Author: Fidan

  • How to Give Her a Boobgasm

    Think her breasts are just fun bags for you? Think again…

    Nipple play before and during sex can enhance arousal, finds a study from the Journal of Sexual Medicine. The effect? The potential for a more intense climax. More shocking> some women have reported having orgasms from breast play alone! But what’s behind these boobgasms? Mostly, her brain. Nipple stimulation activates the same part of the sensory cortex as both clitoral and vaginal stimulation do. In plain-speak: rubbing her headlights ignites her noggin’s feel-good centre. And when her upper and lower parts are simultaneously engaged, it can lead to a mind-blowing release.

    What Is a Boobgasm?

    It’s no secret that the female body is complex, and female orgasms even more so. Chances are you’ve heard all about how many nerve endings are in the clitoris and the elusive mystery of the G spot orgasm. But intimate contact isn’t limited to the vagina. 

    If you want to please a woman more fully, it’s best to learn your way around all the erogenous zones, including the breasts — especially the nipples. With lots of practice and a little creativity, you may even be able to give her boobgasm

    Guys, I know what you’re thinking — but yes, this is a real thing! For some women, it is possible to stimulate this zone enough to reach a full-blown orgasm. At the very least, paying attention to the area — in addition to other efforts like oral sex and clitoral stimulation — can greatly enhance the pleasure and power of an orgasm. If she doesn’t reach orgasm from breast play alone, the worst case is that you’ve revved her up with some serious foreplay! 

    If you want to learn how to give her a boobgasm, let’s start with some science. 

    The Science Behind the Boobgasm

    Keep in mind that an orgasm from breast play alone isn’t possible for every woman, and some women don’t even particularly like breast or nipple stimulation. That’s why it’s crucial to talk openly with your partner about what she wants before attempting this. However, if she’s down to give it a shot, there are a few science-backed reasons you should understand to increase your chances. 

    When learning how to give her a boobgasm, you’ll need to spend time focusing on the most sensitive area: the nipples. And there’s actually a scientific reason for this. Touching, teasing, and stimulating the breasts and nipples can both cause arousal and enhance it. If the arousal is great enough, it can lead to muscle contractions associated with orgasm — in some cases, without any genital stimulation. In fact, a 2016 study reported that about 12% of women are capable of achieving orgasm from stimulation of erogenous zones other than the genitals.

    Why do you have nips

    You don’t feed babies, so why do your nipples exist? Because that’s how the male embryo develops, but nipples can also enhance your orgasm, since they trigger the same zone in your brain as stimulating your penis does. That’s the theory. In reality, only 52 percent of dudes have “arousable” nipples, according to studies. Wondering if you’re among that group? Ask your partner to try a small rub with her thumb and forefinger, applying slight pressure then licking all over. If you moan, yep, she’s found a spot.

    How to Give Her a Boobgasm: 6 Tips for Success

    Here, some guidance for getting your girl’s girls in on all the awesome erogenous action. No tatas left behind…

    Touching her tatas (video demonstration

    Licking, flicking and tweaking… there’s no wrong turn on the road toward nipple euphoria. Along the way, be sure to communicate and practice with your partner to figure out what makes her happy. For the maximum chance at achieving the elusive boobgasm, I suggest treating the nipple like a clitoris. Avoid going right for it. Sometimes, less is more. Start by slowly tracing your fingers around her side boob and armpit area, then go for her areolae, inching ever closer to the centre. If her nips get hard or feel tingly, your moves are working. Cup her breasts and use your fingers to gently squeeze her nipples, or lay the tips with a bit of tongue before gently kissing and sucking on them. Ah, bliss. Also, like clitoral touching, it is better to use moisture as opposed to “dry rubbing” the nipple. Blowing a steam of breath onto a wet nipple can also be very thrilling and can cause clitoral contractions.

    Listening in 

    Some more advanced experimentation can prompt an even more explosive boob orgasm. Try circling her nips with a small vibrator, a warming lubricant, ice-cubes, or – for an extreme adventure – nipple clamps. But only do this once she is fully aroused – erect nipples can tolerate more stimulation. Mixing up pressure and how you’re handling the breast and nipple will create waves of pleasure… hopefully leading to a memorable grand finale. That being said, don’t force it. If her girls are feeling tender, sore or aching for any reason, stimulating them is more likely to prompt an ouch than an orgasm. So respect her twins by letting them act the part of passive bystanders until they’re ready to come and join the party again.

    Titillating Textures (video demonstration

    Even men who are well-equipped in the bedroom can benefit from a little outside help.  Sometimes, learning how to give a boobgasm requires some creativity and experimentation. One way to keep her gasping is by varying the mode of stimulation with a range of different textures via props, toys and tools.

    For example, you can amp up the foreplay by slowly dragging a silk cloth or feather over her aroused nipples. If it’s more you and your partner’s style, you can try using a riding crop to gently caress, flick, or slap the nipples or breasts. Play with temperature by sucking an ice cube before licking and sucking the nipples, or ask if she’s interested in drips of hot wax on her skin. Nearly anything could serve as a prop if you and your partner are feeling adventurous.

    Tease Her and Please Her (video demonstration

    As relationships develop and partners become intimately familiar with each other’s bodies, reading every sign of pleasure becomes easier. I can’t emphasize this point enough: read those signs carefully! Knowing what makes her feel good allows you to more fully explore the nuances of different areas, including the breasts, and take your time building up to a boobgasm.

    Eliciting an orgasm without ever touching her vagina or clitoris requires time, creativity, and dedication. Slow and steady wins the race when it comes to figuring out how to give her a boobgasm, so continue to be patient and take your time. Tease with your hands, lips, tongue, and facial hair. Draw it out and see what makes her gasp, moan, and writhe with pleasure. Explore every inch of her skin to discover what triggers the greatest response so you can hone your skills to help her reach the big climax.

    Play with Pressure (video demonstration

    When you get a massage, you probably notice that massage therapists vary their techniques and use different levels of pressure. If they just rubbed one spot for an hour, you’d probably get irritated, not to mention chafed. To elicit a breast massage orgasm, you’ll need to employ a range of pressures and motions to discover exactly what turns her on.

    There’s no single method of how to give a breast orgasm and every woman is different, so take your time and try a few different techniques. These can include soft strokes and kisses, gentle and intense suction, varied rubbing and rolling techniques, and stroking, cupping, and squeezing the breasts.

    Add Toys to the Equation (video demonstration

    When learning how to give her a boobgasm, you’ll find that a well-timed tickle with a feather or flick with a riding crop can add incredible fun and pleasure to intimate play. But what if you want to step up your game a little? When it comes to nipple stimulation, few sex toys are more outstanding than nipple clamps. However, you might also want to consider vibrators that offer suction to help her reach a breast stimulation orgasm.

    Some of these toys have features like gentle massage and vibration built in to really get her motor revving, and you can use one while you manually and orally stimulate her other nipple, or use two so as to fully focus your attention on kissing, licking, and massaging other areas.

    How do you know it’s working

    When blood flows to a specific area of the body during sexual activity, the result is the color of this body part becomes a darker shade of pink and red than it normally does. This phenomenon even applies to lips, which is a way a lot of people find bright red lipstick to be so attractive. This same principle applies to both male and female genitalia. And nipples are no exception to this rule. When stimulated, the nipples take on a darker, redder shade. This color change can be a visual clue for you when you are on the quest for a boobgasm, because it indicated that she is receiving the right amount of touching.

     

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. For more exciting tips and tricks on how to invite the breasts to the best carnal experience ever, check out my program on the matter – Boobgasms: Stroke A Woman’s Breasts In A Way That Drives Her Out Of Her Mind With Arousal 

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  • 4 Signs Her Body Gives When Boob Play Is Done Right

    You might love her breasts—but her body might love it even more.

    You’ll be surprised, but she might enjoy breast play even more than you do.

    That’s right. Her breasts—especially around the nipples—light up the same part of the brain as her clitoris.

    So when you give them the right kind of attention?

    She can’t fake the reaction.
    Her body will give you four unmistakable signs.
    One of the most surprising? Her nipples will change color.

    But let’s not jump ahead just yet…

    Here are the 4 signs to look for when boob play is hitting just right:


    1. Her Nipples Stand to Attention

    This is usually the first sign—and the most obvious.

    When aroused, the smooth muscles in her nipples contract, making them stand erect. You’ll feel them stiffen beneath your tongue or fingertips. It’s automatic. She can’t control it—and that’s what makes it so sexy.

    Pro tip: Aroused nipples are more sensitive, so this is your cue to up the teasing—slow licks, soft sucking, or the warm glide of your palm.

    🎬 VIDEO: You can see this, in explicit detail, on Cherie’s big, sensitive breasts in the Boobgasms video. Her nipples stand fully erect just moments after the session begins—proof of how quickly the right touch gets results.


    2. Her Breasts Get Bigger (up to 20%!)

    Just like how her clit engorges with blood, her breasts respond to stimulation too.

    As arousal builds, blood rushes in, making her breasts feel fuller, firmer, and more tender. The areolas may expand slightly. You might even notice the skin looks tauter or flushed.

    It’s like her chest is rising to meet you—literally.

    This is one of the clearest signs that what you’re doing is working.


    3. Her Nipples and Areolas Change Color

    Here’s the one most men miss… until now.

    During proper stimulation, her nipples and areolas will darken—turning a deeper shade of pink, red, or even plum, depending on her natural coloring.

    It’s caused by vasocongestion, the same biological process that makes her lips and genitals flush during arousal. When you see this, don’t stop. You’re doing it just right.

    🎬 VIDEO: We captured this in close-up during one of the demonstrations—watch how Cherie’s areolas darken visibly as she gets stimulated in the Boobgasms video course. It’s a subtle but powerful confirmation that the body is fully turned on.


    4. She Gasps When You Blow on Her Nipples

    You don’t even need to touch her.
    If you’ve done things right, her nipples will be so engorged, so sensitive… that the gentlest breath will make her gasp.

    Blowing softly over her wet, aroused nipples sends a wave of cool air over heated, nerve-rich skin—and the contrast can be electric.

    Some women describe the sensation as a jolt of pleasure straight to their core. Others arch their back and moan from nothing more than that little puff of air.

    That’s when you know: she’s not just turned on—she’s primed.


    Want to See These Signs in Real Time?

    In Boobgasms, my sensual video course featuring Karlie Montana and Cherie Deville, you’ll learn:

    •  How to recognize these signs in real time
    •  When to tease, when to suck, and when to use toys
    •  How to stimulate the nipples for max pleasure—and even orgasm

    This isn’t just theory. It’s explicit demonstration. And it’s 🔥.

    Click here to watch the full video course now


    With pleasure,

    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Founder of Naked U


    P.S.

    Next time her nipples change color, you’ll know it’s not a coincidence.
    It’s your cue to take her even higher. Be ready when that moment comes—master the Boobgasms here.

     

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  • 4 Unmistakable Signs Her Body Gives When Boob Play Is Done Right

    Her nipples respond like her clit. Can you read the signals?

    You may think you love her breasts more than anyone.

    But her body might love it more than she realizes.

    Because the truth is, the female brain lights up during breast play in almost the exact same way it does during clitoral stimulation. Especially around the nipples.

    Which means…

    When you do it right? Her body can’t hide the truth. It will show you—with four unmistakable signs.

    Most men miss these. But once you learn to spot them, you’ll never second-guess your touch again.

    Let’s decode what her body says when you’ve got her on the edge.

    1. Her Nipples Stand to Attention

    It’s not just visual—it’s biological.

    As arousal builds, the smooth muscle in her nipples contracts. This causes them to stiffen, elongate, and become more pronounced. It’s the same involuntary reaction you see in goosebumps—except this one is pure pleasure.

    You’ll feel it under your tongue. Against your palm. In the way her body subtly arches to meet your touch.

    Use this as your green light.

    Start teasing more deliberately: soft sucking, slow spirals with your tongue, or firm glides with the base of your palm.

    👉  Watch how Cherie Deville’s nipples stand tall and sensitive within seconds of being touched—inside Boobgasms. It’s a clear, explicit signal that the body is fully turned on.

    2. Her Breasts Get Bigger (Yes, Up to 20%!)

    As arousal rises, so does blood flow.

    Just like the clitoris or labia, her breasts swell with increased circulation. You might notice they feel firmer. Heavier. Flushed. Even the areolas may darken or widen slightly.

    This is her chest “rising to meet you.”

    Don’t rush it. Let your hands glide slowly across the curve. Hold them gently. Savor the fullness.

    The more turned on she is, the more her body will show you.

    3. Her Nipples and Areolas Change Color

    This one’s subtle—but powerful.

    As stimulation increases, her nipples and areolas may deepen in color. From pink to plum. From tan to rust. It’s called vasocongestion: blood vessels expand, bringing more oxygen-rich blood to the skin.

    Most men never notice. But when you do?

    You’ll know you’re the kind of lover who sees what other men miss.

    👉 We captured this exact color change during a close-up of Cherie Deville’s breasts in Boobgasms. It’s a moment only a trained eye catches—but her body doesn’t lie.

    4. She Gasps When You Blow on Her Nipples

    Here’s where it gets electric.

    If you’ve warmed her nipples with licks, kisses, and suction—then stop and gently blow cool air over them…

    She may gasp. Shiver. Even moan.

    Why? Because her nipples are neurologically wired to respond to contrast. Wet to dry. Warm to cool. Pressure to stillness.

    It’s the tease that makes her toes curl.

    Some women say it feels like a spark straight to their core. Others say it’s a preview of orgasm.

    Either way—it means you’ve got her.

    👉 Want to see this in real time? Inside Boobgasms, I show how to use this very move on Cherie Deville and Karlie Montana—taking them to the edge with nothing more than breath, touch, and rhythm.

    Ready to Speak Her Breasts’ Secret Language?

    Every curve, every gasp, every color shift—her body talks.

    When you learn to read it, she won’t just feel touched. She’ll feel understood.

    That’s what makes boob play unforgettable.

    Inside Boobgasms, I guide you step-by-step:

    • How to recognize arousal signs in real time
    • What rhythm, pressure, and angle to use for orgasm
    • Why nipple stimulation can trigger full-body surrender

    You’ll see it all on camera. Explicitly. Elegantly. With Cherie and Karlie responding in real time.

    👉 These tips help. But only the video shows how.

    Click here to watch Boobgasms now—and learn how to give her breasts the pleasure they were made for.

    One Last Secret Before You Go…

    Her nipples changing color? Her gasp at a puff of breath? Her breasts swelling in your palms?

    These aren’t just reactions.

    They’re rewards.

    Proof that you’ve tapped into a deeper, more intimate level of her body. One most men never reach.

    You’re not just touching her chest.

    You’re learning to command her desire.

    👉 Click here to master the art of boobgasms with Cherie and Karlie.

    Hot kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

     

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  • Love Rubs: The New Intimacy

    Love Rubs: The New Intimacy

    “Massage is the study of anatomy in Braille”- Jack Meagher

    What do women want, really? It’s not boxes loaded with chocolate, it’s not being romanced under the moon, and it’s not diamonds as big as a pigeon’s egg. It’s simpler than that. It’s a day at a spa. Seriously, ask anyone. They love being spoilt with massages, beauty treatments and relaxation tools.

    I’ve taken a peek on the titillating massages moves that spas around the world are using so that you can learn to try them at home with the help of basic, step-by-step instructions. Turn your bedroom into a sexy spa and she’ll be yours before you even get the chance to put some oil on your hands.

    The lap massage

    Indian women have this trick up their sleeves, one that’s been with them for ages: whenever they want to relieve someone from stress (particularly from the neck up), they perform a scalp massage. And since women tend to carry tension above their shoulders, it’s an ideal fix for them. To boost the experience for both of you, place your girlfriend’s head in your lap so you can see her reaction to your touches. First, use your index fingers to press between her eyebrows. Then rub around her ears, where there are more than 300 pressure points, making it a prime erogenous zone. From there, massage your way up to the crown of her head. Now she can return the favor.

    Pleasure packed breast rub

    Thai massage therapists say your partner’s neck shouldn’t get all the love during a rubdown. Working on her chest (aka, boobies) increases blood flow, which helps boost the immune system. Start by drizzling lickable massage oil, like the Sensuous Sweet Touch raspberry kissable warming massage oil, $14.50 (www.sextoyfun.com) onto her skin, then place your palms next to each other facing upright, on one side of her breast, and slowly stroke upward using circular motions. Brush over her nipple with your thumbs (or your tongue). Continue to her shoulders, switching from palm to finger pressure. Repeat on the other side, then it’s your turn.

    The bellow-the-belt press

    A woman can get therapeutic benefits from loosening up her hip flexors (where the front of her upper thighs meets the hips). Hip flexors lose flexibility from sitting for long periods of time, so if she’s an office geek, she’ll appreciate this massage even more, since it’s both arousing and healthy. Rub massage oil into your hands and knead her hip flexors in a clockwise circular motion. Once her muscles feel more pliable, increase the pressure and trace circles toward the extra-sensitive groin area. After she’s been moaning in pleasure for a while, switch places so she can do you.

    The down-under massage

    The glutes (the muscles in her buttocks) and lumbar spine (the lower vertebrae that support her lower back) can house a lot of muscle tension and stress, but they are often neglected- even though they can handle deep pressure. Lie her face down and kneel over her, straddling the back of her thighs. Then make like a cat, walking your hands palm by palm down either side of her spine and into each bum cheek. Apply some sweet almond oil and use the heel of your palm (one hand at a time) to work in small circles along the contours of her back and bum. Once you’ve warmed up the muscles, use your fists to pummel gently into the fleshy areas, for at least eight minutes on each cheek.

    Titillating towel spank

    For ages, Russian spa goers have sworn by flogging to boost circulation and flush out toxins. There, you would get lashed with branches, but you can make do in your home by using a warm, damp towel. Dip a hand towel in lukewarm water, wring it out, then pop it in the microwave for 30 seconds (it shouldn’t feel scalding to the touch). Tell your girlfriend to stand with her back to you (and make sure there are no mirrors around). That way, she won’t know what areas of her body you’re going to hit each time, which ups the thrill of the whole thing for both of you. Twist the towel, then grab both ends. Release one end of the towel, and gently whip it a few times over her legs and arms, then move to the small of her back and, of course, her butt. Now let her do it to you. I challenge you not to end up in fits of laughter by the end of it.

    Have a sensual week,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Go shopping for creams, candles, scented oils, all that you’d need for creating the most romantic atmosphere. That way she’ll really feel spoiled and loved. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

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  • Erotic massage: learn the good gestures

    Erotic massage: learn the good gestures

    When you touch a body, you touch the whole person, the intellect, the spirit, and the emotions.”- Jane Harrington

    We dispose of 1800 cm² of skin which abounds in receptive nerves. We should learn to play with the power of touch more often, explore each other’s sexual geography. The fingertips and the lips should become the messengers of sensuality and softness. The receptive nerves- true capsules of voluptuousness- can give birth to innumerable sensations. We just have to know when, how and how much to provoke the skin with fleeting caresses.

    Every time I’m asked about the secret of a really good erotic massage, I always say this: you have to be present. In order to milk it of all its possible advantages, you have to abandon yourself in the act of performing the massage. This way you’ll regain the primitivism of sensations, the spontaneity of gestures, and your very own creativity in the matter.

    If you want to surprise your girlfriend or wife when she comes home tired from work, you can choose from these two massage types- Thai and oriental- which I’ll describe in the following paragraphs. All you need is patience and love. I bet the whole thing will end with a happy finish for you too.

    1) Thai erotic massage: a flow of relaxation

    This extremely sensual massage frees her from tension and allows her to feel her body on a deeper level. A sine qua non condition before you start: this massage should follow a fairly precise protocol.

    Start by massaging her feet vaults, in order to free the energetic circuits. Then, massage her whole body with the help of warm massage oil. Use soft and tender movements, barely caressing her skin, barely pushing with your palms against her skin. Her calves, her knees, her thighs, go all the way up. Using regular, fluid rhythm, no pression should break the swaying the movements imprinted. Abdomen, arms, hands, marry her contour with yours, in order to disperse the energy all over her body (and yours, for that matter!).

    Don’t forget about her bum, it should deserve special attention, since it’s rarely massaged as it should be, slapping being about the only method of “touching” it enjoys. The effect is totally guaranteed. A wave of relaxation will voluptuously encompass her.

    2) Oriental erotic massage: a flow of beauty

    In Oriental countries and in the tradition of their magnificent spas, the woman cultivates her beauty away from indiscrete peeks. The hammam rituals are exquisite and extremely relaxing. If you really want to connect with her on all levels, offer to give her an oriental massage that will nourish both her inner beauty and her sexual drive.

    Start with a little sweating, in order to clean both the body and the soul. Turn the heat on in the bathroom; pour hot water in the bathtub, a few drops of eucalyptus oil (it has purifying effects) and almond oil (it nourishes the skin), then have her soak up. Caress her face with the help of a honey and milk mask. After she’s done bathing, massage her with rosewater oil using languid, methodical and precise movements.

    Little extra tricks

     

    • Pick a calm room. It should be neither too hot, nor too cold. Create a relaxing ambiance with dim lights, candles, New Age music and incense.
    • Avoid massaging her on a bed that is too soft. She’ll tend to get lost in the pillows. Opt for a gym rug or directly on the mattress.
    • Don’t dry massage her. Use a lotion, oil or cream every time. The ideal duration of a massage session is of ten minutes for every body part.

    Why is it so good?

    When we’re on the receiving end of a massage, erotic more so, our hypophysis starts working and secretes two types of hormones: endorphins, which have the same virtues as morphine and can send us to seventh heaven, and oxytocins, which slow down our cardiac rhythm and make us more Zen. Also, it relaxes our muscles, so why not give it a try?

    Have a gorgeously sexy week-end,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. If you show her yours, she’ll show you hers, so offer her a nice massage and be sure she’ll respond with the same treatment. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

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  • Bawdy Basics: More Than a Rub Down

    Bawdy Basics: More Than a Rub Down

    Erotic massage may seem like a simple process – a little rub here, a bit of a squeeze there – and it certainly is a wonderful way to lead in to a romantic evening or some passionate lovemaking, but don’t be fooled: massage is a vast field of knowledge and skill!

    Even trained professionals have room to continue learning and perfecting their abilities, so you can bet that there are a few areas you could stand to improve your skills in erotic massage. What do you know about how your wife likes to be touched? Has she given you feedback during massage in the past? Is she ticklish, or sensitive to a heavy hand? We each have our own measure of pleasurable touch, so take the time to learn hers.

    You will likely discover that different areas of her body respond to distinct touch experiences, or that varying levels of excitement cause her to respond in unique ways. If touching a particular spot makes her flinch, don’t give up… just head somewhere else and go back later. Keep up communication, but don’t badger her if all she wants to do is relax. If what you’re doing is working, you should know by the moans, groans and excited wiggles.

    Bawdy Basics

    The first step to finding your groove giving massage is to understand the basic structure of a full-body massage. You don’t necessarily need to pamper the entire body every time you give her a rub, but if she is stressed and tense, doing a mediocre job will only leave her feeling grumpy and off balance. Put in the effort to make her feel as good as you want to feel after!

    Before you get started with the actual massage, you should both take a moment to prep your body. Standard rules apply – shower, shave if you like, use some delicious scented oils, light some candles. If you want to make it extra special, run a bubble bath for your lover to relax while you prepare the massage room. Keep the place warm!

    You will want natural oil like coconut, soft lighting, sensual music, extra sheets and some towels to protect your bed from slippery substances. Have her start lying face down with her arms either by her side or supporting her head. When you’re ready, approach her body by “zone” so you don’t get too distracted and head for the hot spots too soon.

    The Zones

    You can look at her body in five sections: torso and buttocks; scalp, neck and shoulders; arms and hands; legs, thighs and feet; breasts and vulva. This is the order you want to follow from start to finish… and it will be an amazing finish!

    Begin by applying oil to your hands and rubbing along her lower back. Don’t press along her spine. Instead, keep one hand on either side of the vertebrae to avoid injury. Squeeze the muscles in her buttocks as you work your way up her torso, past her shoulders and to her scalp.

    Rub her scalp gently and don’t mess up her hair! Be careful at the base of her spine, but focus some attention here. Most people carry the bulk of their stress in this area of the neck and shoulders, so spend some time loosening her up. Get feedback. Use your hands in a sweeping motion across her shoulders and down to her arms.

    Massage her arms and hands one at a time. Wrap your hands all the way around her arms and gently encourage the blood flow in her skin. Don’t use too much pressure or pull on her joints. Gently massage the muscles in her hands and fingers.

    When her upper body is nice and loose, ask her to flip over. Cover her with a blanket if she’s chilly and get to work on her feet. You can really go to work here, take her clues. No matter what your wife does with her day, her feet will appreciate your attention. When she is completely relax, you can start making your way up her shapely legs to the hot spots!

    Shift positions so you can reach both her breasts and her upper thighs. From here you can massage her whole breasts or focus on her nipples, all the while moving closer and closer to her sex. Rub her tummy, caress her thighs, and figure out what she wants to do next! You’ll know that she’s ready for you to take the next step when she starts to part her legs. When she’s ready to let you in, go all the way!

    Hot embraces,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Stop and Smell the Roses: The Aromatherapy of Erotic Massage

    Stop and Smell the Roses: The Aromatherapy of Erotic Massage

    What could possibly be better than a smooth, sensual rub down? One that smells absolutely divine of course! You may not consider scent to be all that important to your erotic massage technique, but when it comes to your caresses, you’ll be amazed at the difference that an aphrodisiac can make.

    Aromatherapy? Not for Me…

    When I say the word “aromatherapy” you may already have visions of New Age music and your wife’s special spa treatment, but there are a dozen great reasons to bring some basic aroma science into your sex life. Don’t be fooled – aromatherapy is serious business!

    The primary ingredient in any aromatherapy treatment or concoction is the essential oil – a volatile oil from plant matter, the part of the plant that gives it scent and taste. You can purchase essential oils from a number of different sources in order to make your own massage blends. You can buy already blended oils ready to use, or you can even endeavor to make your own!

    Just remember… being natural doesn’t automatically make something safe. Some essential oils are contraindicated for pregnant or menopausal women. Others can make the skin more photosensitive or cause irritation. If you do decide to blend your own mixes, be sure to follow careful directions regarding the preparation of massage mixes. All essential oils need to be blended into what is called a carrier oil, the kind of oils typically used for cooking and body preparations – almond, grapeseed, coconut, even plain grocery store olive oil will work, though something with a more neutral or tropical smell is generally recommended.

    What Works?

    Dozens of different oils have been associated with aphrodisiac properties, but we each have our own particular predilections. What your woman enjoys will all depend on her olfactory senses, so experiment a bit and see what she likes. Take a sniff of the perfumes and air fresheners she uses. Does she like floral, spicy, musky, or fresh? Does she tend toward sweet citrus hints or savory herbals? Why not take a shopping trip to a local essential oil supplier with your lover and see what kind of scents you can pick out together? Here’s a list of common aphrodisiac oils to get you started on your search.

    Amber has a sweet, sensual scent that begs to linger in the hollow of the throat and spread across the pulse points, reminiscent of her favorite perfume. It has an overpowering scent that can be difficult to blend, so use it sparingly.

    Basil is sweet and spicy, encouraging sexual stimulation as well as being mentally and emotionally invigorating for those days when she is so worn out that she’s worried a massage is all she’ll be up for – don’t worry, if anything will wake her up, it’s basil!

    Bergamot is a general mood-lifter with a soft, citrusy floral scent that plays very well with others.

    Cinnamon, with its spicy apple-pie scent, is a favorite of men and women alike, encouraging a relaxing down-home feeling all the while spicing up any situation.

    Clove compliments cinnamon blends very well, with another spicy note.

    Cardamom, another favorite “C” spice, has a sweet and enticing aroma which encourages sexual attraction with a warm, inviting glow.

    Coriander should be used sparingly, but it’s sweet and spicy scent is often considered an aphrodisiac, mixing well with other oils like jasmine and sandalwood.

    Ginger is another spicy scent which can be used in warming oils, again with caution. It is known to increase passions and inflame desires, and goes well with the “C” spices.

    Grapefruit is incredibly uplifting and mixes well with other citruses, along with neroli, bergamot and the “C” spices above. It is another mood-lifter to help brighten a bad day.

    Jasmine is an intoxicating floral scent that hardly any woman can resist, adding warmth and sensual notes to any mix. It should be avoided during pregnancy, but mixes well with other musky oils like amber, neroli and sandalwood.

    Lavender is a classic massage scent because of its ability to encourage relaxation. It is also antibacterial, so works great for foot massages after a long, hard day in heels!

    Neroli is an exotic aphrodisiac with a deep, seductive scent known for facilitating sexual excitement and clear communication between lovers.

    Rose essential oil is as good as a real dozen of the precious flowers, sweet and sensual, uplifting and joyful, speaking right to her heart. It is perfect for special occasions and mixes well with other exotic or floral scents.

    Patchouli is exotic and musky with a very earthy aroma, both provocative and sensual for decreased inhibitions and increased desires. It tends to blend very well with a body’s natural scent.

    Sandalwood is another musky scent with deep notes that speak to its use in ritual and meditative practices the world ‘round. It is excellent for slow, sensual lovemaking.

    Vanilla is another classic scent which, like cinnamon, tends to remind us of home. It mixes very well with spices, as well as any of the floral scents.

    Ylang ylang is the quintessential aromatherapy aphrodisiac, erotic and exotic, known to enhance libido

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Making Massage Matter: How to Initiate

    Making Massage Matter: How to Initiate

    You might think that it would be easy to convince someone to lay down and allow you to rub their naked body with warm, soothing or stimulating oils. Of course, this isn’t always the case, is it? You know as well as I do that some days the last thing we want to do is have to worry about getting oil stains on the sheets, keeping the kids out of the room, cleaning the pet hair that clings to everything before getting started, or just turning off the TV for that matter.

    So what is a sex-starved couple to do?

    Pop Your Personal Bubble

    Want to encourage more touch in your relationship? Do it! Let your physical boundaries soften and get “touchy feely” with your lover. What kind of thoughts does that phrase conjure for you? It is often used by those uncomfortable with the idea of touch to disparage the physical closeness and emotional openess often displayed by those in the early stages of love. How do you feel about touch?

    For many men, especially those discouraged from affectionate touch, the line between sexual touch and affectionate touch becomes blurred. They see every opportunity or invitation for touch with their lover as a sexual advance an attempt to influence the encounter accordingly. But all humans require affectionate touch. Touch free of sexual expectations is a necessary aspect of an intimate relationship and indeed every life. If you are missing out on this pure affectionate touch, sexual touch may in fact be not only undesirable but outright unpleasant!

    Get out of your personal bubble and allow yourself to use casual touch in your day-to-day interactions with your wife. You might find that when you allow yourself to brush her hair, touch her chin, hold her hand, stroke her arm, grab her waist, or rub her legs and feet, that  your need for touch isn’t entirely sexual either. We all crave these kinds of affirmations and connections with each other.

    People who have regular, loving, affectionate touch live longer and happier lives… just like people who have more regular sex! Coincidence?

    Get Your Rub On

    Ifyou want more hands-on time with your lover, don’t make such a big deal of the “erotic” part of erotic massage. When you pass by her hunched over the table hard at work on something, give her shoulders and gently squeeze, and if she responds well you can continue for a minute or three with a gentle shoulder massage. When you are sitting next to each other on the couch after dinner, offer to rub her tired feet. Use a touch of coconut oil for lotion if she wants it, but don’t make it messy if that’ll spoil the mood. The point here is to get here interested in touch without introducing the complications of sex, mess, or privacy from the kids and the cats.

    You can suggest a deeper and more relaxing massage at just the right moments to help encourage the more erotic elements, but don’t overdo it. Offer to rub her back when you’re in bed at night, but don’t worry to much about breaking out the oils just yet. If you have been rubbing her feet, rub her legs too. Do whatever you can to begin to show her that you want to help her relax in a low-pressure environment. As questions, get feedback. Find out what parts of her body are feeling tense and tight, so you can focus on that specific area. Make sure you aren’t massaging to deep or hard, or too lightly either.

    Sensual Elements

    If you’re ditching the scented candles, massage oils and gentle music for now, see what you can do to get creative in implementing other sensual elements! Put on a bit of nice cologne or aphrodisiac oil on your own body beforehand to help spice up the scents, but don’t use too much. Be subtle! Whisper sweet nothings into her ear as you rub her down. Talk about what you are grateful for and use the opportunity as a door to mindfulness. Talk about your day and ask her about hers… just don’t let the silence become the loudest thing in the room, and don’t start talking about sex.

    Let her set the pace. If you have been giving her massages and she has yet to make a move to reciprocate, see if you can entice her to rub your temples when you have a headache or your feet after a long day. Be sure you are clean first! If you create a regular routine of sharing this kind of affectionate touch, you give her just as much opportunity to initiate the erotic elements as you.  See where it leads you!

    Hot embraces,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Erotic Reflexology Massage: A Few New Special Spots!

    Erotic Reflexology Massage: A Few New Special Spots!

    Reflexology is an ancient massage science which ascribes areas of the skin and glands – in particular on the hands, feet, face and ears – to other parts of the body, namely the internal organs and major body systems. Sexual reflexology takes these associations into account in order to stimulate the sexual organs and awaken the body to new heights of ecstasy. Sexual reflexology also gives you the opportunity to focus on relaxation and foreplay. Learn where you should be massaging and don’t worry too much about the technicalities of what body part you might be stimulating with each movement. In the long run, the entire process will be stimulating and invigorating!

    The best place to start with a sexy reflex massage is the face. Don’t get naked right away. Sit down somewhere like the couch or the bed with your legs crossed and have your lover sit in front of you and lean back, resting her head in your lap. While it might be your first instinct to focus exclusively on the areas of the body associated with the sex organs – like so many men focus entirely on a woman’s breasts or genitals during foreplay – you don’t have to worry much about what organs or systems reflexology point you are pressing. Instead you can think about the process as a ritual of relaxation, going through the steps and aligning all of the body’s systems.

    The Reflexology Face Massage

    1. Rub up either side of the thyroid gland from the collar bone to just below the chin.
    2. Press gently into the indent of her chin to stimulate the GI tract and brighten her skin.
    3. Rub from the indent above the chin up towards the lower lip, along the length of her mouth.
    4. Massage the edges of the mouth to stimulate the mouths.
    5. Gently rub the ridges under the nose towards the upper lip for the spleen.
    6. Rub the tip of her nose (with your own nose, if you want to be cute!) to support the stomach.
    7. Very gently stimulate the jaw joint in the deepest part of the cheek, which will get the digestive system going and get dinner off her mind.
    8. Press very gently along the ridges of the cheekbones from the nose and below the eyes.
    9. Tap lightly with a fluttering motion under the eyes, starting from the outside and moving in, to improve the skin condition and stimulate the kidneys.
    10. Rub gently with your index, middle and ring fingers between the eyes to stimulate the pituitary gland and the entire reproductive system.
    11. Rub your thumbs along the edge of her hairline to improve mental clarity.
    12. Rub again up into her hair from the center of her forehead (if her hair is parted in the middle, rub gently down the center of her part) to stimulate the rest of the nervous system.
    13. Pinch up and down the ears very gently with your forefinger and thumb. The ear, like the face, hands and feet, can be broken up into all the body systems. Running your fingers from the top to the bottom along the outer ridge helps the whole body.
    14. Finally begin massaging the ridge of the jawline, beginning from the base of the ears to the chin to stimulate the sex organs.

    Grab her chin and give her an upside down kiss!

    The hands and feet are also ripe with pressure points for the body, but after this great face massage you won’t need to spend too much time on the hands and feet. Start with the feet and give them a good all-over rub. Finish off by gently pressing the points at the back of the heel and rubbing along the calf towards the inside of the knee. After relieving the tension in her legs, go in for another kiss and grab her hands while you’re at it.

    The sexual pressure points in the upper body are in the wrists. The base of the hands where the meet the wrists are entirely associated with the sexual organs, in particular the small pits in the wrists, one on each side, two on the front or back of the wrist. If you pin her down with her wrists in your hands, you can hold on to her with your thumb on one pressure point on the inside of her wrist, and your ring fingers on the back of her wrist. See what kind of pressure points your lips can hit next!

    Happy rubbing, fellas!

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Naughty massages to treat her to

    Naughty massages to treat her to

    „The mind has exactly the same power as the hands: not merely to grasp the world, but to change it”- Colin Wilson

    A sensual rubdown is a slow-boil approach to arousal. Because we’re living our lives on fast forward most of the times, we rarely undergo this pampering treat, so the slightest strokes trigger a forceful stream of relaxing neurochemicals. For a woman especially, a well-done massage winds her up in a mellow, ready-for-pleasure state.

    Another reason rubdowns rock her world: studies show that receiving tactile pleasure reduces stress, improves IQ, and broadcasts love and emotional connection within the couple with the same degree of accuracy as facial expressions. Good thing the skin has thousands of nerve endings (about 600,000 receptor cells) to transmit all those feel good vibes.

    But the good news don’t stop here: massage also sends blood coursing into key hot spots, engaging the muscles and nerve endings everywhere you touch. Here’s a bouquet of surefire moves that will transport her body into such an immense state of bliss she’ll never want to get out of your hands.

    • Before you toss a clothing item on the floor, put it to good use. Drape a cami along her face, letting her feel it’s filminess while inhaling the scent.
    • Women have thinner skin than men do, so always use softer pressure, otherwise you’ll only get her even more tense. They also have a higher skin temperature, so turn on the AC or refrigerate a massage oil before applying it.
    • Use your fingers instead of your palms to caress her body- the tips are packed with dozens of touch receptors. For a fresher sensation for her, massage her breasts with your torso or the sole of your feet.
    • Holding hands has an immediate calming effect by lowering stress-related levels of cortisol. Interrupt the work of your hands to interlock them with hers, and continue massaging her… with your mouth!
    • She’s more likely to get aroused when she can’t anticipate what’s going to happen (That’s why we can’t tickle ourselves- we know what’s coming). Wrap a scarf around her eyes and vary the placement and pressure of touch.
    • Kick-start all the nerves in her skin using a hot/cold combination of massage oils and ice cubes. Put a bit of oil in one hand (rub hands together to warm it up), and use it to knead her bare shoulders. Then take an ice cube and run it over the same area. Repeat the pleasurable process as you work your way down to her back, finishing off at her bum.

    As for precise places to touch her so that you achieve maximum relaxation effect, go with the classics. You can make sure they deliver, sinking her in a feeling of complete and utter bliss.

    1. The Chest Master

    This breast massage is sure to please. With fingers splayed on both hands, trace wide circles around each breast simultaneously, slowly spiraling in. You’re building up the excitement as you make your way to her sensitive nipple area. Then stimulate the nipples by running the heel of your palms over them with a barely there touch.

    2. The Shoulder Holder

    To give her goosebumps and relieve her of all the muscle tension gathered in that specific region, coat your hands with spicy massaging lotion before you start. Grab her shoulder with one hand, and make your other hand into a soft fist, gently working it into the groove by running it from the edge of her shoulder to the crook of her neck. Repeat on the left side. This move softens the tight muscles around her shoulders and helps her relax.

    3. The Thigh Pleaser

    Kneel between her legs, and walk your fingers from her knee, up the inner thigh, toward her vaginal area. Before you reach the promised land, stop and lightly drag your fingertips back down the inside. The thin skin makes it sensitive to the touch; plus, the fact that you’re so close to her privates, without actually touching the area, gives her a rush.

    4. The Back Bliss-Out

    Of course, the king of all massages is the back rub. You can situate her in a sitting position or, to make the stroke session even sexier, straddle her butt. Put the palms of your hands at the small of her back, and then firmly glide them both sides, along her spine (but not directly on it). At her shoulder blades, fan your hands out and over, fingers spread, creating branches with your fingers. Then return to her lower back and repeat, increasing the pressure each round.

    Have a wonderful week-end,

    Gabrielle Moore

    P.S. Kneading her muscles and skin causes blood to rush to her groin, which is ammo for a powerful orgasm, so keep the massage sessions going! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

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