There are so many wonderfully sensitive parts on a woman’s body that can be touched and stimulated to make her experience of sex even better. These areas of her body are called the erogenous zones. You might be surprised to find out that a woman’s secret hot spot isn’t just her breasts or clitoris, there are a lot of other sexy spots that need your attention. So, I asked 6 real women to tell me about their secret spot and how they like it to be touched.

Rihanna, 29 years old

My secret hot spot is my hands. I know that probably sounds so weird, but it’s true! My boyfriend and I discovered by accident actually. He was massaging my hands after a long day while we sat on the couch watching TV. He got some lotion out and it was feeling really good and relaxing. Once he applied the lotion it started feeling even better and before long I had my eyes closed and he had my full attention. He started pulling and rubbing each finger individually, then he would knead the palms of my hands. Since I had my eyes closed I didn’t even realize that he suddenly started sucking on my fingers. It felt so good that it sent tingles all down my body right to my clit. Needless to say, it wasn’t long before the TV was turned off and we were both seriously turned on.

Jaquiline, 33 years old

I love it when my husband kisses, massages, licks, sucks, and nibbles on my shoulders and upper back. Something about having him touching me from behind is a crazy, sexy turn on for me. It’s like I don’t know what’s coming next and I’m in his control. I love that. But it’s also more than that. That area of my body is really sensitive and so when he touches me there in any way, I start to get wet right away. Soon I’ll be pressing up against him like crazy. He knows I love it, so whenever he wants to have sex, he just comes up behind me, sweeps my hair to the side and begins kissing me. I can’t say no!

Molly, 42 years old

There are a lot of places I love my husband to touch me, but there is one thing he does that really sends me over the edge. During foreplay he always teases me a lot before touching my clit or fingering me. He will spend a long time kissing, rubbing and licking my inner thighs or getting really, really close to my clit or vagina, but never actually touching it. I’m literally squirming after 10 minutes of this, bucking my hips toward him, BEGGING him to touch me. I feel like my private parts are pulsating with desire. When he finally touches me there, he does it SO gently and it feels fantastic. I love that he teases me. It makes my orgasm 100 times more powerful.

Sandra, 38 years old

Maybe this is cliche, but my hot spot is definitely my ears. I still remember the first boyfriend I had who would kiss them and it felt like it sent electric shock through me right down to my pussy. It was incredible. From then on I made sure every guy I was with knew to pay attention to my ears. I love it when a guy runs the tip of his tongue along my ear and then pokes and penetrates it. A nice, soft nibbling of the earlobe isn’t too bad either! And if I’m going to tell you everything, I also love when he goes to town on my neck while he’s in the area. It all just feels so good. I swear I’ve come close to cumming just from that alone!

Deborah, 25 years old

I’m a little embarrassed to admit this, but I love having my toes sucked. I know some people think that feet are gross, but they don’t gross me out and it feels SO GOOD! Thank god my current boyfriend doesn’t find it gross, in fact he’s totally into it.

Lorena, 50 years old

I love having my butt touched in every way you can imagine. I love when my partner squeezes is when we’re kissing. I love to feel his hands rubbing over the skin. But I especially love when he kisses me down there. He’ll start at the small of my back and work his way down. Who knew there were so many sensitive nerve endings down there? It’s like there are little fireworks going off for me. I just love it.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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For centuries, men have been told how complicated a woman’s body is, especially sexually. And while it’s true that chicks don’t have a point-and-shoot anatomy, new research shows they have just as much pleasure potential as men.

I got my hands on some recent groundbreaking studies that debunk the long-standing conventional wisdom about female desire and response. Then I took the research one step further by explaining how to use it to tap into a new dimension of bedroom bliss.

Conventional wisdom – A woman has to feel desire to get aroused

Bold new thinking – A woman doesn’t need to be in the mood to get excited

Maybe this rings a bell: You want some action but your partner is stuck in “whatever” mode. Hey, it happens. But before you blow her off because she’s not into it, consider this: new research proves that a woman’s body can be turned on even during those moments when her mind is turned off.

That’s because desire and arousal are two separate animals. Desire occurs in the mind, while arousal unfolds in the body. True, desire usually leads to arousal, but a woman’s body doesn’t need desire to get to that warm, tingly place. In fact, researchers at the University of Amsterdam have discovered that a woman’s central motor system lights up instantly with physical stimulation, before her mind even begins to process it.

Problem is, many women think sex will be a drag if they’re not registering any interest in their brains. What to do when you’re horned up and she isn’t: zone in on her physical hot buttons. Focus on her body and help her give in to the feel of your lips against her neck or the way your hand is brushing up against her back.

Another testament that she doesn’t necessarily need desire to relish doing the deed? One recent study found that many women experience heightened arousal when anxious or stressed.

Conventional wisdom – Women take forever to get turned on

Bold new thinking – Women don’t necessarily need a long preamble to get going

Somewhere along the way, it became commonly accepted knowledge that women required hours of foreplay to get primed for sex. Now, I’m all for tons of kissing and oral, but it’s not always necessary. A new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine claims that both men and women begin showing signs of arousal within 30 seconds. What’s more, there was little difference in how long it took women and men to reach peak sexual arousal. Researchers at McGill University in Canada had young men and women watch porn. Meanwhile, in hidden areas, scientists controlled thermal imaging sensors to measure heat changes in their genitals. They found out that men reached peaked arousal in 11 minutes, while women clocked in at 12 minutes.

Of course, this flies in the face of old arguments that claim women reach the brink in about 20 minutes. So what gives? Turns out, participants in this study watched images through special goggles to minimize their field of vision so they were less likely to be interrupted by what was happening in the room. The lesson here: when you want to get her revved up stat, you have to nix all the distractions. Women are more likely to multitask, and they tend to get rattled by a ringing phone or by overthinking what they have to do the next morning. The problem? It takes them out of the moment. So whatever you do, power down the TV and carve out time strictly for you and her to get it on.

Conventional wisdom – Dry down there? She’s not feelin’ it

Bold new thinking – Lubrication isn’t the only indicator of desire and arousal

Let’s play a little word association: I say male arousal and you say erection. Unfortunately, there’s no hard-and-fast equivalent for women. Vaginal lubrication often has been viewed as the biggest cue… until now. Research has found that there’s no direct correlation between arousal and the amount of blood flow and lubrication to the vagina. She may be aroused and not have lubrication at all. Often, this is hormonal: women are naturally wetter around ovulation and drier when their periods are about to arrive. Also, antihistamines found in cold medications, for example, can sap nasal passages and vaginal secretions.

So what are the physical cues worth clueing into? Scientists at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction asked women exactly how they knew they were turned on. Although lubrication was reported as one sign, many women also reported genital warmth and swelling and nipple hardness, as well as increased heart rate and muscle tightness in the stomach and legs.

Hot embraces,

Gabrielle Moore

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There are so many things you can do to get your lover in the mood for sex, turn her on, give her amazing orgasms and spice up your sex life.  In “My Top Sex Tips” articles, I have been going through many of them, leading up to 100 amazing, sexy, hot, lovemaking, intimacy tips.

Have you tried any of them yet?

If, not what are you waiting for?

Music seduction

They say that “music hath charms to sooth a savage beast”.  Music has been shown to help plants thrive and the idea that music could be used as a therapy is as old as the writings of Plato and Aristotle.  So music can have a profound affect on our psyche, moods, feelings and libido.

You can use slow, seductive music to tantalize your lover during foreplay, or grinding, pounding rock music during sex to rev it up.

Try various sexy playlists and see what effect they have on you, your lover and your love making.  Music can change a bad mood into a good one, and change good sex, into OMG great sex.

Compliment her

Last week I talked about using gratitude to create more intimacy in a relationship.  This week I want to go a bit further and tell you to compliment her… Every day.

We often take the people in our lives for granted, and usually it is the most important people that we forget to thank and compliment.  We assume they know we love them, think they are sexy, so we don’t have to tell them or show it.

WRONG!  We NEED to tell our lovers every day how much they light up our lives, and compliment them.  This means telling them they look good, you love that dress on them, you love their pretty toes, or that they are sexy, but also, compliment them on the fabulous dinner they made you, or something else they are fantastic at.  Make sure it is authentic and you really believe it when you say it, but try to find reasons to compliment your lover every day.

Compliments make us feel good, which makes us much more confident and interested in having sex!

Naughty notes

Leaving naughty notes for your lover a couple times a week can be hot.  And, the fun thing about this is that you can hide them away, like between the pages of her favorite book, and she may not find it for months.

Another cool way to do this, is plan a night when she is out getting groceries or chores (and you know no-one will be around when she gets home).  Then leave naughty notes (like a scavenger hunt) all around the house, each one telling her to go somewhere else (and you can leave little gifts or instructions for her like: here is some sexy lingerie… put it on).  At the end of the hunt, she will find you, all sexy (dressed up of naked) and a room made for love making awaiting her.

My husband did this for me once and it was super hot!… and fun!

Go with her flow and let her show you the way

You probably get tired of being the one to ALWAYS be in charge and may like to give her the reins once in a while.  If she is not an initiator, you can still get things going, and then switch over to her, where you follow her flow and let her show you the way.

Let her show you or tell you how to turn her n.  Maybe she takes your hand and smooths it up and down her body, or says, “I’d like you to touch me there”.  Or maybe, she takes control and goes down on you, giving you a sexy blow job.  Then again, she could climb on top and ride you like a stallion, hitting her g-spot just right so she comes all over you.  Yeehaw!  Ride him cowgirl!

Don’t stop during orgasm

Jeese guys!  I don’t know how many times I’ve seen or heard of this happening, but the guy stops stimulating, or changes stimulation just when she is ready to orgasm.

DON’T!

While you may us lots of variety leading up to the big event, when she gets close to orgasm (and you should be able to tell this from her moans, body language and facial expressions), don’t stop whatever it is you are doing.  Because it is that very thing that is leading her over the edge and if you stop now, she will totally loose it.

And, I don’t want to tell you how frustrating it is when you are just at the edge and then loose it.  Its not good.

So, please, if you forget every sex tip out there, don’t forget this one.

Okay sexy lover.  That’s my hot tips for you today.  Now go plan to put some of these tips into action and get it on with your lover tonight!

Until next time, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Welcome, sexy lovers to my latest article, where I will give you 5 sexy ways to help your woman come.

You Can’t MAKE Her Come

Orgasms are like emotions.  Just like you can’t expect someone else to make you happy, you can’t expect another person to give you an orgasm.  This is especially true for women.  You can’t MAKE her come, if she is not ready, willing and open to receiving pleasure and knows how to get there in the first place.

In other words, she needs to take responsibility for her own orgasm.

After all, men are not born with a woman’s genital anatomy, so how are you supposed to be an expert at this?  And, despite what some people may think, we are not born knowing how to have sex and give pleasure, naturally.  This is something we must learn.

Not only that, but every woman is different, and her erotic blueprint will vary depending on what she likes, what turns her on, the way her erotic body/mind is wired, her experiences and self-pleasure knowledge.  So, what may work on one woman to help her reach orgasm, may be a total turn off to the next.

So, women need to own their sexual pleasure, learn to orgasm first via solo sex in order to find out what turns her on.  Then she can communicate that knowledge to you.

Having said that, there are ways you can help facilitate her orgasms and pleasure by giving her a safe place to explore her sexuality and pleasure so she can open and completely surrender to you.  This is a place where she trusts you totally, and knows that her vulnerability and boundaries will be protected.  That means she doesn’t have to fear that if she opens up that she will be hurt, judged, or shamed, and she can totally trust you so she can unleash her feminine radiance.

Communication

Communication is the way we learn how to pleasure our partners.  We need to find out first what we like, what rocks our boat, and then communicate that to our lovers.

You can encourage this by again making her feel safe, that you won’t judge her or make her feel ashamed of her sexual desires.  Watch her body language during sex and encourage her to open up, to moan, to writhe, to tell you, yes, Yes, YES!, what you are doing is taking her over the edge.  Ask her, do you like it when I touch you here?  Do you like it harder, softer, faster, deeper, slower, more sensual…?

After sex, take the time to talk about the experience.  Ask her what she enjoyed most or what pushed her over the edge, and what she didn’t like as well.

You can even ask her to masturbate in front of you, if she is game, to show you how she pleasures herself and achieves orgasm.  This can be valuable knowledge that you can use later.

Remember, having sex together takes two, so sex is team work and honest, open and non-judgemental communication is a big part of that process.

Take Your Time and Explore

Women often take a much longer time to get aroused and reach orgasm.  With practice, knowledge and the right tools, some women can orgasm within a minute or two of arousal, but for most women arousal takes longer, anywhere from ten minutes to an hour.

So, take it slow and give her time to unwind from the day, to get rid of any stress in her body and get out of her head, so she can immerse herself in the sensations of her body.

Begin by creating a sensual environment to have sex in.  Piles of dirty clothes or other distractions can take her out of her body and into her head, where she will have a hard time achieving orgasm.

Warm her up with a hot bath, sensual massage, slow dancing, or an activity she enjoys that helps her relax and become more sensual.  Use lots and of lots of foreplay to get her fully aroused before you even start to have sex.

Women have just as much erectile tissue in her clitoris as a man does in his penis, but it is internal, so takes much longer to get aroused, for the blood to pump into her genitals and the tissue to become engorged, sensitive and aroused.

A woman is like a kettle of water, slow to boil, but stays hot for hours, whereas a man is like a match, quick to ignite, but soon fizzles out.

In many cases, sex between male and female lover lasts 2 to 7 minutes.  So, is it any wonder that she doesn’t get off?

Men can also learn ways to prolong arousal, stay harder longer as well as semen retention techniques that allow you to last as long as you want, and to also experience multiple, as well as stronger orgasms.

Erogenous Zones

If you don’t know it already, her clitoris is her biggest erogenous zone (except from her brain, of course).  That is because the clitoris actually goes deep inside her genitals, under the skin, where it wraps around her urethra tube, forms her G-spot, surrounds her vagina and lies beneath the flesh of her vulva.  So, all that area is a part of the internal clitoris and makes up the various erogenous zones within the female genitals.

So, when we talk about the G-spot, or the A-spot, or the U-spot, these are all extensions of the inner clitoris in some way.

The external clitoris, the little nub or head that sticks out beneath the clitoral hood is the most sensitive part of the clitoris.  Often, this part needs lots of stimulation to get her to orgasm.

As a matter of fact, you have probably heard that 70% of women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax, and only about 25% of women can achieve orgasm via penetrative sex.  So, if a woman can’t orgasm via penetrative sex, it is not her fault, she is not broken, this is completely natural and they way her body works.  Society, media and porn perpetuates the myth that women always orgasm during sex, or there is something wrong with them.

My point?  Get to know her body, explore her erogenous zones and don’t forget her clitoris, especially during intercourse.  Learning how to navigate her erogenous zones with help you help her achieve orgasm.

Relax, Breathe and Focus on Sensation

One of the number one reasons women cannot reach orgasm is that she can’t get out of her head.

She may be worried about work, be stressed out, thinking about chores (yes, this happens!), or about not performing well in the bedroom, how she tastes, looks or smells, and whole bunch of other things.  These can all interfere with her connecting to her body, and allowing herself to FEEL sensual, sexual, and open to sensations and pleasure.

The way to help her get out of her head and into her body, is first to relax which we talked about in “Take Your Time and Explore”.

Another way to learn to relax, is to practice deep breathing techniques.  Just slowing down the breath and focusing on it can help her get more in tune with her body.

Once she becomes more relaxed and out of her head, she can start to focus on the sensations in her body: cold, warmth, touch, pleasure… the feeling of her breasts becoming full and her nipples becoming erect, her hips pumping, her clitoris and vulva becoming engorged… her breathing becoming more rapid and her skin becoming flushed, pleasure building in her genitals and moving that energy up her body… These are all ways she can focus on what she is feeling, so that she can build the erotic energy in her body to achieve orgasm.

Orgasms can start out feeling very subtle, especially vaginal orgasms, so she needs time to nourish the sensations her body is feeling and to allow them to expand into orgasm.

So, lovers, there are my 5 secrets to make her come.  Remember, women need many things all working together to help her get over the edge and into orgasm.

Now, take what you have learned home, and into the bedroom, where you can practice with her and both become more orgasmic.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Female orgasms can be very elusive, especially the penetrative kind during partnered sex.  We automatically assume that when a couple gets together to have sex, that a woman should just “naturally” be able to come.  But, this is not the case.

Find out about this myth and many more about female orgasms below, so you are armed with real knowledge to help her achieve amazing orgasms.

Women Should Be Able to Orgasm via Intercourse

Like I said above, assuming that women can and should be able to achieve orgasm via intercourse is a myth.  In fact, only 25% of women say that they can orgasm via penetrative sex with a partner.

Why is that so?  Shouldn’t the male and female genitals fit together perfectly so both partners can get off?

Unfortunately, they don’t.

This is because, a woman’s biggest erogenous zone in her genitals is her clitoris.  Seventy percent of women NEED clitoral stimulation to climax.  But during penetrative sex, often, her clitoris doesn’t get enough (or any) stimulation, so she can’t get aroused enough to have an orgasm.

How can we remedy this?

Lots and lots of foreplay before actually having sex, so her clitoris gets very turned on.  And, continue clitoral and other types of stimulation during penetrative sex, to assure she can reach orgasm.  Also, if the man has lasting power, this can help a lot, as women can take up to an hour of stimulation before they actually come.

If a Woman Doesn’t Orgasm, Something is Wrong With Her or She is Broken

This is a very hurtful myth.  It was long assumed that if a woman couldn’t come during sex that there was something wrong with her, or that her parts were somehow broken.

Again, this is not the case.

Women just need a lot more time warming up than men do, and they need certain types of stimulation (clitoral) to get off.  Assuming that there is something wrong with her, some women believe they will never get off, or that they need a magic pill or some kind of medical intervention to “fix” them.

But, women don’t always get off during sex, or even during good stimulation of her clitoris.  If her mind is full or worries or concerns, she won’t be able to get aroused.  This can have a huge impact on her being able to achieve orgasm.

She needs to learn about her erotic body and how to stimulate herself to orgasm, be in the right mindset,  get plenty of foreplay and clitoral stimulation, breathe, relax, explore, and feel safe so she can open to the pleasures of orgasm.

Women Can’t Orgasm Without a Skillful Lover

Having a skillful lover can help a woman to achieve orgasm.  But, even the most skillful Don Juan will not get her there, if she doesn’t know how to get there herself.

The ability to orgasm is the responsibility of each individual, and you can’t make her or force her to have one.  She needs to surrender to pleasure and allow herself to open, to get rid of her inhibitions and to know what gives her pleasure and communicate that with her partner.

She needs to learn, explore, what takes her over the edge, and then show you how to help her get there.  Only then will she be able to find the secret to her own orgasmic blueprint.

Vibrators are a Replacement for Men

There is a myth that vibrators can replace a man in the bedroom.  This is simply untrue.

Women crave intimacy, love, romance, mental stimulation, suspense and companionship.  A vibrator can’t give them all that.

What a vibrator can do, however, is help them reach arousal quicker and more frequently than  other types of stimulation.  That doesn’t mean she doesn’t still want you.

Think of a vibrator as a tool that can help you both give her orgasmic pleasure.  You can use this on her during foreplay to help her warm up, or even during penetrative sex to stimulate her clitoris.  Vibrators can be used on other parts of the body too, like the nipples, and even around the penis when used as a vibrating cock ring to give you more stamina and her more stimulation.

Missionary is the Best Position for Having Sex

Um, no.

Missionary position doesn’t do much to stimulate her clitoris, so it is not the best position to get her off.  Not that you can’t start there.  But for gosh sakes man, change it up.

The best positions for her to achieve orgasm are Doggie Style, which helps to reach her g-spot better, and Girl on Top, which can help stimulate her clitoris.

So, don’t be afraid to experiment a little with different positions during sex and see what works to get her off.  You don’t have to be an acrobat or a porn star to get into an orgasmic position.  You just need to be a little creative and have the courage to try new things.

Go watch my video course on “Her Secret Hot Spots” to find new ways to have sex that will really get her off.

I hope this article has helped you bust some myths about female orgasm and learn real ways to help her get there.  Both partners need to have an open mind, and learn to explore, play and make sex fun.

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If you’re looking to add a little heat and a lot of intimacy to your sex life – and who isn’t – the ancient practice of Tantric sex might be the answer. Some people think that Tantric sex is cultish or that it’s about making love for hours on end. But it’s actually a simple and accessible way for people to raise their lovemaking energy, make a spiritual connection with their partner, and break down boundaries. Plus, it can give the both of you truly incredible orgasms. What’s not to like? Here’s my step-by-step guide to sex that doesn’t involve pretzel poses or bedroom marathons, but it does ensure a stronger, closer erotic bond.

Step 1: Ask her to join you

Instead of trying to squeeze in a quickie, take the time to ask your partner to embark on this sexual experience with you. Asking each other’s permission before you begin ensures that you’re not taking each other for granted and establishes respect for both your partner and the act. Try saying something like, “I’m really looking forward to making love with you, and feeling closer and more connected.” Feel a little silly? Go ahead and giggle – even Tantric sex can be playful.

Step 2: Set the scene

Take the time to create a sensual setting and mood. You want everything in the room to be pleasing to the eye. Try draping richly colored cloths around your bedroom, lighting incense or candles, and placing items to which you two have an emotional attachment – photos, gifts, an erotic book – around the room. Another mood enhancer? Draw a bath and sink into the tub together (and lather each other up). The point is to make your woman feel like a goddess and to set aside time that you normally wouldn’t so that it’s special.

Step 3: Reach out and touch each other

A full-body massage helps stimulate the seven energy centers, or chakras, throughout your body, so you’re aroused from head to toe. Start massaging your partner’s hands and wrists, then move up the arms and shoulders until you reach the chest. Next, starting from the feet and ankles, work your way up the legs and thighs until you reach the belly. This sequence helps awaken her sexual energy. When you’re done massaging her, have her do the same for you – this puts your energies in tune and helps create a sense of union, not to mention that it feels pretty darn good.

Step 4: Take a breath

Now that you’re relaxed, aroused, and connected, heighten these feelings with some synchronized breathing. Sit facing each other with your knees touching or with her straddling your lap. You can be clothed or naked, whatever feels best for you. Take a minute to gaze silently into each other’s eyes, and then breathe in and out in unison for at least five minutes. Doing this puts you in the same spiritual space and synchronizes your energy. It’s all a part of conscious lovemaking. From there, start alternating inhalations and exhalations. As you breathe in, she breathes out. You’ll create a circle of breath that is very sexually arousing, even though nothing has happened in your genitals.

Step 5: Reach your peak

While superintense orgasms aren’t the main goal of Tantric sex, a big playoff never hurts. Increase the buildup by thinking of sex as a buffet, rather than a three-course meal. In regular sex, you’ll have foreplay, then intercourse, then cuddle. In Tantric sex, you’ll have a little foreplay, then maybe a bit of intercourse, then you might stop to go back to massage, then foreplay again, then feed each other some fruit, then back to intercourse. You reach an energy high multiple times over the course of the journey, each one more intense than the last. By the time you’ve reached the point where you’re ready to release these energies and orgasm, the result can be an intensely magical – and pleasurable – experience.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Kisses,

Gabrielle

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Let’s get something straight: Giving your partner multiple orgasms isn’t some exotic skill; it simply means making sure she’s having more than one peak during a single lovemaking event — which could mean within minutes, hours, or an entire evening. It’s easier for women to have multiple O’s than for men because the female body doesn’t go through a post-orgasm recovery period, meaning we can stay aroused longer and get heated up again and again. Want to give it a try? Follow these steps and enjoy the sexploration!

Step 1: Get her in the groove.

You have a better chance of repeating her orgasm if you’ve already ramped her up with the help of outside sexual stimuli — music, candles, massage, movies, whatever connects you with her body. The higher her sexual energy is built up before you touch her, the easier it will be for her to have one orgasm or even multiples, because the pot of desire is larger and you’ve got nothing but sensuality simmering.

Step 2: Tease her out.

Now that she’s feeling sexy, it’s time to get things revving hotter. Caress her skin with a luxurious material or play with sensitive spots, like her neck or breasts. Once her body is responding to touch, move on to genital stimulation, but avoid penetration just yet. When exploring multiples, it’s often more effective for a woman to have her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation — which is best accomplished with a vibrator or via oral or manual action. Take it slowly and try delaying her orgasm until she can’t hold out anymore. By backing off just before she orgasms, then building up and pulling back several more times, you can significantly increase the amount of sexual tension coursing through her body. This not only heightens her chances for an explosive first orgasm, it also prepares her for others. Her body starts to expect that after she has one climax, she’ll have another, because you’ve trained it to be ready for a rise and a fall. This trick is taken from Flesh on Flesh, one of the new courses part of my latest program – Naked U Season 3 – If you don’t have access to it, click here to learn more – because I’ve gathered some impressive new information on how to give your woman next level pleasure.

Step 3: Restart stimulation.

Begin stimulating her clitoris again within 30 seconds of her first orgasm. By doing so, you can capitalize on the fact that her body is still highly aroused. If her clitoris is too sensitive immediately afterward, return to the other areas she found pleasurable in Step 2. “You want to hang on to that sexual energy by continuing to caress her. When she’s ready, try moving on to intercourse with clitoral stimulation (use your hand or a vibrator if intercourse alone isn’t hitting the spot). You can find this particular technique, together with similar ones in Dripping Wet Secrets, one of the new courses part of in my latest program – Naked U Season 3. If you haven’t got it yet, Check it out by clicking this link.

But most importantly, let go of expectations. Don’t focus on the orgasm, because you’ll lose yourself in a goal-oriented place. Focus on the pleasure and follow the pleasure, and the orgasm will come. With others right behind it!

O-O-OH!

There’s more than one kind of multiple.

Compound singles: Each orgasm is separate and distinct, with a return to a partially unaroused state between each peak. I liken this to a pearl necklace with a length of chain between each pearl.
Sequential multiple: Each orgasm occurs two to 10 minutes apart, with minimal reduction in arousal in between. Think of this type as a pearl choker with very little chain between each pearl.
Serial multiple: Orgasms are separated by seconds or just a minute. May feel like one long climax with spasms of varying intensity — like a solid strand of pearls.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Is there anything that remotely equals the thrill of the female orgasm? Speaking as a female, I can’t think of anything. That’s why I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, is everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. Click this link and check out my latest work, Naked U Season 3, out now. 

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If the option of mediocre sex is on the table and the only other choice is a fairly decent cup of chocolate caramel ice cream, it’s quite possible sex will lose in a spectacular fashion. Yes, it’s true: Women, unlike men, who would even have bad sex than no sex at all, do have preferences when it comes to how things go down between the sheets.  Now, if all of this makes you feel a bit nervous and you’re finding yourself wondering what parlor tricks you’ll have to pull off to keep your sex life fresh and creative, rest assured most women aren’t looking for the impossible. But what are they looking for more exactly? These patients of mine came forward to reveal their favorite sex moves — and most are taken from my programs. Well, they did learn from the best, what did you expect?

1. Take It Slow

“I like to take it slow, with a lot of oral from both sides. Heavy amounts of kissing, heavy petting. Both excessively sucking on random parts of the body, slow tongue movements across random body parts, etc. Generally, the licking progresses into sucking, but a few early sucks never hurt anyone.” — Mindy

2. Laying On Your Sides

“I really like it when we’re on our sides, facing each other, because it’s intimate but we can also be aggressive. We can look at each other while we’re fucking, but this position also lets us both have control over the speed and intensity and his thrusting. There’s something about sideways sex that targets my clitoris in the right way — it doesn’t hurt that I come a lot quicker this way.” — Jenna 

3. Ankles Over Shoulders

“My boyfriend doesn’t have the biggest penis in the world, but the position that makes me feel like he’s breaking me (in a good way) is when I’m on my back and he throws my ankles over his shoulder and penetrate me. It makes penetration feel deeper for us both, especially if my butt is hanging a little bit off the bed.” —Jessica

You can find this trick – explained in much more detail – in my latest program, Naked U Season 3. Click here to try my games and you’re guaranteed to have a lot more fun in the bedroom.  

4. Sex On the Couch

“I like it when I straddle his penis as he’s sitting in a chair or on the couch. He can see and touch everything, including my breasts and clitoris. I know a lot of guys like reverse cowgirl and it’s hot to see a girl’s ass and everything, but I always feel like it bends his penis to the point where it might break.” — Paula

5. Sex In Front of a Mirror

“Anything in front of a mirror — literally — anything in front of a mirror is 100,000 times better than without a mirror. Watching my boyfriend give me oral sex on his knees in front of a mirror is the hottest thing I’ve ever seen, but so is looking over and watching him ride me. Mirrors give us a chance to go where our eyes can’t and it’s the closest analog to both acting in and watching a dirty movie.” — Andrea You can find this hot trick, and many more that aim to increase arousal tenfold or more, in my newest program, Naked U Season 3. Check it out by clicking this link.

6. Sex From Behind, Laying Down

“My boyfriend and I like it when I’m submissive so the move that always gets me is when I’m laying flat on my belly and he’s on top of me from behind. It feels more intimate than doggy because he can wrap his hands around my breasts or rub my clitoris at the same time. I also like it when he covers my body with his and holds my hands down. It always feels like his penis is as deep inside of me as possible in this position.” — Stef

7. Good Ol’ Missionary

“This is going to make me sound lame, but sometimes there’s nothing better than good, old-fashioned missionary sex. I get to be in his complete control over the tempo and rhythm, he can slide his hands under my ass and it feels like he haa my entire body in his hands. I think a lot of women underestimate how much some guys like to kiss them and rub up against their breasts and bodies when we’re having sex — and missionary is intimate enough to allow that.” —Tanya

8. When I Sit On His Face

“I’m uninhibited in the bedroom and one of the things that makes me crazy is, instead of asking for oral sex or dropping hints, I’ll just go up to him when he’s sitting on the couch, lift up my nightgown, and sit on his face and force him to start licking me. I mean, I’m not really ‘forcing’ him because he loves it, but you get the point.” — Jemima

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Sex doesn’t have to look like the plot of a pornographic movie to feel just as good. You just have to make sure you don’t fall prey to the nastiest enemy of a sizzling hot sex life: routine. P.S. To learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots.

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There’s a huge information gap when it comes to the female orgasm – and that’s not because there’s no relevant information on the subject, but because there’s too much of it, and sometimes contradictory.

With this particular conundrum in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. One warning before we begin: be prepared for surprises, and for seeming contradictions. It turns out the female orgasms are both as single-minded as they sometimes seem, and the same time a lot more complicated. As sensitive as women are to skill and technique, they’re equally powered by mood, setting, and timing. The fun – for her, for you – is in mixing up the following strategies to see what will work tonight. So have at it.

Hold back the goods – tonight and tomorrow

Ask any woman after a particularly long dry spell — abstinence is the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac. Even when you’re not separated by distance, you can contribute to that pent-up, dying-to-make-love state of mind by deploying some sexual teasing tactics during the day. I suggest “accidentally” flashing your big guy at her in the morning, or giving her a lascivious phone call at the office. You can plant a sexual seed that will flower that night into a stronger orgasm.

Intercept her drive to the finish line

In your heart of hearts, you know that the longer the foreplay, the stronger the orgasm, for yourself as well as for your partner. But at the same time, you have this incredibly powerful drive to simply come, come, come! You can’t help it: It’s been hardwired into your sexual circuitry over thousands of years. The trick for you is to set aside this evolutionary imperative so that sex lasts long enough for a truly eventful climax to build. Set the tone for longer, more languorous sex by starting things off with a slow, sensual back rub. Other delaying tactics can be brought into play as the festivities progress. Stopping for an occasional cooling-off period works beautifully, but takes discipline. The woman-on-top position is useful because it helps you restrain your urge to start thrusting.

Torture her (nicely!)

A more extreme version of extending the foreplay is called “edging,” where you get her right up to the yes, edge, and then back off. You stop before you experience climax, and simmer, then repeat that a few times. It builds up the energy so that you have a more, well, explosive and intense orgasm. Of course, let her know if that’s your plan, otherwise she might just think you’re being mean.

Surprise her with a quickie

Arousal is a mysterious and powerful thing, and sometimes the frenzied abandon of a quick and lustful coupling can produce a climax that’s every bit as explosive as a marathon session in the sack. I suspect this has something to do with that centuries-old sexual circuitry I mentioned: Sex without ceremony can tap into deep reservoirs of animal instinct. I personally had one of my strongest orgasms when my partner overpowered me as I innocently came home from work one night — pieces of clothing were scattered between the front door and the bedroom. I’m sure the fact that he was the instigator added fuel to the fire.

Go straight for her most prized possession

It’s not really politically correct to admit this, but the truth is that when orgasm is imminent, there’s only one female erogenous zone, and you know where it is. That doesn’t mean women don’t like to be kissed or caressed, but when it comes to orgasm, you can start and end with the vaginal area. It makes sense, therefore, that when women are out for the most lustful orgasms, their positions of choice tend to be those that provide the most direct clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For pure physicality, rear entry is the way to go. There’s more friction, more depth… You can also try woman on top, especially reverse cowgirl.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. The biggest secret about women’s orgasm though is being in the moment – showing love, acceptance and intimacy. I can talk for hours about technique, but the best way to start is by telling your lady how much you love her, and meaning it. For more information about the female orgasm, check out my program Her Secret Hot Spots.

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Orgasms during sex can be like rainbows: unpredictable and rare – well at least for many women. Ladies rank dead last in their likeliness to climax during their sexual encounters with a partner. In fact, while 75 percent of dudes say they always finish when getting it on, only 33 percent of women could say the same.

Yeah… I know. So not fair. And this pleasure gap between the sexes has been an issue for as long as women have been faking it (read: a very long time). But there are some explanations. Often, you guys don’t know what you’re doing. A big number of you assume vaginal intercourse alone will get most women off. In reality, however, only 20 to 30 percent of women can regularly hit a high note from penetration alone. The vast majority needs clitoral stimulation.

Add to the problem that some women are failing to have an open dialogue with you about the way they experience pleasure and orgasms. And what are you left with? A sex life in which you get your happy ending – while maybe thinking you’ve rocked her world too – and she lies there feeling unsatisfied.

Luckily, bridging the gap is possible – and you will be happy to help, because I know you want your partner to orgasm. Follow these tips and even the scorecard.

Find her hot zones

When you ask women how they masturbate, a very small percentage solely put something inside their vagina. But when they’re with a man, they think they should orgasm differently. With this in mind, spend some time running an external vibrator all over her body. Remember where she experiences toe-curling sensations so, later, you can focus on those spots.

Slow down foreplay

While you can go from normal to O face in 60 seconds, women’s bodies need more time to build arousal, which involves lubrication of and increased blood flow to her lady parts. When sex lasts longer than 30 minutes – and by sex, I’m counting everything – women are much more likely to orgasm. Pump the brakes by giving her a lengthy back massage, followed by an enticingly slow taking off of her clothes (maybe use your mouth to strip her bare?). Then take your time teasing her.

Ask her what she wants

No one can mind-read, so staying silent is the best mistake your partner can make. By not saying anything, she’s training you to do something that doesn’t work for her. Instead, have her guide you with cues like, “Touch me there”, “Harder”, “Faster” or “Why don’t we try this with me on top?” If no words come to mind, have her move your hands when she wants them and show you how it’s done.

The orgasm trifecta

The majority of women always or usually orgasm when sex is composed of these three moves…. and penetration is taken off the table.

Deep kissing

Stop for a steamy make-out on your front porch before you head upstairs. (#SorryNotSorry, neighbors!)

Manual stimulation

Move the fingers pads of your pointer and middle finger in a windshield-wiper motion over her clitoris.

Oral action

Think of her clitoris as a clock, and lick the one o’clock spot – a supersensitive part for women.

Double her pleasure, double your fun

These positions, adapted from my video courses, give you a free hand to handle her during the deed.

The very good morning

Have her lie on her stomach, and slide in from behind with your knees bent and arms supporting your weight at her sides. Move one of your hands down to her clitoris for double the feels.

The big V

While she’s on her back, open her legs wide into the air (making a V shape) and grab her ankles while you thrust. Rub her clitoris with one hand or twist her hips up against you.

Steamy slow jam

Have her lie on her side with you behind her, in spoon position. Lift her leg and enter her from behind. Rub her clitoris with your fingers or with a vibe.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more steamy secrets of the female orgasm, check out my video program on the subject – Her Secret Hot Spots. 

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