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  • Kissing that makes sex hotter

    “I think people spend too much time staring into screens and not enough time drinking wine, tongue kissing and dancing under the moon” – Rachel Wolchin

    Kissing is often considered a means to an end. It’s how many couples kick off their sack sessions, but as soon as things start heating up, making out usually falls by the wayside. Some people think that sex is so full of pleasure on its own that kissing isn’t important. And that’s a damn shame because locking lips throughout the sexual experience (and not just at the very beginning of getting busy) can make the pleasure skyrocket considerably. There are tons of nerve endings in your lips that stimulate desire. Smooching before, during and after intercourse can be extremely arousing and satisfying. However, not all puckers are created equal. The trick is knowing what mouth-to-mouth moves intensify each stage of sex. Luckily, I’ve gone ahead and mapped it out for you. Try these tips to kiss your way to total bliss.

    Foreplay: Tease her with soft pecks 

    Just as a runner needs to stretch before a race, your body requires an equally strategic warm-up before launching into full-throttle passion. You don’t want to come on too strong with your lips or you might accelerate her excitement too quickly. Instead, ease her into the pleasure zone, gradually increasing her arousal. The slower the buildup, the bigger the bang.

    Give her little pecks all over her face – everywhere except the lips. As her excitement grows, trace the outline of her mouth with the tip of your tongue. She’ll be aching to envelop you with her mouth, but don’t let her do it… yet.

    Move on to open-mouth puckers, but no tongue allowed. If she tries to French you, pull away from her for a minute, then return to kissing. The point is to be playful and work her into a desire-filled frenzy by not giving her exactly what she wants.

    Add some playfulness into the mix by gently sucking and lightly nibbling on her lower lip every now and then. It will feel so good, she’ll instinctively return the favor.

    During the act: Bring it to the boiling point

    Once you are both fired up, coy smooches just aren’t going to cut it. This is the perfect time to engage each other’s mouths, no tongues barred. Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited and making it easier for your partner to reach orgasm. Here’s how to stoke the flame.

    Strip down and have her straddle you while you’re sitting on a chair. As you focus on thrusting, take her tongue into your mouth and very lightly suck on it so your lip action mimics the rhythm of your hips.

    Vary the intensity and depth of the lip-locks you lay on your bedmate. Give her long, soulful French kisses for a couple of minutes, then surprise her by keeping your lips open and pressing them against hers – hard – like you want to devour her whole. Maintain the back and forth so she can’t guess what’s coming when. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will amp up her excitement even more.

    You should let her know the passionate pressure is quickly building up inside you by switching up your moves and trying something even more erotic. Unlock your lips periodically, and swirl your tongue around hers in a circular motion as if you were licking an ice-cream cone. She will love that you’re in control and essentially taking possession of her entire mouth.

    The big O: Let your inner animal loose

    By the time you’re about to climax, give in to your passionate fervor, and let yourself go absolutely wild. Just follow your body’s cravings. Being mouth to mouth as you peak can make for a much stronger, more intense orgasm because it’s such a carnal act – your senses of taste and smell and touch are all converging at once. It’s like you’re on sensual overload.

    Softly suck on each other’s necks just as you’re about to reach your peak. The pressure of your lips against her skin will amplify the buildup you’ve been feeling inside and create an even more powerful need for that heavenly release.

    Run your tongue back and forth along the roof of her mouth. This is a place that rarely gets any attention; the more unique the sensation, the more exciting it is for her.

    Let her know how hungry you are for her by gently biting her back and shoulders, spots on her body that can take a little roughhousing. Place the skin lightly between your teeth and pull; then run your tongue around the area and kiss it.

    Hot embraces,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Her 10 Top Complaints About Your Foreplay Techniques

    Her 10 Top Complaints About Your Foreplay Techniques

    Every guy out there that knows anything about women knows that foreplay is a very important part of providing maximum pleasure for your woman. Women aren’t like men in the sense that they can have a sexy thought, get turned on right away and be ready for sex. They need time and to be physically warmed up before they’re 100% ready. Spending a lot of time on foreplay also helps build up sexual tension, which will make her eventual orgasm even more powerful.

    So, we know foreplay is important, but sadly there are a lot of men out there making big mistakes when it comes to foreplay. Do you think you might be one of them? Read my list of the top 10 complaints women have about your foreplay techniques to make sure you don’t commit one of these grave errors.

    1. Mary says, “He rushes through it. I get annoyed with my husband during foreplay because I can totally tell that he is trying to rush through it to get to sex. He thinks he can kiss me for 2 minutes, rub my boobs for 30 seconds, then go straight to fingering me and within 3 minutes he’s trying to have sex. If I could tell him one thing it would be to slow WAY down. Don’t even go near my clit or vagina until we’ve been doing other stuff for at least 5 to 10 minutes.”

    2. Sara says, “Talk to me, baby. I love when my boyfriend talks dirty in bed. He tells me how sexy I am and makes it really clear that he’s super turned on by me. I love it. It does wonders for turning me on. Even when he doesn’t talk, he moans and breaths heavy in a way that lets me know just how much he’s enjoying what we’re doing. I was with a guy once who never made a peep and it was awful. I never knew if he even liked having sex with me. It was hard to get into it because I felt like I wasn’t getting any feedback.

    3. Desiree says, “One boyfriend I had never paid much attention to my breasts during foreplay. I love having them touched and played with so it was really hard to get turned on when he barely touched them.”

    4. Laura says, “Be open to feedback. My ex always got offended if I gave him a little direction. I think he thought it meant I didn’t like what he was doing, but that wasn’t the case. I loved getting feedback from him because it helped me please him better, but for him it was like it was an insult to his manhood. The best thing a guy can do is listen to his lady and be open to what she has to say.”

    5. Jesse says, “Use a light hand. When my husband and I first got together he would always stimulate my clitoris way too rough. He thought he was being gentle, but he didn’t realize just how sensitive it is! I would always have to tell him, “less pressure” over and over again until he finally got it.”

    6. Keisha says, “Undress me. Too many guys rush that whole part and they’re really making a big mistake. The act of undressing a woman can be very sensual and a huge turn on if it’s done the right way.”

    7. Maria says, “Easy does it with that tongue. I hate it when men use too much tongue, jam it down my throat or lick my face and get all slobbery. It’s gross and it doesn’t turn me on at all. Sometimes I try to make it obvious that I don’t like it by making a big thing of wiping off my face, but some guys just don’t get the hint.”

    8. Jacqui says, “Use both hands to please me. Some guys just use one hand to rub your clit or something like that. You have two hands, so use them both! Do something else with the other hand, make me feel like you can’t keep your hands off of me.”

    9. Jill says, “Pay attention to what I have on. If I’m wearing sexy underwear or a short skirt, I’ve done that to get your attention. Don’t just rip my clothes and underwear off without giving me a little appreciation first.”

    10. Ellie says, “Learn how to multitask. Seriously, men, you should be good at foreplay, and that means knowing how to do more than one thing to me at once.”

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Sex news you must know

    For centuries, men have been told how complicated a woman’s body is, especially sexually. And while it’s true that chicks don’t have a point-and-shoot anatomy, new research shows they have just as much pleasure potential as men.

    I got my hands on some recent groundbreaking studies that debunk the long-standing conventional wisdom about female desire and response. Then I took the research one step further by explaining how to use it to tap into a new dimension of bedroom bliss.

    Conventional wisdom – A woman has to feel desire to get aroused

    Bold new thinking – A woman doesn’t need to be in the mood to get excited

    Maybe this rings a bell: You want some action but your partner is stuck in “whatever” mode. Hey, it happens. But before you blow her off because she’s not into it, consider this: new research proves that a woman’s body can be turned on even during those moments when her mind is turned off.

    That’s because desire and arousal are two separate animals. Desire occurs in the mind, while arousal unfolds in the body. True, desire usually leads to arousal, but a woman’s body doesn’t need desire to get to that warm, tingly place. In fact, researchers at the University of Amsterdam have discovered that a woman’s central motor system lights up instantly with physical stimulation, before her mind even begins to process it.

    Problem is, many women think sex will be a drag if they’re not registering any interest in their brains. What to do when you’re horned up and she isn’t: zone in on her physical hot buttons. Focus on her body and help her give in to the feel of your lips against her neck or the way your hand is brushing up against her back.

    Another testament that she doesn’t necessarily need desire to relish doing the deed? One recent study found that many women experience heightened arousal when anxious or stressed.

    Conventional wisdom – Women take forever to get turned on

    Bold new thinking – Women don’t necessarily need a long preamble to get going

    Somewhere along the way, it became commonly accepted knowledge that women required hours of foreplay to get primed for sex. Now, I’m all for tons of kissing and oral, but it’s not always necessary. A new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that both men and women begin showing signs of arousal within 30 seconds. What’s more, there was little difference in how long it took women and men to reach peak sexual arousal. Researchers at McGill University in Canada had young men and women watch porn. Meanwhile, in hidden areas, scientists controlled thermal imaging sensors to measure heat changes in their genitals. They found out that men reached peaked arousal in 11 minutes, while women clocked in at 12 minutes.

    Of course, this flies in the face of old arguments that claim women reach the brink in about 20 minutes. So what gives? Turns out, participants in this study watched images through special goggles to minimize their field of vision so they were less likely to be interrupted by what was happening in the room. The lesson here: when you want to get her revved up stat, you have to nix all the distractions. Women are more likely to multitask, and they tend to get rattled by a ringing phone or by overthinking what they have to do the next morning. The problem? It takes them out of the moment. So whatever you do, power down the TV and carve out time strictly for you and her to get it on.

    Conventional wisdom – Dry down there? She’s not feelin’ it

    Bold new thinking – Lubrication isn’t the only indicator of desire and arousal

    Let’s play a little word association: I say male arousal and you say erection. Unfortunately, there’s no hard-and-fast equivalent for women. Vaginal lubrication often has been viewed as the biggest cue… until now. Research has found that there’s no direct correlation between arousal and the amount of blood flow and lubrication to the vagina. She may be aroused and not have lubrication at all. Often, this is hormonal: women are naturally wetter around ovulation and drier when their periods are about to arrive. Also, antihistamines found in cold medications, for example, can sap nasal passages and vaginal secretions.

    So what are the physical cues worth clueing into? Scientists at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction asked women exactly how they knew they were turned on. Although lubrication was reported as one sign, many women also reported genital warmth and swelling and nipple hardness, as well as increased heart rate and muscle tightness in the stomach and legs.

    Hot embraces,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • CONTINUED! 9 Things You MUST Do to Her Breasts

    Hey stud,

    I’m glad you came back for more tips on how to stimulate and pleasure her breasts. If you don’t remember, her breasts are an extremely important erogenous zone that deserves your attention. Think about something for me: how much time do you spend touching your partner’s breasts during foreplay? Think about your answer for a minute. Now answer this, how much time do you spend touching your partner’s breasts during sex? If you’re like most men, you don’t spend very much time at all. You might spend a minute or two and then move on. Or maybe you give them a squeeze or two during sex, but other than that you just appreciate them from afar as you make love. You’re not alone in this practice, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay. This is a fantastic pleasure zone that needs your attention! So here’s what you need to do:

    5. Let her lead the way – In the last article I talked about communicating with your partner to find out what she likes when it comes to breast play. Another trick to finding out what she likes is to have her show you. Instead of being overly direct about it, make it into a sexy and naughty game. Tell her to touch her breasts for you and show you what turns her on. It will seem like you’re just trying to get a show out of her, but really you will be taking notes about how she likes to be touched. Another way to get her to show you what she likes is by putting her own hands on her breasts during foreplay, oral sex or regular sex. Again, she will think you’re just wanting to be kinky and watch her touch herself (which is also a thrill for you!) but really you will be able to tell what really turns her on.

    6. Her body will tell you what she likes – There is yet another way to find out what she’s really enjoying. This is especially helpful for those guys who are with shy women who might not be comfortable saying what she likes or touching herself in front of you. Listen to her breathing. Is it getting faster and showing that she is getting more and more turned on? Is she making any noises that indicate that she’s feeling good (remember not all women moan and make noise, so a lack of noise doesn’t mean she’s not into it)? Is she getting flushed? Watch her facial expressions. All of these things are important indicators of whether or not what you’re doing is working.

    7. Don’t be afraid to get kinky – But ONLY if she likes things a little rough. Once you’ve determined that she likes her breast play to be on the rougher side, try squeezing her nipples between your fingertips. Lightly run your teeth over them and put pressure on them between your teeth. Test the amount of pressure that she likes and ask her if you can do it harder or not. Some women even like to use a pair of nipple clamps to add some kinky pressure to your breast play.

    8. Use different objects to touch her breasts – Different sensations and objects can feel really amazing on the super sensitive breast and nipple area. Try using fur mitts, a piece of silk, an ice cube, warming lube and even a vibrator to offer some different kinds of stimulation. Remember, a lot of men focus wholly on the nipples when stimulating the breasts, but don’t make that mistake yourself. The entire breast is ripe with nerve endings, so stimulating her entire breast will feel amazing, especially because that area of her body is often forgotten. Take your tongue and run it all over her breast. Make it flat and soft and lap at her like a dog. Then make your tongue hard and pointy and trace designs around on her skin. It will feel amazing.

    9. Boost her confidence – One of the biggest turn ons for a woman is knowing just how much you want her and find her sexy. Complimenting her will give a serious boost to her confidence level and make her feel sexier. This is a huge turn on for women. It’s funny, one of the best ways to turn her on is about stimulating her mind, not her body. So, while you’re down there giving her beautiful breasts all kind of love and attention, make sure you shower her and them with TONS of compliments. It will pay off!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 8

    Well, hello there handsome!  Today I have lots of great tips for you, on some sex-tacular ways to spice up your relationship.

    Let’s dive right in!

    Role play

    Role playing can be a very fun way to mix things up in the boudoir.  And, you don’t even need costumes.  Just pretend you are someone else.

    Plan a date where you meet each other in a bar, pretending it is the first time.  Or, maybe she is a “lady of the night” and meet up for a clandestine rendezvous in a hotel room.

    If you want to add dress up or costumes into the mix, try secretary and boss, doctor and patient (or naughty nurse), school girl and teacher (or principal because she’s been bad), or even pirate captain and wench.  The options are endless and lots of fun to explore!

    Kegels for guys and gals

    Aside from helping with incontinence and other pelvic floor ailments, doing regular kegels help to increase blood flow to the pelvic region, strengthen the PC muscles, and aids in lubrication, all enhancements which allow women to achieve bigger, better orgasms and more pleasurable intercourse.

    And, yes, men can do kegels as well.  For guys regular kegels can aid in erectile dysfunction, can help you get it up easier, create bigger and stronger erections and help you last longer. Plus, doing kegels is the key to becoming a multi-orgasmic man.

    Try a sex toy

    Contrary to popular belief, a sex toy does not mean a woman wants to replace you in the bedroom.  Instead, think of sex toys as tools for lovemaking that you can play with together.

    What are the most popular kinds of sex toys for couples?  Cock ring vibrators are very trendy these days as they stimulate you and help you last longer, while stimulating her as well.  The We-Vibe is another great choice and was voted the top pick for couple’s toys.  It inserts inside of her to stimulate both the G-spot and her clitoris during penetrative sex.  How awesome is that?

    Other great couples “toys” include 50 shades of kink, such as feather ticklers, crops, bondage toys, and more.  And, don’t forget massage products and stimulating lubes.  Lots to choose from.

    Sensation play

    What is sensation play?  As the name implies, it is a type of play that arouses the senses.  You can explore sensation play by removing one of the senses to heighten others (like sight with a blindfold) and then use various materials, lotions or toys to arouse your partner’s flesh.

    Fur, feathers, ice, warming oils, pinwheels and even just your hands, fingers, nails, lips, mouth and teeth can all be used to cause various sensations on your partner, that can be highly erotic.

    Sensation play could also include feeding your lover blindfolded, like in “9 ½ Weeks”, or using scents to create sensual aromas for lovemaking.

    Have a bath

    Together, that is.  Taking a sensual bath together allows you to relax, while it initiates foreplay as you take turns sudsing up each other’s sexy parts and giving each other a rub.

    If your bath tub is super small, consider going away for an evening and getting a hotel room with a large bath or hot tub Jacuzzi.  Bubbles, jets, naked flesh and champagne.  Sounds like heaven to me and a great way to warm your partner up for a night of great sex.

    I hope you can use some of my sexy tips today.  Keep adding to your sexy bucket list and explore new ways to get jiggy with it.

    Until next time, stay sexy!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 13

    My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 13

    Okay, we are at lucky number 13 in “My Top Sex Tips” articles and I have 5 more delicious sexy tips for you once again today!

    Vary stimulation

    In my last article I told you to not stop whatever stimulation you are doing to your lover when she is at the edge of orgasm.

    This article, I want to encourage you to try various types of stimulation, in the way you touch her, but also in the places that you touch.  While she and you may be used to a certain type of stimulation that gets her off every time, you can also explore this a bit, especially during initial foreplay, to find other ways to awaken her libido.  Trying different ways and types of touch can actually create new erotic pathways in the brain to make her even more orgasmic.

    So, try new techniques and learn new ways to make love.

    Whisper dirty nothings in public

    Have you ever whispered “sweet nothings” in your honey’s ear while out in public?  It is hot as heck and a sure fire way to get her turned on even before you get to the bedroom.

    So, what should you say?

    Keep the whispers to how hot you think she is and what you like to do with her tonight.  Whisper to her at the table during dinner in a fantasy restaurant, during slow dancing on dance floor, or even grocery shopping.  Yes, seriously.  Any activity can be turned sexy with the right words!

    Sexy shopping spree

    I love doing this with my partner, going on a sexy shopping spree together.

    Whether we are shopping for lingerie, sexy costumes, or hot new toys for the bedroom, sexy shopping is fun and naughty.

    How to: Plan a date together to go to your local adult store and look around.  You don’t have to have any expectations, or know what you want to get beforehand.  Check out the products, and discuss how you could use certain items to spice it up.

    If you don’t like shopping in public, try shopping online in private.  There are lots of reputable adult shops online where you can find great products and awesome deals, shipped discreetly right to your door.

    Then the thrill of waiting for your sexy package to arrive will keep you going til it gets there!

    Play teacher/student

    Have you ever tried sexy roleplaying before?

    It is not only for “kinky” couples as some people tend to think. Completely “vanilla” couples can role play certain sexy scenarios in their bedroom together to heat up their sex life.

    One of my favorites is the very popular teacher/student role play.  This could be a naughty teacher seducing their student, or a disciplinary school master chastising a bad boy or girl.  You don’t even have to dress up that much to bring this fantasy to life, although hot accessories like a school girl outfit can crank up the sexy dial on this much loved fantasy.

    Sex and chocolate

    Mmm… I love sex, and chocolate.  Together, they are divine!

    Did you know that some people think chocolate is even better than sex?!  What!  Yes, chocolate is also called the “love drug” because it contains chemical compounds like serotonin (the feel-good brain chemical that affects mood, sexual desire and increase libido) and PEA aka phenethylamine or dopamine (a chemical that increases endorphins which affects sexual arousal, pleasure and orgasm) both putting women especially in the mood for love.

    So try some chocolate with your sex to boost her libido.  Feed her small square of decadent Belgium chocolate for dessert, or drizzle chocolate sauce over each other to lick off and make yourselves into dessert.

    Either way, sex and chocolate are sure to please.

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    That’s it for my sexy tip their article guys.  Now dive right in and plan some sexy bedroom activities with her asap!

    Until next time, stay sexy!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • The 5 kisses you must master next year

    The 5 kisses you must master next year

    A steamy round of tongue tango can lead to great sex, but kissing has loads of benefits in its own right. Research shows that making out relieves stress, helps you determine who you’re attracted to (or not), and deepens your connection to your lover. Sadly, studies also reveal the longer a couple has been together, the less frequently they lock lips as part of sex. I encourage people to keep their sexual menu diverse but to make sure kissing is front and center, because it’s that important. My lusty lips will give you some serious lip-spiration.

    Morning smooth

    Before you two part for work, hold her hands and pull her close. Aim straight for her mouth and plant one, dead center, on her lips for two to three seconds. Pull back ever so slightly, while still holding hands, then lean in and kiss very quickly once more. When you pull away at last, look her straight in the eyes, squeeze her hands and then let go. Soft, lingering and arousing, this kind of kiss is meant to ignite all of your senses and it says that you’re emotionally present. Not only will the moment leave her craving a replay all day long, but one study reportedly found that men who kiss their partners in the morning live five years longer on average than men who don’t. You can thank me when you blow out the candles on your 100th birthday cake.

    Vampire pucker

    If you’re feeling frisky and trying to get your partner into that playful sexual spirit, place soft, feathery kisses all over her face, then flutter your lips down her neck until you reach the bottom of it. Plant your lips, using slight suction to bring some flesh between your front teeth, then release. Yep, you’re necking. And it’s so hot. You can also place your hand on a naughty part of her body, like her thigh, close to her lady parts. It’s a signal that you want her, and it will give her confidence to make the next move.

    Dirty French

    Hold your mouths close together, and take turns letting your tongues flick across each other’s lips. Move the tip of your tongue back and forth, then imitate a figure eight. Not only will she start imagining what else you can do with your tongue (wink!), but guys can transfer testosterone through saliva, which means you are potentially increasing her arousal, making her even hotter for you and eager to take things further. Yep, it’s true. If you thought that a sloppy, messy, saliva-filled kiss is a turn-off for women, think again. Theoretically, the wetter the kiss, the more testosterone you’ll likely send her away and the more aroused she may get. Also, a sloppy smooch can be a way of communicating you’re smitten. Many women associate lots of tongue with passion, since they’ve seen images of couples kissing that way in movies. Think of it as your way of showing enthusiasm about your relationship and your lust level.

    The love bite

    Gently take her bottom lips between your teeth, and use your lips to pull it into your mouth. Go easy on the pressure, then slowly increase – when you touch your boo, endorphins amp up happy feels and help block pain, which may be why a rough nibble can feel so good.

    Champagne make-out

    Take a sip of bubbly, and resist the urge to swallow. Now, lean over and kiss her, letting a tiny amount trickle into her mouth. Wait until she realizes what you’re doing before letting out a little more. If some overflows down her chin, you have an excuse to lick it up!

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • The sex she’ll die for

    The sex she’ll die for

    You have the power to supersize, pleasure-ize, and totally intensify your girl’s orgasm. The secret: six red-hot foreplay strategies that bring on the bliss. When you spend time building her arousal, it increases blood flow to her genitals, triggers more muscular tension, and heightens her nerve sensitivity. The longer and better the buildup, the longer and better the release when she finally orgasms.

    To help you give your partner an explosive, unprecedented, unforgettable O, I prepared different foreplay strategies that are straight out of an alpha lover’s secret handbook. And since variety is essential for bed-shaking sex, each has its own unique way of bringing your lady to the brink, so you can try a different one every time. Be prepared though: this is one very racy, risqué batch you have before you. Once you’ve mastered these sex moves, get creative and invent your own based on the crucial concepts.

    Strategy 1

    Seduce her with a massage

    A sensual rubdown is a slow-boil approach to arousal. It will wind her up in a mellow, ready-for-pleasure state. Another reason rubdowns rock her world: Skin is the largest erogenous zone, with about 600,000 receptor cells. Not only does massage send blood coursing into key hot spots, but it also engages the muscles and nerve endings everywhere you touch.

    Have her lie facedown and straddle her thighs. Start by deeply massaging her head and neck with your thumbs, forefingers and middle fingers. Then slide down her back, pressing the outside edges of your hands into either side of her spine. When you get to her sacrum – the bony spot where her spine ends – massage it with the heels of your palms for a couple of minutes. There are 16 acupressure points in this area, and stimulating those will moist her up. Then kiss the small of her back as you start kneading her butt, separating her cheeks as you rub. Moving her booty causes blood to rush to her groin, which is ammo for a powerful orgasm.

    Strategy 2

    Tease her like crazy

    The key is to titillate her by offering only hints of what’s to come so that after a while, she’s aching for release. The longer you can draw her out, the more extreme her eventual explosion will be. But look closely for clues she’s about to climax: getting her too amped up will cut the sack session short. Have her sit down with her legs slightly spread, and kneel or sit behind her. Slowly begin rubbing her outer thighs, and then tip into her inner thighs, moving up to her genital area. Graze her labia once, and caress your way back down her inner thighs and out again to her outer thighs. Kiss the base of her neck, then repeat the whole process a few times. This move is a tantalizing twofer: Her inner thighs are packed with nerve endings, making them especially sensitive. Plus, each time you near her vagina, she’ll think you’re about to touch it, building uncontainable cravings.

    Strategy 3

    Don’t neglect the nipples

    Nipples consist of erectile tissue, meaning that they’re full of pleasure receptors and become engorged with blood when stroked or licked. Midhookup, start by rubbing one of her nipples at the same time you’re running your hand up and down her clitoris. Once she’s thrilled by both touches, take one hand off her clitoris, but continue touching one of her nipples. Shift your mouth down, and lick around the outer edge of her nipple in a slow, circular motion. Then lick up the center of her nipple with the flat of your tongue. After you do that three times, bite her nipple very, very lightly for a few seconds before you resume licking. Then go back and repeat your licking and nibbling on her other nipple. The varying sensations on her nipples will send her into erotic overdrive, priming her for a mind-blowing release.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Want more fun in the bedroom? Try these games!

    Want more fun in the bedroom? Try these games!

    It’s easy to fall into a routine, especially when it comes to foreplay – or lack thereof. These sex games concentrate on the journey, making the final act especially naughty.

    Time tease

    You need: a timer

    How to play: Pick a time interval – 15 minutes, let’s say. During this time, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay. But no matter what, absolutely do not go for penetration until that time has elapsed.

    Why it works: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science, or rather, routine. Time tease refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before things got serious between the two of you. You’ll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative and really turned on.

    Blind bomb

    You need: a scarf

    How to play: Blindfold her. Lead her to the bed or other locale, then proceed to lavish her – slowly, recklessly, teasingly – however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let her arousal be your guide.

    Why it works: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects – it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac. Together they can create a love explosion.

    Passion prisoner

    You need: Four neckties, or some elaborate restraints available at sex toy stores or online.

    How to play: Tie her wrists and ankles to the bedposts and have your way with her.

    Why it works: It can be incredibly erotic for a woman to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of your attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.

    Hot head

    You need: A hairbrush, riding crop of just your hands.

    How to play: Ask her to tell you all the things she did wrong today. (She failed to take her coupons to the grocery store. She forgot the name of her new receptionist at work. She told your nagging sister to go to hell.) Then have her kneel on the bed while you spank her using your hands, a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory.

    Why it works: Spanking feels good, actually. A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly, alert sensation that combines well with the other feelings of sex. These sensations are especially interesting if you combine them with playing with her other body parts on display during your spanking. This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator.

    Carnal cards

    You need: A deck of cards and a timer.

    How to play: Give each card a sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades are oral. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Take turns picking cards and teasing one another.

    Why it works: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more. You can make the moves even more intense by doing them for minutes, not seconds.

    Close encounters

    You need: Nothing but your lover’s body.

    How to play: Either lie back or kneel with your eyes closed and mouth open. Then have your partner tease you by placing different parts of her body against your lips or tongue, like a nipple or a finger, thus encouraging you to please her. Then you can switch places.

    Why it works: Aside from how pleasurable it is for your woman to get those parts licked and kissed, it’s erotic for you to wait in anticipation of what piece of her will arrive next.

    X marks the spot

    You need: Nothing.

    How to play: Start by urging her to think of a particular body part that she’s dying for you to kiss. She should keep that body part a secret. You’ll try to guess the spot by kissing a body part – and keep going until you guess correctly. She decides if she wants to be fair and stick to one spot… or keep you guessing.

    Why it works: It’s a simple game that doesn’t require any toys or props – perfect for when you want to infuse a lot of excitement for little effort.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Who said playing is just for children? It can be the hottest activity for consenting adults as well. For more tips and advice on spicing things up in the sack, check out my program by clicking this link.

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  • The phrases women love to hear in bed

    The phrases women love to hear in bed

    The ladies open up about the hottest things you can possibly say to them.

    “Touch me right there”

    After years together, you and her are familiar with each other’s anatomy, but a little verbal reminder of what pushes you over the edge is helpful from time to time. Exploring new touches and sensations can make sex seem like an exciting discovery the two of you are making together.

    “@#$%”

    If you don’t normally swear, if you let go in bed it will be a very big turn-on for your partner. Shy? Dirty talk doesn’t need to be dirty. Simply narrating the action by noting where her hand – or something else – is and how good it feels is plenty. This helps keep you both in the moment.

    “I want to watch”

    Being able to actually see each other, instead of fumbling around in the dark, is awesome. Self-conscious? Focus on how things feel – or how her eyes light up as you show everything off.

    “So, I had this dream last night”

    If you have a fantasy you’ve always wanted to try, setting it up as a dream can help minimize any shyness about discussing it. Fantasies don’t need to be turned into reality to be hugely hot, and getting used to talking about what gets you off – even if it’s never going to happen in real life, such as you and her stranded on a desert island – can do wonders for your sex life.

    “I give you permission to wake me up if you get horny”

    Having sex on the table as a potential option during the night, even if you don’t actually do it, reminds you that your sex life is important. Setting an alarm for a sex date can also work, especially if you are both beat or likely to be disturbed when you head to bed.

    “I want to kiss you down there”

    Women love when men want to give them oral sex. She knows you love it, but she never wants you to do it just for her. When you say you want to, it makes her feel like she can really let go. Focusing on how happy your partner gets makes oral sex feel less like, well, a job, and can also enhance pleasure. Conveying enthusiasm is a huge turn-on, and the more turned on she gets, the more confident and masterful you will feel.

    “All during my meeting today, I was thinking about doing this”

    Knowing that you’re working and you let your mind wander back to her is a huge compliment. Plus, a few dirty daydreams can absolutely make your workday more exciting – and letting your partner in on them will seriously get her going. Thinking about how it feels when she kisses you or slips her fingers underneath your boxers can help switch your brain from feeling exhausted to feeling excited.

    “I love the way you smell when we make love”

    I know this sounds gross, but hear me out. When you tell her you like the way she smells, even when she’s drenched in sweat, she will really feel like a woman. Scent is so intimate, especially when you’re naked. Sex is all about senses, and letting your partner know the way she gets you going will help put you both in the mood. She may also not realise how much her scent turns you on, and clueing her in is a good reminder of the animal magnetism you have for each other.

    “Yup, that was perfect”

    If you don’t make a lot of noise in bed, it’s sometimes hard for your partner to tell whether or not the whole thing was great for you. If she just rocked your world, only good can come from letting her know.

    “I want you to come”

    Sometimes coming feels like a selfish act, and saying “I want you to come” makes it feel not only invited, but celebrated. Eagerness and passion can set your partner over the edge in a heartbeat. Creating a safe space for intimacy during the dirty stuff by saying you want her to feel pleasure shows that you really love all the things during sex, and that you aren’t just doing it because you feel like you have to.”

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For more interesting tips on how to turn your partner on like never before, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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