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Author: Fidan

  • Real Women Reveal Their Hottest Fantasy

    As you know, from time to time I like to bring you stories from real women who I have talked to and interviewed over the years to give you the real low down on what women like, do and want. This time around I’ve talked 4 different women who wanted to share their hottest role playing experiences. Keep reading to find out what they did…

    Soraya, 32 years old

    My husband and I have a really great relationship. We split up the household chores, we both work hard at our jobs, and we share responsibilities with the children. I love this dynamic that we have in our everyday lives. So, one day we decided to try role playing. We both thought it would be really sexy to role play a boss / personal assistant. Most people would have thought I would play the assistant since we still live in a pretty male dominated world, but we thought it would be really hot to switch that up. I was the boss and my husband was my loyal assistant. Through this role play, we started to explore the power dynamic in our sexual relationship and I started playing the dominant one. We discovered that this was a huge turn on for both of us. I loved being the boss in the bedroom and telling him what to do and he loved being submissive and obeying my every command. It was so hot! And now we’ve discovered a whole new way to be intimate together that has really rejuvenated our sex life. I’m so glad we tried it.

    Molly, 40 years old

    My boyfriend and I have only been together for about 3 years and we have no children, so our sex life is pretty good still, but we’re always looking for new ways to make things interesting. The other night we tried role playing a doctor and patient. He was the sexy doctor and I was the patient. It was so fun to act this out. We really did it from start to finish, with me ringing the doorbell to our apartment as if I was showing up at his office. He did a full examination of me after making me strip naked and put on a little robe, and then he started to get naughty. It was such a turn on to pretend we didn’t know each other well and that we were completely different people. It was like we were actors in a porno flick!

    Sharon, 47 years old

    One night my husband and I had plans to meet at a hotel bar to have some drinks and then have dinner in their restaurant. We planned to meet there after work. I got there first and grabbed a seat at the bar and ordered myself a drink. Suddenly a man came up behind me and leaned in close to ask me, “is this seat taken?” I recognized my husband’s voice, but decided to play along. I acted as if I didn’t know him, but told him he was welcome to join me, but that I was waiting for my husband. He kept going with the joke and said how disappointed he was that I wasn’t single and that my husband was a lucky man. We never intended to role play on this date, but both of us just kept going with it because it was starting to get really exciting. He started to touch my thigh under the table and I almost felt as if the situation was real. In the end, we never made it to dinner. The “new couple” ended up getting a room at the hotel and going at it like teenagers! It was so hot, we haven’t had sex like that in years. Now we regularly meet at a new spot and play out this favorite fantasy of ours. It works every time!

    Kim, 37 years old

    My partner confessed to me that he had a huge crush on a college professor year ago. After that I knew we had to role play this fantasy. I asked him a few questions about her and then one night when he got home, I was already playing my role of professor. I asked him if he could come to my office to discuss his term paper. Things got pretty hot and heavy from there and ended up with him screwing me from behind bent over my desk. Now I’m pretty sure that when he thinks about professors, he’s going to think about that moment!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. To find out more about women’s secret fantasies and how to fulfill them, check out my program – The Alpha Lover.

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  • Have you given your partner these 5 types of orgasm?

    The majority of sex involves a man achieving orgasm… and a woman left waiting for hers. I know, it’s pretty grim out there if you’re a lady. But guys suffer, too. Your orgasm brings little to no comfort when you’re struggling to understand why you’re not satisfying your partner. If you blame it all on size – and most guys do, actually – stop. Pleasuring a woman to the maximum has nothing to do with how big, average or small you are.

    Women can experience many different types of orgasms, depending on which part of her body you are stimulating. They can be quick, short, localized, deep, concentrated or full-body. And you can experiment with as many different kinds as you want, because if there’s one thing I know for sure is that you’ve got all the tools you need in those pants. All you’re lacking is the proper guidance on how to use them to the best of your advantage.

    The unigasm

    This is an orgasm where stimulation is focused on one primary erogenous zone such as the clitoris, G-Spot, anus or nipples. It’s pretty straightforward and it basically means you have to choose your weapon and, most importantly, where to put it. You can give your partner an unigasm via most of the naughty tools in your arsenal – mouth, fingers, penis.

    The nipplegasm

    According to scientists, brain scans show that when women stroke their nipples, it activates the same area of the brain that responds to clitoral and vaginal stimulations. For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases oxytocin, the chemical that, among other things, makes them feel like they are in love. Researches have discovered that at least 1% of women are able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone. You can play with her nipples using your penis as well, but make sure you lube it up nice and good beforehand, so that you don’t cause any pain.

    The bigasm

    Many people are experienced with forms of dual stimulation – a penis and a tongue, a vagina and a tongue, a finger and a tongue, and other combinations. This is, obviously, more intense than the unigasm, so it’s definitely worth exploring. Try sucking on her clitoris while stimulating her G-Spot with your fingers, or licking her perineum while fingering her vagina. She can return the favor by licking your testicles while handling your penis or sucking your penis while stimulating your prostate (a gland accessible via the anus).

    The blended orgasm

    A blended orgasm is much like the bigasm, but with a little twist. The intention for the blended orgasm is to make it last much longer by teasing your partner and stimulating one primary erogenous zone, then teasing another, then going back to the first, and so on. This technique is a great way to monitor your partner’s pleasure scale and is also very beneficial for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. If you’re stimulating her and her responses are bringing you close to orgasm, you can move your attention to another of her erogenous zones to prolong the ecstasy for both of you.

    Start by choosing your partner’s favorite orgasm-inducing technique, such as oral stimulation on the clitoris. Get her aroused to a level 6 on the pleasure scale (10 being the top) and then switch to another technique you enjoy (such as stimulation of the G-Spot) and get her aroused to a level seven this time. Switch back to the first technique, raise her arousal level to eight and then back to the second technique at least three times before reaching a level 10 on the orgasm scale.

    The trigasm

    So here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm: the trigasm. A female trigasm is achieving by simultaneously arousing three points of pleasure: the clitoris, G-Spot and anus. Here’s how you should do that. Have her lie back while you concentrate on her clitoris until she reaches a level eight on the pleasure scale. Change course and stimulate her vulva in small circles with your tongue for two minutes. Return to the clitoris and orally increase her pleasure almost to the point of no return. Then insert your forefinger, palm up, into her vagina, and gently tap towards her navel on her G-Spot. Simultaneously, gently stimulate her anus with a pinky finger or a vibrator to bring her to an extraordinary trigasm.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For more information on how best use what’s in your pants and always satisfy your partner, click this link and take a look at my latest program. It’s packed with helpful, surprising info!

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  • Make the ultimate sex connection

    Make the ultimate sex connection

    If you’re looking to add a little heat and a lot of intimacy to your sex life – and who isn’t – the ancient practice of Tantric sex might be the answer. Some people think that Tantric sex is cultish or that it’s about making love for hours on end. But it’s actually a simple and accessible way for people to raise their lovemaking energy, make a spiritual connection with their partner, and break down boundaries. Plus, it can give the both of you truly incredible orgasms. What’s not to like? Here’s my step-by-step guide to sex that doesn’t involve pretzel poses or bedroom marathons, but it does ensure a stronger, closer erotic bond.

    Step 1: Ask her to join you

    Instead of trying to squeeze in a quickie, take the time to ask your partner to embark on this sexual experience with you. Asking each other’s permission before you begin ensures that you’re not taking each other for granted and establishes respect for both your partner and the act. Try saying something like, “I’m really looking forward to making love with you, and feeling closer and more connected.” Feel a little silly? Go ahead and giggle – even Tantric sex can be playful.

    Step 2: Set the scene

    Take the time to create a sensual setting and mood. You want everything in the room to be pleasing to the eye. Try draping richly colored cloths around your bedroom, lighting incense or candles, and placing items to which you two have an emotional attachment – photos, gifts, an erotic book – around the room. Another mood enhancer? Draw a bath and sink into the tub together (and lather each other up). The point is to make your woman feel like a goddess and to set aside time that you normally wouldn’t so that it’s special.

    Step 3: Reach out and touch each other

    A full-body massage helps stimulate the seven energy centers, or chakras, throughout your body, so you’re aroused from head to toe. Start massaging your partner’s hands and wrists, then move up the arms and shoulders until you reach the chest. Next, starting from the feet and ankles, work your way up the legs and thighs until you reach the belly. This sequence helps awaken her sexual energy. When you’re done massaging her, have her do the same for you – this puts your energies in tune and helps create a sense of union, not to mention that it feels pretty darn good.

    Step 4: Take a breath

    Now that you’re relaxed, aroused, and connected, heighten these feelings with some synchronized breathing. Sit facing each other with your knees touching or with her straddling your lap. You can be clothed or naked, whatever feels best for you. Take a minute to gaze silently into each other’s eyes, and then breathe in and out in unison for at least five minutes. Doing this puts you in the same spiritual space and synchronizes your energy. It’s all a part of conscious lovemaking. From there, start alternating inhalations and exhalations. As you breathe in, she breathes out. You’ll create a circle of breath that is very sexually arousing, even though nothing has happened in your genitals.

    Step 5: Reach your peak

    While superintense orgasms aren’t the main goal of Tantric sex, a big playoff never hurts. Increase the buildup by thinking of sex as a buffet, rather than a three-course meal. In regular sex, you’ll have foreplay, then intercourse, then cuddle. In Tantric sex, you’ll have a little foreplay, then maybe a bit of intercourse, then you might stop to go back to massage, then foreplay again, then feed each other some fruit, then back to intercourse. You reach an energy high multiple times over the course of the journey, each one more intense than the last. By the time you’ve reached the point where you’re ready to release these energies and orgasm, the result can be an intensely magical – and pleasurable – experience.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Still Single? Then you need to get a girl first. I recommend you go and check Richard La Ruina’s new course “Stealth Attraction”. In his introductory video, he’ll show you 1 simple trick you can use TONIGHT to get any girl you want turned on, attracted to you, and begging to go to bed with you FAST…. (and then you can apply my techniques).

    Click here to watch Richard’s “Stealth Attraction” video now! (This course was not created by me)

    If you are not single, and you are looking to add fiery soul to your lovemaking and you’ve always wanted to know more about Tantric sex, check out my program. You’ll find everything you need there.

    Kisses,

    Gabrielle

    P.S. To discover more advanced tips and techniques on female orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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  • 6 surprise sexy spots

    When you and your lady get frisky, it makes sense to reach for some pretty obvious body parts. But those tried-and-true areas of your anatomy aren’t the only places that can get you hot and bothered. Try playing with these six lesser-known zones – and have fun looking for a few unique new pleasure points of your own, too.

    Sacrum (on her)

    Why it’s hot: The vertebrae in the small of your partner’s back (right above her buttocks) contain sacral nerves, which shoot straight to your genitals. In fact, electric stimulation of this nerve will trigger an orgasm in91 percent of women, according to studies. Try this: Have her lie on her stomach and press on the sacrum with your palm, or give it a gentle karate chop-style massage. This will stimulate the sacral nerves and build heat in the genitals.

    Nipples (on you)

    Why it’s hot: Your partner’s nipples probably get plenty of attention and action. But yours can be very hot spots, too: They contain just as many nerve endings as hers do. Try this: Tell your partner to start off by lightly stroking the area with her fingertips. If that gets rave reviews, she should try upping the intensity with a gentle pinch or playful tug.

    Big toe (on her)

    Why it’s hot: Ever noticed how your partner’s toes twitch when she’s hitting a high note (hence the term toe curling orgasm)? That’s because there’s a direct neurological link between her privates and her little piggies – especially the biggie. What’s more, you can work this reflex in the other direction: stimulating the big toe can actually trigger an orgasm in some women. Try this: Of course, you can take her toes into your mouth – a classic bedroom move. Or you can gently pinch the sides of her big toe and roll it between your fingers. This activates reflexology pathways connected to her genitals.

    Soles of the feet (on you)

    Why it’s hot: Women aren’t the only ones packing pleasure potential in their feet – you do, too. According to a plethora of studies, the soles are the masculine sweet spot. Try this: Your partner should aim for an acupressure point on the bottom on your foot, about one third of the way down from the third toe. This is nicknamed the Bubbling Spring since pressing here and holding for a few seconds can cause energy to bubble up from the legs to the genitals. Or she can simply try lightly brushing the soles of your feet.

    Navel (on her)

    Why it’s hot: Her navel and her clitoris have a lot in common: in the womb, these two regions grow from the same tissue, linking them neurologically in adulthood. In fact, if you stick your finger in her belly button, your partner may sense it in her genitals. Try this: Use your tongue and fingers to delve into this indentation. If that’s too intense, caress or kiss your way two to three inches southward. You’ll hit three acupressure points, called the Sea of Energy, which are linked to sexual pleasure as well as fertility.

    Nose (on you and her)

    Why it’s hot: Next to your kisser, your sniffer contains more nerve endings than any other part of your face. Plus, your nasal passages contain erectile tissue that expands when aroused, further increasing circulation and sensitivity. Stimulating this area can even lead to honeymoon sinusitis, in which canoodling couples come down with cases of nasal congestion. Try this: Nibble on the tips of each other’s nose. The cartilage here is receptive to heavier stimulation like this. Or rub noses in an Eskimo kiss. You and your honey may come down with honeymoon sinusitis everywhere – but hey, who’s complaining?

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. To learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Vagina Masterclass.

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  • Double (or triple) her pleasure in bed

    Double (or triple) her pleasure in bed

    Let’s get something straight: Giving your partner multiple orgasms isn’t some exotic skill; it simply means making sure she’s having more than one peak during a single lovemaking event — which could mean within minutes, hours, or an entire evening. It’s easier for women to have multiple O’s than for men because the female body doesn’t go through a post-orgasm recovery period, meaning we can stay aroused longer and get heated up again and again. Want to give it a try? Follow these steps and enjoy the sexploration!

    Step 1: Get her in the groove.

    You have a better chance of repeating her orgasm if you’ve already ramped her up with the help of outside sexual stimuli — music, candles, massage, movies, whatever connects you with her body. The higher her sexual energy is built up before you touch her, the easier it will be for her to have one orgasm or even multiples, because the pot of desire is larger and you’ve got nothing but sensuality simmering.

    Step 2: Tease her out.

    Now that she’s feeling sexy, it’s time to get things revving hotter. Caress her skin with a luxurious material or play with sensitive spots, like her neck or breasts. Once her body is responding to touch, move on to genital stimulation, but avoid penetration just yet. When exploring multiples, it’s often more effective for a woman to have her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation — which is best accomplished with a vibrator or via oral or manual action. Take it slowly and try delaying her orgasm until she can’t hold out anymore. By backing off just before she orgasms, then building up and pulling back several more times, you can significantly increase the amount of sexual tension coursing through her body. This not only heightens her chances for an explosive first orgasm, it also prepares her for others. Her body starts to expect that after she has one climax, she’ll have another, because you’ve trained it to be ready for a rise and a fall. This trick is taken from Flesh on Flesh, one of the new courses part of my latest program – Naked U Season 3 – If you don’t have access to it, click here to learn more – because I’ve gathered some impressive new information on how to give your woman next level pleasure.

    Step 3: Restart stimulation.

    Begin stimulating her clitoris again within 30 seconds of her first orgasm. By doing so, you can capitalize on the fact that her body is still highly aroused. If her clitoris is too sensitive immediately afterward, return to the other areas she found pleasurable in Step 2. “You want to hang on to that sexual energy by continuing to caress her. When she’s ready, try moving on to intercourse with clitoral stimulation (use your hand or a vibrator if intercourse alone isn’t hitting the spot). You can find this particular technique, together with similar ones in Dripping Wet Secrets, one of the new courses part of in my latest program – Naked U Season 3. If you haven’t got it yet, Check it out by clicking this link.

    But most importantly, let go of expectations. Don’t focus on the orgasm, because you’ll lose yourself in a goal-oriented place. Focus on the pleasure and follow the pleasure, and the orgasm will come. With others right behind it!

    O-O-OH!

    There’s more than one kind of multiple.

    Compound singles: Each orgasm is separate and distinct, with a return to a partially unaroused state between each peak. I liken this to a pearl necklace with a length of chain between each pearl.
    Sequential multiple: Each orgasm occurs two to 10 minutes apart, with minimal reduction in arousal in between. Think of this type as a pearl choker with very little chain between each pearl.
    Serial multiple: Orgasms are separated by seconds or just a minute. May feel like one long climax with spasms of varying intensity — like a solid strand of pearls.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Is there anything that remotely equals the thrill of the female orgasm? Speaking as a female, I can’t think of anything. That’s why I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, is everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. Click this link and check out my latest work, Naked U Season 3, out now. 

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  • “Do this and you’re guaranteed to make me wet”

    “Do this and you’re guaranteed to make me wet”

    If the option of mediocre sex is on the table and the only other choice is a fairly decent cup of chocolate caramel ice cream, it’s quite possible sex will lose in a spectacular fashion. Yes, it’s true: Women, unlike men, who would even have bad sex than no sex at all, do have preferences when it comes to how things go down between the sheets.  Now, if all of this makes you feel a bit nervous and you’re finding yourself wondering what parlor tricks you’ll have to pull off to keep your sex life fresh and creative, rest assured most women aren’t looking for the impossible. But what are they looking for more exactly? These patients of mine came forward to reveal their favorite sex moves — and most are taken from my programs. Well, they did learn from the best, what did you expect?

    1. Take It Slow

    “I like to take it slow, with a lot of oral from both sides. Heavy amounts of kissing, heavy petting. Both excessively sucking on random parts of the body, slow tongue movements across random body parts, etc. Generally, the licking progresses into sucking, but a few early sucks never hurt anyone.” — Mindy

    2. Laying On Your Sides

    “I really like it when we’re on our sides, facing each other, because it’s intimate but we can also be aggressive. We can look at each other while we’re fucking, but this position also lets us both have control over the speed and intensity and his thrusting. There’s something about sideways sex that targets my clitoris in the right way — it doesn’t hurt that I come a lot quicker this way.” — Jenna 

    3. Ankles Over Shoulders

    “My boyfriend doesn’t have the biggest penis in the world, but the position that makes me feel like he’s breaking me (in a good way) is when I’m on my back and he throws my ankles over his shoulder and penetrate me. It makes penetration feel deeper for us both, especially if my butt is hanging a little bit off the bed.” —Jessica

    You can find this trick – explained in much more detail – in my latest program, Naked U Season 3. Click here to try my games and you’re guaranteed to have a lot more fun in the bedroom.  

    4. Sex On the Couch

    “I like it when I straddle his penis as he’s sitting in a chair or on the couch. He can see and touch everything, including my breasts and clitoris. I know a lot of guys like reverse cowgirl and it’s hot to see a girl’s ass and everything, but I always feel like it bends his penis to the point where it might break.” — Paula

    5. Sex In Front of a Mirror

    “Anything in front of a mirror — literally — anything in front of a mirror is 100,000 times better than without a mirror. Watching my boyfriend give me oral sex on his knees in front of a mirror is the hottest thing I’ve ever seen, but so is looking over and watching him ride me. Mirrors give us a chance to go where our eyes can’t and it’s the closest analog to both acting in and watching a dirty movie.” — Andrea You can find this hot trick, and many more that aim to increase arousal tenfold or more, in my newest program, Naked U Season 3. Check it out by clicking this link.

    6. Sex From Behind, Laying Down

    “My boyfriend and I like it when I’m submissive so the move that always gets me is when I’m laying flat on my belly and he’s on top of me from behind. It feels more intimate than doggy because he can wrap his hands around my breasts or rub my clitoris at the same time. I also like it when he covers my body with his and holds my hands down. It always feels like his penis is as deep inside of me as possible in this position.” — Stef

    7. Good Ol’ Missionary

    “This is going to make me sound lame, but sometimes there’s nothing better than good, old-fashioned missionary sex. I get to be in his complete control over the tempo and rhythm, he can slide his hands under my ass and it feels like he haa my entire body in his hands. I think a lot of women underestimate how much some guys like to kiss them and rub up against their breasts and bodies when we’re having sex — and missionary is intimate enough to allow that.” —Tanya

    8. When I Sit On His Face

    “I’m uninhibited in the bedroom and one of the things that makes me crazy is, instead of asking for oral sex or dropping hints, I’ll just go up to him when he’s sitting on the couch, lift up my nightgown, and sit on his face and force him to start licking me. I mean, I’m not really ‘forcing’ him because he loves it, but you get the point.” — Jemima

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Sex doesn’t have to look like the plot of a pornographic movie to feel just as good. You just have to make sure you don’t fall prey to the nastiest enemy of a sizzling hot sex life: routine. P.S. To learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots.

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  • The things that will make her orgasm even better

    The things that will make her orgasm even better

    There’s a huge information gap when it comes to the female orgasm – and that’s not because there’s no relevant information on the subject, but because there’s too much of it, and sometimes contradictory.

    With this particular conundrum in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. One warning before we begin: be prepared for surprises, and for seeming contradictions. It turns out the female orgasms are both as single-minded as they sometimes seem, and the same time a lot more complicated. As sensitive as women are to skill and technique, they’re equally powered by mood, setting, and timing. The fun – for her, for you – is in mixing up the following strategies to see what will work tonight. So have at it.

    Hold back the goods – tonight and tomorrow

    Ask any woman after a particularly long dry spell — abstinence is the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac. Even when you’re not separated by distance, you can contribute to that pent-up, dying-to-make-love state of mind by deploying some sexual teasing tactics during the day. I suggest “accidentally” flashing your big guy at her in the morning, or giving her a lascivious phone call at the office. You can plant a sexual seed that will flower that night into a stronger orgasm.

    Intercept her drive to the finish line

    In your heart of hearts, you know that the longer the foreplay, the stronger the orgasm, for yourself as well as for your partner. But at the same time, you have this incredibly powerful drive to simply come, come, come! You can’t help it: It’s been hardwired into your sexual circuitry over thousands of years. The trick for you is to set aside this evolutionary imperative so that sex lasts long enough for a truly eventful climax to build. Set the tone for longer, more languorous sex by starting things off with a slow, sensual back rub. Other delaying tactics can be brought into play as the festivities progress. Stopping for an occasional cooling-off period works beautifully, but takes discipline. The woman-on-top position is useful because it helps you restrain your urge to start thrusting.

    Torture her (nicely!)

    A more extreme version of extending the foreplay is called “edging,” where you get her right up to the yes, edge, and then back off. You stop before you experience climax, and simmer, then repeat that a few times. It builds up the energy so that you have a more, well, explosive and intense orgasm. Of course, let her know if that’s your plan, otherwise she might just think you’re being mean.

    Surprise her with a quickie

    Arousal is a mysterious and powerful thing, and sometimes the frenzied abandon of a quick and lustful coupling can produce a climax that’s every bit as explosive as a marathon session in the sack. I suspect this has something to do with that centuries-old sexual circuitry I mentioned: Sex without ceremony can tap into deep reservoirs of animal instinct. I personally had one of my strongest orgasms when my partner overpowered me as I innocently came home from work one night — pieces of clothing were scattered between the front door and the bedroom. I’m sure the fact that he was the instigator added fuel to the fire.

    Go straight for her most prized possession

    It’s not really politically correct to admit this, but the truth is that when orgasm is imminent, there’s only one female erogenous zone, and you know where it is. That doesn’t mean women don’t like to be kissed or caressed, but when it comes to orgasm, you can start and end with the vaginal area. It makes sense, therefore, that when women are out for the most lustful orgasms, their positions of choice tend to be those that provide the most direct clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For pure physicality, rear entry is the way to go. There’s more friction, more depth… You can also try woman on top, especially reverse cowgirl.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. The biggest secret about women’s orgasm though is being in the moment – showing love, acceptance and intimacy. I can talk for hours about technique, but the best way to start is by telling your lady how much you love her, and meaning it. For more information about the female orgasm, check out my program Her Secret Hot Spots.

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  • Intimate sex positions that will help you come together

    Sudden, desperate quickies against the kitchen counter can be insanely hot, but the best sex is rich and soulful. That kind of transcendent sex where you feel completely connected to your partner — that’s what you want to be aiming for if you want to enjoy simultaneous orgasms tonight and every night. These positions harness the bonding powers of science, neurochemistry, and things that just feel amazing to bring you closer as couple. So much closer that a well-timed climax is always on the table for you.

    Sexy Spoons

    Even though doggy style seems raw and animalistic, when you turn it on its side — spooning-style — it magically turns sweet and loving. Snuggle up with her (she’s the little spoon) and you can gently thrust inside her from behind, drawing it out for deliciously long, leisurely boning. The prolonged contact will leave you both so lust-laden that, after a while, every little stroke will feel amazing and completely in sync. Plus, with her legs squeezed together, it’ll really feel like you’re filling her up.

    Prolonged Passion

    Instead of giving her an orgasm, then passing out for the night, make the rule that neither of you can come ’til morning. Throughout the night, whenever one of you happens to wake up, give the other one a sweet kiss or a sexy rub between their legs and you can occasionally thrust a few times in her/against her. Her desire, and your erection, will ebb and flow throughout the night, but you will spend the night in a dreamy state between sleep and desire. In the morning, you won’t be able to wait to make each other come.

    Tantric Lotus

    Try some ancient tantric techniques for connecting deeply with your partner. Sit facing each other with her legs draped over yours. Stare into each other’s eyes and synchronise your breathing. It may be super weird at first — your legs and your soul feel way too open — but keep at it. Maintain eye contact and start touching each other gently on non-erotic zones, moving on to more dangerous areas. Have her sit on your lap, straddling you, for some long sweet kisses, then slide her onto your penis for some truly soulful sex which can only end with a simultaneous orgasm, of course.

    Mmm Missionary

    You can connect on a deeper level during missionary with affectionate touches like holding hands, wrapping her legs around you, stroking her back, running your fingers through her hair or entwining your legs with hers. Share deep kisses, long hugs, and suck on her nipples — all release oxytocin, the bonding hormone.

    Soulful Scissors

    In a horrible phenomenon called The Coolidge Effect, being sexually satisfied by a partner will slowly kill your desire for them. Yes, it is woefully unfair, but you can hack your stupid biological programming by not being sexuality satisfied. Which sounds horrible, but actually works. What I am basically advising you here is to start practicing edging — get completely turned on, but back off a little right before you feel like you might orgasm so you’re always on the edge. A great position for this is to start in a spooning position, then lift her top leg back over yours and turn her torso so she’s on her back, facing you, with you still inside her. Try this edging stuff for a month (if you can!) and you’ll find yourselves spending way more time in bed because you won’t be able to get enough of each other.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. If you do what your partner to climax every time you have sex, the Reverse Cowgirl Position is what you need. Click this link and give her screaming orgasms NOW.

     

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  • DOUBLE your chances of giving her an orgasm during intercourse….

    DOUBLE your chances of giving her an orgasm during intercourse….

    There’s a huge information gap when it comes to the female orgasm – and that’s not because there’s no relevant information on the subject, but because there’s too much of it, and sometimes contradictory.

    With this particular conundrum in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. One warning before we begin: be prepared for surprises, and for seeming contradictions. It turns out the female orgasms are both as single-minded as they sometimes seem, and the same time a lot more complicated. As sensitive as women are to skill and technique, they’re equally powered by mood, setting, and timing. The fun – for her, for you – is in mixing up the following strategies to see what will work tonight. So have at it.

    Hold back the goods – tonight and tomorrow

    Ask any woman after a particularly long dry spell — abstinence is the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac. Even when you’re not separated by distance, you can contribute to that pent-up, dying-to-make-love state of mind by deploying some sexual teasing tactics during the day. I suggest “accidentally” flashing your big guy at her in the morning, or giving her a lascivious phone call at the office. You can plant a sexual seed that will flower that night into a stronger orgasm.

    Intercept her drive to the finish line

    In your heart of hearts, you know that the longer the foreplay, the stronger the orgasm, for yourself as well as for your partner. But at the same time, you have this incredibly powerful drive to simply come, come, come! You can’t help it: It’s been hardwired into your sexual circuitry over thousands of years. The trick for you is to set aside this evolutionary imperative so that sex lasts long enough for a truly eventful climax to build. Set the tone for longer, more languorous sex by starting things off with a slow, sensual back rub. Other delaying tactics can be brought into play as the festivities progress. Stopping for an occasional cooling-off period works beautifully, but takes discipline. The woman-on-top position is useful because it helps you restrain your urge to start thrusting.

    Torture her (nicely!)

    A more extreme version of extending the foreplay is called “edging,” where you get her right up to the yes, edge, and then back off. You stop before you experience climax, and simmer, then repeat that a few times. It builds up the energy so that you have a more, well, explosive and intense orgasm. Of course, let her know if that’s your plan, otherwise she might just think you’re being mean.

    Surprise her with a quickie

    Arousal is a mysterious and powerful thing, and sometimes the frenzied abandon of a quick and lustful coupling can produce a climax that’s every bit as explosive as a marathon session in the sack. I suspect this has something to do with that centuries-old sexual circuitry I mentioned: Sex without ceremony can tap into deep reservoirs of animal instinct. I personally had one of my strongest orgasms when my partner overpowered me as I innocently came home from work one night — pieces of clothing were scattered between the front door and the bedroom. I’m sure the fact that he was the instigator added fuel to the fire.

    Go straight for her most prized possession

    It’s not really politically correct to admit this, but the truth is that when orgasm is imminent, there’s only one female erogenous zone, and you know where it is. That doesn’t mean women don’t like to be kissed or caressed, but when it comes to orgasm, you can start and end with the vaginal area. It makes sense, therefore, that when women are out for the most lustful orgasms, their positions of choice tend to be those that provide the most direct clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For pure physicality, rear entry is the way to go. There’s more friction, more depth… You can also try woman on top, especially reverse cowgirl.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Up her orgasm odds

    Up her orgasm odds

    Orgasms during sex can be like rainbows: unpredictable and rare – well at least for many women. Ladies rank dead last in their likeliness to climax during their sexual encounters with a partner. In fact, while 75 percent of dudes say they always finish when getting it on, only 33 percent of women could say the same.

    Yeah… I know. So not fair. And this pleasure gap between the sexes has been an issue for as long as women have been faking it (read: a very long time). But there are some explanations. Often, you guys don’t know what you’re doing. A big number of you assume vaginal intercourse alone will get most women off. In reality, however, only 20 to 30 percent of women can regularly hit a high note from penetration alone. The vast majority needs clitoral stimulation.

    Add to the problem that some women are failing to have an open dialogue with you about the way they experience pleasure and orgasms. And what are you left with? A sex life in which you get your happy ending – while maybe thinking you’ve rocked her world too – and she lies there feeling unsatisfied.

    Luckily, bridging the gap is possible – and you will be happy to help, because I know you want your partner to orgasm. Follow these tips and even the scorecard.

    Find her hot zones

    When you ask women how they masturbate, a very small percentage solely put something inside their vagina. But when they’re with a man, they think they should orgasm differently. With this in mind, spend some time running an external vibrator all over her body. Remember where she experiences toe-curling sensations so, later, you can focus on those spots.

    Slow down foreplay

    While you can go from normal to O face in 60 seconds, women’s bodies need more time to build arousal, which involves lubrication of and increased blood flow to her lady parts. When sex lasts longer than 30 minutes – and by sex, I’m counting everything – women are much more likely to orgasm. Pump the brakes by giving her a lengthy back massage, followed by an enticingly slow taking off of her clothes (maybe use your mouth to strip her bare?). Then take your time teasing her.

    Ask her what she wants

    No one can mind-read, so staying silent is the best mistake your partner can make. By not saying anything, she’s training you to do something that doesn’t work for her. Instead, have her guide you with cues like, “Touch me there”, “Harder”, “Faster” or “Why don’t we try this with me on top?” If no words come to mind, have her move your hands when she wants them and show you how it’s done.

    The orgasm trifecta

    The majority of women always or usually orgasm when sex is composed of these three moves…. and penetration is taken off the table.

    Deep kissing

    Stop for a steamy make-out on your front porch before you head upstairs. (#SorryNotSorry, neighbors!)

    Manual stimulation

    Move the fingers pads of your pointer and middle finger in a windshield-wiper motion over her clitoris.

    Oral action

    Think of her clitoris as a clock, and lick the one o’clock spot – a supersensitive part for women.

    Double her pleasure, double your fun

    These positions, adapted from my video courses, give you a free hand to handle her during the deed.

    The very good morning

    Have her lie on her stomach, and slide in from behind with your knees bent and arms supporting your weight at her sides. Move one of your hands down to her clitoris for double the feels.

    The big V

    While she’s on her back, open her legs wide into the air (making a V shape) and grab her ankles while you thrust. Rub her clitoris with one hand or twist her hips up against you.

    Steamy slow jam

    Have her lie on her side with you behind her, in spoon position. Lift her leg and enter her from behind. Rub her clitoris with your fingers or with a vibe.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For more steamy secrets of the female orgasm, check out my video program on the subject – Her Secret Hot Spots. 

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