Author: Fidan

  • 5 erogenous zones you are ignoring and how to touch them

    5 erogenous zones you are ignoring and how to touch them

    It’s easy to assume that you know everything about her erogenous areas and that you’ve explored them all to the fullest… But the truth is you still have a lot to learn, and that’s one thing you should be happy about!

    When I revealed to my husband that I would like him to touch me in some areas he usually neglects, he was surprised. He thought he already knew my body completely and there was no centimeter that he had not kissed yet. And yet, I have convinced him to explore more… and this has helped us to enrich our intimate experiences.

    Surely you know how sensitive her nipples or clitoris are and she knows which moves make you tremble when she touches your penis. But did you know that basically, her entire body is a huge erogenous zone? There are countless nerve endings all up and down her body that you probably ignore completely, not knowing what you could achieve with a simple touch or kiss.

    Trust me, knowing all of her erogenous zones will simply change everything about your sex life, helping you achieve greater orgasms and intimacy. While it’s indeed very important to know how to touch her nipples and clitoris, when you throw a few of these genius moves into the mix, your lady won’t know what hit her (in the best way possible).

    Nipples… Yours too

    Okay, you might be really surprised right now – weren’t we talking about her? Still, I think it’s very important for both of you to know that her nipples are not the only ones to experience magical orgasms – yours are just as capable. Unfortunately, nipple stimulation is uncomfortable for most men because it can trigger feelings of vulnerability – and no man wants to feel vulnerable during sex. And because it’s an area associated with female pleasure, you’ll probably feel less masculine if you accept this position. But if you give yourself permission to let go of prejudices and just feel, you’ll be blown away by how much more pleasure you are able to experience. And doing so with your partner will bring you even closer.

     If you’re willing to try this, let your partner gently rub your nipples and draw circles around them with her tongue. Just experiment with all kinds of touches and kisses and see where this leads.

    Her feet

    So maybe you don’t have a foot fetish – but still, you need to know that this area is much more powerful than you imagine. It’s pure science and it has to do with nerve endings, of course. The nerves in the feet correspond to the homunculus in the brain, and the genitals are located next to the feet on this sensory strip in the brain. This means that a foot massage right before sex could really help her to get in the mood and feel more pleasure than usual.

    Her face

    Kissing her face is a very romantic gesture and it increases intimacy, but this goes beyond innocent kissing. Having a beard, you know how good it feels to scratch it sometimes. Well, that’s because the face is also packed with nerve endings that increase arousal when stimulated. I suggest you experiment with really light, feathery strokes during foreplay – she’ll be taken by surprise and I can guarantee no other man has ever treated her face like a sexual organ before.

    Her inner thigh

    It’s a very sexy area but it can be overlooked during sex because it’s a ticklish spot. All you need is patience – I promise you it will be worth it. I appreciate lovers who take their time to experiment with touch and wait for their partner’s response. This is how you learn to really satisfy your woman both physically and emotionally. Because she will notice and appreciate your effort.

    To avoid a tickle response, I suggest you try firmer touches and kisses. After she gets used to these, she will also appreciate more subtle and delicate moves.

    Her breasts

    It’s an obvious one, but I’m talking about the whole boob area rather than just the nipple. It’s important for you to remember that her breasts have many sides and that you should actually avoid the nipple until she’s really aroused. To make boob action more exciting than ever, try touching the undersides of her breasts, or running your tongue along the inside of her cleavage. You can tease the nipple but don’t touch it yet – if she’s properly aroused, she’ll experience more pleasure when you get to the main attraction.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S.: Like I always say, every woman is different, so a great sexual exercise is to discover together your hidden erogenous zones. It’s a truly erotic journey that will bring you closer than ever. If you want to discover more advanced info on your partner’s sensual triggers, check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots!

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  • 5 essential steps to give her intense breast orgasms

    Breast orgasms are real and 29% of the women who participated in a study made just a few years ago confirm this exciting theory. The explanation is pretty simple: touching her nipple triggers the same area of the brain as touching her clitoris does. So, when you play with her boobs not only you make her seriously WET, but you can also build sexual tension until she reaches climax – no penetration needed.

    Still, your partner might be skeptical about this one. Women who have never had a breast orgasm don’t believe it’s possible. And as the study shows, less than half experience it. Well, I want every woman to be able to enjoy this fascinating experience, and I want you to help me make it possible.

    Nipple orgasm hasn’t happened to your lady yet because neither of you has tried enough. Sure, every couple engages in some boob-play activity, but you probably treat it as foreplay to penetration. Which is great – but it has the potential to become much more than that. The word that comes to my mind is “orgasmic”.

    If you truly want to get serious about nipple play, I recommend this HOT program called “Boobgasms” – it offers step-by-step breast pleasuring techniques women crave. You’ll become a master in no time!

    Now let’s talk about the essential steps of building breast arousal and making that breast-gasm as real as it can be.

    Create a sensual atmosphere

    Boobs are hot. And amazing. And beautiful. So set the scene for an experience that makes your woman feel sexy and desired instead of awkward and vulnerable. While many women love their breasts, others have a zillion of concerns related to size, shape, nipple aesthetics, and so on. Help her get her mind off that.

    Light up some candles, wear a sexy masculine perfume, put on some sensual music she likes (I enjoy Sade). Believe it or not, these little details can make or break your orgasmic boob session. Also, make sure to incorporate some massage oil as well. You will need it later on.

    Breathe together

    While the music plays in the background, unbutton her shirt and kiss her gently. Now she’s topless. Put your hands on her chest and do some breathing exercises together. Breathe in, breathe out and breathe deeply. It might sound weird, but it will be very pleasing as she’ll become incredibly relaxed – which makes it possible for her to reach breast climax.

    Tease her. A LOT.

    The secret to breast orgasm is building sexual tension as much as you can. Most women who have experienced it say they need at least 20 minutes of boob play in order to reach climax. So, you NEED to take your time.

    Grab that oil I mentioned earlier (could be raw coconut oil as it smells delicious) and put some between her boobs and on her stomach. Her belly area is extremely sensitive and somehow connected to her genitals (especially the belly button). Now start massaging her stomach using gentle moves, sensually reaching her rib cage and making your way between her breasts. She’ll want you to touch her breasts at this point (you’ll want that too), but don’t do it. You want to tease her as much as you can until you make her wet – and until her nipples get HARD. By not touching the area she wants you to touch the most, you create some serious sexual tension. Featherlike touches and even sensual kisses on the neck (while she can smell your sexy perfume) will make her moan and beg you to reach the hot spot.

    You can touch her breasts now

    After more than 10 minutes of teasing, you can finally touch her “girls”. First, use your index finger to slowly circle her breasts. Then start massaging them without being rough and without touching her nipples. This is a good strategy of building anticipation and making her breasts CRAVE that intense stimulation. Even if she begs for more, don’t give it to her yet.

    After a few minutes, it’s time to get to nipple arousal. You now have access to the entire boob, but don’t be too generous just yet. Touch her nipples gently, maintaining a sexy level of tease. Explore the entire boob area with patience, like an experimented fanatic. She’ll love it!

    Pinch & Roll

    At this point, her entire boob is aroused, which means you can get to heavy business without creating discomfort – and by heavy business, I mean pinching. Pinch her nipples firmly at the root to release oxytocin, that feel-good hormone which increases arousal and makes her feel closer to you. Alternate soft pinching with hard pinching and then get to the orgasmic move: start rolling the nipple between your thumb and your index finger. Alternate pressure from lighter to very strong until she reaches orgasm.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S.: Boob play is extremely fun and pleasurable for your lady if you know how to take your time and build anticipation. If you want to learn more in-depth techniques on breast orgasm, I recommend you check out this program called “Boobgasms”. It contains precious information on how to prepare your lady for sexy HOT boob action and how to pleasure her twins the way she wants you to.

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  • When do women experience the most pleasure in bed?

    When do women experience the most pleasure in bed?

    Over the years, researchers have tried to demystify women’s orgasms. One of the inferences from a plethora of studies conducted across the world is that no single, fail-safe factor can guarantee deeply erotic orgasms.

    Instead, a 2017 study says there are a host of factors that help women attain the Big ‘O’; these include frequent oral sex sessions, sex marathons, a fulfilling relationship, compliments from one’s partner, clear communication from both partners regarding their sexual desires and fantasies, and stimulating conversations before and during sex.

    So, how do we essentially deconstruct the female orgasm? First, we need to know what can possibly stop women from having orgasms. Research shows that several factors can be inhibiting in nature. A 2013 study, The Faking Orgasm Scale for Women: Psychometric Properties, published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, says that around 75-90 per cent of women do not “consistently orgasm” during sex with a partner, while around 5-10 per cent do not orgasm at all. A lack of an open communication about one’s desires and fears seems to be a common obstacle.

    In a 2017 study, Women’s Orgasm Obstacles: A Qualitative Study, researchers say, “…inability to talk about sexual activities with a spouse can be observed in women with orgasm problems.” The researchers further say that psychological factors such as introversion, emotional instability, not being adventurous, and sexual myths can be veritable hindrances too.

    Now onto what’s stopping your girl from climaxing and what you can do about it.

    Open communication

    Ask any sexologist and he or she will say that open communication between partners is the best way to resolve issues or overcome hurdles. And I agree: the key to helping women shed inhibitions about sex is communication. It’s a simple four-letter word—talk. Engage your partner in conversations about sexual likes and dislikes. It also ensures a catharsis of sorts, since with frank discussions, many hurdles can be crossed.

    Banish taboos

    In the study The Faking Orgasm Scale for Women: Psychometric Properties, researchers say that sexual myths or preconceived notions about sexual activities can have an impact too. For instance, a lot of men still feel that if women initiate sex, they might be more ‘experienced’ from other encounters before them, which is not looked upon well. Women, too, often fall for the age-old belief that initiating sex is un-feminine. Needless to say, these are preconceived notions. So, banish such outdated ideas; don’t be afraid of initiating sex and being in control of your pleasure.

    Have her masturbate more

    Believe it or not, masturbation can have a wholesome and long-lasting effect on a woman’s sex life. Experts say that masturbation can help women gain confidence about their bodies. It’s time women stop considering it a taboo. Female masturbation seems to be more hushed up than male masturbation. This again goes back to the idea that women do not know anything about their bodies, and sexual desires need to be inculcated in women through somebody else. Masturbation is essential for women because they know what pleases them the most. And that self-knowledge can lead to satisfying orgasms.

    Touchy-feely

    Focusing on the pivotal role played by the clitoris, a recent study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy tried to assess how heterosexual women liked their genitals to be touched and how it can help them achieve an orgasm. Essentially, the team of researchers wanted to find out precisely what types of genital touch made straight women climax. They looked at the points where the women polled liked to be touched, preferred intensity of pressure, style of motion (up-and-down or circular) and so on.

    Interestingly, it was seen that most of the women (81.7 per cent) enjoyed “rhythmic” touching. Other popular patterns included a circular rubbing of clitoris (78.3 per cent), a varying intensity of pressure (75.8 per cent) and any kind of touch that delays pleasure (73.6 per cent). Sexologists say that touch is, of course, the language of lovemaking. The clitoris or the ‘love button’ is the female version of the head of penis. It is the site of the greatest nerve concentration and sexual pleasure. In some women, the clitoris becomes noticeably erect when excited and peeks out from under the clitoral hood formed by the joining of the inner vaginal lips. The clitoral hood is women’s version of ‘foreskin’; rubbing or caressing it gives rise to immense erotic pleasure as the area is highly vascular and increased lubrication causes secretions. The clit should be treated to predominantly gentle strokes; it shouldn’t be pinched or bitten or poked as that can cause hurt. A close but slightly oblique stimulation can be ensured by fingers, tongue, or vibrator on either side and on the clitoral hood.

    Practice edging

    It’s kind of a mini edge-of-the-seat thriller, with a delayed climax, during lovemaking! To put it simply, edging is all about controlling your partner’s orgasm. Try to help her reach a climactic point, then bring her back from that brink, and start all over again. Repeat this till she cannot hold it anymore and she has to absolutely orgasm, no matter what! Trust me, this ensures bigger, better orgasms. For starters, you can try practicing this together: masturbate in each other’s presence, and do not allow each other to climax. It’s fun. Plus, that way, you can be familiar with how your partner orgasms and how far you can go when you control it. So, what are you waiting for? Go, get busy!

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • What are multiple orgasms and can they be achieved?

    What are multiple orgasms and can they be achieved?

    Multiple orgasms are like the G Sport and squirting: some people think they’re mythical things that simply do not exist in real life and definitely don’t happen in real life bedrooms. Other people are not sure exactly what they mean and what they entail: do multiples refer to having an orgasm right after another or to experience orgasm several times during the same sexual experience? If you are not too sure about multiple orgasms, this article will tell you everything you need to know!

    And if you’re looking for even more information and advice on achieving multiples, check out my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts and I’ll teach you what spots to aim for during penetration, particularly if you want to send your lover over the edge and help her squirt! Stimulating the right spots during penetration can greatly intensify the orgasmic experience. It’s never too late to do sharpen your bedroom skills… specifically, your orgasm-producing skills.

    WHAT ARE THE MULTIPLE ORGASMS?

    The opinions on this matter are extremely divided. Some specialists believe that multiple orgasms occur when a woman has more than one orgasm during the same sexual act, while others claim they have to take place immediately one after the other.

    As with all things related to sex, the answer to this particular question regarding multiple orgasms is difficult in more ways than one. Why? Because multiples are so damn elusive! Some women never have more than one orgasm, and others do not realize they are experiencing multiples because they do not know exactly what this means or how it’s supposed to feel.

    Moreover, as I have shown you above, there is no exact definition of this carnal “phenomenon”. However, according to a study of 4,400 women, 75% of them claim they can experience multiple orgasms. Other studies conducted in the UK have shown that between 15% and 76% of women may have multiple orgasms.

    HOW CAN YOU GIVE YOUR PARTNER A MULTIPLE ORGASM?

    As you probably expected, there is no exact recipe that you can follow because every woman is different. However, specialists agree that you need to keep in mind the following things:

    Never – and I mean never – skimp on foreplay. The more excited and aroused your partner is, the higher her chances of reaching her orgasm, be it of the ordinary, singular kind or multiple. So don’t throw yourself at her – light touches and gentle teasing should be enough to get her juices flowing. Plus, when aiming for multiple orgasms it is often more effective for a woman to have her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation – this is best achieved with a vibrator or through oral or manual action.

    Do not focus exclusively on making her come more than once. When you have sex, you have to focus on feeling good all the time, and this means doing what you want and how you want it. If you focus too much on orgasm per se, you will not be able to enjoy the whole experience and if you don’t enjoy it, your partner won’t enjoy it either.

    Continue excitement after the first orgasm. After your partner has an orgasm, everything can feel overwhelming: her clitoris most likely is more sensitive and her entire body will feel more worn out. In this case, you should try to excite her in other ways and take things slow: set the mood and enjoy plenty of foreplay to get her ready for a second run at it: “play” with her breasts, kiss the rest of her body and only then return to the genital area.

    Have your partner use her muscles to the maximum. Kegel exercises are a great way to prolong or intensify a woman’s orgasms – and to make them come faster and easier, which in turn leads to easier access to multiple orgasms.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • How to Pleasure a Woman

    Do all your sexual encounters end with an explosive orgasm for the both of you or does your partner rarely enjoy a “fireworks” finale?

    Statistics say that only 30% of women “benefit” from a guaranteed orgasm at the end of sexual intercourse. The remaining 70% sigh enviously and though they enjoy the emotion-rich carnal experiences they share with their partners, they remain lacking in the orgasm department. 

    Learning how to pleasure a woman can help ensure that your partner receives the satisfaction she craves from sexual encounters. The good news is that while women respond differently to various types of stimulation, there’s no shortage of erogenous zones to focus on or techniques to try. This means that with an adventurous and creative approach and a willingness to listen and learn, you’ll have no trouble learning how to make a girl cum fast.

    Read on and learn how to crown every love party with benevolent orgasms for your lady as well.

    And for more juicy info on getting it on and finishing it off with a loud bang, check out this program, Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts, which tackles the mythical beast that is the female ejaculation. It is all laid out for you, completely step-by-step. You will gain sexual power unlike anything else you have yet experienced and you will manage to give your woman soul-tingling pleasure so intense she will want to have you inside of her every chance she has. 

    Ways to Pleasure a Woman

    Whether you’re playing the field with several different partners or you’re researching “how to make my wife cum,” there are many ways to reach your goal. But it’s important to remember that each woman is unique, and what turns one woman on won’t work for all women. 

    Here are several methods of stimulation that may tickle her fancy.

    Manual

    Chances are that in your younger years, you’ve tried to make a woman cum with nothing but your fingers, and perhaps you both ended up disappointed. However, with the right fingering technique, you can use just your hands to bring her to climax. Take your time, build up the pleasure, and tease her till she’s begging for more. The most helpful tip I can give on how to make a woman cum with only your hands is to read the signs. If she’s moaning in pleasure in response to your movements, you’re getting it right. 

    Oral

    The vast majority of men enjoy oral sex, so why wouldn’t women? When it comes to how to make a woman orgasm, oral stimulation is one of the best ways to do it. However, it’s important to note that some women might feel self-conscious about the incredibly personal and intimate nature of oral sex. Be sure to talk to your partner about whether she feels comfortable about you going down on her.  

    Clitoral

    This is the #1 tip on this list, as the vast majority of women don’t have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. So when learning how to pleasure a woman, spend plenty of time exploring how to make every tickle, caress, kiss, lick, and suck count. While clitoral stimulation with your fingers is all well and good, I highly recommend using your tongue too. There are lots of cunninglingus tips out there to help you become a pro. Just remember, it’s not a button on an Xbox controller — mashing it mindlessly can be uncomfortable, to say the least.

    Breast Massage

    When learning how to pleasure a woman, you don’t want to neglect any erogenous zones. It’s not uncommon to try a quick breast squeeze or light licking and nipping at the start of foreplay, but if you ignore her breasts for the remainder of your sexcapade, you’re missing a real opportunity. Breast play can enhance her pleasure throughout and make her orgasm unforgettable. In fact, with the right technique, you may even achieve the elusive boobgasm! 

    Sexual Penetration

    So this one is obvious, but because it’s so much fun I couldn’t leave it off the list. However, it’s important to note that most women don’t have an orgasm from sexual penetration alone. Making her cum during sex should include both penetration and clitoral or G spot stimulation. But it’s not just about the actual physical contact, it’s also very much about the position you choose. Try a variety of positions to keep things interesting or check out my blog on the best positions to make a woman cum. Opt for a little naughty doggy style, passionate missionary, or experiment with some of the more adventurous positions that may or may not end up with one of you hanging upside down! 

    G-Spot Stimulation

    When it comes to how to make a woman climax, few techniques are trickier to master than the G-spot orgasm. It can be difficult to find but to give you a good starting point, you can usually find the G spot about 3–5 inches inside the anterior vaginal wall. When this spot becomes engorged, it can cause intense pleasure for some women. In others, it can result in uncomfortable pressure. If she hasn’t tried it yet, it’s definitely worth exploring as it can exponentially enhance an orgasm — especially when paired with clitoral stimulation.

    How to Pleasure a Woman: Tips for Success

    FOREPLAY – INDISPENSABLE JEWEL

    The more you know your partners body and its reactions to orgasm, the easier it will be to know exactly where to … insist. Once you get in bed with your partner, do not rush to get into the action too quickly and let her body “dictate” the rhythm.

    Since for so many women foreplay is decisive in getting an orgasm, why are you deliberately choosing to ignore a more-than-pleasant stage of sex? Foreplay is important to the extent that the woman manages to emotionally load certain stimuli. Sexual excitement can be determined by different stimuli that have sexual significance for each individual woman, depending on experience and circumstances. Any stimulation becomes effective only if it is associated with a certain emotional load. In women, perception refers primarily to the affective component of the stimulus and then to the quality of the vaginal response.

    The difference between women who climax and those who do not have orgasms is given by the ability of the first ones to perceive the genital and extra-genital changes produced by sexual arousal faster and more efficiently.

    THE MOST PRIZED EROGENOUS ZONE

    Beware – erogenous zones differ from person to person, but through “in-depth study” and work … you can manually spot your partners!

    Practice deciphering her body clues and make sure you’re leaving your inhibitions aside. Pay attention to any gesture and touch and how her body responds to each and one of them – no area of the body should be “wasted” or overlook, so take your sweet time.

    In addition, the brain is the one that gives sexual significance to a particular touch, not only the touch in itself, but also who you are doing it with, when and for what purpose. So no cutting corners! Stimulate the neck, the inner part of her thighs, the lumbar area and, why not, the lobes of the ears. 

    IMAGINATION – PLEASURE ADJUSTMENT ACCOMPLICE

    All sexual positions that allow penis contact with the anterior vaginal wall could favor stimulation of the G point. Those who “promise” almost guaranteed orgasms are girl on top or doggy style, to which you can obviously add different variations. But imagination is one of the most powerful sexual tools one possesses. The brain has the ability to create sexual arousal without any external excitement. Sexual fantasies are really exciting and absolutely necessary. 

    So, put your mind to work and create intimate scenarios with you and your lover as protagonists. And if in fantasy everything is allowed, why not follow this thread in real life as well? There is a correlation between the richness of sexual fantasy content and the level of sexual activity, but also between personality and sexual fantasies. 

    TRICKS THAT SET HER ON FIRE 

    Is your partner more on the prudish side? Surprise her with new sexual positions or “invite” small “actors” to spice up the atmosphere of those moments. What exactly are we talking about? Sex toys are no longer a taboo subject or shameful subjects.

    First, have your partner move into reverse cowgirl position. Rotating 180 degrees gives you the sexiest view and the back wall of her vagina will be stimulated to the maximum. At the same time, she can … gently caress her clitoris with a vibrator to double the pleasure. Or why not choose a special dildo for anal stimulation, which you can use on her to take her to heaven in terms of sexual pleasure? The world is your oyster!

    There’s a lot you can do with your hands, mouth, and penis to pleasure a woman, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have other tools at your disposal. Sex toys — including dildos, vibrators, nipple clamps, clit stimulators, blindfolds, and handcuffs — can be gateways to fun and exciting sex play. Who knows, you may both find a brand new fantasy! 

    Set the Mood

    If you want to know how to arouse a woman, start by creating conditions conducive to safety, comfort, and pleasure. You don’t necessarily need candles and a bottle of bubbly, but soft lighting, sexy music, and a comfortable area like a bed or couch by the fireplace certainly can’t hurt. Even if you decide to take risks with where you choose to have sex, make sure the location feels safe for her.

    Pay Attention to Her Needs

    Not every woman is ready to relax into your touch the minute her clothes are on the floor. Discovering how to pleasure a woman starts with understanding what she needs to feel comfortable and intimate, whether it’s spending time together beforehand, getting a sexy massage, or spending some time doing some old-school making out and heavy petting. On the other hand, if she’s ready to jump your bones immediately, by all means lean into that too! 

    Take Your Time

    Some women are quick to reach the finish line, but it’s usually better to treat pleasuring a woman as a marathon, not a sprint. The best approach for how to make her orgasm is to go slow and wait for her to cue you to pick up the pace. So pay close attention to her words, movements, and sounds — these are clear indicators of what she wants you to do next. 

    Keep an Open Dialogue

    You might think it would kill the mood to ask her what she wants, how she feels, or if she enjoys something, but some women may be nervous or embarrassed to voice their intimate desires — especially in the middle of the act. As such, it’s always smart to have a conversation before engaging in sexual activities to make sure both parties are feeling comfortable and safe. 

    If you want to know how to make a girl finish, the best way is to ask her — and keep asking! After all, she might even discover new things she enjoys as you explore her body. Soon, you may feel confident enough in how to make her cum that you can freestyle, but asking for her input and using sexy pillow talk to tell her what you’re going to do is a great way to make her feel safe and comfortable sharing her deepest desires.

     

    Hot kisses, 

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Come again – Your three-step orgasm plan

    Come again – Your three-step orgasm plan

    Performance anxiety is something that only happens to people with penises, right? Incorrect. It’s about time you stopped putting the blocks on getting your rocks off.

    Your tongue is on her clitoris. It knows its way around her vulva like David Attenborough knows his chimpanzees, and nerve endings are firing. So why hasn’t she come yet? You haven’t been counting the minutes, but if you were working your way through the alphabet, you suspect you’d be reaching Q by now – M, at the very least. She casts her eyes downwards, a reassuring glance that says, ‘I’ll come soon, I swear.’

    Surfing a wave of pleasure isn’t easy for a woman, when she’s wondering when her last wax was, how badly her partner’s jaw must be aching and what the view is really like down there. It’s female performance anxiety (FPA), anxiety about coming, or not being able to come. The anxiety trigger could be that she’s fretting about taking too long to climax, whether she’s doing sex ‘right’, or a lingering issue with her partner.

    Throw into the mix decades of internalized misogyny that’s left a woman convinced her bits are best left covered up, and it’s no wonder she’s freaking out about the proximity of someone else’s face to your clitoris. The weight of those myths dissociates women from the pleasure they’re having. An off switch snaps, and orgasmic potential vanishes.

    What’s responsible for her pleasure going up in a puff of smoke is that old killjoy cortisol. Released when you feel anxious, cortisol suppresses the feel-good brain chemicals normally activated during arousal. And even if you go through the right motions, so to speak, a mind in fight-or-flight mode stops registering erotic sensations in the body. Orgasmic anxiety makes a woman unable to stay focused on pleasure because she’s constantly distracted by random thoughts. She feels like she’s watching herself doing it, rather than enjoying doing it. Anxiety is then cemented when her default reaction to an AWOL orgasm is to point the finger back at herself.

    The first step to overcoming performance anxiety is to quit thinking it’s only valid when it happens to men. This is a common gender bias. Because there isn’t an overt erection for women, they can’t see that the arousal system isn’t working. But know that it makes total sense that her emotions inhibit arousal. But there’s a way to fix it and help her experience really powerful orgasms.

    And if you want to know more about how to make your woman scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you, check out this program, Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts. You’ll learn 3 totally exciting and hot techniques to make her squirting and go wild with passion.

    Step 1. Drop a sense

    If you find yourself in a threesome with you, your partner and anxiety (a clear sign that FPA is robbing your partner of a good time is quick and shallow breathing when she’s nowhere near climax), slow things down. Actively turn her attention to inhaling and exhaling, deeply and slowly, as she would when meditating. This diffuses tension and refocuses her mind on sensations over thoughts. I also recommend activating slo-mo mode on shenanigans. It’s common to feel like you have bases to tick off, but staying in “make-out mode” (that’s reaching orgasm or a high state of arousal without intercourse – use your imagination) and noticing what her body does when you slow down can be helpful. Also, forget the lights-off stigma and purposefully have sex in the dark or wearing a blindfold. When you turn off one sense, the others are magnified. That makes her zone in on every titillating touch, rather than zone out.

    Step 2. Practice relaxation

    Sexual excitement and sexual nervousness are similar. The difference is that when a woman is excited, she’s also a little bit relaxed, breathing fully and able to stay present; when she’s afraid, she tenses up around that excitement, her breathing constricts and she starts projecting into the future. Example: ‘We could go at this until next Tuesday and I still wouldn’t come.’ Interestingly, you can use your surroundings to get that climax clairvoyant back on side. A whiff of valerian root oil can lower frantic activity by boosting her levels of a Zen-promoting neurotransmitter called gamma amino butyric acid (not one to try to spell mid-shag). Or upgrade on your Ikea tea lights and burn a lavender scented massage candle. They melt at a lower temperature and turn into oil – meaning they relax her via their scent and when brushed on to her body as an ahh-that-feels-goooood massage balm.

    Step 3. Come round to it

    If her mind still won’t STFU, identify which orgasm-impeding anxieties you can actually deal with. The fear of getting an STI or an unwanted pregnancy, for example, can be addressed by finding contraceptive methods that work for you. Similarly, if it’s technique that’s missing the spot(s), expand bedroom dialogue beyond the sheepish, ‘Er, did you come?’ Keep communication flowing like a fine Sauvignon. Gentle directives like ‘keep going’ and ‘right there’ can go a long way. Most importantly, accept that there are some in-bed emotions that she just has to make peace with. Such as? Well, take body image. Hating on her naked parts can be powerful enough to screw with her arousal to the point where she avoids sex altogether. The best way to do that? Noticing an anxiety is there, but then setting it aside rather than blasting it on repeat like an advert jingle. This calms the emotion down, so she can still be present to the physical experience.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For a woman, pleasure is an equation with too many unknown variables, so to silence all of them and really help her let loose and lose herself in the ecstasy, you need to pull out the big guns. And by big guns I mean powerful thrusting techniques. Learn all about them by checking this program – Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts

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  • Could orgasm anxiety be holding her back?

    Sex not as much fun any more because she’s worried if she’s doing it right… or if you’re liking it enough? Don’t let such these fears of hers play spoilsport.

    When it comes to sex, performance anxiety has pretty much always been labelled a guy thing. (‘Dude, can you get it up, keep it up, and rock her world?’). It is a lot of pressure. But the truth is, women suffer from similar bedroom hang-ups. In fact, according recent studies, female performance anxiety, or FPA, has always existed. And it can mess with desire, and rob women of satisfying sexual experiences.

    FPA manifests from the same place as men’s—it’s the fear of not being good enough. Common causes include a woman’s worries about what she looks like naked, what she smells or tastes like ‘down there’, whether she’s having sex ‘right’, and if she’s pleasing her partner. Then there’s the biggie: stressing about taking too long to climax or whether she will O at all. Research shows that this last trepidation, called orgasm anxiety or pre-orgasmia, is a top FPA concern. Some women have thoughts like, ‘Can I get there? Is my partner getting bored?’ Others have a fear of actually orgasming. They worry that they’ll look ridiculous, and they can’t let their guard down.

    When she’s anxious, she’s really at war with her ability to experience pleasure. That’s because her brain is in fight-or-flight mode, during which its sole concern is to get rid of what’s nagging her. So even if what you’re doing should feel amazing, her mind can’t register the erotic sensations. Don’t despair, though. You can take these steps to help quell FPA and find bliss.

    And if you’re looking for more information on how to give your woman seismic-scale orgasms, check out this program by my friend Lloyd Lester: Unstoppable Orgasms sheds light on how to give a woman – any woman – unique pleasure experiences. His program is the bedroom equivalent of a magical tool that helps you give faster, more intense orgasms to your partner.

    1. TELL HER TO TOUCH HERSELF Not only can solo sex help with everyday stress (by releasing feel-good chemicals throughout her body), it can also be a great way for a woman to learn the moves that satisfy her, which she can then relay to her partner. Ask her to try masturbating without the expectation of orgasm. She should take climax completely off the table, and turn her focus toward pleasurable sensations and how she feels. When she experiments and figures out what turns her on, you’re both winners.

    2. SILENCE NEGGY THOUGHTS Hating on your naked bod can be powerful enough to screw with your arousal and make you avoid sex altogether, all recent studies say this, especially when it comes to women (but men can be afflicted by this as well). So first, don’t forget to remind her that being confident in herself is the biggest turn-on. She should tap into her hot goddess vibes during the deed, engage in some sensory play by turning off the lights or blindfolding herself. When you turn off one of your senses, the others are magnified. And that can make you zone in on every titillating touch.

    3. RELAX WITH SCENTS If her mind still won’t shut up, natural essential oils could help create a calmer, sexier energy. Try giving her a whiff of valerian root oil, an herb that can lower frantic brain activity. (It does this by boosting the amount of a Zen-promoting neurotransmitter called gamma amino butyric acid.) Or you can burn a lavender scented massage candle that doubles as a relaxant and a sultry foreplay treat.

    4. USE YOUR WORDS ‘Did you come?’ is probably the most prevalent question asked in bedrooms by men, and that’s tragic. Both sex and communication shouldn’t stop or be measured by an orgasm alone. Work on having an ongoing dialogue throughout your sex session. Give each other useful directives such as ‘Harder’, ‘Keep going’, ‘Right there’, or ‘I love it when you do this…’.

    5. TELL HER TO WATCH HER BREATH A clear sign FPA is robbing your partner of a great time in the sack: quick and shallow breathing when she’s nowhere near climax. If this happens, she should actively turn her attention to inhaling and exhaling deeply and slowly—just like she would when meditating. This will release tension and get her back to feeling all the satisfaction.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Learning how to make a woman orgasm is basically a rite of passage for men all over the world. And certainly not as simple as porn and movie sex scenes would have you think. To give your lady a climactic experience unlike any she’s ever had, check out this program – Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts. You will learn how to make her crumble to her feet in ecstasy.

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  • Top tips to master deep penetration

    Top tips to master deep penetration

    She loves deep penetration just as much as you do, but you need to take into account that real life sex is very different from porn sex. So when it comes to deep thrusting, she still desires an intimate experience, not just mechanical hardcore moves.

    Another fact you should consider: even if you’ve been trained by previous partners to avoid deep penetration, it doesn’t mean your current lover also hates it. Some women experience pain or even bleeding during deep thrusting, so they become hesitant of trying it again. But these negative aspects of it come from making some serious mistakes you will NEVER do – because I’m here to guide you.

    So as usual, communication is key. Stop presuming what she wants and start experimenting with deep penetration – she probably thinks about it all the time, even if she never says anything. Remember, women watch porn as well.

    Why does deep penetration feel so good for her?

    First of all, it’s VERY erotic. Any woman would get seriously turned on at the sight of her lover’s penis filling her vagina completely. Plus, the powerful movements flatter your masculinity and make her see you as a sex God.

    Second of all, you need to know that deep into her vagina there are two very sensitive spots that you may be able to stimulate if you venture into the art of deep thrusting. One of them is the A-spot, which is located along the front wall of the vagina, near the cervix. A lot of women achieve powerful orgasms when this particular spot is stimulated during deep penetration.

    The second “magical spot” is located along the back wall of the vaginal canal, close to the anal wall.

    Are you big enough down there?

    As every man out there, you probably believe you need to have a huge penis in order to enjoy deep penetration with your lover and reach all of those magical spots. The truth is, it doesn’t matter how big your penis is but what you do with it. There are a lot of ways you can make your woman feel so filled by your penis that she couldn’t imagine wanting another man inside her – if you want to discover them, check-out my amazingly hot program called “Bigger and Deeper”!

    Help your lady enjoy deep penetration and experience powerful orgasms

    There are always ways of making good sex even better – and this is especially true when we discuss deep penetration. Read on to find out how not to make her uncomfortable and how to increase pleasure for both of you.

    You can go deep and soft at the same time

    Deep penetration doesn’t have to be rough. Starting with sensual deep thrusting will give you the opportunity to discover your lady’s preferences. If she experiences pain or any type of discomfort, you need to be aware of it. Many women don’t admit they are in pain during sex because they don’t want to “ruin the act” but what this does is disrupting your connection.

    Start slowly and ask her how it feels. Remember, soft deep thrusting can be incredibly erotic and orgasmic.

    Stop and focus on foreplay if necessary

    If you notice your girl isn’t wet enough, don’t insist with hardcore penetration thinking that it’s going to make her wet. She needs more foreplay. If you want to help her enjoy deep penetration, you want to make sure she’s really wet down there. Use your oral skills and keep lube on hand.

    Use pillows to get deeper

    Most sex positions will get even better if you use pillows to lift her butt. Putting a pillow under her butt, stomach or hips, depending on the position you’re experiencing with, will help you get deep and stimulate those sensitive spots without effort. Both of you will feel even more pleasure than usual, so find new ways of playing with those pillows. Also, try to use memory foam pillows – regular ones are okay too, but the memory ones don’t compress which helps you maintain your favorite position for longer.

    Don’t do this…

    Never put your pleasure before her safety. Men experience unbelievable pleasure during deep penetration, so sometimes they are tempted to keep thrusting even harder and deeper, even if their partner’s moans change in a way that expresses pain and not pleasure. Always consider that a lot of women suffer from endometriosis, a condition which makes sex a very painful experience. I strongly advise you to check with your partner every time you change the position or the rhythm of thrusting to make sure she feels 100% pleasure and no pain at all.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • The biggest orgasm myths

    In order to understand what orgasms are and how you can best enjoy them, it is useful to understand what they are not. Chances are you have been exposed to all kinds of myths about sex and orgasm since you were a child. These myths have caused a lot of pain and confusion for some people.

    Ridding yourself of any limiting or false beliefs or attitudes about orgasms is truly the first step on your path to enriched orgasmic experiences. If a belief is engrained or embedded into your psyche, it may take some time and experience to undo it, but it is a worthwhile journey. Here are some more common myths that may be limiting your enjoyment of orgasm in some way.

    But before I go into the thorny topic of orgasm myths, let me guide to a new and very much enjoyable type of orgasm you can shower your partner with – the Breast Orgasm! Check out my program on the matter – Boobgasms – and you’ll discover that her girls really are the ticket to one really intense climax!

    Vaginal intercourse or penetration is the only real route to orgasm.

    One of my patients once noted, “I used to be really upset when I couldn’t make my partner reach orgasm with just vaginal intercourse. I thought that if my penis was in and doing the right thing that I should make her orgasm and if I didn’t I failed. I thought that if I had to use my hands to stimulate the clitoris while I was having sex that I was cheating or something. I have long lost this notion and currently use my hands all the time, no matter where my penis is.” The truth is that there are very clearly many routes to orgasm – vaginal penetration is not the sole ticket to orgasm. Men and women both can enjoy orgasms by engaging in numerous kinds of sexual behavior, and some women do prefer hands and mouths better and that’s ok. There is “no proven better or more appropriate way to achieve orgasm.

    Orgasms can only last a few seconds.

    There are many different kinds of orgasms and orgasmic experiences that vary in intensity and duration. Some orgasmic states and experiences can last much longer than a few seconds.

    Orgasms should all be “earth shaking.”

    Every orgasm has the potential to be meaningful and pleasurable, regardless of its intensity. Some are mellow, some are quiet, some are short, some are profound, some are loud, and some are long. Great or small, each one should be considered a gift.

    Women can’t orgasm as much as men.

    It is true that women often have a more difficult time finding their way to orgasm, at least initially; however, once they do, their access to multiple orgasms is much greater than men’s. In fact, women on the whole are capable of being much more orgasmic than men.

    Clitoral orgasms are immature and inferior to vaginal orgasms.

    There is no such thing as an immature or inferior orgasm! The quality of your orgasm is not solely a factor of what is being stimulated. In fact, the intensity of orgasm is much more a factor of how open you are to receiving pleasure in whatever form it is administered.

    Orgasms are the goal of sex.

    As amazing as orgasms are, there is no reason why sex has to include orgasmic release. Sex can be very pleasurable, ecstatic, and meaningful without culminating in an orgasm.

    Orgasm in men is always accompanied by ejaculation.

    Men are capable of having an orgasm without ejaculation. Some men learn by chance to separate orgasm and ejaculation. Others can learn with practice.

    Orgasms that include ejaculation will deplete your energy.

    There are some belief systems that purport that a man’s life energy is depleted when he ejaculates. Some men may find this to be true, but there are many men who ejaculate frequently who do not find that it depletes their energy in any way. In fact, some men find that it keeps them vital.

    If you self-pleasure you will lose desire or interest in being with.

    Just because you are capable of providing yourself with orgasms does not mean you will lose interest in being with a lover. The need for intimacy and connection with another cannot be met by being alone. Also the experience of orgasm with a lover can be a very different experience than what you experience when you are by yourself.

    A man is responsible for helping a woman achieve orgasm.

    Some men feel like they are failures if they do not provide their female lover with an orgasm. Because women’s orgasmic responses are so unique and complex, it is important that they ultimately take responsibility for their own orgasm. Your desire and willingness to learn how to help provide an orgasm should be appreciated but not expected.

    You shouldn’t have to use your hands to achieve or provide an orgasm.

    The idea that using your hands to assist in or achieve an orgasm is somehow cheating or wrong should definitely be thrown out the window. All that matters is whatever feels good and whatever works.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. It’s true, you should believe everything you hear or read, especially when it comes to sex and orgasms. But do believe this: there is one type of orgasm that you should put on your erotic menu as soon as possible: the breast climax. Check out my program – Boobgasms – and start playing with her boobs in new and unexpected ways.

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  • Are you ready to enhance your orgasms?

    There are orgasms and then there are orgasms. Many people are perfectly satisfied with their ordinary run-of-the-mill orgasms. They don’t feel the need to ask if there could be something even more intense. Some erotic pioneers, however, have discovered erotic states of arousal that go beyond the kinds of experiences most people normally have with sex and orgasm. By the way, I have just finished preparing a new set of methods and special techniques which will definitely lead you to that state of over-the-top orgasm. In other words, yes, these new possibilities are yours to dive into and explore if you wish.

    Multiple Orgasms

    There is no reason why anyone should settle for just one orgasm when both men and women are capable of experiencing numerous orgasms within a single sexual encounter. Sometimes one good orgasm is all you need, but when there is more in you that wants to be released, then why not go for it?

    Multiple orgasm is the experience of having two or more orgasms in succession without leaving the arousal phase. The intensity, number, duration, and distance between each orgasm can vary widely. To understand what multiple orgasms are, it is important to remember that one orgasm consists of many contractions. Do not confuse each contraction for an orgasm. There is a difference between having a long orgasm and having multiple orgasms. In multiple orgasms there is some buildup for each successive orgasm, much like the build up for your first orgasm, although it may take considerably less time.

    Multiple orgasms are more common for women. Men, however, are also capable of experiencing successive orgasms. Becoming multi-orgasmic is simply a matter of practice. If you are determined and follow certain practices, you may be able to find your way there.

    Multiple Orgasms for Her

    If your partner is a woman who relies on clitoral stimulation for orgasm, as most women do, let her clitoris rest as long as it needs to after her first orgasm. You can stimulate other parts of her body, or continue to engage in penetration for a while before going for the next orgasm. If her clitoris remains too sensitive, then you may need to back off of clitoral stimulation altogether and work on increasing her arousal in other ways. Once her clitoris will tolerate more stimulation, you can start in again. If you can pick up the thread of arousal your partner may find her way to orgasm again in a matter of minutes. But take your time; the more time you spend increasing her arousal, the more intense her orgasm is likely to be. Don’t try to force it. This is just about her pleasure, what feels good to her.

    Multiple Orgasms for You

    For you, being able to experience multiple orgasms requires that you learn to refrain from ejaculation. Essentially, you must separate your orgasm from your ejaculation. In order to do this you will need to intimately understand your body’s sexual response and gain control over ejaculatory inevitability, or the point of no return. By strengthening your PC muscle and squeezing it really hard at the onset of orgasm, you can stop yourself from ejaculating while still allowing yourself to orgasm. Ejaculation is what initiates the refractory period. Thus, if you bypass ejaculation, you can maintain your erection and be able to continue having orgasms. This process can repeat until you are ready to allow your self to ejaculate. It takes a lot of self-discipline, but many men and their lovers have found it to be a very worthwhile practice.

    G-Spot Orgasm and Female Ejaculation

    More and more couples are discovering the intense pleasures of the G-spot orgasm and female ejaculation. Some find their way to these experiences by accident, simply the result of enjoying sex and doing what feels good. Others try to get there by following a few simple rules. If you’re one of the latter keep on reading.

    A G-spot orgasm refers to an orgasm that results from the stimulation of the sensitive tissue of the G-spot, the area on the front wall of the vagina about one to two inches inside the vaginal canal. It is possible to stimulate the G-spot from the outside as well by putting pressure directly above the pubic mound. The G-spot is most likely to respond to stimulation once your partner is already significantly aroused. If you try stimulating it before she is turned on, it may feel sensitive in a way that is irritating. When stimulating the G-spot from inside the vaginal canal, making a come-hither motion with one or two fingers inserted should do the trick. You may also want to explore other kinds of stimulation to the G-spot, including vaginal penetration with a penis or sex toy.

    Female ejaculation is the sudden release of fluids from the urethra during orgasm. Often it results from G-spot stimulation. The fluids released in female ejaculation are not urine. Laboratory analysis has shown that female ejaculate may have some of the same components as urine, but there is a significant difference in the composition.

    The amount of ejaculate released and the way in which it is expelled from the urethra can vary tremendously. It can be as little as two drops or as much as two cups. The fluid may dribble out, gush out, or squirt and spray. Female ejaculation may occur with or without G-spot stimulation, but it usually requires a high state of arousal.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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