Author: Fidan

  • Give Her a Spank!

    There is something so thrilling about being a little naughty in bed. We all like different things. Some of us might like to get really down and dirty in the bedroom. Others like more “vanilla” sex, perhaps believing that sex is just wonderful in its purest and simplest form. Either way, there are a lot of ways to make sex even more exciting, whether you like it really dirty or sensual and romantic.

    The way we’re going to discuss today is spanking. Spanking is one of those fun and bad little activities that a person might not even think they will enjoy right up until they give or receive their first little slap on the bum and a rush of hot arousal runs through your body. Why do we like it so much? Well, for starters the butt is an erogenous zone and filled with delicious little nerve endings that are just begging to be stimulated.  On top of that, the butt shares the same neural pathways that lead straight to the brain as our genitals do.

    By now I’m guessing you’re a little more than intrigued? I thought so. Let’s go over the how to together.

    Positions

    1. Across your lap – If this is comfortable for both parties, your partner lying down across your lap is a great position to practice spanking. You (the spanker) should sit in an armless chair, on the bed, or on the couch where your partner is able to lie across your lap. You should hold on to her with one hand and spank with the other.

    2. Bent over – Another great position is your partner bent over something, like a desk, table or the arm of the sofa. It should be comfortable so she can rest her upper body on the surface and stick her bum high in the air for you.

    3. All fours – In this position your partner will get on all fours and either stay in table top position, or rest her elbows and forearms flat so that her butt sticks straight up in the air.

    4. During sex – While the other positions mentioned were more for doing spanking as a form of foreplay, there are some who like to give their partners a spank while they’re having sex. Doggy style is a great position for this and so is the woman on top position.

    How To

    It might seem that there isn’t much to spanking, but that’s definitely not the case! There is a right way to do it.

    * You might not think it, but you actually don’t want to leave her with a stinging, sore butt. So, cup your hand and keep your fingers together when spanking. This will help to minimize the sting. Some couples also use latex or leather gloves or a fur mitt for this purpose. For those couples that do want to leave the spankee with a red, sore bum, use an open, flat hand with fingers spread wide.

    * Start by massaging and squeezing her butt. Then begin with lighter spanks, with a rub and squeeze in between. Just like any other sexual activity, you want to ease into anything more intense.

    * Concentrate your spanking on the fleshy part of her bum, steering clear of the spin, tailbone and top of the butt.

    * Increase the intensity of your spanking and the speed. Only break contact with the skin in order to administer another spank. When you spank, swipe your hand upward.

    * As things intensify you can change up the stimulation from spanking to rubbing, caressing and squeezing.

    * The underside of her buttcheeks are especially sensitive and spanking her there (once she is fully aroused) can also jiggle around the genital area and provide really intense sensations.

    * Always proceed with caution when it comes to intensity. It’s a good idea to agree on a “safe word” for your partner to use if she decides she doesn’t want to be spanked anymore.

    The Role of Fantasy

    A lot of spanking in the bedroom can be engaged in alongside role playing. There are a ton of fun scenarios you could try, like boss/assistant, teacher/student, etc. If you’re not interested in role playing then you can spank your partner once things start getting hot and heavy during sex. I should also mention that you might want to try switching the roles I mentioned here and becoming the spankee, while she becomes the spanker!

    Once you’re done spanking, move on to sex and make sure your give her bum some extra loving caresses and squeezes along the way!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 6 Secret Orgasmic Hot Spots

    6 Secret Orgasmic Hot Spots

    Those who know a lot about the human body and how it works know that there are many surprising little hot spots that can trigger sexual feelings in the body. Some of them can be found in the most surprising places. I’m not talking about the obvious pleasure zones, like the clitoris, vagina, or the nipples. I’m talking about sparking desire and pleasure by touching areas you would never normally associate with sex! If you want to truly master the art of erotic massage with your partner, you need to know about these special spots.

    1. The Sacrum – Do you know where this special love button is located? Well, you need to know about it ASAP. The sacrum is located at the very base of the spine right in the center. It is a triangular shaped area at the bottom of the back, right above the butt. This is where the sacral nerves are located, which is a long set of nerves that shoot straight to a woman’s genitals. Research has shown that electric stimulation will give 91% of women an orgasm! But don’t worry guys, you don’t need to give her electric stimulation in order to get results, you just need your own two hands. Your partner should lie down on her stomach. You can start with a normal back rub, starting at the shoulders and making your way down. Your partner should be topless, of course (being nude doesn’t hurt either!). You can either press down on the sacrum with your palm (try vigorously rubbing your hands together first to create heat) or you can perform a gentle karate chop style massage. These techniques activate these nerves and build heat in that area which goes right to the genitals. Also try kneading the area with your thumbs (don’t forget to apply a slippery massage oil for best results). This will not only be incredibly relaxing, but it will get her turned on as well.

    2. The Big Toe – The big toe is a popular point in reflexology, the practice of applying pressure to the hands, feet and ears in order to stimulate different organs and parts of the body. They say that there is a neurological link between the toes and your genitals. The big toe is said to be the most sensitive of all of them, even causing orgasms in some women. There are a few ways to stimulate this area. First, during a foot massage you can take her toe, pinch the sides of it and roll in between your fingers. Try massaging her feet first and then making your way to her toes. Use a nice massage oil or lotion. Another very successful option is to suck on her toes.

    3. The Belly Button – When a female is developing in the womb, her navel and belly button actually develop from the same tissue at the clitoris, so it’s no wonder that the belly button and navel are next on our hot spot list. Try using your tongue or finger in her belly button. That might feel too intense for some women, so if that’s the case, go 2 to 3 inches further south to a set of acupressure points called the Sea of Energy. These points are associated with sexual energy and fertility.

    4. The Nose – This one surprised me the first time I heard it as much as it probably surprised you. After the mouth, the nose has the biggest concentration of nerve endings in it. There are a couple ways to stimulate this area. It might sound strange, but one of the best ways to stimulate the nose is by nibbling on it lightly. You can also try giving “eskimo kisses,” which are rubbing your noses together from side to side (for those who don’t know!).

    5. Pelvic Pressure Point – There is a point in the pelvis in the center of the crease where the leg meets the body. This is an extremely important point in acupressure and reflexology because stimulating it is said to increase a woman’s sexual response and intensifies sensations in the genitals. In order to activate this point, press down firmly with your thumbs in this area for about 30 seconds to 1 minute. Press down at .5 inch intervals around the area.

    6. The Heel – We’re going back to the feet with this final hot point. While you’re giving her an amazing foot massage (complete with toe stimulation!), spend some time on the bottom inside part of the heel. This is a pressure point which is said to awaken desire in the genitals. Stimulation is done the same way as in the previous point.

    The human body is truly an amazing thing. Incorporate these hot spots into your next sensual massage and I’m sure you’ll see exciting results!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 4 Important Rules For Erotic Massage

    4 Important Rules For Erotic Massage

    Erotic massage is such an amazing way to be intimate with your partner. It’s not sex, but it can lead to amazingly hot sex. It’s not sex, but it can foster a bond and help you connect with your partner. It’s a great form of foreplay that is guaranteed to get her extremely turned on every time. There is also something really special about taking the time to really touch and explore your partner’s body and give pleasure and attention to every nook and cranny.

    However, erotic massage is not like your typical massage. Some people hear “erotic” and think it means you just go straight to the breasts and vagina right away, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Just like any kind of massage, it’s an art form. If you want to do it right, you need to pay close attention to what you’re doing and use all the best techniques. In order to help you with this, today I’m sharing 4 of the most important rules for erotic massage.

    1. Set the mood, the tone and pace – As I said, giving a really fantastic erotic massage is about a lot more than just where and how you touch her. This first rule has to do with technique just as much as touching her does and it can be just as important too. First you want to pay attention to setting the right kind of mood. She needs to be able to feel totally relaxed, so make sure you clean the area where you will give her the massage. It should be clean, smelling good, and free of distracting clutter. Consider setting a professional tone to the massage. Your job is to give her a hot and sexy massage, but it can add an extra exciting element if you also act as though you are a serious massage professional. This will give the massage a “role play” type feel which will make it even more hot once your hands start wandering to those off-limits areas. Finally, you want to think about the pace that you set. An erotic massage should never be rushed. You want to take your time and massage each part of her body slowly.

    2. Make it erotic, not sexual – As much as you might be dying to touch her vulva, her clit and her breasts, hold off. The massage is meant to feel erotic in nature, not sexual. It will be erotic because you’re touching her naked body, with your hands and paying extra attention to erogenous zones (other than the ones I just mentioned). The key to a good erotic massage is building up intensity. Think about it, when you build up the intensity slowly when you’re having sex, the sensations are much better and you have a much more powerful orgasm in the end. The same should go for an erotic massage. You’re going slowly and building up intensity. The massage doesn’t need to end in sex or an orgasm, but if it does, it will be a great one.

    3. Have the right tools – Make sure you get a great massage oil that is light and glides over the skin easily. Have everything prepared and on hand so that you don’t have to interrupt the massage for anything. On your bedside table you should have a glass or bottle of water, your massage oil, and some music to play (if it’s your phone, don’t forget to put it on airplane mode!). If it’s cold, have a clean sheet and a blanket to cover parts over her body that you’re not massaging. Usually she will get warm pretty quickly and later they might not be necessary, but her comfort is one of the most important things to keep in mind, since she won’t be able to fully relax if she is uncomfortable. Think of everything and have it on hand.

    4. Tease and tantalize – I can’t express how important the art of teasing is to an erotic massage. For example, a great way to tease is to come very close to touching your partner’s vulva, but deliberately avoiding it. With every stroke get a little closer, but once you are very close slowly move away again. Don’t change the direction of the massage, but slowly go further away and then begin to go closer again. This will have her focusing 110% on your touch and it will drive her mad with lust!

    Happy rubbing, fellas!
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 8 Essential Erotic Massage Dos and Don’ts

    8 Essential Erotic Massage Dos and Don’ts

    An erotic massage can be a perfect way to segway into an amazing night of sex with your partner. You might find that your partner doesn’t seem to be interested in sex these days, but most people are always up for a massage. Even though this will be an erotic massage, your partner doesn’t have to know that! Start off giving a regular massage, which can actually be very erotic on its own. Then, along the way, you can make the massage more erotic. But, let’s face it, not everyone is skilled when it comes to giving massages. For that reason, I’ve compiled this important list of DOs and DON’Ts when it comes to erotic massage:

    DO Learn some skills. Some men might choose to take a massage class to really become an expert in using your hands to really make your partner feel great, but there are other options out there if taking a class is not for you. First, check out my past articles on erotic massage. You can also find some helpful videos by doing a search on YouTube.

    DO Learn what she likes. Beyond just learning the basic skills you need to give an outstanding erotic massage, you also need to learn the personal preferences of your partner. Some people like a light touch, whereas others like more pressure. Find out what she likes by communicating with her as you give her a massage. Once you’ve got it down you can quiet down and just let her enjoy the sensations.

    DON’T Go right for the erotic zones. A great erotic massage is all about the build up, so don’t jump right in by grabbing her boobs, butt or touching her clitoris! You need to start by massaging the lesser known erogenous zones and work your way slowly to the more common ones, teasing her all the way.

    DO Use a generous amount of massage oil. Pick a good, high-quality massage oil. This will allow your hands to effortlessly glide over her body. Keep it nearby and reapply when necessary. Consider choosing a scented one, but always consult your partner first about what she likes. A person’s sense of smell is very important when it comes to arousal and you want to be sure that she likes the scent that you have chosen. Consider lavender as a possible choice, which helps to relax and increase desire in a person.

    DO Break it down into parts. If you have a hard time figuring out how much time is enough, break the massage down into parts. Spend the first 25% of the massage working on her less erotic zones, such as the shoulders, back, neck, arms, hands, legs and feet. These are not generally considered erogenous zones, but they actually are! The next 35% of the massage can begin to incorporate more erotic areas, like the breasts, nipples, butt, inner thighs, and mons pubis. Don’t just jump into these areas and focus on them alone, but incorporate them into the massage that you are already performing. For example, when you’re massaging her lower back, you can now make your way down to her butt and then on to her thighs and inner thighs. The next 20-25% of the massage should be spent on the major erotics zones, like the clitoris, anus, vagina, nipples and breasts. This is the part where you will try to give your partner an orgasm. Then the final 15-20% of the massage is the wind down. Instead of just finishing the massage as soon as she’s cum, instead, start to work your way back into a massage of the less erotic areas that you started with. This will allow her to relax even further into post-orgasmic bliss.

    DO Make sure you have seamless progression when you’re moving between less erotic areas onto more erotic areas. For example, make your way slowly to a more erotic area by massaging your way there. Don’t say, ok, first part’s over and immediately go for the nipples.

    DON’T Forget to pay attention to your own hygiene. Make sure you’ve showered, clipped your nails, washed your hands and applied lotion.

    DO Set the scene. Make sure the room you will give the massage in is clean, warm and comfortable. Dim the lights, put on soothing music, and do anything else that you think will help to make your partner relax.

    Happy rubbing!
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Creative ways to touch her

    Creative ways to touch her

    “Whether you are kissing, rubbing, licking or fingering her, pinning her down will drive her insane. That feeling of helplessness really turns women on.” – Pauline Reage

    One perfectly timed brush of the thigh can take a sexual encounter from pretty good to holy smokes, this is hot! There’s a slew of science that proves how the power of touch can stir sizzle when it comes to hitting the sheets. All it takes is knowing a few key moves. Touching isn’t just sweet; it sets off the release of the bonding hormone oxytocin, the same hormone that also triggers a cascade of physical and emotional reactions, like a lower heart rate, slower breathing, and a surge in feelings associated with love and lust.

    Even when sex isn’t the goal, regular touching acts as glue for a couple and the majority of women rated themselves happier in relationships that include kissing and cuddling on the regular. While we touch during sex – obviously – way too many couples don’t maximize the power of touch while they are hooking up or even just hanging out. Here, some touch-tastic ideas that will not only bring you closer as a couple but will also make sex feel extra hot.

    Slow down

    Even if you can go from workday to foreplay at the drop of your pants, it pays to take your time doing some necking before you go at it. Run your hands through her hair, kiss her earlobe, rub her back (she won’t be surprised or complain when your hands wander). Gentle touch primes us for a more intense orgasm by building our anticipation for what’s to come. It also gives you time to think about the sexy things you want to do to each other next.

    Get cinematic

    Sex scenes in movies are all touchy and sensual and drawn out… but in real life? Not so much. Be that movie guy! Go all dramatic when you lean in for a kiss. Wrap your arms around her and grab behind her neck for a Hollywood-approved hot kiss. Just going through those motions will make you feel way more passionate.

    Go panini-style

    Make like a human sandwich and lie so you and your partner are both facing down, flat on top of the other, totally naked. Let your bodies meld and your breaths sync for a few minutes. Your partner, being on top, gets to let her limbs go limp and feel your warmth underneath. You, being on the bottom, get that calm, secure feeling you experience with a weighted blanket. Plus, your naked bodies smushed together will probably give you a few other ideas.

    Zone in

    Her mouth, her nose (yep, I swear), and what she’s packing in her panties are three of her parts most densely populated with nerve endings that connect to the sensory regions of the brain. Touch around them first, then touch them directly, but not just with your hands – use your lips, tongue, nipples, for new sensations that will give her a little thrill.

    Show and tell

    Which of your body parts are you most proud of? (I’ll give you a minute to pick just one, you stud!) Settled? Grab her hands and place them there. If you’re feeling good about your pecs – and your partner focuses her attention exactly on that area, running her hands up and down in a rhythmic motion, you’ll feel even greater about your body and what it can do. The result? Better sex, of course!

    Take off those damn clothes

    Sometimes it feels like too much trouble to pull your shirt all the way off and get stark naked. But do it. When you’re not too lazy to take off all your clothes, it makes sex feel less like we’re checking a box and more like you’re having a really passionate night together. Not to mention there’s more skin-on-skin contact, which means more nerves get stimulated, which means stronger orgasm.

    Linger longer

    You’ve climaxed; she’s climaxed. Now what? Lots of men and women are super sensitive to touch after orgasm (especially women – and especially there, so proceed gingerly). But don’t just roll away. Spoon or be spooned, gently caress the how-is-it-possible-that-this-is-so-soft underside of her arm or her cute butt or her chest – wherever you naturally rest your hands – with slow, gentle strokes or circles. It feels so good you might just go for round two.

    Hot embraces,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Erotic Massage – The Back Rub That Will Leave Her Begging For More

    Erotic Massage – The Back Rub That Will Leave Her Begging For More

    It’s been a long day. You can tell the moment she walks in the door that your partner has had a tough one. It’s written all over her face. She has that look, as if to say, “you won’t believe what I’ve had to deal with today.” You might have been hoping to relieve a little bit of the day’s stress with sex, but you probably already know that the second you lay your hands on your partner, she’s going to peel your hand away and say, “not tonight, honey. Sorry, but I’m really not in the mood.”

    It’s a tough situation because you know as well as I do that sex is fantastic way to fight off stress, but how do you get your partner on board when she says she’s just not in the mood? You shouldn’t press the issue because that will only lead to an argument and hurt feelings. So, what do you do? First, forget about sex. Instead, think about relieving your partner’s stress in another way that she IS in the mood for. What’s the benefit here? She will appreciate the sweet gesture and it might even make her want to have sex in the end.

    I’m talking about using the art of erotic massage to relax and pleasure your partner. Your end goal shouldn’t be having sex, but you should definitely be ready for your partner to open herself up to you. It’s often one of the many amazing side effects of a great erotic massage.

    Here’s what you need to know in order to give her an amazing erotic back massage:

    * Make sure she doesn’t see this as a ploy to get her to have sex, but instead as a nice gesture to help her relax and feel good after a long, hard day.

    * Use just the right amount of pressure. Men have stronger hands than women and they also tend to use way too much pressure when it comes to giving a massage. This isn’t a deep tissue massage. If she wants that, she can go to the local spa. You want to use enough pressure so that you can feel her muscles moving under your hands, but not so much that she is squirming, cringing or tensing up. When in doubt, you can ask her if she would like more or less pressure.

    * Go s-l-o-w-l-y. Going too fast will not relax your partner, it might even make them feel rushed and nervous. This is about pleasure, so take it slow and sensual.

    * Use a nice massage oil. It feels better when your hands slide easily over her skin, so choose a nice, light, good-smelling massage oil.

    * Avoid massaging over joints and bones. Women in particular might have thin muscle tissue covering these areas and therefore putting too much pressure on them will be uncomfortable or even painful.

    * Do your research. A great way to learn how to give the best massages is by observing a professional at work. You could either take an amateur massage class or even get a massage yourself, but pay close attention to the techniques your masseuse uses.

    * The majority of people carry their tension in their shoulders. This is an important area to focus on. First take both shoulders in your hands and use your thumbs to push down. You can also use your forearms to press down on her shoulder with your palm facing up. Use your body weight to press down while rotating your arm inward toward her neck. Another great trick is to use a tennis ball to massage sensitive areas of the shoulders and to get knots out.

    * The lower back in another important area to focus on. Many women carry a lot of tension and pain in their lower backs. Use the heels of your hands and your body weight to rub the lower back from the spine to hip. Rub the often tense muscles that surround the hips.

    * You’ll also need to focus some of your attention on your partner’s neck. When she is in a sitting position, place your hand at the back of her neck and then slowly apply pressure with your fingertips. Remember that this can be a particularly sore area, so going slow is especially important so that you don’t hurt her.

    * To really start to send tingling sensations throughout her body, give her a scalp massage by rubbing the tips of your fingers over her scalp. This is one of the little-known erogenous zones.

    * At the end of the massage, just like when you’re working out at the gym, you should do a cool down. This is when things can start to get sexual, but make sure that you are reading her cues correctly. Start stroking her back and body more lightly and begin doing long and slow strokes all the way up and down her back, over her butt and thighs.

    Happy rubbing!
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 9

    My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 9

    Hey there lover boy and welcome back to my top sexy tips ideas!  Today I want to show you some fun ways to flirt and have sex, and also introduce you to the sacral nerve.

    1. Stimulate the sacral nerve

    There are a cluster of nerves at the bottom of the spine called the sacral nerves that are connected to the clitoris and aid in orgasm.  In fact, stimulation of this area with electrodes can even trigger orgasm in legally dead patients.  Wow!  Doctors today are testing implants in this area to help women who can’t orgasm to achieve it.  Personally, if I had a dial connected to my orgasm, I’d have that thing on max all the time and would never get out of bed!  But I regress…

    You don’t have to put an implant or electrodes in her spine though to stimulate her sacral nerves.  You can get her to lie on her belly and give her a lower back and butt massage.  The hot spot to touch is on the lower hip, that sweet indentation between a butt check and the upper thigh, where the thigh joins at the hip.  Simply pressing on that area (gently) with your finger tips in a circular motion or the palm of your hand can stimulate the area.  Also, karate chops, if done gently, can also cause arousal. So, use this trigger to get her orgasmic even before you have sex.

    1. Seduce her with your eyes

    What’s that saying, “the eyes are the gateway to the soul”?  Well, using your eyes to seduce her can also be the gateway to sex.

    Making eye contact with your lover, and devouring them with your eyes by looking them up and down with a seductive smile, can really start the sparks flying.  Use your eyes to seduce her when you get closer, gazing deeply into her eyes as you slow dance, looking into her eyes as you kiss.  This is a very intimate act, and will let her know you desire her, as well as turn her on and making her melt.

    Eye gazing (or soul gazing) is a Tantric technique that deepens intimacy and awakens sexual energy between lovers. Studies show that unbroken eye gazing, even between strangers, can increase feelings of passionate love for each other. Eye gazing releases the chemical phenylethylamine that speeds up attraction.  And, when you look at someone you are in love with, your pupils actually enlarge, which makes your eyes even more sexually alluring to your partner.

    Try it and see!

    1. Strip poker

    Okay, this is a bit silly, but games can be fun.  I recommend trying this when you have had a drink or two and you are both more sexually “lubricated”.

    Stripping in front of your partner can be very erotically stimulating, because the lights are on and you can see everything.  Plus being “forced” to remove your clothes for a game has added excitement.

    There are many variations on this game (just Google it), but using chips for betting and adding foreplay rules to it increases they ante.

    1. Sex at a party

    Have you ever felt so hot and horny for each other, that you are at a party, eyeing each other up an down and you just can’t wait to get home and get it on?

    There is nothing a hot as sneaking into the bathroom for a hot and heavy quickie, trying to muffle the sounds of sex, while people bang on the door for you to get out.

    Well, works for me!

    1. Play “May I”

    What is “May I”?  This is kind of like the game you played as a kid, called “Mother, May I”, but is an updated, adult version for sexy play.

    Basically, it’s the same, except you ask your partner “May I” before every seductive act you do on them, starting with undressing them, to foreplay, to sex.

    Why do it?  Well, asking permission is important, especially when it comes to acts of sex.  Plus, if your partner is not into a certain thing, they can say, “No, but I’d like you to do this instead…”  And, this helps you learn to know what they like and what turns them on.  Plus, its fun!

    Okay, lover boy. Lots of sexy ideas for you today that you can practise at home.  Don’t forget to do your homework, now!

    Until next time, stay sexy!

    Kisses,
    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 7 new erotic massage techniques

    7 new erotic massage techniques

    It can be easy to let massage slip through the cracks as a part of good sex when you have been in a relationship for a while. However, giving your partner a massage can be an incredible erotic and sensual experience for both of you. It can be an amazing expression of intimacy and can show your significant other that you are in tune with their body.
    You don’t have to be a licensed massage therapist to give your sweetie a massage that will leave her feeling relaxed and in the mood for hot sex. With a little imagination and planning you can give her an experience he will never forget.

    Take Inventory

    There are several things you can use during a good massage. Some may already be in your house. Start with good massage oil. Baby oil will do in a pinch but look for something scented that is not so messy. For example, lavender is good for relaxation. Be sure to put it in a cup of warm water to heat it up. Set the scene with lit candles, clean sheets and slow music. Have a towel close by so you can wipe your hands if you need to. Think outside the box and use a feather or some massage mitts that give different tactile sensations.

    When She Least Expects It

    Go for the element of surprise. Don’t wait until it is time for bed. Surprise her when she comes home from work. Most women are thinking of the chores they have to do around the house after work and couples who have been together for a while tend to get into a routine. Breaking the routine can really shake things up sexually and giving her an erotic massage will go a long way to show her you understand how hard she works and that you are willing to do what it takes to give her pleasure. Get everything you need together and have it in the bedroom on the nightstand so it is within easy reach. Open a bottle of wine and greet her at the door with a glass.

    Start Slowly

    When she comes in and the shock wears off, take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom. Spend some time kissing her and whispering in her ear. Tell her that night is all about her. Slowly and deliberately undress her. A lot of men don’t know this but women like to be undressed by their lover and that is something that often falls by the wayside after a while.

    Have her lie down on her stomach and start by rubbing your fingers through her hair and give her a scalp massage. This actually feels incredible. Put some warm oil on your hands and start on her neck and slowly work your way down. Remember the skin is the largest sex organ on the body so erogenous zones are all over, not just in between your legs.
    Play with her and tease her with your touch. Rub your hands all over her body. Tickle him with your beard stubble or a feather.

    Bottom’s Up

    Don’t neglect her ass. Give her ass a good rub and deep massage and run your fingers lightly down in between her butt cheeks. Drizzle some more warm oil on her bottom and apply massage pressure in slow circles lightly and then harder releasing all the muscle tension as you work. Go all the way down to her feet and then have her turn over on her back.
    Time for the Flip Side
    Once on her back lightly caress her face and kiss her lips. Go all the way down each arm and massage and caress each hand.
    It is Not All in What She Sees
    To make it even more sensual, put a blindfold on her. By taking away what she sees, her body will have to use her other senses to an even higher degree. Take advantage of her sense of hearing by using erotic talk and her sense of touch with all the different tactile sensations you can think of that she might like.
    Save the Best for Last
    As you work your way down her body, don’t touch her vulva. Not just yet. The more you touch her everywhere else the more aroused she will become. Tease her. Flirt with her. Touch her clitoris just a little bit then stop. Kiss and touch her inner thighs and work your way down massaging her legs.
    When you have massaged her entire body, and she is breathing heavily with anticipation, it is time to pay some attention to her genitals. Gently stroke her clitoris with one hand and her vagina with the other, slowly at first and then faster. Let her reaction be your guide. Bring her closer and closer to orgasm until she can’t take it anymore.
    Erotic massage should be erotic but is should also be fun. Use this as an opportunity to show your sensual side. Remember that you don’t have to be a professional to give a good massage. Confidence in what you are doing can be the biggest turn on. Take a leap of faith and know that you will both enjoy such an erotic experience.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • 6 surprise sexy spots

    6 surprise sexy spots

    When you and your lady get frisky, it makes sense to reach for some pretty obvious body parts. But those tried-and-true areas of your anatomy aren’t the only places that can get you hot and bothered. Try playing with these six lesser-known zones – and have fun looking for a few unique new pleasure points of your own, too.

    Sacrum (on her)

    Why it’s hot: The vertebrae in the small of your partner’s back (right above her buttocks) contain sacral nerves, which shoot straight to your genitals. In fact, electric stimulation of this nerve will trigger an orgasm in91 percent of women, according to studies. Try this: Have her lie on her stomach and press on the sacrum with your palm, or give it a gentle karate chop-style massage. This will stimulate the sacral nerves and build heat in the genitals.

    Nipples (on you)

    Why it’s hot: Your partner’s nipples probably get plenty of attention and action. But yours can be very hot spots, too: They contain just as many nerve endings as hers do. Try this: Tell your partner to start off by lightly stroking the area with her fingertips. If that gets rave reviews, she should try upping the intensity with a gentle pinch or playful tug.

    Big toe (on her)

    Why it’s hot: Ever noticed how your partner’s toes twitch when she’s hitting a high note (hence the term toe curling orgasm)? That’s because there’s a direct neurological link between her privates and her little piggies – especially the biggie. What’s more, you can work this reflex in the other direction: stimulating the big toe can actually trigger an orgasm in some women. Try this: Of course, you can take her toes into your mouth – a classic bedroom move. Or you can gently pinch the sides of her big toe and roll it between your fingers. This activates reflexology pathways connected to her genitals.

    Soles of the feet (on you)

    Why it’s hot: Women aren’t the only ones packing pleasure potential in their feet – you do, too. According to a plethora of studies, the soles are the masculine sweet spot. Try this: Your partner should aim for an acupressure point on the bottom on your foot, about one third of the way down from the third toe. This is nicknamed the Bubbling Spring since pressing here and holding for a few seconds can cause energy to bubble up from the legs to the genitals. Or she can simply try lightly brushing the soles of your feet.

    Navel (on her)

    Why it’s hot: Her navel and her clitoris have a lot in common: in the womb, these two regions grow from the same tissue, linking them neurologically in adulthood. In fact, if you stick your finger in her belly button, your partner may sense it in her genitals. Try this: Use your tongue and fingers to delve into this indentation. If that’s too intense, caress or kiss your way two to three inches southward. You’ll hit three acupressure points, called the Sea of Energy, which are linked to sexual pleasure as well as fertility.

    Nose (on you and her)

    Why it’s hot: Next to your kisser, your sniffer contains more nerve endings than any other part of your face. Plus, your nasal passages contain erectile tissue that expands when aroused, further increasing circulation and sensitivity. Stimulating this area can even lead to honeymoon sinusitis, in which canoodling couples come down with cases of nasal congestion. Try this: Nibble on the tips of each other’s nose. The cartilage here is receptive to heavier stimulation like this. Or rub noses in an Eskimo kiss. You and your honey may come down with honeymoon sinusitis everywhere – but hey, who’s complaining?

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Want to give her the orgasm of her life? Try THIS!

    If you want to give your woman a night to remember and turn her into a blissed-out puddle of mush (that will be talking to her friends about you for weeks afterward), then look no further than the sensual massage.

    Everybody likes sex, but the dynamic of a sensual massage is something entirely different. It’s all about her receiving from you. Whether it’s for an anniversary, a date or just a Tuesday night, there is nothing else that will leave her feeling so honored, nurtured, loved, and turned on.

    Even if you’ve never given an erotic massage in your life, if you follow these tips for how to give a woman a sensual massage, you are guaranteed to leave her with an unforgettable experience.

    Keep in mind that very few women have ever gotten this kind of dedicated, healthy sensual attention that is completely giving and respectful in nature. Depending on the woman and her past experiences, it can be incredibly healing. It’s actually quite common for them to have an emotional release and cry in the process. Which is totally fine. Keep calm, take a pause, love her through it, and massage on.

    Here’s how to give a woman a sensual massage and give her one hell of an orgasm.

    Set the scene

    Most women tend to be sensitive to ambiance and context. In order for her to be able to completely relax internally, the outer environment has to be conducive to her relaxation. Make sure the room is well cleaned and tidy (laundry folded and put away, clean surfaces). Use only candle light. Light some gentle/mild incense. Lay out soft blankets and pillows. Play soft, ambient music. Remove all distractions and make sure to turn off any beeping electronics.

    Prepare some oil

    Use a natural, clean oil, since you’re likely going to be using this on the outside AND the inside of her. Obviously, make sure the oil is comfortably warm to the touch before putting it on her skin so it doesn’t startle her. If the oil is room temperature or less, rub your hands together vigorously for 5-10 seconds before putting them on her skin. You want everything to be comfortable and soothing. The last thing you want is her to dread your touch and wince, or get cold.

    Use light, smooth touches

    The key word here is “sensual.” Sensuality is about provoking, stimulating and teasing the senses. You’re not there to perform targeted deep tissue to resolve chronic knee pain or treat her scoliosis. Your goal is to bring every ounce of her attention to her body and where your hands contact it.

    Be progressive with pressure and intensity. The more light and drawn out the movements, the more arousing the sensual massage will be. If you need to get a sense of the rhythm, pretend you’re massaging her in slow-motion, or like she’s asleep and you’re trying not to wake her up.

    Start with long, smooth full-palm strokes up her back and down her arms. Use the swirl technique to keep her nerve endings guessing (swirling your hands around lightly in an unpredictable, nonlinear way over the whole body).

    Go very, very slow, and listen to her breathing for cues as to how she’s feeling moment to moment. After massaging the “safe” zones, move on to the hot spots, with the same intensity and gentleness, guiding yourself by her moans – if they’re soft, you can push further, if she’s getting vocal about it, you’re nearing the orgasm.

    Communicate

    Check in once in a while if the pressure is okay. Some parts will be more/less sensitive than others, so she may want your touch to change accordingly. Ask her if there are any areas that are calling out to her and yearning for more attention.

    This will not only exponentially boost her satisfaction, but also help you learn what works and leave you feeling more confident overall that she’s having a good time.

    Escalate things

    Keep in mind that the arc of the sensual massage is a giant tease from initial feather-light touch on the back to full manual stimulation of her lady parts. Don’t race. You want to build tension and anticipation. As you progress, gloss over her breasts and past her thighs but don’t stop and spend ample time on her more obvious erogenous zones just yet.

    Start with the head, neck, arms, hands, legs, butt, and feet. Then have her flip over and go further with her stomach, breasts, inner thighs, and finally genitals.

    When you get to the vagina, work from the outside in, layer by layer. Take your time like you’ve never taken your time before. Lightly stroke the creases at the thighs on either side. Stroke and gently tug at each labial lip. Caress everything.

    When you move to the inside, use the same philosophy of light, smooth touch and particularly focus on the G-spot, along the first few inches of the upper vaginal wall. Watch her breath and calibrate as you gradually build speed and intensity. As long as you’re both having fun, rinse and repeat!

    It’s up to you where to go from there. Sometimes it can be a nice touch to keep sex entirely off the table. Making the whole experience just about her keeps this container of honoring and service more fully in tact, which will tend to make her feel extra special.

    Just remember to take your time and tease. If it helps, keep a clock or your phone within view and draw the whole process out over an hour, at least.

    Hot kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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