Since the Fifty Shades of Grey series madness, more and more women are getting intrigued by domination techniques. There’s something exhilarating in being possessed by a man who desires you badly but also knows exactly what he wants to do to you.

Plus, teasing has always been the sexiest anticipation in the bedroom, and women like it more than you because it helps them become VERY wet and therefore enjoy sex more and build a more explosive climax.

But domination as a concept is still dangerous territory for many women, and the reason is simple: some rough techniques can feel humiliating depending on their past experiences. They like the idea of losing control, but they fear things could get too far which also means ruining the emotional connection you’ve built so far.

Fortunately, orgasm denial is a subtle form of domination even though it’s extremely powerful. It’s mainly based on teasing and anticipation and can increase the intensity of an orgasm by 50% (actually, a lot of women experience a squirting orgasm thanks to this technique even if they never had it before in their lives).

Not only will your woman love to be dominated like this, but she’ll also feel more in love with you thanks to the incredible waves of dopamine her brain releases during orgasm denial. With every tease, she basically falls for you all over again.

What exactly is orgasm denial?

Orgasm denial is when you push your partner toward the edge of her orgasm and right when she’s about to explode you pull back and stop any stimulation, preventing her orgasm from happening. It’s very frustrating, almost torturous, but it can help both of you build the most powerful orgasm you’ve ever experienced.

Remember, you’re in control of her orgasm which means she can’t climax without your permission. If you’ve always wanted to play with power dynamics, this is a great way to start because most women won’t feel offended at all – on the contrary, the adrenaline will increase their pleasure significantly.

Orgasm denial is also known as “Edging” and it has become pretty popular these days with many people saying it is the biggest sex trend of 2019. I couldn’t be happier! I love how it adds a kinky edge to the play without putting the woman in an awkward position.

How to do it like a professional

It’s a bit tricky to do in the sense that it can sound a bit like torture: why would someone want to get so close to the climax only to be thrown back to the reality? I know, it’s hard to resist, but in doing so you’ll find extreme pleasure that almost feels too good to handle. And I think it’s something your lady will become addicted to!

Your goal is to maintain a high level of arousal without reaching release. It might be even harder for you to resist since a woman takes much longer to get close to the climax, but practice will take you there. As a matter of fact, this is also a great way to strengthen your erection!

If you feel you’re not there yet, you can use orgasm denial on your lady during cunnilingus – you’ll simply drive her crazy. You can use your tongue, but also toys, hands, dirty talk… anything that will push her to the edge of ecstasy. When you feel her clitoris pulsating, stop stimulation completely. Then start again.

If you’ve never done it before, just try aiming for 30 minutes of orgasm denial and see how things go. Also, I recommend an open conversation with your partner before attempting this kind of stimulation. I’m sure she’ll love the idea, but she needs to know exactly what will happen and that you’re not being cruel at all – you just want to offer her a higher form of climax. You can even suggest a safe word she can use if she feels uncomfortable.

To have full control over her pleasure and make the scenery even kinkier, I suggest utilizing restraints such as light handcuffs or tying your woman to the bed so that she doesn’t try to force orgasm in any way. You can alternate penetrating and oral to build arousal even faster, but you have to learn when to stop. Don’t worry – practicing will turn you into an expert!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I encourage you to discuss your fantasies with your lady and try as many new and exciting things as possible this year because novelty will spark even more passion between you two! If you’re interested to discover more about female pleasure, I recommend you try my program – Flirting Fingers!

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The skill of bringing your lover to orgasm with your hand is likely to be very appreciated. Your fingers may be the most effective way to supply the direct clitoral stimulation many women require to achieve orgasm. Training your fingers exactly how to satisfy your lover, however, usually requires a willingness to both experiment and listen to feedback. Learning how she uses her fingers to masturbate is a good place to start. Unfortunately, not all women are comfortable with self-pleasuring in front of their partner, so you may need to try different things and ask her for feedback. Remember to be prepared for more peaks, plateaus, and dips. It can be more of an up and down ride than in your case. There may be multiple starts and stops. Don’t get discouraged. The end result will be worth all of the fuss.

Before I begin, let me share with you a little secret: the skin on her ladies has a LOT of nerve endings and is one of the most sensitive parts of her body. That’s why it’s a good idea to touch your partner there. For ideas and techniques, check out my program – Boobgasms.

Tips and Techniques  

Your hand can stimulate her entire vulva, including her labia, clitoris, and the inside of her vagina, if she wants that. Don’t limit yourself to just fingering the head of her clitoris. If you remember from the chapter on anatomy, the whole clitoris extends to just underneath the surface of the inner labia, where most of the erectile tissue of the clitoris lies. Stimulating the entire vulva allows for a larger area to become engorged, increasing arousal immensely for the woman, which will ultimately culminate in a richer, fuller, more satisfying orgasm. Here are some more tips and techniques that can help you give your female lover profound erotic pleasure with your hands:

If your hands are too rough for the delicate tissue of her vulva, use a latex or vinyl glove with some lube.

Be careful with your nails. The tissues of the genitals are very sensitive and can easily be aggravated by long, sharp, or jagged nails.

The inside of your lover’s vagina may supply adequate lubrication for a hand job. Dip a finger gently and slowly into the vagina to pull some of that wetness to her vulva. If not, just add some oil or lubricant.

When fingering a woman, you can use the fingers of your free hand to spread open her outer labia, making the inner parts of her vulva more accessible.

When stimulating the vulva, let your fingers glide smoothly over the clitoral hood and down both sides of the inner labia.

Spread your touch around the vulva. Alternate between teasing the vaginal opening with light finger circling and stroking the clitoris.

When stimulating the head and shaft of the clitoris, try different strokes and mix them up. Use just the tip of your forefinger or both your forefinger and middle finger. Use a circular motion or a figure-eight, or rub back and forth over the top of the head and shaft.

You can also try lightly tapping the head and shaft with your fingertip. Or you can use a flickering motion with your finger.

For extra fun and exploration, try gently gripping the shaft of the clitoris between your thumb and forefinger and stroke it up and down as if it was a very small penis. Feel it get harder and more engorged. Alternatively, you can lightly grip the clitoral shaft between your forefinger and middle finger, and twiddle your fingers back and forth.

If and when she is ready to have the inside of her vagina stimulated, you can slide a finger or two inside of her. To start, just let them rest there while you continue to stimulate the rest of her vulva. Then begin to slide them in and out repeatedly. Make sure there is plenty of lubrication so that your fingers glide in smoothly and effortlessly. This is likely to heighten her arousal tremendously.

Once she is really turned on, thrust your fingers along the front wall of the vagina (toward the stomach) where the famous G-spot is located. Try stroking her G-spot with a come-hither motion. She may or may not like this. Be sure to check in with her about where she feels her G-spot and how she likes it touched.

All the way to orgasm

When your lover seems ready to orgasm, keep a steady, continual stroke on her clitoris. Be careful not to overdo the pressure, especially if you are feeling excited yourself. She may not want more pressure or a faster pace, just consistent stroking. If your lover does not want direct clitoral stimulation, let her tell you want she does want.

After she comes, her clitoris may become very sensitive, and she may want you to stop stimulating it. Your cooperation can help her enjoy the aftermath of her orgasm. Alternatively, she may want continued stimulation to help her have multiple orgasms. Again, let her feedback be your guide.

Once she has entirely completed her orgasm, rest one hand lightly over her entire vulva, and the other over her heart, allowing her to feel your presence still as her body comes back to resting. This is a good time to share any tender feelings you have for her, letting her know how beautiful she is to you, and how much you love her.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. It is possible to really connect energetically with your partner while you’re stimulating her with your hands. Especially if you choose her chest – aka boobs – as your main point of focus. Check out my Boobgasms program and learn how to give her incredible pleasure and make her orgasm.

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Before any performance, warm-ups are crucial. This applies to athletes, musicians, and you guessed it — sexual partners! Very few women want to jump straight into intercourse, preferring a bit of foreplay to get her engines revving and ready for a night of bliss. That’s why learning how to finger a woman properly is crucial for not just setting the stage for mind-blowing sex, but perhaps even making her cum before the main event. 

While handplay may feel a bit old school, a little finger foreplay is a great way to get your partner primed and stimulated for an intense experience. While it may not feel highly sexual, fingering is a great way to build anticipation. Whether you want to bring her over the edge with just your fingers or you’re building up to adventurous sex positions with some heavy foreplay, the right fingering techniques can better prepare her for an orgasm she won’t soon forget.  

While every woman has different needs and preferences, there are plenty of ways to create a back-arching experience with those magic hands! 

 

The Pleasure Points

The most important place to start when fingering women is, well, knowing where to start. This means you need to have a deeper understanding of the female genitalia and where her pleasure points are located. Let’s start from the outside and work our way in (remember this phrase, as it’s also one of the best ways to finger a woman).

Chances are you’re familiar with the vulva, comprised of: 

The mons pubis (pubic mound)
The labia minora and majora (inner and outer, respectively)
The clitoris and clitoral hood
The vestibular bulbs (flanking the clitoris)
The vulva vestibule (between the clitoris and vagina)
The vaginal opening 

I’m sure you already know to pay attention to the clitoris, but the sweet spot is located inside the vagina: the elusive G-spot. This intense pleasure point is located along the anterior wall of the vagina, roughly 3-5 inches inside. It’s not always easy to find, but slow exploration with your fingers will eventually cause it to swell, making it easier to locate. 

How to Finger a Woman: 6 Expert Tips

Now that you know where to focus your efforts, let’s look at how. Before you dive in, here are a few general rules you should know: 

Start slowly
Be gentle
Listen to your partner
And please, trim those fingernails! 

Ready to get started? Here are six expert fingering tips to help you get her over the finish line.

First, Foreplay

Your first inclination might be to skip the appetizers and go straight for the main course. However, when you get hands-on with the clitoris without any preparation, it’s not only jarring, it can also be quite painful. Starting slow and building arousal is a must in order to get the juices flowing and prime her for the main event.

Knowing how to finger a woman starts with understanding the importance of foreplay, so spend some time stimulating other erogenous zones on your way to the clitoris. Foreplay is especially important if you’re aiming to achieve the famous G-spot orgasm. Give her an erotic massage, whisper dirty talk in her ear, suck and lick your way across her breasts and down her belly — the options are endless! Ultimately, anything you can do to tease and warm her up will have her begging for more. 

Focus on the Clit

There’s no denying that the clitoris is the star of the show when it comes to female orgasms, so once she’s aflame with passion from your foreplay, it’s time to stop teasing and get to the good stuff. A lot of knowing how to finger your lady like a pro revolves around catering to the ultra-sensitive clit.  

There are plenty of fingering techniques to explore, but a good place to start is by working your way up and around the labia, the vulva vestibule, and the clitoral hood to ensure sensitivity by the time you reach the clitoris. From there, you’ll want to use a gentle touch and some variation of movement and pressure to see what makes her gasp and moan. Remember: direct stimulation could feel intense and even painful for some women, so follow her cues and check in with her frequently.

Build Your Tempo

Even men don’t tend to go from zero to sixty instantly when it comes to sex. Chances are you enjoy a slow build and some tantalizing teasing, so why wouldn’t she as well? 

When learning how to finger a woman in a way that builds anticipation, rhythm and tempo are important aspects of the overall experience. Women who feel comfortable and confident will probably tell you when they want you to speed up. But if she’s on the quieter side, you can gauge her desire through signals like faster breathing, moans of pleasure, and angling her pelvis towards you. Not sure you’re on the right track? Just ask!  

Live it Up with Lube

The female body is designed to produce lubricating fluids when sexually aroused, but that doesn’t mean lube can’t act as a facilitator. In some cases, aging, hormonal changes, or certain medications can lead to dryness or lack of natural lubricant production. If you opt to involve lube in your sessions, be sure to purchase organic, natural products that are safe for internal use. Note: some lubes can’t be used with certain sex toys, so do your research before pairing these two goodies.  

Part of learning how to finger someone is understanding that every woman is different and finding ways to please her. This could mean trying different types of stimulation to arouse her and get her wet. Or you can add lube for an extra erotic experience that both of you will love! 

Explore the G-Spot

Learning how to finger a vagina doesn’t mean just focusing on her external pleasure points. Why not try delving deeper and giving her that earth-shattering G-spot orgasm? When a woman is fully aroused, the spongy tissue of the G-spot will become engorged, making it a little easier to find.

By slowly working your way up the anterior wall with one or two fingers slightly crooked as if to say, “come hither,” you have the best opportunity to locate her sweet spot. If you can’t feel it, trust me — you’ll hear it! Once you find the G-spot, her moans and gasps will be a sure sign that you’ve arrived at your destination. Once you’re there, apply pressure and build your tempo to give her a truly unforgettable orgasm.

Get to Know Her Needs

The most important tip I can give you on how to finger a woman effectively is to understand what makes her tick. Figuring out how her body works is just one part of the equation — the female orgasm is also highly mental and emotional, so it’s important to stimulate her psyche and ensure she feels safe and comfortable. 

This doesn’t necessarily mean candles and rose petals on the bed. It could mean talking dirty in a way she likes, starting off with a sexy dinner, a little playful sexting, or telling her what you’re going to do to her before you do it. It might mean going slow and finding ways to help her relax and fully immerse herself in the experience without feeling self-conscious. She might like watching porn together or adding some naughty sex toys to the mix. Every woman is unique, and so is what turns her on. Chances are, you’ll enjoy finding out her preferences as much as she does! 

Who Is Gabrielle Moore?

Gabrielle Moore is a sex expert and best-selling author of sexual guides geared toward female pleasure. Over 8 million readers worldwide and over half a million subscribers to her daily online sex tips already take advantage of Moore’s guidance and advice, and she’s been featured in major publications like Men’s Fitness Magazine.

Her work is fueled by intensive research and years of personal experience and experimentation in the bedroom, making her uniquely qualified to help individuals and couples enjoy the intimate and fulfilling sex life they deserve. Subscribe for a better sex life today! 

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There are some guys out there who are serious breast men. They could sit around and play with their partner’s breasts all day long and never get bored. But unless you really know what you’re doing, your partner might not be that interested in having her breasts fondled endlessly. Sure, she likes it for a bit, but then it’s “move it along, sir!” If you’re eager to keep playing and she’s getting bored already, there just might be a way to keep her interest in your breast play. You just have to make sure you’re doing it right!

Did you know that the breasts are one of the erogenous zones? Okay, you might have already know that one, but did you know that some women are able to orgasm from breast stimulation alone? Not all women can achieve this, but it sure is fun to try! Even if your partner isn’t one of the lucky ones who can orgasm from breast play, learning how to stimulate her just-so can result in even more powerful orgasms and much more pleasure! So, here’s how it’s done:

Really get to know HER breasts…

As you all know by now, not all women like the same things. This holds true for what kind of breast stimulation she will like. On top of that, you have to factor in hormonal changes in her body and her breast sensitivity. During certain times of the month her breasts might be more sensitive than others and this might mean she likes different things. All of it can affect what she’s in the mood for, so get to know her likes and dislikes really well in order to really master this technique. When in doubt, communicate!

Always start soft and slow…

Think about it, you wouldn’t like it if she grabbed your penis out of no where and started roughly jerking it around. Just like you, she needs to be warmed up first by light, soft and slow stimulation.

A combo power pack…

Don’t just do one thing over and over. It’s too repetitive and even if she loved it at first, after a while it will lose its effect. You’ll get the best results by using a combination of different stimulation techniques.

Stimulation techniques

* You’re starting off soft, so try tracing circles with the tip of your finger over her stomach and chest, gradually moving in to the breasts and nipples.
* Slide your hands over her breasts, cupping them with the palms of your hands. Kneed them, cup them, and massage them gently, then more firmly, varying your speed and pressure. You should consider using a massage oil or lotion to make your hands slide over her skin more easily.
* Use oil or lotion to begin stimulating her nipples. Run your fingers over them. Press them. Roll them between your thumb and first finger. Remember to keep her sensitivity in mind here. You don’t want to hurt her, but you want to give enough stimulation to make it really pleasurable. Pull on them with fast, repetitive strokes.
* Cup her breast with one hand and push it up. This has the effect of pushing her nipple out and making it taut. Use the above techniques to stimulate her nipple. Rotate it around in a circular motion with the pads of your fingers.
* Now move on to using your mouth. Use your tongue to lick her breast from the bottom all the way up and over her nipple. Give her open mouth, wet kisses all over her breasts and nipples. Run your softly over her nipples with a fat, flat tongue. Then flex your tongue and flick the nipple with it.
* Try giving her gentle love nibbles and bites on her breasts. Make your way to her nipples and begin very gently nibbling on them. Try covering your teeth with your wet lips first to test her sensitivity. If she has extremely sensitive nipples or is in a sensitive phase in her cycle you might need to skip nibbling and biting all together. You don’t want to risk hurting her. If you’re not sure, ask her if the pressure is okay.
* Suction your mouth around her nipple and suck in and out. Run your tongue over the nipple while you suck.

Remember, although some women can have an orgasm from breast play, not all women will be able to. Don’t put pressure on yourself or her to achieve this result. Just enjoy yourself! Breast play can also magnify a clitoral or G spot orgasm, so any of these techniques can also be used in combination with stimulating other parts of her body for a truly intense experience.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Boob play is extremely fun and pleasurable for your lady if you know how to take your time and build anticipation.

If you want to learn more in-depth techniques on breast orgasm, I recommend you check out my program called “Breast Play Secrets”. It contains precious information on how to prepare your lady for sexy HOT boob action and how to pleasure her twins the way she wants you to.

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If there is one part of the body that men especially rave about, it would be the breasts. You see men’s love for them everywhere you look: movies, advertisements, music…it’s impossible to escape. Knowing how much men love breasts, you would think they would all be experts at playing with them, but shockingly, this isn’t the case. Overwhelming, women complain that men don’t know what they’re doing when it comes to their breasts or that they don’t pay enough attention to them at all.

Listen up, guys, the breasts are an important erogenous zone. If you aren’t stimulating a woman’s breasts enough, or in the right way, you’re missing out on an important part of pleasing her sexually! (Click here to watch video demonstration)

In order to help you the best ways to touch a woman’s breasts, I’ve gone to the source itself, the women! Here are 4 women who are going to confess the best ways to touch their breasts:

Carly, 37 years old
“When we first got together, my husband never paid much attention to my breasts. It was weird because I knew he loved them, but when it came to getting it on, he’d just rub them for a minute and move on. I was disappointed—my boobs are super sensitive and I love when a guy really touches them.
One day when he was doing his usual quick rub, I finally said, “oh god, that feels good.” That was the first time he actually slowed down and asked, “you like that?”
That opened the door. We started experimenting—he tried new touches, asked me questions, and I gave feedback. A few weeks later, during one of those slower sessions, I had an orgasm just from the way he was touching and sucking my breasts. I couldn’t believe it. It felt like something new had awakened in me.”

If you want to know the kind of moves that helped unlock that moment, I recommend you explore the Boobgasms course for some truly eye-opening techniques.

Janelle, 28 years old
” My man always spent a lot of time sucking on my nipples, which I like, but he almost exclusively paid attention to my nipples, ignoring the rest of my breasts. I always wished he would touch, lick and suck all over my breasts, not just on the nipples. That area is awesome, but it’s not the only thing the breasts have going on for them. Try paying attention to other parts of the breasts and I’m sure the women out there will go crazy for it.”

Nadia, 40 years old
“I never even knew the pleasure I could get from my breasts until I met my 2nd husband. He was a boob man and he definitely knew what he was doing when it came to touching them. I never thought I could orgasm from anything other than clitoral stimulation, but he showed me otherwise. He would start slowly and softly tracing little circles on my breasts and then move into the nipples with his fingers. The light sensations slowly built up over time. Then he would start using his mouth to lightly lick, and then suck on them. He didn’t just do it for a minute, he spent a lot of time down there licking, sucking and touching until I had a breast orgasm! I was so surprised. I didn’t even know that was a possibility. But once I had one, I wanted more. Luckily,  he is always happy to indulge me!”

Kisha, 65 years old
“Sugar, I’m gonna be honest. At my age, I don’t get wet like I used to, and I truly thought my orgasm days were over. I figured I’d just enjoy what I could and leave it at that. But let me tell you, when he started playin’ with my nipples just right? Lord have mercy. Something lit up in me I didn’t even know was still there. I came so hard I had to grab onto the sheets. No fingers, no penetration, just that slow, steady touch that built up like a Texas storm. If that ain’t proof these girls still got fire in ‘em, I don’t know what is.”

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Boob play is extremely fun and pleasurable for your lady if you know how to take your time and build anticipation.

If you want to learn more in-depth techniques on breast orgasm, I recommend you check out my program called “Boobgasms Video Course”. It contains precious information on how to prepare your lady for sexy HOT boob action and how to pleasure her twins the way she wants you to.

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As you know, from time to time I like to bring you stories from real women who I have talked to and interviewed over the years to give you the real low down on what women like, do and want. This time around I’ve talked 4 different women who wanted to share their hottest role playing experiences. Keep reading to find out what they did…

Soraya, 32 years old

My husband and I have a really great relationship. We split up the household chores, we both work hard at our jobs, and we share responsibilities with the children. I love this dynamic that we have in our everyday lives. So, one day we decided to try role playing. We both thought it would be really sexy to role play a boss / personal assistant. Most people would have thought I would play the assistant since we still live in a pretty male dominated world, but we thought it would be really hot to switch that up. I was the boss and my husband was my loyal assistant. Through this role play, we started to explore the power dynamic in our sexual relationship and I started playing the dominant one. We discovered that this was a huge turn on for both of us. I loved being the boss in the bedroom and telling him what to do and he loved being submissive and obeying my every command. It was so hot! And now we’ve discovered a whole new way to be intimate together that has really rejuvenated our sex life. I’m so glad we tried it.

Molly, 40 years old

My boyfriend and I have only been together for about 3 years and we have no children, so our sex life is pretty good still, but we’re always looking for new ways to make things interesting. The other night we tried role playing a doctor and patient. He was the sexy doctor and I was the patient. It was so fun to act this out. We really did it from start to finish, with me ringing the doorbell to our apartment as if I was showing up at his office. He did a full examination of me after making me strip naked and put on a little robe, and then he started to get naughty. It was such a turn on to pretend we didn’t know each other well and that we were completely different people. It was like we were actors in a porno flick!

Sharon, 47 years old

One night my husband and I had plans to meet at a hotel bar to have some drinks and then have dinner in their restaurant. We planned to meet there after work. I got there first and grabbed a seat at the bar and ordered myself a drink. Suddenly a man came up behind me and leaned in close to ask me, “is this seat taken?” I recognized my husband’s voice, but decided to play along. I acted as if I didn’t know him, but told him he was welcome to join me, but that I was waiting for my husband. He kept going with the joke and said how disappointed he was that I wasn’t single and that my husband was a lucky man. We never intended to role play on this date, but both of us just kept going with it because it was starting to get really exciting. He started to touch my thigh under the table and I almost felt as if the situation was real. In the end, we never made it to dinner. The “new couple” ended up getting a room at the hotel and going at it like teenagers! It was so hot, we haven’t had sex like that in years. Now we regularly meet at a new spot and play out this favorite fantasy of ours. It works every time!

Kim, 37 years old

My partner confessed to me that he had a huge crush on a college professor year ago. After that I knew we had to role play this fantasy. I asked him a few questions about her and then one night when he got home, I was already playing my role of professor. I asked him if he could come to my office to discuss his term paper. Things got pretty hot and heavy from there and ended up with him screwing me from behind bent over my desk. Now I’m pretty sure that when he thinks about professors, he’s going to think about that moment!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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The majority of sex involves a man achieving orgasm… and a woman left waiting for hers. I know, it’s pretty grim out there if you’re a lady. But guys suffer, too. Your orgasm brings little to no comfort when you’re struggling to understand why you’re not satisfying your partner. If you blame it all on size – and most guys do, actually – stop. Pleasuring a woman to the maximum has nothing to do with how big, average or small you are.

Women can experience many different types of orgasms, depending on which part of her body you are stimulating. They can be quick, short, localized, deep, concentrated or full-body. And you can experiment with as many different kinds as you want, because if there’s one thing I know for sure is that you’ve got all the tools you need in those pants. All you’re lacking is the proper guidance on how to use them to the best of your advantage.

The unigasm

This is an orgasm where stimulation is focused on one primary erogenous zone such as the clitoris, G-Spot, anus or nipples. It’s pretty straightforward and it basically means you have to choose your weapon and, most importantly, where to put it. You can give your partner an unigasm via most of the naughty tools in your arsenal – mouth, fingers, penis.

The nipplegasm

According to scientists, brain scans show that when women stroke their nipples, it activates the same area of the brain that responds to clitoral and vaginal stimulations. For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases oxytocin, the chemical that, among other things, makes them feel like they are in love. Researches have discovered that at least 1% of women are able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone. You can play with her nipples using your penis as well, but make sure you lube it up nice and good beforehand, so that you don’t cause any pain.

The bigasm

Many people are experienced with forms of dual stimulation – a penis and a tongue, a vagina and a tongue, a finger and a tongue, and other combinations. This is, obviously, more intense than the unigasm, so it’s definitely worth exploring. Try sucking on her clitoris while stimulating her G-Spot with your fingers, or licking her perineum while fingering her vagina. She can return the favor by licking your testicles while handling your penis or sucking your penis while stimulating your prostate (a gland accessible via the anus).

The blended orgasm

A blended orgasm is much like the bigasm, but with a little twist. The intention for the blended orgasm is to make it last much longer by teasing your partner and stimulating one primary erogenous zone, then teasing another, then going back to the first, and so on. This technique is a great way to monitor your partner’s pleasure scale and is also very beneficial for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. If you’re stimulating her and her responses are bringing you close to orgasm, you can move your attention to another of her erogenous zones to prolong the ecstasy for both of you.

Start by choosing your partner’s favorite orgasm-inducing technique, such as oral stimulation on the clitoris. Get her aroused to a level 6 on the pleasure scale (10 being the top) and then switch to another technique you enjoy (such as stimulation of the G-Spot) and get her aroused to a level seven this time. Switch back to the first technique, raise her arousal level to eight and then back to the second technique at least three times before reaching a level 10 on the orgasm scale.

The trigasm

So here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm: the trigasm. A female trigasm is achieving by simultaneously arousing three points of pleasure: the clitoris, G-Spot and anus. Here’s how you should do that. Have her lie back while you concentrate on her clitoris until she reaches a level eight on the pleasure scale. Change course and stimulate her vulva in small circles with your tongue for two minutes. Return to the clitoris and orally increase her pleasure almost to the point of no return. Then insert your forefinger, palm up, into her vagina, and gently tap towards her navel on her G-Spot. Simultaneously, gently stimulate her anus with a pinky finger or a vibrator to bring her to an extraordinary trigasm.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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When you and your lady get frisky, it makes sense to reach for some pretty obvious body parts. But those tried-and-true areas of your anatomy aren’t the only places that can get you hot and bothered. Try playing with these six lesser-known zones – and have fun looking for a few unique new pleasure points of your own, too.

Sacrum (on her)

Why it’s hot: The vertebrae in the small of your partner’s back (right above her buttocks) contain sacral nerves, which shoot straight to your genitals. In fact, electric stimulation of this nerve will trigger an orgasm in91 percent of women, according to studies. Try this: Have her lie on her stomach and press on the sacrum with your palm, or give it a gentle karate chop-style massage. This will stimulate the sacral nerves and build heat in the genitals.

Nipples (on you)

Why it’s hot: Your partner’s nipples probably get plenty of attention and action. But yours can be very hot spots, too: They contain just as many nerve endings as hers do. Try this: Tell your partner to start off by lightly stroking the area with her fingertips. If that gets rave reviews, she should try upping the intensity with a gentle pinch or playful tug.

Big toe (on her)

Why it’s hot: Ever noticed how your partner’s toes twitch when she’s hitting a high note (hence the term toe curling orgasm)? That’s because there’s a direct neurological link between her privates and her little piggies – especially the biggie. What’s more, you can work this reflex in the other direction: stimulating the big toe can actually trigger an orgasm in some women. Try this: Of course, you can take her toes into your mouth – a classic bedroom move. Or you can gently pinch the sides of her big toe and roll it between your fingers. This activates reflexology pathways connected to her genitals.

Soles of the feet (on you)

Why it’s hot: Women aren’t the only ones packing pleasure potential in their feet – you do, too. According to a plethora of studies, the soles are the masculine sweet spot. Try this: Your partner should aim for an acupressure point on the bottom on your foot, about one third of the way down from the third toe. This is nicknamed the Bubbling Spring since pressing here and holding for a few seconds can cause energy to bubble up from the legs to the genitals. Or she can simply try lightly brushing the soles of your feet.

Navel (on her)

Why it’s hot: Her navel and her clitoris have a lot in common: in the womb, these two regions grow from the same tissue, linking them neurologically in adulthood. In fact, if you stick your finger in her belly button, your partner may sense it in her genitals. Try this: Use your tongue and fingers to delve into this indentation. If that’s too intense, caress or kiss your way two to three inches southward. You’ll hit three acupressure points, called the Sea of Energy, which are linked to sexual pleasure as well as fertility.

Nose (on you and her)

Why it’s hot: Next to your kisser, your sniffer contains more nerve endings than any other part of your face. Plus, your nasal passages contain erectile tissue that expands when aroused, further increasing circulation and sensitivity. Stimulating this area can even lead to honeymoon sinusitis, in which canoodling couples come down with cases of nasal congestion. Try this: Nibble on the tips of each other’s nose. The cartilage here is receptive to heavier stimulation like this. Or rub noses in an Eskimo kiss. You and your honey may come down with honeymoon sinusitis everywhere – but hey, who’s complaining?

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Sudden, desperate quickies against the kitchen counter can be insanely hot, but the best sex is rich and soulful. That kind of transcendent sex where you feel completely connected to your partner — that’s what you want to be aiming for if you want to enjoy simultaneous orgasms tonight and every night. These positions harness the bonding powers of science, neurochemistry, and things that just feel amazing to bring you closer as couple. So much closer that a well-timed climax is always on the table for you.

Sexy Spoons

Even though doggy style seems raw and animalistic, when you turn it on its side — spooning-style — it magically turns sweet and loving. Snuggle up with her (she’s the little spoon) and you can gently thrust inside her from behind, drawing it out for deliciously long, leisurely boning. The prolonged contact will leave you both so lust-laden that, after a while, every little stroke will feel amazing and completely in sync. Plus, with her legs squeezed together, it’ll really feel like you’re filling her up.

Prolonged Passion

Instead of giving her an orgasm, then passing out for the night, make the rule that neither of you can come ’til morning. Throughout the night, whenever one of you happens to wake up, give the other one a sweet kiss or a sexy rub between their legs and you can occasionally thrust a few times in her/against her. Her desire, and your erection, will ebb and flow throughout the night, but you will spend the night in a dreamy state between sleep and desire. In the morning, you won’t be able to wait to make each other come.

Tantric Lotus

Try some ancient tantric techniques for connecting deeply with your partner. Sit facing each other with her legs draped over yours. Stare into each other’s eyes and synchronise your breathing. It may be super weird at first — your legs and your soul feel way too open — but keep at it. Maintain eye contact and start touching each other gently on non-erotic zones, moving on to more dangerous areas. Have her sit on your lap, straddling you, for some long sweet kisses, then slide her onto your penis for some truly soulful sex which can only end with a simultaneous orgasm, of course.

Mmm Missionary

You can connect on a deeper level during missionary with affectionate touches like holding hands, wrapping her legs around you, stroking her back, running your fingers through her hair or entwining your legs with hers. Share deep kisses, long hugs, and suck on her nipples — all release oxytocin, the bonding hormone.

Soulful Scissors

In a horrible phenomenon called The Coolidge Effect, being sexually satisfied by a partner will slowly kill your desire for them. Yes, it is woefully unfair, but you can hack your stupid biological programming by not being sexuality satisfied. Which sounds horrible, but actually works. What I am basically advising you here is to start practicing edging — get completely turned on, but back off a little right before you feel like you might orgasm so you’re always on the edge. A great position for this is to start in a spooning position, then lift her top leg back over yours and turn her torso so she’s on her back, facing you, with you still inside her. Try this edging stuff for a month (if you can!) and you’ll find yourselves spending way more time in bed because you won’t be able to get enough of each other.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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It may be hard to keep up with all the various “gasms” that women can have these days.  From clitoral orgasms and vaginal (G-spot) orgasms, to cervical (A-spot) orgasms and anal-gasms, there doesn’t seem to be a limit to women’s erogenous zones or the ways in which she can experience the BIG “O”.  Add to that list: breast orgasms (Hurray for breast lovers!), and the array of female orgasms is astounding.

The good news is, the more ways she can achieve orgasms means the more orgasms she can have!

The bad news is, how do you keep track of them all?

Well, I encourage you to explore, explore, explore your lover’s body and her erogenous zones to learn new ways to help her become orgasmic.  Try new types of sensual touch and see what turns her on.  And, keep learning about all the new ways you both can explore the amazing world of female orgasms together.

You can always further your education by reading my articles here on GabrielleMoore.com, and by checking out my NakedU.com site for our in-depth sex-ed video programs where you can learn to become a sexpert lover as well!

What are Breast (aka Nipple) Orgasms?

Breast orgasms occur when a woman achieves orgasm from breast and/or nipple stimulation.  Orgasms can take place via breast/nipple stimulation alone, or sometimes in conjunction with other forms of stimulation like clitoral.

Some women can’t achieve orgasm without breast stimulation, so this is a good thing to know ahead of time when you are trying to get your partner to come. Does she need her breasts or nipples stimulated to get turned on?

How it Works

Scientists have found out that breast arousal is directly connected to the same area of the brain that is activated when the clitoris, vagina and cervix are stimulated.

When the breasts and nipples are stimulated (or even just when a woman is aroused) her breasts can swell up to 25% and her nipples become engorged with blood and become erect, much like the erectile tissue in the clitoris.  This rush of blood to those areas also makes the breasts and nipples a lot more sensitive.

While some women may feel nothing from breast/nipple stimulation, others find they are multi-orgasmic in that area.

Giving her an erotic breast massage on a regular basis can help the breast tissue and nerves to become more responsive if she doesn’t already feel arousal through breast stimulation.  Making the erotic neurological connection in the brain can help use rewire and retrain our bodies to become more orgasmic to various stimulation.

How Can I Help Her Achieve a BreastGasm?

Learn how to play with her breasts and see what she likes.  If she doesn’t know yet, try many different types of stimulation until she says, “Yes, do that!”, or “That feels good.” If she does know what turns her on already, listen to her and learn.

Remember that breast sensitivity changes with a woman’s cycle, so sometimes her breasts may be more sensitive to softer touches and sometimes she may need more arousing stimulation.  Also, some women enjoy very soft stimulation, where as other women like rougher play.  So, you need to know what play style your lover likes and how she may want things changed up at different times of the month.

Just like every other type of sex play, foreplay is important to getting her turned on first. So, tease and seduce her whole body first before you go straight to the boobs.  Allow her to get warmed up first.

Types of Touch

Fingertips.  The fingertips are great for gently rubbing around and over the nipples to get them nice and perky.  Often, teasing them is best to start, baring touching so she is aching to have you play with them.  Once she starts to get turned on, grabbing around the areolas and pulling firmly, or tugging her nipples can be very erotic.

Clamps.  Some women even enjoy the feeling of nipple clamps on their nipples, which at first restricts the blood flow to the nipples, making them a bit numb.  But once removed, the blood rushes back in and the nipples become alive with sensation.

Palms of your hands.  You can use the palms of your hands to hold her breasts, to weight them and squeeze them.  She may even like it if you bounce her breasts in your hands, or push the flesh back against her chest, as if giving a massage.

Squeeze.  You can use your hands to squeeze her mounds and massage them, or even groping or man-handling her breasts if she likes rougher play.

Smacking.  Some women enjoy having her breasts smacked, either softly, or sometimes harder. Ask her what she likes.

Tongue. Use your tongue to lap at her breasts and nipples and taste her all over.

Suck.  Sucking her nipples will probably get the biggest arousal, because, guess what? Nipples were created to be sucked.  So, the suckling action can feel very erotic and make that clit/nipple connection in her brain so she explodes.  Some women prefer gentle sucking, whereas other women want vacuum-powered suction.  Try varying suction with rhythmic breast squeezing (just like an infant does) to give her maximum stimulation.

There you are.  Breasts are beautiful.  Breasts are fun to play with.  And, breasts are orgasmic!  Go find yourself a pair and start having fun!

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