my biggest piece of advice is don’t skimp on variety in the bedroom.

Getting into the nuts and bolts of how to make a woman squirt starts with understanding the G-spot. Located about 3 to 5 inches inside the anterior vaginal wall, this erogenous zone is thought to be responsible for female ejaculation (more colloquially known as squirting).

While figuring out how to make her squirt is somewhat of an art, there’s also some science behind making her come so hard that she ejaculates. It has to do with something called the clitoral network. This U-shaped structure connects the clitoris to the inside of the vagina and features a dense collection of nerve endings. When stimulated at the clitoris or G-spot — or both — strong pleasurable sensations can lead to an ultra-intense orgasm. 

While there’s certainly nothing wrong with giving her mind-blowing orgasm without ejaculation, how do you make a woman squirt specifically? Squirting involves the Skene’s glands located near the G-spot. When a woman is aroused, these glands dispense fluids that lubricate the vagina. If a woman has a strong enough orgasm, the glands can release accumulated fluid.

You may need to get creative when figuring out how to make women squirt, using your mouth, fingers, and sex toys to help her reach this new level of pleasure. There are also certain sex positions that can help you achieve the coveted G spot orgasm. The real goal, however, is to make sure she feels safe, comfortable, uninhibited, and completely immersed in the experience.

5 Juicy Delicious Advanced Tips to Make Her Squirt

G-spot orgasms are still all the rage, and many women yearn to learn how to achieve them.  But, since only 25% of women can get off from penetration, it is obvious that we still have a lot to learn.

I’m sure you’ve read many of my articles on where it is and how to stimulate it, but today I want to teach you some advanced tips to help her get there, so she can achieve G-spot orgasms and learn to squirt.

Setting the Scene (Relax)

G-spot orgasms are more emotional than clitoral orgasms, and therefore a lot of what takes place in usually in our heads and not necessarily about technique.

 Learning how to make a woman squirt is not only about the physical aspect of sex, but also her mental and emotional state of mind.

That’s why setting the scene properly is important when you want to have G-spot play, so she can get into the mood, feel juicy and sexy, and allow herself to go over the edge into orgasm.

So, let’s set the scene.

You could start with a nice hot bath, or an erotic massage, or vulva massage—something that lets her get into her body and relax.  Being relaxed is super important.

I like to experience a long night of seduction before going into G-spot play, so I feel super sexy and turned on.  Dinner, slow dancing, flirting, seduction, all leading up to the big event.

Soft lighting is encouraged, maybe some music playing in the background, scented oils for massage, all these things can help to further stimulate the senses and get her aroused.

Make sure she is comfortable and use pillows for positioning as well as a G-spot blanket or absorbent towels.

All these things will go a long way in upholding her pleasure.

Orgasm is in the Brain

Orgasm happens when pleasure pathways in the brain’s limbic system are turned on, and our defense pathways are turned off.  If a woman feels threatened, or unsafe, the sexual part of her brain can shut down and not allow her to feel pleasure.

This is why, after a heated argument, she may have no interest in having sex.  Past sexual traumas can also affect how she feels and how she is able to respond to sexual stimulation.  Much of this wounding stays in the body—in the vagina and G-spot to be exact—so this area may even feel numb to her.  Thus, you need to be aware of this before you start, and if she has any issues of abuse, shame, or guilt about her body or sex, she may need some sexual healing first.

To that end, she also needs to feel safe.  G-spot orgasms can be quite messy and if she has any hang-ups about female ejaculation, feels embarrassed about her own body fluids, then she’s not going to get there.  She needs to be educated about G-spot orgasms and know they are natural, pleasurable, euphoric and wonderful and she need not feel shame.

She also needs to trust her partner.  A lot of emotions can come up during G-spot orgasm, so she needs to know she can trust you in order to surrender completely and go over the edge.  Consequently, creating a safe place for her to experience G-spot play, to love, hold and nurture her, will set you both up for success.

Self-Pleasure and Explore

When a woman first experiences G-spot orgasm and/or ejaculation, it can be during partnered sex.  However, it is much easier for her to learn how to G-spot orgasm and squirt first on her own.

Therefore, encourage her to explore and self-pleasure, to find her G-spot on her own, and to bring herself over the edge.

This way she doesn’t have to worry about how she looks, or if she’s going to cry, or about her own “performance”, or even if she will reach orgasm.  She can just go with her own natural flow and learn what turns her on.  No pressure.

Learning how to make a girl squirt doesn’t have to be all on you. Help her get familiar with her own body and what turns her on. And no boys, that doesn’t mean you get to watch her — this means giving her time and space to do it on her own. You can do this by giving her privacy to explore her own needs on her time. That way, she can help guide you towards the right spot when you’re together. 

Prolonged Stimulation

The first time a woman attempts G-spot orgasm, whether solo or during partnered sex, she can take up to an hour to build up the erotic sensation and pleasure that will eventually put her over the edge.

When you are learning something new, you are creating new neural pathways in the brain.  This is also true about sex and pleasure.  Subsequently, it can take much longer the first time to connect that pleasure to the brain and turn everything on so it is all working together.

My advice  for how to make her squirt? Foreplay, foreplay and more play!  Stimulate all the erogenous zones that normally turn her on and stimulate her close to climax several times, allowing her to come back down again and again.  By the time you stimulate her G-spot she will already be almost over the edge, and orgasm (plus ejaculation) can happen much easier.

You may have also heard that the G-spot does not show itself until she is very aroused.  It has to be very turned on and filled with fluids before you can actually find it and before she will feel pleasure there.  So, again, use lots of stimulation and foreplay to get her there.

Surrender

A major part of learning how to make a woman squirt is to create an environment where she feels safe enough to completely let go.  Surrendering and letting go of control, may be the biggest obstacle for women when attempting to experience a G-spot orgasm.  That is why safety, comfort and allowing herself to be open and vulnerable is important.

There are also so many myths about the G-spot and misinformation, that some women think they can’t experience G-spot orgasms.

Not true.

Every woman has the same parts and can experience G-spot orgasms.  But, if they believe they can’t, they will never get there. When learning the ins and out of making your girlfriend squirt, it’s important that both of you are fully on board and educating yourselves about female ejaculation and how it happens.

Some women try, and if they can’t reach orgasm quickly, or it doesn’t happen after a few attempts, think they are broken.  But if she knows that the truth and is given permission, that can be all she needs to allow herself to surrender into orgasm.

That means not stopping if she experiences weird sensations, like having to pee, or overwhelming emotions (these can come up), but continuing to go over that edge into pleasure, then she can experience a G-spot orgasm.

And, it may take several attempts to get there.  We don’t just get on a bicycle as a kid and start riding it.  It usually takes trial and error and learning how.  But, just because we fall and scrape our knees doesn’t mean we should give up.  Once she learns how and creates those new erotic pathways, she will never forget how to get there again, and again, and again.

So, there you have it.  Some sure-fire ways to get her there so she can experience G-spot orgasms and learn how to squirt.

Ultimately, learning how to make a female squirt begins with understanding the female anatomy and how to navigate it.  If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “The Pussy Key“.

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Put your hands in the service of her unlimited pleasure and use these creative techniques to make a memorable hot encounter!

When I ask women what is their favorite part of a man’s body, they almost always start with “His hands”. This is so unexpected for many men, as you would think she could choose anything else: your toned glutes, your muscular shoulders, your strong legs… or even that REALLY obvious part you are thinking about right now. And while all of those other features are indeed arousing to your woman, there is something magically irresistible about your simple hands. As with everything, there is a very good reason for that.

At the beginning of our evolution, men did everything with their hands. They had to make creative tools for hunting, so studies confirm that their hand abilities were actually much better than the ones of the modern man, mainly because you don’t need that kind of dexterity anymore. As a matter of fact, you taking the time to read this article is proof that we have come a long way when it comes to evolution, but there is one surprising thing that hasn’t changed: women’s intrigue for your hands. Actually, women are biologically drawn to them, because in their subconscious, male hands still represent a way of survival. They are powerful and capable — a tool for putting down the big prey or for holding a female waist firmly during penetration. Now look at your hands and see them as the magic tool that they are. Then, ask yourself: are you really maximizing the advantages of this beautiful feature of yours?

Know your advantages

What I mean by that is… your hands not only are the most arousing tool for foreplay, but also for making her orgasm happen in a very different, intimate way, as shown also in my intensive course on the matter. Truth is, every woman is shaped differently, which means there is no secret recipe for making her reach that big O. This also means that penetration is most certainly not enough. Did you know that only 12.9% of women consistently reach orgasm by penetration alone? When you use your hands to pull her closer, to push her against the wall or to softly caress her body, your woman’s brain sends signals to prepare her body for a sexy time. And once she is ready for more, you can help her explore a new kind of pleasure by using the magic of finger stimulation.

Be the master of details

You gotta love a man who’s paying attention to details — and she sure will! No matter how attractive your hands are in theory, if they look too rough or your nails are not taken care of properly, the whole thing will just turn into her biggest nightmare. So take care of your hands before going to town — this will even make you more confident in your technique. Keep your nails clean and short and even exfoliate the skin of your hands using a mix of coconut oil and coffee grounds. Strong + clean soft hands? She’s already thinking where to put them!

It’s more than an “in-and-out” move

Because I really do want you to enjoy the ultimate sex experience with your partner, I’m going to tell you the ugly truth: most of what you know about fingering is wrong. Actually, when it comes to fingering, a lot of women complain about their partner’s skills, saying things like “It’s boring”, “I don’t feel anything” or even “It hurts”. That’s because most men think it’s enough to just put your fingers inside and make an exhaustingly “in-and-out” move to give her the orgasm of her life. But as I said before, female anatomy is far more complex than that. Simple penetration means accessing only 5% of her pleasure potential — and wouldn’t that be a shame?

Why is fingering causing pain for some women? Well, because she needs more foreplay to get her vagina properly lubricated so that everything goes smoothly down there. Other reason could be that you’re being too rough: intense friction can create microscopic tears in the skin of her intimate area, translating into a burning sensation that says goodbye to even a half orgasm.

Make sure you enjoy an intense foreplay together using the whole potential of your hands. Start by feeling the details of her underwear and pretending this is the first time that your hands reach that intimate warm area. Draw small imaginary circles in the area of her clitoris with your index or middle fingers, but do not touch the spot directly. This subtle teasing and the warmth of your finger will increase the blood circulation in this area full of nerve endings. Now use the palm of your hand to apply slightly more pressure directly on the clitoris, using a sensual up and down type of movement. Do you feel her underwear getting wet? It’s time for the next move.

Mix your moves

Fingering is not only about the inside of her intimate parts — leaving the clitoris out of the picture is a rude thing to do. Be a respectful fellow and make sure all the area gets attention from your sexy naughty hands. Use your right thumb to gently massage the clitoris with circular motions. At the same time, put your other hand to work:  create a V shape with your index and middle fingers, placing them on the sides of her big labia while applying moderate pleasure. This is the best way to make sure you cover the most of the nerve endings surrounding her vagina, giving her an intense wave of pleasure before you even get to the best part.

Massage those secret spots

The elusive G-spot might be an intimidating concept for most man. And like that’s not enough, scientists have also discovered the A-spot, also known as the anterior fornix. You can really stimulate these two spots during fingering action, and there’s no reason not to. With a little practice (and with the help of my detailed course on the subject) you can help her reach the sex revelation of her life.

Let me tell you a little secret: the more you stimulate her vulva (meaning every visible part on the outside of her vagina), the more her G-spot will want to join the party — swelling up on the inside, which makes it easier to find and stimulate it. Assuming you’ve taken the foreplay stimulation steps above, introduce one or two fingers into her vagina slowly and increase the intensity as you go. Every woman has a slightly different body shape, but her G-spot should be located one to three inches inside of her, on the roof of her vagina. Massage this general area and try to let her moans lead you — when she goes crazy, yup, you’ve found the right spot!

On the other hand, the A-spot can be found much deeper into her vagina, between the cervix and the bladder. Stroking this area will make her crazy wet — actually, most women have a squirting orgasm when you massage this little miracle worker. Don’t forget communication is always key: ask her how she feels at all time, making sure you discover and enjoy together the unlimited pleasure potential of these two secret spots!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Squirting is the epitome of good sex, surpassing the classic orgasm and making a woman want to reach new levels of pleasure. When you are able to give her not only an orgasm but a squirting orgasm, your sexual connection becomes unbeatable. There is something profoundly erotic about her ejaculation because it represents the ultimate level of pleasure — she’ll be blown away for days, not to mention she’ll put YOU right next to the best feeling of her life, craving you and only you.

BUT there is one thing which can disrupt the magic of a squirting orgasm: a sexually transmitted disease, aka an STD. Erotic pleasure is my favorite thing in the world and I love to preach it every time I have a chance to do so… but safety should always come first — for you and for your partner.

When it comes to STDs, squirting techniques can make it even easier for viruses and bacteria to sneak in. This transmission happens mainly through fluids… and female ejaculation implies a lot of fluids.

Let me start with the basics: squirting happens when a woman emits fluid from her urethra during sexual arousal. This can happen both with or without an orgasm, but — of course — the ultimate pleasure is released when it happens during an orgasm. Some women ejaculate just once, others do it multiple times — just like they are able to have multiple orgasms.

Female ejaculation is made possible when you stimulate the G-spot, where Skene’s glands are located. The fluids are then pushed out through the ducts in her urethra. You can stimulate de G-spot using your fingers, your penis or even a G-spot vibrator. However you choose to do it, penetration is deep and puts both of you at risk for a sexually transmitted disease if you don’t take precautions.

Unfortunately, there haven’t been many revealing studies done about female ejaculation. The studies regarding sexually transmitted infections through female ejaculate are even fewer — if not zero, nada, niente. But there are a few general rules I would advise you to follow.

Get tested together

You and your partner should get tested regularly (once a year) to make sure nothing spoils the fun of the amazing sex you’ll have together. This is especially important because some sexually transmitted diseases have a window of time during which they can go be undetected. If an STD goes unnoticed in the early stages, it’s very possible for the symptoms to be mistaken for something benign when they finally present themselves. These diseases are treatable, but they are also particularly difficult to detect. So be wary of the signs: if your woman develops an unusual genital ulcer five months into your relationship, it’s reasonable for you to ask her to get tested again. The same thing goes for you: if she notices a significant change in the smell or color of your semen, don’t be offended if she asks you to get tested.  Remember, it’s in your best interest to enjoy a healthy sex life together.

A great testing tip: if you notice something wrong with her body, don’t mention STD’s right away because it might sound too harsh. Just mention the symptoms. Women generally take good care of their bodies, so she will probably take measures. It’s better if you seem genuinely concerned and don’t make it sound like an accusation.

Use lube to make it wetter

During sexual intercourse, constant rubbing can cause microscopic tears into the skin of your genitalia — for you and for your woman — especially when there’s not enough slip. These microscopic tears help bacteria and viruses to get into your system much easier, so lubrication might actually be much more important than you thought: it can really protect your body from contracting some STDs.

If you feel your partner is not wet enough for some reason, just use a small amount of coconut oil to get some healthy slip down there. But remember, if you’re using a condom (which you should, especially if you involve anal stimulation) it’s better to choose a water-based lubricant.

Take some hygiene measures

Something as simple as washing your hands more often could really help lower your chance of infection. Numerous studies have shown that a toilet surface is a place crawling with potential diseases. So when you go to a public bathroom, make sure to use toilet seat covers where available if you’re going to sit or generous strips of toilet paper to cover the seat, avoiding contact of bacteria with your bottom. And tell your lady to do the same.

As for sex hygiene, always wash your hands before fingering your woman! Take a shower together before you begin the sexy play and try to use antibacterial intimate lotion when cleaning your genitalia.

Remember, if you get both get tested regularly and respect some basic hygiene rules you can enjoy endless pleasure together!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Female ejaculation is an incredible sensation for both of you, and I want you to enjoy it safely, reaching a new level of sexual connection.

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A lot of women actually believe that they simply are unable to orgasm. Female anatomy makes it harder to reach orgasm because the clitoris, which has more powerful nerve endings, is not close to the vagina, so it doesn’t always get the attention it deserves during sex.

But during their erotic solo escapades, women tend to involve the clitoris so much more than you do during sex, sometimes even exclusively. Actually, most women only massage their clitoris in order to have an orgasm while masturbating. Why? Because it feels great instantly and it just takes less time to get to the big O. Sure, penetration is still very intimate and pleasurable, but not all women are able to reach the maximum pleasure point in any sex position and without involving the clitoris directly.

This is the reason why a lot of men come to me with burning dilemmas, like “Am I unable to satisfy my woman?” or “Why is it so hard for her to orgasm?”. But few of them think of ways to help increase their partner’s sensations during sex and make her have more of those wild orgasms.

First, I want to tell you that sexual frustration will affect your connection, so you need to act fast. Second, there are certain sex positions which make it much easier for her to orgasm, and I wouldn’t be surprised if you liked them as well. But you need to remember that while it’s okay to stimulate your own sensitivity during sex, you have to think about hers, too. The most sensitive zone of her vagina, called “the ceiling” (the upper wall), is not stimulated when you thrust in and out of her — not if you don’t have an upward curve or a very thick penis. And even then, it’s not a safe bet.

Finding the ideal positioning during sex can help to iron out the kinks, so to speak, when exploring pleasure and play with your partner. The best sex position to give a woman an orgasm will also vary from person to person, so don’t be afraid to try a few different options and see which one she responds to most. One of the great things about these sex positions is that they’re easy to try, can be adjusted based on both of your needs, and well, they’re just plain-old fun!

Try these remastered positions to hit those extra sensitive zones inside her vagina and help her orgasm every time!

The Complete Missionary 

You might be over The Missionary, but women love this sex position for a reason: it offers great intimacy, which helps to get her wet, it makes her feel dominated by your manliness but also protected, and it makes it easier for you to stimulate the upper wall during penetration, while also putting pressure on the clitoris — this combination is fruitful for explosive orgasms. But you can make it even better!

To give her a powerful G-spot orgasm in this classic position, you need to make some creative adjustments. Start by putting a pillow under her butt in order to tilt her pelvis. Next, put her legs over your shoulders, then thrust back and forth to massage her G-spot and make her feel ready to orgasm! Plus, if you can last while putting both her legs on the same shoulder, she’ll feel tighter to you while you’ll cover more of those orgasmic zones of her vagina.

Using a pillow allows for a totally different angle of penetration than when she’s lying flat on her back, and it may create more friction and stimulation along the anterior wall of the vagina, where the G-spot resides. It also provides more space for both partners to access the clitoris, allowing for finger play or the introduction of sex toys that focus on clitoral vibration or suction, taking you both to new heights.

The Creative Doggy (Click here to see it on Video)

Everyone loves the classic doggy-style position because it has a bit of everything: it’s fun, kinky and offers the advantage of deep penetration. Women often say they can orgasm easier during this position, probably because the lower wall of the vagina gets a lot of attention — and that zone also has a huge potential for wild orgasms.

To take this position to another level, have her lie on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis to create that slight angle which will make it easier for you to stimulate the elusive, deep G-spot. Then, get on top of her and thrust straight down at a 90-degree angle. This is how you dive straight into her G-spot and make her lose control! In addition, hold her arms down to make her feel dominated and tell her how much you want her to orgasm.

Wild Woman on Top

She likes it on top because she can finally control penetration and angles, but in the heat of the moment most men become completely oblivious and start moving in a way that stimulates their own pleasure.

Just let her take control and notice what is happening. You’ll see that she doesn’t move straight up and down — it’s more like she grinds you. This move isn’t familiar to men, but it’s the type of motion that makes her surrender to pleasure. Pay close attention to the way she moves and how she stimulates her G-spot and clitoris — because she’s probably trying to stimulate her clit against your shaft. If you see her lean back, that’s because she wants your tip to massage her G-spot.

She probably doesn’t even know that she can hit her G-spot by simply leaning back, so tell her how sexy she would look while doing that for you. Don’t expect her to find the perfect motion from the start, but once she finds it…she’ll become addicted!

 

Closed Missionary

I know, I mentioned missionary already. But don’t scroll past this section just yet — this is missionary with a sexy twist! This particular version is one of the best positions to make a woman cum by hitting that elusive G spot, leading to an explosive orgasm. And this is an important thing to note boys, as only a small percentage of women claim to cum from vaginal intercourse alone. So if you’re trying to up your game and bring her to climax without relying on clitoral stimulation, try this closed missionary position for a higher rate of success. 

Modifications are the key to unlocking greater female enjoyment, keeping things interesting in the bedroom while prioritizing her pleasure as well. In traditional missionary, the woman spreads her legs to accommodate deeper penetration. With closed missionary, once the penis is in place, the woman closes her legs around it while the man spreads his legs to straddle her.

This position creates greater pressure and better conditions for G-spot stimulation, and chances are it’ll feel good for you too. It also slows the pace and limits movement to keep the penis inside the vaginal canal. The benefit of closed missionary is that the woman has a better chance to feel her partner hitting the G-spot, allowing her to guide him and keep pressure and sensation right where she needs it to reach orgasm.

Butterfly Position

The butterfly, another face-to-face position, gives the man a lot of control over the speed, depth, and angle of penetration while allowing the woman greater freedom of movement than when a man is on top of her. In other words, both partners have a better chance to adjust mid-flow for the greatest enjoyment, making it one of the best positions to make a woman cum.

The butterfly position involves the woman lying flat on her back and scooting her pelvis to the end of the bed. The man lifts her legs and braces them against his shoulders while he enters her, with her feet on either side of his head. He’s perfectly positioned to cup her thighs or butt and lift her pelvis, while she’s free to spread her legs, squeeze them together, bend her knees, and even lift and lower her pelvis. This position allows both parties to make adjustments based on what feels good to them, making this a truly collaborative effort! 

The man can reach forward to caress her torso and fondle her breasts and nipples. Both partners can easily reach the clitoris for additional stimulation. While there isn’t a lot of body-to-body contact in this position, it makes for endless variations that can increase pleasure. If the height of your bed isn’t right for the butterfly, you can always get wild by sweeping items off the kitchen counter or dinner table to increase the thrill.

CAT

The coital alignment technique (CAT) is another variation on missionary, one that takes its cue from the closed missionary style. Don’t be fooled by the very scientific and rigid name of this position, it’s a doozy! It starts with insertion, after which the woman closes her legs and the man straddles her. However, there’s an additional step that might just make this the best position to make a woman orgasm.

Once in position, the man will adjust his body so that his torso moves up the woman’s torso while he rests his weight on her rather than holding himself up above her. This upward motion will pull the shaft out of the vagina slightly and press it against the clitoris, so she feels a thrilling pressure as he rests on top of her and begins to thrust.

As with closed missionary, this position limits movement but increases pressure and friction, which is all to the benefit of the woman — and often, the man as well. What makes this position better for most women is the added physical sensation on the clitoris. It also makes it easy to whisper dirty talk in her ear, nibble on an earlobe, or engage in a little passionate hair-pulling. 

CAT has the potential to trigger both clitoral and G-spot orgasms, especially with slow, incremental movements that allow her to pinpoint exactly when her partner has hit the right spot. For women who have had limited success reaching orgasm without clitoral stimulation, this is a much more enjoyable and effective position than standard missionary.

Rocking Horse

The rocking horse might be the best position for a woman, orgasm is never far off with this one! For starters, it allows for somewhat shallower penetration, which may offer a better chance of reaching and maintaining G-spot contact. But how exactly do you rock her world with the rocking horse?  

The woman straddles the man, much like in cowgirl. Then, the man sits up and threads his arms under her bent knees and around her back. From there, he can keep her in position and increase his ability to thrust or help her move up and down on his shaft.

The result is an incredibly close, intimate connection, both in body and spirit. Even as your bodies twist and writhe together with a lot of skin-on-skin contact, this position puts partners face-to-face, allowing you to gaze nakedly into each other’s eyes and build a strong emotional connection.

This connection can be just as important for female orgasms as the physical aspects of intercourse. When a woman allows herself to be open and vulnerable and feels that her partner is doing the same, it can unlock a new level of pleasure that increases arousal and heightens the intensity of orgasms.

Reverse Cowgirl

Couples who already enjoy a bit of woman-on-top action are sure to love the reverse cowgirl position, which pairs elements of both cowgirl and doggy style. Whereas cowgirl features a woman straddling a man on his back so she can ride his erection with full control of the speed, angle, and depth of penetration, the reverse cowgirl involves her facing away from him rather than toward him.

Both positions put the woman in control, allowing her to grind her way to her happy place at her own speed while her partner relaxes and enjoys the ride (and the view!). Reverse cowgirl, however, has the added appeal of doggy-style angling, which could make it easier for some women to get the pressure and friction they want on the G-spot.

The potential for deeper penetration will certainly appeal to men, but it could also be favorable for women with a G-spot deeper in the vaginal canal. This position also makes it easier for the woman to lean back while riding, providing unfettered access to the clitoris for added stimulation by either partner. Women who may feel self-conscious about self-stimulating the clitoris during sex may feel less inhibited in this position, where he won’t be watching.

Seated Scissor

I know what you’re thinking, but “scissoring” isn’t limited to girl-on-girl action. Male and female partners can also work this sexy move into their bedroom play — it just requires a bit of careful coordination. It starts very much like reverse cowgirl, with the man lying on his back and the woman straddling him as she faces toward his feet. However, the man will bend his knees and brace his feet.

Following insertion, she’ll swing one leg between his legs, keeping it bent so that his knees embrace hers. Her other leg will remain on the outside of his hip — this is the “scissor” portion of the position. Which leg she chooses to leave on the outside will determine the angle of penetration, slightly to one side or the other, so experimentation is the key to figuring out how to make this the absolute best position for a woman to orgasm.

This position can feel awkward at first, so it’s best to proceed slowly. However, it allows for some exciting new sensations when she grinds against the pubic bone, and like reverse cowgirl, this position is nicely situated for stimulating the clitoris and other erogenous zones.

Spooning

Some people consider spooning a “lazy” position, but there’s nothing wrong with a bit of languorous lovemaking. Sometimes, a relaxed and comfortable position may be the best position to make a woman cum. Spooning is among the most comforting and secure positions, with partners situated front-to-back and the man acting as the big spoon. Unlike more risky positions, it’s easy to control movements and penetration with the full support of the bed beneath you. 

Both partners lie on their sides while the man wraps his arms around the woman from behind, penetrating her in much the same manner as doggy style or creative doggy (where the woman lies on her stomach and the man lies on her back). 

For the woman, it feels like a full-body hug, complete with sensual penetration, and her partner can use his free hand to fondle her nipples or play with her clit, even as he whispers sexy talk in her ear or kisses the back of her neck.

This position features the deep penetration and superb angling of doggy style, which is often great for both partners, along with the added pressure of a closed-leg posture, like closed missionary, which can greatly enhance G-spot stimulation. When it’s all over and you’ve both had a mindblowing orgasm, it’s easy to snuggle close and bask in postcoital bliss. 

69

For women, the best sex often involves a lot of lubrication and stimulation of multiple erogenous zones, which is why oral sex is always a safe bet. While 69 doesn’t involve penetration, it still allows both partners to give and receive pleasure simultaneously.

This can be a tricky position to maintain, so you might have to spend some time experimenting with a top/bottom scenario or lying on your sides to discover what works best for you (and what’s least likely to cause those pesky leg cramps).

That said, this position can be absolutely explosive for both partners as they lick and suck their way to a mutual climax. It’s hard to imagine a better way to make a woman cum than with oral clitoral stimulation, which could make the classic 69 the very best position to make your woman orgasm.

Tips for Making a Woman Cum in Any Position

Instead of asking what sex position will make a woman orgasm instantly, consider that the right stimulation could make a woman orgasm in any position. Whether you tend to favor missionary, cowgirl, or doggy style, or you like to explore a fantastic range of sexual gymnastics like you’re using the Kama Sutra as your playbook, you always want to work toward helping your partner reach fulfillment.

Slowing down, taking time to explore what makes her back arch and her feet curl, and introducing a variety of techniques are fundamental aspects of mind-blowing sex. However, there are other things you can do to ensure that every touch sends tingles throughout her body and brings her one step closer to climax.

Invite Other Erogenous Zones to the Party

Penetrative sex is rarely enough to make a woman cum, even with so many different positions to try. Your best bet to making her cum is to spend some time stimulating multiple erogenous zones.

Pay attention to her mouth and lips, the nape of the neck, her breasts (especially her nipples), and her inner thighs and buttocks. And of course, don’t forget clitoral stimulation. However, many women have other areas of sensitivity that contribute to arousal. You might nibble her earlobe, kiss your way across her lower abdomen, lightly brush her lower back with your fingers, and so on. In time, you’ll discover which areas really make her purr.

Add Toys to the Mix

Every woman is sure to enjoy some positions more than others. But what if the positions you love don’t match up? You may both still be able to get off in any position with the assistance of some well-placed sex toys.

Dildos, vibrators, nipple clamps, clit stimulators, and other toys can offer an assist that makes every position more pleasure-inducing. A low-profile clit stimulator can even work with missionary-style positions and slip seamlessly between your bodies.

You might find that titillating extras like bondage gear amplify her level of arousal to the new levels. Tickles and slaps can be fun, but bringing feathers, riding crops, and other naughty toys into the mix can up the ante on excitement.

Don’t Rush

If you’re having trouble holding back, you might want to consider techniques that help prolong intercourse until she reaches climax. This could mean switching up tempos during intercourse to avoid reaching the finish line before she does. However, I highly recommend that you spend more time on foreplay and other forms of arousal before you engage in penetration.

You don’t have to cum together every time, but if you tap out when she’s just getting started, chances are at least one of you — but probably both — will end up disappointed. Finding the best position to make a woman cum is just one part of ensuring she crosses the finish line. Remember, sex is more about the journey than the destination so make sure both of you have fun along the way! 

Talk to Her

A lot of women like to have their minds stimulated as much as their bodies. That’s why the right kind of talk during sex can help to get her primed for an orgasm.

You might try a little no-touch foreplay, like reading the steamy parts of an erotic story to let the wheels in her head drive her physical arousal. You can talk dirty or simply fuel her imagination by telling her what you’re going to do to her. Getting close to her to whisper in her ear can be a major turn-on that greatly enhances the pleasure of any number of positions. You can even try a little dirty sexting before she gets home to really get her engines revving. 

The truth is that the best position to make a woman cum will depend on a variety of different factors. Make sure to talk to her about what she wants, what feels good, and what new and sexy things she’s willing to try. You may be surprised by what you learn about your partner’s fantasies! 

Ultimately, finding the best position will come down to a lot of trial and error. But the good news for you is that it means you get to spend time exploring her body and what makes her tick. And who doesn’t love a little sexy exploration with their partner? I’ll leave you with that and this fun list of exciting positions. Happy experimenting! 

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: And remember, the more orgasms she has, the easier it will become for her to experience the same kind of intense pleasure. Because once you figure out together the most powerful angles and moves to stimulate those sensitive areas, you will master this mysterious territory without much effort.

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Whether we want to admit it or not, there has always been an orgasm gap between men and women. While you are able to reach orgasm in less than 2 minutes, a woman might have to give up on her dream to climax after half an hour of unsuccessful attempts. This has led scientists to believe that female orgasm might be a biological adaptation and not a given gift. In other words, the fact that a woman can reach orgasm is just a happy coincidence, and not something that should happen every time she has sex. Why? Because, biologically speaking, a woman doesn’t need to have an orgasm in order to procreate, while for a man is mandatory.

Thankfully, modern days have brought more and more attention to female pleasure, and now women feel just as entitled as men to reach orgasm every time they have sex with their man. And I think this makes it more enjoyable for both partners.

But evolution has accomplished more than that. Scientific research has proven that female orgasm, as elusive as it is, can be a lot more intense and complex than yours, for example. Now we know that women can enjoy more than just one type of orgasm, and let me tell you — when she experiences that absolute pleasure she’s never felt before, she will keep raising her standards. So you have to make sure you can keep up with her erotic hunger!

Curious to know what she dreams about on her way to the office? Let me unveil the 3 types of powerful orgasms your woman desperately wants to experience.

The supreme G-spot orgasm

To this day some women still wonder: “Is G-spot real?”. That’s because they’ve never experienced it, no matter how much they’ve tried with their partner. This can get tiring and frustrating, and for some, it can even become an overwhelming obsession. But it doesn’t have to come to this if you find the right way to give her what she dreams about.

The G-spot orgasm is very high ranked, not only because it’s absolute and powerful, but also because for a long time many people believed that women are unable to orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. Well, that is not the case. You just have to master the G-spot to prove her wrong.

First, I advise you to think of the G-spot as a zone, not a spot — this will make life easier and more pleasurable for both of you. Then, communicate with your partner and try to reach that zone using some fingering techniques first. You’ll have to notice how and where exactly she likes to be touched inside of her vagina. Once you gather all this information, choose sex positions that allow you to access the G-spot, which for most women is located about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — closest to the belly button. The best sex positions I recommend for G-spot orgasms are spooning and doggie-style.

But if you want to learn more about how to give your partner an amazingly hot G-spot orgasm, I recommend you to check out this program called G-Spot Orgasms Made Easy because it contains a simple trick that will give you a huge advantage. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

The squirting orgasm

This is considered a whole body orgasm because it’s so powerful that she won’t even be able to move afterward. It’s very dependent on the G-spot orgasm we discussed earlier as she needs very powerful stimulation in order to burst into huge waves of pleasure. However, not every woman who experiences a G-spot orgasm is able to squirt. You need to first encourage her to explore her body and her sensations and to activate her emotional trust. She needs to feel completely free in order to release that immense pleasure through ejaculation.

Then, you have to make sure you engage every erogenous zone in her body during foreplay. Don’t rush it: just focus on caressing every inch of her body until she forgets her name. If she’s already fully aroused by the time you begin G-spot stimulation, it will be much easier for you to give her an intense, squirting orgasm.

The blended orgasm

I still remember the first time a girlfriend of mine told me about how she had experienced a “double orgasm” with her partner. She was referring to the blended orgasm, which involves both clitoral and vaginal climax. I was so intrigued and jealous because I hadn’t experienced it yet. Well, now I can tell you for sure that your woman is missing out — you have to be able to give her a blended orgasm. Trust me, she dreams about it day and night, especially if her friends are talking about it.

It’s actually not that complicated to experience a blended orgasm with your woman if you know each other well, you trust each other and know what you like between the sheets. You just have to be able to recognize her body triggers — meaning vaginal and clitoral contractions. Find a sex position which allows you to physically stimulate both her clitoris and her vagina — at the same time, of course. All variations of doggie-style position allow you to reach her clitoris during penetration.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: And darling, don’t forget to be gentle when you involve the clitoris. Most women prefer a firm hand, but make sure you don’t go too fast. Slow, circular motions are the best! Also, if you want to learn the secret behind the most powerful orgasms you could experience with your partner, check out this program, called G-Spot Orgasms Made Easy — you need this kind of info to rock her world! Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.

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Knowing more will simply help you to give your partner more of those intense orgasms she craves, so why not learning something new every day?

My experience has thought me that men often assume they know enough: where their partner likes to be touched, how fast she reaches orgasm, her favorite positions and so on.

But when talking to the women, I realize that’s not true at all. Most of the time, women complain about how impatient their partners are, how little they care about foreplay… and often they admit their own faults in this: “I pretend I looove doggie-style so much, just because I know he likes it. The truth is, I actually hate it because I can never reach orgasm while sitting with my butt in the air like that. Now it’s too late to tell him the truth…”, says Claudia, one of my dear friends who wishes to rebuild sexual communication with her husband.

Female orgasm is much more complicated than you would like – trust me, I’m a woman and I wish it would be easier to reach erotic bliss whenever I want to. But female anatomy is just much more… unforgiving if I may. While men are biologically wired to reach orgasm fast and ejaculate in order to procreate, a woman can get pregnant without reaching orgasm, so her body is simply not built for fast climaxing.

But maybe this is a blessing and not a curse. You’ll have to work together in order to make sex greater and this will enrich the sexual experience for both of you. Here are the subtle things you need to know about female orgasm in order to make it possible every single time:

Her self-esteem matters

There is scientific proof that the way a woman feels about her herself and her genitalia is linked to the quality of her orgasms. Every vagina looks different and there is an ideal shape or size, but she still might be worried about how you view her intimate area, especially since you have access to X-rated videos with professionals who look camera-ready.

It’s very important that you tell her how much you like to be inside of her, that she looks sexy and that you looove seeing her naked. Being comfortable around you is the number #1 thing that will help her reach orgasm faster and more often.

Novelty always helps

If she’s having trouble reaching orgasm, maybe you should analyze your erotic routine a bit more: do you always do it in the same positions, at the same hour? Maybe it’s time to switch things up. It will be a lot easier for her to experience orgasm if you incorporate more than just one sensual move. That’s why I always recommend oral sex as foreplay. Building arousal and sexual tension will increase her chances of reaching a bigger, stronger climax.

Orgasm gets better with age

This is one advantage women have over you: their orgasm actually becomes more intense as they age. As your partner gets older, the quality and frequency of orgasms can improve – a study showed that 61 percent of women ages 18 to 24 experienced orgasm the last time they had sex, 65 percent of women in their 30s did, and about 70 percent of women in their 40s and 50s did.

Older women are more experienced and more confident in the bedroom. They’ve learned what they like and which are the key moves to a great climax. Another important aspect is being in a long-term relationship: when a woman truly trusts her partner, she can relax and truly enjoy the erotic journey.

It’s important to find her G-spot

While you might be skeptical about this elusive spot, you need to know that it’s real and it will help your woman experience longer and stronger orgasms. Its location may be slightly different in all women, but most often it’s found inside the vagina and is characterized by a “rougher” texture. It requires deeper penetration in order to be stimulated, but I recommend finger play at first – you need to be certain of its location and type of stimulation it needs in order to give her powerfriul sensations. Just experiment together when you’re relaxed and in the mood for sexy play.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I want you to learn that great sex is those little details most men overlook. To be a great lover is to pay attention to all her triggers. If you want to learn more precious information about her G-spot, I recommend you check-out my program on the matter – G-spot Orgasms Made Easy.

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