“There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.” – Audrey Hepburn

Become a sex god with these risqué recipes. Remember, always garnish with a condom, chef’s orders.

‘Roll’ Play

Feeling hot? Better call out a nurse to help you fix that…

Method

Step 1: Invite your partner over to your place, or if you live together wait for her to arrive home. When she gets there, answer the door wearing only boxers and an unbuttoned shirt.

Step 2: Greet her by another name, like “Nurse Rose”. Tell her that you’re grateful that she’s come, and throw in something like, “My girlfriend is good with her hands, but she’s out of town…” She’ll soon catch on!

Step 3: Lead her to the bathroom which has already been prepared and is full of steam. When she looks inside, explain, “Oh, so that’s why I’ve been feeling so hot tonight.”

Step 4: When she turns around to feel the warm water in the tub, get your shirt off and lean against her, placing one hand under her skirt. Say something like, “I’ve heard you can only cure hotness with even greater one. What do you think?”

Step 5: Undress her and enjoy the steam!

Sensory smoothie

Playful moves to heighten her senses and tickle her goodies? Yes, please!

Method

Step 1: Get your partner to undress and lie down, then blindfold her with a silk scarf. Since she can’t see a thing, you’ll be able to capitalize on her heightened sense of touch.

Step 2: Begin by tantalizing her hot spots, alternating between using textured fabrics and a hairbrush. Slowly graze her nipples with lace, tickle her butt with satin and run the brush over her back, calves and thighs. Her body is your playground to explore, but her vaginal area is off-limits. You want to make her wait until she can no longer control herself.

Step 3: After lots of stroking, give one of her nipples a surprise with a block of ice (you can warm it up again by using your mouth). Now go back to teasing her with just the hairbrush, stroking her inner thighs.

Step 4: Finally, when you think she can’t stand it any longer, hop on top and have your way with her. It’s up to you whether or not she gets to keep her blindfold on.

Slap’n’tickle

Get naughty together with a tantalizing experience of S&M.

Method

Step 1: First, decide who’s going to be the spanker and who’ll be the spankee. Once you’ve picked, the spankee puts on a blindfold. If you’re the “leader”, remember that the goal here is to titillate and tease, not to get back at her for that time she told you she thought your best friend is hot. It’s important you treat her how you would like to be treated – before you know it, you’ll both be enjoying the seductive “pain”.

Step 2: Choose a safe word – something you can say to end the game if one of you starts to feel uncomfortable. Good examples are neutral words that don’t come up in everyday conversation – think “popcorn”. Don’t pick a phrase like “stop” or “that’s enough”, because it’s quite possible in kinky games like these that someone will say something like “No, no, babe, you’re killing me,” when what they mean is “Yes, oh baby, yes!”

Step 3: If you’re spanking, bend her over your knee and tell her she’s been a “very bad girl”. Slap her butt – the cheek, where it will make a satisfying sound, but won’t hurt too much – with the flat of your hand. Once she gets used to that, mix things up with a few gentle slaps with the hairbrush. Then, just when she’s expecting a wallop, tickle or stroke her with a feather duster.

Choc-mint tryst

Give her this oh-so sexy dessert to lick and she’ll be begging you for seconds

Method

Step 1: Heat up the chocolate in the bowl. Chocolate is a great sexy food because it boosts the release of endorphins (chemicals responsible for happiness). Coincidentally, when you orgasm the brain releases a nice rush of endorphins too, so you might as well get a head start.

Step 2: Take turns playing Picasso, painting each other where you’d most like to be licked. Splash that topping wherever you like (but don’t let it get inside her vagina – it could lead to a very uneasy case of thrush).

Step 3: Proceed to lick each other’s artwork, but prolong your pleasure and leave the genital areas for last.

Step 4: When you finally do give her that choc-job, slip a bit of mint into your mouth. It will help add a little zing to the oral experience.

Step 5: Whip out a wet wipe and slide it up and down her vaginal area, giving it a gentle twist as you go in order to stimulate a fingering session. Be sure she’s choc-free before you enter her, as you don’t want any topping around your penis either.

Have a delicious week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.” – Oscar Wilde

Trust me on this: a girl says a silent thank-you whenever you’re lavishing attention on her in bed. But have you ever wondered which of your moves she loves most? That’s a cinch if you know whether her dominant sense is sight, sound, or touch. (Only a handful of girls’ dominant senses are smell or taste.)

Although we get a rush from all of our senses, experts tell us that we usually favor one over the others – and the key way to pinpoint your girl’s biggest turn-ons is to zero in on her dominant sense. This study of the senses is called Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and if you customize your bedroom moves to your partner’s dominant sense, you’ll maximize her pleasure. How to tell whether your girl is a sight lover, a sound hound or a touchy-feely type? Take the quiz bellow, then read on to find out how you can send her into total sensory bliss.

1)    The main thing she said she noticed about you when you met was:

a)    Your eyes

b)    Your seductive voice

c)    Your smooth skin and hair

2)    Which of these three activities does she enjoy most?

a)    Watching TV

b)    Listening to music

c)    Fixing something, for example a bracelet or a dress that’s missing a button

3)    She’s told you her number one pre-sex turn-on would be for you to:

a)    Watch as she treats you with a striptease

b)    Talk dirty

c)    Give her a head-to-toe massage

4)    When things are getting hot and heavy, a big mood killer for her is:

a)    You’re wearing pj’s

b)    The TV or radio is on

c)    It’s too cold or hot

5)    When she needs to figure out something, she prefers to:

a)    Peruse a manual

b)    Call someone and talk through it

c)    Start tinkering

6)    Which of these would she most like to do with you on a date?

a)    Grab a table at an outdoor café and people-watch

b)    Sit on a porch and listen to the crickets… and you

c)    Walk barefoot on the beach, feeling the sun on her face and the sand between her toes

7)    The main reason she stays fit is:

a)    She likes what she sees when she looks in the mirror

b)    She craves compliments

c)    She says it makes her feel more energized and alert

8)    For her to fall asleep, it’s of the utmost importance that:

a)    The room is dark

b)    It’s completely quiet

c)    She’s cozy under the covers

9)    She’d say the one thing that makes her stand out from other girls is:

a)    She’s a great dresser

b)    She really likes to hear what you have to say

c)    She loves to cuddle post-sex

If you answered mostly A’s… she’s visual, meaning she loves sexy sights

Although surprisingly, there are many women that get aroused primarily by what they’re looking at. Girls with a dominant sight sense also speak visually, as in “Can you picture that?” You may feel self-conscious when your belly wobbles during a romp, but trust me, she’s loving it. Girls crave seeing some jiggle. Because it’s so masculine, it makes her feel more feminine. Plus the greater the jiggle, the more active and uninhibited the sex will seem. Also, mirrors give her new angles on the action, so she’ll love this passionate pose: Face a mirror with you behind her. But sometimes the sexiest images are the simplest. The next time she’s about to have an orgasm, stare into her eyes and hold her gaze. Visual girls will feel super-close to you with this technique.

If you answered mostly B’s… she’s auditory, meaning she loves to listen

Lovers of music and long conversations, these lusty listeners also give themselves away with phrases like “That rings true to me” or “Keep your ear to the ground”. The key to her heart is turning your lovemaking into a wall of hot sounds. Sound hounds go gaga for dirty talk, so describe what you’re doing (“I’m going to touch you here and here!”) and what she’s doing (“I love it when you kiss my neck”). Then, throw in some short and sexy adjectives, like hard, hot, wet. Two bodies working in concert makes for loads of interesting noises – and auditory-type girls really dig the sound of sex. The sex position that will deliver some serious erotic audio is one that traps the most moisture between your bodies: try sitting facing each other, legs entwined, and rock rather than thrust into her.

If you answered mostly C’s… she’s kinesthetic, meaning her big turn-on is touch

These girls most crave anything they can feel on every inch of their bodies. When they talk (which isn’t often), they will nonetheless wax on about “how they feel”. What you have to do is tease her with texture. Play with her hair, caress her with a silk scarf, etc. These girls prefer hands-on learning – which is why they’ll love the Mirror Game. Copy each other’s movements in bed: if you caress her breasts, she caresses your chest. If you kiss her neck, she kisses yours. This game provides the ultimate feedback loop, helping you understand exactly how she likes to be touched.

Have a sensational week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to exercise our diversity.” – Max de Pree

You fall in love, move in together and suddenly you’re spending every waking minute with each other. Here’s what to do when couple claustrophobia hits. Let’s face it, there’s probably nobody that you’d want to spend 24 hours, seven days a week with. Even Megan Fox would get boring after that much time (of course, I haven’t technically proven it, but I’m willing to test this theory out in the name of research). When you’re in a relationship, space is crucial to your happiness. Yes, it’s important to spend quality time with your partner, but you both need to have quality time with yourselves too. Living, eating and sleeping together day after day can cause couple claustrophobia. If you are spending most of your time fighting, or if you notice growing feelings of resentment, it might be time to negotiate some ‘space breaks’ into your weekly routine.

These ‘space breaks’ sometimes even come naturally, like they did for Dan and his girlfriend of four years, Daisy. “At the beginning, we spent every day together”, says Dan. “I’d meet Daisy the minute she finished work and we would hang out all night, it was all so new.” Ah, the honeymoon phase. That wonderful phase when your friends don’t see you for weeks, your hobbies become your partner’s hobbies (and vice versa), and you go on adorable dates, playing mini golf or going to the aquarium. “Daisy with watch Batman marathons and I would watch Sex and the City every day. But these days, I’m much more likely to say, ‘If you’re watching that, I might just go watch this on my laptop”, Dan admits.

As the honeymoon period starts to wear off and regular life resumes, you should embrace it. When your relationship began you both had your own lives – families, friends, hobbies and interests. It’s important for both of you to keep all of those relationships and activities alive. You still need to be yourself.

When Daisy and Dan moved in together after two years, they found that living with each other actually led to time apart. “We did our own stuff more, like seeing separate friends and going to different parties, because we knew that every night we’d go to sleep together”, Dan says. “Late-night gaming sessions and Gossip Girl marathons aren’t things we both love, and now we are totally cool to leave the other person to their own thing. We still spend time together, it’s just about finding a balance.”

When these natural relationship drifts don’t occur and you’re still spending every waking hour together, something’s gotta give. For Karin that something was the patience of her boyfriend, Dave. “For the first few months that we were dating, we saw each other every day”, Karin remembers. “I loved it, but then Dave started to plan boys’ nights and footy nights by himself. It freaked me out, because I thought it meant he was no longer interested in me.” Karin’s reaction was totally normal. In many relationships, there’s a partner who enjoys space and one who enjoys closeness. When we perceive that our partner is holding back, it can trigger uncomfortable feelings of rejection, mistrust and resentment that make it difficult to feel secure.

Lucky for Karin, Dave was in touch enough with his feelings to help her relax. “He explained that him needing ‘Dave time’ didn’t mean he didn’t want to see me. We worked out a schedule of date nights and ‘me nights’ each week, which kept us both happy. I didn’t even realize how much I enjoyed ‘Karin time’ until I had it. Now I love chilling out by myself.”

How to get space

If your girlfriend looks at you like you’re speaking fluent Russian whenever you utter the words ‘me time’ and insists that she really doesn’t mind watching The Expendables for the third time instead of sipping cappuccinos with her girlfriends, gently prod her in the right direction – and that’s away from you! You can say to your partner something like: “I need a bit of boy time to recharge my batteries, but I’m really looking forward to spending some quality time with you at dinner tonight.” Be sure to remind, reassure and show your woman that you value her and that the time apart does make your heart grow fonder.

How to give space

Don’t worry – it’s normal to want to see your girlfriend all the time. It’s also normal to feel a bit hurt when she says she needs a night by herself or out with the girls. “I need space” doesn’t translate itself with “I hate you and want to break up”. Initially it can be challenging to give your partner more space because of the fear she might not come back. But the funny thing is that the more space we give, the more appreciation and affection we end up getting. As scary as it can be, there is nothing more attractive than a partner who is secure enough to loosen the reins.

Have a great week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Giving space doesn’t mean letting her pass the night with the girls but still terrorize her with phone calls and texts. Let her breathe for once. On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“It’s so long since I’ve had sex I’ve forgotten who ties up who.” – Joan Rivers

It is a truth universally acknowledged that men are sex-crazed animals. So when you’re libido is more lukewarm than red-hot, she wonders what’s wrong with you. And what’s wrong with her. ‘What normal guy doesn’t want to have sex?’, Teresa used to ask her boyfriend angrily when weeks would go by without his making a move or responding to her advances. According to a totally enlightening book, Why Men Fake It: The Totally Unexpected Truth About Men and Sex, by Abraham Morgentaler, the answer is, a lot more normal guys than you’d think.

I frequently hear from men who complain about low sex drives. Many people still operate under the assumption that guys are obsessed with sex and that all a ‘real’ man needs to get an erection is for the wind to blow. It’s simply not the case for all men, even young men, and it doesn’t necessarily make a guy abnormal. If you’re experiencing low desire, you should know that this situation can be disheartening for your partner. ‘My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years, and my only complain about our relationship is that I want more sex than he does. When he turns me down, it makes me feel insecure. I absolutely hate it’, says Michelle. If you’re in the same boat with your partner, read on, because there’s a way to find a happy compromise.

An issue all along

Low desire in men is nothing new, but women who feel empowered enough to speak up about their sexual appetite are an emerging breed. Women are much more emboldened about their sexuality than they were even 15 years ago. They feel comfortable asking for what they want… and they’re discovering that what they want may not be what their partner wants. On the flip side, men are also being encouraged to be more in touch with their feelings, and maybe some of those include ‘Hey, I just don’t feel like having sex!’

Big libido killers

Stress brought on by this tough economy could be one culprit that’s inhibiting male desires. So can the ubiquity of porn, experts say. Excessive masturbation will tax a man’s libido and make it so he doesn’t have a lot of mojo left for his partner. Unless you’re blowing off work to get your fix, it’s not something that requires therapy, but it does warrant a discussion. Women feel the power of your erection when you haven’t ejaculated a day or two, so you can’t really hide it from your partner.

But even more likely is that when you have a lower libido than your partner, there’s not necessarily anything wrong with you… or a cause – it might just be how you’re programmed. Sex is always going to be more frequent in the beginning of a relationship. It may not be until you’ve been with someone for a year or two that you realize you aren’t on the same page about sexual upkeep. Testosterone, one of the hormones that regulates sexual desire, is always higher in the beginning of a relationship for both men and women. But as the novelty wears off, less testosterone is produced, and sex with that person seems a little less interesting. Sounds depressing, but it’s normal. For some couples, sex drops off a little. For others, it drops off a lot. If you’ve talked and established that there aren’t other issues going on in the relationship, you’re probably just dealing with an everyday gap in sexual desire.

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Mismatched sex drives don’t have to be a deal breaker. You just need to find some middle ground.

ID your turn-ons

Buying new lingerie in an effort to spice things up can actually put more pressure on you, not to mention raise the stakes for her. It’s one thing to get show down under normal circumstances. It’s another to get shot down while wearing a see-through nightie. Instead, search for your other turn-ons – the things that bring you bliss but have very little to do with sex. If you savor time with your buddies but haven’t had a lot of it lately, do a fun weekend away with your friends. It could make you see your partner in a whole new light. Some space, autonomy, or appreciation can be more potent that a pair of furry handcuffs.

Het PG together

Little things like holding hands or cuddling on the couch signal your brain to produce the bonding chemical oxytocin, which can make you both feel closer and more connected (important if you’ve been arguing). Seems innocent, but desire often takes over when you give it the physical chance to grow. Think about it: you’re snuggled up together, warm under a blanket, your hand grazes her butt, and bam! – it’s on.

Have a sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“To have her here in bed with me, breathing on me, her hair in my mouth – I count that something of a miracle.” – Henry Miller

When it comes to sex, some women like surprises (look, we’re on video!), while others lean closer to the shy side. Even if your partner does not fall into the let’s-make-a-sex-tape category, it doesn’t mean you should give on trying to surprise her in bed with spur-of-the-moment tricks. As a matter in fact, no chick will be able to resist the carnal curveballs I’m giving you here.

Make it all about her pleasure

In many cases, when you give, she thinks it’s just so you can receive. A lot of women are afraid that guys only pretend to like giving oral sex to get reciprocation. So if you do it spontaneously and out of the blue, it sends the message that you find her irresistible. Of course, if you kiss your girl’s neck and start winding your way down, she’s going to be able to deduce what comes next. Instead, shock her panties off by stimulating her south of the border area when she least expects it. One idea: start her day off right by waking her up with oral action.

Give her Kudohhs

When the sack session is so silent that your girl can hear crickets chirping in the background, she may think “Gee, is it that bad?” That’s why if you surprise her with unexpected moans or even a “God, that’s amazing,” she’ll be psyched. When you make noise or give a compliment, especially if it’s out of character, she feels like she’s really pleasing you. It boosts her confidence in her sex skills and encourages her to initiate that feel-good move in the future.

Keep up the kissing

In the throes of passion, it’s tough to remember the simple things like, you know, your name. Another essential that often falls by the wayside: lip-locking. Sometimes men get so consumed with what’s going on below the belt that they stop kissing during sex. To make her feel like you’re present and into her, you have to keep up that connection. While in the act, take a minute to resume making out. Not only will it help you to pace yourself (wink, wink), but she’ll also be pleasantly surprised that you’ve added that sweet something extra.

Have a post-game plan

Sure, sex can be exhausting, so she sorts of understands when you roll over and go right to… zzz. In fact, she probably expects it. So you can only imagine how shocked she’ll be if you snuggle up against her after the fact and suggest taking a hot shower or sharing a bowl of ice cream. She knows it’s an effort for you, so it makes her feel appreciated. Plus, it’s a treat that switches up your usual sex routine.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Another way to completely blow her mind between the sheets is arranging for a sweet and sensual massaging routine with all the naughty extras. On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“I need sex for a clear complexion, but I’d rather do it for love.” – Joan Crawford

From deep-throating to anal sex, I investigate how porn is affecting what we do in the bedroom.

She reluctantly gets down on her hands and knees – as she’s been instructed – and crawls through her boyfriend’s dingy apartment and into his bedroom. He grabs her and throws her on to the bed. He tells her that he wants to “f*ck [her] from behind” and starts recreating the kind of rough sex he’s most likely seen in plenty of pornos before. It ends with him masturbating over her and ejaculating on her breasts. “I don’t think I like that”, she says. “I, like, really didn’t like that.”

Messy relationships

That scene from Girls, between Adam and his new girlfriend Natalia, was one of the most controversial of the show’s second season. For a series that is most often praised by critics for its honest depiction of Gen Y’s messy relationships, how realistic was writer Lena Dunham’s portrayal of the events between Adam and Natalia? Are more of us having youporn.com-inspired sex? Are woman taking it on the chin (or breasts or face) because they think that’s what’s normal?

Emma says yes. In fact, she has been through something similar. “Guys have come on me before and it’s gross. If they have to do it, do it on my stomach, not my face. It’s belittling”, she shares. “I’ve told guys that I don’t like it and they’re usually respectful of that, but sometimes… they think it’s funny. When it does happen, I remind them I said no for a reason – but what can I do? It’s already on my face.”

Online sex ed

It’s no revelation that porn is easy to access. While men previously had to pass around dog-eared girlie mags, all we need now is an internet connection. Studies have revealed that 47 per cent of porn users watch more than 30 minutes and up to three hours a day. What isn’t so obvious, though, is how it is shaping our bedroom performance. The current generation of young people is the first to be growing up with porn. Porn is, for many, their first introduction to sex, rather than their first exposure being something like kissing their partner.

The problems arise when those who use porn don’t see it as the exaggerated version of sex that it is, and instead watch is as a form of education. Porn does teach men some pretty dodgy ideas, and that does shape some of their sexual practices. Anal intercourse is certainly the one thing that women mention the most when you ask them about impacts of their partner’s porn use. The second is deep fellatio – you know, penis-down-the-throat sex. Another practice is ejaculating on women’s faces and bodies. Lastly, men also become more interested in making their own porn by filming their partners.

There can be benefits to watching porn, like learning about different sexual practices, and giving and receiving pleasure. But when men are presented with a limited representation of what sexual expression is, as is often portrayed in mainstream straight porn, they may develop ideas about sex, sexuality and body image based on that limited representation.

Life imitating porn

When it comes to doing it like they do in the X-rated movies, it seems anal sex is the top prize. Joey used to watch porn every day before getting together with his partner. He now only watches it once a week, he explains, but he still loves the fantasy of it. “I have wanted to re-enact things that I’ve seen. I have had a threesome with a woman and another man. That was alright. I have been masking my girlfriend is she’ll do anal. She won’t do it now, but she’ll work her way to it”, he explains.

Peter was 16 when he first started watching porn, to “show [him] what you’re supposed to do”. Now 37 years and single, Peter still watches porn for inspiration. “I love the fantasy of it, the massive tits. I haven’t tried anal yet, but I want to with the right person.” While women in porn achieve multiple orgasms every time they’re entered from behind – giving men a blasé view of anal – many women have a different perspective. Rosie tried anal sex with her partner when they were drunk one night, after months of him pleading with her to do it. “It was uncomfortable and it hurt”, she says. “I would never do it again – it didn’t feel good at all, and why do something that doesn’t feel good?”

Anal sex itself isn’t a problem – there are plenty of women who enjoy it. The issue is the constant pressure to live up to pornographic sexpectations. Emma has been propositioned by two boyfriends. “One said, ‘Oh, so you have your period, so you want to do it in the other hole?’ The other one told me, ‘I don’t have a condom, let’s just do it the other way.’ I’ve had friends who’ve done it. They told me you need to use a lot of lube and that it will hurt the first few times. But the man has to be patient. These guys didn’t want to wait at all.”

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. The influence of pornographic movies goes as far as making some women want to do plastic surgeries… down there, to look more like the porno actresses their partners see in porns. Scary, right? On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“A woman never forgets her sex. She would rather talk with a man than an angel, any day.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

Master the art of the slow burn and she’ll be running red lights to get to see you in the evening. You don’t know how you can achieve this kind of excitement on your partner? It’s simple: make her think about sex just as much as you do! Imagine this scenario: On a random Tuesday morning, your partner may be thinking about any number of things: “Should I go to spinning class during lunch? Is it time to have my teeth cleaned? Can I pull off a fedora?” It’s a pretty safe bet, however, that you are thinking this: Will I get laid tonight?

Studies show that sex crosses men’s minds upward of 19 times a day. A big part of that is wondering whether or not it’s in the cards for them later on. In order to have your partner think about sex as often as you do, hence increasing your chances of getting lucky, you should to your best to plant the thought in her head during the entire day. If you assure your sweet, loving girlfriend that yes, she is in for some naked fun, you’ll be setting yourself up for some truly epic sex that night, since she’ll be daydreaming about it all day.

Anticipatory excitement amps up desire for an experience, so when she finally gets to indulge, it’s extremely rewarding for both of you. Follow my step-by-step guide to create a slow burn that will make her fantasize hard about the countless way she’s going to be receiving pleasure when she can finally get her hands on you.

First thing in the A.M.

Wake her up by slowly gyrating as you press your body against her. Do it very slowly, because you don’t want to wake her up so quickly that she gets startled. Once she’s semi-alert, give her a slow, lingering kiss, hugging her strongly but keeping yourself off from her hot zone (I’m talking about the vagina, of course). When she, um, stirs, pull away and tell her you’re going to be late for work if you don’t get going… but you can’t wait to pick up where you left off. She’ll be counting the hours till the sun finally sets and she gets to see you again.

On your way out the door

Give her ass a little squeeze and reassure her that it’s on like Donkey Kong when you get home. While you’re back there, slip a naughty note in her back pocket (if she’s wearing jeans) or in her bag, for her to find when she’s at work. Write something about how you can’t wait to tear off her clothes later or “I’m going to have my way with you tonight.” Then relish imagining her flushed cheeks when she finds it and reads it. She’ll be almost ready to take a longer lunch break to see you for a quickie, but don’t indulge, even if she asks you. The slow burn will only work if you’re willing to wait for time to work its arousal magic.

Late morning

Just before lunchtime, text her this: “Eat a good lunch, because you won’t be getting any dinner until after we get naked and crazy.” Pictures of your crazy romp will pass behind her eyes as fast as a lightning, so she’ll barely be able to focus on her chores. Points scores: hell yes!

Around 3 P.M.

Text her the most graphic line from an erotic book you can find, or send her an image of same sexy lingerie with the following message, “I bed you’d look awesome in these!” If you go for the second option, make sure you also buy her something sexy, because expectations will grow in her hot mind, so you don’t want to disappoint her once you started this.

Before you walk through the door

Make sure she gets home first. Then before you go inside, unbutton your shirt and your pants. When you enter, hand her your shirt and head to the bedroom without saying a word. Once she picks her jaw off the floor, she’ll follow you in a frenzy.

Have a splendid week,

Gabrielle Moore 

P.S. You can also text her something along the following lines: “I hope you don’t like the blouse you’re wearing, because I’m going to rip it off you tonight.” To find out the secret techniques on how to get her dripping and soaking wet at will, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“This girl wanted me to experience something I’d never experienced. She tried three times to get me high. Finally, it worked, and I had the most incredible sex I’d ever had.” – Jack Herer

These daring couples got busy in some bizarre locales. So it’s no surprise they were caught. Read on, have a laugh and learn where not to do it!

Kama here often?

“My girl and I were at the bookstore looking for books on the kama sutra. As we were checking out the pictures, we got riled up, so I suggested we take the books to the bathroom and put them to use. During the deed, I heard the bathroom door open and told my boyfriend to stand on the toilet. After we finished, we heard a woman ask us if everything was okay because she’d been waiting for our handicapped stall for 10 minutes. There was no choice but to come out. We didn’t make eye contact with her, but I know we looked so guilty. We bolted out of the store, leaving a trail of our books behind us.” – Christian

Tonsil hockey

“My girlfriend came to watch my late-night practice with my hockey team, and we ended up hanging out afterward, just skating together. Everyone else had left, so it was only us on the rink. I was friends with the owner, who had given us the keys and told us to stay as long as we wanted. I was shocked when my girlfriend confessed her secret fantasy: to have sex with me on the ice. Since we had the place to ourselves, I figured, what the hell? When we finished, we decided to skate around in the buff. It was hilarious… until the owner came back to pick up something and made a joke about the naked Olympics.” – Dan

Lights, camera, action!

“I was sitting with my partner in the last row of a movie theater. It was during the day, so it wasn’t that crowded, but there were still people there. When the lights went down, my girlfriend got really crazy and took off her pants and straddled me. I was surprised… but psyched. Since we were way in the back of the theater and were being quiet, I was sure no one knew what we were doing. Then my girlfriend looked up and noticed that the guy in the projector room was getting a great view. We pulled ourselves together and sprinted out of there.” – James

Her royal horniness

My girlfriend, Rhonda, scored a job in England a year ago. I went to visit her, and one day, we toured castles in Wales. We hadn’t seen each other in quite some time, so we ditched the tour and got busy in one of the dark rooms of a castle. It was cold and damp, but that made the whole thing more forbidden. Just as she climbed on top of me, a tour group entered the room. They were freaked out and talking very fast in what sounded like Russian, and there was a lot of arm gesturing. We just crouched in a naked ball and waited for them to leave.” – Mark 

Hooked on a feeling

“My girl and I went camping in a quiet, non-touristy area by a small lake. We had rented a boat and decided to go fishing at dusk. After an hour, we started making out and pulled in our poles. One thing led to another, and our swimsuits came off. Later on, we heard a noise but just figured it was an animal in the trees, so we continued hooking up. Then we heard a man screaming at us. Our tiny boat had drifted to the side of the lake right into his campsite, where his family was eating dinner. We were mortified and oared back to our site at warp speed while he was still yelling at us.” – Lloyd

Have a safe week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you’re in the mood to go wild and risk it, always make sure you’re not overlooking anything, because if you get caught, you might be accused of indecent exposure. For more interesting tips on how to turn your partner on like never before, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“I admit, I have a tremendous sex drive. My boyfriend lives forty miles away.” – Phyllis Diller

It seems commonsense that pornography doesn’t mirror reality, but it can actually affect what you want in bed, what you expect from your partner, and what you demand of yourself when it comes to getting down and dirty. As adult film actress Nina Hartley puts it, “Pornography is a paid, professional performance by actors. It’s a fantasy – it isn’t meant to be a rule book and guide book or a how-to as a general rule.” Porn can be great for spicing up sex, but it can also make you think you’re doing it all wrong. Or that you’re partner is doing it all wrong. So, here’s a naughty reality check…

Size ‘em up

Penises can be large or small (and this depends on whether they’re erect or flaccid – some grow more than others with an erection), thick of thin, straight or curved, circumcised or not. These variations are all normal and perfectly functional and you should by no means compare your package with the shiny and fake polished one you see on the screen.

Circumcised?

Almost all porn stars have been circumcised – but, in real life, only about a third of men are. Regardless of whether you’re cut or uncut, it’s quality over quantity – get creative with positions, toys and techniques and you really can make the most of whatever you are working with.

It’s not like in the movies! A porn star’s average penis when erect – 20cm. A real guy’s average penis when erect – 15cm. Stop comparing (unless you’re winning!).

Furry friends

Most porn star divas don’t look like “real” women, and that’s no surprise: they’re not only chosen for their tiny bodies and massive, er, assets, but they also have a number of unrealistic physical attributes in the nether regions. Pube pros from the seventies and eighties have given way to the pube nos of today. There’s a massive lack of bush in current porn, so more and more women are getting their lady-forest waxed, shaved, plucked and lasered. If there ever was a time that women resembled newborn babies to an almost frightening extent, now’s that time.

HOWEVER – 40% of women don’t remove their pubic hair. I think every women has the right to choose how she wants to present herself and how she desires to look like down there.

Vagina panorama

There’s a big difference in the standardized porn vagina versus the natural diversity in the length and shape of most regular lady bits. Porn magazines have actually been called out for Photoshopping out “unsightly” inner labia on their models! But it really doesn’t matter if your partner is tucked up or hanging low: as long as she accepts her vajizzle, you can have a roaring sex life.

The big O

On to the grand finale of porn: the orgasm. Usually there is a focus on male orgasm as the goal, with the woman’s pleasure being a side effect of his amazing skills. Another visible difference: Real sex usually lasts just 15 to 30 minutes, including foreplay, while porn sex can go for hours, and of course everyone comes multiple times!

The breech with reality is even more obvious when you think about the fact that real women not only have difficulty reaching those much-desired multiple orgasms, but also find it hard orgasming at all (especially during vaginal sex), and half of all women sometimes fake it. While porn stars seem to have some sort of Viagra-like endurance (they just lay there, being pounded allover and from all imaginable – and sometimes unimaginable – positions), 16 to 17 percent of women (but also men – who fear they might be coming to soon, as opposed to their pornographic counterparts) report they felt anxious about their ability to perform.

If you see that your partner is not “bubbling over” like those porno divas, communicate with her about what feels good and what not, slow it down, relax and take matters into your own hands (or use your mouth for that matter!)

Fake O moments – The orgasms women have in porn are not only powerful and frequent, they are also particularly juicy, with plenty of squirting or female ejaculation.

The real O – However, only 40% (less than half!) of all women have ever experienced any kind of squirting during sex. It’s usually infrequent, unplanned and can be a bit of a shock (especially for some ladies, but for men as well!).

Have a sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. So next time you are chilling on the couch, watching your favorite porn star, refrain from comparing your partner (or your overall sex life and experience) with what you see on the screen. It’s not beneficial for anybody, especially your self esteem. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about foreplay CLICK HERE NOW!

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“All I want is rough sex and cuddling after. Is that too much to ask?”

If you’ve never actually considered going as far as visiting a professional sex therapists, not to worry, I’m bringing their precious advice to you. They help clients with everything from where-did-it-go libido to serious sexual dysfunctions. Their friends – now including you – get that advice for free. From me.

If you feel bad about your body, try sleeping naked

After having a child, a friend of mine was worried that her husband would no longer love the way she looked and that it would hurt their sex life. I suggested she try this one simple behavior: sleeping in the nude. It turned out that her husband already did that habitually. There’s something very different that happens under the covers when skin touches skin and you can truly feel each other, instead of just your pajamas. Even exhaustion takes over, the simplicity of entwined legs or a brush of a limb can keep you connected and more intimate. And it can even lead to feeling better about your bodies. Touch is profound – feeling your partner’s skin against you in small, nonsexual ways is a nonverbal reminder that she loves and accepts your body, and she’s not backing off, because it feels good. That can lead to better acceptance on your part too.

Breathe your way through a sex problem

I’ve had several women come to me with issues of pain during sex. Sometimes it’s due to a disorder called vaginismus, but some women just have pain without any discernible cause. One particular friend was already being treated by her gynecologist for the medical component, but I knew there were emotional issues as well. She has a history of partners that have not taken her desires into consideration and a lot of fear when it comes to sex. I recommended that she and her current partner try sensual massage, followed by G-spot stimulation with the help of a finger or a small vibrator. When she felt pain, I suggested they stop and become still, and that she breathe deeply and calmly until the pain passed, and then start again. In the beginning, they had to stop and start a lot, but they stuck with it together. They can actually have intercourse now because she knows how to relax and breathe through it if discomfort does arise.

Men are sensitive in the bedroom too!

A friend and I were having lunch recently and she started complaining that her guy didn’t know how to get foreplay right. I hear this type of thing a lot: People often seek sex counseling for something their partner is or isn’t doing. What they don’t acknowledge is that both people usually share responsibility. In my friend’s case, she was also saying mean things to him, like, “Who taught you how to kiss?” This made the man who loved her not want to make out with her at all; Even when two people have been together for years, they can still get embarrassed. I suggested that she instead tell him what she does like, rather than what she thinks he’s doing wrong. “I am really turned on by XYZ.” There’s no blaming in that statement, and anybody hearing it would be encouraged to please her more rather than feel ashamed or mad. She took my advice, and tells me that nobody has ever kissed her as well as he does now, and positive “I” statements from both of them have made all aspects of their relationship more pleasurable.

Try this special down there massage

When friends tell me they’re having trouble climaxing or that things just aren’t zinging in bed, I tell them about this vulvar massage technique. As a sexual surrogate, I’ve taught this to couples, and also to men who want to learn how to make their partners happier. Basically, put your hand over her vulva, with your palm on the mound and fingers down toward the vagina. Then just move the heel of your palm back and forth a tiny bit, then getting quicker. It will slowly build up arousal. Everyone who tries it loves it.

Sex is the best medicine

I learned that some relatives of mine who had been together for a long time weren’t having much sex anymore. So I told the woman that, given her partner’s heart history – he’s had a quadruple bypass – the best thing she could do for him, health-wise, was have more sex. I told her about a research team that found that men who had sex three or more times every week cut their risk of heart disease in half. And it’s not just guys who get the health benefits: Sex can work as a sleep aid, an antidepressant, even a painkiller. So say goodbye to those headaches!

Stop fighting about sex and have sex already

A friend confided in me that it had been a while since she and her boyfriend had had sex. He only initiated it in the morning after she has gotten ready for work – or at midnight when she was almost asleep and worried that she had only six hours until she needed to wake up again. She’s typically ready for sex right after work, but he’s not in the mood then. Basically, they’re on different sex schedules. I told her to suck it up and do it late at night. It’s worth it to compromise in this area, because by giving in to your partner’s needs, you’re actually getting so much out of it too. Don’t get caught up in the battle about controlling the timing and simply think about the big picture. Sexual satisfaction is important for a lasting and fulfilling relationship. If it means you go to bed 15 minutes later, what’s the big deal, especially if you are feeling satisfied and closer to your partner?

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

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