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Author: Fidan

  • After This… My Nipples Ache. 

    Steve did this last night… Made my nipples— Hard, Sensitive, And begging for more.

    It wasn’t rough. It wasn’t painful. It was a slow, deliberate awakening—using nothing but candlelight and heat. The glow of the flame, the scent of warm wax, the way his eyes locked on mine as the first drop fell… I gasped. And I didn’t want him to stop.

    That’s the erotic magic of candle wax play. Done right, it’s not about pain—it’s about awakening her most sensitive spots with a mix of heat, surprise, and your absolute control. It’s a game of contrast—warmth against cool air, tension against release—and the anticipation is almost as intoxicating as the touch.

    In this guide, you’ll learn exactly how to use candles to make her nipples ache for your mouth and hands.

    Choosing the Right Candle

    Not all candles are safe for skin. You want wax that melts at a low temperature so it teases without burning.

    • Best Choice: Paraffin or soy candles labeled “body-safe” or “massage candles”. These melt between 102–110°F—warm enough to thrill, safe enough for skin.
    • Avoid: Standard household candles, scented pillars, or beeswax—they burn hotter and can cause real burns.
    • Extra Tip: Choose an unscented variety unless you know she loves the fragrance—it keeps the focus on sensation, not overpowering aroma.

    Want to take it further? Some massage candles are infused with natural oils. When the wax melts, it doubles as warm massage oil, letting you glide your hands over her freshly heated skin.

    How to Drip It

    1. Light the candle and let the wax pool at the top.
    2. Test on yourself first—drip a small amount on the inside of your wrist to gauge temperature.
    3. Hold it high—8–12 inches above her skin. The higher the candle, the cooler the wax when it lands.
    4. Start outside the nipple—on the upper swell or outer curve of her breast. This warms the area, heightens anticipation, and avoids shocking her too soon.
    5. Move in stages—slowly narrowing your target until you’re close to the areola.

    👉 Want to see how to read her reactions and build her arousal step-by-step? Watch me demonstrate inside Breast Vagina Fusion Formula with Jessa Rhodes and Kenzie Taylor.

    On the Nipple—or Around It?

    Directly on the nipple? Yes—but only when she’s already flushed, breathing fast, and clearly craving more.

    • Around first: Trace a circle of wax just beyond the areola, letting the warmth creep inward. Watch her chest rise and fall—if her breathing deepens, you know she’s ready.
    • On top later: Once she’s trembling, let a single drop land right on the peak. The sudden contrast—heat, then cooling—can make her nipples harden instantly.

    This moment can become a centerpiece of your session—especially if you alternate between heat from the wax and the wet heat of your mouth.

    What to Do After the Drip

    Melt her with your mouth.

    • Suck: As the wax cools and stiffens, take her nipple between your lips. The gentle suction sends sparks down her spine.
    • Massage: Use your thumb to rub the cooling wax in slow circles over her areola, mixing pressure with texture.
    • Peel & Repeat: Once the wax is firm, peel it away lightly—revealing skin now hypersensitive to even the softest touch.
    • Alternate sensations: Follow heat with cool—blow softly across her damp skin after sucking to send shivers through her whole body.

    Her nipples will be more responsive than before. Every lick, kiss, or brush of your tongue will feel amplified.

    👉 Inside Breast Vagina Fusion Formula, I show you exactly how to combine nipple stimulation with deep vaginal arousal—so her whole body rides the same wave.

    Why It Feels So Good

    Her nipples are neurologically linked to her clitoris—they share nerve pathways that can trigger deep arousal. The heat of the wax does three things at once:

    1. Increases blood flow, making the tissue more sensitive.
    2. Creates contrast—heat followed by cooling intensifies sensation.
    3. Activates trust and submission—she’s letting you control a delicate, vulnerable spot.
    4. Heightens anticipation—each drop becomes its own event, each pause a chance for her mind to race.

    This isn’t just foreplay—it’s a psychological and physical ignition switch.

    Safety First—Always

    The goal is arousal, not injury.

    • Test every drip on yourself before her.
    • Keep a safe distance between flame and skin.
    • Never let wax pool too hot before dripping.
    • Avoid areas with fine hair—it can stick and cause discomfort.
    • Watch her reactions—if she tenses or pulls away, slow down.

    👉 These tips help—but only the video shows you how to blend wax play with breast and vaginal fusion for full-body climax. Watch Breast Vagina Fusion Formula with Jessa Rhodes and Kenzie Taylor to see it in explicit detail.

    Your Next Step

    With just a candle and the right moves, you can make her nipples—and her whole body—throb with anticipation. But this is only the beginning.

    When you combine nipple heat play with the deep, rhythmic techniques I teach inside Breast Vagina Fusion Formula, she won’t just gasp at a drop of wax—she’ll melt completely under your hands.

    Click here to watch the course and see exactly how to do it.

    Hot kisses,
    Fidan Paula
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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  • Hidden Orgasms Nerve 

    Hidden Orgasms Nerve 

    The Secret Pathway to her Orgasms

    You’ve touched this part of her body a thousand times. It seems playful. Innocent.

    But hidden inside… is a nerve pathway straight to her orgasm.

    Most men think a woman’s breasts are just for foreplay. A little squeeze, a little lick—and then it’s time to move on.

    But here’s the truth: her breasts aren’t just accessories to arousal. They’re wired directly into her climax.

    Inside every nipple lies a hidden pathway. A nerve highway that connects to the same brain regions activated during vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

    Which means this: when you touch her breasts while penetrating her… you’re not just adding pleasure. You’re multiplying it.

    You’re creating a feedback loop that makes every thrust, every squeeze, every lick explode in her nervous system at once.

    This is what I call The Breast-Vagina Loop. And once you learn to trigger it, you’ll never look at foreplay the same way again.

    👉 Want to see exactly how to activate this loop? Inside Breast Vagina Fusion Formula, I show you every move, every angle—explicitly—on camera.

    Why Nipples Amplify Vaginal Pleasure

    Her nipples aren’t just sensitive. They’re primal.

    Stimulating them releases oxytocin—the same hormone that makes her uterus contract during orgasm. This is why so many women describe nipple play as directly fueling their vaginal arousal.

    In fact, brain imaging studies show that nipple stimulation lights up the same areas as clitoral and vaginal touch.

    Which means… when you combine them, you’re literally doubling her orgasmic firepower.

    Think of it as a circuit. Your hand (or mouth) on her breast sends a surge into her brain. That surge then feeds into her pelvis—intensifying contractions, deepening lubrication, and pushing her over the edge faster and harder.

    👉 In Breast Vagina Fusion Formula, I demonstrate how to sync nipple play with penetration so her whole body vibrates with pleasure.

    How to Create the Feedback Loop

    Most men either focus too much on one… or rush between them. The secret isn’t alternating—it’s synchronizing.

    Here’s how:

    1. Mouth + Penis: While you thrust deeply, lower your head to suck or flick her nipple. Each stroke of your tongue magnifies the depth of your penetration.
    2. Hand + Penis: Slide one hand beneath her breast and gently pinch or roll her nipple. Meanwhile, your other hand grips her hip to control thrusting rhythm.
    3. Position Advantage: Positions like missionary with her legs wrapped high give you easy access to both her breasts and vagina at the same time.

    Done right, her moans won’t just rise. They’ll spiral. They’ll build into climaxes that overwhelm her nervous system. That’s the loop in action.

    👉 Only in Breast Vagina Fusion Formula will you see me demonstrate how to combine these exact moves in explicit detail—with real women moaning, arching, and losing control.

    Why This Makes You Unforgettable

    Any man can thrust. Few can orchestrate her body like this.

    When you master the Breast-Vagina Loop, she’ll associate you with the most powerful orgasms of her life.

    Her body won’t just respond—it will crave you. Her nipples will ache for your mouth. Her pussy will throb for your thrusts. And her brain will wire you in as the man who makes her come deeper than anyone else.

    That’s why this skill doesn’t just make her orgasm. It makes her loyal.

    👉 Learn the Breast-Vagina Fusion Formula now—and become the man who gives her climaxes she never thought possible.

    Hot kisses,
    Fidan Paula
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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  • Tits Worship

    Why Her Breasts Deserve Worship

    One man confessed to me, “Gabrielle, I always thought breasts were just for grabbing… but after trying what you taught, my wife came so hard she sobbed into my chest.” Another whispered, “She begs for it every night now. I never imagined her breasts alone could make her orgasm like that.”

    This is the transformation that happens when you stop treating her chest like decoration and start worshipping it like a temple of ecstasy. Her breasts are drenched in sensation. Hundreds of nerve endings around her nipples and areola send signals directly to the same pleasure centers as her clitoris. When you devote yourself to them, her body arches, her voice trembles, and her thighs shake as if you were already deep inside her.

    👉 Want to see how true worship looks? Watch Cherie Deville and Karlie Montana surrender to breast worship inside Boobgasms.

    The Sacred Rituals of Breast Worship

    Ice and Heat

    Imagine tracing a cube of melting ice over her nipple, then sealing it with the warmth of your lips. Her gasp isn’t just sound, it’s her nervous system bowing in surrender.

    Feathers and Fabrics

    A feather trailing across her chest. A silk scarf brushing her areola. Even the edge of your shirt grazing her nipples. These delicate teases awaken her long before your tongue claims her fully.

    Liquid Offerings

    A drizzle of warm oil. A sip of wine on your tongue before pressing it to her breast. A swirl of whipped cream slowly licked away. When you savor her chest like a feast, the hunger in your eyes makes her melt into devotion.

    👉 Inside Boobgasms, you’ll watch Cherie and Karlie moan as taste, touch, and anticipation layer together until their nipples throb with worshipful sensitivity. See their reactions here.

    Suction as Prayer

    Your lips pulling gently. Your tongue circling. A toy mimicking that rhythm. Each wave of suction ripples through her chest, sending shivers that feel like holy tremors of release.

    Vibrations and Sacred Tremors

    The hum of a vibrator at her nipple. Even the buzz of a toothbrush can feel like divine thunder across her chest. Combine vibration with suction, and she arches toward you, moaning like a woman overcome with devotion.

    Layered Worship

    The highest art of worship is in layering sensations. Ice with vibration. Feathers with suction. Warm oil with flicks of your tongue. Men who’ve practiced this write to me saying, “I never thought breasts alone could make her climax. But after worshipping her like you taught, she came harder than ever.”

    👉 Reading this awakens the idea. Watching Cherie Deville and Karlie Montana surrender to full-bodied breast worship takes it into your hands. Click here to watch.

    Why Worship Makes You Unforgettable

    Breast worship is not just foreplay. It is devotion, climax, and transcendence all at once. Studies show nipple stimulation activates the same pleasure centers as clitoral touch. Women tell me, “No man has ever touched me like this before.” And when you’re the one who worships her fully, she doesn’t just remember. She treasures you. She craves you. She belongs to you.

    👉 Don’t just imagine her begging from nothing but your lips, your tongue, and your hands. Learn the art of true worship inside Boobgasms. Watch it now.

    Hot kisses,
    Fidan Paula
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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  • The Oral Orbit

    The Oral Orbit

    Her Breasts, Your Rhythm — The Secret to Total Control

    Her breath catches the instant your tongue makes contact—slow, deliberate circles tracing the swollen edge of her nipple. Each movement pulls a tremor through her chest; her back arches, her breath breaks into small, helpless gasps. You feel the pulse under your tongue, the faint heat radiating from her skin as her body starts to chase every swirl. Most men would change rhythm now—too eager, too random. But you stay steady. Controlled. Orbiting her like gravity itself.

    The rhythm becomes hypnotic: slow rotations, a subtle press at the peak, a lingering pause that makes her moan your name. You aren’t just licking—you’re conducting her pleasure, turning her breath into music. Her hips start to rock in time with you, the curve of her body following your tempo until she’s trembling under your control.

    This exact moment—the Oral Orbit—is where your tongue’s precision turns nipple pleasure into deep pelvic arousal. It’s no longer foreplay; it’s a full-body command. The steady circular motion sends electrical signals down the same nerve pathways that link her breasts to her clitoris, creating a cascade of pleasure so real it feels like you’re touching her everywhere at once.

    👉 See how this looks inside my course with Cherie DeVille and Karlie Montana — and watch how her body responds when you master the orbit. Watch it here.

    The Circular Stim Pattern

    Slow, consistent circles trigger stronger nerve responses than random licks. Her nipples are surrounded by sensory clusters—around 800 nerve endings per breast—connected to the same brain centers as her clitoris. That’s why predictable rhythm turns her on faster than frantic movement. Her body anticipates the next touch and amplifies its own response.

    In a 2018 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, researchers confirmed that nipple stimulation activates the same pleasure regions of the brain as genital stimulation. That means your rhythm doesn’t just feel good—it literally builds her arousal from the inside out. Many of my students have written to say that once they practiced this deliberate circular motion, their partners began climaxing faster, sometimes before they even touched her below the waist.

    So don’t dart. Don’t rush. Circle deliberately. Let your tongue make full, slow rotations, changing pressure slightly as she moans. The secret isn’t speed—it’s precision, patience, and the confidence to lead her body like a master musician guiding a crescendo.

    👉 I show you this rhythm in action with Karlie Montana—how her breathing syncs to the tongue’s orbit until she trembles. Watch the full clip.

    The Pressure-Pulse Combo

    When you alternate suction and release, her sensitivity spikes. It’s the same physiological principle that creates nipple erection: blood rushes in with suction, and nerve endings fire during release. Combine this with the circular motion and you create what I call the pulse orbit—pressure, swirl, release, repeat.

    Cherie DeVille demonstrates this perfectly inside the course. Her gasps aren’t performance—they’re her body responding to the biological truth: rhythm + pressure = pleasure. One of my students, Daniel, once told me that after he mastered this exact technique, his partner started trembling before he even moved to the other breast. She said, “I didn’t know my nipples could do that.” That’s the power of the pulse orbit—it transforms simple sucking into a deep, visceral reaction that leaves her body craving more with every release.

    👉 See the suction-release pattern that turns gentle teasing into full-body shivers. Watch it inside BoobGasms.

    The Mirror Response Effect

    Here’s the fascinating part: the nerves that light up during nipple stimulation mirror those that activate during clitoral arousal. In other words, when you stimulate her breasts properly, her body reacts as though you’re touching her between the legs.

    MRI studies show overlapping activation in the somatosensory cortex—meaning, when you orbit her nipples right, you’re essentially giving her a remote-control orgasm. Neurologists explain this overlap as a neural echo, where signals from her chest ripple down the same pathways that ignite genital pleasure. That’s why, in my workshops, men who master this technique consistently report seeing their partners arch, shake, and whisper that it feels like being touched everywhere at once. One student, Marcus, wrote that his girlfriend reached orgasm from breast play alone after years of thinking she couldn’t. She told him, “It was like you found a switch I didn’t know existed.” That’s the real magic of the Mirror Response—it’s science meeting seduction, proof that your tongue can unlock sensations she’s never experienced before.

    👉 I demonstrate this phenomenon live with Cherie and Karlie—the way her back arches, her thighs tighten, and her moans deepen as her brain floods with the same orgasmic signals. Experience it here.

    The Hand–Mouth Sync

    Add your hand. While your mouth maintains the orbit, use one hand to gently compress the base of her breast—enough to increase blood flow, never to squeeze. This dual stimulation sends pressure and warmth to different layers of tissue, doubling arousal.

    Your fingers and tongue should move like they’re connected by rhythm. When your mouth circles, your hand supports. When you pulse, your hand lifts slightly to amplify the tension. It’s a symphony of sensation—one you control completely.

    👉 Inside BoobGasms, Karlie Montana’s reactions show exactly how this synchronization looks and feels when done right. Watch her body respond here.

    The Finishing Spiral

    To bring her to climax, tighten your orbit. Make each circle smaller, firmer, and add timed suction right as her breathing shortens. The goal is to push her into overload—the final spiral of sensation that tips her from control to surrender.

    If you do it right, her hands will grip your hair, her hips will arch into your mouth, and the sound she makes won’t just be a moan—it’ll be a release.

    👉 These finishing touches are shown in explicit detail inside BoobGasms, where Cherie and Karlie reveal exactly how a woman’s body reacts when you perfect the orbit. Watch it unfold here.

    The Transformation

    Once you master the Oral Orbit, you’ll notice the change. She’ll stop guiding you. She’ll stop thinking. Her entire body will move in rhythm with yours, following your lead like her pleasure depends on it.

    And in that moment—you’ll know you’ve taken control of her orgasm. Not through force. But through rhythm.

    👉 See how this technique turns any man into a master of control inside BoobGasms with Cherie DeVille and Karlie Montana. Click here to watch the full course.

    Hot kisses,
    Fidan Paula
    Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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  • The Most Fun You’ll Ever Have with a Blindfold

    The Most Fun You’ll Ever Have with a Blindfold

    Looking to try something different? You don’t have to be ultra kinky in order to bring a little bit of BDSM into the bedroom. In fact, a little bit of light kink can be just what the doctor ordered when things are getting a little too routine or boring in your relationship. You don’t need to invest in any crazy sex toys or leather outfits, you can add some kink just using a few items you already have lying around. What you’ll need:

    • A blindfold: Use something soft and silky like a soft handkerchief, a necktie, or even a sleep mask.
    • A few scarves: These should be long enough to use to tie up your partner. They should also be soft and if you can’t find a scarf that works a necktie will also do just fine.
    • Feather: Either a small feather duster or a single feather will work.
    • Chocolate syrup: Either kept cold or heated up slightly (be careful with this part and test the temperature on the sensitive skin on inside of your arm to make sure it’s not too hot).
    • A cold metal spoon: Keep the spoon in the freezer before using it.
    • A couple of ice cubes
    • A soft suede glove
    • A piece of silk

    The point of this exercise is to get your partner extremely turned on and excited using techniques that you don’t use every day. Trust is important when it comes to kinky sex, so as tempting as it might be to take advantage of your partner’s vulnerable position, you need her to trust in you 100% and be completely at ease.

    Start by blindfolding her with the material of your choice. Make sure that you’ve blocked out her sight completely and verbally confirm with her that you’ve done so. Take your time doing each of these things and be gentle. All of this will add to the build up and sexual tension. Tying up her hands is optional, but she should agree that if you don’t tie her hands up that she promises to keep them at her side and not interfere with what you’re going to do. This is all part of the submissive role. The exciting part of having two of your senses cut off (sight and touch) is that she will be ultra tuned in to every sensation. She will never know what’s coming next, which will be a huge turn on. Here are some sensations to try with some of the tools mentioned above.

    • Begin by whispering into her ear. Even this action will send shivers down her spine. Tell her to relax and that she is completely safe in your hands. Tell her a little bit about what you’re going to do to her, leaving room for mystery.
    • Grab the feather and lightly trail it down her neck and chest to her nipples. Use the feather to stimulate her breasts, inner thighs, the palm of her hands and soles of her feet, and her inner arm. Be careful when it comes to tickling. Some women will love that sensation, but other hate it. Some might need to relax a little before they can enjoy such a soft, light touch.
    • Take the piece of silk and trail it all over her body. Flip her over if possible and trail it down her back. Use a very light touch and then use the material between your hand and her skin and you massage parts of her body. Trail the silk along her inner thighs and between her legs, gently tickling her vulva and clitoris.
    • A soft suede glove can be used in the same way as above. Massage the nape of her neck with your gloved hand as you kiss and lick the side of her neck.
    • Use the cold metal spoon to drag across her skin along her inner thighs and along her perineum (the area skin that separates the anus and the vaginal opening).
    • Now you can take things up a notch or two by using your mouth to lick, kiss, suck, and blow on different areas of her body. Reach for that chocolate syrup, squeeze out a little on a sensitive area and then clean her up with your mouth.

    Where you take it from here is up to you. You can continue make it all about her and finish things off with some intense oral sex while leaving her blindfolded and tied up or you can move onto sex and untie her hands. But just for fun, no matter where you take things next, leave the blindfold on!

    Kisses,
    Fidan Paula

    PS. For an in-depth guide on how master Reverse Cowgirl Domination Pose, click here.

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  • The Sexy Bucket List for Couples

    The Sexy Bucket List for Couples

    Hey lover!

    Are you ready to spice up your sex life? Perfect! Let’s do it!

    You’ve heard of bucket lists (50 things you want to do before you die). Well, here is my take on it: the Sexy Bucket List for Couples, that is sure to add more thrill and sexual excitement to your relationship.

    Getting Started

    The start of any great sexy bucket list for couples begins with communication. First, you both need to put aside some time to discuss the idea together. Once you’ve agreed that you’d like to add some sexy excitement and fun in your relationship, (and who doesn’t want that!?) you then both sit down alone in private and each write out your own sexy bucket list.

    Each partner will write out 25 sexy things you want to do together as a couple. Then you will combine your lists to make 50 sexy activities.

    If you are a bit afraid of what your partner will come up with, or fearful about sharing your own, you may want to set up some boundaries or limits first, such as, no anal sex or no sexual activities with other people. That way, you both know each other’s limits and can write lists you feel comfortable sharing, knowing your partner will most likely be open to your ideas.

    Sexy Activities

    Your activities can be any type of sexy, sensual, hot, kinky, romantic, or adventurous activity you want to add to your list. It could be as simple as a sensual bubble bath together, or as kinky as a full blown dungeon scene.

    Write down the activities you are most excited about, like hot fantasies or something you have always dreamt of doing. For some really kinky ideas, check out a BDSM activity checklist online and share it with your partner. There will be lots of interesting things on it you may want to try as well as things you’ll want to avoid as well.

    I have provided 50 sexy ideas at the end of this article to get you started.

    Share Your Lists

    The most intimidating part of this process is sharing your lists with each other. But, remember, you’ve already made your ground rules up so this should be fairly easy!

    Cut up your lists into individual pieces so each activity is on a separate paper, and then place all your activities into separate envelopes. Next, set aside one day/night a week or a month for your sexy bucket list. Each week you’ll alternate picking from each other’s envelope and plan the activity for your sexy adventure.

    Or, you could simply read each other’s lists together and then decide which activities from each list you’d like to try first.

    Don’t Judge

    The most important thing to remember during this process is to not judge each other. No matter how weird someone’s activity may seem to you, it could be a real turn on for your partner. So try to keep an open mind and don’t judge them for sharing their fantasies with you. Praise them for being brave enough to share them.

    That doesn’t mean you need to like everything they like. There will be things on both your lists that A) don’t float your boat or B) turn you off. For the activities that don’t get you hot, but you are not opposed to, try keeping an open mind. You don’t know what you may like until you try it. Plus, your partner’s enthusiasm for that activity may just rub off on you. For things that turn you off, you can just kindly decline and pick another type of activity. You both have the right to refuse any activity, at any time. Mutual consent of any activity is crucial to having a good time.

    Your Sexy Adventure

    So, you’ve picked one activity and are getting ready to try it. Be sure to set the scene and get any props, costumes, sex toys, and whatever you will need to pull off the fantasy. If you are going to be away, make sure to pack your sexy props and don’t forget the lube!

    You both may be filled with fear, excitement and anticipation the night you try out your sexy activity. Again, keep an open mind. Try not to have too many expectations. This is not about achieving orgasms or accomplishing goals, but about exploring, having fun and adding excitement to your relationship. Be playful, be positive, be supportive, laugh if you feel uncomfortable and have fun together. Let that giggly, bubbly, sexy excitement erupt out of you! Even in serious play scenes, laughter is great at breaking the ice.

    Ideas for Your Sexy Bucket List

    1. G-spot sex.
    2. 69ers.
    3. Sex on the beach.
    4. Skinny dipping.
    5. Romantic dinner out.
    6. Erotic massage
    7. Tantra sex.
    8. Tickle fight.
    9. Blindfolds.
    10. Aphrodisiacs.
    11. Make your own sex tape.
    12. Sex toy shopping.
    13. Erotic spanking.
    14. Dominance and submission.
    15. Trying different positions.
    16. Role play that you just met in a bar.
    17. A sexy resort or hedonist cruise.
    18. Mile High Club.
    19. A romantic train trip.
    20. Rent a cabin in the woods.
    21. Dance all night and make out.
    22. Go to a drive-in.
    23. Watch a sexy movie.
    24. Watch porn together.
    25. Mutual masturbation.
    26. Lick chocolate and whipped cream off of each other.
    27. Try a stimulating balm.
    28. Anal sex.
    29. Nipple clamps.
    30. Sensation play with fur, ice cubes, and hot wax.
    31. Take a bubble bath.
    32. Sex in the shower.
    33. Take ball room dancing.
    34. Dirty dancing.
    35. Talk dirty.
    36. Pillow fight.
    37. Make out on a Ferris wheel.
    38. Bondage or hand cuffs.
    39. Rough sex.
    40. Sex in public. Just don’t get caught!
    41. Office sex.
    42. Striptease.
    43. Roleplay and costumes.
    44. Be a sex slave.
    45. Play doctor and nurse.
    46. Sex in the rain.
    47. Sex in the woods.
    48. A sexy picnic.
    49. Shave each other’s genitals.
    50. Do every hot scene in the Fifty Shades of Grey books!

    So, that’s it. Now go get your partner and start having some hot fun as you create your own Sexy Bucket List together!

    Kisses,

    Fidan Paula

    P.S. If you also want to learn how to give her amazing Oral Sex, CLICK HERE. 

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  • How to Give Her the Naughty Sex She Craves and Turn Her into a Sex Kitten

    How to Give Her the Naughty Sex She Craves and Turn Her into a Sex Kitten

    Hey Lover!

    Many women love hot, dirty, kinky, wanton, rip your clothes off, kind of sex.

    There, now I’ve said it!

    I’m sure you have heard of Fifty Shades of Grey. It is a series of books that have gone mainstream, and that have fired up women’s fantasies and libidos. Or, more accurately, the books have given women permission to explore their fantasies.

    You see, women have always been sexual in nature. She likes hot, naughty sex as much as a guy does. But, until the last 5 years or so, women have felt unable to show it.

    Why?

    First, there was that whole history of women being sexually suppressed thing. Then, there was the virtually non-existent sex research in the area of female sexuality and pleasure until recently. And, finally, now that women have become, so-called liberated, they are still unfortunately slut-shamed when they own their sexuality and pleasure. Combine that with sexual abuse, and sometimes sex is not always a safe place for a woman to be.

    This article is not about slut-shaming or sexual abuse. I just want you to realize a few reasons why women may not act as wanton in bed as you may want them to. They don’t feel safe to show how they really feel, because being a sexy, wanton little, sex kitten, makes them feel vulnerable.

    So, how can you open her up and bring out her inner sex kitten?

    Make Her Feel Safe

    This is obvious, yet so many lovers carelessly throw away the gift of their sweetheart’s openness by being judgmental. Never judge, criticize, make fun of, sneer at, or put down someone’s openness about sex. This is truly a gift! If you have a lover who feels so safe with you that they will tell you their deepest desires. Cherish it. Don’t ever break their trust.

    Communicate and Share Your Fantasies

    Talk about your turn-ons, turn-offs and what makes you hot. Both men and women share many of the same fantasies. No doubt the two of you will have something in common that makes you hot. Create your own sexy bucket list together and explore some fun fantasies. Fantasies and role-playing allow her to not be herself, so it is easier to get into the role of a naughty school girl, sex slave or wanton secretary.

    Talk Dirty

    Dirty talk during sex is a sure fire way to get everything hotter. The way to do this is to start slow. Maybe at first you can tell her what you want her to do. “Take off your clothes and turn around so I can look at you.” “Ya, that’s good. You look so hot you are making me hard. Come on over here and feel it.” Use a deep voice and talk slow, making sure to be seductive. Tell her she is a naughty girl or a good girl, whichever she prefers. She may like to be called a slut, or a bad girl, but make sure you know this beforehand, as it could also offend her. Use dirty talk to praise her body, “Your ass is so sexy,” or, “You taste so good.” Or, simply describe what you are doing in a dirty way. “I love the feeling of being inside you. Oh, you are so tight and wet!”

    Dominate Her in the Bedroom

    Despite women becoming more assertive in the workplace, many women still love to be dominated in bed. Most women like to feel feminine, safe and taken care of by a strong, masculine man who is in control.

    Be sure to talk about any type of BDSM play like bondage, humiliation, or spanking beforehand and if needed, give her a safe word like “RED”.

    Here are some hot dominate ideas to try:

    • Push her up against the wall and hold her wrists. Press your body against her and kiss her passionately. Tell her what you are going to do to her in the bedroom as you push your knee in between her thighs and spread her legs.
    • Grind your pelvis against her and grope her breasts and ass. Rip open her blouse and bare her breasts. Pull up her skirt and pull her panties aside. Put your finger in her vulva and make sure she is good and wet, before fingering and rubbing her clitoris.
    • Hold her down in bed and enter her. Playfully bite her neck and earlobes. Pull her hair if she likes this.
    • You can also tie her wrists together, so you can have your hands free for other naughty things, or even gag her with a scarf, if this is something she would like to do.
    • Make love to her slow and seductive or have hot rough sex.

    Spank Her

    Spanking and light bondage are two of the top dominant and submissive types of play that couples enjoy exploring together. Of course, make sure she is into this first.

    Bend her over your knee, or get her to bend over a table and stick her butt out for erotic punishment. Tie her hands or tell her not to move. Slowly and seductively, bare her ass, and softly rub it with the palm of your hand. Grope your fingers into the fleshy part of her butt and squeeze her cheeks to get the blood flowing and make her erotically charged.
    Start smacking her lightly on the cheeks of her ass. Stay away from the spine and lower back. Smack her on the apple of her cheeks or sweet spot (just above the thighs where her butt flesh begins). Alternate smacks with rubbing and kneading. Open her thighs and spank her pussy lightly and the inside of her thighs.

    Make sure to pay attention to her body language. If she is trying to pull away from your hand, you are smacking too hard. If she is pushing up towards you, you are doing it just right. Alternate soft smacks with harder smacks. If she is moaning that is a good sign.

    So, there are a few ways to make sex naughty and turn her into a sex kitten. Be careful, however, she may become addicted!

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  • Sensation Play for Beginners

    Sensation Play for Beginners

    What is Sensation Play?

    Sensation play is group of erotic activities that arouse the senses, or heightens one particular sense, while dulling others. Sensation play usually involves the sense of touch, one of the most obvious senses that enhances sensual pleasure. It can be a sexy way of touching your lover that is a form of erotic foreplay.

    However, it can also involve heightening any of the senses including sight, smell, taste, hearing and touch. Heightening our senses during sexual intimacy or foreplay enhances all sexual experiences and puts our bodies in tune to pleasure. In this heightened state, it allows you to experience the pleasures and ecstasies of sex to the extreme.

    Most often sensation play is sensual in nature, arousing, erotic and gentle. In BDSM, it could also involve pain play which release pleasurable endorphins and create a “high”. Often in sensation play one sense is limited (like sight by being blindfolded) while another sense is heightened and aroused, like the sense of touch.

    Types of Sensation Play

    Sensation play can consist of various activities. This could include the use of blindfolds or bondage to remove sight or mobility, while heightening another sense.

    Heightening Taste

    The use of blindfolds to remove sight and heighten the sense of taste was used in the movie “9 ½ Weeks”. In the hottest scene in the film, Mickey Rourke’s character blindfolds Kim Basinger’s character and feeds her different types of food like cherries, whipped cream, jalapino peppers, and honey to create different taste and texture sensations in her mouth. In this instance, it is taste rather than touch which is the heightened sense. Check out my article on aphrodisiacs for some sexy foods that you could recreate this scene with!

    Bonus Tip! You can also use the sense of taste while playing with sensual flavored products, like chocolate massage syrup drizzled over your lover’s body to turn them into a delicious oral treat!

    Enhancing Touch

    This involves the use of blindfolds and bondage to enhance touch. Touch is erotically heightened and charged when our other senses are removed. A simple erotic massage can become so much more by just applying a blindfold. Erotic tickling can make someone orgasmic when they are bound and can’t move.

    Various types of touch can be explored during sensation play including the use of feathers, silk, fur, or leather. Or, you can just use different types of touch with the hands and fingers from soft and light, to firm or rough. Even just the act of kissing can be heightened. Biting, nibbling and licking the body are all other ways to arouse pleasure. Or using hot and cold temperatures like ice, or hot candles wax, or melted massage candles.

    More extreme types of sensation play could involve full body bondage, the use of nipple clamps, or pinwheels to stimulate the pain/pleasure response. Erotic spanking could also be a form of sensation play.

    Sex toys can add a lot of sensation to various erogenous zones and are effective tools for erotic sensation play.

    Sensation play adds a level of eroticism that can bring your arousal to new heights of pleasure as you are swept away by the power of touch.

    Bonus Tip! Try alternating different types of touch to change it up and create suspense. Variety is the spice of life.

    The Sense of Smell

    The sense of smell is a powerful sense and can bring us back to moments in the past that can become almost tangible. You can arouse the sense of smell by lighting sensual candles, or adding scented herbal oils to your play. Erotic scents include vanilla, lavender, Ylang Ylang, musk oil, cinnamon, cloves, and sandalwood. There are also sexuality products on the market that use pheromones to heighten the sense of erotic smell as well.

    Bonus Tip! Rub lavender essential oils on the temples to relax your partner.  Or try a spicy mixture of scents just below the nose to arouse their passions.

    Sounds and Silence

    The sense of hearing can be either aroused or dampened during sensation play. You can play erotic music in the background to heighten the sense of hearing. Talking dirty, or whispering in their ear is another form of heightened this sense, especially if they are blindfolded. Or you can use earplugs to remove the sense of hearing, with a blindfold, which creates erotic suspense and anticipation. If your lover can’t see you or hear you, you can really play with the element of surprise!

    Bonus Tip!  Try a meditative CD for doing erotic massage techniques.  Or a fast bumping and grinding tempo for a sexy rhythm.

    Erogenous Zones

    During sensation play you want to focus on arousing all the other erogenous zones in the body, while avoiding the genitals at first. Check out my articles on the other erogenous zones to begin with here such as the ears, nape of neck, nipples and breasts, and even the feet.

    Use light touches with your fingertips, or soft scratches. Knead, rub, massage, pinch or tickle. Use your mouth to nibble, bite, lick, suck, or blow on different areas of the body. Try a fork to lightly trail goose bumps down their skin. Use an ice cube or cold spoon left in the freezer to play with temperature sensations. Erotic toys, especially those made of metal, glass or silicone can also be heated or cooled for erotic play.

    Don’t forget the various types of sensation lotions, lubes and candles that can be used to heighten the senses. There are various types of lubes now that cool, heat, tingle and are flavored. Then there are massage oils and candles that warm and heighten the sense of smell and touch. There are also sexual enhancers made specifically for the genitals that bring the blood flow to that area of the body and heighten arousal.

    Take it Slow

    Sensation play is a sensual experience and shouldn’t be rushed. Go slow and explore your lover’s body. See what reactions you get by trying various things. While you can’t use everything above in one play session, pick one to three things you’d like to try like a blindfold, types of touch and a vibrator, and explore.

    Tease your partner erotically so they build up sexual energy and arousal to a place where they are ready to burst. Then give them the orgasm they crave as fireworks go off in the senses!

    Tools for Sensation Play

    • Blindfolds, silk scarves, and sensory goggles.
    • Hand cuffs, bondage rope, a silk tie and bed restraints.
    • Warm massage candles, hot wax candles made for sensation play, and warming lotions.
    • Cooling and tingling lotions, ice, and popsicles.
    • Furs, feathers, silk or satin.
    • Forks, pinwheels, or wooden skewers.
    • Nipple clamps, clothes pins, or nipple suckers.
    • Ear phones, ear plugs or sensual music.
    • Aphrodisiacs, sexy foods, flavored lubes.
    • Scents and pheromones.
    • Your hands, fingers, mouth, tongue and teeth.
    • Sex toys including anal toys, dildos, vibrators and kinky toys.
    • Sensual massage products and arousal lotions.
    • For spanking use your hands, a small soft flogger, a crop, a spatula, or a wooden spoon. Just be careful not to get carried away and hit too hard. The idea is to create erotic sensation, not pain.

    So, there is your introduction to sensation play. As you can see, the types of activities you can try are only limited by your imagination. Make sure to talk to your lover about these activities first and get their consent before trying them out. And, make this a playful adventure of exploration, rather than worrying too much about it. Let your sense of play and your lover’s response guide you for the best erotic encounters.

    Play safe and have fun!

    Kisses,
    Fidan Paula

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  • Kinky Shades of Play for Beginners

    Kinky Shades of Play for Beginners

    With the new popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey, women are starting to embrace their “kinky” side. So, guys, you better get on board the kinky train because your lady is going to want to try out some of the new sexy kinky stuff she is learning about.

    What is Kinky?

    Every society develops morality norms, rules and standards for behavior, including sexual behavior. What may be “acceptable” or normal, or popular sexual behavior now, may have been very taboo not so long ago. For instance, sodomy (anal sex) was still against the law in the some states until 2003. Nowadays, anal sex, along with many other types of taboo or kinky play are becoming more mainstream and accepted as just different flavors of sex that some adventurous couples want to try. In other words, human sexual behavior is a cultural construct, influenced by what a particular society deems acceptable.

    Are You Adventurous?

    As long as you are practicing “safe sex” and everyone playing is consenting adults, there is no reason not to add a bit of sexual adventure into your love life. I like to think of “kinky” sex as a more playful type of sexual expression that allows us to unleash our inner fantasies in a safe way.

    From rough sex, to blindfolding, to playful spanking, KINK or BDSM is more mainstream than ever.

    Fantasy

    When we were children we knew instinctively how to play and act out games and fantasies. But, as adults, we have lost that ability to play, learn, explore and try new things.

    Kink offers us ways to bring back that sense of wonder, exploration and fun we once had, but in a new, very adult way.

    In one of my recent articles, I wrote about the top female fantasies that many women have. These include scenarios of sexual dominance and submission, and the surrender of control. Many men have similar fantasies as well, which can complement their partner’s fantasy.

    When practiced safety, sanely and between consensual adults, these acts are considered by most to be just another form of sexual expression.

    Types of Kink

    Kinky play includes many types of erotic activities which fall under the umbrella of BDSM which refers to bondage and discipline, sadomasochism, and dominance and submission. While some of these terms may sound a bit scary, they are only names for various types of kinky play. Within KINK, there are many activities that couples can explore together such as role-playing, bondage, spanking, discipline or punishment, dominance and submission, power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream sexual interactions.

    Role-playing

    Role-playing is like playing dress up and then taking on a certain role that you play out during a sexual “scene” or erotic play. Usually, the characters will complement each other, but be unequal in power: one who is dominant and the other submissive. The dominant is usually the giver, while the submissive is the receiver, but the roles can also be interchangeable.

    You have likely heard of or fantasized about different types of these scenarios such as Master/slave girl, Teacher/schoolgirl, Doctor/nurse or patient, Pirate/captive, Boss/secretary and so on. These are just a few of the most popular types of role play available, but let your imagination be your guide!

    Dominance and Submission

    In Dominance and submission, one person plays a dominant role, while the other person takes a submissive role like those listed above. You don’t have to “play” a role in order to be either dominant or submissive in the bedroom. You can just be you, being more dominant than maybe you usually are, while your lover becomes more submissive.

    Of course, this is something you would both discuss together and agree upon.

    First, you would discuss your fantasies or what types of dominance and submissiveness you want to try. Decide on specific activities you’d like to try and also express each other’s limits as to what is off boundaries. In BDSM culture, those playing together usually rely on a “safe word” as well, such as RED, which lets everyone know that play needs to stop. This is a safety measure in case something becomes too intense or no longer feels safe, which can happen when you are exploring new things and pushing your usual boundaries.

    Dominance during sex play could be holding someone down during sex. It could be giving someone orders, or talking dirty to them or calling them dirty names. It could involve tying someone up and doing bondage, or erotic spanking. It could involve types of extreme sensations like pain and pleasure mixed together for an erotic experience. Hair pulling, spanking, and types of sensation play could all be a part of the body’s sensory experience.

    Bondage

    Bondage is being held down or tied up during sex or erotic play. Bondage refers to “restraining for pleasure”. The pleasure could be in the visual appeal in how someone looks when bound, which can be erotic to the giver, or physically pleasurable to the one receiving or being bound.

    Ways to use bondage include tying with rope, using hand cuffs, bondage tape, blindfolds, or mouth gags, and even a sex swing can become a bondage device.

    Some people find being bound very erotic, while others hate it or are claustrophobic. So, be careful when playing with bondage and always make sure you have a quick way to unleash your victim, like safety scissors if you are using rope. Also, make sure to learn how to perform bondage correctly, and learn all the do’s and don’ts.

    Sensation Play

    Sensation play is a way of touching your partner in a sensual way to bring about various sensations on the body. It can consist of using a feather, silk, or fur on their skin while they are blindfolded, or ice and hot wax. Other toys like pinwheels can be used to give a prickly sharp type of sensation. Read my article on Sensation Play here.

    Spanking

    Erotic spanking has long been a part of many couple’s fantasies. It entails a Dominant who takes the submissive over their knee (or restricts them in other ways like bondage) and spanks their bottom. The point is not to give pain for the most part—although pain once eroticised can become very pleasurable—but to give another type of sensation and pleasure.

    Spanking can also be about humiliation, or being treated as a naughty girl, or one deserving punishment. In that aspect, it can be more of a mind game and is about the act of submitting, rather than wanting to feel pain. A submissive is someone who likes to submit, and be dominated. While a masochist is someone who likes the feeling of pain and eroticises it into pleasure. These are two separate types of people, although some people enjoy both, so be sure you know why someone wants to be spanked, or dominated first.

    So, there are just a few Kinky Shades of Play for Beginners. Stayed tuned to GabrielleMoore.com for more information on kinky play (coming soon) and other types of sexual adventures for couples!

    Play safe and stay sexy!

    Kisses,

    Gabrielle Moore

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  • Give Her a Spank!

    Give Her a Spank!

    There is something so thrilling about being a little naughty in bed. We all like different things. Some of us might like to get really down and dirty in the bedroom. Others like more “vanilla” sex, perhaps believing that sex is just wonderful in its purest and simplest form. Either way, there are a lot of ways to make sex even more exciting, whether you like it really dirty or sensual and romantic.

    The way we’re going to discuss today is spanking. Spanking is one of those fun and bad little activities that a person might not even think they will enjoy right up until they give or receive their first little slap on the bum and a rush of hot arousal runs through your body. Why do we like it so much? Well, for starters the butt is an erogenous zone and filled with delicious little nerve endings that are just begging to be stimulated.  On top of that, the butt shares the same neural pathways that lead straight to the brain as our genitals do.

    By now I’m guessing you’re a little more than intrigued? I thought so. Let’s go over the how to together.

    Positions

    1. Across your lap – If this is comfortable for both parties, your partner lying down across your lap is a great position to practice spanking. You (the spanker) should sit in an armless chair, on the bed, or on the couch where your partner is able to lie across your lap. You should hold on to her with one hand and spank with the other.

    2. Bent over – Another great position is your partner bent over something, like a desk, table or the arm of the sofa. It should be comfortable so she can rest her upper body on the surface and stick her bum high in the air for you.

    3. All fours – In this position your partner will get on all fours and either stay in table top position, or rest her elbows and forearms flat so that her butt sticks straight up in the air.

    4. During sex – While the other positions mentioned were more for doing spanking as a form of foreplay, there are some who like to give their partners a spank while they’re having sex. Doggy style is a great position for this and so is the woman on top position.

    How To

    It might seem that there isn’t much to spanking, but that’s definitely not the case! There is a right way to do it.

    * You might not think it, but you actually don’t want to leave her with a stinging, sore butt. So, cup your hand and keep your fingers together when spanking. This will help to minimize the sting. Some couples also use latex or leather gloves or a fur mitt for this purpose. For those couples that do want to leave the spankee with a red, sore bum, use an open, flat hand with fingers spread wide.

    * Start by massaging and squeezing her butt. Then begin with lighter spanks, with a rub and squeeze in between. Just like any other sexual activity, you want to ease into anything more intense.

    * Concentrate your spanking on the fleshy part of her bum, steering clear of the spin, tailbone and top of the butt.

    * Increase the intensity of your spanking and the speed. Only break contact with the skin in order to administer another spank. When you spank, swipe your hand upward.

    * As things intensify you can change up the stimulation from spanking to rubbing, caressing and squeezing.

    * The underside of her buttcheeks are especially sensitive and spanking her there (once she is fully aroused) can also jiggle around the genital area and provide really intense sensations.

    * Always proceed with caution when it comes to intensity. It’s a good idea to agree on a “safe word” for your partner to use if she decides she doesn’t want to be spanked anymore.

    The Role of Fantasy

    A lot of spanking in the bedroom can be engaged in alongside role playing. There are a ton of fun scenarios you could try, like boss/assistant, teacher/student, etc. If you’re not interested in role playing then you can spank your partner once things start getting hot and heavy during sex. I should also mention that you might want to try switching the roles I mentioned here and becoming the spankee, while she becomes the spanker!

    Once you’re done spanking, move on to sex and make sure your give her bum some extra loving caresses and squeezes along the way!

    Kisses,
    Fidan Paula

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