Personally I think that one of the greatest things about the invention of the smartphone is sexting. Seriously: It’s so hot. Maybe it’s because I’m one of the many women out there who’s definitely appreciative of a little mental turn on, but there’s just something about talking dirty via text/messenger/chat that I just love.

And I’m definitely not alone in my love of digital dirty talk. A recent study found that an overwhelming majority of adults have sexted at one point or another: some as a form of foreplay, some to even arouse orgasms. Before you roll your eyes, yes, you can indeed give a woman an orgasm without even touching her. I can confirm it, it has indeed happened to me on more than one occasion.

Why? First of all, because sexting is sexy and it arouses sexy thoughts sometimes even more powerfully than touch can do. Secondly, since women’s orgasms start in the mind, it makes sense that arousing her brain via sexts prove so efficient in giving her pleasure.

But all sexting is by no means created equal. For every hot and heavy dirty talk session, there are probably at least three failed conversations that fail to hit the spot and get the woman to where she needs to be: throbbing down there.

If you’ve tried and failed before, let me lend you a helping hand. You don’t have to give up sexting altogether because of a couple of bad experiences. There are definitely ways that you could up your sexting game, and I don’t mean by sending more penis shots; lets be a little more creative, please. Before I give you some tips for taking your sexting game to the next level, if you want to know more about giving a woman an orgasm without even touching her, check out this program called The No Touch Orgasm, created by my friend Lloyd Lester. He’s giving access to the secrets he’s using to give any woman intensely powerful orgasms… without resorting to any complicated fingering, licking or thrusting tricks. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Pay attention to words

There are lots and lots of different ways to describe body parts and sex acts. If your sexting partner uses one term, don’t respond with a different one or you might end up picking one that she doesn’t like or that’s killing her shot at reaching peak pleasure. Don’t let terminology get in the way of a good digital sex session.

Paint a picture

One of the great things about sexting is that you can be “doing” anything you want. If you’re into cosmic alien sex or naughty schoolgirl/teacher game or some kind of elaborate cowboy scene, go for it! Describe what’s going on, who’s doing what, even what they’re wearing. Acting out fantasies — especially ones that aren’t safe or realizable in real life — can be super hot via sext.

Pay attention to your partner’s cues

If your sexting partner is digging it, she will let you know. Just like in real life sex, you can pay attention to how your partner is reacting to what you’re laying down. If she is responding with one letter at any point in your conversation that isn’t the climax (because, as you can probably already imagine it, typing is hard at that point), then they’re probably not doing much other than watching TV and texting their BFF about how lame you are. If you find yourself at this point, remedy it with questions. What do you want? How do you like it? Do you like it when I…? Those are all great ways to get the heat back into a failing sext session.

Don’t be pushy

You can ask for a pic but if they say no, then no means no. Don’t push for it. Women especially hate it when they’re being pressured into doing something sexually that they’re not comfortable with and any woman with an internet connection knows that revenge porn is a very real thing. Don’t push for sexy pics if your sexting partner has indicated that they’re not into it.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Don’t believe you can give your partner the most explosive orgasmic pleasure she’s ever had… without even touching her? Prepare to be blown away, because this is exactly what I’m proposing. For more on how to sext, talk dirty or simply rock your lady’s world via words and whispers, check out this program called The No Touch Orgasm, created by my friend Lloyd Lester. The stuff you’re about to discover will rock your socks off – for both you and the woman in your life. NOTE: This program was not created by me.

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“Massage is the study of anatomy in Braille”- Jack Meagher

What do women want, really? It’s not boxes loaded with chocolate, it’s not being romanced under the moon, and it’s not diamonds as big as a pigeon’s egg. It’s simpler than that. It’s a day at a spa. Seriously, ask anyone. They love being spoilt with massages, beauty treatments and relaxation tools.

I’ve taken a peek on the titillating massages moves that spas around the world are using so that you can learn to try them at home with the help of basic, step-by-step instructions. Turn your bedroom into a sexy spa and she’ll be yours before you even get the chance to put some oil on your hands.

The lap massage

Indian women have this trick up their sleeves, one that’s been with them for ages: whenever they want to relieve someone from stress (particularly from the neck up), they perform a scalp massage. And since women tend to carry tension above their shoulders, it’s an ideal fix for them. To boost the experience for both of you, place your girlfriend’s head in your lap so you can see her reaction to your touches. First, use your index fingers to press between her eyebrows. Then rub around her ears, where there are more than 300 pressure points, making it a prime erogenous zone. From there, massage your way up to the crown of her head. Now she can return the favor.

Pleasure packed breast rub

Thai massage therapists say your partner’s neck shouldn’t get all the love during a rubdown. Working on her chest (aka, boobies) increases blood flow, which helps boost the immune system. Start by drizzling lickable massage oil, like the Sensuous Sweet Touch raspberry kissable warming massage oil, $14.50 (www.sextoyfun.com) onto her skin, then place your palms next to each other facing upright, on one side of her breast, and slowly stroke upward using circular motions. Brush over her nipple with your thumbs (or your tongue). Continue to her shoulders, switching from palm to finger pressure. Repeat on the other side, then it’s your turn.

The bellow-the-belt press

A woman can get therapeutic benefits from loosening up her hip flexors (where the front of her upper thighs meets the hips). Hip flexors lose flexibility from sitting for long periods of time, so if she’s an office geek, she’ll appreciate this massage even more, since it’s both arousing and healthy. Rub massage oil into your hands and knead her hip flexors in a clockwise circular motion. Once her muscles feel more pliable, increase the pressure and trace circles toward the extra-sensitive groin area. After she’s been moaning in pleasure for a while, switch places so she can do you.

The down-under massage

The glutes (the muscles in her buttocks) and lumbar spine (the lower vertebrae that support her lower back) can house a lot of muscle tension and stress, but they are often neglected- even though they can handle deep pressure. Lie her face down and kneel over her, straddling the back of her thighs. Then make like a cat, walking your hands palm by palm down either side of her spine and into each bum cheek. Apply some sweet almond oil and use the heel of your palm (one hand at a time) to work in small circles along the contours of her back and bum. Once you’ve warmed up the muscles, use your fists to pummel gently into the fleshy areas, for at least eight minutes on each cheek.

Titillating towel spank

For ages, Russian spa goers have sworn by flogging to boost circulation and flush out toxins. There, you would get lashed with branches, but you can make do in your home by using a warm, damp towel. Dip a hand towel in lukewarm water, wring it out, then pop it in the microwave for 30 seconds (it shouldn’t feel scalding to the touch). Tell your girlfriend to stand with her back to you (and make sure there are no mirrors around). That way, she won’t know what areas of her body you’re going to hit each time, which ups the thrill of the whole thing for both of you. Twist the towel, then grab both ends. Release one end of the towel, and gently whip it a few times over her legs and arms, then move to the small of her back and, of course, her butt. Now let her do it to you. I challenge you not to end up in fits of laughter by the end of it.

Have a sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“When you touch a body, you touch the whole person, the intellect, the spirit, and the emotions.”- Jane Harrington

We dispose of 1800 cm² of skin which abounds in receptive nerves. We should learn to play with the power of touch more often, explore each other’s sexual geography. The fingertips and the lips should become the messengers of sensuality and softness. The receptive nerves- true capsules of voluptuousness- can give birth to innumerable sensations. We just have to know when, how and how much to provoke the skin with fleeting caresses.

Every time I’m asked about the secret of a really good erotic massage, I always say this: you have to be present. In order to milk it of all its possible advantages, you have to abandon yourself in the act of performing the massage. This way you’ll regain the primitivism of sensations, the spontaneity of gestures, and your very own creativity in the matter.

If you want to surprise your girlfriend or wife when she comes home tired from work, you can choose from these two massage types- Thai and oriental- which I’ll describe in the following paragraphs. All you need is patience and love. I bet the whole thing will end with a happy finish for you too.

1) Thai erotic massage: a flow of relaxation

This extremely sensual massage frees her from tension and allows her to feel her body on a deeper level. A sine qua non condition before you start: this massage should follow a fairly precise protocol.

Start by massaging her feet vaults, in order to free the energetic circuits. Then, massage her whole body with the help of warm massage oil. Use soft and tender movements, barely caressing her skin, barely pushing with your palms against her skin. Her calves, her knees, her thighs, go all the way up. Using regular, fluid rhythm, no pression should break the swaying the movements imprinted. Abdomen, arms, hands, marry her contour with yours, in order to disperse the energy all over her body (and yours, for that matter!).

Don’t forget about her bum, it should deserve special attention, since it’s rarely massaged as it should be, slapping being about the only method of “touching” it enjoys. The effect is totally guaranteed. A wave of relaxation will voluptuously encompass her.

2) Oriental erotic massage: a flow of beauty

In Oriental countries and in the tradition of their magnificent spas, the woman cultivates her beauty away from indiscrete peeks. The hammam rituals are exquisite and extremely relaxing. If you really want to connect with her on all levels, offer to give her an oriental massage that will nourish both her inner beauty and her sexual drive.

Start with a little sweating, in order to clean both the body and the soul. Turn the heat on in the bathroom; pour hot water in the bathtub, a few drops of eucalyptus oil (it has purifying effects) and almond oil (it nourishes the skin), then have her soak up. Caress her face with the help of a honey and milk mask. After she’s done bathing, massage her with rosewater oil using languid, methodical and precise movements.

Little extra tricks

 

• Pick a calm room. It should be neither too hot, nor too cold. Create a relaxing ambiance with dim lights, candles, New Age music and incense.
• Avoid massaging her on a bed that is too soft. She’ll tend to get lost in the pillows. Opt for a gym rug or directly on the mattress.
• Don’t dry massage her. Use a lotion, oil or cream every time. The ideal duration of a massage session is of ten minutes for every body part.

Why is it so good?

When we’re on the receiving end of a massage, erotic more so, our hypophysis starts working and secretes two types of hormones: endorphins, which have the same virtues as morphine and can send us to seventh heaven, and oxytocins, which slow down our cardiac rhythm and make us more Zen. Also, it relaxes our muscles, so why not give it a try?

Have a gorgeously sexy week-end,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you show her yours, she’ll show you hers, so offer her a nice massage and be sure she’ll respond with the same treatment. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

Erotic massage may seem like a simple process – a little rub here, a bit of a squeeze there – and it certainly is a wonderful way to lead in to a romantic evening or some passionate lovemaking, but don’t be fooled: massage is a vast field of knowledge and skill!

Even trained professionals have room to continue learning and perfecting their abilities, so you can bet that there are a few areas you could stand to improve your skills in erotic massage. What do you know about how your wife likes to be touched? Has she given you feedback during massage in the past? Is she ticklish, or sensitive to a heavy hand? We each have our own measure of pleasurable touch, so take the time to learn hers.

You will likely discover that different areas of her body respond to distinct touch experiences, or that varying levels of excitement cause her to respond in unique ways. If touching a particular spot makes her flinch, don’t give up… just head somewhere else and go back later. Keep up communication, but don’t badger her if all she wants to do is relax. If what you’re doing is working, you should know by the moans, groans and excited wiggles.

Bawdy Basics

The first step to finding your groove giving massage is to understand the basic structure of a full-body massage. You don’t necessarily need to pamper the entire body every time you give her a rub, but if she is stressed and tense, doing a mediocre job will only leave her feeling grumpy and off balance. Put in the effort to make her feel as good as you want to feel after!

Before you get started with the actual massage, you should both take a moment to prep your body. Standard rules apply – shower, shave if you like, use some delicious scented oils, light some candles. If you want to make it extra special, run a bubble bath for your lover to relax while you prepare the massage room. Keep the place warm!

You will want natural oil like coconut, soft lighting, sensual music, extra sheets and some towels to protect your bed from slippery substances. Have her start lying face down with her arms either by her side or supporting her head. When you’re ready, approach her body by “zone” so you don’t get too distracted and head for the hot spots too soon.

The Zones

You can look at her body in five sections: torso and buttocks; scalp, neck and shoulders; arms and hands; legs, thighs and feet; breasts and vulva. This is the order you want to follow from start to finish… and it will be an amazing finish!

Begin by applying oil to your hands and rubbing along her lower back. Don’t press along her spine. Instead, keep one hand on either side of the vertebrae to avoid injury. Squeeze the muscles in her buttocks as you work your way up her torso, past her shoulders and to her scalp.

Rub her scalp gently and don’t mess up her hair! Be careful at the base of her spine, but focus some attention here. Most people carry the bulk of their stress in this area of the neck and shoulders, so spend some time loosening her up. Get feedback. Use your hands in a sweeping motion across her shoulders and down to her arms.

Massage her arms and hands one at a time. Wrap your hands all the way around her arms and gently encourage the blood flow in her skin. Don’t use too much pressure or pull on her joints. Gently massage the muscles in her hands and fingers.

When her upper body is nice and loose, ask her to flip over. Cover her with a blanket if she’s chilly and get to work on her feet. You can really go to work here, take her clues. No matter what your wife does with her day, her feet will appreciate your attention. When she is completely relax, you can start making your way up her shapely legs to the hot spots!

Shift positions so you can reach both her breasts and her upper thighs. From here you can massage her whole breasts or focus on her nipples, all the while moving closer and closer to her sex. Rub her tummy, caress her thighs, and figure out what she wants to do next! You’ll know that she’s ready for you to take the next step when she starts to part her legs. When she’s ready to let you in, go all the way!

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If after doing all of these touch exercises you’re still feeling like passion is in the air, click here and spend a few breathless minutes reading about more means to achieving the most sensual orgasm of your life.

What could possibly be better than a smooth, sensual rub down? One that smells absolutely divine of course! You may not consider scent to be all that important to your erotic massage technique, but when it comes to your caresses, you’ll be amazed at the difference that an aphrodisiac can make.

Aromatherapy? Not for Me…

When I say the word “aromatherapy” you may already have visions of New Age music and your wife’s special spa treatment, but there are a dozen great reasons to bring some basic aroma science into your sex life. Don’t be fooled – aromatherapy is serious business!

The primary ingredient in any aromatherapy treatment or concoction is the essential oil – a volatile oil from plant matter, the part of the plant that gives it scent and taste. You can purchase essential oils from a number of different sources in order to make your own massage blends. You can buy already blended oils ready to use, or you can even endeavor to make your own!

Just remember… being natural doesn’t automatically make something safe. Some essential oils are contraindicated for pregnant or menopausal women. Others can make the skin more photosensitive or cause irritation. If you do decide to blend your own mixes, be sure to follow careful directions regarding the preparation of massage mixes. All essential oils need to be blended into what is called a carrier oil, the kind of oils typically used for cooking and body preparations – almond, grapeseed, coconut, even plain grocery store olive oil will work, though something with a more neutral or tropical smell is generally recommended.

What Works?

Dozens of different oils have been associated with aphrodisiac properties, but we each have our own particular predilections. What your woman enjoys will all depend on her olfactory senses, so experiment a bit and see what she likes. Take a sniff of the perfumes and air fresheners she uses. Does she like floral, spicy, musky, or fresh? Does she tend toward sweet citrus hints or savory herbals? Why not take a shopping trip to a local essential oil supplier with your lover and see what kind of scents you can pick out together? Here’s a list of common aphrodisiac oils to get you started on your search.

Amber has a sweet, sensual scent that begs to linger in the hollow of the throat and spread across the pulse points, reminiscent of her favorite perfume. It has an overpowering scent that can be difficult to blend, so use it sparingly.

Basil is sweet and spicy, encouraging sexual stimulation as well as being mentally and emotionally invigorating for those days when she is so worn out that she’s worried a massage is all she’ll be up for – don’t worry, if anything will wake her up, it’s basil!

Bergamot is a general mood-lifter with a soft, citrusy floral scent that plays very well with others.

Cinnamon, with its spicy apple-pie scent, is a favorite of men and women alike, encouraging a relaxing down-home feeling all the while spicing up any situation.

Clove compliments cinnamon blends very well, with another spicy note.

Cardamom, another favorite “C” spice, has a sweet and enticing aroma which encourages sexual attraction with a warm, inviting glow.

Coriander should be used sparingly, but it’s sweet and spicy scent is often considered an aphrodisiac, mixing well with other oils like jasmine and sandalwood.

Ginger is another spicy scent which can be used in warming oils, again with caution. It is known to increase passions and inflame desires, and goes well with the “C” spices.

Grapefruit is incredibly uplifting and mixes well with other citruses, along with neroli, bergamot and the “C” spices above. It is another mood-lifter to help brighten a bad day.

Jasmine is an intoxicating floral scent that hardly any woman can resist, adding warmth and sensual notes to any mix. It should be avoided during pregnancy, but mixes well with other musky oils like amber, neroli and sandalwood.

Lavender is a classic massage scent because of its ability to encourage relaxation. It is also antibacterial, so works great for foot massages after a long, hard day in heels!

Neroli is an exotic aphrodisiac with a deep, seductive scent known for facilitating sexual excitement and clear communication between lovers.

Rose essential oil is as good as a real dozen of the precious flowers, sweet and sensual, uplifting and joyful, speaking right to her heart. It is perfect for special occasions and mixes well with other exotic or floral scents.

Patchouli is exotic and musky with a very earthy aroma, both provocative and sensual for decreased inhibitions and increased desires. It tends to blend very well with a body’s natural scent.

Sandalwood is another musky scent with deep notes that speak to its use in ritual and meditative practices the world ‘round. It is excellent for slow, sensual lovemaking.

Vanilla is another classic scent which, like cinnamon, tends to remind us of home. It mixes very well with spices, as well as any of the floral scents.

Ylang ylang is the quintessential aromatherapy aphrodisiac, erotic and exotic, known to enhance libido

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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You might think that it would be easy to convince someone to lay down and allow you to rub their naked body with warm, soothing or stimulating oils. Of course, this isn’t always the case, is it? You know as well as I do that some days the last thing we want to do is have to worry about getting oil stains on the sheets, keeping the kids out of the room, cleaning the pet hair that clings to everything before getting started, or just turning off the TV for that matter.

So what is a sex-starved couple to do?

Pop Your Personal Bubble

Want to encourage more touch in your relationship? Do it! Let your physical boundaries soften and get “touchy feely” with your lover. What kind of thoughts does that phrase conjure for you? It is often used by those uncomfortable with the idea of touch to disparage the physical closeness and emotional openess often displayed by those in the early stages of love. How do you feel about touch?

For many men, especially those discouraged from affectionate touch, the line between sexual touch and affectionate touch becomes blurred. They see every opportunity or invitation for touch with their lover as a sexual advance an attempt to influence the encounter accordingly. But all humans require affectionate touch. Touch free of sexual expectations is a necessary aspect of an intimate relationship and indeed every life. If you are missing out on this pure affectionate touch, sexual touch may in fact be not only undesirable but outright unpleasant!

Get out of your personal bubble and allow yourself to use casual touch in your day-to-day interactions with your wife. You might find that when you allow yourself to brush her hair, touch her chin, hold her hand, stroke her arm, grab her waist, or rub her legs and feet, that  your need for touch isn’t entirely sexual either. We all crave these kinds of affirmations and connections with each other.

People who have regular, loving, affectionate touch live longer and happier lives… just like people who have more regular sex! Coincidence?

Get Your Rub On

Ifyou want more hands-on time with your lover, don’t make such a big deal of the “erotic” part of erotic massage. When you pass by her hunched over the table hard at work on something, give her shoulders and gently squeeze, and if she responds well you can continue for a minute or three with a gentle shoulder massage. When you are sitting next to each other on the couch after dinner, offer to rub her tired feet. Use a touch of coconut oil for lotion if she wants it, but don’t make it messy if that’ll spoil the mood. The point here is to get here interested in touch without introducing the complications of sex, mess, or privacy from the kids and the cats.

You can suggest a deeper and more relaxing massage at just the right moments to help encourage the more erotic elements, but don’t overdo it. Offer to rub her back when you’re in bed at night, but don’t worry to much about breaking out the oils just yet. If you have been rubbing her feet, rub her legs too. Do whatever you can to begin to show her that you want to help her relax in a low-pressure environment. As questions, get feedback. Find out what parts of her body are feeling tense and tight, so you can focus on that specific area. Make sure you aren’t massaging to deep or hard, or too lightly either.

Sensual Elements

If you’re ditching the scented candles, massage oils and gentle music for now, see what you can do to get creative in implementing other sensual elements! Put on a bit of nice cologne or aphrodisiac oil on your own body beforehand to help spice up the scents, but don’t use too much. Be subtle! Whisper sweet nothings into her ear as you rub her down. Talk about what you are grateful for and use the opportunity as a door to mindfulness. Talk about your day and ask her about hers… just don’t let the silence become the loudest thing in the room, and don’t start talking about sex.

Let her set the pace. If you have been giving her massages and she has yet to make a move to reciprocate, see if you can entice her to rub your temples when you have a headache or your feet after a long day. Be sure you are clean first! If you create a regular routine of sharing this kind of affectionate touch, you give her just as much opportunity to initiate the erotic elements as you.  See where it leads you!

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If after doing all of these touch exercises you’re still feeling like passion is in the air, click here and spend a few breathless minutes reading about more means to achieving the most sensual orgasm of your life.

Reflexology is an ancient massage science which ascribes areas of the skin and glands – in particular on the hands, feet, face and ears – to other parts of the body, namely the internal organs and major body systems. Sexual reflexology takes these associations into account in order to stimulate the sexual organs and awaken the body to new heights of ecstasy. Sexual reflexology also gives you the opportunity to focus on relaxation and foreplay. Learn where you should be massaging and don’t worry too much about the technicalities of what body part you might be stimulating with each movement. In the long run, the entire process will be stimulating and invigorating!

The best place to start with a sexy reflex massage is the face. Don’t get naked right away. Sit down somewhere like the couch or the bed with your legs crossed and have your lover sit in front of you and lean back, resting her head in your lap. While it might be your first instinct to focus exclusively on the areas of the body associated with the sex organs – like so many men focus entirely on a woman’s breasts or genitals during foreplay – you don’t have to worry much about what organs or systems reflexology point you are pressing. Instead you can think about the process as a ritual of relaxation, going through the steps and aligning all of the body’s systems.

The Reflexology Face Massage

1. Rub up either side of the thyroid gland from the collar bone to just below the chin.
2. Press gently into the indent of her chin to stimulate the GI tract and brighten her skin.
3. Rub from the indent above the chin up towards the lower lip, along the length of her mouth.
4. Massage the edges of the mouth to stimulate the mouths.
5. Gently rub the ridges under the nose towards the upper lip for the spleen.
6. Rub the tip of her nose (with your own nose, if you want to be cute!) to support the stomach.
7. Very gently stimulate the jaw joint in the deepest part of the cheek, which will get the digestive system going and get dinner off her mind.
8. Press very gently along the ridges of the cheekbones from the nose and below the eyes.
9. Tap lightly with a fluttering motion under the eyes, starting from the outside and moving in, to improve the skin condition and stimulate the kidneys.
10. Rub gently with your index, middle and ring fingers between the eyes to stimulate the pituitary gland and the entire reproductive system.
11. Rub your thumbs along the edge of her hairline to improve mental clarity.
12. Rub again up into her hair from the center of her forehead (if her hair is parted in the middle, rub gently down the center of her part) to stimulate the rest of the nervous system.
13. Pinch up and down the ears very gently with your forefinger and thumb. The ear, like the face, hands and feet, can be broken up into all the body systems. Running your fingers from the top to the bottom along the outer ridge helps the whole body.
14. Finally begin massaging the ridge of the jawline, beginning from the base of the ears to the chin to stimulate the sex organs.

Grab her chin and give her an upside down kiss!

The hands and feet are also ripe with pressure points for the body, but after this great face massage you won’t need to spend too much time on the hands and feet. Start with the feet and give them a good all-over rub. Finish off by gently pressing the points at the back of the heel and rubbing along the calf towards the inside of the knee. After relieving the tension in her legs, go in for another kiss and grab her hands while you’re at it.

The sexual pressure points in the upper body are in the wrists. The base of the hands where the meet the wrists are entirely associated with the sexual organs, in particular the small pits in the wrists, one on each side, two on the front or back of the wrist. If you pin her down with her wrists in your hands, you can hold on to her with your thumb on one pressure point on the inside of her wrist, and your ring fingers on the back of her wrist. See what kind of pressure points your lips can hit next!

Happy rubbing, fellas!

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

„The mind has exactly the same power as the hands: not merely to grasp the world, but to change it”- Colin Wilson

A sensual rubdown is a slow-boil approach to arousal. Because we’re living our lives on fast forward most of the times, we rarely undergo this pampering treat, so the slightest strokes trigger a forceful stream of relaxing neurochemicals. For a woman especially, a well-done massage winds her up in a mellow, ready-for-pleasure state.

Another reason rubdowns rock her world: studies show that receiving tactile pleasure reduces stress, improves IQ, and broadcasts love and emotional connection within the couple with the same degree of accuracy as facial expressions. Good thing the skin has thousands of nerve endings (about 600,000 receptor cells) to transmit all those feel good vibes.

But the good news don’t stop here: massage also sends blood coursing into key hot spots, engaging the muscles and nerve endings everywhere you touch. Here’s a bouquet of surefire moves that will transport her body into such an immense state of bliss she’ll never want to get out of your hands.

• Before you toss a clothing item on the floor, put it to good use. Drape a cami along her face, letting her feel it’s filminess while inhaling the scent.
• Women have thinner skin than men do, so always use softer pressure, otherwise you’ll only get her even more tense. They also have a higher skin temperature, so turn on the AC or refrigerate a massage oil before applying it.
• Use your fingers instead of your palms to caress her body- the tips are packed with dozens of touch receptors. For a fresher sensation for her, massage her breasts with your torso or the sole of your feet.
• Holding hands has an immediate calming effect by lowering stress-related levels of cortisol. Interrupt the work of your hands to interlock them with hers, and continue massaging her… with your mouth!
• She’s more likely to get aroused when she can’t anticipate what’s going to happen (That’s why we can’t tickle ourselves- we know what’s coming). Wrap a scarf around her eyes and vary the placement and pressure of touch.
• Kick-start all the nerves in her skin using a hot/cold combination of massage oils and ice cubes. Put a bit of oil in one hand (rub hands together to warm it up), and use it to knead her bare shoulders. Then take an ice cube and run it over the same area. Repeat the pleasurable process as you work your way down to her back, finishing off at her bum.

As for precise places to touch her so that you achieve maximum relaxation effect, go with the classics. You can make sure they deliver, sinking her in a feeling of complete and utter bliss.

1. The Chest Master

This breast massage is sure to please. With fingers splayed on both hands, trace wide circles around each breast simultaneously, slowly spiraling in. You’re building up the excitement as you make your way to her sensitive nipple area. Then stimulate the nipples by running the heel of your palms over them with a barely there touch.

2. The Shoulder Holder

To give her goosebumps and relieve her of all the muscle tension gathered in that specific region, coat your hands with spicy massaging lotion before you start. Grab her shoulder with one hand, and make your other hand into a soft fist, gently working it into the groove by running it from the edge of her shoulder to the crook of her neck. Repeat on the left side. This move softens the tight muscles around her shoulders and helps her relax.

3. The Thigh Pleaser

Kneel between her legs, and walk your fingers from her knee, up the inner thigh, toward her vaginal area. Before you reach the promised land, stop and lightly drag your fingertips back down the inside. The thin skin makes it sensitive to the touch; plus, the fact that you’re so close to her privates, without actually touching the area, gives her a rush.

4. The Back Bliss-Out

Of course, the king of all massages is the back rub. You can situate her in a sitting position or, to make the stroke session even sexier, straddle her butt. Put the palms of your hands at the small of her back, and then firmly glide them both sides, along her spine (but not directly on it). At her shoulder blades, fan your hands out and over, fingers spread, creating branches with your fingers. Then return to her lower back and repeat, increasing the pressure each round.

Have a wonderful week-end,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Kneading her muscles and skin causes blood to rush to her groin, which is ammo for a powerful orgasm, so keep the massage sessions going! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!

“I think the best thing I can do is to be a distraction. A husband lives and breathes his work all day long. If he comes home to more table thumping, how can the poor man ever relax?”- Jackie Kennedy

These days, not only men live and breathe for their jobs, but women as well, and if your partner has been piling up the “busy-bee” days, no wonder she’s stressed. If you’ve noticed lately that she’s being a knotty, knotty girl, wild sex is even more far off her sensual repertoire. For a woman to truly enjoy better sex, she has to be completely relaxed, both emotionally, but most importantly as far as her body is concerned.

When a woman is bugging out, her body holds onto stress in one of five key areas. Pinpoint her personal problem zone and learn how to keep nasty tension at bay. Thus she’ll be able to say yes to your wild sex proposal more often than the usual.

Where is she feeling the stress?

1) Her head.

What it reveals: She’s overwhelmed. Any sort of mental freak-out- she finds herself with one of those scary-long to-do lists, or she went on a shopping binge that left her with a monster credit-card hangover- can prompt her to start taking short breaths or clenching her jaw, both of which cause hard-core tension headaches.
Quick fix: Coffee. Scientists say that caffeine causes blood vessels in her head to contract, which helps reduce her pounder. And exercise works too. Doing 30 or 45 minutes of cardio (she should hop on the elliptical, treadmill, bike, whatever) releases endorphins, which are brain chemicals that help curb physical pain. Take her to a light jog in the park during the week-end and then treat her to her favorite coffee at her favorite little coffee place. When night falls and you come home, she’ll be feeling good and ready to get busy in the backdoor.

2) Her neck and shoulders

What it reveals: She’s a worker bee. When she has tons to do, she very likely hunches her shoulders over her desk or at her computer in order to concentrate and fully focus. But while she may think this position helps her get ahead at work, it actually tightens the muscles in this area, which causes them to knot up.
Quick fix: A massage is the best cure, but this trick will help in a pinch. Have her stand up straight with her arms at her side. Grab her shoulders and slowly lift and roll them in a circular motion. Do this 10 times in a row; it increases blood flow to her neck and shoulder muscles, which loosens the knots, and the feel of your touch gets her more emotionally comfortable.

3) Her hands

What it reveals: She’s restless. Maybe she’s picking at her cuticles. Perhaps she’s chomping at her nails, even though she clearly knows better. She could be drumming her fingers nervously on her desktop. Whichever hand-evil she’s engaging in, all these little movements show she’s fidgety and anxious.
Quick fix: A manicure- the do-it-yourself work. Offer to do the job for her, she’ll be pleased and she’ll be able to fully relax during the process. Start with a hand scrub and massage. By paying attention to her hands, you’ll not only soothe them, but also calm her thoroughly. Plus, a manicure will help kill her bad hand habits. Who wants to pick and gnaw at freshly polished fingernails, especially if they’ve been done by you, her partner?

4) Her tummy

What it reveals: She’s a huge bucket of nerves right now. Fretting about something big in her life, like an important presentation she has to give at work, causes her digestive system to speed up and operate way faster than normal. The result? She feels crampy, gassy and extremely nauseous.
Quick fix: Eating cheese, whole grains and/or chicken. Offer to make her dinner and use the ingredients mentioned above. You don’t have to whip up a whole wrap every time her stomach hurts- any one of these foods will work alone. They all have tryptophan, an amino acid that helps her brain produce serotonin, a feel-good chemical that can reduce anxiety.

5) Her feet

What it reveals: She’s exhausted. Say she had a crazy-busy day. She had some major deadlines, tons of meetings, and a business lunch. By 6 p.m., it feels like her feet are literally dragging. That’s because experts say that women feel much of the weight of their waking hours in their legs.
Quick fix: A hot bath. Her kickers are jam-packed with nerve endings that connect to her entire body, so soaking them sends a soothing sensation to her whole system. Plus: have her put her feet up on the edge of the tub. Elevating them takes the pressure off, which sends a signal to her brain that it’s time to relax.

Have a relaxed week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Should you like to learn more about erotic massage tips and techniques, I recommend you check out my program Flesh on Flesh. Discover how to rub and caress your woman’s body in every way to get her swooning, soaking, and orgasming with delight!