“Whether you are kissing, rubbing, licking or fingering her, pinning her down will drive her insane. That feeling of helplessness really turns women on.” – Pauline Reage

One perfectly timed brush of the thigh can take a sexual encounter from pretty good to holy smokes, this is hot! There’s a slew of science that proves how the power of touch can stir sizzle when it comes to hitting the sheets. All it takes is knowing a few key moves. Touching isn’t just sweet; it sets off the release of the bonding hormone oxytocin, the same hormone that also triggers a cascade of physical and emotional reactions, like a lower heart rate, slower breathing, and a surge in feelings associated with love and lust.

Even when sex isn’t the goal, regular touching acts as glue for a couple and the majority of women rated themselves happier in relationships that include kissing and cuddling on the regular. While we touch during sex – obviously – way too many couples don’t maximize the power of touch while they are hooking up or even just hanging out. Here, some touch-tastic ideas that will not only bring you closer as a couple but will also make sex feel extra hot.

Slow down

Even if you can go from workday to foreplay at the drop of your pants, it pays to take your time doing some necking before you go at it. Run your hands through her hair, kiss her earlobe, rub her back (she won’t be surprised or complain when your hands wander). Gentle touch primes us for a more intense orgasm by building our anticipation for what’s to come. It also gives you time to think about the sexy things you want to do to each other next.

Get cinematic

Sex scenes in movies are all touchy and sensual and drawn out… but in real life? Not so much. Be that movie guy! Go all dramatic when you lean in for a kiss. Wrap your arms around her and grab behind her neck for a Hollywood-approved hot kiss. Just going through those motions will make you feel way more passionate.

Go panini-style

Make like a human sandwich and lie so you and your partner are both facing down, flat on top of the other, totally naked. Let your bodies meld and your breaths sync for a few minutes. Your partner, being on top, gets to let her limbs go limp and feel your warmth underneath. You, being on the bottom, get that calm, secure feeling you experience with a weighted blanket. Plus, your naked bodies smushed together will probably give you a few other ideas.

Zone in

Her mouth, her nose (yep, I swear), and what she’s packing in her panties are three of her parts most densely populated with nerve endings that connect to the sensory regions of the brain. Touch around them first, then touch them directly, but not just with your hands – use your lips, tongue, nipples, for new sensations that will give her a little thrill.

Show and tell

Which of your body parts are you most proud of? (I’ll give you a minute to pick just one, you stud!) Settled? Grab her hands and place them there. If you’re feeling good about your pecs – and your partner focuses her attention exactly on that area, running her hands up and down in a rhythmic motion, you’ll feel even greater about your body and what it can do. The result? Better sex, of course!

Take off those damn clothes

Sometimes it feels like too much trouble to pull your shirt all the way off and get stark naked. But do it. When you’re not too lazy to take off all your clothes, it makes sex feel less like we’re checking a box and more like you’re having a really passionate night together. Not to mention there’s more skin-on-skin contact, which means more nerves get stimulated, which means stronger orgasm.

Linger longer

You’ve climaxed; she’s climaxed. Now what? Lots of men and women are super sensitive to touch after orgasm (especially women – and especially there, so proceed gingerly). But don’t just roll away. Spoon or be spooned, gently caress the how-is-it-possible-that-this-is-so-soft underside of her arm or her cute butt or her chest – wherever you naturally rest your hands – with slow, gentle strokes or circles. It feels so good you might just go for round two.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

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It’s been a long day. You can tell the moment she walks in the door that your partner has had a tough one. It’s written all over her face. She has that look, as if to say, “you won’t believe what I’ve had to deal with today.” You might have been hoping to relieve a little bit of the day’s stress with sex, but you probably already know that the second you lay your hands on your partner, she’s going to peel your hand away and say, “not tonight, honey. Sorry, but I’m really not in the mood.”

It’s a tough situation because you know as well as I do that sex is fantastic way to fight off stress, but how do you get your partner on board when she says she’s just not in the mood? You shouldn’t press the issue because that will only lead to an argument and hurt feelings. So, what do you do? First, forget about sex. Instead, think about relieving your partner’s stress in another way that she IS in the mood for. What’s the benefit here? She will appreciate the sweet gesture and it might even make her want to have sex in the end.

I’m talking about using the art of erotic massage to relax and pleasure your partner. Your end goal shouldn’t be having sex, but you should definitely be ready for your partner to open herself up to you. It’s often one of the many amazing side effects of a great erotic massage.

Here’s what you need to know in order to give her an amazing erotic back massage:

* Make sure she doesn’t see this as a ploy to get her to have sex, but instead as a nice gesture to help her relax and feel good after a long, hard day.

* Use just the right amount of pressure. Men have stronger hands than women and they also tend to use way too much pressure when it comes to giving a massage. This isn’t a deep tissue massage. If she wants that, she can go to the local spa. You want to use enough pressure so that you can feel her muscles moving under your hands, but not so much that she is squirming, cringing or tensing up. When in doubt, you can ask her if she would like more or less pressure.

* Go s-l-o-w-l-y. Going too fast will not relax your partner, it might even make them feel rushed and nervous. This is about pleasure, so take it slow and sensual.

* Use a nice massage oil. It feels better when your hands slide easily over her skin, so choose a nice, light, good-smelling massage oil.

* Avoid massaging over joints and bones. Women in particular might have thin muscle tissue covering these areas and therefore putting too much pressure on them will be uncomfortable or even painful.

* Do your research. A great way to learn how to give the best massages is by observing a professional at work. You could either take an amateur massage class or even get a massage yourself, but pay close attention to the techniques your masseuse uses.

* The majority of people carry their tension in their shoulders. This is an important area to focus on. First take both shoulders in your hands and use your thumbs to push down. You can also use your forearms to press down on her shoulder with your palm facing up. Use your body weight to press down while rotating your arm inward toward her neck. Another great trick is to use a tennis ball to massage sensitive areas of the shoulders and to get knots out.

* The lower back in another important area to focus on. Many women carry a lot of tension and pain in their lower backs. Use the heels of your hands and your body weight to rub the lower back from the spine to hip. Rub the often tense muscles that surround the hips.

* You’ll also need to focus some of your attention on your partner’s neck. When she is in a sitting position, place your hand at the back of her neck and then slowly apply pressure with your fingertips. Remember that this can be a particularly sore area, so going slow is especially important so that you don’t hurt her.

* To really start to send tingling sensations throughout her body, give her a scalp massage by rubbing the tips of your fingers over her scalp. This is one of the little-known erogenous zones.

* At the end of the massage, just like when you’re working out at the gym, you should do a cool down. This is when things can start to get sexual, but make sure that you are reading her cues correctly. Start stroking her back and body more lightly and begin doing long and slow strokes all the way up and down her back, over her butt and thighs.

Happy rubbing!
Gabrielle Moore

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Hey there lover boy and welcome back to my top sexy tips ideas!  Today I want to show you some fun ways to flirt and have sex, and also introduce you to the sacral nerve.

1. Stimulate the sacral nerve

There are a cluster of nerves at the bottom of the spine called the sacral nerves that are connected to the clitoris and aid in orgasm.  In fact, stimulation of this area with electrodes can even trigger orgasm in legally dead patients.  Wow!  Doctors today are testing implants in this area to help women who can’t orgasm to achieve it.  Personally, if I had a dial connected to my orgasm, I’d have that thing on max all the time and would never get out of bed!  But I regress…

You don’t have to put an implant or electrodes in her spine though to stimulate her sacral nerves.  You can get her to lie on her belly and give her a lower back and butt massage.  The hot spot to touch is on the lower hip, that sweet indentation between a butt check and the upper thigh, where the thigh joins at the hip.  Simply pressing on that area (gently) with your finger tips in a circular motion or the palm of your hand can stimulate the area.  Also, karate chops, if done gently, can also cause arousal. So, use this trigger to get her orgasmic even before you have sex.

2. Seduce her with your eyes

What’s that saying, “the eyes are the gateway to the soul”?  Well, using your eyes to seduce her can also be the gateway to sex.

Making eye contact with your lover, and devouring them with your eyes by looking them up and down with a seductive smile, can really start the sparks flying.  Use your eyes to seduce her when you get closer, gazing deeply into her eyes as you slow dance, looking into her eyes as you kiss.  This is a very intimate act, and will let her know you desire her, as well as turn her on and making her melt.

Eye gazing (or soul gazing) is a Tantric technique that deepens intimacy and awakens sexual energy between lovers. Studies show that unbroken eye gazing, even between strangers, can increase feelings of passionate love for each other. Eye gazing releases the chemical phenylethylamine that speeds up attraction.  And, when you look at someone you are in love with, your pupils actually enlarge, which makes your eyes even more sexually alluring to your partner.

Try it and see!

3. Strip poker

Okay, this is a bit silly, but games can be fun.  I recommend trying this when you have had a drink or two and you are both more sexually “lubricated”.

Stripping in front of your partner can be very erotically stimulating, because the lights are on and you can see everything.  Plus being “forced” to remove your clothes for a game has added excitement.

There are many variations on this game (just Google it), but using chips for betting and adding foreplay rules to it increases they ante.

4. Sex at a party

Have you ever felt so hot and horny for each other, that you are at a party, eyeing each other up an down and you just can’t wait to get home and get it on?

There is nothing a hot as sneaking into the bathroom for a hot and heavy quickie, trying to muffle the sounds of sex, while people bang on the door for you to get out.

Well, works for me!

5. Play “May I”

What is “May I”?  This is kind of like the game you played as a kid, called “Mother, May I”, but is an updated, adult version for sexy play.

Basically, it’s the same, except you ask your partner “May I” before every seductive act you do on them, starting with undressing them, to foreplay, to sex.

Why do it?  Well, asking permission is important, especially when it comes to acts of sex.  Plus, if your partner is not into a certain thing, they can say, “No, but I’d like you to do this instead…”  And, this helps you learn to know what they like and what turns them on.  Plus, its fun!

Okay, lover boy. Lots of sexy ideas for you today that you can practise at home.  Don’t forget to do your homework, now!

Until next time, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

PS. If you also want to keep your erection all night long, click here to check my “Unbreakable Erections” program. 

It can be easy to let massage slip through the cracks as a part of good sex when you have been in a relationship for a while. However, giving your partner a massage can be an incredible erotic and sensual experience for both of you. It can be an amazing expression of intimacy and can show your significant other that you are in tune with their body.
You don’t have to be a licensed massage therapist to give your sweetie a massage that will leave her feeling relaxed and in the mood for hot sex. With a little imagination and planning you can give her an experience he will never forget.

Take Inventory

There are several things you can use during a good massage. Some may already be in your house. Start with good massage oil. Baby oil will do in a pinch but look for something scented that is not so messy. For example, lavender is good for relaxation. Be sure to put it in a cup of warm water to heat it up. Set the scene with lit candles, clean sheets and slow music. Have a towel close by so you can wipe your hands if you need to. Think outside the box and use a feather or some massage mitts that give different tactile sensations.

When She Least Expects It

Go for the element of surprise. Don’t wait until it is time for bed. Surprise her when she comes home from work. Most women are thinking of the chores they have to do around the house after work and couples who have been together for a while tend to get into a routine. Breaking the routine can really shake things up sexually and giving her an erotic massage will go a long way to show her you understand how hard she works and that you are willing to do what it takes to give her pleasure. Get everything you need together and have it in the bedroom on the nightstand so it is within easy reach. Open a bottle of wine and greet her at the door with a glass.

Start Slowly

When she comes in and the shock wears off, take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom. Spend some time kissing her and whispering in her ear. Tell her that night is all about her. Slowly and deliberately undress her. A lot of men don’t know this but women like to be undressed by their lover and that is something that often falls by the wayside after a while.

Have her lie down on her stomach and start by rubbing your fingers through her hair and give her a scalp massage. This actually feels incredible. Put some warm oil on your hands and start on her neck and slowly work your way down. Remember the skin is the largest sex organ on the body so erogenous zones are all over, not just in between your legs.
Play with her and tease her with your touch. Rub your hands all over her body. Tickle him with your beard stubble or a feather.

Bottom’s Up

Don’t neglect her ass. Give her ass a good rub and deep massage and run your fingers lightly down in between her butt cheeks. Drizzle some more warm oil on her bottom and apply massage pressure in slow circles lightly and then harder releasing all the muscle tension as you work. Go all the way down to her feet and then have her turn over on her back.
Time for the Flip Side
Once on her back lightly caress her face and kiss her lips. Go all the way down each arm and massage and caress each hand.
It is Not All in What She Sees
To make it even more sensual, put a blindfold on her. By taking away what she sees, her body will have to use her other senses to an even higher degree. Take advantage of her sense of hearing by using erotic talk and her sense of touch with all the different tactile sensations you can think of that she might like.
Save the Best for Last
As you work your way down her body, don’t touch her vulva. Not just yet. The more you touch her everywhere else the more aroused she will become. Tease her. Flirt with her. Touch her clitoris just a little bit then stop. Kiss and touch her inner thighs and work your way down massaging her legs.
When you have massaged her entire body, and she is breathing heavily with anticipation, it is time to pay some attention to her genitals. Gently stroke her clitoris with one hand and her vagina with the other, slowly at first and then faster. Let her reaction be your guide. Bring her closer and closer to orgasm until she can’t take it anymore.
Erotic massage should be erotic but is should also be fun. Use this as an opportunity to show your sensual side. Remember that you don’t have to be a professional to give a good massage. Confidence in what you are doing can be the biggest turn on. Take a leap of faith and know that you will both enjoy such an erotic experience.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you want to also learn more about Oral Sex, click here. 

When you and your lady get frisky, it makes sense to reach for some pretty obvious body parts. But those tried-and-true areas of your anatomy aren’t the only places that can get you hot and bothered. Try playing with these six lesser-known zones – and have fun looking for a few unique new pleasure points of your own, too.

Sacrum (on her)

Why it’s hot: The vertebrae in the small of your partner’s back (right above her buttocks) contain sacral nerves, which shoot straight to your genitals. In fact, electric stimulation of this nerve will trigger an orgasm in91 percent of women, according to studies. Try this: Have her lie on her stomach and press on the sacrum with your palm, or give it a gentle karate chop-style massage. This will stimulate the sacral nerves and build heat in the genitals.

Nipples (on you)

Why it’s hot: Your partner’s nipples probably get plenty of attention and action. But yours can be very hot spots, too: They contain just as many nerve endings as hers do. Try this: Tell your partner to start off by lightly stroking the area with her fingertips. If that gets rave reviews, she should try upping the intensity with a gentle pinch or playful tug.

Big toe (on her)

Why it’s hot: Ever noticed how your partner’s toes twitch when she’s hitting a high note (hence the term toe curling orgasm)? That’s because there’s a direct neurological link between her privates and her little piggies – especially the biggie. What’s more, you can work this reflex in the other direction: stimulating the big toe can actually trigger an orgasm in some women. Try this: Of course, you can take her toes into your mouth – a classic bedroom move. Or you can gently pinch the sides of her big toe and roll it between your fingers. This activates reflexology pathways connected to her genitals.

Soles of the feet (on you)

Why it’s hot: Women aren’t the only ones packing pleasure potential in their feet – you do, too. According to a plethora of studies, the soles are the masculine sweet spot. Try this: Your partner should aim for an acupressure point on the bottom on your foot, about one third of the way down from the third toe. This is nicknamed the Bubbling Spring since pressing here and holding for a few seconds can cause energy to bubble up from the legs to the genitals. Or she can simply try lightly brushing the soles of your feet.

Navel (on her)

Why it’s hot: Her navel and her clitoris have a lot in common: in the womb, these two regions grow from the same tissue, linking them neurologically in adulthood. In fact, if you stick your finger in her belly button, your partner may sense it in her genitals. Try this: Use your tongue and fingers to delve into this indentation. If that’s too intense, caress or kiss your way two to three inches southward. You’ll hit three acupressure points, called the Sea of Energy, which are linked to sexual pleasure as well as fertility.

Nose (on you and her)

Why it’s hot: Next to your kisser, your sniffer contains more nerve endings than any other part of your face. Plus, your nasal passages contain erectile tissue that expands when aroused, further increasing circulation and sensitivity. Stimulating this area can even lead to honeymoon sinusitis, in which canoodling couples come down with cases of nasal congestion. Try this: Nibble on the tips of each other’s nose. The cartilage here is receptive to heavier stimulation like this. Or rub noses in an Eskimo kiss. You and your honey may come down with honeymoon sinusitis everywhere – but hey, who’s complaining?

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. To learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Vagina Masterclass.

Sensual massage is a perfect way to indulge in the sense of touch. It is also a very effective way to build arousal, whether you are giving or receiving the massage. The use of oil or lotion lightly stroked across your lover’s sensuous bare skin is almost guaranteed to get her juices flowing. Sensual massage will help your lover relax and feel good in her body. It will also help her feel loved and cared for. You don’t need to be a professional to make your lover feel good. In fact, you have the benefit of being her lover, which means you are in the position to make her feel really good.

And you know what else makes her feel good? A good breast massage that can lead to a firework or orgasms. Check out my program – Breast Play Secrets – to learn about the right ways to shower her girls with tireless attention. Yes, you can make her come by doing just this, with no vaginal penetration whatsoever.

What You’ll Need

To give a full body massage to your lover, you will need a flat, comfortable surface — like the floor or a bed — a sheet or towel, some massage oil or lotion, and a pillow or rolled up towel.

Preparing for the Massage

Make sure you prepare time before the massage to adequately heat the space. If you have a fireplace or woodstove, light a fire to eat up the space and create a cozy atmosphere. Otherwise set the thermostat to anywhere between 75° and 85°F. Light some candles and put some nice relaxing music on. Heat up the massage oil and lotion by setting the bottles in some hot water.

Check in with your lover

Before you start the massage, check in with your lover about any sore or tight areas in her body that you can send some love to. Find out how much pressure your lover prefers. Once you have checked in, have your lover start by lying face down on the bed or floor. Place a pillow, bolster, or rolled up towel under her ankles.

Start with Light Caressing

To begin, lightly caress your lover’s entire body. Alternate between using your whole hand and just your fingertips. Start with the back and the arms. Then move down to include both legs and feet.

Begin the Oil or Lotion Massage

To begin using lubrication, place about a tablespoon of warm oil or lotion in your hand. Then rub your hands together to allow the oil to coat the entire surface of both palms. Kneeling or standing at her head, bring both hands gently down onto either side of her spine, and use soft, broad, flowing strokes to move from the top of her back to the small of her back. Then glide your hands across the small of her back, over her hips. For your return stroke, pull your palms up the sides of her body, gliding underneath her armpits and across her shoulder blades to the base of her neck. Additionally, you can stroke down along the top of her shoulders and then back up to the neck. Repeat these strokes many times, improvising on the pattern if you wish.

You can gradually begin to extend your stroke to cover the buttocks and up the sides of the hips. The return stroke can extend over the shoulders and down the arms. Keep the flow going, changing directions seamlessly, eventually covering every inch of your lover’s body. Add oil or lotion as needed to keep your hands gliding nicely over her skin. Make sure your hands remain in full contact with your partner’s skin during these strokes, molding them to her body in a relaxed manner. Keep the pace slow and occasionally check in with her about the both the pace and the pressure.

When you are ready, move down to the legs. First apply the oil with gentle strokes. Then, starting at the ankle, glide over the calf, across the back of the knee, up the hamstrings, and over the buttocks. In the same stroke, continue all the way up the side of the back, over the shoulder and down the arm on the same side. This long stroke connects the whole body and helps keep the energy flowing. You can do this stroke many times and occasionally work smaller sections by gliding back and forth over the skin in rhythmic, wave-like patterns. Repeat this stroke on the other side. Remember to keep your hands relaxed, the pace slow and sensual, and the pressure to your lover’s liking.

The Front of the Body

Once you have worked the left and right sides of the back of your lover’s body, gently ask your lover to turn over onto her back in order to massage the front of her body. You can begin by lightly caressing all over the front of her body, as you did on her backside. When you are ready to move on, put another tablespoon of oil onto your hands and begin at the ankle of one leg, gliding over the shin and knee and across the top of the thigh. When you get to the top of the leg crease, swoop your hands to either side of the thigh, and come back down the sides of the leg, all the way to the ankle. Repeat this stroke, making sure to touch all parts of the leg, keeping the pressure light and the strokes flowing and sensual. Repeat these strokes on the other leg.

Once you have massaged both legs, stand or kneel by the top of your lover’s head. Rub some oil into your hands. Then, starting at the top of her chest, gently apply the oil to her torso. Stroke down across the chest, breasts, and abdomen, out to either side. Let your return stroke come up the sides, underneath the armpits, up over the chest, and out the tops of the shoulders. Repeat this stroke many times, making it as slow and delicious as you possibly can. Gradually extend this stroke by gliding from the shoulders all the way down the arms and back up to the neck. Cover as much of her torso as you can.

Stay Present

Throughout the massage, remember to keep checking in with your lover about the pressure and the pace. Keep your touch relatively light, smooth, and flowing. Allow yourself to get turned on while giving the massage. Bring your sexual energy into it, but don’t let it override your primary focus of providing a slow sensual experience for your lover. Help her relax and deepen into the pleasure without any feeling of pressure to take care of your needs. Even if she starts to get really turned on, patiently maintain the slow and sensual quality of the massage. She may start to writhe in erotic pleasure underneath your hands or she may deepen her relaxation. Either way, maintain a sensual tone with your touch.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Massage really helps you build a lot of sexual tension and a sense of juicy anticipation. And the right kind of massage on the right part of her body can really do wonders. Check my program Vagina Masterclass to ensure you become a sex master. 

Imagine this: You’ve arranged two pillows lengthwise on the bed, end to end. You’ve guided your sweetheart onto them, and now she’s relaxing there, her rear end elevated, her legs spread to either side of the pillows. She’s feeling helpless to resists your advances. She wants to feel helpless. She’s always yearned to offer her backside to a man who knows what he’s doing and sink further and further into blissful pleasure. Completely letting go, as the man pleasured her from the rear. You’re feeling like you have the whole world at your feet. It’s a power you’ve longed for, but do you know what to do at this point? If not, let me give you a helping hand. 

For more information on making your woman climax and giving her unspeakable pleasure, check out my friend Susan Bratton’s program, Orgasmic Breasts. It contains a technique of boob massage that’s positively radiant and ecstasy-inducing. 

Positioned for success

Arrange your lover as described above. Put a pillow under her head so she can comfortably lie on her stomach. If she has neck problems and doesn’t like her head turned to the side for extended periods, arrange the pillow so that her forehead is supported by the pillow and she’s looking straight down toward the bed. Spend time massaging your lover’s inner and outer thighs and the backs of her legs, using lots of warm massage oil and running your hands from her knees up to her buttocks. Use long, slow strokes. 

Now gently massage her rear end. Take a cheek in each hand. As you move the left cheek up toward her head, move the right cheek down toward her feet. Then pull the left cheek down and push the right cheek up. 

Continue this up and down motion for a minute. Use your fingers to make small circles, massaging the flesh beneath them with gentle circular motions. Every so often let the outer edge of your hand (the side you’d use to land a karate chop) slide into the crack between her cheeks and slide your hand up and down, massaging her anus. 

Slip’n Slide

Spend five to ten minutes massaging your lover’s legs and rear end. Then switch from oil to lubricant. Warm it in the microwave for ten to fifteen seconds, testing it on your wrists to make sure it’s the right temperature. Now turn the bottle facing down and squeeze hard, sending a stream of lubricant cascading down into her rear ravine, until the heated lube flows down over her vagina, soaking it.

Deep cover

Liberally lubricate your right thumb. Position yourself on your knees, so you’re above your lover’s left pelvis. Drape your left arm over her at the waistline, and pull her right hip toward you. Let her know she’s supported. She’s not going anywhere, so she can relax into your powerful prodding. 

Now poise your right thumb at the entrance to your lover’s vagina. Tell her you’re about to enter. After waiting a few seconds to build anticipation, gently slip your thumb in, letting it slide over the first third of her G-spot. Slowly and deliberately, start stroking her G-spot with the pad of your thumb. Every four or five strokes let it sink in a little deeper. The shape of your thumb will allow you to easily massage this area. Establish a nice steady rhythm, and then let your index and third fingers begin to slide on either side of her clitoral hood, with your middle finger rubbing her Butterfly Spot. Continue like this, keeping communication open, making mid-course corrections as necessary, until your lover sinks into an orgasm. Repeat, repeat, with variations in your strokes as necessary. 

For women into hard and fast penetration (there are not as many of them as you might think), this position is perfect for plunging your thumb in and out in a piston-like rhythm: Squeeze her pelvis into you with your left arm to stabilize it and stroke hard and fast, the pad of your thumb pressing into her G-spot with every stroke.

Varied menu

Some variations to try with doggie style vaginal massage: 

• Slip a small butt plug (or a small vibrating butt plug) into your woman’s dainty pink hole before inserting your thumb into her vagina. The plug will increase the pressure of your thumb on her G-spot.
• Ask your woman to come up onto all fours and push her rear backward. Gently push your thumb all the way into her until you reach the back wall of her vagina. There you’ll find a hard mound about three quarters the size of a golf ball. This is your lover’s cervix, the entrance to her uterus. Use the pad of your thumb to stroke up and down. 
• When you massage your lover’s cervix, go gently, and ask her repeatedly if what you’re doing feels good. Once you are using your thumb to stroke this buried treasure with soft up and down strokes, use the fingers of the same hand to massage her clitoris in rhythm. So as your thumb strokes up from the top of her cervix toward the bottom of her vagina (from the front of her body to the back, toward you), your fingers slide up her clitoris toward her mons pubis. As your thumb strokes up, your fingers slide down.
• This is an excellent bondage position. Once your lover is lying on her stomach and her head is supported, tie her spread-eagle to the bed and let your thumb swan dive into her helpless wetness. 

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Combine this doggie style vaginal massage with my Vagina Masterclass…

Quick question: are you using massage to prepare the body for the act of love, without focusing on the sexual organs? You’re missing out big time! Sure, these kind of sensual massages have their purpose as well: they stimulate the flow of energy through the body and concentrate it in the sexual organs. But I’m going to teach you a true powerbomb in terms of erotic massage: this kind stimulates the genitals and produces intense pleasure for both the giver and the recipient.

And since we’re on this topic, do make sure you check out my Vagina Masterclass program. It’s filled with crucial information on how to better treat your lady’s vagina so that she only enjoys powerful orgasms from now on. 

Here’s what you have to do step-by-step:

Hair pulling. 

Superficially caress the pubic hair, and after a few seconds, take small handfuls and gently tug on them. Start at the top of the pubis and travel downward, bit by bit, until reaching the vulva.

Cycling around the labia minora

Using your fingertips, stroke the inner part of your partner’s thighs until reaching the perineum. From there, continue along the inner crease of one labia minora (between the labia minora, the vaginal opening, and urethra) until reaching the clitoris. Massage the skin that covers it in a circular motion, and descend down the outer crease (between the labia majora and minora) until reaching the perineum. Repeat the cycle going around the opposite labia minora. Remember that at all times the massage must be slow and soft without excessive force.

Pulling skin. 

Stroke the inner thighs and groin. Separate the outer labia and, using the index finger and thumb, pinch some of the skin and gently pull it upwards. Let it go at the last second. Start near the vaginal opening and keep going along the outer labia, and finish near the clitoris. Do this about six times. Repeat the massage along the opposite outer labia and then along both labia at the same time using both hands. Repeat the entire massage along the inner labia while always finishing at the skin covering the clitoris.

Circling over the clitoris

Use the tip of your index finger to rub the skin covering the clitoris in a clockwise direction and then in the opposite direction. Do about twelve circles in each direction, varying the amount of pressure at random. Next, place your middle finger under the clitoris so that the hood covering it rests above your finger. Rhythmically move the finger up and down while covering and uncovering the clitoris as you drag the skin along. You must use light pressure during this massage. Remember that it is very important to be completely relaxed during this massage in order to find the clitoris. If there is no lubrication, you will not be able to drag the skin back to uncover the clitoris. Continue with the vertical movements along the clitoris and the skin while lightly increasing the pressure and the rhythm.

Stroking the vaginal opening. 

Move the tip of your middle finger in a circle around the vaginal opening. Next, gently introduce the finger into the vagina and exert pressure on the opening as you remove it. Practice inserting and withdrawing the finger while applying pressure to a different part of the vagina each time.

Opening the tripod. 

Press down on the center of the perineum using your pinky finger, and insert your index, middle, and ring finger in the vagina up to the third phalange. While pressing the perineum, separate your three fingers and press them up against the walls of the vagina. Keep applying pressure for a few seconds and then relax. Repeat this cycle ten times.

Removing the honey. 

Insert your middle finger deep into the vagina and move it in clockwise circles while pressing the walls of the vagina. You can place your thumb on the clitoris, but keep your fingernail from touching and possibly harming it. Next, keep massaging in circles going the opposite direction. Make ten circles in each direction.

Pressing the G-spot. 

During this massage, we will locate the woman’s famous pleasure point: the G-spot. Insert your middle finger up to the first phalange and rub it against the anterior wall of the vagina (behind which is the bladder). Move it up and down using minimal displacement and applying deep pressure for three minutes.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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