Welcome to the 3rd and final installation of my erogenous zone series! If you haven’t already, check out part one and two. They both include titillating and unknown erogenous zones and how to best stimulate them.

Without further ado, let’s get to that final list of erogenous zones:

Behind the Knees – Sounds weird, right? But that’s kind of the point of this whole series. These are the truly unknown erogenous zones. The skin on the back of the knees is very sensitive and might even feel ticklish. You can stimulate it by kissing it gently or even massaging the area with lotion or oil.
The Feet – There are an incredible number of sensory nerves in the brain that are connected to the skin on our feet. Who knew? What starts out as a thoughtful foot rub after a long day can turn into sexy foreplay if done the right way. Make sure her feet are nice and clean because there will be toe sucking to come. Washing her feet can also be erotic and relaxing for her. Start there. You can use a massage oil or lotion to rub her feet if you want a really smooth touch. Toe sucking is recommended. Start by gently squeezing or pinching her toes and then move into sucking. The pinching will build sexual anticipation and the sucking will take her over the edge. Some women have even orgasmed from toe sucking!
The Mons Pubis – When you’re ready to finally move onto the genital area you can start by stimulating the mons. If you’re not sure where this is, the mons is the fleshy area just above her genitals (think the area that is covered in pubic hair shaped like a V). Lightly caressing or massaging this area will really start to get her excited. You’re coming dangerously close to her clitoris and stimulating this area might even begin moving and pulling at the skin surrounding the clitoris. This is the perfect start to light stimulation in the ultra-sensitive clitoral zone.
The Clitoris – Yay! You’ve made it to the clitoris. Every girl’s favorite body part. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings and scientists are still quite stumped as to why it exists, other than to provide a woman with sexual pleasure. Other than that, we haven’t been able to discover a “use” for it. But ask any woman and I’ll guarantee you that she’s finds it pretty damn useful! You hopefully already know a bit about stimulating this area so I will just highlight a few key tips. First, it’s important to tread lightly with the clitoris. It’s very, very sensitive and stimulating it to much or too hard can be very uncomfortable for a woman and a total turn off. Try stimulating the area surrounding the clitoris for a while before moving in. Oral sex is best or you can stimulate manually with your hand, but use lubricant, as it feels much better than dry rubbing. And go slow, women don’t like hard and fast when it comes to this area.

I hope that you’ve found my guide to the erogenous zones useful. When incorporating them into your sexual routine, remember that you don’t need to stimulate every area, every time you have sex, but instead try to think of using a few different erogenous zones each time during foreplay and sex. Do what makes sense. Doing a sexy, erotic massage? Incorporate her scalp, neck, back, shoulders, and maybe even the back of the knees and feet. The biggest erogenous zone a woman has is the skin itself. Even lightly trailing your fingers across her skin can feel amazing and be a huge turn on.
Have fun playing,
Gabrielle Moore

PS. I’d love to hear how you’ve incorporated the erogenous zones into your sexual routine. Leave me a comment below and tell me all about it.

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Hello Lover. Welcome back to my latest article about female orgasms. The “female orgasm” is one of my favorite topics, because at one time, orgasms were elusive to me. But, once I found out how to achieve orgasm I made it my mission to teach men, women and couples all over the world how to do it as well.

The Facts

• Anorgasmia is an inability to reach orgasm and occurs in about 10% of women.
• 70% of women can only reach orgasm via clitoral stimulation and cannot reach orgasm via intercourse unless they have extra stimulation.
• Some women have orgasms, but they are less powerful than the mind-blowing ones we read about, so they are not even aware they have them.

The Obstacles

Anatomy

The female sexual anatomy is very different from a man’s. It is hidden away under the labia, and the clitoris (what you can see of it) is very small. This means that many women don’t intuitively know how to pleasure themselves, or learn how to masturbate at a young age like men do. So, their own lack of knowledge about their own body may stop them from learning what type of stimulation they need to reach orgasm.

The Fix

Women need to learn to masturbate and explore their sexual pleasure more. This is how she learns what type of stimulation gives her pleasure and leads her to orgasm, and, in turn, can guide her partner so he too learns what turns her on. In the past, many women were ashamed to masturbate and were told it was dirty. This terrible lie has stopped women from enjoying sex and sexual pleasure for centuries. Well, it’s time to put an end to that!

Sex, pleasure and orgasms are natural and healthy. Women need to reclaim their right to enjoy sexual pleasure and give themselves permission to become orgasmic.

It is not up to you to give her an orgasm. We are all responsible for our orgasms and sexual pleasure.

Things you can do to help include encouraging her to explore her own body and pleasure both solo and with you. Couples can learn a lot by practicing mutual masturbation together and its fun! Also, communicating about any sexual issues, guilt, as well as what turns us on is essential to a great sexual relationship. Ask her to tell you what feels good or what doesn’t during sex, and learn to become her expert lover as you explore together.

The Brain

The brain is the most significant sexual organ and is responsible for desire. There may be many obstacles that prevent her from feeling desire. This includes her self-confidence and how she feels about her body image. When a woman feels sexy, she can get turned on much more easily. Also, many women think too much during sex and stay in their heads, rather than focusing on the sensations of arousal and being present in her body. And, finally, she may be stressed out, worried, fatigued or have negative emotions about your relationship. All these things can interfere with a woman’s level of arousal and her ability to let go during sex and enjoy pleasure.

The Fix

Compliment her about her physical appearance and encourage her to “be” sexy. Buy her some sexy lingerie (or shop for it together!). Treat her to a spa experience or a make-over. Tell her how sexy she is and how much she turns you on, be authentic about it, and over time she will become more sexually self-confident, be able to appreciate her body better and feel more sexually empowered.

Help her to relax. Give her a bath, a sensual massage, pamper her and get her to relax. Plan a date night together so she doesn’t have anything else to think or worry about. During foreplay and sex, encourage her to focus on the sensations in her body. Again, tell her how sexy she is and how she is turning you on, how much seeing and feeling her orgasm really gets you off. The more relaxed and safe she feels, the easier it will be for her to get out of her mind and surrender to ecstasy.

Arousal

Often, we don’t feel desire to have sex unless we have been aroused physically first. So, once the body becomes aroused, desire will follow.

It usually takes women much longer to become physically aroused. We saw many reasons for that above. Often, sex for couples, ends with the man ejaculating. But, the woman may be just beginning to feel strong arousal at that point.

The Fix

Take your time to arousal her with lots of foreplay. Arouse her body and her mind. Make foreplay an important part of the sexual process, and not just a warm up. Explore all her erogenous zones starting at her head, face and neck with whisper strokes of your fingers, soft kisses and nibbles, and passionate kisses. Then work your way down her body until she is writhing with desire and orgasm is her only relief.

Try different types of arousal and sex and don’t stick to a regular routine. Spice up your sex life by talking about your sexy bucket list (sexual things you’d like to try together) and then start experimenting.

Start foreplay 24 hours ahead of the event. If you know you have a date night planned, start saying sexy things to her during the day and night beforehand. Leave her sexy notes. Compliment her on how sexy she looks. Give her quick passionate embraces and kisses. Smack her butt playfully, be intimate with her whenever you get the chance. All of this will get her turned on in her mind, so by the time date night comes, she is already half the way there. In fact, practice sensual foreplay whenever you can, and she will be much more willing to have sex with you any time and not just for date nights. Wink! Wink!

I believe every woman has the potential to become orgasmic and to enjoy sexual pleasure. So, nurture her and encourage her to open up that bud of desire and watch her flower into the beautiful blossom of sexual radiance that is possible for her.

With love and pleasure!

Gabrielle Moore

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Hey fellas!

I hope you have your learning caps on today because we are going to learn about the 3 most important zones on the female body. These zones, if stimulated correctly, will give your lover the most exquisite pleasure and mind-blowing, body-quaking orgasms she has ever experienced in her life.

Are you ready? Great!

Specific Erogenous Zones

On the female body there are nonspecific erogenous zones which I have written about here,  here  and here. There are also specific erogenous zones which are all hidden away within the female genitalia which include the clitoris, the G-spot, the U-spot, the A-spot and the PS-spot. Specific erogenous zones can be very orgasmic and are all closely interconnected and associated with the sexual response in women.

The Treasure Map of Erotic Zones

External Zones

Within the folds of the Vulva, we find the first two pleasure zones like two peas in a pod: the Clitoris or C-spot, and the U-spot. I am going to assume that you know lots about the clitoris which is connected to all the other specific erogenous zones. So today, we are going to focus on the U-spot.

The U-spot

The U-spot is a sensitive rim of tissue that circles the urethra opening like an upside-down U. It was only recently discovered, but when stimulated correctly can create powerful orgasms and is partly responsible for female ejaculation.

This skin around the U-spot can be very sensitive once a woman becomes sexually aroused. The U-spot is connected to the erectile tissue of the female prostate and the Skene’s glans, so stimulating this area can result in female ejaculation, so be prepared if this happens.

How to Turn it On

The U-spot loves oral sex. But, first, your sweetheart needs to be very aroused before you explore there, because it can get irritated if she is not already super turned on. So, lots of foreplay and clitoral stimulation should come first.

Once she is aroused, begin licking her like a sweet ice cream cone from the vaginal opening towards the clitoris, nice and slow. Next, lick in between the clitoris and U-spot, varying the direction of strokes, up and down and side to side. Now, focus very softly and wetly on the U-spot licking the little ridge above it in small half-circles. You can also softly suck on it and vary these techniques.

A-spot stimulation is best pared with G-spot stimulation and often results in explosive female ejaculation and orgasm.

Internal Zones

Within the Vagina there are three more secret hot spots. The first is the G-spot, which many people have been “gushing” about. We have a whole section dedicated to G-spot orgasms, so today we will focus on the A-spot (or Deep Spot) and the PS-spot.

The A-spot

The A-spot is part of the AFE zone, which encompasses both the anterior and posterior fornix. These two spots mirror each other on either side of the cervix at the very back of the vagina. The A-spot is located on the belly side just below the bladder, while its twin (the P-spot) is next to the anus. The doctor who discovered it claims that when properly stimulated, it can produce multiple orgasms and make the vagina gush with fluids.

The A-spot is about 3 ½ to 4 ½ inches in depth or as deep as your middle finger can reach at the back of the vagina, on the top wall (or the belly side). There, you should feel a smooth ridge and groove, like the edge of a Frisbee that is encircles the cervix. The cervix protrudes a little so try to avoid touching it as it may cause discomfort. Many sexologists think the A-spot may be the end of the G-spot, so stimulating the two together can have explosive orgasmic results.

How to Turn it On

The A-spot can be stimulated during deep vaginal intercourse, or by using the fingers or a long G-spot type toy. With fingers, you stimulate it much like you do the G-spot with a come hither stroke, pressing into the valley and then using the pad of your finger to pull backwards towards the ridge as if you are scooping out the area.

As you continue to use this stroke the vagina will begin to balloon out from muscular contractions, thrusting the cervix so it tilts back, and lengthening the vaginal canal, thus exposing the A-spot pleasure zone even better. At this point your partner may get very wet inside. If this happens, super!—you have found the right place so keep going!

The PS-spot

The PS in PS-spot stands for perineal sponge. It lies within the vagina just beneath the perineum (the diamond shaped tissue between the vagina and anus). It is located internally on the back wall of the vagina, opposite the G-spot, but only about a ½ an inch depth.

How to Turn it On

The PS-spot can be pleasured by stimulating the perineum from the outside, or internally via the vagina or anus during penetration. It can be tickled, stroked, licked, sucked and massaged as well for various types of pleasure.

With your fingers you can tickle the outside perineum with your fingertips in soft, feathery strokes combined with oral stimulation of the clitoris. Next, insert one or two fingers into the vagina with your thumb on the outside and gently pinch the skin of the perineum between your fingers. Also try gently tugging and pressing down on the back (anus side) wall. Try various types of strokes to see what she likes best.

The PS-spot can also be stimulated via intercourse by way of the vagina or anus. Basically any pressure that stimulates that area will arouse the PS-spot. With anal sex, you can combine G-spot and PS-spot stimulation simultaneously, by pressing the head of the penis on an angle so it hits the G-spot through the PS-spot. This technique creates deep, full bodied orgasms for women.

All the Spots!

Now that you know where all her hot secret spots are, try combining stimulation to two or more spots at the same time, using your fingers, tongue and other types of sexy play! She will be amazed at your ability to play her like a magnificent symphony, with her orgasm the powerful climax that ends in ecstasy.

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“I think that I shall never see a poem as lovely as a hot-gushing, butt-cramping, gut hosing orgasm.” ? Chuck Palahniuk

Did you know that the majority of women don’t orgasm from sexual intercourse alone? Did you also know that most women have only clitoral orgasms, that is, if they orgasm at all? Don’t get me wrong, boys, I’m not saying that an orgasm is the end-all-be-all of female sexuality. You should all know by now that us women are complicated creatures. We don’t NEED an orgasm to enjoy sex, but it sure doesn’t hurt! The Holy Grail of female orgasms is the G spot orgasm. Many women have fantasized about it, but few have successfully achieved it. Just think about it, what if you knew that there was another kind of male orgasm out there? One that felt different than the one you usually experience. Not necessarily better, but more intense and just… different. Don’t tell me that you wouldn’t be dying to experience it. Well, you can do that for your partner.

I know you’re eager to dive right in, but as with most things in the bedroom, slow and steady wins the race. Before we delve into how to give her a G spot orgasm, let’s cover some basics.   

Where Is the G Spot?

The key to giving a G spot orgasm is, well, finding it first. Some people may think it’s a myth, but once you find the G spot, there won’t be a doubt in your mind — or hers! 

The G spot, or Gräfenberg spot (so-named because it was identified by German physician Ernst Gräfenberg), is a highly sensitive erogenous zone inside the frontal wall of vagina. It is thought to be physically linked to the clitoris as part of the clitoral network, a U-shaped collection of nerve endings that reaches from the clitoris into the vaginal wall. One study described this structure as having properties similar to that of erectile tissue in men, which may explain why the G spot orgasm is known to be so intense. 

So sure, now you know what it is and where it’s located, but men are generally visual creatures. You may be wondering: what does the G spot look like? This isn’t an easy question to answer, but it’s about the size of a nickel and typically resembles the vaginal tissue surrounding it. When stimulated, this small area can swell, making it easier to identify and easier to stimulate!

The Power of the G Spot Orgasm

Remember what I was saying earlier about women not having enough orgasms? Studies have shown that a whopping 81% of women don’t have an orgasm from intercourse alone. While clitoral stimulation is always a safe bet, why not take things to a new level by finding the G spot? 

G spot orgasms have been described as being incredibly powerful and lasting longer than traditional clitoral orgasms. Talk about best of both worlds, right? A small percentage of women even experience female ejaculation during a G spot orgasm. This occurs when the Skene’s glands, located near the G spot, release accumulated fluid (meant to lubricate the urethra). 

It’s important to note that even if you know how to stimulate the G spot, there’s no guarantee that an orgasm will happen every time or for every woman. Just like every woman is unique, so is what turns her on and what she likes in the bedroom. While women have the same basic anatomy, everyone reacts differently to various types of stimulation and experiences different levels of arousal. 

Proper G spot play can produce intense sensations, especially when paired with ample foreplay and clitoral stimulation. But for some women, G spot fingering may just not be their thing. Some women experience discomfort or pressure — particularly if they’re not accustomed to G spot stimulation — while others find it highly pleasurable and experience intense orgasms. But it’s not all on her — you need to learn how to finger the G spot properly, as being too rough or poking around with no clue what you’re doing can cause pain and discomfort for her. 

How to Give Her a G Spot Orgasm

Do you want to be one of the few men out there that can find and deliver on an earth shattering G spot orgasm? I’m guessing that you do! Here are my 3 steps to getting her there…

Step 1 – Make Her Spot POP!

First you need to know what you’re looking for. Most men fail in finding the G spot to begin with because of one key point. The woman must be extremely aroused in order for the G spot to easily located. The G spot is made up of erectile tissue (like your penis) and is found inside her vaginal wall. If she’s not turned on then it won’t fill with blood and enlarge, making it easier to find. So, first things first, you have to get her excited… very excited. Spend some time on foreplay here and don’t rush through it. Kiss her passionately. Tantalize her erogenous zones. You might be dying to get right to her genitals and find that spot, but remember that you need to get her extremely hot first. Women love a bit of teasing and anticipation. Men tend to want to rush right through sex and foreplay, whereas women enjoy it much more when a man really takes his time and makes her want it. What’s a surefire way to know if she is super turned on? Is she wet? Is she pushing her pelvis up towards you, seeming to beg for more? If your answer is yes, then it’s time to go searching for that G spot.

Step 2 – What? Where?!

The G spot is located on the inner, front vaginal wall (if your fingers are inside her then it would be located in the flesh between your fingers and the front of her body). Insert your pointer finger so that you are able to crook your finger and stimulate the inner wall. The G spot should be located anywhere from about 2 knuckles deep to a full finger deep. The location varies from woman to woman, so you have to do a bit of searching, but once you have found it on your partner, you won’t forget. The spot is a small spongy feeling, oval shaped area that ranges from the size of a dime to a quarter. It will feel slightly rough or ridged to the touch.

Step 3 – How do I work this thing?

Remember to always use lubrication. Even though your partner is going to be turned on and wet by the time you start working her G spot, a woman only produces so much vaginal lubrication. Sex feels better when it’s wet and wild, so don’t forget to have lube handy.
Insert your finger and locate the G spot. Crook your finger in a “come here” motion and firmly slide your finger over the G spot repeatedly. Unlike the clitoris, which is ultra-sensitive to touch and needs gentle stimulation, the G spot responds best to firm stimulation. Also try firmly tapping the spot with your finger. Each tap will feel like you’re stimulating the G spot for the first time all over again. Then try swirling your finger around firmly in a circular or figure 8 motion.
Check in with your partner. G spot sensations might feel strange and unfamiliar at first. Some women feel like they need to pee when their G spot is stimulated. It’s best to let your partner know you’re planning to stimulate her G spot so that she can go to the bathroom beforehand. Even though she might still feel that urge to pee, she can rest easy knowing that her bladder is empty.
Experiment with different speeds, vary the amount of pressure you’re giving the spot, and change up how you stimulate it. Doing the same movement over and over might just make her numb. Variety is the spice of life!
Keep going until she has a powerful G spot orgasm! Keep in mind that it might not happen the first few times you try it. You can start by doing G spot stimulation by itself and then combine it with oral sex for a really mind blowing orgasm.
Best Sex Positions for a G Spot Orgasm

Don’t be fooled into thinking you can only hit the G spot with your fingers! While this may be one route to a G spot orgasm, this type of stimulation can also occur through sexual penetration. Often, finding the right position is key. And while the best position will depend on how your and your partner’s bodies work together and what you both like, a few specific positions are more likely to set the stage for G spot stimulation.

You don’t really need to know how to find the G spot by feel during intercourse — if you get the right angle and rhythm, there’s a good chance you’ll hit the spot naturally. So which positions should you explore if you’re looking to target the G spot on women?

Doggie Style

This classic position isn’t just daring and sexy, it’s also a great way to stimulate the G spot from behind. The beauty of this particular position is that it allows for deeper penetration and unique angle variations, allowing for fun and G spot stimulation. Try different angles in this position till you find the right spot! 

Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl

Let her take control in this position and guide you towards the G spot. When she’s on top, she can sense where you are in relation to the G spot and angle her body to make sure you hit it right on the mark! Try both cowgirl (where she’s facing you) and reverse cowgirl (where she faces away) and see which one she likes best. 

Closed-Leg Missionary

I know, missionary isn’t the sexiest position, but don’t skip over this section just yet! This is a unique spin on the classic missionary position that can help you give her an earth-shattering G spot orgams. Typically, missionary involves her spreading her legs wider to accommodate deeper penetration. In closed missionary, have her close her legs while you straddle her during penetration, creating a shallower thrust and greater pressure and friction within the vagina. 

Finding and stimulating the G spot in the right way is going to take some time and dedication on your part. Don’t be frustrated if she doesn’t have a G spot orgasm right away. There is a reason why G spot orgasms are rare and special. They might not come easily for everyone, but they sure do pay off!

Happy hunting, boys!
Gabrielle Moore

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I’m always surprised to see that most men have the same basic questions that they want to know about women. When it comes down to it, we all just want to understand each other better. Sometimes the opposite sex can seem to be a complete mystery. WHY do they do that? Why don’t they do that? What is she thinking?? Does she like that? You all know I’m a huge advocate of healthy communication between couples, but sometimes it isn’t that simple. It’s not always easy to ask the questions you really want to know and it’s not always easy to find the right answers.

Lucky for you all, you have a sex expert that knows the questions that you really want to know the answers to. Today that’s what we’re going to discuss, those 3 sex secrets that you always wanted to know about, but never got the nerve to ask.

Why is it so hard for her to cum?

This is one of the big questions men struggle with. Women are completely different when it comes to orgasming. Whereas men generally orgasm without problems, many women can’t orgasm from sex alone (one study estimates about 80%!). If that weren’t bad enough, it’s also estimated that 1 in 3 women don’t orgasm at all.

The answer to why is a lot more complicated than just one straight answer. Women often don’t orgasm from intercourse alone because they might only have clitoral orgasms. This is easily resolvable – you can manually stimulate her clitoris during sex or use a small vibrator. If that doesn’t work then you might want part of your foreplay (or post-play) to be something that will give her an orgasm (like oral sex or mutual masturbation).

For those that have trouble orgasming in general it could be related to a few different things. 1) She could have be distracted by outside concerns and stress, 2) she could be overly focused on body image issues or concern about her performance, 3) she could be self conscious about letting herself go during sex, 4) she/you have not found the right combination of sensation to get her to that moment yet. While most men fear that the real reason she can’t come is because they aren’t doing something right, usually it’s a combination of factors. One thing is for sure, don’t pressure her to orgasm. If she is enjoying sex with you without it, then keep exploring new things together and just see what happens.

How can I get her to try new things in bed?

Maybe you have been reading all about fun and exciting things to try on Gabrielle Moore, but once you actually have the chance to do them with your partner she doesn’t seem to be interested. Sound familiar? Try this: Each of you should make a list of the things you want to try in bed and then switch lists. Agree to try at least one thing on the other person’s list. Remember to be reasonable, guys, don’t fill the list with things you know she absolutely doesn’t want to do. If you put something on there that is fun and sexy, but doesn’t push the her limits too much she is more likely to agree to it. If she has a good experience trying something new with you that’s still within her comfort zone, she is more likely to be open to stepping outside it the next time.

How can we lust for each other like we did when we first met?

You’re not the only one who has been up late nights mulling this one over. She has also probably wondered why you’re not hot for each other like you once were and how you can reignite that passion. First, rest assured that this is completely normal and it happens in every relationship. However, that doesn’t mean that you have to lay back and accept it without a fight. Plan special date nights once a week or as often as you can. Try to reinvent that old excited feeling by meeting at the restaurant like you did before you lived together. Rub her leg under the table. Cuddle, kiss and be affectionate. Have sex at different times of day and in different places than your norm. Plan a weekend getaway. Sleep naked. Finally make a sexual bucket list together and then work on checking things off the list one by one.

Now that you know a little bit more about your partner, walk over and give her a big sexy kiss!

Your fun-loving sexpert,
Gabrielle Moore

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You all know by now that women don’t cum as easily as men do. It’s likely been an issue that has frustrated you, either with your current partner or past partners. Keep in mind that different doesn’t always mean worse. Women might orgasm differently or not as easily as men, but you shouldn’t assume that means their experience isn’t as good as yours. I’ve decided to make a list of the top female orgasm myths today and let you in on the truth. Remember a man who is knowledgeable about the female body and how it works will be a much better lover.

1. MYTH – All women love G spot stimulation and want a G spot orgasm. This is a big one. The G spot orgasm gets a lot of attention from sex columns and books. It is often put up on a pedestal and thought of as the unattainable, but oh-so-desirable female orgasm. Here’s the catch, not all women enjoy G spot stimulation and not all of them even want a G spot orgasm. It’s logical when you think about it. Not all men like to have their nipples sucked or a finger in their bum, but some LOVE it! Well, of course, women are the same. Some women will absolutely love a G spot orgasm and others won’t. For some women G spot stimulation is uncomfortable, no matter how it’s done and no matter what technique is used. Many women feel the urge to pee when their G spot is stimulated and some find that unbearable. Other women have reported finding G spot stimulation painful. So if your partner tells you that G spot action is not for her, believe that she knows her own body well enough to know what she likes and what she doesn’t!

2. MYTH – G spot orgasms are superior to clitoral orgasms. There is a common belief that G spot orgasms are better than clitoral orgasms. This might be because G spot orgasms are harder to have, so it’s assumed that they are even better than the easier to achieve clitoral orgasm. Not true. Those who have had both kinds of orgasm (only an estimated 30%) say that vaginal orgasms are just different from clitoral. Some prefer one over the other, but many say they are both just awesome, but different in their own way.

3. MYTH – If she can’t orgasm it’s because you’re doing something wrong. There are many reasons why a woman might not orgasm. Like men, it could be because she is tired, stressed, distracted, had too much to drink, or a number of other factors. Sometimes it’s just not going to happen. It could also be because the woman is having performance anxiety, feeling self conscious about her body or any number of psychological reasons. It could also be because she doesn’t know her body well in a sexual sense and hasn’t explored what sensations she likes and doesn’t like. In the end it’s important to know that it’s not necessarily because you’re not doing something right. Sometimes you just have to accept that it won’t happen and enjoy sex anyway.

4. MYTH – She won’t enjoy sex if she doesn’t cum. If you have a partner who doesn’t always orgasm then you might be a believer of this myth. Some men just can’t understand how a woman could enjoy sex if it doesn’t end in an orgasm. Again, women are different. There are many that enjoy sex and all that leads up to it immensely, even if they never have an orgasm. If your partner doesn’t often have orgasms, make sure you pay a lot of attention to foreplay and make the experience passionate and intimate. She will enjoy that attention and have a great experience anyway.

5. MYTH – Women can’t ejaculate. Most of my readers should already know that this is a myth, but I wanted to add it in here just in case you somehow missed it! Some women do ejaculate. There is still a lot of research that needs to be done on this topic, but what we do know is that some women ejaculate from their urethra during a G spot orgasm. To know more, check out some of my information on female ejaculation!

All of the men that visit my site have one thing in common: they want to please their partner more in bed. By learning more about what makes your partner tick you can become a more talented and sensitive lover who knows how to meet her needs.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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“In my sex fantasy, nobody ever loves me for my mind.” –Nora Ephron

Is there anything sexier than knowing the dirty sex fantasies of the woman you desire? Sure, men think about sex all the time, but it’s assumed that women rarely think about it. Is that true? Absolutely not! Women, just like men have ongoing fantasies that think about often. So, I bet you what to know what really gets your lady hot and bothered. Well, while I can’t tell you exactly what she secretly wants, I can share with you the top ten female fantasies. Chances are, her fantasy is on the list.

1. Her Dominating You – Many women fantasize about being the boss in the bedroom. She might want you to be strong and decisive outside those four walls, but inside she’s going to call all the shots and you’re going to be begging her for more, more, MORE!

2. You Dominating Her – Or she might be interested in just the opposite. Remember these fantasies have nothing to do with what kind of woman she is outside the bedroom. She could be the strongest, most badass woman you know, but her fantasy still could be you dominating and controlling her in the bedroom.

3. Hot For Teacher – Many men have fantasized about their teachers in sexual situations before. Women have done it too. Many women get hot just thinking about dressing up like a schoolgirl and playing your naughty student.

4. Stranger Danger – Sure, even women have thought about getting it on with a complete stranger. Even if she wouldn’t actually do it in real life doesn’t mean the idea of it doesn’t get her extremely hot. How does this help you? You could role play “strangers,” even going to “meet” for the first time at a bar.

5. Three’s Company Too – Even a perfectly straight woman might fantasize about getting it on with her man and other woman. But it might not necessarily mean that she wants you to join in on the fun. Her fantasy might just involve her with another woman while you watch. It’s important to remember that sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy. It doesn’t always mean that she wants to act it out in real life or that it’s even a good idea.

6. Three’s Company Too (Part 2) – On the other side of threesome coin there are women out there who fantasize about being with 2 men. This fantasy usually involves 2 straight men who are interested in showering all their attention on her. She might fantasize about being penetrated by one while going down on another, double penetration, or a variety of other situations. The especially taboo nature of this fantasy makes it all the sexier to think about.

7. She likes to watch… – Men usually have the reputation for being voyeurs, but this is actually a very common female fantasy as well. It’s so wrong and taboo to watch someone while they’re doing something sexy. Her fantasy might be watching you touch yourself, or even spying on another couple while they get down and dirty.

8. She likes to be watched – Women also often fantasize about being watched. Her fantasy could involve you watch her while she touches herself or does other things. It could involve making home porn movies or having sex in a place where you could be watched by someone else.

9. Dancing Queen – She wants to strip for you. Stripping can make a woman feel powerful and she will be able to see and feel how much she’s turning you on with her body. What could be sexier?

Fantasies can be so much fun. It’s exciting to know that your partner thinks about sex just like you do. But there is one really important thing to remember when it comes to fantasies. Many times a person might fantasize about something a lot, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that they want to try it out in real life. Sometimes acting on a fantasy can be a huge disappointment and other times it could be even better than one imagined. But if it’s a disappointment you’ve lost the fantasy forever. There are fun and safe ways to recreate fantasies through role playing. If your partner confesses her secret fantasy to you and wants to enact it, try doing it through role playing. It can be really sexy and fun!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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All of the guys that visit my site and read my articles have one important thing in common: they want to be better lovers and they come to me to find out how to do it. One dilemma a lot of guys have is that they don’t know if the things they are doing are pleasing their partners. Does she like that? Was she writhing around in pleasure or squirming away from me? Could she be faking it? How do I know?

Well, if you have been reading my articles for a while you already know that I am a big advocate of clear and healthy communication, but sometimes it’s hard to have. Even if you want to be able to communicate with your partner about sex, she might not be on board for it. She might be too embarrassed or uncomfortable to talk to you about it. But, not too worry, that doesn’t mean all hope is lost.

Today I’m going to share with you the signs to know if she’s faking those amazing orgasms you think you’re giving here. After all, even if she’s faking it with good intentions (to make you feel good), you want to know if what you’re doing is actually having the desired effect!

The Signs

You think she doesn’t like/need foreplay – I would be surprised if this was true.  If you think your partner either doesn’t like foreplay or doesn’t need it, it just might mean that you haven’t been doing it right or long enough. She might say that she’s not into it so it doesn’t prolong the process if she already knows she’s not going to cum in the end.

Her body changes… During female orgasm the body goes through certain changes. There are some that can be faked (or some women that might experience certain changes differently), like heavy breathing, moaning and the like. But then there are other things a person just can’t fake no matter what they do. One is the change that happens to the clitoris when she is close to orgasm. The clit will fill with blood and swell as a woman is getting more and more turned on. When she is close to orgasm the clitoral head with retract within the body. It’s easier to notice if you’re going down on her, but you should also be able to tell if your stimulating her manually during sex.

Another sure sign of an orgasm is that her vaginal and anal muscles will spasm and contract. You may or may not be able to feel this if you’re inside of her but you can pay attention to see if she seems to be shuddering with these contractions.

Her lips will also swell and redden, she might start to sweat a little, her pupils will dilate, and her heart rate will increase. Also be on the look out for hard nipples.

She jumps right out of bed after – Just like you, women are left a little dazed and confused after an orgasm. If she is popping right out of bed and going into the bathroom, you might have a sign that she didn’t actually cum. However, if she needs a minute or two to recuperate in bed, you probably don’t have anything to worry about.

What to Do About it

So, if you think you might have a faker on your hands, what should you do? First of all, you should never accuse her. You will never be able to know 100% for sure if she was faking unless she tells you, so accusing her will just upset her and cause a fight. Try to understand why she might fake it. Many women feel a lot of pressure to cum because it’s so important to their partners. They enjoy sex immensely, but don’t always have orgasms, but the pressure their partner puts on “finishing” makes her feel guilty about not being able to deliver. Sex should always be about pleasure and good feelings. Try to accept that women don’t need to cum every time in order to enjoy sex. Stop pressuring her to have an orgasm and just focus more on letting her enjoy it, no matter what the end result is.

You can also try to have a conversation with her about it, but you need to be careful. As I mentioned you never want to accuse her of faking, so there are a few other things you can try. Take the focus off orgasms by not saying, I want you to come, but I want you to feel good. Ask what she likes and what you can do to make her feel better. Don’t take it personally when she doesn’t orgasm. Don’t make her orgasm about you!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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There is something very basic to know about women that can help you immensely when it comes to giving her pleasure. Even though this information is basic, somehow it still isn’t common knowledge. I’m talking about the ins and outs of female anatomy. For many men the female genitalia is confusing and even intimidating! But as with all things, the more you know and understand, the more confident and better you will be at pleasing her. Here is my guide for you to study up and be an expert on her body:

Vulva – The vulva is often incorrectly referred to as the vagina, but they are actually two different things. The vulva is all of the outer genitalia that a woman has including the clitoris, the mons pubis, the vaginal opening, and the labia majora and minora. The vulva is rich in nerve endings and is where women receive a great deal of their sexual pleasure. The vagina, on the other hand, is the orifice where the penis enters during sex.

Mons Pubis – The Mons Pubis is the fleshy, triangular mass of tissue located just above the clitoris and labia. It’s made of fatty tissue and covers the pubic bone. It’s the area that is covered in pubic hair from the time of puberty, but some women choose to remove their hair.

Labia Majora – The mons pubis leads down the genitalia and divides into the labia majora, which means larger lips. The labia majora starts at the mons pubis and ends at the perineum. From woman to woman it varies quite a bit in color, size, shape, and overall look. The outer surface is covered in coarse hair (if the woman hasn’t chosen to remove this hair), and the inner surface is smoother, hairless, and might be different in color as well.

Labia Minora – The labia minora, or smaller lips, refers to the inner lips of the vulva. They are situated within the labia majora. They’re hairless and extend down from the clitoris on either side of the vaginal opening. It also varies quite a bit when it comes to size, shape and color depending on the woman.

Clitoris – This is a big one, guys. Pay close attention. Every guy needs be familiar with this important part of the female body. It is the only part of the body (both male and female) that’s function is just pleasure. It’s the most sensitive part of the female genitalia. Many women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, so you are probably already very familiar with this little body part. The clitoral head is found where the labia minora meet and is covered by a fold of skin called the clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that the clitoris is similar to the male penis in many ways and the clitoral hood would be the equivalent of the male foreskin. When a woman is aroused the clit swells with blood and becomes erect and the clitoral hood pulls back just like the male foreskin. The clitoral head is extremely sensitive to stimulation, especially when a woman is just beginning to become sexually excited. The whole clitoral area is estimated to have over 8,000 different nerve endings. The clitoris is not just the part that you can see from the outside of the female body, it actually extends well into the inside the female body as well. One part of it is thought to be the G spot, which can be accessed from within the vagina.

Urethra – The urethra is one of the three holes in the female genitalia (urethra, vaginal opening, and the anus). It’s the tube from which urine leaves the body in both men and women. In women its opening is located between the clitoral head and the vaginal opening and the tube extends into the body traveling up to the bladder. It’s also believed that the G spot is located right next to the urethra, which explains why women feel like they need to pee when their G spot is stimulated and pressed.

Perineum –  The perineum is the little space of skin between the vaginal opening and the anus. There are a lot of slang terms for this area, such as taint and grundle. It can feel good to have this area stimulated for both men and women.

Vagina – The vagina is the tubular inner orifice that starts at the vulva and extends to the cervix (inside the female body). This is part where the penis enters during heterosexual sex and where a baby exits during childbirth. The word vagina is often used to describe the vulva, but that’s incorrect. During arousal, the vagina released lubrication that helps to facilitate sex. The size and length of the vagina varies from woman to woman, but is flexible and can stretch to accommodate a penis or other objects and then return to its original state without problems.

G Spot – The G spot is found on the front vaginal wall, meaning the wall of the vagina that is closest to the woman’s belly. It is a small, spongy, oval shaped area of erectile tissue that is between the size of a dime and a quarter. It is more easily found when a woman is aroused. Some women report that they have powerful orgasms when the G spot is stimulated in the right way.

Now you know the ropes, guys! You might even know more about the female body than your female partner! I hope you found it helpful.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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You have probably found yourself puzzled by the female sexual response many times throughout your life. Why do women seem to respond to sex so differently? Why don’t the same things turn you on that turns her on? Why does it seem like it takes her forever to be turned on when you just have to have one sexy thought and you’re good to go? Women ARE different when it comes to sexuality. Your task, if you want to be a great lover, is to try to understand these differences. Through learning about how she ticks, you will be better able to please her.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not claiming that all women work the same way and like the same things, because they definitely don’t. But there are some things about women’s sexuality that are generally true and will absolutely help you to understand your partner better and better meet her sexual needs.

The Original

Famous sexologists Masters and Johnson came up with a theory on sexual response that was the accepted theory for a long time. They proposed that we first experience sexual excitement/arousal, then we have a plateau period in which we’re sexually turned on, but not climaxing to orgasm yet. The next stage is orgasm and the final stage is resolution. Another sexologist, Kaplan, later added desire to this model as the first stage in the sexual response. So what does this mean? You have desire to have sex, you get turned on, sexual activity begins and you have a period of stimulation which leads to orgasm and then you have your recovery period. Does that sound familiar? It probably does because that’s how most men experience sexual response. But women? Women are different. Some women might experience something similar to that model, some of the time, but defining their sexuality in that way is really limiting and suggests that there is something wrong with them if they don’t fit the model.

A Better Way?

Years after this model was proposed other sexologists began trying to come up with other ways to describe the way women experience sexual response. The problem is that women don’t always experience all of the stages and they don’t necessarily experience them in that linear order. For example, they might not initially have desire to have sex, but have sex with their partner anyway and still experience arousal, excitement and orgasm. Other women might not experience orgasm at all. Others might have desire, but only AFTER experiencing excitement.

So, a better way to think about women’s sexual response is to understand that she probably doesn’t work the same way that you do when it comes to any of these stages. That doesn’t mean that you’re doing anything wrong at all, it just means that she simply doesn’t function that way. By trying to understand how she experiences sexual response you will be able to please her more.

How Do I Make it Work?

With this new information you might want to tweak your sexual game in order to better meet her needs.

* Remember that desire might not come first. Some women might not DESIRE sex before starting up foreplay. That might sound bad at first, but it’s really not. Remember, the female response is different. She is still a completely willing and happy participant. We’re not talking about coercing someone into doing something they don’t want to do because that is very wrong. Some women might make the choice to have sex because they know once they start foreplay, they will get into it, but the initial desire is not necessarily there.

* Make foreplay about more than just sex. Increasing intimacy in your relationship can be about a lot of things. It can mean making the time to share meals with each other and talking every night (cell phones off!). It can mean sending thoughtful texts throughout the day. Helping out with tasks you know she hates to do. It could mean renting her favorite movie and just cuddling on the couch all night. Giving her a shoulder massage after a long day… the list goes on and on. By connecting with your partner on an emotional level and being a thoughtful partner, she will feel closer to you and the likelihood that sexual intimacy will happen will also increase.

* Be patient with foreplay. If you’re really interested in making her sexual experience better and not just your own, then don’t rush through foreplay. Communicate about what she likes and dislikes, pay attention to her body language and enjoy being in the moment.

* Don’t sweat it if she doesn’t orgasm. Not every woman has orgasms during sex. Not every woman has orgasms period. She might have an orgasm one night and not the next. Don’t stress it because she probably isn’t. If she tells you that she enjoys sex with you even when she doesn’t cum, believe her. Even if that doesn’t seem possible for you, trust that she’s being honest.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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