All fingers are not created equal! If you’re down for offering her some explosive orgasms that make her scream “I’ve never met someone like you!”, check out my special training tips&tricks.

Over the years, I have realized something that’s true for each and every woman, no matter the shape and size: the main thing that truly helps us achieve the elusive orgasm is not a complicated technique — it’s simply being relaxed. You can probably also relate to this. When you experience anxiety in the bedroom, your performance is totally ruined, leaving you even more insecure and confused.

No matter how confident she seems, she needs to feel relaxed around you in order to experience all those amazing sensations you can create for her. Otherwise, all of your efforts will be useless. We all know by now that female orgasm is complicated and not easy to reach — the most recent studies regarding this issue have shown that only around 30% of women experience orgasms consistently during sex (85% for men, lucky you!) — but we also know that some serious advances have been made. We know so much more about all those small sensitive details that go into the art of pleasuring a woman. We know that almost every woman can climax and even have multiple orgasms if the circumstances are right for her… and those circumstances usually involve you. She needs a caring and understanding man who is willing to learn more about sexual pleasure every day (if you’re reading this, you are that man and you have my admiration!), and who uses his knowledge to help her relax and reach that absolute sensation we all crave.

Fingering is a great way to get intimate with your partner because it can also be approached as an intense foreplay, without the pressure which usually comes from penetration. It’s also extremely valuable to you because it helps you understand her intimate anatomy before going to the next level. Why is that important? Well, because — let’s get real here — some men don’t even know where their partner’s clitoris is located. If that is or was the case for you, I’m not blaming you and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. The epicenters of pleasure are really sneaky when it comes to women. For example, some women have a visible clitoris even without stimulation. Others have it covered by little folds of skin which resemble a tent. Some women have large outer labia, while others appear to have none. And if you think porn can give some insight, you might be wrong — porn stars go through cosmetic surgery to make their lady parts appear more attractive to men, so there’s not much diversity there.

But diversity is beautiful, don’t you think? And the beauty of it all is the discovery. It’s in your power to explore and discover all of her epicenters of pleasure, and what better tool to work with than your hands? If you’ve tried fingering before but it wasn’t her cup of tea, you haven’t tried my special techniques yet. Read on to make fingering more enjoyable than ever for you both!

Take a dive together

Now that we know relaxation is key to better sex (and lots of orgasms!), you wanna make sure she feels 100% sexy and relaxed around you. It’s going to be worth it, I assure you. Because a relaxed and confident woman is much more willing to give you everything you’ve ever imagined in bed!

So what could be sexier than taking a luxurious bath together? Make sure that bubble bath smells great and keep a massage oil on hand. While sitting behind her in the bathtub, lather up her body with your bare hands, using slow and sensual movements, and rather long ones: start from the shoulders, make a brief stop on her boobs and then let your hands slide all over her body until you reach her calves. Then go back and reach her intimate area with both hands while slowly biting her ear. Dominate her in a subtle way by slowly massaging that area with both hands — this sends a powerful erotic message: “You are mine and I accept and want all of you”. You will feel her opening up to you. If she opens her legs slightly, massage her clit while putting one finger inside of her slowly. Don’t forget that the level of lubrication is affected underwater, therefore be very gentle. Give her just a taste of what’s coming.

Make it even more slippery

Slip is important when it comes to female pleasure. You score big time if you’re also able to stimulate all of her senses, and the easiest way to do that is using an aromatic massage oil. Treat her after the bath: while her body is still slightly wet, rub some aromatic oil all over her, insisting on her lady parts (make sure the oil is gentle and safe to use in the intimate area). The pleasant smell and the erotic scenery will open her up to you in a relaxed atmosphere, where she’s feeling safe and desired. If necessary, add an oil based lube to the mix before you finger her vagina — the extra slip will make things a lot more comfortable and therefore pleasurable for her.

A little oral action

A lot of women are actually intimidated by oral sex and don’t find it pleasurable at all, but that’s only because they are unable to relax and open up to this incredibly sexy and intimate experience. After you’ve applied the relaxation methods above, she’ll be ready to enjoy it, so add a little oral action to the mix. While penetrating her with your index and middle finger, caress her clitoris with your lips for a few seconds, then use your tongue to lick it like you would an ice-cream, but do it very slowly while making eye contact. She will go mad with pleasure! Now that she’s getting wetter, you can move your fingers a little faster, while using the other hand to apply more pressure on her clitoris. Remember — clitoris is key to unlock her pleasure potential, so make sure to always involve it!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Sweetheart, now you know you can accomplish so much by using a few relaxation methods while pleasuring her with your hands. For even more advanced techniques on the fine art of fingering, I invite you to check out my intensive course on the matter — Flirting Fingers — and become a true expert!

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One of the saddest of all statistics on our collective sexual health is about how little time we spend on foreplay, with the average sexual act as a WHOLE lasting only 7-12 minutes. Sexual foreplay is the moment when the arousal mechanism in the limbic brain gets to align with the blood flow to the genitals, so yea, it’s pretty darn important and skipping it is basically ruining your entire sexy time.

So, let me just say one thing about this phase of intimacy—more is better. This is what I say to patients who come in and tell me that their sexual encounters failed because, I don’t know, their lube didn’t work or they were stressed or whatever. When I ask them about the time they spent on foreplay, and their response is ‘what foreplay, we went straight to business’, I have to explain the limitations of even the best sex positions or even the most experienced lovers. A body that is unprepared to be penetrated will not automatically turn on. Never in a million years, my friends. The truth is, the more attention we pay to the beginning of our intimate acts, the easier and more successful it gets at the end.

In this way, sex is kind of oxymoron. We all worry about successfully climaxing, of being able to get to the golden ring of orgasm, but by placing our attention there we miss the juicy and most compelling parts of coupling, which is foreplay. Becoming more comfortable and curious in the early give-and-take of sexual foreplay techniques is how we cultivate a veritable harvest of passion and even sometimes orgasmic pleasure that will surprise us.

Follow this short path to extending the love you are making and you will be harvesting volumes more pleasure than you can find in a quick in and out.

Explore Sexuality Through the Senses

One way to consider extending your foreplay time is to allow your thinking to get filtered through your nose, which will heighten not only your sense of smell but also your sense of touch and taste. Awakening our arousal mechanism does not happen in the genitalia, but in the limbic brain, which is co-located right there with your olfactory sense, where your smell is processed.

Learn the Magic Contained in the Fingers
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Our hands are a work of art. Our fingers have some of the densest areas of nerve endings in the body and provide the richest source of tactile feedback available to us. The sensations we can feel through our hands are not just physical either, they can both interpret and transmit energetically.  Our hands are the perfect instruments for providing pleasure. Their combined capacity for strength and flexibility allows us to touch each other in ways that transmit feelings like no other sexual act out there.

Touch takes on heightened meaning when we give it our full attention. Arguably, we can say at least as much and maybe more with our hands as we do with our words.  Little is misunderstood as the body receives true communication from the hands. Yet, inattentive touch can also make a woman recoil. To really touch, we have to bring our full presence to the tips of our fingers. Genital tissue is like none other in the body and there is maybe nothing more erotic than spreading oil into the folds and crevices that are as unique as our fingerprints, but alight with nerve endings.

Give Up the End Zone

Being deliberate about growing your comfort zone in foreplay techniques will translate into not only a more curious and passionate sexuality, but will also be mirrored in an opening in the emotional relationship. Putting the focus on expanding foreplay also reduces the performance pressure and anxiety often associated with the act of sexual intercourse, which is too often played as a race to an orgasmic finish you can’t quite locate. The truth is that orgasmic potential builds over time and when you stop chasing after it can envelop you, even in foreplay.

Taking our time for erotic discovery is everything. Mindful touching is practically prayer and it is the crevasse that exists between hooking up and making love to someone. Bringing our full attention to the nerve endings meeting between our fingertips and genital tissue is a fireworks display.  If you are not in a mindless hurry to get somewhere else, lingering in this energetically charged exchange for as long as possible can only make the end better.

Setting a goal, even if it’s just an additional five minutes each time you are intimate, is an easy way to train your focus on the moment and away from the ending.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more information about using your fingers in hot new ways, check out my program on the matter – Flirting Fingers.

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Don’t get me wrong – fingering is a great way of intensifying her pleasure and even give her a powerful orgasm without penetration. Nonetheless, most women don’t enjoy fingering and a few of my friends even hate it.
“What’s the deal with fingering? I don’t get it. I’ve never met a man who could make me feel other than uncomfortable while doing it. My current boyfriend is really rough and moves so fast that I can’t even tell what’s going on down there. Sometimes I have to stop him because it becomes painful and it ruins our night together. I don’t know, I think fingering is overrated”, says Alissa, 34.

When done wrong, fingering can be the most annoying thing a woman can experience – it actually resembles a visit to the gynecologist (not pleasant!) more than sexy play. So encourage your woman to give you honest feedback on this, because if she doesn’t actually like it, you have to improve your skills ASAP, before it ruins your sexual connection.
Here are the most common reasons why your fingering technique might be wrong and also a few essential suggestions on how to give her orgasmic sensations!

1. You’re too rough

As my friend says, the most common mistake men make is being too rough. Remember that going faster doesn’t necessarily equal more pleasure. The secret is always some kind of balance between the right rhythm and the right amount of pressure. The skin surrounding the vagina and the vagina itself is really sensitive, especially during sex, so the wrong strokes will put her off in no time.
Pro tip: Start with just one finger and move your way up to two fingers as she’s getting more turned on. Move slowly while kissing her lips, making it more of a sensual experience, without the pressure of climaxing. Pay attention to her moans and body language and start to go faster and faster as she gets wetter.

2. You don’t consider lube

Not all women are naturally wet enough for fingering action, no matter how turned on they are. And if she’s not very wet, she’ll feel more pain than pleasure. If your thing is to get right at it without any warning or lube, you have zero chances of giving her an orgasm and every chance to annoy her.
Pro tip: Saliva isn’t always the best lube in the world because it can be quite acidic and besides the effect doesn’t last long. Always have some coconut oil on hand or even a water-based lubricant. Put in on your fingers before going inside of her – I promise her sensations will amplify instantly!

3. You only move up and down

You know how when she’s on top of you she tends to move more in circular motions than up and down like you tend to do? That’s because this type of pleasure really stimulates the nerve endings in the vagina’s wall, making her feel pleasure more intensely than you can imagine. The up and down movement also works when you penetrate her with your penis, which can reach the walls better, but not the same can be said about fingering. Maybe the movement of your fingers just doesn’t do it for her.
Pro tip: Draw an imaginary circle with your fingers inside of her vagina, making sure to reach her vagina walls properly. Experiment with more types of movements and see what she likes more.

4. You forget the clitoris

What’s fingering without stimulating the clitoris? Just like actual sex, fingering feels better when the clitoral area is involved because it helps her reach orgasm faster. Plus, it’s so easy to involve this area during finger play that it would truly be a shame not to spoil your partner.
Pro tip: Use your thumb to apply pressure on the clitoris while you penetrate her with your index and middle finger. If you want to make it next level, use your mouth at the same time. Lick and kiss her clitoris until she can’t take it anymore.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Your woman will crave fingering if you do it well – especially since not a lot of men have this skill. If you want to learn more, I recommend you check out my program on the matter – Double Fingering Delight.

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While the thought of engaging in BDSM may excite you, there is always a chance that your partner may not feel the same way. Here’s how to get her to indulge in this experience. 

The concept of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM) isn’t brushed under the rug anymore. With Fifty Shades Of Grey bringing BDSM to the mainstream, couples are no longer shying away from including it during a session between the sheets. More often than not, sex is always exciting in the beginning when partners are getting to know each other, but with time partners often go down the vanilla sex route, and may be looking at introducing the kink factor to spice things up. That’s where BDSM comes into play. Here are some ways to get a reluctant partner to try it.

And since we’re talking about all things king, you have to check out my Fingering Fetish program as well. You’ll find techniques that will absolutely delight you and make your partner go up the wall with ecstasy. 

Dispel misconceptions 

BDSM can be as basic or intense as both partners want it to be. The common myth surrounding BDSM is that it is heavy-duty, and all about sex toys, pain, and dominance. That couldn’t be further from the truth. While those are all part of the experience, BDSM could also mean role-play, just being blindfolded while having sex, or talking dirty during the experience. If your SO believes that this entails being rough in the bedroom, spanking or being spanked, choking or whipping, it’s time to set the record straight and educate yourselves on how to be kinky within the boundaries of comfort. 

Take it slow 

You may want to jump into BDSM right away, but that doesn’t mean your partner is ready for it. Don’t lose heart. Instead, slowly think of ways to ease her into the idea. Think of innovative ways to get there. For instance, when you are in bed, share a fantasy, slowly and seductively building up to the end. Sext her whenever you can, and also work on being more vocal during your regular sex sessions by talking dirty to turn her on. One thing will lead to another, and she’ll gradually ease into enjoying it.”

Watch porn together 

Try and check out BDSM porn together. This is one of the best ways to understand what turns on and turns off the two of you. What will really give you an idea of how to go about it and what to try, are online videos that feature various kinds of BDSM experiences. You will be able to figure out what turned you on, what you want to try out, and what is totally off-limits! 

Focus on trust-building 

There’s nothing more important than trust when it comes to BDSM. If you want your partner to try out BDSM with you, it is imperative that both of you trust one another. Not only does this ensure your relationship is on safe ground, with neither one of you worrying about being judged, it also helps bolster communication and prevent any possible abuse that could arise in the bedroom. 

Discuss beforehand 

Before you take the plunge, it is important to discuss what you want to do. Not only does it give you a direction, especially since the two of you are navigating uncharted waters, it also helps you understand the boundaries you’re willing to push as a couple. Mutual consent is absolutely vital as far as BDSM goes, since the experience can be intense, and there is no point if one person feels humiliated or used in any way. It is also a good idea to discuss practical and logistical details beforehand such as time, venue, protection, lubrication and the correct equipment. 

Visit a counsellor if you’re having trouble 

This is an uncomfortable topic, and perhaps your partner may view your demands as too adventurous or unreasonable, if your fantasies are beyond her comprehension or comfort levels. In such cases, seeking assistance from a professional may help. Not only will a sexologist or a relationship counsellor advise you on how to include it in your sexual routine, he or she will also be able to give you safety guidelines, customised rules and norms based on your relationship and personality types, and how to deal with it emotionally. It is also important that you discuss and understand that BDSM is a tool for pleasure at both ends, and need not necessarily translate into how your actual relationship functions. 

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Kink is not on the traditional carnal menu (yet!), but I think more and more couples should try it. A good appetizer is my Fingering Fetish program. Tie her hands, blindfold her, and work your magic with only your fingers. I guarantee full pleasure!

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Fingering isn’t foreplay—it’s penetration. More precisely, it’s usually the first time you go inside her. It’s the moment her body opens—and her trust follows.

That moment determines everything. If your fingers create pleasure, she’ll beg for more. But if they hurt, itch, or sting, her body will close—and so will the night.

Most men underestimate how much this matters.

That’s why fingering prep isn’t optional. It’s essential.

She Feels Everything

The vagina is one of the most sensitive zones on a woman’s body. It’s lined with mucosal tissue—soft, delicate, and highly absorbent, like the inside of your mouth.

Which means she feels everything:

Even slightly sharp nails during fingering can cause microtears
A trace of cologne or sanitizer on your fingers? Stinging pain
Dirty hands exploring her? Disrupted pH, possible infection

That’s what prep does. It turns fingering from a careless fumble into a moment of erotic surrender. The difference is night and day.

Even subtle irritants can kill her arousal in an instant. And once her body tenses, it’s nearly impossible to get her back to where she was.

Your touch is the first penetration. It should never cause pain.

Inside Double Fingering Delight, I show you how to prepare and perform fingering with complete mastery—especially with Jade’s tight body and Karla’s curves.

The Chicken Wings Story

One of my students learned this lesson the hard way.

He took a woman out to dinner. The flirting was hot, the connection real. He ordered spicy chicken wings—nothing extreme. Hours later, she came back to his place. Clothes came off. She straddled him, dripping with anticipation.

Then came the moment. He slipped his fingers inside her…

And she jumped like she’d been stung.

Not by pleasure—but by fire. Her face contorted. She ran to the bathroom. And stayed there for twenty minutes.

What happened?

He hadn’t drenched his hands in hot sauce. But he hadn’t washed thoroughly either. A trace of spice remained. Just enough for her highly sensitive tissue to feel it immediately.

That’s all it took to ruin everything.

She wasn’t the only one.

Another woman told me her partner used hand sanitizer moments before fingering her. The alcohol residue caused sharp stinging. Others described being scratched by rough nails—some even bled.

These aren’t rare stories. They’re common. And the science backs it up:

The vaginal lining is permeable and extremely reactive
Even minor irritants can cause pain, inflammation, and destroy arousal
According to the Journal of Lower Genital Tract Disease, abrasions and pH imbalances can increase risk of infection and reduce comfort

When you neglect prep, she doesn’t feel wanted—she feels wounded.

And when that happens, she won’t come back for more.

Are your fingers ready? Watch me demonstrate the prep and double insertion technique with Jade and Karla inside Double Fingering Delight.

The Ultimate Fingering Prep Checklist (for Men Who Know)

Want her to crave your fingers? Start here.

✓ Trim your nails—smooth and rounded.
Use clippers and a file. Edges matter more than length.

✓ Wash your hands—but skip sanitizer.
Soap and water is perfect. Avoid spicy residue (chili, pepper) or strong colognes.

✓ Buff or file rough skin.
The pads of your fingers should glide, not scrape.

✓ Remove rings and jewelry.
Even smooth rings can pinch or carry bacteria.

✓ Warm your hands.
Cold fingers? Instant turn-off. Rub them together or hold them under warm water.

✓ Use body-safe lube.
Water-based is ideal. A drop on your fingers can transform her pleasure.

✓ Check your mindset.
Be present. Be patient. Her body will tell you everything—if you’re listening.

These small moves change everything.
And the moment you apply them to two fingers inside her, while watching her moan and melt? That’s when you become unforgettable.

Are your fingers ready?

Fingering is one of the best tricks in the book for any man. Women love it. It’s practical. You can do it anywhere. You can use it to give yourself a break during sex. It can give her orgasms that penetration alone can’t.

It’s a versatile, powerful tool of pleasure—but only if you do it right.

When your fingers are properly prepped, when your technique is intentional, when your presence is fully focused on her pleasure—she will melt for you.

Watch my explicit video demonstration where I show you exactly how, with your now-prepped hands, you can give her multiple orgasms using both hands. Fingering done right isn’t just foreplay—it’s a game-changer.

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Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

 

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Her Sexiest Secret? Getting Fingered Where No One Can Tell

One of the naughtiest moves from the ’80s was fingering in the movies. It was an art reserved for only the most advanced lovers—and it led to fun, thrilling relationships, packed with dominance, convenience, and, if done properly, a touch of true class.

I myself enjoy this a lot. And not just in the movies—any place that gives you cover and makes her squirm with anticipation.

In this article, I’ll guide you through:

Why public fingering is so erotic and healthy for relationships
The best locations to do it discreetly
A step-by-step method: from unbuttoning her pants to stimulating her in silence
And a headline-making story about a couple who got caught in action

There’s something primal, forbidden, and insanely arousing about fingering a woman in public.

The thrill of almost being seen… The tension in her body as she tries to stay quiet… The way she bites her lip and fights the urge to moan…

Done right, it’s not just hot. It’s powerful, dominant, and unforgettable.

Inside Double Fingering Delight, I show how to do this seduction move with Jade and Karla—step by step.

Why Public Fingering Is So Erotic—and Healthy for Relationships

This isn’t just a naughty thrill. It’s deeply erotic and good for your bond.

Fingering her in public—with subtlety and consent—triggers multiple arousal pathways:

Adrenaline from the risk of getting caught
Dopamine from surprise and excitement
Oxytocin from the emotional intensity and intimacy

She feels wanted. Owned. Desired without warning.

It makes her feel like the star of a private, wicked little secret—shared only with you.

Couples who add public play report more excitement, more craving, and more spontaneous sex. It reminds her you still want her—and that you’re bold enough to claim her anywhere.

Want to see how discreet fingering builds tension fast? Watch me do it on camera with Jade and Karla.

The Best Locations to Do It Discreetly

Location is everything. You want privacy—but also just enough risk to ignite her pulse.

Here are some of the best real-world places where public fingering can be executed discreetly and thrillingly:

Movie Theaters: Classic and effective. Go for a late-night or weekday showing. Choose the very back row. Use a jacket or hoodie in your lap to cover movement.
Bars and Lounges: Dark lighting and booths with long tablecloths are your allies. Choose a corner table, sit side by side, and slide a hand under the table.
Rideshares (Uber/Lyft): Sit in the back, behind the driver. Ideal when she’s wearing a short dress. Keep movements minimal and controlled.
Elevators: Choose high-rise buildings with longer rides. You only need one or two strokes to send a jolt through her body.
Outdoor Seclusion: Empty parks at night, quiet trails, or behind a beach dune. Bonus points if there’s a blanket and stars above.
Private Booths at Restaurants: The kind with high walls and dim lighting. Sit next to her, slip your hand under the table, and make her squirm while sipping wine.
Changing Rooms (in Lingerie Stores or Adult Boutiques): A shared changing stall can quickly become a playground if the shop is quiet and she’s feeling bold.
Balconies: Especially hotel balconies at night with city lights or ocean breeze. A hand beneath a robe, the rush of open air—pure thrill.
Dance Floors: Packed clubs or dark corners of a dance venue. While she’s grinding against you, your hand slips down, hidden by the crowd and the beat.
Concerts or Music Festivals: The noise, the energy, the pulsing crowd—no one notices a hand between her legs when everyone’s hands are in the air.
Pools or Oceans (Underwater): Nothing hides touch better than water. Let your hands roam beneath the surface while you’re side-by-side or holding her in your arms.

And as many others as you might creatively discover with your partner… The rule? Enough coverage to stay undetected—but enough vulnerability to make it electric.

See how to pull this off smoothly with Jade and Karla—inside Double Fingering Delight.

 

How to Finger Her in Public: Step by Step

Let’s break it down, move by move.

1. Outfit matters
Encourage her to wear a dress or skirt—no underwear if she’s daring. But even if she wears pants or jeans, the technique still works with some adjustments.

2. Sitting position matters
Have her sit next to you on your dominant side—left if you’re left-handed, right if you’re right-handed. This keeps your movements natural and discreet, without forcing you to lean or draw attention.

3. Start with casual touch
Rest your hand on her thigh. Let your fingers drift slowly, building anticipation and checking in with her reactions.

4. Move slow
Patience is key. She needs to feel safe, turned on, and totally relaxed in your hands.

5. Tease through her clothes
Begin caressing her over her clothes. Her clitoris is incredibly sensitive—she’ll feel everything. Trace circles, slow drags, and gentle taps over her panties, jeans, or skirt. Build her arousal before anything more.

6. Go under—strategically
Once she’s clearly aroused and giving you permission, slide your hand in—but always from the top.

If she’s wearing pants or jeans, unbutton gently and slip your fingers into the waistband.
If she’s wearing a skirt, never go from underneath—it exposes her. Instead, slip your hand down from the waist.

7. Position your hand like this
Palm facing your back, arm relaxed, fingers curled slightly upward. Focus on stimulating her clitoris—penetration is possible, but not always comfortable in public. One or two fingers can explore her folds while your palm rests against her mound.

8. Finger her clitoris properly
Start soft—circles, light pulses. Let her hips move into you. Only increase pressure when she squeezes your arm or parts her thighs. To learn exactly how to finger her properly, check my course Double Fingering Delight with Jade and Karla.

9. Read her body and stop at the edge
Watch her face, breath, and body language. If she’s gripping your leg or fighting a moan, you’re doing it right. But don’t go for the orgasm unless you’re somewhere private enough.

10. Don’t try to finish her
The goal isn’t to make her come—it’s to build her desire until she’s aching for more. That’s what makes this move so powerful. She’ll crave you the rest of the night.

I teach this exact build-up, and when to add a second finger, inside Double Fingering Delight.

The Real Story: When a Couple Got Caught in the Movies

Fingering has been a classic move for decades.

It’s discreet. Hands-on. And incredibly effective as both foreplay and power-play.

One real headline that hit the news? In 2014, a couple was caught on camera at a Florida movie theater. She was sitting on his lap. He had his hand between her thighs. Security footage went viral—because people couldn’t believe how turned on she looked, even in grainy black-and-white.

They were escorted out… but she was clearly smiling.

Fingering may be ancient—but when done in public, it becomes unforgettable.

Her Body. Your Fingers. A Scene She’ll Replay Forever

She won’t forget this.

The feeling of your fingers inside her while people sat just feet away. The way her body betrayed her—hips lifting, breath catching, thighs trembling.

It’s not just a turn-on.

It’s a secret only the two of you share.

And when you don’t finish her in public? That moment when you finally get her home… she’ll explode.

Watch how I create this buildup—and deliver the climax—inside Double Fingering Delight with Jade and Karla.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

 

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Intro: Why the First Thrust Is So Important

The very first thrust—whether with your fingers or your penis—sets the tone for everything that follows. It’s the moment she is most vulnerable, and the instant her body and subconscious mind decide whether to open fully to you… or to close forever.

Biology has made this moment decisive. During penetration, her body is flooded with signals—nerves, hormones, and instinct. Research shows that when women experience pain or discomfort during initial penetration, their body produces cortisol (a stress hormone) instead of oxytocin (the bonding hormone). Oxytocin deepens trust, intimacy, and attraction, while cortisol builds tension and resistance. That means your very first thrust determines if she’ll crave more—or quietly retreat.

Evolutionary biology also explains why. Across time, women developed powerful subconscious filters to decide whether a man is safe, attentive, and skilled. The first thrust is her body’s “test.” Done right, it creates arousal, trust, and memory. Done wrong, it triggers her survival response and closes the door.

This article will show you how to master that first thrust—so her body and mind both say yes to you.

She Feels Everything

The vagina isn’t just lubricated during arousal—it becomes hypersensitive. The mucosal tissue lining her vagina is delicate, permeable, and filled with nerve endings. As blood flow increases, her tissue swells, her nerves awaken, and her body becomes exquisitely sensitive to touch.

That means she notices everything:

The smoothness (or sharpness) of your nails
The warmth (or coldness) of your hands
The gentleness (or harshness) of your entry

One mistake here—a scratch, dryness, or sudden pain—and her arousal drops. Once her body tenses, it is almost impossible to bring her fully back.

That’s why I teach exact hand prep and technique inside Double Fingering Delight, with Jade and Karla.

Why It’s Better to Start with Fingering

Fingering is the safest, most effective way to begin penetration. Here’s why:

Precision: Your fingers can explore more delicately than your penis, adjusting pressure and depth instantly.
Gentleness: One finger is smaller than your penis, allowing her to relax and expand without discomfort.
Arousal Building: Fingering lets her become fully wet before deeper penetration. Entering too soon with your penis can feel forced if she isn’t lubricated or her vagina isn’t fully expanded.

Simply put: the finger is the perfect first thrust. It prepares her body—and her trust—for everything that follows.

How to Do It Properly
Begin with foreplay. Kiss her deeply, touch her thighs, stimulate her clitoris until she’s wet.
Enter with just the tip of one finger. Tease her. Make her body ache for more.
Go deep suddenly—at the right moment. When she’s swollen and wet, surprise her by sliding one finger fully inside.
Stimulate her G-spot. Curl your finger slightly upward, massaging her front wall in rhythm.
Engage your whole body. Kiss her, whisper to her, and with your other hand, play with her breasts.

At this stage, stay with one finger. Build trust. Build tension. Build lust. Soon, you’ll feel her body begging—hips pushing, breath quickening—for the next step: your penis.

Inside Double Fingering Delight, I demonstrate how to use these steps to bring a woman to the edge with just your hands.

Don’t Be Like Joe

One of my students, Joe, learned this lesson the hard way. After four exciting dates with a woman he adored, he finally had her in his bed. She was ready. She was nervous. She was waiting for him to lead.

But instead of starting with his fingers, Joe went straight for his penis. She wasn’t fully wet. Her body wasn’t ready. That first thrust was painful for her—and awkward for both of them. She pulled away, the mood collapsed, and she never texted him again.

Joe’s mistake was simple but fatal: he didn’t understand the power of the first thrust. He thought penetration was the finale, when in truth, it’s the opening note. And if you play it wrong, the whole song is ruined.

Do the First Thrust Properly—With Your Fingers

Fingering isn’t just preparation. It is sex. Done right, it gives her orgasms she may never have experienced before—and it builds her craving for your penis until she can’t take it anymore.

Master the first thrust with your fingers, and you’ll be unforgettable.

Click here to watch Double Fingering Delight and learn how to make her crave more from the very first touch.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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