Author: Fidan

  • Preparing your body for a one-of-a-kind orgasm

    Preparing your body for a one-of-a-kind orgasm

    If you’ve ever thought that there could be more to sex, then you are probably right. An expansive orgasm is an experience that makes you feel like you are finally approaching your full potential for orgasmic bliss. They are within reach, but you will need to do some groundwork in order to open those channels within you.

    Expansive orgasmic experiences go beyond what would be considered a regular genital orgasm. Typical genital orgasms last approximately 3–5 seconds in men and 5–10 seconds in women. They are marked by a series of strong pelvic contractions and a sense of release or “going over the edge.” The focus of pleasurable sensations is primarily in the pelvis and genitals. An expansive orgasm is longer in duration and may include a variety of pleasurable sensations felt throughout the body. It may or may not include the same sense of release. Because of its extended duration, the experience is more like a state than an event. There are many different variations of expansive orgasm. Some of the most common names for these experiences are expanded orgasms, full body orgasms, extended massive orgasms, energy orgasms, transcendent orgasms, and Tantric orgasms. Since we have reached this point, why not take a look at this set of rules, techniques and rituals meant to open you the door to these orgasmic supernovas?

    There are some preparations that can assist you in finding your way to the various types of expanded orgasm. These preparations may take time to master. They involve opening the body in ways that might be new to you. Practice is necessary in order to develop your capacity for expanded orgasm.

    Open your mind

    The first way to prepare is to open your mind to the possibility of greater and more intense pleasure. If your mind is not open, you will most likely continue the same patterns and routines with sex that you always have. Consequently, you will keep having the same kinds of experiences.

    Be aware of your breath

    The second preparation is to bring more awareness to your breath. By focusing on your breath and allowing it to deepen, you will come more into your body and the sensations there. This will also help you access more profoundly relaxed states. You will also become more aware of energy flowing within your body. With this awareness you can begin to release blocks to the flow of this energy. The more conscious you can be of your breath, the more you can use it in a way to assist you in building arousal and expanding the orgasmic energy when the time comes.

    Let your energy flow

    The third preparation is learning to circulate or stream energy through your body. Once you are open and aware of energy in your body, you can begin to consciously amplify it. By channeling and recirculating energy, you can allow it to build until you feel fully charged. This will enable you to experience energy coursing through your entire being. You may experience the energy starting at the base of the spine, traveling all the way up the spine. It may then shoot out the top of your head. Alternatively, the energy may recycle by traveling back down the front of your body to create a continuous loop.

    The journey to expansive orgasms

    Once you have done some preparation and feel energetically open, you can begin to set a greater intention to experience more expansive orgasms. You should set aside at least two hours, if not three or four. All of the sexual behaviors that you normally engage in can be a part of this practice. It is less about the particular activities and more about the energy you allow to flow within you. You don’t have to engage in all of these practices in one encounter. In fact, in the beginning it is probably best to pick just one as your primary focus.

    Contain your arousal

    Having expansive orgasms requires that you contain high states of arousal. Your ability to deepen your breath and circulate your energy will help tremendously with this, as will your ability to simply relax into pleasurable sensations. You want to be able to stay present with and keep inviting in more sensation. If it feels like too much at any point, go back to focusing on your breathing. In comparison, when you go for a genital orgasm, you are looking to climax and then dissipate your energy. Instead, expanded orgasm practices seek to sustain a high state of energy and arousal, without looking to discharge it.

    Spread the sweet spot

    As you focus on the pleasurable sensations in your genitals, you can begin to allow that pleasure to spread to the tissues nearby. This can be aided by varying the stimulation to make it lighter and broader. It also helps to focus on relaxing the tissues in the rest of your body, inviting all areas to open and receive the pleasure. See how far you can spread the ecstatic sensations into the rest of your being.

    Expand your sense of connection

    Expanding a sense of connection and oneness to your lover, your surroundings, and all of life will support a more expansive orgasmic experience. If you are with a lover, you can practice being present with each other by looking into each other’s eyes and breathing together. See if you can feel each other’s energy bodies. Let yourselves feel your desire for each other. Let it fill you. Breathe it in. Sometimes this is all it takes to help you access more expansive states.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Don’t forget there is a lot of energy in you waiting to be released. The level of pleasure attained while at it is only up to you. Take a look and learn how to prepare yourself into making the most of your orgasms.

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  • Why so vanilla? Beat boredom in the bedroom

    The tried and tested missionary formula often brings in boredom. While some may find this predictable pattern comfortable, others find it hard to peak with the same moves. So, what can you possibly do to turbocharge vanilla sex life into something more adrenalin-pumping? 

    I’ll tell you below, but first let me direct your attention to my friend Ronnie Chew’s program, Speak Her Sex Language, which explains in full and hot detail all the naughty little things that turn a woman on. Any woman. Every time. 

    But now let’s go back to our topic at hand, beating boredom in the sack. Let’s get started, shall we?

    KNOW HER EROGENOUS ZONES 

    Does your partner orgasms more from clitoral stimulation or from vaginal penetration? If it’s the former, she is not alone. A study, published in The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy in 2015, shows that about 37 per cent of the women (aged between 18 and 94 years), need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm while about 18 per cent said that vaginal penetration was enough for them to climax. So, the first step to escaping vanilla sex is knowing your partner’s body and what kind of stimulation works for her. If vaginal penetration doesn’t make her come, find ways to incorporate clitoral stimulation in your lovemaking. 

    MAKE THE RIGHT ANGLE 

    You can try certain variations of the classic missionary position in order to achieve clitoral stimulation. You can go for the ‘male superior positions’ such as the coital alignment technique (CAT) and the butterfly position. This position’s primary focus is on clitoral stimulation, and one can even use it strategically for a combination of clitoral and penetrative stimulation. Taking the weightage away from penetrative thrusts, CAT entails vertical movements and rubbing of the clit. Alignment is the operative word here—your partner can lift her hips higher when you are penetrating her, in such a way that the penis can rub against the clit, thereby ensuring orgasm. You can use a pillow to position the hips at a comfortable angle of around 45 degrees to facilitate smoother pelvic movement against the clit. 

    ACE THE BUTTERFLY 

    This position can help you get over the boredom of missionary position. However, it requires some effort and stamina on part of both the partners. Face your partner and lift her till her bottom half is at the same level as yours. She should wrap her arms around you while you prop her up by tightly placing your hands beneath her hips. In other words, both of you should look like a butterfly in this formation. There can be a variation as well. If you don’t want so much physical exertion, sit while your partner faces you. 

    HAVE THAT CONVERSATION 

    Studies say that communication is of utmost importance if you want to get out of the boring sex rut. A 2016 study notes, “A relationship where sex was approached openly and appreciatively, promoted orgasms.” It adds that a lack of communication between partners about their sexual desires contributes to conditions such as anorgasmia (when women fail to orgasm despite ample stimulation). So, what are the key elements of effective sexual communication? Be specific about your preferences. It is perfectly natural to feel shy while requesting your partner for deviations from your regular sex routine. You might think that your companion will consider those requests weird or kinky. So start with something simple, and just remember there are no ‘fetishes’, only preferences. 

    SEX TOYS TO THE RESCUE 

    Believe it or not, sex toys can indeed be helpful if you want to radicalise your sex schedule. If you are looking for clitoral stimulation, use a vibrator during sex, provided you find the right device so as to not hamper intercourse. It’s a bit of trial and error. If you and your partner practise using a vibrator, stimulation through a vibrator during intercourse can prove to be a double bonanza. What’s more, if you want to make the missionary less staid, use cuffs, blindfolds, or both. The pleasure will be all yours. 

    AYE TO PERIOD SEX 

    Don’t be too dismissive about period sex. During your partner’s menstrual cycle, she would be assured of some extra lubrication, which in turn can raise her chances of orgasm. When the vagina is stimulated, the glands down there secrete fluid into the vaginal walls and this fluid, combined with menstrual blood, can make intercourse all the more enjoyable. In fact, trying out the missionary position when you are menstruating can be outrageously exciting and less messy. Just keep a towel underneath and some wipes handy. If you still feel a bit iffy, hop into the shower and just do it!

    Hot kisses, 

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Making sex explosive and brand new even though you’re getting naked with the same woman for many years now is not impossible. 

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  • The sex act missing from your erotic repertoire

    Quick question: are you using massage to prepare the body for the act of love, without focusing on the sexual organs? You’re missing out big time! Sure, these kind of sensual massages have their purpose as well: they stimulate the flow of energy through the body and concentrate it in the sexual organs. But I’m going to teach you a true powerbomb in terms of erotic massage: this kind stimulates the genitals and produces intense pleasure for both the giver and the recipient.

    And since we’re on this topic, do make sure you check out my Vagina Masterclass program. It’s filled with crucial information on how to better treat your lady’s vagina so that she only enjoys powerful orgasms from now on. 

    Here’s what you have to do step-by-step:

    Hair pulling. 

    Superficially caress the pubic hair, and after a few seconds, take small handfuls and gently tug on them. Start at the top of the pubis and travel downward, bit by bit, until reaching the vulva.

    Cycling around the labia minora

    Using your fingertips, stroke the inner part of your partner’s thighs until reaching the perineum. From there, continue along the inner crease of one labia minora (between the labia minora, the vaginal opening, and urethra) until reaching the clitoris. Massage the skin that covers it in a circular motion, and descend down the outer crease (between the labia majora and minora) until reaching the perineum. Repeat the cycle going around the opposite labia minora. Remember that at all times the massage must be slow and soft without excessive force.

    Pulling skin. 

    Stroke the inner thighs and groin. Separate the outer labia and, using the index finger and thumb, pinch some of the skin and gently pull it upwards. Let it go at the last second. Start near the vaginal opening and keep going along the outer labia, and finish near the clitoris. Do this about six times. Repeat the massage along the opposite outer labia and then along both labia at the same time using both hands. Repeat the entire massage along the inner labia while always finishing at the skin covering the clitoris.

    Circling over the clitoris

    Use the tip of your index finger to rub the skin covering the clitoris in a clockwise direction and then in the opposite direction. Do about twelve circles in each direction, varying the amount of pressure at random. Next, place your middle finger under the clitoris so that the hood covering it rests above your finger. Rhythmically move the finger up and down while covering and uncovering the clitoris as you drag the skin along. You must use light pressure during this massage. Remember that it is very important to be completely relaxed during this massage in order to find the clitoris. If there is no lubrication, you will not be able to drag the skin back to uncover the clitoris. Continue with the vertical movements along the clitoris and the skin while lightly increasing the pressure and the rhythm.

    Stroking the vaginal opening. 

    Move the tip of your middle finger in a circle around the vaginal opening. Next, gently introduce the finger into the vagina and exert pressure on the opening as you remove it. Practice inserting and withdrawing the finger while applying pressure to a different part of the vagina each time.

    Opening the tripod. 

    Press down on the center of the perineum using your pinky finger, and insert your index, middle, and ring finger in the vagina up to the third phalange. While pressing the perineum, separate your three fingers and press them up against the walls of the vagina. Keep applying pressure for a few seconds and then relax. Repeat this cycle ten times.

    Removing the honey. 

    Insert your middle finger deep into the vagina and move it in clockwise circles while pressing the walls of the vagina. You can place your thumb on the clitoris, but keep your fingernail from touching and possibly harming it. Next, keep massaging in circles going the opposite direction. Make ten circles in each direction.

    Pressing the G-spot. 

    During this massage, we will locate the woman’s famous pleasure point: the G-spot. Insert your middle finger up to the first phalange and rub it against the anterior wall of the vagina (behind which is the bladder). Move it up and down using minimal displacement and applying deep pressure for three minutes.

    Hot kisses, 

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For more tips like these, check my program Vagina Masterclass. It contains all the information you need to become a true expert on everything about women’s most precious pleasure point. 

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  • What’s the deal with tantric sex

    What’s the deal with tantric sex

    Yes, it’s a thing! We’ve got tips that will elevate your average bedroom sesh into a soul-stirring one. 

    Gone are the days when sex was an act of reproduction or pleasure. It’s broken free of its restrictive definition of ‘the penetration of a vagina by a penis’ and has evolved into something a lot more intense and complex. We’ve grown into mastering the art of connecting on a deeper level, where love and lust collide, making the bond between two souls much stronger. Confused? Fear not, we’ve got you covered. 

    So, how do you even begin to achieve this type of passion? Through a little something called tantric sex. Sexual intercourse is no longer an act of body-on-body pleasure or a prerequisite to building a family. It’s much more than that. It’s the most intimate way two bodies and souls can become one, and tantric sex is no different. All it does is make you slow down and relax enough to feel a sense of intense awareness and control. It teaches you to be present in yourself, as well as with your partner in every possible way. 

    Whether you have been together for six months or six years, never lose sight of the connection. Keep igniting that spark to ensure the intimate energy, that connects you as you are, grows with time. You need to bring down the walls and expand your horizons. Share your vulnerabilities. Let your biggest fears and your biggest insecurities ground you to Earth as one. 

    Tantric sex can help you achieve this. You might not see the results overnight, but in the long run, your efforts will pay off. If you’re new to tantric sex, what will help you is first to try my Tongue Twister program, which basically teaches you how to slowly “torture” your partner with tongue exercises that truly… burn. 

    STEP 1 Block out about three to four hours, and make sure any, and all kinds of distractions—work, kids, or family— are completely taken care of. You will need this time for the two of you. 

    STEP 2 Create a romantic, calm, and relaxing atmosphere. Dim the lights, or switch them off and use candles (bonus points if they’re scented!). Prep a playlist with slow instrumental music and play in the background. You will need: massage oils, towels, pillows, a few snacks and something to drink.

    STEP 3 Step into the bath together. Let the warm water caress your skin and calm your body. Look into your partner’s eyes, watch the way her body moves and the way water flows through her hair. Encourage her to do the same to you. Outline her body with your fingertips, but keep in mind not to engage in sexual activities yet. Let a serene feeling settle in you, calming your nerves.

    STEP 4 Once out of the bathroom, sit apart from each other (without facing each other). Both of you need to close your eyes and relax. Take slow but steady breaths. Focus on inhaling and exhaling until you feel your mind is at ease and completely free of other thoughts and disturbances. HINT: You won’t be able to master this overnight, but remember, practice makes perfect.

    STEP 5 Sit cross-legged, facing each other (or in any other intimate position you prefer). Let your knees and hands touch. Share each other’s energy and emotions. Synchronise your breathing to match your boo’s and let your minds, souls, and bodies connect. HINT: This, too, takes time. So keep at it, until it comes easily to you both.

    STEP 6 Have your partner lie down and give her a slow and sensual full-body massage. Keep your mind from wandering and focus on what’s happening now, both within yourself, as well as with your partner. End the massage with a long and intense genital massage. If you feel she’s about to climax, focus her attention elsewhere, prolonging her orgasm as much as possible. Focus on other parts of her body and allow that feeling to spread to the rest of her body. Be sure to communicate and ask her what she likes and what feels good. This is key. HINT: She may (or may not) orgasm, but remember the big O is not your goal here. Rather, it is to be aware of every touch. 

    STEP 7 After she recovers, ask her to give you the same massage. She should pay attention to your body language and sounds, understanding that your wants and desires may not be similar to what she enjoys. She should maintain intimate contact with you through her hands, kisses, or soft words of love. HINT: Again, your orgasm is not the goal; making you feel good and helping you maintain concentration is. 

    STEP 8 Once both of you recover from the massages, stay immobile in an intimate position. The recommended position in tantric sex is Yab Yum, believed to be more intimate. Your partner sits on your lap with her legs wrapped around you, and with your genitals connected. Stay still in this position taking in every part of your partner, breathing together and gazing into each other’s eyes until you feel a deep and undeniable connection filled with desire. 

    STEP 9 Slowly reposition yourself as you prefer without breaking the connection you’ve built throughout the previous steps. Then, make slow, long and passionate love the way you usually would. 

    STEP 10 Include tantric sex into your love life as much as possible to master the art of truly connecting through your mind, body, and soul as one.

    Hot kisses, 

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. If you need more inspiration for what to do when it comes to massaging your partner’s genitals, check out my Tongue Twister program. It contains some tongue massages that you’ll most definitely want to have in your erotic repertoire. She’ll scream in delight!

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  • Blow her mind

    Blow her mind

    She’s exciting, thoughtful and everything you want in a lover. Show her you appreciate the attention with these hot moves.  

    The three qualities that really matter in bed have nothing to do with firm butts or hard rock abs. Confidence, power and sensuality are much more desirable traits in the eyes of a woman. You may be extremely adventurous and kinky, but if you aren’t strong or confident enough with those killer moves, your partner will be left feeling a little cold. The five moves we’ve listed below require all three traits in different degrees. They’re nothing elaborate, just sweet, simple moves that will drive her wild.

    For more juicy and erotic techniques that will absolutely blow her mind and send her to heaven and back, check out my program Her Secret Hot Spots. It contains information on her different erogenous zones and the different types of stimulation each type requires for maximum pleasure. I’m pretty confident that your partner will want you to know this and try it with her as soon as possible. 

    Hit the spot 

    If you know exactly where to touch her to drive her to her knees, then you’re golden. Speaking of which, the back of the knees is an often ignored erogenous zone. Women, just like men, have multiple sweet spots that are generally overlooked for the more obvious points of interest. 

    Start small

    Have your woman lie on her front and straddle her as you give her a soothing massage. Place a light kiss on the nape of her neck, trailing a line of kisses down her back, and then the back of her knees, sucking gently on the soft skin there.

    Take the reins 

    Sometimes, all that is required for mind-blowing sex is for you to take charge. There’s nothing sexier than a man confident enough to shut a woman up, strip her down, or to pull her into the bathroom for a quickie on the countertop of the sink. 

    Start small

    A simple, but effective, way to show her who’s in charge is to assume the doggie style position— without warning. As she’s getting ready for you to get on top, put a hand firmly on her chest and push her on her stomach to penetrate her from behind. 

    Mouth off 

    If you can use your mouth, especially your tongue, the right way, then that’s half the battle won. Be it while kissing, licking, going down on her—your mouth can be your best friend or your worst enemy, so use it well. 

    Start small

    If you want to kiss her senseless, let your tongue jive with his. You could also try the oldest trick in the book and catch her bottom lip in your teeth and suck on it gently.

    Rough her up 

    If you want to show your woman how lucky she is, get a little rough with her. Not so much as to hurt her, but enough to get her blood pumping. There aren’t many women who wouldn’t give their right arm for a romp in the sack that leaves them sore and reeling. 

    Start small

    Take a fistful of her hair in your hand and hold it firmly as she kisses you, or bite her shoulder to elicit an excited growl. 

    Tease her 

    Stay tantalisingly out of reach during foreplay and once you’ve started having sex, delay gratification for as long as possible and you’ll make sure her orgasm is that much stronger. Tease her with feather-light kisses and nibble on her earlobe until she’s begging for release.

    Start small

    Delay penetration for as long as you can. Distract her just as she gets ready for you to enter her. Just when you think you both can’t hold back anymore, give in. The first thrust will be sweeter for the wait.

    Hot kisses, 

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Blowing a woman’s mind in the sack can seem difficult for some men. Not for you, my friend. Well, as long as you check my Her Secret Hot Spots program, which contains every tool you possibly need to make your partner weak in the knees and begging for that sweet release. You’ll learn how to give her an orgasm unlike any other she has ever experienced before. You want that, don’t you?

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  • How to Finger a Woman

    How to Finger a Woman

    Before any performance, warm-ups are crucial. This applies to athletes, musicians, and you guessed it — sexual partners! Very few women want to jump straight into intercourse, preferring a bit of foreplay to get her engines revving and ready for a night of bliss. That’s why learning how to finger a woman properly is crucial for not just setting the stage for mind-blowing sex, but perhaps even making her cum before the main event. 

    While handplay may feel a bit old school, a little finger foreplay is a great way to get your partner primed and stimulated for an intense experience. While it may not feel highly sexual, fingering is a great way to build anticipation. Whether you want to bring her over the edge with just your fingers or you’re building up to adventurous sex positions with some heavy foreplay, the right fingering techniques can better prepare her for an orgasm she won’t soon forget.  

    While every woman has different needs and preferences, there are plenty of ways to create a back-arching experience with those magic hands! 

     

    The Pleasure Points

    The most important place to start when fingering women is, well, knowing where to start. This means you need to have a deeper understanding of the female genitalia and where her pleasure points are located. Let’s start from the outside and work our way in (remember this phrase, as it’s also one of the best ways to finger a woman).

    Chances are you’re familiar with the vulva, comprised of: 

    The mons pubis (pubic mound)
    The labia minora and majora (inner and outer, respectively)
    The clitoris and clitoral hood
    The vestibular bulbs (flanking the clitoris)
    The vulva vestibule (between the clitoris and vagina)
    The vaginal opening 

    I’m sure you already know to pay attention to the clitoris, but the sweet spot is located inside the vagina: the elusive G-spot. This intense pleasure point is located along the anterior wall of the vagina, roughly 3-5 inches inside. It’s not always easy to find, but slow exploration with your fingers will eventually cause it to swell, making it easier to locate. 

    How to Finger a Woman: 6 Expert Tips

    Now that you know where to focus your efforts, let’s look at how. Before you dive in, here are a few general rules you should know: 

    Start slowly
    Be gentle
    Listen to your partner
    And please, trim those fingernails! 

    Ready to get started? Here are six expert fingering tips to help you get her over the finish line.

    First, Foreplay

    Your first inclination might be to skip the appetizers and go straight for the main course. However, when you get hands-on with the clitoris without any preparation, it’s not only jarring, it can also be quite painful. Starting slow and building arousal is a must in order to get the juices flowing and prime her for the main event.

    Knowing how to finger a woman starts with understanding the importance of foreplay, so spend some time stimulating other erogenous zones on your way to the clitoris. Foreplay is especially important if you’re aiming to achieve the famous G-spot orgasm. Give her an erotic massage, whisper dirty talk in her ear, suck and lick your way across her breasts and down her belly — the options are endless! Ultimately, anything you can do to tease and warm her up will have her begging for more. 

    Focus on the Clit

    There’s no denying that the clitoris is the star of the show when it comes to female orgasms, so once she’s aflame with passion from your foreplay, it’s time to stop teasing and get to the good stuff. A lot of knowing how to finger your lady like a pro revolves around catering to the ultra-sensitive clit.  

    There are plenty of fingering techniques to explore, but a good place to start is by working your way up and around the labia, the vulva vestibule, and the clitoral hood to ensure sensitivity by the time you reach the clitoris. From there, you’ll want to use a gentle touch and some variation of movement and pressure to see what makes her gasp and moan. Remember: direct stimulation could feel intense and even painful for some women, so follow her cues and check in with her frequently.

    Build Your Tempo

    Even men don’t tend to go from zero to sixty instantly when it comes to sex. Chances are you enjoy a slow build and some tantalizing teasing, so why wouldn’t she as well? 

    When learning how to finger a woman in a way that builds anticipation, rhythm and tempo are important aspects of the overall experience. Women who feel comfortable and confident will probably tell you when they want you to speed up. But if she’s on the quieter side, you can gauge her desire through signals like faster breathing, moans of pleasure, and angling her pelvis towards you. Not sure you’re on the right track? Just ask!  

    Live it Up with Lube

    The female body is designed to produce lubricating fluids when sexually aroused, but that doesn’t mean lube can’t act as a facilitator. In some cases, aging, hormonal changes, or certain medications can lead to dryness or lack of natural lubricant production. If you opt to involve lube in your sessions, be sure to purchase organic, natural products that are safe for internal use. Note: some lubes can’t be used with certain sex toys, so do your research before pairing these two goodies.  

    Part of learning how to finger someone is understanding that every woman is different and finding ways to please her. This could mean trying different types of stimulation to arouse her and get her wet. Or you can add lube for an extra erotic experience that both of you will love! 

    Explore the G-Spot

    Learning how to finger a vagina doesn’t mean just focusing on her external pleasure points. Why not try delving deeper and giving her that earth-shattering G-spot orgasm? When a woman is fully aroused, the spongy tissue of the G-spot will become engorged, making it a little easier to find.

    By slowly working your way up the anterior wall with one or two fingers slightly crooked as if to say, “come hither,” you have the best opportunity to locate her sweet spot. If you can’t feel it, trust me — you’ll hear it! Once you find the G-spot, her moans and gasps will be a sure sign that you’ve arrived at your destination. Once you’re there, apply pressure and build your tempo to give her a truly unforgettable orgasm.

    Get to Know Her Needs

    The most important tip I can give you on how to finger a woman effectively is to understand what makes her tick. Figuring out how her body works is just one part of the equation — the female orgasm is also highly mental and emotional, so it’s important to stimulate her psyche and ensure she feels safe and comfortable. 

    This doesn’t necessarily mean candles and rose petals on the bed. It could mean talking dirty in a way she likes, starting off with a sexy dinner, a little playful sexting, or telling her what you’re going to do to her before you do it. It might mean going slow and finding ways to help her relax and fully immerse herself in the experience without feeling self-conscious. She might like watching porn together or adding some naughty sex toys to the mix. Every woman is unique, and so is what turns her on. Chances are, you’ll enjoy finding out her preferences as much as she does! 

    Who Is Gabrielle Moore?

    Gabrielle Moore is a sex expert and best-selling author of sexual guides geared toward female pleasure. Over 8 million readers worldwide and over half a million subscribers to her daily online sex tips already take advantage of Moore’s guidance and advice, and she’s been featured in major publications like Men’s Fitness Magazine.

    Her work is fueled by intensive research and years of personal experience and experimentation in the bedroom, making her uniquely qualified to help individuals and couples enjoy the intimate and fulfilling sex life they deserve. Subscribe for a better sex life today! 

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  • 4 Signs Her Body Gives When Boob Play Is Done Right

    You might love her breasts—but her body might love it even more.

    You’ll be surprised, but she might enjoy breast play even more than you do.

    That’s right. Her breasts—especially around the nipples—light up the same part of the brain as her clitoris.

    So when you give them the right kind of attention?

    She can’t fake the reaction.
    Her body will give you four unmistakable signs.
    One of the most surprising? Her nipples will change color.

    But let’s not jump ahead just yet…

    Here are the 4 signs to look for when boob play is hitting just right:

    1. Her Nipples Stand to Attention

    This is usually the first sign—and the most obvious.

    When aroused, the smooth muscles in her nipples contract, making them stand erect. You’ll feel them stiffen beneath your tongue or fingertips. It’s automatic. She can’t control it—and that’s what makes it so sexy.

    Pro tip: Aroused nipples are more sensitive, so this is your cue to up the teasing—slow licks, soft sucking, or the warm glide of your palm.

    VIDEO: You can see this, in explicit detail, on Cherie’s big, sensitive breasts in the Boobgasms video. Her nipples stand fully erect just moments after the session begins—proof of how quickly the right touch gets results.

    2. Her Breasts Get Bigger (up to 20%!)

    Just like how her clit engorges with blood, her breasts respond to stimulation too.

    As arousal builds, blood rushes in, making her breasts feel fuller, firmer, and more tender. The areolas may expand slightly. You might even notice the skin looks tauter or flushed.

    It’s like her chest is rising to meet you—literally.

    This is one of the clearest signs that what you’re doing is working.

    3. Her Nipples and Areolas Change Color

    Here’s the one most men miss… until now.

    During proper stimulation, her nipples and areolas will darken—turning a deeper shade of pink, red, or even plum, depending on her natural coloring.

    It’s caused by vasocongestion, the same biological process that makes her lips and genitals flush during arousal. When you see this, don’t stop. You’re doing it just right.

    VIDEO: We captured this in close-up during one of the demonstrations—watch how Cherie’s areolas darken visibly as she gets stimulated in the Boobgasms video course. It’s a subtle but powerful confirmation that the body is fully turned on.

    4. She Gasps When You Blow on Her Nipples

    You don’t even need to touch her.
    If you’ve done things right, her nipples will be so engorged, so sensitive… that the gentlest breath will make her gasp.

    Blowing softly over her wet, aroused nipples sends a wave of cool air over heated, nerve-rich skin—and the contrast can be electric.

    Some women describe the sensation as a jolt of pleasure straight to their core. Others arch their back and moan from nothing more than that little puff of air.

    That’s when you know: she’s not just turned on—she’s primed.

    Want to See These Signs in Real Time?

    In Boobgasms, my sensual video course featuring Karlie Montana and Cherie Deville, you’ll learn:

     How to recognize these signs in real time
     When to tease, when to suck, and when to use toys
     How to stimulate the nipples for max pleasure—and even orgasm

    This isn’t just theory. It’s explicit demonstration. And it’s .

    Click here to watch the full video course now

    With pleasure,

    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Founder of Naked U

    P.S.

    Next time her nipples change color, you’ll know it’s not a coincidence.
    It’s your cue to take her even higher. Be ready when that moment comes—master the Boobgasms here.

     

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  • How You Can Join the Top 1% Of Men That Can Make Her Squirt.

    How You Can Join the Top 1% Of Men That Can Make Her Squirt.

    Most women are physically capable of squirting—but very few ever do. Not because their bodies won’t allow it, but because their partners don’t know how to make it happen.

    That’s why the men who do? They don’t just give her pleasure—they leave a lasting mark. They become unforgettable.

    The Truth About Squirting

    Recent surveys suggest that while nearly 80% of women are physically capable of squirting, fewer than 15% say they’ve actually experienced it—and even fewer say their partner knew how to make it happen.

    Here’s the kicker:

    Very few of those women experience it consistently. Even fewer say their partners can do it more than once.

    Most men? They don’t even realize how close they’ve come—only to back off or switch it up right before the magic happens.

    So Why Don’t More Men Know How?

    Because no one ever taught them.

    They only see it in porn clips—where the setup is skipped, the technique is hidden, and everything looks instant.

    But a squirting orgasm isn’t a magic trick. It’s a formula. A rhythm. A buildup. A precise combo of pressure, angle, and timing.

    Which means: if you learn it… you instantly stand out.

    Want to see the technique that triggers it? Watch the video testimonial here.

    The Top 1% Advantage

    There are men who look good.
    There are men who talk smooth.
    And then there are men who know how to unlock a woman’s deepest release.

    Guess which one she remembers?

    When you master this, it’s not just about pleasure—it’s about giving her an experience she didn’t know her body was capable of. One no other man has given her.

    That’s what makes you unforgettable.

    See what happens when she finally lets go—watch the full testimonial

    You Could Be That Man

    Most men don’t even try. The rest give up too soon. But you?

    If you’re here, reading this—you’re already ahead of the game.

    All that’s left is learning the moves. The pressure. The angle. The rhythm. The timing.

    Watch this now and start becoming the lover she tells her friends about

    With pleasure,

    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Founder of Naked U

    P.S.

    The moment you learn how to make her squirt… is the moment she’ll never forget you.
    Watch how it’s done in this testimonial

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  • She’ll Come Back For More Of THIS —Again and Again

    She’ll Come Back For More Of THIS —Again and Again

    It happened to me. And it’s happened to more women than you think.

    There is no comparison to the intensity of a clitoral orgasm from a man who knows how to use his tongue.

    It’s wet. It’s intimate. It’s vulnerable. It’s raw. It’s animal.

    It says: “I want you so badly, I can barely hold myself back.”

    And that? That hits the most primal instincts in a woman.

    Which is why—even if you’re an asshole, broke, small, or old—if you’re good at oral, we’ll come back for more. Again. And again.

     

    Here’s the Science Why
    Triggers the Most Intense Clitoral Orgasm
    Nothing stimulates the clitoris quite like oral sex. The tongue, lips, suction, and wetness create a type of pleasure that fingers and penetration can’t replicate. With over 8,000 nerve endings—twice as many as the penis—the clitoris craves this kind of attention. Do it right, and she’ll crave you for it.
    It Says, “I Want You So Much I Can Barely Hold Myself Back”
    It’s intimate. It’s raw. It’s animal. Oral sex—when done with hunger—tells her, “I want to devour you.” And that turns her on more than anything. Just like a hard erection signals your arousal, your tongue between her thighs tells her she’s irresistible. That’s what gets her wet before you’ve even taken your pants off.
    40% of Men Do Oral… But Only 5% Do It Right
    Most men think oral is a warm-up. The best lovers know it’s the main event. That’s why women remember the ones who do it right. And when you do? She’ll compare every man after you to the way your tongue made her melt.

    Click here to master oral sex, become part of the top 5% of men, give her the best clitoral orgasm she has ever experienced, and enjoy raw, animal sex like she’s never had before. (Warning: this is an explicit demonstration)

     

    Real Stories from Me (and My Students)

    I kept coming back to the same guy, all because of oral. And it’s happening to women all over the world—here are some true stories from students:

    Brian – His ex-girlfriend still texts him—even though he’s now married. He told me, “It’s obvious she still wants more.”

    Mike – He’s 48. She was 21. He said, “After oral, everything changed. She knew I wanted her more than anyone else ever had.”

    Sofia – A close friend of mine. Gorgeous European brunette, 36. She went back to a bartender for five years—just for the oral. Now she’s with an American man… who only got her because he learned from my course. She says, “Gabrielle, I owe you everything.”

    My story?
    You can hear my full story—raw and real—and learn how I teach men to master this skill.
    Click here to watch the video now.

     

    Ready to Be the Man She Always Comes Back to?

    Oral sex isn’t just a “nice bonus.” It’s a weapon.

    It’s the move that turns a one-night stand into a craving.
    It makes her feel adored, devoured, dominated—like her pleasure is the center of your universe.

    Yes, I teach more than oral. I teach full-body pleasure, boobgasms, fingering, trigasms, and more. But oral?
    Oral is where many men fail.
    And it’s where you’ll rise.

    Click here to watch Oral Rapture and learn exactly how to do it.

     

    With heat,

    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

     

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  • Vaginal Cream –

    Vaginal Cream –

    This is the most glorious thing you could see during sex with her! A thick, milky liquid that women release during intense sexual pleasure or orgasm. You’ll see it coating your penis during deep penetration—and if you do? Well, GREAT job. She’s not just enjoying it. She’s in bliss.

    That creamy, white liquid her body releases when you’re doing everything right? It’s one of the most powerful signs of her peak arousal.

    I call it: The Vaginal Cream!

    What Is It?

    It’s not lubrication. It’s not squirting. And no—it’s definitely not urine.

    Scientifically, this fluid is known as Skene’s gland fluid, or what some researchers call “prostatic-like fluid.” It’s released by her Skene’s glands—often referred to as the female prostate. These glands sit near the urethra and are stimulated most during deep G-spot play.

    Want to learn how to make her body release this powerful signal of pleasure? Watch the Vagina Masterclass here.

    What’s the Purpose of This White Liquid?

    While there’s still ongoing research, many sexologists and scientists believe the purpose of Skene’s gland fluid is both protective and erotic:

    Lubrication & Comfort: The fluid helps reduce friction and enhances comfort during deep penetration.
    Signal of Readiness: Its release signals a high level of arousal, often right before or during orgasm, letting you know her body is completely there.
    Emotional Release: Like tears or moans, it’s a physical expression of emotional surrender and pleasure.
    Antibacterial Benefits: Some studies suggest the fluid has antibacterial properties, offering potential protection to the urinary tract.

    Bottom line? When you see it, it means you did something right. Her body doesn’t lie.

    Want to recognize these raw signals of pleasure? Click here to learn more inside the Masterclass.

    When Is It Produced?

    It happens when her body is completely immersed in the pleasure you’re giving her.

    She’s deeply aroused, mentally surrendered, and physically stimulated in all the right ways.

    It’s not something she can fake. And it’s not something she can always control.

    When it happens—it’s raw, primal, and deeply intimate.

    Want to learn how to build her to this peak? Watch the Vagina Masterclass for a step-by-step demonstration.

    Is It Squirting?

    No.

    Squirting is a clear fluid expelled in a rush—almost like a small fountain.

    Vaginal Cream is thicker. Creamier. It usually comes in smaller amounts and appears during or right after orgasm.

    Think of it as her body’s way of showing you she just had a true orgasm.

    Where Does It Come From?

    It’s produced by her Skene’s glands, also known as the female prostate. These glands are located near the urethra and release fluid during intense stimulation—especially G-spot or blended orgasms.

    Not all women do it. But most can—with the right partner, the right rhythm, and the right energy.

    Want to be that partner? Click here to watch how to master her vagina with Alexa Tomas.

    Learn How to Generate It

    This isn’t about luck. It’s not about size.

    It’s about knowing her body. It’s about mastering her vagina.

    That’s why I created my Vagina Masterclass.

    Inside, the gorgeous Alexa Tomas shows you exactly how to:

    Stimulate her vaginal walls and pressure zones
    Combine clitoral and G-spot play
    Recognize when she’s about to release this creamy signal of peak pleasure

    And yes—you’ll see what the Vaginal Cream looks like. In full, explicit detail.

    Click here to experience the Vagina Masterclass now.

     

    With heat,

    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

     

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