Over the years, researchers have tried to demystify women’s orgasms. One of the inferences from a plethora of studies conducted across the world is that no single, fail-safe factor can guarantee deeply erotic orgasms.

Instead, a 2017 study says there are a host of factors that help women attain the Big ‘O’; these include frequent oral sex sessions, sex marathons, a fulfilling relationship, compliments from one’s partner, clear communication from both partners regarding their sexual desires and fantasies, and stimulating conversations before and during sex.

So, how do we essentially deconstruct the female orgasm? First, we need to know what can possibly stop women from having orgasms. Research shows that several factors can be inhibiting in nature. A 2013 study, The Faking Orgasm Scale for Women: Psychometric Properties, published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, says that around 75-90 per cent of women do not “consistently orgasm” during sex with a partner, while around 5-10 per cent do not orgasm at all. A lack of an open communication about one’s desires and fears seems to be a common obstacle.

In a 2017 study, Women’s Orgasm Obstacles: A Qualitative Study, researchers say, “…inability to talk about sexual activities with a spouse can be observed in women with orgasm problems.” The researchers further say that psychological factors such as introversion, emotional instability, not being adventurous, and sexual myths can be veritable hindrances too.

Now onto what’s stopping your girl from climaxing and what you can do about it.

Open communication

Ask any sexologist and he or she will say that open communication between partners is the best way to resolve issues or overcome hurdles. And I agree: the key to helping women shed inhibitions about sex is communication. It’s a simple four-letter word—talk. Engage your partner in conversations about sexual likes and dislikes. It also ensures a catharsis of sorts, since with frank discussions, many hurdles can be crossed.

Banish taboos

In the study The Faking Orgasm Scale for Women: Psychometric Properties, researchers say that sexual myths or preconceived notions about sexual activities can have an impact too. For instance, a lot of men still feel that if women initiate sex, they might be more ‘experienced’ from other encounters before them, which is not looked upon well. Women, too, often fall for the age-old belief that initiating sex is un-feminine. Needless to say, these are preconceived notions. So, banish such outdated ideas; don’t be afraid of initiating sex and being in control of your pleasure.

Have her masturbate more

Believe it or not, masturbation can have a wholesome and long-lasting effect on a woman’s sex life. Experts say that masturbation can help women gain confidence about their bodies. It’s time women stop considering it a taboo. Female masturbation seems to be more hushed up than male masturbation. This again goes back to the idea that women do not know anything about their bodies, and sexual desires need to be inculcated in women through somebody else. Masturbation is essential for women because they know what pleases them the most. And that self-knowledge can lead to satisfying orgasms.

Touchy-feely

Focusing on the pivotal role played by the clitoris, a recent study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy tried to assess how heterosexual women liked their genitals to be touched and how it can help them achieve an orgasm. Essentially, the team of researchers wanted to find out precisely what types of genital touch made straight women climax. They looked at the points where the women polled liked to be touched, preferred intensity of pressure, style of motion (up-and-down or circular) and so on.

Interestingly, it was seen that most of the women (81.7 per cent) enjoyed “rhythmic” touching. Other popular patterns included a circular rubbing of clitoris (78.3 per cent), a varying intensity of pressure (75.8 per cent) and any kind of touch that delays pleasure (73.6 per cent). Sexologists say that touch is, of course, the language of lovemaking. The clitoris or the ‘love button’ is the female version of the head of penis. It is the site of the greatest nerve concentration and sexual pleasure. In some women, the clitoris becomes noticeably erect when excited and peeks out from under the clitoral hood formed by the joining of the inner vaginal lips. The clitoral hood is women’s version of ‘foreskin’; rubbing or caressing it gives rise to immense erotic pleasure as the area is highly vascular and increased lubrication causes secretions. The clit should be treated to predominantly gentle strokes; it shouldn’t be pinched or bitten or poked as that can cause hurt. A close but slightly oblique stimulation can be ensured by fingers, tongue, or vibrator on either side and on the clitoral hood.

Practice edging

It’s kind of a mini edge-of-the-seat thriller, with a delayed climax, during lovemaking! To put it simply, edging is all about controlling your partner’s orgasm. Try to help her reach a climactic point, then bring her back from that brink, and start all over again. Repeat this till she cannot hold it anymore and she has to absolutely orgasm, no matter what! Trust me, this ensures bigger, better orgasms. For starters, you can try practicing this together: masturbate in each other’s presence, and do not allow each other to climax. It’s fun. Plus, that way, you can be familiar with how your partner orgasms and how far you can go when you control it. So, what are you waiting for? Go, get busy!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Multiple orgasms are like the G Sport and squirting: some people think they’re mythical things that simply do not exist in real life and definitely don’t happen in real life bedrooms. Other people are not sure exactly what they mean and what they entail: do multiples refer to having an orgasm right after another or to experience orgasm several times during the same sexual experience? If you are not too sure about multiple orgasms, this article will tell you everything you need to know!

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WHAT ARE THE MULTIPLE ORGASMS?

The opinions on this matter are extremely divided. Some specialists believe that multiple orgasms occur when a woman has more than one orgasm during the same sexual act, while others claim they have to take place immediately one after the other.

As with all things related to sex, the answer to this particular question regarding multiple orgasms is difficult in more ways than one. Why? Because multiples are so damn elusive! Some women never have more than one orgasm, and others do not realize they are experiencing multiples because they do not know exactly what this means or how it’s supposed to feel.

Moreover, as I have shown you above, there is no exact definition of this carnal “phenomenon”. However, according to a study of 4,400 women, 75% of them claim they can experience multiple orgasms. Other studies conducted in the UK have shown that between 15% and 76% of women may have multiple orgasms.

HOW CAN YOU GIVE YOUR PARTNER A MULTIPLE ORGASM?

As you probably expected, there is no exact recipe that you can follow because every woman is different. However, specialists agree that you need to keep in mind the following things:

Never – and I mean never – skimp on foreplay. The more excited and aroused your partner is, the higher her chances of reaching her orgasm, be it of the ordinary, singular kind or multiple. So don’t throw yourself at her – light touches and gentle teasing should be enough to get her juices flowing. Plus, when aiming for multiple orgasms it is often more effective for a woman to have her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation – this is best achieved with a vibrator or through oral or manual action.

Do not focus exclusively on making her come more than once. When you have sex, you have to focus on feeling good all the time, and this means doing what you want and how you want it. If you focus too much on orgasm per se, you will not be able to enjoy the whole experience and if you don’t enjoy it, your partner won’t enjoy it either.

Continue excitement after the first orgasm. After your partner has an orgasm, everything can feel overwhelming: her clitoris most likely is more sensitive and her entire body will feel more worn out. In this case, you should try to excite her in other ways and take things slow: set the mood and enjoy plenty of foreplay to get her ready for a second run at it: “play” with her breasts, kiss the rest of her body and only then return to the genital area.

Have your partner use her muscles to the maximum. Kegel exercises are a great way to prolong or intensify a woman’s orgasms – and to make them come faster and easier, which in turn leads to easier access to multiple orgasms.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Performance anxiety is something that only happens to people with penises, right? Incorrect. It’s about time you stopped putting the blocks on getting your rocks off.

Your tongue is on her clitoris. It knows its way around her vulva like David Attenborough knows his chimpanzees, and nerve endings are firing. So why hasn’t she come yet? You haven’t been counting the minutes, but if you were working your way through the alphabet, you suspect you’d be reaching Q by now – M, at the very least. She casts her eyes downwards, a reassuring glance that says, ‘I’ll come soon, I swear.’

Surfing a wave of pleasure isn’t easy for a woman, when she’s wondering when her last wax was, how badly her partner’s jaw must be aching and what the view is really like down there. It’s female performance anxiety (FPA), anxiety about coming, or not being able to come. The anxiety trigger could be that she’s fretting about taking too long to climax, whether she’s doing sex ‘right’, or a lingering issue with her partner.

Throw into the mix decades of internalized misogyny that’s left a woman convinced her bits are best left covered up, and it’s no wonder she’s freaking out about the proximity of someone else’s face to your clitoris. The weight of those myths dissociates women from the pleasure they’re having. An off switch snaps, and orgasmic potential vanishes.

What’s responsible for her pleasure going up in a puff of smoke is that old killjoy cortisol. Released when you feel anxious, cortisol suppresses the feel-good brain chemicals normally activated during arousal. And even if you go through the right motions, so to speak, a mind in fight-or-flight mode stops registering erotic sensations in the body. Orgasmic anxiety makes a woman unable to stay focused on pleasure because she’s constantly distracted by random thoughts. She feels like she’s watching herself doing it, rather than enjoying doing it. Anxiety is then cemented when her default reaction to an AWOL orgasm is to point the finger back at herself.

The first step to overcoming performance anxiety is to quit thinking it’s only valid when it happens to men. This is a common gender bias. Because there isn’t an overt erection for women, they can’t see that the arousal system isn’t working. But know that it makes total sense that her emotions inhibit arousal. But there’s a way to fix it and help her experience really powerful orgasms.

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Step 1. Drop a sense

If you find yourself in a threesome with you, your partner and anxiety (a clear sign that FPA is robbing your partner of a good time is quick and shallow breathing when she’s nowhere near climax), slow things down. Actively turn her attention to inhaling and exhaling, deeply and slowly, as she would when meditating. This diffuses tension and refocuses her mind on sensations over thoughts. I also recommend activating slo-mo mode on shenanigans. It’s common to feel like you have bases to tick off, but staying in “make-out mode” (that’s reaching orgasm or a high state of arousal without intercourse – use your imagination) and noticing what her body does when you slow down can be helpful. Also, forget the lights-off stigma and purposefully have sex in the dark or wearing a blindfold. When you turn off one sense, the others are magnified. That makes her zone in on every titillating touch, rather than zone out.

Step 2. Practice relaxation

Sexual excitement and sexual nervousness are similar. The difference is that when a woman is excited, she’s also a little bit relaxed, breathing fully and able to stay present; when she’s afraid, she tenses up around that excitement, her breathing constricts and she starts projecting into the future. Example: ‘We could go at this until next Tuesday and I still wouldn’t come.’ Interestingly, you can use your surroundings to get that climax clairvoyant back on side. A whiff of valerian root oil can lower frantic activity by boosting her levels of a Zen-promoting neurotransmitter called gamma amino butyric acid (not one to try to spell mid-shag). Or upgrade on your Ikea tea lights and burn a lavender scented massage candle. They melt at a lower temperature and turn into oil – meaning they relax her via their scent and when brushed on to her body as an ahh-that-feels-goooood massage balm.

Step 3. Come round to it

If her mind still won’t STFU, identify which orgasm-impeding anxieties you can actually deal with. The fear of getting an STI or an unwanted pregnancy, for example, can be addressed by finding contraceptive methods that work for you. Similarly, if it’s technique that’s missing the spot(s), expand bedroom dialogue beyond the sheepish, ‘Er, did you come?’ Keep communication flowing like a fine Sauvignon. Gentle directives like ‘keep going’ and ‘right there’ can go a long way. Most importantly, accept that there are some in-bed emotions that she just has to make peace with. Such as? Well, take body image. Hating on her naked parts can be powerful enough to screw with her arousal to the point where she avoids sex altogether. The best way to do that? Noticing an anxiety is there, but then setting it aside rather than blasting it on repeat like an advert jingle. This calms the emotion down, so she can still be present to the physical experience.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Yes, it’s a thing! We’ve got tips that will elevate your average bedroom sesh into a soul-stirring one. 

Gone are the days when sex was an act of reproduction or pleasure. It’s broken free of its restrictive definition of ‘the penetration of a vagina by a penis’ and has evolved into something a lot more intense and complex. We’ve grown into mastering the art of connecting on a deeper level, where love and lust collide, making the bond between two souls much stronger. Confused? Fear not, we’ve got you covered. 

So, how do you even begin to achieve this type of passion? Through a little something called tantric sex. Sexual intercourse is no longer an act of body-on-body pleasure or a prerequisite to building a family. It’s much more than that. It’s the most intimate way two bodies and souls can become one, and tantric sex is no different. All it does is make you slow down and relax enough to feel a sense of intense awareness and control. It teaches you to be present in yourself, as well as with your partner in every possible way. 

Whether you have been together for six months or six years, never lose sight of the connection. Keep igniting that spark to ensure the intimate energy, that connects you as you are, grows with time. You need to bring down the walls and expand your horizons. Share your vulnerabilities. Let your biggest fears and your biggest insecurities ground you to Earth as one. 

Tantric sex can help you achieve this. You might not see the results overnight, but in the long run, your efforts will pay off. If you’re new to tantric sex, what will help you is first to try my Tongue Twister program, which basically teaches you how to slowly “torture” your partner with tongue exercises that truly… burn. 

STEP 1 Block out about three to four hours, and make sure any, and all kinds of distractions—work, kids, or family— are completely taken care of. You will need this time for the two of you. 

STEP 2 Create a romantic, calm, and relaxing atmosphere. Dim the lights, or switch them off and use candles (bonus points if they’re scented!). Prep a playlist with slow instrumental music and play in the background. You will need: massage oils, towels, pillows, a few snacks and something to drink.

STEP 3 Step into the bath together. Let the warm water caress your skin and calm your body. Look into your partner’s eyes, watch the way her body moves and the way water flows through her hair. Encourage her to do the same to you. Outline her body with your fingertips, but keep in mind not to engage in sexual activities yet. Let a serene feeling settle in you, calming your nerves.

STEP 4 Once out of the bathroom, sit apart from each other (without facing each other). Both of you need to close your eyes and relax. Take slow but steady breaths. Focus on inhaling and exhaling until you feel your mind is at ease and completely free of other thoughts and disturbances. HINT: You won’t be able to master this overnight, but remember, practice makes perfect.

STEP 5 Sit cross-legged, facing each other (or in any other intimate position you prefer). Let your knees and hands touch. Share each other’s energy and emotions. Synchronise your breathing to match your boo’s and let your minds, souls, and bodies connect. HINT: This, too, takes time. So keep at it, until it comes easily to you both.

STEP 6 Have your partner lie down and give her a slow and sensual full-body massage. Keep your mind from wandering and focus on what’s happening now, both within yourself, as well as with your partner. End the massage with a long and intense genital massage. If you feel she’s about to climax, focus her attention elsewhere, prolonging her orgasm as much as possible. Focus on other parts of her body and allow that feeling to spread to the rest of her body. Be sure to communicate and ask her what she likes and what feels good. This is key. HINT: She may (or may not) orgasm, but remember the big O is not your goal here. Rather, it is to be aware of every touch. 

STEP 7 After she recovers, ask her to give you the same massage. She should pay attention to your body language and sounds, understanding that your wants and desires may not be similar to what she enjoys. She should maintain intimate contact with you through her hands, kisses, or soft words of love. HINT: Again, your orgasm is not the goal; making you feel good and helping you maintain concentration is. 

STEP 8 Once both of you recover from the massages, stay immobile in an intimate position. The recommended position in tantric sex is Yab Yum, believed to be more intimate. Your partner sits on your lap with her legs wrapped around you, and with your genitals connected. Stay still in this position taking in every part of your partner, breathing together and gazing into each other’s eyes until you feel a deep and undeniable connection filled with desire. 

STEP 9 Slowly reposition yourself as you prefer without breaking the connection you’ve built throughout the previous steps. Then, make slow, long and passionate love the way you usually would. 

STEP 10 Include tantric sex into your love life as much as possible to master the art of truly connecting through your mind, body, and soul as one.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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She’s exciting, thoughtful and everything you want in a lover. Show her you appreciate the attention with these hot moves.  

The three qualities that really matter in bed have nothing to do with firm butts or hard rock abs. Confidence, power and sensuality are much more desirable traits in the eyes of a woman. You may be extremely adventurous and kinky, but if you aren’t strong or confident enough with those killer moves, your partner will be left feeling a little cold. The five moves we’ve listed below require all three traits in different degrees. They’re nothing elaborate, just sweet, simple moves that will drive her wild.

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Hit the spot 

If you know exactly where to touch her to drive her to her knees, then you’re golden. Speaking of which, the back of the knees is an often ignored erogenous zone. Women, just like men, have multiple sweet spots that are generally overlooked for the more obvious points of interest. 

Start small

Have your woman lie on her front and straddle her as you give her a soothing massage. Place a light kiss on the nape of her neck, trailing a line of kisses down her back, and then the back of her knees, sucking gently on the soft skin there.

Take the reins 

Sometimes, all that is required for mind-blowing sex is for you to take charge. There’s nothing sexier than a man confident enough to shut a woman up, strip her down, or to pull her into the bathroom for a quickie on the countertop of the sink. 

Start small

A simple, but effective, way to show her who’s in charge is to assume the doggie style position— without warning. As she’s getting ready for you to get on top, put a hand firmly on her chest and push her on her stomach to penetrate her from behind. 

Mouth off 

If you can use your mouth, especially your tongue, the right way, then that’s half the battle won. Be it while kissing, licking, going down on her—your mouth can be your best friend or your worst enemy, so use it well. 

Start small

If you want to kiss her senseless, let your tongue jive with his. You could also try the oldest trick in the book and catch her bottom lip in your teeth and suck on it gently.

Rough her up 

If you want to show your woman how lucky she is, get a little rough with her. Not so much as to hurt her, but enough to get her blood pumping. There aren’t many women who wouldn’t give their right arm for a romp in the sack that leaves them sore and reeling. 

Start small

Take a fistful of her hair in your hand and hold it firmly as she kisses you, or bite her shoulder to elicit an excited growl. 

Tease her 

Stay tantalisingly out of reach during foreplay and once you’ve started having sex, delay gratification for as long as possible and you’ll make sure her orgasm is that much stronger. Tease her with feather-light kisses and nibble on her earlobe until she’s begging for release.

Start small

Delay penetration for as long as you can. Distract her just as she gets ready for you to enter her. Just when you think you both can’t hold back anymore, give in. The first thrust will be sweeter for the wait.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Before any performance, warm-ups are crucial. This applies to athletes, musicians, and you guessed it — sexual partners! Very few women want to jump straight into intercourse, preferring a bit of foreplay to get her engines revving and ready for a night of bliss. That’s why learning how to finger a woman properly is crucial for not just setting the stage for mind-blowing sex, but perhaps even making her cum before the main event. 

While handplay may feel a bit old school, a little finger foreplay is a great way to get your partner primed and stimulated for an intense experience. While it may not feel highly sexual, fingering is a great way to build anticipation. Whether you want to bring her over the edge with just your fingers or you’re building up to adventurous sex positions with some heavy foreplay, the right fingering techniques can better prepare her for an orgasm she won’t soon forget.  

While every woman has different needs and preferences, there are plenty of ways to create a back-arching experience with those magic hands! 

 

The Pleasure Points

The most important place to start when fingering women is, well, knowing where to start. This means you need to have a deeper understanding of the female genitalia and where her pleasure points are located. Let’s start from the outside and work our way in (remember this phrase, as it’s also one of the best ways to finger a woman).

Chances are you’re familiar with the vulva, comprised of: 

The mons pubis (pubic mound)
The labia minora and majora (inner and outer, respectively)
The clitoris and clitoral hood
The vestibular bulbs (flanking the clitoris)
The vulva vestibule (between the clitoris and vagina)
The vaginal opening 

I’m sure you already know to pay attention to the clitoris, but the sweet spot is located inside the vagina: the elusive G-spot. This intense pleasure point is located along the anterior wall of the vagina, roughly 3-5 inches inside. It’s not always easy to find, but slow exploration with your fingers will eventually cause it to swell, making it easier to locate. 

How to Finger a Woman: 6 Expert Tips

Now that you know where to focus your efforts, let’s look at how. Before you dive in, here are a few general rules you should know: 

Start slowly
Be gentle
Listen to your partner
And please, trim those fingernails! 

Ready to get started? Here are six expert fingering tips to help you get her over the finish line.

First, Foreplay

Your first inclination might be to skip the appetizers and go straight for the main course. However, when you get hands-on with the clitoris without any preparation, it’s not only jarring, it can also be quite painful. Starting slow and building arousal is a must in order to get the juices flowing and prime her for the main event.

Knowing how to finger a woman starts with understanding the importance of foreplay, so spend some time stimulating other erogenous zones on your way to the clitoris. Foreplay is especially important if you’re aiming to achieve the famous G-spot orgasm. Give her an erotic massage, whisper dirty talk in her ear, suck and lick your way across her breasts and down her belly — the options are endless! Ultimately, anything you can do to tease and warm her up will have her begging for more. 

Focus on the Clit

There’s no denying that the clitoris is the star of the show when it comes to female orgasms, so once she’s aflame with passion from your foreplay, it’s time to stop teasing and get to the good stuff. A lot of knowing how to finger your lady like a pro revolves around catering to the ultra-sensitive clit.  

There are plenty of fingering techniques to explore, but a good place to start is by working your way up and around the labia, the vulva vestibule, and the clitoral hood to ensure sensitivity by the time you reach the clitoris. From there, you’ll want to use a gentle touch and some variation of movement and pressure to see what makes her gasp and moan. Remember: direct stimulation could feel intense and even painful for some women, so follow her cues and check in with her frequently.

Build Your Tempo

Even men don’t tend to go from zero to sixty instantly when it comes to sex. Chances are you enjoy a slow build and some tantalizing teasing, so why wouldn’t she as well? 

When learning how to finger a woman in a way that builds anticipation, rhythm and tempo are important aspects of the overall experience. Women who feel comfortable and confident will probably tell you when they want you to speed up. But if she’s on the quieter side, you can gauge her desire through signals like faster breathing, moans of pleasure, and angling her pelvis towards you. Not sure you’re on the right track? Just ask!  

Live it Up with Lube

The female body is designed to produce lubricating fluids when sexually aroused, but that doesn’t mean lube can’t act as a facilitator. In some cases, aging, hormonal changes, or certain medications can lead to dryness or lack of natural lubricant production. If you opt to involve lube in your sessions, be sure to purchase organic, natural products that are safe for internal use. Note: some lubes can’t be used with certain sex toys, so do your research before pairing these two goodies.  

Part of learning how to finger someone is understanding that every woman is different and finding ways to please her. This could mean trying different types of stimulation to arouse her and get her wet. Or you can add lube for an extra erotic experience that both of you will love! 

Explore the G-Spot

Learning how to finger a vagina doesn’t mean just focusing on her external pleasure points. Why not try delving deeper and giving her that earth-shattering G-spot orgasm? When a woman is fully aroused, the spongy tissue of the G-spot will become engorged, making it a little easier to find.

By slowly working your way up the anterior wall with one or two fingers slightly crooked as if to say, “come hither,” you have the best opportunity to locate her sweet spot. If you can’t feel it, trust me — you’ll hear it! Once you find the G-spot, her moans and gasps will be a sure sign that you’ve arrived at your destination. Once you’re there, apply pressure and build your tempo to give her a truly unforgettable orgasm.

Get to Know Her Needs

The most important tip I can give you on how to finger a woman effectively is to understand what makes her tick. Figuring out how her body works is just one part of the equation — the female orgasm is also highly mental and emotional, so it’s important to stimulate her psyche and ensure she feels safe and comfortable. 

This doesn’t necessarily mean candles and rose petals on the bed. It could mean talking dirty in a way she likes, starting off with a sexy dinner, a little playful sexting, or telling her what you’re going to do to her before you do it. It might mean going slow and finding ways to help her relax and fully immerse herself in the experience without feeling self-conscious. She might like watching porn together or adding some naughty sex toys to the mix. Every woman is unique, and so is what turns her on. Chances are, you’ll enjoy finding out her preferences as much as she does! 

Who Is Gabrielle Moore?

Gabrielle Moore is a sex expert and best-selling author of sexual guides geared toward female pleasure. Over 8 million readers worldwide and over half a million subscribers to her daily online sex tips already take advantage of Moore’s guidance and advice, and she’s been featured in major publications like Men’s Fitness Magazine.

Her work is fueled by intensive research and years of personal experience and experimentation in the bedroom, making her uniquely qualified to help individuals and couples enjoy the intimate and fulfilling sex life they deserve. Subscribe for a better sex life today! 

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Most women are physically capable of squirting—but very few ever do. Not because their bodies won’t allow it, but because their partners don’t know how to make it happen.

That’s why the men who do? They don’t just give her pleasure—they leave a lasting mark. They become unforgettable.

The Truth About Squirting

Recent surveys suggest that while nearly 80% of women are physically capable of squirting, fewer than 15% say they’ve actually experienced it—and even fewer say their partner knew how to make it happen.

Here’s the kicker:

Very few of those women experience it consistently. Even fewer say their partners can do it more than once.

Most men? They don’t even realize how close they’ve come—only to back off or switch it up right before the magic happens.

So Why Don’t More Men Know How?

Because no one ever taught them.

They only see it in porn clips—where the setup is skipped, the technique is hidden, and everything looks instant.

But a squirting orgasm isn’t a magic trick. It’s a formula. A rhythm. A buildup. A precise combo of pressure, angle, and timing.

Which means: if you learn it… you instantly stand out.

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There are men who look good.
There are men who talk smooth.
And then there are men who know how to unlock a woman’s deepest release.

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When you master this, it’s not just about pleasure—it’s about giving her an experience she didn’t know her body was capable of. One no other man has given her.

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You Could Be That Man

Most men don’t even try. The rest give up too soon. But you?

If you’re here, reading this—you’re already ahead of the game.

All that’s left is learning the moves. The pressure. The angle. The rhythm. The timing.

Watch this now and start becoming the lover she tells her friends about

With pleasure,

Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Founder of Naked U

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It happened to me. And it’s happened to more women than you think.

There is no comparison to the intensity of a clitoral orgasm from a man who knows how to use his tongue.

It’s wet. It’s intimate. It’s vulnerable. It’s raw. It’s animal.

It says: “I want you so badly, I can barely hold myself back.”

And that? That hits the most primal instincts in a woman.

Which is why—even if you’re an asshole, broke, small, or old—if you’re good at oral, we’ll come back for more. Again. And again.

 

Here’s the Science Why
Triggers the Most Intense Clitoral Orgasm
Nothing stimulates the clitoris quite like oral sex. The tongue, lips, suction, and wetness create a type of pleasure that fingers and penetration can’t replicate. With over 8,000 nerve endings—twice as many as the penis—the clitoris craves this kind of attention. Do it right, and she’ll crave you for it.
It Says, “I Want You So Much I Can Barely Hold Myself Back”
It’s intimate. It’s raw. It’s animal. Oral sex—when done with hunger—tells her, “I want to devour you.” And that turns her on more than anything. Just like a hard erection signals your arousal, your tongue between her thighs tells her she’s irresistible. That’s what gets her wet before you’ve even taken your pants off.
40% of Men Do Oral… But Only 5% Do It Right
Most men think oral is a warm-up. The best lovers know it’s the main event. That’s why women remember the ones who do it right. And when you do? She’ll compare every man after you to the way your tongue made her melt.

Click here to master oral sex, become part of the top 5% of men, give her the best clitoral orgasm she has ever experienced, and enjoy raw, animal sex like she’s never had before. (Warning: this is an explicit demonstration)

 

Real Stories from Me (and My Students)

I kept coming back to the same guy, all because of oral. And it’s happening to women all over the world—here are some true stories from students:

Brian – His ex-girlfriend still texts him—even though he’s now married. He told me, “It’s obvious she still wants more.”

Mike – He’s 48. She was 21. He said, “After oral, everything changed. She knew I wanted her more than anyone else ever had.”

Sofia – A close friend of mine. Gorgeous European brunette, 36. She went back to a bartender for five years—just for the oral. Now she’s with an American man… who only got her because he learned from my course. She says, “Gabrielle, I owe you everything.”

My story?
You can hear my full story—raw and real—and learn how I teach men to master this skill.
Click here to watch the video now.

 

Ready to Be the Man She Always Comes Back to?

Oral sex isn’t just a “nice bonus.” It’s a weapon.

It’s the move that turns a one-night stand into a craving.
It makes her feel adored, devoured, dominated—like her pleasure is the center of your universe.

Yes, I teach more than oral. I teach full-body pleasure, boobgasms, fingering, trigasms, and more. But oral?
Oral is where many men fail.
And it’s where you’ll rise.

Click here to watch Oral Rapture and learn exactly how to do it.

 

With heat,

Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

 

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This is the most glorious thing you could see during sex with her! A thick, milky liquid that women release during intense sexual pleasure or orgasm. You’ll see it coating your penis during deep penetration—and if you do? Well, GREAT job. She’s not just enjoying it. She’s in bliss.

That creamy, white liquid her body releases when you’re doing everything right? It’s one of the most powerful signs of her peak arousal.

I call it: The Vaginal Cream!

What Is It?

It’s not lubrication. It’s not squirting. And no—it’s definitely not urine.

Scientifically, this fluid is known as Skene’s gland fluid, or what some researchers call “prostatic-like fluid.” It’s released by her Skene’s glands—often referred to as the female prostate. These glands sit near the urethra and are stimulated most during deep G-spot play.

Want to learn how to make her body release this powerful signal of pleasure? Watch the Vagina Masterclass here.

What’s the Purpose of This White Liquid?

While there’s still ongoing research, many sexologists and scientists believe the purpose of Skene’s gland fluid is both protective and erotic:

Lubrication & Comfort: The fluid helps reduce friction and enhances comfort during deep penetration.
Signal of Readiness: Its release signals a high level of arousal, often right before or during orgasm, letting you know her body is completely there.
Emotional Release: Like tears or moans, it’s a physical expression of emotional surrender and pleasure.
Antibacterial Benefits: Some studies suggest the fluid has antibacterial properties, offering potential protection to the urinary tract.

Bottom line? When you see it, it means you did something right. Her body doesn’t lie.

Want to recognize these raw signals of pleasure? Click here to learn more inside the Masterclass.

When Is It Produced?

It happens when her body is completely immersed in the pleasure you’re giving her.

She’s deeply aroused, mentally surrendered, and physically stimulated in all the right ways.

It’s not something she can fake. And it’s not something she can always control.

When it happens—it’s raw, primal, and deeply intimate.

Want to learn how to build her to this peak? Watch the Vagina Masterclass for a step-by-step demonstration.

Is It Squirting?

No.

Squirting is a clear fluid expelled in a rush—almost like a small fountain.

Vaginal Cream is thicker. Creamier. It usually comes in smaller amounts and appears during or right after orgasm.

Think of it as her body’s way of showing you she just had a true orgasm.

Where Does It Come From?

It’s produced by her Skene’s glands, also known as the female prostate. These glands are located near the urethra and release fluid during intense stimulation—especially G-spot or blended orgasms.

Not all women do it. But most can—with the right partner, the right rhythm, and the right energy.

Want to be that partner? Click here to watch how to master her vagina with Alexa Tomas.

Learn How to Generate It

This isn’t about luck. It’s not about size.

It’s about knowing her body. It’s about mastering her vagina.

That’s why I created my Vagina Masterclass.

Inside, the gorgeous Alexa Tomas shows you exactly how to:

Stimulate her vaginal walls and pressure zones
Combine clitoral and G-spot play
Recognize when she’s about to release this creamy signal of peak pleasure

And yes—you’ll see what the Vaginal Cream looks like. In full, explicit detail.

Click here to experience the Vagina Masterclass now.

 

With heat,

Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

 

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Why This Is Fascinating (And Powerful)

A woman’s body is capable of something most men don’t even imagine:

Multiple orgasms. In one night. Sometimes at the same time.

And when a man knows how to give them to her—consistently—he becomes unforgettable.

Because she doesn’t just feel good… she bonds. Her brain floods with chemicals that tie her desire to you. The more intense and layered the pleasure, the more deeply she wants you again.

That’s the erotic science of orgasms.

And yes—it’s teachable.

Inside Triple Stimulation Penetration, I demonstrate the exact techniques for triggering these orgasms with Abella Danger’s famous curves and Tori Black’s irresistible body.

The 5 Female Orgasms (And How to Trigger Each One)

Let’s break them down.

1. Clitoral Orgasm
The most well-known—and for most women, the most reliable.
How to trigger: External stimulation using fingers, tongue, or a vibrator. Rhythm matters more than pressure.

2. Vaginal (G-Spot) Orgasm
Triggered from inside, through the front wall of the vagina. Feels deeper and more emotional. How to trigger: Curl your fingers or angle your penis toward the belly button. Use pressure and a pulsing rhythm.

3. A-Spot Orgasm
Located further in—just before the cervix, along the upper vaginal wall. Often overlooked. Can produce deep, wave-like pleasure. How to trigger: Use longer fingers or a curved toy/angle with penetration. Needs lots of arousal first.

4. Cervical Orgasm
This is raw, intense, and for some women—spiritually powerful. Not every woman can have it immediately. But when she does… she surrenders. How to trigger: Deep penetration (penis or toy), slow thrusting, and full emotional trust.

5. Anal Orgasm
Often misunderstood—but real. Comes from stimulation of anal nerve endings and internal pelvic tension release. How to trigger: Only after warm-up and consent. Use lube, fingers or toys. Pair with clitoral touch for best results.

I show exactly how to combine these on camera—with Abella Danger and Tori Black—inside Triple Stimulation Penetration.

The Biology Behind Her Multiple Climaxes

Unlike men, a woman doesn’t need a refractory period. Her body is wired to continue—building on pleasure, stacking waves of climax.

Every time you give her an orgasm, her brain releases oxytocin and dopamine. These chemicals make her feel safe, connected, euphoric… and addicted to the one who gave it to her.

In evolutionary terms, the man who gave her more was often stronger, fitter, and more sexually capable—traits linked to better genes, higher stamina, and greater ability to protect and provide. Her body interpreted those orgasms not just as pleasure, but as signs of power and suitability.

Which is why her body prefers him.

Multiple orgasms aren’t just a party trick. They’re an imprint. A form of erotic memory that ties her deepest pleasure to you.

Watch how I unlock this exact response inside Triple Stimulation Penetration.

The Secret Orgasm: The Trigasm

This is what most men never give her:

Three orgasms at once. Or at least, in the same session.

The trifecta of clitoral + G-spot + anal… or clitoral + A-spot + cervical…

When you stimulate these zones simultaneously, her body can’t hold back. She loses control. Her legs tremble. Her voice breaks. And her mind forgets every man who didn’t give her this.

The best part? You don’t need to be a porn star. You need knowledge, timing, and the right rhythm.

Inside Triple Stimulation Penetration, I guide Abella and Tori through full-body orgasms using just this method.

Are You Ready to Give Her More Than Just Pleasure?

Most men stop at one. Some give two. But the unforgettable ones—the men she craves—they give her three… four… even five.

Orgasms stacked like fire.

If you want to become that man—the one her body never forgets—you need to know exactly what to touch, how, and when.

Watch the full demonstration inside Triple Stimulation Penetration.

Click here to see how multiple orgasms turn into irresistible desire.

Special Guest Appearance: Abella Danger

Inside the course, you’ll see world-famous actress Abella Danger demonstrate—explicitly—how a Trigasm is achieved… and what it does to her body.

From the first ripple to the full-body surrender, her reaction is something you need to see to believe.

Click here to watch Abella’s Trigasm and learn exactly how to give it.

Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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