Well, hello there handsome!  Today I have lots of great tips for you, on some sex-tacular ways to spice up your relationship.

Let’s dive right in!

Role play

Role playing can be a very fun way to mix things up in the boudoir.  And, you don’t even need costumes.  Just pretend you are someone else.

Plan a date where you meet each other in a bar, pretending it is the first time.  Or, maybe she is a “lady of the night” and meet up for a clandestine rendezvous in a hotel room.

If you want to add dress up or costumes into the mix, try secretary and boss, doctor and patient (or naughty nurse), school girl and teacher (or principal because she’s been bad), or even pirate captain and wench.  The options are endless and lots of fun to explore!

Kegels for guys and gals

Aside from helping with incontinence and other pelvic floor ailments, doing regular kegels help to increase blood flow to the pelvic region, strengthen the PC muscles, and aids in lubrication, all enhancements which allow women to achieve bigger, better orgasms and more pleasurable intercourse.

And, yes, men can do kegels as well.  For guys regular kegels can aid in erectile dysfunction, can help you get it up easier, create bigger and stronger erections and help you last longer. Plus, doing kegels is the key to becoming a multi-orgasmic man.

Try a sex toy

Contrary to popular belief, a sex toy does not mean a woman wants to replace you in the bedroom.  Instead, think of sex toys as tools for lovemaking that you can play with together.

What are the most popular kinds of sex toys for couples?  Cock ring vibrators are very trendy these days as they stimulate you and help you last longer, while stimulating her as well.  The We-Vibe is another great choice and was voted the top pick for couple’s toys.  It inserts inside of her to stimulate both the G-spot and her clitoris during penetrative sex.  How awesome is that?

Other great couples “toys” include 50 shades of kink, such as feather ticklers, crops, bondage toys, and more.  And, don’t forget massage products and stimulating lubes.  Lots to choose from.

Sensation play

What is sensation play?  As the name implies, it is a type of play that arouses the senses.  You can explore sensation play by removing one of the senses to heighten others (like sight with a blindfold) and then use various materials, lotions or toys to arouse your partner’s flesh.

Fur, feathers, ice, warming oils, pinwheels and even just your hands, fingers, nails, lips, mouth and teeth can all be used to cause various sensations on your partner, that can be highly erotic.

Sensation play could also include feeding your lover blindfolded, like in “9 ½ Weeks”, or using scents to create sensual aromas for lovemaking.

Have a bath

Together, that is.  Taking a sensual bath together allows you to relax, while it initiates foreplay as you take turns sudsing up each other’s sexy parts and giving each other a rub.

If your bath tub is super small, consider going away for an evening and getting a hotel room with a large bath or hot tub Jacuzzi.  Bubbles, jets, naked flesh and champagne.  Sounds like heaven to me and a great way to warm your partner up for a night of great sex.

I hope you can use some of my sexy tips today.  Keep adding to your sexy bucket list and explore new ways to get jiggy with it.

Until next time, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you want to learn how to be a dominant lover, click here to check out my program – The Alpha Lover. It contains crucial information on how to awaken your masculinity and become a strong sexual presence in the bedroom.

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For centuries, men have been told how complicated a woman’s body is, especially sexually. And while it’s true that chicks don’t have a point-and-shoot anatomy, new research shows they have just as much pleasure potential as men.

I got my hands on some recent groundbreaking studies that debunk the long-standing conventional wisdom about female desire and response. Then I took the research one step further by explaining how to use it to tap into a new dimension of bedroom bliss.

Conventional Believe – A woman has to feel the desire to get aroused
Reality – A woman doesn’t need to be in the mood to get excited

Maybe this rings a bell: You want some action but your partner is stuck in “whatever” mode. Hey, it happens. But before you blow her off because she’s not into it, consider this: new research proves that a woman’s body can be turned on even during those moments when her mind is turned off.

That’s because desire and arousal are two separate animals. Desire occurs in the mind, while arousal unfolds in the body. True, desire usually leads to arousal, but a woman’s body doesn’t need the desire to get to that warm, tingly place. In fact, researchers at the University of Amsterdam have discovered that a woman’s central motor system lights up instantly with physical stimulation before her mind even begins to process it.

Problem is, many women think sex will be a drag if they’re not registering any interest in their brains. What to do when you’re horned up and she isn’t: zone in on her physical hot buttons. Focus on her body and help her give in to the feel of your lips against her neck or the way your hand is brushing up against her back.

Another testament that she doesn’t necessarily need the desire to relish doing the deed? One recent study found that many women experience heightened arousal when anxious or stressed.

Conventional Believe – Women take forever to get turned on
Reality – Women don’t necessarily need a long preamble to get going

Somewhere along the way, it became commonly accepted knowledge that women required hours of foreplay to get primed for sex. Now, I’m all for tons of kissing and oral, but it’s not always necessary. A new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that both men and women begin showing signs of arousal within 30 seconds. What’s more, there was little difference in how long it took women and men to reach peak sexual arousal. Researchers at McGill University in Canada had young men and women watch porn. Meanwhile, in hidden areas, scientists controlled thermal imaging sensors to measure heat changes in their genitals. They found out that men reached peaked arousal in 11 minutes, while women clocked in at 12 minutes.

Of course, this flies in the face of old arguments that claim women reach the brink in about 20 minutes. So what gives? Turns out, participants in this study watched images through special goggles to minimize their field of vision so they were less likely to be interrupted by what was happening in the room. The lesson here: when you want to get her revved up stat, you have to nix all the distractions. Women are more likely to multitask, and they tend to get rattled by a ringing phone or by overthinking what they have to do the next morning. The problem? It takes them out of the moment. So whatever you do, power down the TV and carve out time strictly for you and her to get it on.

Conventional Believe – Dry down there? She’s not feelin’ it
Reality – Lubrication isn’t the only indicator of desire and arousal

Let’s play a little word association: I say male arousal and you say erection. Unfortunately, there’s no hard-and-fast equivalent for women. Vaginal lubrication often has been viewed as the biggest cue… until now. Research has found that there’s no direct correlation between arousal and the amount of blood flow and lubrication to the vagina. She may be aroused and not have lubrication at all. Often, this is hormonal: women are naturally wetter around ovulation and drier when their periods are about to arrive. Also, antihistamines found in cold medications, for example, can sap nasal passages and vaginal secretions.

So what are the physical cues worth clueing into? Scientists at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction asked women exactly how they knew they were turned on. Although lubrication was reported as one sign, many women also reported genital warmth and swelling and nipple hardness, as well as increased heart rate and muscle tightness in the stomach and legs.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Want more powerful tips of how to get a woman aroused anytime, anywhere… Then go ahead and check out my course Vagina Masterclass

 

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Think you can’t pull a Tom Hardy move in the bedroom? You can do anything, and I’ll show you how!

Nothing is more arousing for a woman than a confident man who knows how to handle himself in the bedroom. There is a biological reason for it, actually — women are wired to be attracted to men who can handle themselves in every situation, to „providers” and „protectors”. If you become passive during foreplay, you might turn her off as she really needs to see that you are 100% as involved as she is, or even more. Even if you let her be the boss (for some women, this is very thrilling!), you still need to cooperate, even if it’s just a subtle touch, a sexy smile or some dirty talking.

However, bedroom anxiety is real for men and it can lower their sexual performances (it’s not easy to have a steady erection if you are intimidated by your partner or the situation itself). Another issue is lasting long enough to ensure that your woman enjoys her time in the sack with you. But let’s not get all negative, because you can easily turn your weaknesses into strengths.

This is your strength

Don’t put yourself down yet — despite all of the above, you have a major advantage: you are willing to learn and explore the vast universe of female pleasure. And I’ll tell you what I mean by that.

Naturally confident men think highly of themselves (especially in the bedroom!) and while that is not a bad thing, it often affects their performances without them even knowing it. They think they have all the skills in the world and fail to efficiently communicate with their partners. When you think you know it all, why bother? Well, because your “signature move” can work wonders on one women and profoundly disappoint another (click here to read the article I wrote on the complexity of women arousal). Truth is, every woman is different and your ability to adapt to her many arousing facets is the true confidence that you can manifest between the sheets. Because no matter how attractive confidence is, it can not work alone — it means nothing if what you’re doing is not making her burst into millions of tingling sensations.

That being said, your willing to learn more about what turns her on will give you enough confidence and skills to make her fantasise about your steamy encounters all day every day. Start by educating yourself. Read as much as you can about female pleasure, foreplay techniques, creative sex positions and so on — my articles can provide you with loads of informations on the matter. And information is power, don’t you forget it!

Don’t try to read her mind

Intuition might work here and there, but to really build your confidence in the bedroom you have to obtain exact data about what she wants. It’s nothing wrong with asking a few questions — actually, it’s the best thing a man can do when it comes to pleasuring his woman. Let her know how much you want to see her be dominated by pleasure. Say, “I really want to drive you crazy with pleasure. What is your favourite place to be touched?” or “Do you like it when I do this? What about this?”. This not only gives you serious insight, but also shows that you are genuinely interested in her wants and needs, and that’s incredibly flattering and reassuring for a woman (let’s be honest, a lot of men neglect the chapter of mutual satisfaction — don’t be one of them!).

As you can see, encouraging your partner to voice her desires is far more efficient than to mimic a sexual confidence that doesn’t exist. You don’t have to pretend you know everything there is to know about female pleasure. Actually, pretend you know nothing and soon enough you’ll learn so much that confidence will become your middle name!

Exchange roles

The best way to learn a new technique is if she does it to you the way she wants you to do it to her. If you’re not especially confident in your cunnilingus technique (it’s not easy, I know!) ask her to show you her favourite tongue strokes and twists while she kisses you. Now that’s a hot hot kiss! You will both immediately get turned on and, as a bonus, you will learn more about how to use your tongue when you get down between her legs.

Go slower

It’s your natural reaction to speed through whatever you are doing when you get nervous, and that is especially true in the bedroom! The thing is, rushing will make you even more anxious, which will be less pleasurable for her. Women need more time to connect with their partners and get in the mood for sex, that’s why rushing things will make them uncomfortable and moody.

Just breathe. Remember you are there to have fun, let things happen and notice how you feel — every touch, every kiss, her breath on your neck. When you slow things down, you show her trust and confidence, two of the sexiest concepts in the bedroom.

Go even further and tease her with your patience. Kiss her inner thighs, suck her delicate finger, run your fingers through her hair gently, while making eye contact. Soon enough, she’ll get so hot that she’ll beg you for more!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Sweetheart, now that you know how to use your sexual confidence as a tool, learn more about her hottest fantasies and deepen your knowledge by checking out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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Think you can’t pull a Tom Hardy move in the bedroom? You can do anything, and I’ll show you how!

Nothing is more arousing for a woman than a confident man who knows how to handle himself in the bedroom. There is a biological reason for it, actually — women are wired to be attracted to men who can handle themselves in every situation, to „providers” and „protectors”. If you become passive during foreplay, you might turn her off as she really needs to see that you are 100% as involved as she is, or even more. Even if you let her be the boss (for some women, this is very thrilling!), you still need to cooperate, even if it’s just a subtle touch, a sexy smile or some dirty talking.

However, bedroom anxiety is real for men and it can lower their sexual performances (it’s not easy to have a steady erection if you are intimidated by your partner or the situation itself). Another issue is lasting long enough to ensure that your woman enjoys her time in the sack with you. But let’s not get all negative, because you can easily turn your weaknesses into strengths.

This is your strength

Don’t put yourself down yet — despite all of the above, you have a major advantage: you are willing to learn and explore the vast universe of female pleasure. And I’ll tell you what I mean by that.

Naturally confident men think highly of themselves (especially in the bedroom!) and while that is not a bad thing, it often affects their performances without them even knowing it. They think they have all the skills in the world and fail to efficiently communicate with their partners. When you think you know it all, why bother? Well, because your “signature move” can work wonders on one women and profoundly disappoint another. Truth is, every woman is different and your ability to adapt to her many arousing facets is the true confidence that you can manifest between the sheets. Because no matter how attractive confidence is, it can not work alone — it means nothing if what you’re doing is not making her burst into millions of tingling sensations.

Quick note: There is one technique that will help you with this…. The “Playmate Switch” developed by Alex Allman a fellow friend and Sex Coach from New York, you can check his technique on his course “Passion & Attraction that Lasts” by clicking here.(This program was NOT created by me)

That being said, your willing to learn more about what turns her on will give you enough confidence and skills to make her fantasise about your steamy encounters all day every day. Start by educating yourself. Read as much as you can about female pleasure, foreplay techniques, creative sex positions and so on — my articles can provide you with loads of informations on the matter. And information is power, don’t you forget it!

Don’t try to read her mind

Intuition might work here and there, but to really build your confidence in the bedroom you have to obtain exact data about what she wants. It’s nothing wrong with asking a few questions — actually, it’s the best thing a man can do when it comes to pleasuring his woman. Let her know how much you want to see her be dominated by pleasure. Say, “I really want to drive you crazy with pleasure. What is your favourite place to be touched?” or “Do you like it when I do this? What about this?”. This not only gives you serious insight, but also shows that you are genuinely interested in her wants and needs, and that’s incredibly flattering and reassuring for a woman (let’s be honest, a lot of men neglect the chapter of mutual satisfaction — don’t be one of them!).

As you can see, encouraging your partner to voice her desires is far more efficient than to mimic a sexual confidence that doesn’t exist. You don’t have to pretend you know everything there is to know about female pleasure. Actually, pretend you know nothing and soon enough you’ll learn so much that confidence will become your middle name!

Exchange roles

The best way to learn a new technique is if she does it to you the way she wants you to do it to her. If you’re not especially confident in your cunnilingus technique (it’s not easy, I know!) ask her to show you her favourite tongue strokes and twists while she kisses you. Now that’s a hot hot kiss! You will both immediately get turned on and, as a bonus, you will learn more about how to use your tongue when you get down between her legs.

Go slower

It’s your natural reaction to speed through whatever you are doing when you get nervous, and that is especially true in the bedroom! The thing is, rushing will make you even more anxious, which will be less pleasurable for her. Women need more time to connect with their partners and get in the mood for sex, that’s why rushing things will make them uncomfortable and moody.

Just breathe. Remember you are there to have fun, let things happen and notice how you feel — every touch, every kiss, her breath on your neck. When you slow things down, you show her trust and confidence, two of the sexiest concepts in the bedroom.

Go even further and tease her with your patience. Kiss her inner thighs, suck her delicate finger, run your fingers through her hair gently, while making eye contact. Soon enough, she’ll get so hot that she’ll beg you for more!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Sweetheart, now that you know how to use your sexual confidence as a tool, learn more about her hottest fantasies and deepen your knowledge by checking out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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Her breasts are not only visually pleasing but also a gold mine for her pleasure: if you stimulate them the right way, you have a good chance of starting a whole new sexual chapter in her life: breast orgasms!

Your biggest advantage in this erotic scenery? She probably doesn’t even know that her breasts are orgasmic gold mines. Women are so used to having clitoral orgasms (most of them stimulate the clit exclusively while masturbating) that they miss out on other great forms of stimulation. Truth is, our entire body is packed with nerve endings, which means almost every part of it can be stimulated and aroused.

Another interesting fact: researchers at Rutgers University discovered through brain scans that nipple stimulation activates the same nerve cortex as clitoral and genital stimulation. This a revolutionary discovery, because it means her twins can actually produce insane amounts of pleasure — and wouldn’t it be a shame if she never discovered that?

So boobgasms exist. But because we only discovered them recently, there’s not much people know about it — in fact, some might even roll their eyes in disbelief. Take advantage of this new orgasms territory and use my secret techniques to unravel the sensations of her life!

Create a sensual atmosphere

Tantric concepts are arousing for a reason: who doesn’t love a sensual state of mind, which makes everything around you seem sexy and free? Women love it even more than you do because our rhythm is slightly slower and sensuality is actually deeply rooted in our DNA. Impress her with your sensual skills! Start this beautiful journey of orgasmic sensations by asking her to lie comfortably on her back. Use your soft voice when you tell her to relax. Set a sensual scene with some aromatic candles and soft, sexy music that helps intensify your sexual connection. Keep a massage oil nearby.

Free her of judgment

Women are often unable to orgasm in any way because they let their insecurities take over: the worry about how they look, how they smell or how confident they seem. These negative thoughts cause them to be disconnected from their bodies, which means they won’t be able to experience those incredibly powerful sensations.

Make her forget about her fears and insecurities. Tell her she’s beautiful and sexy. Touch her gently while making eye contact, so she knows you’re totally connected. Once she’s free of limitations, she can discover unlimited pleasure…

Breathe together

Breathing is much more important than we think — it’s actually fueling everything we do, from concentrating to finish a task, to giving it all at the gym. Remember how your coach tells you to breathe in and out during exercise? This helps oxygenate your brain and accelerate recovery so that you’re ready for the next push-up. Without proper breathing, your performance is ruined. This is also true for sexy time. When it comes to arousal, your mind is key to unleash those incredible sensations — and your mind thrives on deep breathing techniques.

Start by holding her hands. Then take long breaths together. Make sure they are deep breaths in which you constrict the back of your throat so that you can hear your breath. This helps both of you connect with your bodies in the deepest way.

Tease her twins

It’s time to move a little closer to that breast orgasm we’ve been talking about. Start by dripping a little bit of massage oil right between her breasts and on her belly. Coconut oil is good because it has a nice relaxing aroma and it’s safe and soothing for the skin and intimate parts.

I know you wanna go straight for the boobs (maybe that’s what she’s also thinking!), but instead, start by massaging her belly — that’s where we hold the stress and anxiety. Apply gentle strokes around the belly, rib cage and then in between the breasts to tease her. Don’t touch the boobs yet. You want to build the arousal slowly so that you get to that intense wave of pleasure at the end. Alternate featherlike touch with your fingertips with medium-light touch to caress her stomach, the stern and then her delicate neck.

Stimulate the breasts

Let the fun begin! When you feel her body starting to react to your touch (her breathing accelerates, she trembles, she has goosebumps), use soft circular movements to massage her breasts. Circle them with large strokes avoiding the nipple area so that you create more and more anticipation. The secret of this technique is to tease her until her body responds by begging for more.

Nipple play

Once her body is begging for it, you want to try to move the energy from the nipples and spread it throughout the whole body. Because women rarely have an orgasm by stimulating only one specific part of the body: the hot spots work together to create one unique powerful explosion of sensations.

Start by gently circling the areolae with your fingers until her nipples become erect. Then move your fingers lower, to the belly, and then come up again until you reach the neck. Have no doubt: her clitoris is contracting by now.

You can then move to pinch the nipples, which stimulates oxytocin and makes you feel even more connected. Try to be firm but not rough: it might be painful for a second but then become a rush of pleasure. The harder you pinch the nipples, the more oxytocin, and pleasure they produce. Just make sure they are erect before you go harder.

A little mouth action

Forget about only using your tongue: just use the whole mouth to stimulate her breasts entirely. Start with licking them to get them wet, then blow on them for a surprising sensation. Grab them firmly while massaging the nipples with your lips gently. Circle them with your tongue and treat them as the “second clitoris” — every cunnilingus move you know applies perfectly to the nipples when it comes to powerful orgasms. Combine all these strokes and give her a toe-curling climax!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. I’m so happy you get to experience this amazing journey of boobgasms with your partner! To learn even more toe-curling boob techniques, check out my program on the matter — Boobgasms – How to Touch, Lick, & Pleasure Her Breasts So Well She Comes Before You Unzip Her Pants.

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Here’s a secret: the more you know about female anatomy, the better prepared you are to satisfy your woman in ways she never even knew existed. And when it comes to breasts, there is still a lot to be discovered — women themselves don’t know yet how much pleasure they can obtain from boob stimulation (tell her about the elusive boobgasm and she’ll probably be blown away!).
One more reason to start exploring her breasts is… simply how much you like them. One study conducted by the University of Nebraska-Lincoln found that men spend more time staring at women’s breasts more than any other part of their body. So why not get to know them better so you can even conquer the mysteries of the ultimate pleasure, meaning… breast orgasms?

Her breast size can fluctuate

It’s not vision problems or wishful thinking: her breasts do appear larger when she’s approaching her period. This phenomenon is caused by the fluctuation of hormones: according to the National Institute of Health, women’s levels of hormones progesterone and prolactin increase about a week or two before she menstruates. This makes her body retain more water and her breasts tissue and milk glands to grow, which means you’ll have more to play with. Just don’t expect her to go from B cup to D cup — it’s just not how it works. Her bra will probably still fit, but her breasts will be plumper and perkier than usual. Just be careful when it comes to breast stimulation: her boobs are also more sensitive than usual, making every stroke more painful. Because the blood flow in the area is increased, the erotic sensations will be powerful — you just need to be more subtle. Try not to rub and pinch the nipples too hard and concentrate more on lip and tongue action.

She can have a breast orgasm

This really sounds too good to be true, right? But it is, actually. Rutgers University researchers found that nipple stimulation activated the medial paracentral lobule — or the part of the brain which also lights up during clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
I like to call this a boobgasm, and you can make it happen for your partner. Combine licking and kissing with subtle caresses of the breasts using your fingertips to start with. Then cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of the nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly and lick it with the tip of your tongue. Mmm, bliss.
To increase her arousal, you can go even further by keeping an ice cube in your mouth or wrapping her eyes in a blindfold to heighten her sensations even more. Be patient — the key to the ultimate boobgasm is building up the sexual tension slowly. For most women, it takes about 20 minutes of stimulation to reach a boobgasm!

There’s more to breasts than just the nipples

Now that you’re anxious to surprise her with your boobgasm techniques, you might forget that her entire chest area is important. Scientists have discovered that the nipple is actually the least sensitive to touch. After testing 150 women, Australian researchers found that the top quarter of their breasts — between 10 and 2 on a clock — felt sensations most strongly. The second most arousing area was the areolae, the dark area circling the nipple. The last is, surprisingly, the nipple itself.
Why is this information valuable to you? Because now you know you shouldn’t focus on just one area of the breast, but cover as much as you can to really offer her those toe-curling sensations.

Breasts can be different sizes

About one-quarter of women have a breast that’s slightly larger than the other, and this is not a reason for you to freak out. It’s a natural phenomenon. Women’s breasts are independent beings that respond to estrogen differently during puberty. For most women, the left one is bigger than the right, just because the left side of her body has a higher immune hypersensitivity, which impacts hormones such as estrogen that control breast size.
Some women are really insecure about the look of their breasts, especially when they have different sizes. Make her feel aroused and comfortable in your presence by showing her how much you like her twins — never ignore them during foreplay!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Her breasts are like a secret hallway to a level of pleasure she herself can’t always comprehend. Show her you’re one of a kind by stroking all those secret spots and giving her the sensations of her life! For even more advanced techniques to help you conquer the elusive boobgasm, check out my program on the matter — Boobgasms – How to Touch, Lick, & Pleasure Her Breasts So Well She Comes Before You Unzip Her Pants.

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Want to know how you can keep your sex life stronger for longer? Keep on reading…

One of the greatest things about being coupled up is having someone you trust to sexually explore with, right? In new hookups, people don’t know our boundaries or the secrets of what we’re really into. In relationships, who better to satisfy up than the one who knows which buttons to push?

I want to believe this idea. But as a sex expert who talks to hundreds of both women and men every year, I’ve come to realise something unsettling. For a large number of couples, the opposite is true. 

Most long-term partners know less and less about each other sexually over time. What’s more, if they left their relationship tomorrow and had a one-night stand, many would probably do more of what they wanted with that random individual in one night than they did with the person they love in the last year. A recent study confirms this: The longer our romantic relationships, the less willing we are to risk being sexually novel, the researchers found. 

Why does this happen? Well, it’s psychologically easier for us to expose our unshackled desires and introduce new sexual behaviours in hookups. In relationships, we fear offending our partner (“So you haven’t been happy this whole time?”) or receiving their judgment (“You want to bring sex toys into bed? Why?”) or getting embarrassed. The result? Couples who indulge kinks with porn or erotic literature but have the same routine sex with each other. 

Maybe this isn’t you. Perhaps you’re part of those lucky few couples who have sex without restraints (or with restraints, if your kinks lean that way). If so, keep swinging from those chandeliers and dripping candle wax on each other’s bodies. But even if you feel sexually in sync, it’s worth asking yourself: “Could there be ways my partner would like to explore that I don’t yet know about?” 

If you’re looking for naughty ideas to explore tonight and every night, check out my Boobgasm program – it has everything you could possibly wish for in terms of sexual breast play. If this isn’t hot, I don’t know what is!

Consider: A study found that when couples are more willing to engage in “sexual transformations” (trying new sexual things to boost their partner’s pleasure), it leads to greatly increased relationship satisfaction. If we want our relationships to last and stay fulfilling, we need a culture of candour where we ask our partner for what we desire in the bedroom and embolden them to do the same. I had a partner say, “Tell me what more could I do to turn you on. What’s something you want to try, even if it’s weird? I want us to have fun exploring each other’s fantasies.” Just like that, I was free to show my real self. 

Talking openly about sex isn’t the only way. Making a bold sex move can make our partner feel safe to do the same. Maybe the mere suggestion that you visit an upscale sex shop together (maybe both of you pick something you want to try?) can be enough to show that you are open to the new. 

Bridging the gap can also mean creating something from nothing. Let’s say she gives you a light tap on the bum when you’re on top, but you really want her to be more forceful and spank you. Tell her, “When you do that it turns me on thinking about other things I want you to do…like spanking me….” 

People yearn for stability and emotional comfort, but we also crave adventure and sexual excitement. Too often, relationships nurture the former and treat the latter as optional. I know this much: If someone is going to agree to have sex with only me from this point forward, the least I can do is commit to doing the best job I can of maintaining excitement. 

Hasn’t there been a time when you saw something sexy in a movie and thought, “That’s hot—I wish I could try that”? It’s important to voice those desires and realise your partner’s tastes are constantly changing too. When we start to see our partner as the best person to go to for fulfilling our sexual cravings, we’ll stop believing that the toll of a monogamous relationship is giving up on our dirty little fantasies.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. And if your dirty little fantasy involves you and her breasts, check out my Boobgasm program ASAP! I’m pretty sure you’ll love what I have in store for you and your partner will absolutely adore it as well. Breast play is much hotter than you would have thought, you just need a little guidance!

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Boobs, Cherry and Cream: This Will Become Your Favorite Dessert

Why This Is the Most Delicious Foreplay

You love her breasts. She knows it. And when you show that love with your mouth, your hands—and a little dessert—it becomes something unforgettable.

Boob play with eatables is more than fun. It’s intimate. Romantic. Erotic.

Done right, it’s the kind of foreplay that leaves her breathless and begging you to take her. Because it’s not just licking—it’s teasing, bonding, and savoring her body like a delicacy.

So let me show you how to do it right.

Watch me demonstrate the most seductive boob play techniques—explicitly—with Cherie Deville and Karlie Montana inside Boobgasms.

4 Boob Recipes That Will Drive You Both Wild

Here are four erotic “boob recipes” using safe-to-use edible ingredients. These aren’t messy disasters—they’re designed to enhance arousal while keeping her comfortable, clean, and craving more.

1. Whipped Cream & Cherry Delight
Ingredients: Whipped cream (unsweetened), maraschino cherry, warm towel, clean hand towel How to use: Place her on a towel-covered bed. Spray a ring of whipped cream around each nipple, then crown it with a cherry. Kiss around the cream first, slowly licking it clean without touching the cherry. Save that for last. Then remove it with your mouth—gently. Clean-up tip: Wipe her with a warm, damp towel. The sweetness lingers, so finish with kisses.

2. Honey & Sea Salt Caress
Ingredients: Raw honey, pinch of sea salt, flat dish, 2 towels How to use: Pour a small amount of honey in a dish and warm it slightly. Add a bare sprinkle of sea salt (for contrast, not grit). Drizzle over the tops of her breasts, avoiding the nipples directly. Use your tongue to trace lazy patterns up her curves. Clean-up tip: Honey is sticky—go slow, keep a moist towel nearby. Let your kisses help clean her up.

3. Chocolate & Strawberry Seduction
Ingredients: Melted dark chocolate (cooled to skin-safe temp), sliced strawberries How to use: Place strawberry slices along the top of each breast. Dip your finger in the chocolate and draw lines between the strawberries, down toward the cleavage. Eat one berry at a time, licking chocolate as you go. Clean-up tip: Use a soft towel for any residue. Chocolate can stain sheets—protect the bed with a base towel.

4. Vanilla Yogurt & Crushed Almond Tease
Note: If you’re worried about scratching, make sure the almonds are crushed into a soft, fine meal—not chunks or shards. You want texture, not grit. Alternatively, skip the almonds entirely and keep it silky with just the yogurt. Ingredients: Plain Greek yogurt, crushed almonds (finely ground), small spoon How to use: Spoon a dollop of yogurt on her breast just under the nipple. Sprinkle a bit of almond over it. Take small licks—alternating between soft and firm strokes. Let her feel your breath, your pace, your desire. Clean-up tip: This one is low-mess, high arousal. Use a dry towel and finish with warm kisses.

See these recipes come to life in Boobgasms, where I take Cherie Deville’s big, sensitive breasts and Karlie Montana’s perfect curves to the edge.

A Word of Caution: Her Nipples Are Sensitive

Her nipples aren’t just sexy—they’re neurologically intense.

They’re packed with nerve endings (around 800 per breast) and directly connected to the same part of the brain as her clitoris.

Which means… they feel everything.

Some ingredients should be avoided entirely:

Spicy or acidic foods (chili, citrus): These can burn or irritate
Alcohol-based toppings (liqueurs, extracts): These dry the skin and sting
Crunchy or gritty textures (sugar crystals, candy): These can scratch or cause micro-abrasions
Dyes or artificial colors: Risk allergic reactions or staining

Stick with clean, smooth, room-temperature ingredients.

Always test on your wrist first—and avoid the nipples directly unless she’s ready and relaxed.

Inside Boobgasms, I show you how to stimulate nipples safely and seductively—with real reactions from Cherie and Karlie.

Eat Like a King… With Boobs On the Menu

They say a man’s favorite meals involve meat, spice, and sweets. But we both know there’s one dish no man can resist: her breasts.

And now you know how to prepare them—sensually, cleanly, and erotically.

So update your grocery list. Clear your evening. And get ready for a night of indulgence, intimacy, and pleasure… served warm, soft, and right on her chest.

Watch how I turn her breasts into dessert inside Boobgasms with Cherie Deville and Karlie Montana.

Special Guest: Cherie Deville

You may already know her—Cherie Deville, world-famous adult film star with a global fan base, breathtaking curves, and a magnetic personality.

She’s more than just a gorgeous blonde MILF with big, sensitive breasts—she’s a confident, experienced partner who knows exactly how to react, tease, and surrender. Watching her in this course is not just arousing—it’s educational.

You’ll see, in explicit detail, how she responds to every lick, trace, and touch.

Click here to watch Cherie demonstrate how boobgasms are done right.

 

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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Okay, guys, I’m not going to waste your time going on and on about how a lot of guys don’t know what they’re doing when it comes to manually stimulating their woman. You might not think of fingering as something you do to bring your partner to orgasm. Maybe it’s just something you do for a minute during foreplay. Maybe it’s something you haven’t done in years. Let me share something with you, if you’re not fingering your partner regularly, you’re really missing out on an amazing way to give her pleasure. Here’s what you need to know…

1. “Fingering” can be a misleading term – Although fingering is nice and it can feel great, most women cum from having their clitoris stimulated. That’s why I prefer the term “mutual masturbation” to fingering. This covers anything you do with your hands to her genitals. Now, I’m not saying fingering isn’t great, but you should know if your partner can cum from penetration alone. The majority of women cannot and need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.

2. Women are as different as snowflakes – Okay, well maybe they’re not THAT different, but it’s true that different techniques work for different women. What one woman likes, another might hate (or only think is okay). SO you need find out specifically what your partner likes. What worked for previous girlfriends might not work at all. Investigate, try new things and find what she LOVES, not just what she likes.

3. No more “flicking the switch” – When most guys think of rubbing a woman’s clit, they think of vigorous rubbing from side to side, almost like you’re frantically flicking a light switch on and off. You may have even heard of it referred to as flicking the switch. A study that talked to real women about what they liked in bed found that only 1 out of 48 women actually enjoyed that. Most found it uncomfortable and/or painful.

4. “Fingering” should be done during foreplay AND sex – Don’t forget to stimulate your partner’s clitoris during sex as well as during foreplay. Remember that most women won’t have an orgasm from penetration alone, so you need to have busy hands if you want her to get the most out of it.

5.  Take your time getting there – A lot of men go straight for her pussy because that’s what they want a woman to do when touching them, but women actually enjoy a build up a lot more. Take your time touching and kissing her in other areas before even thinking about putting your hands between her legs.

6. Tease her – Once you do make your way down there, continue to take your time and let the tension build up little by little. Tease and titillate her by touching the areas around the clit, sweeping a finger over it lightly, but then moving away.

7. Use the hood to your advantage – You may have heard or noticed that the clitoris has a flap of skin that covers and protects it. This is because the clitoris is extremely sensitive and this skin helps to keep it from being over stimulated. Some guys pull this skin right back and start rubbing away at the clit, but this is way too much stimulation for most women. Instead try stimulating the clitoris slowly and softly moving the skin of the hood over the clitoris underneath. This provides a good balance of stimulation.

8. Always use lube generously – Just like it feels better when someone rubs you down with a lubed up hand, you should always make sure you use lube on her. Start with lube on your hand and then continuously use the natural lubrication from her vagina and spread it over her vulva with your fingers. This feels silky smooth and amazing.

9. Use a light touch – Since the clit is crazy sensitive, you need to make sure your touch is extremely light as well. Since men don’t have such a sensitive area of their body, it’s hard for them to imagine just how lightly they need to stimulate this area. Use the lightest touch possible, and then make it even a little more light!

10. Pay attention – Make sure she is moving her hips around in pleasure, not discomfort. Pay attention to the signs she’s giving you to tell you if she likes something or not. Watch her facial expressions and her body language. Listen to the sounds she’s making. And when all else fails, ASK her if she likes something. There’s nothing better than a man who KNOWS what his woman likes.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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One of the saddest of all statistics on our collective sexual health is about how little time we spend on foreplay, with the average sexual act as a WHOLE lasting only 7-12 minutes. Sexual foreplay is the moment when the arousal mechanism in the limbic brain gets to align with the blood flow to the genitals, so yea, it’s pretty darn important and skipping it is basically ruining your entire sexy time.

So, let me just say one thing about this phase of intimacy—more is better. This is what I say to patients who come in and tell me that their sexual encounters failed because, I don’t know, their lube didn’t work or they were stressed or whatever. When I ask them about the time they spent on foreplay, and their response is ‘what foreplay, we went straight to business’, I have to explain the limitations of even the best sex positions or even the most experienced lovers. A body that is unprepared to be penetrated will not automatically turn on. Never in a million years, my friends. The truth is, the more attention we pay to the beginning of our intimate acts, the easier and more successful it gets at the end.

In this way, sex is kind of oxymoron. We all worry about successfully climaxing, of being able to get to the golden ring of orgasm, but by placing our attention there we miss the juicy and most compelling parts of coupling, which is foreplay. Becoming more comfortable and curious in the early give-and-take of sexual foreplay techniques is how we cultivate a veritable harvest of passion and even sometimes orgasmic pleasure that will surprise us.

Follow this short path to extending the love you are making and you will be harvesting volumes more pleasure than you can find in a quick in and out.

Explore Sexuality Through the Senses

One way to consider extending your foreplay time is to allow your thinking to get filtered through your nose, which will heighten not only your sense of smell but also your sense of touch and taste. Awakening our arousal mechanism does not happen in the genitalia, but in the limbic brain, which is co-located right there with your olfactory sense, where your smell is processed.

Learn the Magic Contained in the Fingers

Our hands are a work of art. Our fingers have some of the densest areas of nerve endings in the body and provide the richest source of tactile feedback available to us. The sensations we can feel through our hands are not just physical either, they can both interpret and transmit energetically.  Our hands are the perfect instruments for providing pleasure. Their combined capacity for strength and flexibility allows us to touch each other in ways that transmit feelings like no other sexual act out there.

Touch takes on heightened meaning when we give it our full attention. Arguably, we can say at least as much and maybe more with our hands as we do with our words.  Little is misunderstood as the body receives true communication from the hands. Yet, inattentive touch can also make a woman recoil. To really touch, we have to bring our full presence to the tips of our fingers. Genital tissue is like none other in the body and there is maybe nothing more erotic than spreading oil into the folds and crevices that are as unique as our fingerprints, but alight with nerve endings.

Give Up the End Zone

Being deliberate about growing your comfort zone in foreplay techniques will translate into not only a more curious and passionate sexuality, but will also be mirrored in an opening in the emotional relationship. Putting the focus on expanding foreplay also reduces the performance pressure and anxiety often associated with the act of sexual intercourse, which is too often played as a race to an orgasmic finish you can’t quite locate. The truth is that orgasmic potential builds over time and when you stop chasing after it can envelop you, even in foreplay.

Taking our time for erotic discovery is everything. Mindful touching is practically prayer and it is the crevasse that exists between hooking up and making love to someone. Bringing our full attention to the nerve endings meeting between our fingertips and genital tissue is a fireworks display.  If you are not in a mindless hurry to get somewhere else, lingering in this energetically charged exchange for as long as possible can only make the end better.

Setting a goal, even if it’s just an additional five minutes each time you are intimate, is an easy way to train your focus on the moment and away from the ending.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more information about using your fingers in hot new ways, check out my program on the matter – Flirting Fingers.

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