Her Gateway to Explosive Release

Last night, Steve’s hands turned my body into fire. He didn’t thrust. He didn’t lick. He simply massaged… slowly, deliberately, like he was sculpting me out of warm clay. My hips arched. My thighs trembled. And then it hit me—the most unexpected wave of orgasm I’d ever felt.

When I finally gasped, “What was that?” Steve whispered, “Yoni massage.”

I’d heard the word before, but never lived it. So I did what I always do: I researched. And Darling, what I found explains exactly why that massage sent me into uncharted pleasure. “Yoni” is the Sanskrit word for the vagina—sacred, sensual, powerful. A Yoni massage is not just foreplay. It’s an erotic ceremony of touch that awakens every nerve ending, opens her body fully, and often… makes her squirt.

And once you learn to do it? You’ll never be forgotten.

Inside Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation, I show you exactly how to perform this—with explicit demonstrations from Lena Paul (my voluptuous superstar guest) and Alexa Grace (my angel-faced blonde who melts in your hands). Watch it here: Click to unlock her squirting release.

Preparing for the Yoni Ritual

This isn’t something you rush through. The more sacred it feels, the deeper her surrender. Here’s how to set the stage:

The Room: Dim lights, candles, or soft amber bulbs. Make her feel like a goddess.
The Tools: A soft towel under her hips. Warm coconut or almond oil (never cold). Optional: calming music that slows her breath.
The Energy: Eye contact. Deep breathing together. Show her this isn’t “just sex”—it’s devotion.

See how this energy of worship transforms her reactions inside the course with Lena and Alexa. Watch it here.

Step-by-Step: How to Give a Yoni Massage
Warm-Up Touches
Begin outside her sex. Stroke her thighs, hips, and lower belly with warm oil. Linger on her breasts and inner thighs until she’s dripping with anticipation.
Outer Yoni Worship
Cup her vulva with your warm hand. Hold still. Let her feel seen and safe. Then trace her lips, labia, and hood with slow, teasing circles.
Clitoral Teasing
Don’t rush her clit. Brush lightly around it, then add pressure gradually. Think of it as coaxing, not attacking.
Inside Exploration
Slide one, then two oiled fingers inside. Find her G-spot and massage in slow circles, pressing upward. Combine this with clitoral touch—this is where the magic begins.
Build and Hold
When she starts to squirm, don’t stop. Keep the same rhythm. Her body will hover at the edge—and that’s when the gush often comes.
Let It Flow
If she ejaculates, don’t panic. Encourage her. Tell her how beautiful she is when she lets go. The more accepted she feels, the more explosive the release.

Want to see this step-by-step in action? Watch me guide Lena Paul and Alexa Grace through the full massage inside Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation. Click here to watch.

The Psychological Power of Yoni Massage

What makes this ritual unforgettable isn’t just physical—it’s psychological. A Yoni massage tells her: “I worship you. I honor your pleasure.” This melts away her resistance, replacing it with trust and raw surrender. When she feels adored in this way, her body responds by opening fully, allowing orgasms she didn’t think were possible.

Inside the course, you’ll see Lena Paul surrender completely while Alexa Grace gasps as her body opens to every touch. Watch it here.

Blending the Sacred and the Wild

What begins as slow worship can transform into raw hunger. After awakening her Yoni, you can let the ritual spill into rougher passion—pressing her against the bed, taking her deeply while she’s still trembling from the massage. This shift from tender to primal drives women crazy, because it makes them feel both cherished and ravished.

These contrasts—worship and wildness—are what I show in Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation with Lena Paul and Alexa Grace. Click here to watch.

Ending the Ritual: From Worship to Wild

A Yoni massage doesn’t have to lead to sex. Sometimes, ending with her lying there in bliss, trembling and soaked, is the perfect finish. Other times, her body will beg you to take her deeper—and when you finally enter, she’ll already be drenched, raw, and desperate.

Either way, she’ll never forget the man who gave her this gift.

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Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U
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Looking to try something different? You don’t have to be ultra kinky in order to bring a little bit of BDSM into the bedroom. In fact, a little bit of light kink can be just what the doctor ordered when things are getting a little too routine or boring in your relationship. You don’t need to invest in any crazy sex toys or leather outfits, you can add some kink just using a few items you already have lying around. What you’ll need:

A blindfold: Use something soft and silky like a soft handkerchief, a necktie, or even a sleep mask.
A few scarves: These should be long enough to use to tie up your partner. They should also be soft and if you can’t find a scarf that works a necktie will also do just fine.
Feather: Either a small feather duster or a single feather will work.
Chocolate syrup: Either kept cold or heated up slightly (be careful with this part and test the temperature on the sensitive skin on inside of your arm to make sure it’s not too hot).
A cold metal spoon: Keep the spoon in the freezer before using it.
A couple of ice cubes
A soft suede glove
A piece of silk

The point of this exercise is to get your partner extremely turned on and excited using techniques that you don’t use every day. Trust is important when it comes to kinky sex, so as tempting as it might be to take advantage of your partner’s vulnerable position, you need her to trust in you 100% and be completely at ease.

Start by blindfolding her with the material of your choice. Make sure that you’ve blocked out her sight completely and verbally confirm with her that you’ve done so. Take your time doing each of these things and be gentle. All of this will add to the build up and sexual tension. Tying up her hands is optional, but she should agree that if you don’t tie her hands up that she promises to keep them at her side and not interfere with what you’re going to do. This is all part of the submissive role. The exciting part of having two of your senses cut off (sight and touch) is that she will be ultra tuned in to every sensation. She will never know what’s coming next, which will be a huge turn on. Here are some sensations to try with some of the tools mentioned above.

Begin by whispering into her ear. Even this action will send shivers down her spine. Tell her to relax and that she is completely safe in your hands. Tell her a little bit about what you’re going to do to her, leaving room for mystery.
Grab the feather and lightly trail it down her neck and chest to her nipples. Use the feather to stimulate her breasts, inner thighs, the palm of her hands and soles of her feet, and her inner arm. Be careful when it comes to tickling. Some women will love that sensation, but other hate it. Some might need to relax a little before they can enjoy such a soft, light touch.
Take the piece of silk and trail it all over her body. Flip her over if possible and trail it down her back. Use a very light touch and then use the material between your hand and her skin and you massage parts of her body. Trail the silk along her inner thighs and between her legs, gently tickling her vulva and clitoris.
A soft suede glove can be used in the same way as above. Massage the nape of her neck with your gloved hand as you kiss and lick the side of her neck.
Use the cold metal spoon to drag across her skin along her inner thighs and along her perineum (the area skin that separates the anus and the vaginal opening).
Now you can take things up a notch or two by using your mouth to lick, kiss, suck, and blow on different areas of her body. Reach for that chocolate syrup, squeeze out a little on a sensitive area and then clean her up with your mouth.

Where you take it from here is up to you. You can continue make it all about her and finish things off with some intense oral sex while leaving her blindfolded and tied up or you can move onto sex and untie her hands. But just for fun, no matter where you take things next, leave the blindfold on!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Hey lover!

Are you ready to spice up your sex life? Perfect! Let’s do it!

You’ve heard of bucket lists (50 things you want to do before you die). Well, here is my take on it: the Sexy Bucket List for Couples, that is sure to add more thrill and sexual excitement to your relationship.

Getting Started

The start of any great sexy bucket list for couples begins with communication. First, you both need to put aside some time to discuss the idea together. Once you’ve agreed that you’d like to add some sexy excitement and fun in your relationship, (and who doesn’t want that!?) you then both sit down alone in private and each write out your own sexy bucket list.

Each partner will write out 25 sexy things you want to do together as a couple. Then you will combine your lists to make 50 sexy activities.

If you are a bit afraid of what your partner will come up with, or fearful about sharing your own, you may want to set up some boundaries or limits first, such as, no anal sex or no sexual activities with other people. That way, you both know each other’s limits and can write lists you feel comfortable sharing, knowing your partner will most likely be open to your ideas.

Sexy Activities

Your activities can be any type of sexy, sensual, hot, kinky, romantic, or adventurous activity you want to add to your list. It could be as simple as a sensual bubble bath together, or as kinky as a full blown dungeon scene.

Write down the activities you are most excited about, like hot fantasies or something you have always dreamt of doing. For some really kinky ideas, check out a BDSM activity checklist online and share it with your partner. There will be lots of interesting things on it you may want to try as well as things you’ll want to avoid as well.

I have provided 50 sexy ideas at the end of this article to get you started.

Share Your Lists

The most intimidating part of this process is sharing your lists with each other. But, remember, you’ve already made your ground rules up so this should be fairly easy!

Cut up your lists into individual pieces so each activity is on a separate paper, and then place all your activities into separate envelopes. Next, set aside one day/night a week or a month for your sexy bucket list. Each week you’ll alternate picking from each other’s envelope and plan the activity for your sexy adventure.

Or, you could simply read each other’s lists together and then decide which activities from each list you’d like to try first.

Don’t Judge

The most important thing to remember during this process is to not judge each other. No matter how weird someone’s activity may seem to you, it could be a real turn on for your partner. So try to keep an open mind and don’t judge them for sharing their fantasies with you. Praise them for being brave enough to share them.

That doesn’t mean you need to like everything they like. There will be things on both your lists that A) don’t float your boat or B) turn you off. For the activities that don’t get you hot, but you are not opposed to, try keeping an open mind. You don’t know what you may like until you try it. Plus, your partner’s enthusiasm for that activity may just rub off on you. For things that turn you off, you can just kindly decline and pick another type of activity. You both have the right to refuse any activity, at any time. Mutual consent of any activity is crucial to having a good time.

Your Sexy Adventure

So, you’ve picked one activity and are getting ready to try it. Be sure to set the scene and get any props, costumes, sex toys, and whatever you will need to pull off the fantasy. If you are going to be away, make sure to pack your sexy props and don’t forget the lube!

You both may be filled with fear, excitement and anticipation the night you try out your sexy activity. Again, keep an open mind. Try not to have too many expectations. This is not about achieving orgasms or accomplishing goals, but about exploring, having fun and adding excitement to your relationship. Be playful, be positive, be supportive, laugh if you feel uncomfortable and have fun together. Let that giggly, bubbly, sexy excitement erupt out of you! Even in serious play scenes, laughter is great at breaking the ice.

Ideas for Your Sexy Bucket List

1. G-spot sex.
2. 69ers.
3. Sex on the beach.
4. Skinny dipping.
5. Romantic dinner out.
6. Erotic massage
7. Tantra sex.
8. Tickle fight.
9. Blindfolds.
10. Aphrodisiacs.
11. Make your own sex tape.
12. Sex toy shopping.
13. Erotic spanking.
14. Dominance and submission.
15. Trying different positions.
16. Role play that you just met in a bar.
17. A sexy resort or hedonist cruise.
18. Mile High Club.
19. A romantic train trip.
20. Rent a cabin in the woods.
21. Dance all night and make out.
22. Go to a drive-in.
23. Watch a sexy movie.
24. Watch porn together.
25. Mutual masturbation.
26. Lick chocolate and whipped cream off of each other.
27. Try a stimulating balm.
28. Anal sex.
29. Nipple clamps.
30. Sensation play with fur, ice cubes, and hot wax.
31. Take a bubble bath.
32. Sex in the shower.
33. Take ball room dancing.
34. Dirty dancing.
35. Talk dirty.
36. Pillow fight.
37. Make out on a Ferris wheel.
38. Bondage or hand cuffs.
39. Rough sex.
40. Sex in public. Just don’t get caught!
41. Office sex.
42. Striptease.
43. Roleplay and costumes.
44. Be a sex slave.
45. Play doctor and nurse.
46. Sex in the rain.
47. Sex in the woods.
48. A sexy picnic.
49. Shave each other’s genitals.
50. Do every hot scene in the Fifty Shades of Grey books!

So, that’s it. Now go get your partner and start having some hot fun as you create your own Sexy Bucket List together!

Kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Hey Lover!

Many women love hot, dirty, kinky, wanton, rip your clothes off, kind of sex.

There, now I’ve said it!

I’m sure you have heard of Fifty Shades of Grey. It is a series of books that have gone mainstream, and that have fired up women’s fantasies and libidos. Or, more accurately, the books have given women permission to explore their fantasies.

You see, women have always been sexual in nature. She likes hot, naughty sex as much as a guy does. But, until the last 5 years or so, women have felt unable to show it.

Why?

First, there was that whole history of women being sexually suppressed thing. Then, there was the virtually non-existent sex research in the area of female sexuality and pleasure until recently. And, finally, now that women have become, so-called liberated, they are still unfortunately slut-shamed when they own their sexuality and pleasure. Combine that with sexual abuse, and sometimes sex is not always a safe place for a woman to be.

This article is not about slut-shaming or sexual abuse. I just want you to realize a few reasons why women may not act as wanton in bed as you may want them to. They don’t feel safe to show how they really feel, because being a sexy, wanton little, sex kitten, makes them feel vulnerable.

So, how can you open her up and bring out her inner sex kitten?

Make Her Feel Safe

This is obvious, yet so many lovers carelessly throw away the gift of their sweetheart’s openness by being judgmental. Never judge, criticize, make fun of, sneer at, or put down someone’s openness about sex. This is truly a gift! If you have a lover who feels so safe with you that they will tell you their deepest desires. Cherish it. Don’t ever break their trust.

Communicate and Share Your Fantasies

Talk about your turn-ons, turn-offs and what makes you hot. Both men and women share many of the same fantasies. No doubt the two of you will have something in common that makes you hot. Create your own sexy bucket list together and explore some fun fantasies. Fantasies and role-playing allow her to not be herself, so it is easier to get into the role of a naughty school girl, sex slave or wanton secretary.

Talk Dirty

Dirty talk during sex is a sure fire way to get everything hotter. The way to do this is to start slow. Maybe at first you can tell her what you want her to do. “Take off your clothes and turn around so I can look at you.” “Ya, that’s good. You look so hot you are making me hard. Come on over here and feel it.” Use a deep voice and talk slow, making sure to be seductive. Tell her she is a naughty girl or a good girl, whichever she prefers. She may like to be called a slut, or a bad girl, but make sure you know this beforehand, as it could also offend her. Use dirty talk to praise her body, “Your ass is so sexy,” or, “You taste so good.” Or, simply describe what you are doing in a dirty way. “I love the feeling of being inside you. Oh, you are so tight and wet!”

Dominate Her in the Bedroom

Despite women becoming more assertive in the workplace, many women still love to be dominated in bed. Most women like to feel feminine, safe and taken care of by a strong, masculine man who is in control.

Be sure to talk about any type of BDSM play like bondage, humiliation, or spanking beforehand and if needed, give her a safe word like “RED”.

Here are some hot dominate ideas to try:

Push her up against the wall and hold her wrists. Press your body against her and kiss her passionately. Tell her what you are going to do to her in the bedroom as you push your knee in between her thighs and spread her legs.
Grind your pelvis against her and grope her breasts and ass. Rip open her blouse and bare her breasts. Pull up her skirt and pull her panties aside. Put your finger in her vulva and make sure she is good and wet, before fingering and rubbing her clitoris.
Hold her down in bed and enter her. Playfully bite her neck and earlobes. Pull her hair if she likes this.
You can also tie her wrists together, so you can have your hands free for other naughty things, or even gag her with a scarf, if this is something she would like to do.
Make love to her slow and seductive or have hot rough sex.

Spank Her

Spanking and light bondage are two of the top dominant and submissive types of play that couples enjoy exploring together. Of course, make sure she is into this first.

Bend her over your knee, or get her to bend over a table and stick her butt out for erotic punishment. Tie her hands or tell her not to move. Slowly and seductively, bare her ass, and softly rub it with the palm of your hand. Grope your fingers into the fleshy part of her butt and squeeze her cheeks to get the blood flowing and make her erotically charged.
Start smacking her lightly on the cheeks of her ass. Stay away from the spine and lower back. Smack her on the apple of her cheeks or sweet spot (just above the thighs where her butt flesh begins). Alternate smacks with rubbing and kneading. Open her thighs and spank her pussy lightly and the inside of her thighs.

Make sure to pay attention to her body language. If she is trying to pull away from your hand, you are smacking too hard. If she is pushing up towards you, you are doing it just right. Alternate soft smacks with harder smacks. If she is moaning that is a good sign.

So, there are a few ways to make sex naughty and turn her into a sex kitten. Be careful, however, she may become addicted!

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What is Sensation Play?

Sensation play is group of erotic activities that arouse the senses, or heightens one particular sense, while dulling others. Sensation play usually involves the sense of touch, one of the most obvious senses that enhances sensual pleasure. It can be a sexy way of touching your lover that is a form of erotic foreplay.

However, it can also involve heightening any of the senses including sight, smell, taste, hearing and touch. Heightening our senses during sexual intimacy or foreplay enhances all sexual experiences and puts our bodies in tune to pleasure. In this heightened state, it allows you to experience the pleasures and ecstasies of sex to the extreme.

Most often sensation play is sensual in nature, arousing, erotic and gentle. In BDSM, it could also involve pain play which release pleasurable endorphins and create a “high”. Often in sensation play one sense is limited (like sight by being blindfolded) while another sense is heightened and aroused, like the sense of touch.

Types of Sensation Play

Sensation play can consist of various activities. This could include the use of blindfolds or bondage to remove sight or mobility, while heightening another sense.

Heightening Taste

The use of blindfolds to remove sight and heighten the sense of taste was used in the movie “9 ½ Weeks”. In the hottest scene in the film, Mickey Rourke’s character blindfolds Kim Basinger’s character and feeds her different types of food like cherries, whipped cream, jalapino peppers, and honey to create different taste and texture sensations in her mouth. In this instance, it is taste rather than touch which is the heightened sense. Check out my article on aphrodisiacs for some sexy foods that you could recreate this scene with!

Bonus Tip! You can also use the sense of taste while playing with sensual flavored products, like chocolate massage syrup drizzled over your lover’s body to turn them into a delicious oral treat!

Enhancing Touch

This involves the use of blindfolds and bondage to enhance touch. Touch is erotically heightened and charged when our other senses are removed. A simple erotic massage can become so much more by just applying a blindfold. Erotic tickling can make someone orgasmic when they are bound and can’t move.

Various types of touch can be explored during sensation play including the use of feathers, silk, fur, or leather. Or, you can just use different types of touch with the hands and fingers from soft and light, to firm or rough. Even just the act of kissing can be heightened. Biting, nibbling and licking the body are all other ways to arouse pleasure. Or using hot and cold temperatures like ice, or hot candles wax, or melted massage candles.

More extreme types of sensation play could involve full body bondage, the use of nipple clamps, or pinwheels to stimulate the pain/pleasure response. Erotic spanking could also be a form of sensation play.

Sex toys can add a lot of sensation to various erogenous zones and are effective tools for erotic sensation play.

Sensation play adds a level of eroticism that can bring your arousal to new heights of pleasure as you are swept away by the power of touch.

Bonus Tip! Try alternating different types of touch to change it up and create suspense. Variety is the spice of life.

The Sense of Smell

The sense of smell is a powerful sense and can bring us back to moments in the past that can become almost tangible. You can arouse the sense of smell by lighting sensual candles, or adding scented herbal oils to your play. Erotic scents include vanilla, lavender, Ylang Ylang, musk oil, cinnamon, cloves, and sandalwood. There are also sexuality products on the market that use pheromones to heighten the sense of erotic smell as well.

Bonus Tip! Rub lavender essential oils on the temples to relax your partner.  Or try a spicy mixture of scents just below the nose to arouse their passions.

Sounds and Silence

The sense of hearing can be either aroused or dampened during sensation play. You can play erotic music in the background to heighten the sense of hearing. Talking dirty, or whispering in their ear is another form of heightened this sense, especially if they are blindfolded. Or you can use earplugs to remove the sense of hearing, with a blindfold, which creates erotic suspense and anticipation. If your lover can’t see you or hear you, you can really play with the element of surprise!

Bonus Tip!  Try a meditative CD for doing erotic massage techniques.  Or a fast bumping and grinding tempo for a sexy rhythm.

Erogenous Zones

During sensation play you want to focus on arousing all the other erogenous zones in the body, while avoiding the genitals at first. Check out my articles on the other erogenous zones to begin with here such as the ears, nape of neck, nipples and breasts, and even the feet.

Use light touches with your fingertips, or soft scratches. Knead, rub, massage, pinch or tickle. Use your mouth to nibble, bite, lick, suck, or blow on different areas of the body. Try a fork to lightly trail goose bumps down their skin. Use an ice cube or cold spoon left in the freezer to play with temperature sensations. Erotic toys, especially those made of metal, glass or silicone can also be heated or cooled for erotic play.

Don’t forget the various types of sensation lotions, lubes and candles that can be used to heighten the senses. There are various types of lubes now that cool, heat, tingle and are flavored. Then there are massage oils and candles that warm and heighten the sense of smell and touch. There are also sexual enhancers made specifically for the genitals that bring the blood flow to that area of the body and heighten arousal.

Take it Slow

Sensation play is a sensual experience and shouldn’t be rushed. Go slow and explore your lover’s body. See what reactions you get by trying various things. While you can’t use everything above in one play session, pick one to three things you’d like to try like a blindfold, types of touch and a vibrator, and explore.

Tease your partner erotically so they build up sexual energy and arousal to a place where they are ready to burst. Then give them the orgasm they crave as fireworks go off in the senses!

Tools for Sensation Play

• Blindfolds, silk scarves, and sensory goggles.
• Hand cuffs, bondage rope, a silk tie and bed restraints.
• Warm massage candles, hot wax candles made for sensation play, and warming lotions.
• Cooling and tingling lotions, ice, and popsicles.
• Furs, feathers, silk or satin.
• Forks, pinwheels, or wooden skewers.
• Nipple clamps, clothes pins, or nipple suckers.
• Ear phones, ear plugs or sensual music.
• Aphrodisiacs, sexy foods, flavored lubes.
• Scents and pheromones.
• Your hands, fingers, mouth, tongue and teeth.
• Sex toys including anal toys, dildos, vibrators and kinky toys.
• Sensual massage products and arousal lotions.
• For spanking use your hands, a small soft flogger, a crop, a spatula, or a wooden spoon. Just be careful not to get carried away and hit too hard. The idea is to create erotic sensation, not pain.

So, there is your introduction to sensation play. As you can see, the types of activities you can try are only limited by your imagination. Make sure to talk to your lover about these activities first and get their consent before trying them out. And, make this a playful adventure of exploration, rather than worrying too much about it. Let your sense of play and your lover’s response guide you for the best erotic encounters.

Play safe and have fun!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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With the new popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey, women are starting to embrace their “kinky” side. So, guys, you better get on board the kinky train because your lady is going to want to try out some of the new sexy kinky stuff she is learning about.

What is Kinky?

Every society develops morality norms, rules and standards for behavior, including sexual behavior. What may be “acceptable” or normal, or popular sexual behavior now, may have been very taboo not so long ago. For instance, sodomy (anal sex) was still against the law in the some states until 2003. Nowadays, anal sex, along with many other types of taboo or kinky play are becoming more mainstream and accepted as just different flavors of sex that some adventurous couples want to try. In other words, human sexual behavior is a cultural construct, influenced by what a particular society deems acceptable.

Are You Adventurous?

As long as you are practicing “safe sex” and everyone playing is consenting adults, there is no reason not to add a bit of sexual adventure into your love life. I like to think of “kinky” sex as a more playful type of sexual expression that allows us to unleash our inner fantasies in a safe way.

From rough sex, to blindfolding, to playful spanking, KINK or BDSM is more mainstream than ever.

Fantasy

When we were children we knew instinctively how to play and act out games and fantasies. But, as adults, we have lost that ability to play, learn, explore and try new things.

Kink offers us ways to bring back that sense of wonder, exploration and fun we once had, but in a new, very adult way.

In one of my recent articles, I wrote about the top female fantasies that many women have. These include scenarios of sexual dominance and submission, and the surrender of control. Many men have similar fantasies as well, which can complement their partner’s fantasy.

When practiced safety, sanely and between consensual adults, these acts are considered by most to be just another form of sexual expression.

Types of Kink

Kinky play includes many types of erotic activities which fall under the umbrella of BDSM which refers to bondage and discipline, sadomasochism, and dominance and submission. While some of these terms may sound a bit scary, they are only names for various types of kinky play. Within KINK, there are many activities that couples can explore together such as role-playing, bondage, spanking, discipline or punishment, dominance and submission, power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream sexual interactions.

Role-playing

Role-playing is like playing dress up and then taking on a certain role that you play out during a sexual “scene” or erotic play. Usually, the characters will complement each other, but be unequal in power: one who is dominant and the other submissive. The dominant is usually the giver, while the submissive is the receiver, but the roles can also be interchangeable.

You have likely heard of or fantasized about different types of these scenarios such as Master/slave girl, Teacher/schoolgirl, Doctor/nurse or patient, Pirate/captive, Boss/secretary and so on. These are just a few of the most popular types of role play available, but let your imagination be your guide!

Dominance and Submission

In Dominance and submission, one person plays a dominant role, while the other person takes a submissive role like those listed above. You don’t have to “play” a role in order to be either dominant or submissive in the bedroom. You can just be you, being more dominant than maybe you usually are, while your lover becomes more submissive.

Of course, this is something you would both discuss together and agree upon.

First, you would discuss your fantasies or what types of dominance and submissiveness you want to try. Decide on specific activities you’d like to try and also express each other’s limits as to what is off boundaries. In BDSM culture, those playing together usually rely on a “safe word” as well, such as RED, which lets everyone know that play needs to stop. This is a safety measure in case something becomes too intense or no longer feels safe, which can happen when you are exploring new things and pushing your usual boundaries.

Dominance during sex play could be holding someone down during sex. It could be giving someone orders, or talking dirty to them or calling them dirty names. It could involve tying someone up and doing bondage, or erotic spanking. It could involve types of extreme sensations like pain and pleasure mixed together for an erotic experience. Hair pulling, spanking, and types of sensation play could all be a part of the body’s sensory experience.

Bondage

Bondage is being held down or tied up during sex or erotic play. Bondage refers to “restraining for pleasure”. The pleasure could be in the visual appeal in how someone looks when bound, which can be erotic to the giver, or physically pleasurable to the one receiving or being bound.

Ways to use bondage include tying with rope, using hand cuffs, bondage tape, blindfolds, or mouth gags, and even a sex swing can become a bondage device.

Some people find being bound very erotic, while others hate it or are claustrophobic. So, be careful when playing with bondage and always make sure you have a quick way to unleash your victim, like safety scissors if you are using rope. Also, make sure to learn how to perform bondage correctly, and learn all the do’s and don’ts.

Sensation Play

Sensation play is a way of touching your partner in a sensual way to bring about various sensations on the body. It can consist of using a feather, silk, or fur on their skin while they are blindfolded, or ice and hot wax. Other toys like pinwheels can be used to give a prickly sharp type of sensation. Read my article on Sensation Play here.

Spanking

Erotic spanking has long been a part of many couple’s fantasies. It entails a Dominant who takes the submissive over their knee (or restricts them in other ways like bondage) and spanks their bottom. The point is not to give pain for the most part—although pain once eroticised can become very pleasurable—but to give another type of sensation and pleasure.

Spanking can also be about humiliation, or being treated as a naughty girl, or one deserving punishment. In that aspect, it can be more of a mind game and is about the act of submitting, rather than wanting to feel pain. A submissive is someone who likes to submit, and be dominated. While a masochist is someone who likes the feeling of pain and eroticises it into pleasure. These are two separate types of people, although some people enjoy both, so be sure you know why someone wants to be spanked, or dominated first.

So, there are just a few Kinky Shades of Play for Beginners. Stayed tuned to GabrielleMoore.com for more information on kinky play (coming soon) and other types of sexual adventures for couples!

Play safe and stay sexy!

Kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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One area that women don’t tend to get enough attention and pleasure is from their breasts. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that men don’t give breasts enough of their love, we all know a lot of guys are obsessed with them, but they don’t get the kind of sexual attention they really deserve. When it comes to sex, men tend to focus on the clitoris and the vagina and that’s it, but if you’ve been paying attention to my rants you already know that there are a ton of other important erogenous zones that deserve your attention. The breasts and nipples are two of these important zones. Why are they so important? Well, for starters some women can orgasm from breasts and nipple stimulation alone! Check here my Boobgasms Video course for more proof!  If you’re not sure what to do to stimulate the breasts, that article is a great place to start. Today I’m going even further and teaching you more techniques about how to give her incredible breast pleasure. Today we’re going to talk about breast toys and alternative methods to stimulate her beautiful, sensual breasts!

1. Play with temperature (Video demonstration) – Hot and cold temperatures on the very sensitive skin of the breasts and nipples can provide very interesting sensations.
Cold – Try using an ice cube to trace little circles on her breasts and over her nipples. Also try putting the ice cube in your mouth to tone down the coldness if it’s too much for her. This allows you to control how much cold you expose her skin to. You can also just use the cube to make your tongue and lips cold and then lick and suck her breasts and nipples with your cold mouth.
Hot – Always use heat with caution on sensitive areas like the breasts and nipples. A great way to apply heat to these super sensitive parts is by drinking something hot and then immediately using your mouth to lick and suck. The heat from the drink will still be on your mouth but it won’t be nearly as intense. You can also try heating up some chocolate syrup or other yummy liquid to pour over her breasts and lick off.
*Try alternating between hot and cold sensations for an especially intense stimulation.

2. Use what nature gave you (Video demonstration) – Some women find it especially erotic if you use your penis to stimulate the breasts and nipples. Use the tip of your penis to stroke and touch her erect nipples. Add some lubrication to make it especially delicious. Also try using your foreskin to stimulate the nipples by sliding it over them. Use the opening of your penis to touch and “kiss” the tip of her nipple. Finally, you can try using her breasts to masturbate your penis if she is especially well endowed. This can be exciting for both of you.

3. Nipple clips (Video demonstration) – Those who like more intense nipple stimulation might enjoy nipple clips. These can be purchased from any sex shop or some prefer to use home items, like clothespins or a pair of chopsticks. Some nipple clamps bought from a sex shop offer adjustable tension so that you and your partner can decide how intense you want the stimulation to be. Use this sex toy with caution, however. Very prolonged use can lead to nerve damage. If your partner starts to feel numbness, it’s time to take them off.

4. Suction toys  (Video demonstration)– There is another sex toy that provides suction to the breasts and/or nipples. This can be wonderfully sexy for some women.

5. Different sensations (Video demonstration) – Try massaging and tickling her breasts and nipples with different fabrics and materials. Some great things to try are pieces of soft leather and suede, silk or satin scarves, velvet, pieces of fur, wool, a feather, or any other fabric or material that you think might provide an exciting sensation. Combine textures and rhythms for really great results.

6. Devour her (Video demonstration) – The last way to amp up her breast pleasure is to use food and drink to provide the ultimate sensations. Try things like chocolate syrup, honey, peanut butter, champagne, whiskey, or whipped cream and then sensually cleaning her off with your mouth. Also try slices of fruit. Slide them around over her breasts and nipples and then lap up the juices. This is yummy and sexy!

Do you have other ways and objects that you like to use to stimulate her breasts and nipples? Share them with us in the comment section below!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Boob play is extremely fun and pleasurable for your lady if you know how to take your time and build anticipation.

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“I think people spend too much time staring into screens and not enough time drinking wine, tongue kissing and dancing under the moon” – Rachel Wolchin

Kissing is often considered a means to an end. It’s how many couples kick off their sack sessions, but as soon as things start heating up, making out usually falls by the wayside. Some people think that sex is so full of pleasure on its own that kissing isn’t important. And that’s a damn shame because locking lips throughout the sexual experience (and not just at the very beginning of getting busy) can make the pleasure skyrocket considerably. There are tons of nerve endings in your lips that stimulate desire. Smooching before, during and after intercourse can be extremely arousing and satisfying. However, not all puckers are created equal. The trick is knowing what mouth-to-mouth moves intensify each stage of sex. Luckily, I’ve gone ahead and mapped it out for you. Try these tips to kiss your way to total bliss.

Foreplay: Tease her with soft pecks 

Just as a runner needs to stretch before a race, your body requires an equally strategic warm-up before launching into full-throttle passion. You don’t want to come on too strong with your lips or you might accelerate her excitement too quickly. Instead, ease her into the pleasure zone, gradually increasing her arousal. The slower the buildup, the bigger the bang.

Give her little pecks all over her face – everywhere except the lips. As her excitement grows, trace the outline of her mouth with the tip of your tongue. She’ll be aching to envelop you with her mouth, but don’t let her do it… yet.

Move on to open-mouth puckers, but no tongue allowed. If she tries to French you, pull away from her for a minute, then return to kissing. The point is to be playful and work her into a desire-filled frenzy by not giving her exactly what she wants.

Add some playfulness into the mix by gently sucking and lightly nibbling on her lower lip every now and then. It will feel so good, she’ll instinctively return the favor.

During the act: Bring it to the boiling point

Once you are both fired up, coy smooches just aren’t going to cut it. This is the perfect time to engage each other’s mouths, no tongues barred. Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited and making it easier for your partner to reach orgasm. Here’s how to stoke the flame.

Strip down and have her straddle you while you’re sitting on a chair. As you focus on thrusting, take her tongue into your mouth and very lightly suck on it so your lip action mimics the rhythm of your hips.

Vary the intensity and depth of the lip-locks you lay on your bedmate. Give her long, soulful French kisses for a couple of minutes, then surprise her by keeping your lips open and pressing them against hers – hard – like you want to devour her whole. Maintain the back and forth so she can’t guess what’s coming when. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will amp up her excitement even more.

You should let her know the passionate pressure is quickly building up inside you by switching up your moves and trying something even more erotic. Unlock your lips periodically, and swirl your tongue around hers in a circular motion as if you were licking an ice-cream cone. She will love that you’re in control and essentially taking possession of her entire mouth.

The big O: Let your inner animal loose

By the time you’re about to climax, give in to your passionate fervor, and let yourself go absolutely wild. Just follow your body’s cravings. Being mouth to mouth as you peak can make for a much stronger, more intense orgasm because it’s such a carnal act – your senses of taste and smell and touch are all converging at once. It’s like you’re on sensual overload.

Softly suck on each other’s necks just as you’re about to reach your peak. The pressure of your lips against her skin will amplify the buildup you’ve been feeling inside and create an even more powerful need for that heavenly release.

Run your tongue back and forth along the roof of her mouth. This is a place that rarely gets any attention; the more unique the sensation, the more exciting it is for her.

Let her know how hungry you are for her by gently biting her back and shoulders, spots on her body that can take a little roughhousing. Place the skin lightly between your teeth and pull; then run your tongue around the area and kiss it.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

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For centuries, men have been told how complicated a woman’s body is, especially sexually. And while it’s true that chicks don’t have a point-and-shoot anatomy, new research shows they have just as much pleasure potential as men.

I got my hands on some recent groundbreaking studies that debunk the long-standing conventional wisdom about female desire and response. Then I took the research one step further by explaining how to use it to tap into a new dimension of bedroom bliss.

Conventional wisdom – A woman has to feel desire to get aroused

Bold new thinking – A woman doesn’t need to be in the mood to get excited

Maybe this rings a bell: You want some action but your partner is stuck in “whatever” mode. Hey, it happens. But before you blow her off because she’s not into it, consider this: new research proves that a woman’s body can be turned on even during those moments when her mind is turned off.

That’s because desire and arousal are two separate animals. Desire occurs in the mind, while arousal unfolds in the body. True, desire usually leads to arousal, but a woman’s body doesn’t need desire to get to that warm, tingly place. In fact, researchers at the University of Amsterdam have discovered that a woman’s central motor system lights up instantly with physical stimulation, before her mind even begins to process it.

Problem is, many women think sex will be a drag if they’re not registering any interest in their brains. What to do when you’re horned up and she isn’t: zone in on her physical hot buttons. Focus on her body and help her give in to the feel of your lips against her neck or the way your hand is brushing up against her back.

Another testament that she doesn’t necessarily need desire to relish doing the deed? One recent study found that many women experience heightened arousal when anxious or stressed.

Conventional wisdom – Women take forever to get turned on

Bold new thinking – Women don’t necessarily need a long preamble to get going

Somewhere along the way, it became commonly accepted knowledge that women required hours of foreplay to get primed for sex. Now, I’m all for tons of kissing and oral, but it’s not always necessary. A new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that both men and women begin showing signs of arousal within 30 seconds. What’s more, there was little difference in how long it took women and men to reach peak sexual arousal. Researchers at McGill University in Canada had young men and women watch porn. Meanwhile, in hidden areas, scientists controlled thermal imaging sensors to measure heat changes in their genitals. They found out that men reached peaked arousal in 11 minutes, while women clocked in at 12 minutes.

Of course, this flies in the face of old arguments that claim women reach the brink in about 20 minutes. So what gives? Turns out, participants in this study watched images through special goggles to minimize their field of vision so they were less likely to be interrupted by what was happening in the room. The lesson here: when you want to get her revved up stat, you have to nix all the distractions. Women are more likely to multitask, and they tend to get rattled by a ringing phone or by overthinking what they have to do the next morning. The problem? It takes them out of the moment. So whatever you do, power down the TV and carve out time strictly for you and her to get it on.

Conventional wisdom – Dry down there? She’s not feelin’ it

Bold new thinking – Lubrication isn’t the only indicator of desire and arousal

Let’s play a little word association: I say male arousal and you say erection. Unfortunately, there’s no hard-and-fast equivalent for women. Vaginal lubrication often has been viewed as the biggest cue… until now. Research has found that there’s no direct correlation between arousal and the amount of blood flow and lubrication to the vagina. She may be aroused and not have lubrication at all. Often, this is hormonal: women are naturally wetter around ovulation and drier when their periods are about to arrive. Also, antihistamines found in cold medications, for example, can sap nasal passages and vaginal secretions.

So what are the physical cues worth clueing into? Scientists at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction asked women exactly how they knew they were turned on. Although lubrication was reported as one sign, many women also reported genital warmth and swelling and nipple hardness, as well as increased heart rate and muscle tightness in the stomach and legs.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

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Hey stud,

I’m glad you came back for more tips on how to stimulate and pleasure her breasts. If you don’t remember, her breasts are an extremely important erogenous zone that deserves your attention. Think about something for me: how much time do you spend touching your partner’s breasts during foreplay? Think about your answer for a minute. Now answer this, how much time do you spend touching your partner’s breasts during sex? If you’re like most men, you don’t spend very much time at all. You might spend a minute or two and then move on. Or maybe you give them a squeeze or two during sex, but other than that you just appreciate them from afar as you make love. You’re not alone in this practice, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay. This is a fantastic pleasure zone that needs your attention! So here’s what you need to do:

5. Let her lead the way – In the last article I talked about communicating with your partner to find out what she likes when it comes to breast play. Another trick to finding out what she likes is to have her show you. Instead of being overly direct about it, make it into a sexy and naughty game. Tell her to touch her breasts for you and show you what turns her on. It will seem like you’re just trying to get a show out of her, but really you will be taking notes about how she likes to be touched. Another way to get her to show you what she likes is by putting her own hands on her breasts during foreplay, oral sex or regular sex. Again, she will think you’re just wanting to be kinky and watch her touch herself (which is also a thrill for you!) but really you will be able to tell what really turns her on.

6. Her body will tell you what she likes – There is yet another way to find out what she’s really enjoying. This is especially helpful for those guys who are with shy women who might not be comfortable saying what she likes or touching herself in front of you. Listen to her breathing. Is it getting faster and showing that she is getting more and more turned on? Is she making any noises that indicate that she’s feeling good (remember not all women moan and make noise, so a lack of noise doesn’t mean she’s not into it)? Is she getting flushed? Watch her facial expressions. All of these things are important indicators of whether or not what you’re doing is working.

7. Don’t be afraid to get kinky – But ONLY if she likes things a little rough. Once you’ve determined that she likes her breast play to be on the rougher side, try squeezing her nipples between your fingertips. Lightly run your teeth over them and put pressure on them between your teeth. Test the amount of pressure that she likes and ask her if you can do it harder or not. Some women even like to use a pair of nipple clamps to add some kinky pressure to your breast play.

8. Use different objects to touch her breasts – Different sensations and objects can feel really amazing on the super sensitive breast and nipple area. Try using fur mitts, a piece of silk, an ice cube, warming lube and even a vibrator to offer some different kinds of stimulation. Remember, a lot of men focus wholly on the nipples when stimulating the breasts, but don’t make that mistake yourself. The entire breast is ripe with nerve endings, so stimulating her entire breast will feel amazing, especially because that area of her body is often forgotten. Take your tongue and run it all over her breast. Make it flat and soft and lap at her like a dog. Then make your tongue hard and pointy and trace designs around on her skin. It will feel amazing.

9. Boost her confidence – One of the biggest turn ons for a woman is knowing just how much you want her and find her sexy. Complimenting her will give a serious boost to her confidence level and make her feel sexier. This is a huge turn on for women. It’s funny, one of the best ways to turn her on is about stimulating her mind, not her body. So, while you’re down there giving her beautiful breasts all kind of love and attention, make sure you shower her and them with TONS of compliments. It will pay off!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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