There is something so thrilling about being a little naughty in bed. We all like different things. Some of us might like to get really down and dirty in the bedroom. Others like more “vanilla” sex, perhaps believing that sex is just wonderful in its purest and simplest form. Either way, there are a lot of ways to make sex even more exciting, whether you like it really dirty or sensual and romantic.

The way we’re going to discuss today is spanking. Spanking is one of those fun and bad little activities that a person might not even think they will enjoy right up until they give or receive their first little slap on the bum and a rush of hot arousal runs through your body. Why do we like it so much? Well, for starters the butt is an erogenous zone and filled with delicious little nerve endings that are just begging to be stimulated.  On top of that, the butt shares the same neural pathways that lead straight to the brain as our genitals do.

By now I’m guessing you’re a little more than intrigued? I thought so. Let’s go over the how to together.

Positions

1. Across your lap – If this is comfortable for both parties, your partner lying down across your lap is a great position to practice spanking. You (the spanker) should sit in an armless chair, on the bed, or on the couch where your partner is able to lie across your lap. You should hold on to her with one hand and spank with the other.

2. Bent over – Another great position is your partner bent over something, like a desk, table or the arm of the sofa. It should be comfortable so she can rest her upper body on the surface and stick her bum high in the air for you.

3. All fours – In this position your partner will get on all fours and either stay in table top position, or rest her elbows and forearms flat so that her butt sticks straight up in the air.

4. During sex – While the other positions mentioned were more for doing spanking as a form of foreplay, there are some who like to give their partners a spank while they’re having sex. Doggy style is a great position for this and so is the woman on top position.

How To

It might seem that there isn’t much to spanking, but that’s definitely not the case! There is a right way to do it.

* You might not think it, but you actually don’t want to leave her with a stinging, sore butt. So, cup your hand and keep your fingers together when spanking. This will help to minimize the sting. Some couples also use latex or leather gloves or a fur mitt for this purpose. For those couples that do want to leave the spankee with a red, sore bum, use an open, flat hand with fingers spread wide.

* Start by massaging and squeezing her butt. Then begin with lighter spanks, with a rub and squeeze in between. Just like any other sexual activity, you want to ease into anything more intense.

* Concentrate your spanking on the fleshy part of her bum, steering clear of the spin, tailbone and top of the butt.

* Increase the intensity of your spanking and the speed. Only break contact with the skin in order to administer another spank. When you spank, swipe your hand upward.

* As things intensify you can change up the stimulation from spanking to rubbing, caressing and squeezing.

* The underside of her buttcheeks are especially sensitive and spanking her there (once she is fully aroused) can also jiggle around the genital area and provide really intense sensations.

* Always proceed with caution when it comes to intensity. It’s a good idea to agree on a “safe word” for your partner to use if she decides she doesn’t want to be spanked anymore.

The Role of Fantasy

A lot of spanking in the bedroom can be engaged in alongside role playing. There are a ton of fun scenarios you could try, like boss/assistant, teacher/student, etc. If you’re not interested in role playing then you can spank your partner once things start getting hot and heavy during sex. I should also mention that you might want to try switching the roles I mentioned here and becoming the spankee, while she becomes the spanker!

Once you’re done spanking, move on to sex and make sure your give her bum some extra loving caresses and squeezes along the way!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For an in-depth guide on how to practice my favorite position ever, try out my program Reverse Cowgirl Domination. 

If you want to give your woman a night to remember and turn her into a blissed-out puddle of mush (that will be talking to her friends about you for weeks afterward), then look no further than the sensual massage.

Everybody likes sex, but the dynamic of a sensual massage is something entirely different. It’s all about her receiving from you. Whether it’s for an anniversary, a date or just a Tuesday night, there is nothing else that will leave her feeling so honored, nurtured, loved, and turned on.

Even if you’ve never given an erotic massage in your life, if you follow these tips for how to give a woman a sensual massage, you are guaranteed to leave her with an unforgettable experience.

Keep in mind that very few women have ever gotten this kind of dedicated, healthy sensual attention that is completely giving and respectful in nature. Depending on the woman and her past experiences, it can be incredibly healing. It’s actually quite common for them to have an emotional release and cry in the process. Which is totally fine. Keep calm, take a pause, love her through it, and massage on.

Here’s how to give a woman a sensual massage and give her one hell of an orgasm.

Set the scene

Most women tend to be sensitive to ambiance and context. In order for her to be able to completely relax internally, the outer environment has to be conducive to her relaxation. Make sure the room is well cleaned and tidy (laundry folded and put away, clean surfaces). Use only candle light. Light some gentle/mild incense. Lay out soft blankets and pillows. Play soft, ambient music. Remove all distractions and make sure to turn off any beeping electronics.

Prepare some oil

Use a natural, clean oil, since you’re likely going to be using this on the outside AND the inside of her. Obviously, make sure the oil is comfortably warm to the touch before putting it on her skin so it doesn’t startle her. If the oil is room temperature or less, rub your hands together vigorously for 5-10 seconds before putting them on her skin. You want everything to be comfortable and soothing. The last thing you want is her to dread your touch and wince, or get cold.

Use light, smooth touches

The key word here is “sensual.” Sensuality is about provoking, stimulating and teasing the senses. You’re not there to perform targeted deep tissue to resolve chronic knee pain or treat her scoliosis. Your goal is to bring every ounce of her attention to her body and where your hands contact it.

Be progressive with pressure and intensity. The more light and drawn out the movements, the more arousing the sensual massage will be. If you need to get a sense of the rhythm, pretend you’re massaging her in slow-motion, or like she’s asleep and you’re trying not to wake her up.

Start with long, smooth full-palm strokes up her back and down her arms. Use the swirl technique to keep her nerve endings guessing (swirling your hands around lightly in an unpredictable, nonlinear way over the whole body).

Go very, very slow, and listen to her breathing for cues as to how she’s feeling moment to moment. After massaging the “safe” zones, move on to the hot spots, with the same intensity and gentleness, guiding yourself by her moans – if they’re soft, you can push further, if she’s getting vocal about it, you’re nearing the orgasm.

Communicate

Check in once in a while if the pressure is okay. Some parts will be more/less sensitive than others, so she may want your touch to change accordingly. Ask her if there are any areas that are calling out to her and yearning for more attention.

This will not only exponentially boost her satisfaction, but also help you learn what works and leave you feeling more confident overall that she’s having a good time.

Escalate things

Keep in mind that the arc of the sensual massage is a giant tease from initial feather-light touch on the back to full manual stimulation of her lady parts. Don’t race. You want to build tension and anticipation. As you progress, gloss over her breasts and past her thighs but don’t stop and spend ample time on her more obvious erogenous zones just yet.

Start with the head, neck, arms, hands, legs, butt, and feet. Then have her flip over and go further with her stomach, breasts, inner thighs, and finally genitals.

When you get to the vagina, work from the outside in, layer by layer. Take your time like you’ve never taken your time before. Lightly stroke the creases at the thighs on either side. Stroke and gently tug at each labial lip. Caress everything.

When you move to the inside, use the same philosophy of light, smooth touch and particularly focus on the G-spot, along the first few inches of the upper vaginal wall. Watch her breath and calibrate as you gradually build speed and intensity. As long as you’re both having fun, rinse and repeat!

It’s up to you where to go from there. Sometimes it can be a nice touch to keep sex entirely off the table. Making the whole experience just about her keeps this container of honoring and service more fully in tact, which will tend to make her feel extra special.

Just remember to take your time and tease. If it helps, keep a clock or your phone within view and draw the whole process out over an hour, at least.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more ingenious tricks on how to become a sex master check out – Vagina Masterclass

“Having a dirty mind makes ordinary conversations much more interesting.”

Forget Snapchat, this is real life. I’ve prepared for you a four-point plan for getting her hot via your smartphone. The idea came to me one afternoon, while I was having lunch with my best friend and her boyfriend had just sent her one of those corny “Hey babe, what are you wearing?” messages. After getting her blessing to mess with him, I decided to beat this guy at his own game. So as a joke, with her by my side, I started sending him some sexy messages.

“I’m wearing pigtails and nothing else”, I replied on her behalf. “What are you going to do about it?” We spent an hour playing what amounted to an X-rated Choose Your Own Adventure. We might have been laughing, but actually, it was pretty hot. Okay, it was really hot. Obviously, the guy thought so too.

The experience launched what has now become a full-blown side job as a sexting Cyrano de Bergerac. So I’ve made it my mission to help you come out of your shell and embrace your sexuality. It’s my duty to pay my sextpertise forward. What I’ve learned (and I’m eager to teach you) is that there seems to be a direct correlation between having game in person and totally lacking it in the digital sphere. Also, you should know that being great at sexy texts doesn’t involve naked selfies and Snapchat. But while texting can involve a quick pic, it’s not a requirement (and it’s safer without one).

Plus, a recent study revealed that women are twice as likely to sext as men are. So if you want to send your partner a sexy text message and you want the sexting to be efficient, you will have to take charge. The trick is to send a clear sign that you want in on some virtual foreplay but to still make your message ambiguous enough that you can claim innocence of any dirty intentions. Here’s how.

#1. Paint a Snapchat with your words. So you get the sense that she’s definitely up for the game. Now what? I usually counsel against sending nudie pics. If it happened to celebrities, it can happen to you! Plus, you don’t want some disgruntled ex exposing your boudoir shots all over the web. If you are new at sexting, just the thought of sex with you should be enough to get a woman hot and bothered. If your partner is bugging you to send pictures, try painting one with words instead. Note: using the word “hard” in such a context should be enough to get her mind racing. If it doesn’t, her imagination might be malfunctioning.

#2. Cut the cutesy emoji. There are enough crossed signals when you’re trying to convey emotions via a text – why complicate it with a bunch of random icons? It’s hard for anyone to get hot for a winking panda and a couple of pink hearts. Best-case scenario: She thinks you’re doing an impression of Hugh Grant in Notting Hill. Worst? You remind her of her 6-year-old cousin. So cut the cutesy stuff and keep this conversation adults only.

#3. Let your freak fantasy flag fly. I find that the old trick to combat stage fright works doubly well for sexting. I just imagine the recipient in their underwear. And instead of your long-term partner who cooks you pancakes in the morning, you’re texting with Penelope Cruz. Or Sharon Stone. The fun part of texting is to be aggressive, not passive, so don’t worry about what a “nice girl” would think. Believe me, even the nicest girls appreciate some naughty. Need a reference point? Turn to an inside joke between the two of you, like how obsessed you are with Game of Thrones. Just play if confident and direct the conversation. She’ll take the hint.

#4. Figure out your sext goals. Don’t dive into the digital dance of depravity without first deciding what you want the end result to be. Do you want to meet up that night for some nooky? Just looking for a sex buddy? It’s all good, but having a clear idea of what you want to get out of the experience makes it easier to set boundaries and avoid an awkward 4 a.m. rejection.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Repeat after me: “I’m in control, I’m setting the scene.” If I’ve done my job right, your texting fingers have a busy night ahead. And for even more steamy results, I recommend you check out my program Vagina Masterclass. Discover how to rub and caress your woman’s body in every way to get her swooning, soaking, and orgasming with delight!

 

The Erotic Ritual That Makes Her Fall in Love & LUST—Again and Again

I’ve always found Japanese women to be exotically beautiful—and my friend Kimiko is no exception.

One evening over coffee in Tokyo, she leaned in with that elegant stillness I’ve come to admire and said, “Do you know how samurai wives used to keep their men loyal?”

What followed was a story I’ll never forget.

She told me, “In feudal Japan, the wives of samurai warriors practiced a secret sensual art—a form of sacred touch passed down through generations and whispered through hidden schools of the geisha and onna-bugeisha (female warriors).”

But this wasn’t just for their men. It was how they controlled their men. And what makes it even more powerful?

It works just as well in reverse.

You can use it on her.

This erotic discipline wasn’t about getting her off. It was about imprinting yourself into her nervous system.

The secret?

Slow, intentional, sacred touch. The kind that doesn’t just make her wet—it makes her remember you. Crave you. Choose you, over and over again.

And whether Kimiko was sharing ancient truth or a sensual legend—the effect is real.

Here’s the science behind it—and how you can use it on her.

How It Works—According to Science

The wives of samurai weren’t trained in neuroscience. But they practiced something rooted in deep wisdom—passed down through generations of disciplined, observant women.

Kimiko explained that before battle, samurai would often face death. Their wives had one sacred duty the night before: to anchor him. To make him feel loved, calm, and connected to something worth coming home for.

They used warm oils. Long, gliding strokes across the back and chest. Light fingernail drags down the arms. Touches that weren’t about sex—but devotion. Rituals of grounding, relaxation, and emotional imprinting.

They believed this touch planted memory into his body. That in the chaos of war, he’d feel her fingers still on his skin. Her scent in his mind. Her presence as his compass.

Modern science now confirms what these women intuited centuries ago:

That a woman’s nervous system stores tension in her body—and that deep, sustained touch is the fastest way to reach her heart.

Today, science backs it up:

• Skin-to-skin contact lowers cortisol (stress)
• Raises oxytocin (bonding)
• Slows the heart
• Activates mirror neurons (makes her feel deeply seen and safe)

So what happens when you touch her like this?

Even after years together—even after fights, distance, or stress—she melts. She feels home. And she reattaches to you as her safe place.

The Touch That Triggers Her Love Hormones

This isn’t a massage.

It’s a rhythm. A ritual. A way of handling her body that creates devotion—and triggers powerful neurochemical responses in her brain.

Start at the shoulders. Glide down the spine. Circle the hips. Tease the thighs.

Every slow stroke activates her parasympathetic nervous system, moving her from tension to trust. Light pressure along her spine increases serotonin release, while rhythmic caresses near the sacrum can stimulate vagus nerve activity, making her feel safe and emotionally bonded.

But none of it works without one key ingredient: presence.

Your attention. Your breath. Your slowness. When you touch her this way, her body doesn’t just feel pleasure—it remembers you as the man who brought her peace and desire in the same moment.

Want to see how this technique looks stroke-by-stroke? Watch Tori Black and Adria Rae in action inside Dripping Wet Secrets. Their full-body glide ritual shows you exactly how to imprint desire into her skin—and rewire the way she responds to your touch.

Why Most Men Never Learn This—And How You Can

In our fast world, most men are goal-focused. Their touch is rushed, clumsy, mechanical.

But the truth is, even if she’s pulling away, going through something, or hasn’t opened up in weeks…

Her body still remembers how to surrender.

You just have to touch her the right way.

Watch the 3-phase sequence that Tori Black calls “better than sex”—because it bypasses her mind and speaks straight to her body—inside Dripping Wet Secrets.

When You Touch Her This Way, She Falls In Love All Over Again

This isn’t theory. It’s chemistry. It’s memory. It’s connection.

This kind of touch triggers:

• Emotional safety
• Erotic excitement
• Lasting intimacy

Even after years. Even when she thought the spark was gone—this kind of touch brings it roaring back.

That’s why we filmed it in HD. You’ll see Adria Rae tremble, arch, and whisper his name as Tori Black brings her into full-body surrender.

You Don’t Need to Be a Samurai. You Just Need This Skill.

You don’t need ancient ancestry.

You need intention.

You need the technique.

And you need a guide.

Because once you learn how to touch a woman this way?

She won’t be able to forget you. Or replace you.

She’ll feel safe.

She’ll feel sexy.

She’ll feel yours.

Click here to master Erotic Touch inside Dripping Wet Secrets. Real strokes. Real moans. Tori Black and Adria Rae show you how to awaken her body—and make her crave your hands again and again.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

 

There’s a huge information gap when it comes to the female orgasm – and that’s not because there’s no relevant information on the subject, but because there’s too much of it, and sometimes contradictory.

With this particular conundrum in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. One warning before we begin: be prepared for surprises, and for seeming contradictions. It turns out the female orgasms are both as single-minded as they sometimes seem, and the same time a lot more complicated. As sensitive as women are to skill and technique, they’re equally powered by mood, setting, and timing. The fun – for her, for you – is in mixing up the following strategies to see what will work tonight. So have at it.

Hold back the goods – tonight and tomorrow

Ask any woman after a particularly long dry spell — abstinence is the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac. Even when you’re not separated by distance, you can contribute to that pent-up, dying-to-make-love state of mind by deploying some sexual teasing tactics during the day. I suggest “accidentally” flashing your big guy at her in the morning, or giving her a lascivious phone call at the office. You can plant a sexual seed that will flower that night into a stronger orgasm.

Intercept her drive to the finish line

In your heart of hearts, you know that the longer the foreplay, the stronger the orgasm, for yourself as well as for your partner. But at the same time, you have this incredibly powerful drive to simply come, come, come! You can’t help it: It’s been hardwired into your sexual circuitry over thousands of years. The trick for you is to set aside this evolutionary imperative so that sex lasts long enough for a truly eventful climax to build. Set the tone for longer, more languorous sex by starting things off with a slow, sensual back rub. Other delaying tactics can be brought into play as the festivities progress. Stopping for an occasional cooling-off period works beautifully, but takes discipline. The woman-on-top position is useful because it helps you restrain your urge to start thrusting.

Torture her (nicely!)

A more extreme version of extending the foreplay is called “edging,” where you get her right up to the yes, edge, and then back off. You stop before you experience climax, and simmer, then repeat that a few times. It builds up the energy so that you have a more, well, explosive and intense orgasm. Of course, let her know if that’s your plan, otherwise she might just think you’re being mean.

Surprise her with a quickie

Arousal is a mysterious and powerful thing, and sometimes the frenzied abandon of a quick and lustful coupling can produce a climax that’s every bit as explosive as a marathon session in the sack. I suspect this has something to do with that centuries-old sexual circuitry I mentioned: Sex without ceremony can tap into deep reservoirs of animal instinct. I personally had one of my strongest orgasms when my partner overpowered me as I innocently came home from work one night — pieces of clothing were scattered between the front door and the bedroom. I’m sure the fact that he was the instigator added fuel to the fire.

Go straight for her most prized possession

It’s not really politically correct to admit this, but the truth is that when orgasm is imminent, there’s only one female erogenous zone, and you know where it is. That doesn’t mean women don’t like to be kissed or caressed, but when it comes to orgasm, you can start and end with the vaginal area. It makes sense, therefore, that when women are out for the most lustful orgasms, their positions of choice tend to be those that provide the most direct clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For pure physicality, rear entry is the way to go. There’s more friction, more depth… You can also try woman on top, especially reverse cowgirl.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Here’s a little-known, time-tested and PROVEN secret to DOUBLE your chances of giving her an orgasm during intercourse….

Celebrated through ancient Greek sculpture, memorialised in monuments around the world and even bathroom graffiti — at school and everywhere, the penis may be the most popular, controversial and well-studied human organ ever. And since you own one, I will allow you a few seconds to feel important right now…

Alright, so back to business. Despite its popularity and wide representation,  the male member still keeps some secrets that only scientists can reveal. For instance, did you know that the size of your erection can be different based on the type of stimulation you receive? In a proven study, those who measured their “instrument” after oral sex or intercourse had larger penises than those who relied on solo sex. Another fact you should consider is that smoking reduces blood flow to the penis, which means it can shorten your size by up to 0.4 inches (1 cm), found the study.

As for the appearance, Swiss researchers asked female participants to rank which factors they considered most important in an attractive penis and it turns out women like a wide variety of “packages” — they found different genital characteristics “normal” or even “great”. The study concluded that when it comes to the male member, women focus more on the total package than on one specific part. Which is good news if you’re self-conscious about the look of your penis or testicles, for example.

But the question is: can you make a woman want to give more attention to your man parts? And the answer is yes — there are ways to make your woman want to touch them, lick them or ride them more than ever before. The secret lays in four different aspects you may need to focus more on. Read on to make your woman proud!

Make it smell better

If you want her to always be desperate about touching and tasting your man parts, it’s very important that you smell good down there. And even though you want to believe that is always the case, well… life happens. Sometimes you sweat more than usual or your diet is all over the place — because yes, diet has a huge role in the way your intimate parts smell and taste.

What you need to know is your genital area has a lot of sebaceous and apocrine glands which produce oil and sweat. This is also the area of your body that can get overheated under multiple layers of clothes, another cause for bacterial growth which leads to not so pleasant smells. But there’s a lot you can do about it.

Obviously, always shower before sexy time with your lady, even if you already showered in the morning and it’s the afternoon. Especially if it’s hot outside, it doesn’t take long to lose that freshness. Then try to always use cotton underwear, because it’s breathable and stops bacterial growth. You will also feel more comfortable, so it’s a double win! If you’re out all day, try to use baby wipes infused with coconut oil every few hours. Coconut oil is antibacterial and antiviral, keeping your intimate parts nice&healthy.

Make it taste better

The taste of your man parts has a lot to do with what you eat on a daily basis. Some women don’t like to give blowjobs because they simply don’t like the taste of penis “juices”. They’re not meant to taste delicious, so don’t panic — it’s totally normal. But there is plenty of room for improvement.

Semen tastes salty at its best. If you eat a lot of spicy junk food, it’s gonna be a disaster. To make sure you taste good, you have to build a better diet. Try to ease up on cigarettes, red meat, dairy and processed sugars, and make sure you incorporate more fruits and vegetables. Pineapple, in particular, can make your semen taste a lot better.

Find ways to last longer

A long-lasting erection is obviously attractive — and will make her more excited to try new stuff with you all the time. Plus, if your erection can make it through a decent foreplay (10 minutes at least), she’ll feel so much more connected and attracted to your penis, just because she has plenty of time to play with it!

To make sure you last longer than usual, try to have regular solo activity (but not too much) and to get plenty of sleep. Remember: if you’re always working until midnight and barely get a few hours of sleep, you won’t be able to dominate your erection.

By the way, if you want to learn more about lasting longer, check out this technique in my latest program, Last Longer Tonight.

Trim it like it’s hot

Recent studies confirm it: most women like it when your intimate parts are groomed. It shows you care, and that’s not a bad thing. Your man parts also look better and bigger when they’re not covered with hair, and she’ll be more excited to give you a blowjob, that’s for sure!

Be careful, though — if you’re using scissors, use a pair designated solely for your intimate parts, not the one you cut your hair with (or use in the kitchen — even worse!). You don’t want to spread genital bacteria to other parts of your body. And never ever shave your pubes when they’re dry. Use warm water and foaming shaving cream to make everything go smoother. You can use some coconut oil afterward to minimise the risk of irritation.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: If you follow my rules, your woman will dream about your man parts all day long. If you want to make her even more desperate for your long-lasting and rock hard erection, check out my program “Bigger and Deeper”. In this program, you’ll learn special tricks and positions to make your penis feel twice as large inside her.

She loves deep penetration just as much as you do, but you need to take into account that real life sex is very different from porn sex. So when it comes to deep thrusting, she still desires an intimate experience, not just mechanical hardcore moves.

Another fact you should consider: even if you’ve been trained by previous partners to avoid deep penetration, it doesn’t mean your current lover also hates it. Some women experience pain or even bleeding during deep thrusting, so they become hesitant of trying it again. But these negative aspects of it come from making some serious mistakes you will NEVER do – because I’m here to guide you.

So as usual, communication is key. Stop presuming what she wants and start experimenting with deep penetration – she probably thinks about it all the time, even if she never says anything. Remember, women watch porn as well.

Why does deep penetration feel so good for her?

First of all, it’s VERY erotic. Any woman would get seriously turned on at the sight of her lover’s penis filling her vagina completely. Plus, the powerful movements flatter your masculinity and make her see you as a sex God.

Second of all, you need to know that deep into her vagina there are two very sensitive spots that you may be able to stimulate if you venture into the art of deep thrusting. One of them is the A-spot, which is located along the front wall of the vagina, near the cervix. A lot of women achieve powerful orgasms when this particular spot is stimulated during deep penetration.

The second “magical spot” is located along the back wall of the vaginal canal, close to the anal wall.

Are you big enough down there?

As every man out there, you probably believe you need to have a huge penis in order to enjoy deep penetration with your lover and reach all of those magical spots. The truth is, it doesn’t matter how big your penis is but what you do with it. There are a lot of ways you can make your woman feel so filled by your penis that she couldn’t imagine wanting another man inside her – if you want to discover them, check-out my amazingly hot program called “Bigger and Deeper”!

Help your lady enjoy deep penetration and experience powerful orgasms

There are always ways of making good sex even better – and this is especially true when we discuss deep penetration. Read on to find out how not to make her uncomfortable and how to increase pleasure for both of you.

You can go deep and soft at the same time

Deep penetration doesn’t have to be rough. Starting with sensual deep thrusting will give you the opportunity to discover your lady’s preferences. If she experiences pain or any type of discomfort, you need to be aware of it. Many women don’t admit they are in pain during sex because they don’t want to “ruin the act” but what this does is disrupting your connection.

Start slowly and ask her how it feels. Remember, soft deep thrusting can be incredibly erotic and orgasmic.

Stop and focus on foreplay if necessary

If you notice your girl isn’t wet enough, don’t insist with hardcore penetration thinking that it’s going to make her wet. She needs more foreplay. If you want to help her enjoy deep penetration, you want to make sure she’s really wet down there. Use your oral skills and keep lube on hand.

Use pillows to get deeper

Most sex positions will get even better if you use pillows to lift her butt. Putting a pillow under her butt, stomach or hips, depending on the position you’re experiencing with, will help you get deep and stimulate those sensitive spots without effort. Both of you will feel even more pleasure than usual, so find new ways of playing with those pillows. Also, try to use memory foam pillows – regular ones are okay too, but the memory ones don’t compress which helps you maintain your favorite position for longer.

Don’t do this…

Never put your pleasure before her safety. Men experience unbelievable pleasure during deep penetration, so sometimes they are tempted to keep thrusting even harder and deeper, even if their partner’s moans change in a way that expresses pain and not pleasure. Always consider that a lot of women suffer from endometriosis, a condition which makes sex a very painful experience. I strongly advise you to check with your partner every time you change the position or the rhythm of thrusting to make sure she feels 100% pleasure and no pain at all.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Baby, deep penetration is a form of art and you can become the master. If you want to learn more about how to make your woman feel like you’re HUGE inside of her, check out my program – “Bigger and Deeper”!

The little-known tool men use to grow up to 20%, stay harder and go deeper

There is one simple tool that’s become incredibly popular in recent years—because it works.

It’s safe. It’s easy. And it immediately helps men stay hard, much longer.

Here’s the truth: most men don’t struggle to get an erection. The real problem is keeping it.

This tool was designed specifically to solve that. But before we dive into how it works, let’s understand how erections function—and why they’re so easy to lose.

Erections are an inflated sponge

Your erection begins when blood flows into the penis, filling two long chambers called the corpora cavernosa—the sponge-like tissue that runs along the top of the shaft.

As these chambers fill with blood, they expand and harden—creating what you know as an erection.

But here’s the secret to staying hard: it’s not just about blood flowing in—it’s about keeping that blood trapped inside.

This is where most men lose their edge. With age, blood vessels become less elastic, testosterone declines, and the pelvic floor muscles weaken. As a result, blood escapes too quickly… and the erection disappears.

The solution? Find a way to lock the blood in and maintain pressure—something the tool I’m about to show you was made to do.

Want to see this in action? Inside Bigger & Deeper, I guide Jennifer through a penis ring session that keeps him rock hard while going deep.
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The Tool: What it is and how it works

It’s called a penis ring—a stretchy band worn around the base of the penis to restrict blood from flowing out.

Imagine squeezing the base of a water balloon—everything inside stays full and firm. That’s how this works.

Men love it because:

• It can make the penis  **20% thicker **
• It helps maintain erections up to 70% longer, even during deep thrusting
• It boosts sensitivity and makes orgasms more intense

Some use it during foreplay to shock blood into the shaft—a method that primes the erection before penetration even begins.

Inside my course, you’ll see how Jenna felt the difference the moment the penis ring was used. You’ll want to see her reaction
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How to Use It—Safely

Used properly, a penis ring is one of the safest, fastest ways to boost sexual performance. But like anything involving blood flow, you need to follow a few key rules:

• When to wear it: Put the ring on when you’re semi-hard—not fully erect or completely soft. If you put it on too early, it can block blood from entering. Too late, and it might be difficult to slide on.
• Placement: The most effective and comfortable position is at the base of the shaft. Some designs allow it to go behind the testicles, but most men find it better to keep it on the shaft alone.
• Comfort Tip: Choose a soft, flexible silicone ring. Make sure it’s snug, not tight. If there’s pain or numbness, remove it immediately.
• Duration: Don’t wear it for more than 30 minutes. A good rule is to start with 20 minutes max, especially your first few times.
• Hygiene: Clean the ring with warm water and mild soap after each use. Silicone can harbor bacteria if not properly washed.

A 2020 review published in the International Journal of Impotence Research confirms that constriction rings can improve erection hardness in men with mild to moderate erectile issues. They’re especially popular for men over 40 because they address venous leak—a common age-related issue.

One Tool, Endless Power

She feels everything.
When you’re thick, full, and pulsing deep inside her… her whole body surrenders.

And when you can stay that way—even after she clenches, moans, and begs you not to stop…

That’s when she bonds.
That’s when she remembers you.

Watch me guide Jennifer and Jenna into these exact techniques inside ‘Bigger & Deeper.’
You’ll see the ring in action, the positions that maximize it, and the look in her eyes when she realizes… this man isn’t going soft.
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Hot kisses,
Fidan Paula
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

The Truth About Penis Size, Pleasure, and What Really Matters to Women

One of the most common insecurities I hear from my male students is this:

“Is my size enough?”

They ask it with worry, embarrassment, or even quiet shame.

And I get it—there’s a mountain of pressure out there. Porn, social media, locker room rumors… all feeding the same myth:

“Bigger is always better.”

But the truth is far more fascinating—and freeing.

Because when it comes to female pleasure, anatomy and arousal matter more than sheer size.

So let’s explore what women actually feel, what size does and doesn’t do, and why the strongest erection will always beat the longest one.

Want to learn how to maximize what you already have? Inside Unbreakable Erections, I’ll show you how—with Bailey and Alexis.

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Does Size Matter?

Yes—but not in the way you’ve been told.

Here’s the biological reality:

• The average vaginal canal is around 5 inches deep when aroused. Some women may stretch beyond that, but it’s rare.
• The G-spot is located just 1.5 to 2.5 inches inside the vaginal opening, along the front wall.
• The cervix—which marks the deepest point—is about 4.5 to 5 inches in, depending on the woman’s body and arousal level.

So yes, size plays a role in reaching certain areas… but not in the way porn suggests.

A penis between 5 to 6 inches is more than enough to stimulate her G-spot, fill her vaginal walls, and create deep, rhythmic pleasure.

Going much bigger than that doesn’t add stimulation—it often adds pain.

Porn shows exaggerated sizes because men like the fantasy—not because women enjoy or desire it.

Most adult actresses who have been with these exaggerated penis size actors prefer a healthy 5-inch erection that feels great and doesn’t generate any pain. Anything over 6 inches isn’t better—it’s just more likely to hurt.

Want to see how to fully stimulate her pleasure zones—without being ‘huge’? Watch me demonstrate it with Bailey and Alexis inside Unbreakable Erections

What’s the Average Size?

Let’s look at the stats:

The average erect penis in the U.S. is 5.16 inches in length. In fact, a significant majority of men—over 80%— are over 5 inches. That means most men, including you, are already well within the range that women enjoy the most.

So stop questioning if you’re big enough. You are.

This doesn’t make a difference in bed. What really makes a difference is: erection quality.

And I’ll explain why in the next section.

Size May Be the Question—But Erection Strength Is the Answer

As I’ve taught many men: you—and the vast majority of men—are equipped with the right size to fully satisfy a woman. No doubts. No questions.

So it isn’t size that makes sex feel amazing to her. It’s the strength of your erection.

That’s what we feel. That’s what creates pressure and pleasure. A 5-inch hard, full erection hits every important zone in the vagina—and keeps us begging for more.

So you’re asking the wrong question. It’s not “Am I big enough?” It’s “Are my erections strong enough?”

Because when you’re fully hard:

• You feel bigger
• You last longer
• And she feels every inch of you, deeper and more intensely

Want to strengthen your erection, feel more powerful inside her, and give her pleasure with every thrust?

Click here to start the course.

Hot kisses,
Fidan Paula
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

The Quiet Whisper That Kills Desire

For years, men have been quietly fed the same story—that your stiffest days are behind you. Every time your erection doesn’t rise on command, you’re nudged toward that little blue pill.

The whisper says: “You need help. You’re broken. It’s just age.”

But that voice? It doesn’t come from your body. It comes from billion-dollar pharma campaigns designed to make you feel defective—so they can sell you a fix. Because when you believe the lie, they make the sale.

Your Body’s Secret Message

Ever wake up with morning wood? That’s not random. It’s your body whispering, “I’m still here.”

If your erections aren’t consistent—if they fade, feel soft, or disappear when you need them most—it’s not a sign you’re broken. It’s a signal your systems are out of sync.

Three forces shape your erection power:

• Blood Flow: Erections are hydraulic. Think pressure, not magic. Stiff or sluggish vessels weaken your rise.
• Testosterone: Stress, belly fat, and poor sleep drag it down—but it doesn’t vanish overnight.
• Mind: Anxiety hijacks your sexual command center faster than any pill can fix.

Here’s the beautiful part: each one can be awakened, naturally.

See Bailey & Alexis through these rituals—watch their reactions as the blood flows, the confidence builds, and the power returns inside Unbreakable Erections.

The Rituals That Beat Pills

Forget synthetic chemistry. Real men, real arousal—it’s built from within.

For Blood Flow: Daily nitric oxide-rich breathwork can support circulation and awaken your pelvic arteries.

For Testosterone: Minutes of morning movement prime your hormonal system and kickstart your male vitality.

For Mind: Erotic breathing—like I teach—trains your nervous system to shift from stress to arousal… effortlessly.

These seem small. But stacked together? They transform you—not into someone new, but into the man waiting beneath the surface:

Hot. Hard. Ready.

Want to see how this sequence melts her on camera? Watch Bailey’s reaction inside Unbreakable Erections.

The Billion-Dollar Erection Myth

Let’s be clear—erectile issues exist. But the explosion of fear and shame? That was a masterclass in marketing.

In the late ’90s, Viagra hit the shelves. Pharma giants flooded the airwaves, pushing the belief that every soft moment was a crisis. But here’s the real story:

Your body got overwhelmed. Too much stress. Too little touch. An endless stream of artificial dopamine.

Your primal systems didn’t break—they shut down from overload.

Watch what happens when real touch, real breath, and real arousal bring men fully back online—no pills, just power inside Unbreakable Erections.

You’re Not Done—You’re Just Getting Started

Women in their 40s, 50s—even beyond—are hitting their erotic prime. They’re braver, hungrier, more turned on than ever. But they only surrender to men who meet them there:

Fully present. Deeply confident. Hard.

You can be that man. In fact—he’s already within you. You just need to unlock him.

Click here to discover how men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s are unleashing their hardest, most consistent erections ever inside Unbreakable Erections.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U