Most men want to believe they are absolute legends in bed. And while confidence is definitely sexy, being too sure of your moves might prevent you from learning new effective ways to satisfy your lover.

When I have conversations with my male friends about what women want and need in the bedroom, they often become defensive: “Well, that’s not always the case”, they say, trying to convince themselves that their techniques are the best.

But no one is perfect. And it’s OK to admit we still have a lot to learn when it comes to our partner’s pleasure. It’s what makes us better and better each time.

And if you think you’re doing everything right just because you haven’t had any complaints, let me tell you that women rarely complain about your performance because they simply don’t want to hurt your feelings and kill your confidence – especially if they’re in love with you.

But eventually, any woman gets tired of your amateur moves – and if she doesn’t know how to ask for what she really wants, she’ll distance herself without any explanation.

You don’t want that to happen, especially since it’s so easy to prevent this kind of gloomy scenario. Just read on to discover the beginner mistakes almost every man does and to learn how to become a better lover.

You don’t care about foreplay

Do we really have to have this conversation again? It’s 2018 and some men still don’t believe foreplay is the #1 thing a woman needs in order to build her arousal and reach orgasm. It’s very rare for a woman to climax during a “quickie”, even if this kind of experience can be very thrilling. She may love it at times, even without the orgasm, just because it’s fun and sexy, but when it becomes your main move, your sexual connection will start to fade. Learn to slow down by breathing deeply and consciously experiencing every sensation in your body. This will help you to get in sync with her body.

You ejaculate too soon

If you’re having erection problems, it’s not your fault and I’m not trying to make you feel bad about it. I’m always here to help, no matter the situation you’re going through. But if you’re doing it thinking that it’s her “duty” to “keep up with you”, then you’re missing out on the best sex of your life – not to mention your partner. Please note that it’s natural for a man to reach orgasm faster, but that doesn’t mean he can’t achieve control over his own erection in order to give his woman the same bursting pleasure he’s receiving. If you don’t want to lose your lover, learn to slow down and build your lover’s orgasmic sensations.

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Lack of grooming or poor hygiene

If you want her to be nice and shaved down there, make sure you also invest some time in grooming and hygiene. Don’t forget that women are very sensitive to smell, so even if you think you smell fine even without taking a shower, she might not agree – and poor hygiene is the ultimate turnoff. You can easily avoid this embarrassing situation by taking a shower and grooming right before sex – this way you make sure you’re fresh&clean.

You’re TOO silent

While she doesn’t appreciate you screaming harder than her, remaining completely silent and emotionless during sex can be a serious turnoff. It’s awkward and unsexy if I may be blunt. You’ll make your partner feel like she’s not good enough or you don’t like what’s happening between you two. A few dirty words and subtle moans will show her you’re as involved as she is.

Not taking the lead

It’s fine to give her the opportunity to initiate from time to time, but if you never initiate sexy time, it might become a problem. No matter how confident, women LOVE a man who can take control between the sheets because it shows you’re strong and confident, two important qualities when it comes to mating.

If you lack confidence, start trusting your techniques by simply knowing more. Learn more about female pleasure and ask your partner about her fantasies. Simply knowing what she wants can help you become more confident about your moves.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Darling, your bedroom mistakes are completely avoidable, so being able to recognize and fix them is already a huge step to improving your sex life. Stamina problems can definitely crush your confidence, but there’s a way to fix that too. Check out my program Unbreakable Erections to really become the true master of your erection. NOTE: This program was NOT developed by me.

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Your orgasm routine is fairly simple: there’s some making out, some touching and rubbing, a bit of penetration… and then you reach the point of no return – the incredible release of tension, the incredible orgasm!

But when it comes to the female climax, things get a little tricky and confusing. She needs the right state of mind and the right guy. She needs to feel comfortable around you – relaxed, carefree, desired. At some point, her mind will start to wander: did she leave her curling iron plugged in this morning? Damn, everything is ruined. But you’ll start to make out, she’ll remember she really likes you and she’ll convince herself that she definitely unplugged the curling iron. After more touching and soft whispers, the blood finally rushes to her genitals. From now on, the touching and rubbing have to be just right – not too gentle, not too rough – and on the exact right spot. She’s feeling it, that incredible sensation, her heart pounding, toes curling, and then… nothing, she missed it. But why? Everything was going so well…

Well, female orgasm depends on so many aspects – physical and emotional – that it can become pretty complicated to achieve, even when you think you have everything under control. So I’m not surprised by this new research in The Journal of Sexual Medicine which says that men have a difficult time telling when or if women climax during a sexual experience. In the study of nearly 1,700 committed couples, researchers found that 43% of men misperceived how often their partner reached orgasm – and most of the time they overestimated.

This type of confusion happens mainly because you don’t know what she likes or because she doesn’t even know what she likes. BUT most of the time she’s just not aroused enough to build the kind of sexual tension that leads to orgasm.

And if you want to become a master of arousal, you have to understand that it all starts in the brain. Actually, if you want to learn more about her sexy triggers, check out this controversial program called “Elixir of Eros” – you will learn some amazing new strategies on how to make her even more attracted to you. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Now let me show you the 3 arousing techniques that make it so much easier for you to give her the ultimate orgasm every time you initiate sexy play.

Don’t let her focus on the climax   

It may sound counterintuitive, but most women fail to orgasm because they think too much about the end result – the purpose of the operation. And I bet you do the same because, of course, you want her to enjoy that amazing release and see you as the true master of absolute pleasure. Unfortunately, this is not the right mindset for climax.

Play more, worry less. If she finds you relaxed and playful, she will be more willing to just enjoy the moment. So kiss her passionately during penetration, asking her to feel every inch of your tongue, to focus on the way you taste. Or ask her sexy questions during sex, like: “Do you like it when I move like this?” It will help her focus more on how good it feels.

Give her a “breast-to-clit” massage

If you’re not used to setting the atmosphere, maybe it’s time to give her something new. Light up some candles, put on soft music and start to undress her. She’ll expect you to get straight to sex, so don’t give her that yet. Instead, have her lay on the bed, face up, and start massaging her naked body with oil. Don’t focus on her intimate parts yet – teasing is great when it comes to building sexual tension. Massage her neck, her arms, her wrists and the inside of her thighs. Then slowly make your way up to her clitoris. Use two fingers and circular motions to warm it up. When she starts to moan, it’s time to go for her breasts. Cup them with your hands, massage them and then rub her nipples gently. Use one hand to stimulate her clit while softly caressing her nipples with your tongue.

Don’t underestimate oral action

Let me just clarify that women love oral sex. The reason why they’re not as excited as you to get it is because few men do it well. But when done right, oral sex practically guarantees her climax. The problem is that you get bored after two minutes… and she really needs more than that. Stop being worried about not knowing what to do down there and start asking the right questions. Tell her how much you want to please her and then ask what feels good. One little tip: there’s a difference between a poking tongue and a flat tongue. She prefers the flat tongue because it creates a softer touch.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Darling, I’m so happy you’re willing to give back and make her orgasm a priority. The most important thing is not to rush it – set the mood, explore and have fun together. And don’t forget great arousal starts in the brain. If you want to learn more about her sexy triggers, check out this effective program called “Her Secret Hot Spots”

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Having a new year of sexy naughtiness ahead of us feels really exciting! I’m so proud of all the things we’ve learned together in 2018 and I’m looking forward to many more sexual adventures and discoveries in 2019.

Sure, it’s a time when people discuss a lot their resolutions for the New Year, focusing on their diet, exercising more, on changing their jobs and so on. But almost no one talks about sex goals, which to me is a very important conversation. We think sex is something that just happens… but this is the number 1 mistake that leads to boredom and lack of intimate connection.

You might be totally surprised by this, but I can tell you with certainty that there are A LOT of things your woman would like to change about your sex life. There’s always room for improvement and I admire men who are willing to learn new sexy skills and make their hot sessions even hotter.
Read on to discover the sexiest resolutions she has in mind for this year…

1. More sensual kissing

Listen, when they get hot and bothered, women like to kiss. A lot. You might be in a rush to take her clothes off or to reach her intimate area, but what she really wants you to do is focusing more on the kissing.
And I promise you will like it too. Kissing not only makes you hornier, but it also intensifies the intimate connection between you too, making sex more pleasant… and more interesting. Because a happy woman who feels loved and understood is more willing to try new stuff.
So start your hot session with kissing – but not on the lips. Or at least not yet. Make her crave that passionate kiss by pressing your lips against her skin – on her chin, on her neck and shoulders. When her breathing becomes heavy, kiss her lips like you mean it.

2. Never let her clitoris out of the play

When they masturbate, women have an orgasm every single time and without much effort. You know why? Because they focus mostly on the clitoris, the most sensitive spot in her intimate area. Clitoris should be your best ally in giving her the most body shaking orgasms she’s ever had, so never let it out of your hot play. If you’re creative, you will find a way to stimulate it from every position.

And don’t forget to be gentle – most men rub it too hard, causing pain instead of pleasure. Apply medium pressure and move your hand in circular motion.

3. More oral action

Did you know that most women who satisfy their partners orally don’t receive the same treatment back? Most men avoid oral action because they’re unsure of their skills or because they think their woman doesn’t crave it since she never asks for it. But guess what – she does crave it!
A woman gets huge amounts of pleasure from oral sex, especially since her clitoris is the main character here. Try to focus less on fingering and more on stimulating her clit with both your tongue and your lips, experimenting with the amount of pressure she needs to reach maximum pleasure.

4. Change up your routine

If you always have sex in the bedroom, you’re more likely to get bored with your routine… and with each other. A subtle change, like doing it on the balcony or on the kitchen floor might have a great impact on your erotic encounters!

5. Introduce new moves

Even if she seems somewhat hesitant, your woman secretly dreams of trying new things between the sheets. And it’s even more exciting when her man takes control in a subtle way, surprising her senses from a new angle. Don’t be afraid to be a little more dominant and express your desires because novelty is what keeps the erotic sparkle alive!

Blindfold her, keep her hand above her head while you penetrate her deeply or try a from-behind position while slightly pulling her hair. If she becomes wetter, you’re on the right track!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I know your woman will be absolutely pleased by these small but powerful changes. By the way, if you want to up your cunnilingus game and become the expert she dreams of, don’t forget to check out my sexy program called Oral Rapture.

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The first time I had a touch-less orgasm I was watching a hypnosis video made to making me come. I was reluctant at first, as you can imagine, but it wasn’t long before I started twitching and breathing harder. Before I knew it, I was erupting into the most beautiful full-body orgasm I had ever experienced. It might sound impossible or too out there, but I’m not the only woman who can orgasm without touch. Many other women have achieved touch-free orgasms through a surprising number of methods.

And it’s not even the only way that I’ve used to achieve an orgasm without being touched. I can also climax through dirty talk. It’s something about words, tone of voice and the naughty energy exchange that induces immense pleasure. When my partner looks me in the eye and tells me, in slow, measured sentences, with well-timed silences to allow my body to experience his words, exactly what he plans to do with me next, my body goes into an energetic orgasm unlike any other. I start shivering and the orgasm is so strong that I sometimes also squirt.

If you want to learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots. You’ll discover the 5 secret erogenous zones that will drive her wild every night!

But let’s get back to touch-free orgasms, shall we?

Because the naughty fun doesn’t stop here. You can also get your partner turned on to the point of climax by making her anticipate your touch. This technique is called extended orgasm and it feels like a lot of pleasure, contractions and fluttering in your woman’s vagina, and also like electricity flowing through her whole body. Some women say it feels more subtle than a regular orgasm, while others swear it’s just as intense and sensational, if not more.

On the other hand, some touch-free orgasms do involve physical pressure, but it comes from the inside. I, for example, have learned to achieve them by repetitively squeezing my PC muscles. The moments leading up to it feel almost impossibly intense and unbearable, and obviously, all along the way, I end up wanting to touch myself and help myself over the finish line. But I don’t let myself do that, and so that feeling just keeps building… and then eventually, if I concentrate on it enough and keep squeezing, squeezing, squeezing, then the orgasm will eventually come (no pun intended). So all in all, if you have the patience to see it all the way through to the end, then it can be a pretty intense, rewarding, and trippy experience.

I know what you’re thinking right now.

Stories like these may sound made up to the majority of people, especially to the men and women who have only experienced orgasm through direct stimulation of the genitals. But sex experts say they are totally possible. And from my own experience and that of my patients, I can confirm that there are women who can indeed orgasm without touch, just by being talked to, by thinking about sex, etc. It makes sense that this is something that only happens to women, since very much of a woman’s orgasm experience is mental. I’m yet to know of men who can orgasm without touch – I believe this is less common in general, if not downright impossible.

All in all, touch-free orgasms show how deeply you can connect with your partner or maybe, more accurately, how deeply you can make a woman surrender to your words and get lost in pleasure without putting a finger on her. If your connection is strong enough, you can give your woman as many touchless orgasms as your heart desires. It’s an amazing and intimate experience and I strongly advise you to give it a go.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. No matter how strong your erotic connection is, taking it up a notch from time to time is important. Even great erotic lives can become complacent or stagnant if you don’t put the work, so putting some effort into finding new ways to improve your orgasm-giving routine is crucial. For more information on how to give your lady an intense orgasm, check out this program called Her Secret Hot Spots

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I still remember the first shower sex scene I saw in this action movie – it was so passionate, so steamy, so… wet. I fantasized about this kind of sex for days, but then I remembered that every time I had tried it the past I was uncomfortable and really worried about the slippery situation I was in.

But then, of course, I met my husband and got to experiment more and more with. I told him: “Hey, this might sound cheesy, but I fantasize a lot about shower sex – and I want it to be as hot as in the movies”. Luckily, men also love shower sex and it’s not hard to guess why: it gets you out of the bedroom, beats routine and gives a hot view. I mean, water dripping on her amazing breasts and clitoris is a treat you wouldn’t want to miss.

So after many failed experiments, I’ve finally found the best ways to turn shower sex into one of the hottest and most intimate experience for a couple. Bonus: it opens the door to more experimenting!

Read on to find out my sexiest recommendations when it comes to shower action:

Use some kind of fixed support

If you have a bench in the shower, consider yourself lucky and don’t hesitate to use it. It’s great because it gives you balance and helps you avoid slippery accidents. It can also help you come up with more provocative sex positions as the water is dripping on your hungry bodies!

Bring your toys in

Hey, there’s no reason not to use your sex toys outside the bedroom. If they’re waterproof they can really help you increase sensation in all the right spots. Also, the vibrating with the shower head is also a great way to stimulate her clitoris in a different way while kissing her passionately. Sounds like a Fifty Shades of Grey scene and she will totally love it.

Avoid dangerous positions

Sex remains hot as long as it’s safe. Remember that the shower is a very slippery area, so don’t try to have sex in complicated positions as you do in the bedroom – this is not the place for that. Don’t try to hold her up and don’t get on your knees because you can get seriously hurt. Try to always have some kind of fixed support, whether it’s a bench or the wall. I mean doing it against the wall, maybe from behind, is a sexy enough position – you don’t need to risk injury to make it steamy.

Enjoy the view

It’s easy to get carried away, but you NEED to take advantage of this great erotic opportunity completely. What I mean by that is just to take it all in – the steam, her curves, the water dripping, the way her nipples get hard under water. Make sure you also take in the smell of your skin while lathering. Encourage your woman to do the same by saying sexy stuff like “Look at me” or “Your nipples are so hard right now… and so is my cock”. Use all your senses to enjoy this experience while it lasts.

Time to be sensual

What I’ve learned from real life is that rough sex isn’t appropriate for the shower, even if it happens in the movies. To make it hot, it’s best to be sensual rather than dominant – simply because you don’t have enough stability to try kinky stuff and safety always comes first.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Baby, shower sex is as erotic as it sounds, you just have to make a few adjustments to make sure everything goes smoothly. Your lady will appreciate it! Now if you want to discover even more surprising advice on how to make your sex life as exciting as it can be, just check out my sexy program – Oral Rapture!

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Since the Fifty Shades of Grey series madness, more and more women are getting intrigued by domination techniques. There’s something exhilarating in being possessed by a man who desires you badly but also knows exactly what he wants to do to you.

Plus, teasing has always been the sexiest anticipation in the bedroom, and women like it more than you because it helps them become VERY wet and therefore enjoy sex more and build a more explosive climax.

But domination as a concept is still dangerous territory for many women, and the reason is simple: some rough techniques can feel humiliating depending on their past experiences. They like the idea of losing control, but they fear things could get too far which also means ruining the emotional connection you’ve built so far.

Fortunately, orgasm denial is a subtle form of domination even though it’s extremely powerful. It’s mainly based on teasing and anticipation and can increase the intensity of an orgasm by 50% (actually, a lot of women experience a squirting orgasm thanks to this technique even if they never had it before in their lives).

Not only will your woman love to be dominated like this, but she’ll also feel more in love with you thanks to the incredible waves of dopamine her brain releases during orgasm denial. With every tease, she basically falls for you all over again.

What exactly is orgasm denial?

Orgasm denial is when you push your partner toward the edge of her orgasm and right when she’s about to explode you pull back and stop any stimulation, preventing her orgasm from happening. It’s very frustrating, almost torturous, but it can help both of you build the most powerful orgasm you’ve ever experienced.

Remember, you’re in control of her orgasm which means she can’t climax without your permission. If you’ve always wanted to play with power dynamics, this is a great way to start because most women won’t feel offended at all – on the contrary, the adrenaline will increase their pleasure significantly.

Orgasm denial is also known as “Edging” and it has become pretty popular these days with many people saying it is the biggest sex trend of 2019. I couldn’t be happier! I love how it adds a kinky edge to the play without putting the woman in an awkward position.

How to do it like a professional

It’s a bit tricky to do in the sense that it can sound a bit like torture: why would someone want to get so close to the climax only to be thrown back to the reality? I know, it’s hard to resist, but in doing so you’ll find extreme pleasure that almost feels too good to handle. And I think it’s something your lady will become addicted to!

Your goal is to maintain a high level of arousal without reaching release. It might be even harder for you to resist since a woman takes much longer to get close to the climax, but practice will take you there. As a matter of fact, this is also a great way to strengthen your erection!

If you feel you’re not there yet, you can use orgasm denial on your lady during cunnilingus – you’ll simply drive her crazy. You can use your tongue, but also toys, hands, dirty talk… anything that will push her to the edge of ecstasy. When you feel her clitoris pulsating, stop stimulation completely. Then start again.

If you’ve never done it before, just try aiming for 30 minutes of orgasm denial and see how things go. Also, I recommend an open conversation with your partner before attempting this kind of stimulation. I’m sure she’ll love the idea, but she needs to know exactly what will happen and that you’re not being cruel at all – you just want to offer her a higher form of climax. You can even suggest a safe word she can use if she feels uncomfortable.

To have full control over her pleasure and make the scenery even kinkier, I suggest utilizing restraints such as light handcuffs or tying your woman to the bed so that she doesn’t try to force orgasm in any way. You can alternate penetrating and oral to build arousal even faster, but you have to learn when to stop. Don’t worry – practicing will turn you into an expert!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I encourage you to discuss your fantasies with your lady and try as many new and exciting things as possible this year because novelty will spark even more passion between you two! If you’re interested to discover more about female pleasure, I recommend you try my program – Flirting Fingers!

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Knowing more will simply help you to give your partner more of those intense orgasms she craves, so why not learning something new every day?

My experience has thought me that men often assume they know enough: where their partner likes to be touched, how fast she reaches orgasm, her favorite positions and so on.

But when talking to the women, I realize that’s not true at all. Most of the time, women complain about how impatient their partners are, how little they care about foreplay… and often they admit their own faults in this: “I pretend I looove doggie-style so much, just because I know he likes it. The truth is, I actually hate it because I can never reach orgasm while sitting with my butt in the air like that. Now it’s too late to tell him the truth…”, says Claudia, one of my dear friends who wishes to rebuild sexual communication with her husband.

Female orgasm is much more complicated than you would like – trust me, I’m a woman and I wish it would be easier to reach erotic bliss whenever I want to. But female anatomy is just much more… unforgiving if I may. While men are biologically wired to reach orgasm fast and ejaculate in order to procreate, a woman can get pregnant without reaching orgasm, so her body is simply not built for fast climaxing.

But maybe this is a blessing and not a curse. You’ll have to work together in order to make sex greater and this will enrich the sexual experience for both of you. Here are the subtle things you need to know about female orgasm in order to make it possible every single time:

Her self-esteem matters

There is scientific proof that the way a woman feels about her herself and her genitalia is linked to the quality of her orgasms. Every vagina looks different and there is an ideal shape or size, but she still might be worried about how you view her intimate area, especially since you have access to X-rated videos with professionals who look camera-ready.

It’s very important that you tell her how much you like to be inside of her, that she looks sexy and that you looove seeing her naked. Being comfortable around you is the number #1 thing that will help her reach orgasm faster and more often.

Novelty always helps

If she’s having trouble reaching orgasm, maybe you should analyze your erotic routine a bit more: do you always do it in the same positions, at the same hour? Maybe it’s time to switch things up. It will be a lot easier for her to experience orgasm if you incorporate more than just one sensual move. That’s why I always recommend oral sex as foreplay. Building arousal and sexual tension will increase her chances of reaching a bigger, stronger climax.

Orgasm gets better with age

This is one advantage women have over you: their orgasm actually becomes more intense as they age. As your partner gets older, the quality and frequency of orgasms can improve – a study showed that 61 percent of women ages 18 to 24 experienced orgasm the last time they had sex, 65 percent of women in their 30s did, and about 70 percent of women in their 40s and 50s did.

Older women are more experienced and more confident in the bedroom. They’ve learned what they like and which are the key moves to a great climax. Another important aspect is being in a long-term relationship: when a woman truly trusts her partner, she can relax and truly enjoy the erotic journey.

It’s important to find her G-spot

While you might be skeptical about this elusive spot, you need to know that it’s real and it will help your woman experience longer and stronger orgasms. Its location may be slightly different in all women, but most often it’s found inside the vagina and is characterized by a “rougher” texture. It requires deeper penetration in order to be stimulated, but I recommend finger play at first – you need to be certain of its location and type of stimulation it needs in order to give her powerfriul sensations. Just experiment together when you’re relaxed and in the mood for sexy play.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I want you to learn that great sex is those little details most men overlook. To be a great lover is to pay attention to all her triggers. If you want to learn more precious information about her G-spot, I recommend you check-out my program on the matter – G-spot Orgasms Made Easy.

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