“I want to do things so wild with you that I don’t know how to say them.” – Anaïs Nin

I have the dirtiest thoughts running through my head today. You just wouldn’t believe what I’m thinking. The idea of knowing the inner, secret, sexy thoughts of a woman is a pretty big turn on, isn’t it? Wouldn’t you love it if you partner would share those dirty, sexy thoughts with you? I know I would!

Women like dirty talk too, it’s true. You might be surprised to find out that your partner has been dying to talk dirty to you too, but she might be worried about how you will react. Besides, even though men tend to enjoy talking dirty doesn’t mean that they know how to do it. There are various possible issues when it comes to talking dirty. There is the shy guy. There is the possibility of offending your partner by saying the wrong thing. The art of talking dirty. It really is an art form and today I’m going to help you master it, tackling a few problems and sharing a few solutions.

Problem #1 The Shy Guy

You want to be able to make her wet with just your words but you blank when it comes time to do the deed. That’s okay, believe me, you’re not the only one who turns a bit red at the idea of talking dirty. The solution? Start simple. Don’t feel the need to tell her your dirtiest thought. Dirty talk will only be sexy if you feel comfortable and confident in what you’re doing.

Master Rule #1 How to Talk Dirty

Dirty talk can be a real turn on if it’s delivered in the right way. That means with confidence. First try, leaning down and whispering right into her ear in a deep and sexy voice when you’re having sex or during foreplay. For shyer guys this can feel more comfortable than looking her right in the eye and talking dirty, plus you have the added bonus of tantalizing the erogenous zone of the ear with your hot breathe. If you still can’t think of anything to say, try expressing yourself through sound. Moaning, breathing heavy, grunting, sighing, and screaming can all express a lot without speaking a single word.

If you’re an old pro and totally comfortable with dirty talk, look her right in the eyes and say what’s on your mind. Your directness might make her blush, but it will also turn her on. Move your eyes all over her body as if you’re drinking her up with your eyes and then say something else.

Problem #2 Gauging Her Reaction

You want to talk dirty, but you’re worried about offending her with your words? My first piece of advice is to start with something more mild. If you think there is a possibility that you could offend her with something you say then you don’t want to start off calling her your “dirty, little slut!” Try some light dirty talk, like telling her how hot she makes you and how sexy she is. Gauge her reaction. You should be able to tell if she’s enjoying that or not. Then you can begin to spice things up, whilst continuing to gauge her reactions.

Communication is important when it comes to the sexual relationship. While talking about how she feels about something you said might break the mood at the time, you can always check in afterward. And if you think you have offended her then you can apologize right away. Sincerity goes a long way.

Master Rule #2 Setting the Rules

Get your partner in on it and talk to her about what kind of dirty talk she likes. You might be surprised to find out that your sweet girlfriend has quite the mouth on her in the bedroom. Set some ground rules for dirty talk. There might be words that she finds offensive or situations that are a big turn off. Identify these so you can be sure to steer clear of them during your dirty talk. This will also give you the opportunity to share some of your favorite dirty talk scenarios, phrases, and fantasies with your partner.

Dirty talk can really bring a new, exciting element into the sexual relationship. Through talking alone couples can explore sexual fantasies and role playing, deepening and strengthening their sexual connection.

Hot, wet kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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“Talking dirty to someone is an art, but to be able to back it up is a gift.” — Unknown

Talking dirty is a special form of seduction that not everyone uses, but they should. It doesn’t come easy to every man or woman out there and even those of us that are old pros can use a few tips and pointers now and then. Today we’re going to get down to specifics. Ok, I’ve got my confidence and my technique down, but what the heck do I say? Here’s where to start…

Soft Core Dirty Talk

Soft core naughty talk is for your beginner, a person who isn’t comfortable yet with dirtier chatter, or those who just prefer a less filthy discourse in the bedroom. It can include compliments to your partner, loving words, and mild dirty talk that doesn’t pass over into the vulgar side. Here are some great examples to get you started:

Compliments
“You’re so sexy.”
“I love when you touch me like that.”
“That feels so good.”
“You’re so good at (x).”
“I love what you can do with your mouth.”
“It turns me on so much when you look at me like that.”
“I love that, don’t stop.”
“God, you’re amazing”
Questions/Feedback
“Do you like that?”
“Show me what you like.”
Instructions
“Touch yourself (there).”
“Touch me”
“Kiss me”
“Suck me”
“Do whatever you want to me, I’m yours.”
“Don’t stop, I’m almost there, keep going”
“Take off your clothes, I want to see your beautiful body.”
Describing what’s happening or what you’re going to do
“I’m going to make love to you all night long.”
“I want to make you cum.”

Hard Core Dirty Talk

The types of discourse in hard core dirty talk isn’t so different than soft core. You will still give compliments, questions and feedback, give instructions, and describe what’s happening or what’s going on, but you will just use different words to do so. You might use swear words or slang to really get your point across and even if the idea is the same it will be expressed much more explicitly. Here are some examples of hard core dirty talk to get you started:

Compliments
“You’re so fucking hot.”
“You taste amazing.”
“You are delicious.”
“You get me harder than I have ever been before.”
Questions/Feedback
“I bet you like that, don’t you?”
“Tell me about your dirtiest fantasy.”
“Tell me what you want me to do to you.”
“Tell me what you think about when you masturbate, you dirty girl.”
“Do you like watching me touch myself?”
“Do you like being fucked like that?”
“I’m your slave. Tell me what you want me to do.”
“Do you like my dick? Tell me what you like about it.”
Instructions
“Don’t say a word. I’m going to fuck you until you cum so hard you can’t stand it.”
“Flip over so I can see your sexy ass while I fuck you.”
“Get over here and ride me hard.
“I want you to touch yourself while I watch.”
“Tell me where you want me to cum. Inside your pussy? On your tits? In your mouth? On your face? You decide.”
“Suck me off, NOW.”
“Spread your legs.”
“Beg me for it.”
Describing what’s happening or what you’re going to do
“You’re going to take my rock hard cock.”
“I’m going to fuck you so good the neighbors are going to call the cops.”
“You’re so fucking wet.”
“You’ve been a bad girl and you need to be punished.”
“I could spend hours between your legs tasting you.”

Some men and women might like dirty talk to get even more hard core than the examples above. They might like using stronger words like slut, bitch, or whore and get really explicit. Some men might like to be talked down to or ordered around in the bedroom. While some people who aren’t into this might think it is disrespectful, it’s actually just sex play. It’s like a game and it doesn’t necessarily reflect the relationship that those people have outside of the bedroom. That being said, if your partner prefers soft core chat and you like it hard core, you won’t be able to convince her that it’s just play. You can’t change what turns her on and off, you just have to accept it.

Talk dirty to me,
Gabrielle Moore

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“I don’t have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out?”

Hey Big boy,

You must be practically an expert at talking dirty by now, after having read my previous posts on how to do dirty talk the right way. But there is one more thing you definitely need to know about. This is the technology age and sexy talk has definitely entered the world of technology full force. If you’re new to dirty talk it might feel more comfortable to send a cheeky little text or email than it is to say something face to face. But there are still many people who aren’t completely sure what to say via text or how this whole “sexting” thing is supposed to work anyway. This article is going to give you the complete low down on how to do it in a way that will add excitement, anticipation, and passion back into your relationship.

What can a sexy text or email do for you? Well, it gets the wheels turning in her head. The right words can get under her skin and get her hot and bothered thinking about you. A hot exchange in the middle of the day can be an incredibly effective foreplay technique. She’ll be thinking about you all day and by the time she sees you she won’t be able to resist jumping your bones!

What To Say

The best sexting and/or dirty emails to send are those that talk about what you are/want to do to your partner. It builds anticipation and gets her fantasizing about you. Try these to get you started:

Soft Core
“I can’t get you off of my mind.”
“I can’t stop thinking about what we’re going to do when I see you tonight.”
“You drive me crazy, it’s impossible to concentrate when all I can think about is you in my bed.”
Hard Core
“I’m so hard thinking about being inside you later tonight.”
“The minute you walk in the door I’m going to rip your clothes off and (X) you right there.”
“Are you getting wet thinking about me fucking you?”

Keep in mind that you should work up to hard core dirty talk. It’s not like dirty talk in the bedroom where the situation already warrants it. You don’t want to send her a hard core dirty text out of the blue and find out that her co worker was looking over her shoulder at the time. Start with something like “Are you alone? I need to talk to you about something.” Then you can either keep it soft core or start with soft core and work your way to hard core talk. You should also be gauging her reaction. Is she egging you on or are her responses general? You will be able to tell how to proceed from what signals she gives you.

Sexy Photos – Yes or No?

You have probably seen in the media that sending nude or sexy photos of yourself can be risky business. You need to trust your partner 110% in order to be sure that she won’t ever share your photos, even if one day you were to breakup/divorce. If you insist on sending photos back and forth, never send one that shows your face, just in case. And always show her the utmost respect by keeping any text or photo she sends you completely private. For your eyes only.

Leave Something to the Imagination

Even if you like more of a raunchy discourse you still need to leave something to the imagination. This is about building up sexual tension so you might not want to come right out and say what you are going to do. You can hint at things like “I have a surprise for you tonight” or “I’m going to spoil you tonight.”

Know Your Audience

If you have never talked dirty with your partner or if you haven’t been intimate yet, it’s probably best to hold off on the dirty texting/emailing for now. Or you can start with something really soft core like “I can’t stop thinking about you.” That can be interpreted as a really sweet text or it can elude to racier thoughts. Even if she likes dirty talk in the bedroom, she might not be the type that likes bringing it outside the bedroom. It’s important to know her well and evaluate what kinds of messages will get her hot and not offend her or turn her off.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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“A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.” ? Edmond Rostand

It’s usually the first thing you do with a new partner. In fact, it’s probably the first intimate thing you did with a girl, ever. Kissing. You probably stopped thinking about how you kiss women many, many years ago. When we were all teenagers we spent a lot of time agonizing over kissing techniques and wondering if we were “good kissers,” but when you get older you just get to a point when you stop thinking about it, you have your style down, and you just do what you do.

But, guess what, guys? I’m here to tell you that kissing is a heck of a lot more important that you probably think. Are you absolutely 100% sure that you are an incredible kisser? Sadly, even in adulthood there are a lot of awful kissers out there and you definitely don’t want to be one of them.

So let’s go back in time to when we all thought a lot about how we kissed and brush up on our techniques…

* Slow and sensual to start – You might be all riled up and ready to pop your tongue right in her mouth from the get go, but as you know women take longer to warm up than that. Start off slowly by giving her some sensual and slow kisses with no tongue.

* No slobber please! Men tend to like sloppier, wetter kisses while most women do not like wet kisses. It’s believed that men like wet kisses because saliva is filled with testosterone, which is known to increase the sex drive. Men who really like giving their female partners wet kisses might be subconsciously trying to increase their partner’s sex drive. The problem here? Women who don’t like really wet kisses (which is the majority of women, research says) will actually get turned off by having to wipe her face off after a kiss, no matter how much saliva you swap with her.

* Touch me there – Don’t be afraid to use your hands. Actually, let me rephrase that. USE YOUR HANDS. Cup her face in your hands as you kiss her. Run them through her hair. Touch her neck. Trace her lips lightly with the tip of your finger. Don’t forget that the scalp is one of the erogenous zones. Hold her shoulders, her waist, or the small of her back as you kiss her and draw her into you. Take your time kissing her and touching these areas before touching her breasts, butt or between her legs.

* Know your different kisses and when to use them – It’s important to pay attention to her needs and body language and provide the kiss that she wants. You have your romantic, sensual kiss that you give her when you’re just starting foreplay or when you want a slow sensual sexual experience. You have your lustful kiss that shows your uncontrollable desire for her. And finally you have your intimate kisses, which sometimes might not be more than a sweet peck, that show your connection and comfort with one another.

* Use your tongue, nibble gently, and suck – There are many different methods to kissing. You can slowly move your tongue in and out of her mouth. You can suck on her tongue when she puts it in your mouth. You can suck lightly on her lips. Run your tongue along the edges of her lips. Nibble her lips ever so lightly. Pay close attention to her body language. Does she pull away when you do something? Chances are she doesn’t like it then. When in doubt, ask!

* Kissing isn’t just for the mouth – There are many erogenous zones from the shoulders up, including the neck, nape of the neck, ears, shoulders and upper back. The mouth is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones, but that doesn’t mean that you have to only kiss her on the mouth. Pay attention to these other zones too.

For women kissing is an incredibly important part of foreplay. If done right then it can get her hot and wet in no time flat, but if you try to rush through it or don’t put a lot of effort in, your partner might not be too impressed with your skills and that can greatly affect her desire level. Kissing isn’t just for foreplay either. It increases intimacy between partners during sex and can get her even hotter if you plant lusty kiss on her mouth in the throws of passion. Don’t forget to also kiss her throughout the day to increase intimacy within your relationship on an emotional level. A kiss can transmit so much. Make sure you’re sending her the right kind of message.

Sexy kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Everyone needs to be a little creative when it comes to sex and foreplay. If you’ve found yourself in a sexual rut with your partner, it’s especially important that you change things up. Even if you’re not in a rut, trying new and different things is what is going to keep your sex life hot and steamy. The new, exciting experiences are what stays with your partner and has her fantasizing about the experience the whole next week!

With that in mind, today I’m going to share with your 5 completely unique and sexy types of foreplay. This isn’t the kind of foreplay you’re going to use every night, but the kind that you do once in a while to give her desire (and yours!) a turbo boost.

1. Watch a sexy movie together – While some couples will be up for watching porn together, that might be out of the question for others. That’s okay. That doesn’t mean that you can’t partake in this fun and hot type of foreplay. There are plenty of regular movies that feature very steamy sex scenes. Try watching classics like Basic Instinct or 9 and a Half Weeks. The movie Secretary is a good option if you want to introduce some kink into your relationship and you want to see if your partner might find it sexy. There are a lot of options out there, you just have to search around. For those who want something more hardcore, try watching porn together, but remember to know your audience. You don’t want to put on a porn that’s marketed exclusively for men (for example one with a girl being gang banged..unless of course your partner is into that!). There are a lot of films that are marketed toward women or couples that you both will enjoy.

2. Read a sexy story together – Have you ever read erotica? Well, reading it out loud to your partner and having her read to you can be a fun and hot way to turn each other on. You might not know that romance novels (which are full of steamy sex scenes) are one of the most popular genres among women. This is because women enjoy reading erotica a lot more than they might let on. You can find lots of sexy stories online for free. Some couples might feel too embarrassed to partake in this kind of foreplay, but even if you do it being silly, you will still find yourselves getting turned on by the stories! Give it a try. If nothing else, it’s a fun and different way to spend an evening together.

3. Tie her up – Grab some silk scarves (or a couple of your ties) and lightly tie her wrists to the bedposts. You don’t want to surprise your partner with this one, however, so it’s important to take it slowly. First pull the scarf out and begin sliding it over her naked skin. This will feel amazing. Then slowly run the material all the way down her arm to her wrist. Pin it down with your hand. Then slide the scarf around her wrist and begin to slowly tie it around. All the time you’re doing this you should be studying her reactions. If she seems uncomfortable or scared in any way you should stop and/or ask her, “is this okay?” If she seems open to it, continue, but go very slowly and continue to gauge her reactions. Bring her tied up wrist to the bedpost and begin to tie it there. Make sure not to make it too tight. Once she’s tied up slowly begin kissing her all over her body.

4. Feed each other – You can begin with typically sexy foods like strawberries with whipped cream, chocolate pudding, honey, chocolate or caramel syrup. Try scooping some onto your finger and letting her take it into her mouth to clean it off. This will feel amazing for you and it will make her feel sexy and naughty, as the act is so similar to her giving you a blow job. Use food on each other’s bodies as well for a different kind of fun foreplay.

5. Role play – One of you could be the boss and the other is the assistant. Or you could play teacher and student. There are a lot of fun ways to role play and this can be especially sexy as you get to play out your fantasies in a safe and comfortable environment.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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When it comes to foreplay, most people think that foreplay is more beneficial to women than it is to men. You might even be one of those people who think that foreplay is just something you do to get your partner warmed up for sex. It only has one benefit, getting her hot for you. But guess what? Foreplay does a lot more than that and it really benefits both men and women!

Engaging in foreplay can make you have better, stronger orgasms. It brings you closer to your partner and helps you feel more connected. So what is foreplay? Does it always have to just be kissing to get warmed up? I say no! Foreplay can and should be more creative. Here are some ideas to get you going…

1. Shower together – There is something about being wet and slippery together that is just a huge turn on (oh, yea, and being naked helps too!). Try soaping up your hands and washing her body for her. This feels wonderful for her because your hands glide smoothly over her skin with the help of the soap. It also feels amazing for you to be touch her all over. Just steer clear of her vagina with the soap, if you over wash that area she could end up with an uncomfortable infection.

2. Get naughty in the movies – The movie theater is a great place to start getting down and dirty. It’s dark and everyone’s focus is on the screen in front of them, so you would be surprised at what you can get away with! Start planting the seed for what’s to come after the movies by stroking her inner thigh or drawing little circles on her skin with your finger.

3. Use some flavored lube – It can be fun to spread this around your partner’s erogenous zones and then make sure she is squeaky clean by licking it off with your tongue.

4. Make a romantic gesture – This might not sound like foreplay, but believe me, it is. Send her flowers at work and include a sexy message. Try something like, “I can’t get you off of my mind, so I thought I’d send you a little something to make you think of me.” Or you can write a dirty message, just make sure no one will peak inside the card before she gets it!

5. Start foreplay on the couch – Most couples get into the routine of having sex only in the bedroom and it usually begins and ends there. Try making out on the couch like you did when you were a teenager in your parents’ living room. Who knows, the hormones might even start flowing like they did back then!

6. Leave her a sexy note – Everything is digital these days. We text, we email, we tweet, so it’s extra special when you receive a handwritten note when you least expected it. And it’s especially hot when that letter is a little on the dirty side.

7. Offer to be her slave for the day – Let her know that you will do anything she asks of you for 24 hours, even if it includes picking up her dry cleaning. Tell her that today is just about pleasing her, nothing else.

8. Create a map of her body – Instead of rushing through foreplay to get to sex, treat foreplay like the main event. Take your time touching, caressing, licking, sucking and kissing different parts of her body. Observe how she reacts. Does it tickle? Does she moan? Did she seem to like it? Experiment and learn something new about your partner and what she likes.

9. Use strategically placed mirrors – There is nothing like watching yourself in the act. You might not want to videotape yourself having sex, but if you place a mirror in just the right spot, you can get a live show that is a HUGE turn on. Take a full length mirror and put it on its side on the bed so that you have a full view of what’s going on. Get ready to be seriously turned on!

10. Take turns – In this fun foreplay technique one person is the giver and one person is the receiver here. The receiver isn’t allowed to do anything to stimulate the giver, he/she just has to lie back and enjoy receiving. Obviously, you would be the giver first and then just hope that she’s up for returning the favor!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Exhibitionism comes in many different forms. If you asked most people if they considered themselves to be an exhibitionist and they would immediately say “no!” but if you really thought about it most of us have some degree of exhibitionist tendencies. I’m not talking about masturbating in public or flashing your private parts to grannies on the public bus, but much more innocent forms of exhibitionism that can aid in making you feel sexier and spice things up in your sex life. Not all forms of exhibitionism even require leaving your house and that can be more enticing for the more modest among us. Here are some great ideas for incorporating a little bit of fun and sexy exhibitionism into your sex life:

1. Get naked at home – If you’re just starting out with exhibitionism try getting naked with your partner at home when you’re not having sex or taking a shower. After your shower instead of getting dressed right way, start your day by staying naked and going about your normal routine. Even with the shades tightly closed so one would would ever know you’re going to feel more naughty. Try staying naked all day long, except if you have to go out of course! If you’re feeling extra bad you can even leave your blinds or shades open slightly to give passersby a little surprise.

2. Get down and dirty and leave the windows open – Next time you have sex try leaving the windows wide open and making a lot of noise. The idea that someone else could hear you is a huge turn on for a lot of people. Who knows? You could even inspire your neighbors to make a little love too! Not gutsy enough to do this in your own home? Rent a hotel room for a night and make some serious noise.

3. Show some skin – Another way to be a bit of an exhibitionist is to show some skin in public. Obviously for a man showing some skin isn’t always seen as sexy as it is for a woman. So, in your case, “showing some skin” might just mean wearing an outfit that makes you feel really hot and maybe a pair of pants that is tight in all the right places. When it comes to your partner, she can really get into this small act of exhibitionism and you can participate by buying her a sexy outfit to wear out. I’m not talking about getting naked, but just showing off enough skin to turn heads. It can be a turn on for a lot of guys to see how other men check out their woman. I mean, she’s going home with you at the end of the night and that should make you feel pretty darn good!

4. Get frisky under the table – A lot can happen under the table at even the nicest restaurants. A well placed table cloth or dinner napkin can do wonders for helping you be more discrete. You don’t have to go too far, but some naughty touching and rubbing under the table is a fantastic way to get each other RED HOT for later that night.

5. Visit make out point – Every town has a spot where young couples go to “make out” in their cars. You might feel like the oldest couple there, but that doesn’t matter, no one will be looking too closely into your window anyway! Plus the collective hormones and sexual energy of a place like that, knowing that every car is filled with a hot and sexy couple getting it on is just a thrilling thought.

6. Get it on in public – There are many places and ways couples can have sex in public. You could pick the great outdoors, your own backyard, a public restroom or any other place where you have the risk of being seen or caught. That risk raises your adrenaline levels and makes the experience much hotter.

7. Visit a nudist community – There are communities where people can go and live out their day to day in the buff. You can either visit one of these communities, vacation spots or beaches for the day or you could take a little vacation there. Even though the idea of being a nudist isn’t about sex, it can still be exciting to feel the air flowing over parts of your body you usually only expose in the privacy of your own home!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Sometimes it seems that all anyone ever talks about when it comes to having good sex is foreplay. “You need to be good at foreplay. You can’t forget about foreplay. Women want foreplay!” That’s all well and good, but if you want to make the most out of foreplay, you need to actually know what you’re doing. Because even if you extend foreplay to help her get really warmed up before sex, if you’re not doing things that she really likes, you could do it for hours and it still wouldn’t get the right results.

Instead of giving advice without specific instruction, today we’re going to talk about specific foreplay techniques that you can use to make her wet with desire and trembling with pleasure.

1. A new way to stimulate her nipples – Men love breasts, but when it comes to stimulating them in a way that women really enjoy, a lot of men are clueless. They are so wound up by being able to play with breasts that they give very little thought into what the woman wants and likes. Here is one technique that she is guaranteed to love. Put your mouth around her nipple relaxing your lips. Swirl your tongue around the tips of her nipples, then give her nipple a gentle poke with the tip of your tongue. Alternate between the swirl and the poke. *Extra tip – You can also try this swirl and poke technique on her clitoris during oral sex.

2. Grinding is underrated – Remember when you were a teenager and you used to grind and make out with your girlfriend for hours? Grinding is actually a completely underrated form of foreplay. The benefit it has for the woman is that your penis and pelvic bone rub and stimulate her mons pubis and her clitoris. Women can even cum from just grinding alone if it’s done right. He next time you are kissing, start grinding and then let her take the reigns. She will know how to grind into you in order to make it feel best.

3. Tickle those earlobes – You probably already know that the ears are a sensitive erogenous zone. You might already stimulate them by kissing them, licking them and nibbling them. That’s a great start, but there is another way you can incorporate this erogenous zone when your mouth is busy doing other things. Stroke and gently pull on her earlobes while you’re kissing. Trace line line along the outside of the ear. Use your fingertips to gently tickle the area behind her ears.

4. Be a tease – One of the biggest tricks to good build-up and foreplay is to tease. A lot of people go straight for the obvious erogenous zones (the clitoris and the vagina) without taking their time getting there. A good teasing technique is to make your way to an erogenous zone, like the clit, but then back off as you’re getting really, really close. You might even “accidently” touch it for a second or two before refocusing your energy on a nearby area (like the inner thigh). This will leave her throbbing with desire after a little bit.

5. Go hot and cold – Try playing with temperatures by heating up your mouth before using it to please her sexually. You can do this by sipping a hot drink and then putting your hot mouth on her body. You can also try a warming lube and massage oil. Some women also like the sensation that cold things can create on their bodies. Try tracing an ice cube over her body. If that’s too intense, you can melt the ice cube in your mouth to make your mouth very cold. You can also try licking a part of her body and blowing on it or sucking in to make that area cold.

6. Be controlling – Did you know that there are vibrators out there that come with a separate remote control, or even better, vibrators that can be controlled by connecting them to your smartphone? This can provide a lot of creative ways to get her warmed up way before you’re ready to jump into bed together. You can even have her put the vibrator in her panties during dinner and give her a little buzz whenever the mood strikes. Or if you want to wait until you’re in the bedroom, having the control to her vibrator can still be a really sexy way to turn each other on.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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