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It’s one thing to add new techniques to your arsenal when you’re single – you can use any number of women as your experimental guinea pigs to see what works and what doesn’t. But when you’ve been in a committed long-term relationship, it can be difficult to see outside your tunnel-vision lens.

Maybe you’ve been using the same foreplay moves for years and can’t see beyond those four tried-and-tired methods. Perhaps you can sense that your wife is going through the motions just as much as you are and you don’t know how to begin to approach her about it. Whatever the foreplay routine is, it’s time to break out of it.

Sure, change can be an intimidating thing. You might try something new and get a pretty unfavourable reaction from your spouse – she looks at you like you’ve lost your mind, she shies away and withdraws, or worse yet, she laughs.

Rejection from a lifelong partner can be a bitter pill to swallow. But until you start experimenting with new ways to liven things up in the bedroom, you’ll never make any progress.

It’s no surprise that many married couples admit to having less sex after they exchange vows. According to an article in the Mercury News , one in five couples are living in virtually “sexless” marriages, experts say, meaning having sex fewer than 10 times a year. And one-third of married couples struggle with the problem of mismatched sexual desire.

Does that mean that some people are just destined to have lousy sex lives? Absolutely not! It just means that husbands and wives need to be open to a little experimentation, trying things that they may not normally engage in.

There are a few ways to ease yourself into the unknown and catch your wife’s attention (in a good way) in the process.

Prepping yourself

It’s easy to get lackadaisical when it comes to making yourself all shiny and new for your partner. When you were dating, it made sense to keep up on basic hygiene as well as care about your appearance. And while one of the luxuries to having a long-term partner is being able to let yourself go every once in awhile, it’s important that we don’t lose complete sight of what makes us attractive.

I’m not going to tell you that showering, brushing your teeth, and shaving on a daily basis is non-negotiable. You know that by now. But maybe you haven’t been keeping up on haircuts, skincare or even manscaping (grooming down there – a big no-no). Perhaps there was a cologne or an after-shave that used to drive your wife wild during your courting days and it’s been gathering dust under the bathroom sink. And even though track pants and your university sweatshirt are the most comfortable articles of clothing you own, it wouldn’t hurt to put on actual pants and a tucked-in shirt every so often.

Think about how physically attracted you are to your wife. Maybe she’s slipped into complacency in matters of superficiality too – she goes longer in-between leg-shaving, she bums around the house in your old t-shirts and pulls her hair back into a messy ponytail. But if she suddenly went for a Brazilian bikini wax, wore a little ensemble that was unusually sexy or dabbed some Chanel behind her ears, your senses would undeniably perk up (as well as something else).

Kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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What does foreplay mean to you? A minute of kissing and rubbing before diving in headfirst? Even if you engage in foreplay with your partner, it probably doesn’t last that long. I get it – you want to skip right to the good part… but it won’t be good for either of you if you don’t put in the time to get both of you worked up. It’s like driving a car – if you don’t let it warm up first it’s going to stall. And so will your girl!

Foreplay is an important ingredient of having a satisfying, healthy sex life. It helps you stay connected with your spouse, it allows for sexual exploration, and most of all, it feels good! So here is some advice on how to make foreplay last longer.

Slow it down
Stop rushing. Take your time. This isn’t a race. The first one done does NOT win the prize!

Foreplay should be exactly how it sounds: play. You wouldn’t rush through a game of cops and robbers so stop rushing through licks and fondles. Enjoy yourself. Take a few minutes to give some attention to each of her seven erogenous zones. (Yes, boys, there are seven!)

Focus on the unconventional
I know you wanna go straight to those tried-and-true hotspots (breasts and nether regions) but they’ve been tried and it’s time to think outside the box (pun intended). Kiss and caress her neck, ears and shoulders. Let your hands glide up and down her legs. Give her a foot massage (or take that big leap and go for some foot-oral action). Stray from the norm and see how excited you will both get.

Start earlier
Stop having sex for the few minutes before your heads hit the pillows. Set the PVR to tape the end of the game or her episode of Gossip Girl” and try heading to the bedroom a little earlier. Hopefully you’ll feel less inclined to speed through things.

I hated a guy who had an extremely stressful job and would start dozing by 8pm – all of our sexual escapades were these hurried romps quickly followed by snoring. SO I’d start to titillate and tease around 7pm – even if Family Guy was on he couldn’t ignore my hand sliding down his pants, and before long, foreplay was lasting longer that Stewie’s rants. Switch up your sex routine. Stray from the norm. Be impulsive.

Break out the sex toys
If you’re breezing through foreplay because you’re out of new ways to excite your other half, make foreplay last longer by bringing some toys into the mix. They’ll help you with the exploring, experimenting, and longer-lasting pre-sex fun.

I’m a big fan of vibrators (as are my fellow girls), and they come in all shapes and sizes, providing a wide range of sensations, meaning she won’t tire of it very soon. Handcuffs, blindfolds, and ticklers are also a lot of fun.

Happy lovemaking!

Gabrielle Moore

PS. What other love blunders have you or your friends committed over the years? Share it with me in the comments section.

On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“The secret of love is seeking variety in your life together, and never letting routine chords dull the melody of your romance.”  ~ Unknown

The notion that keeping a romance alive is a labor of love can be a harsh reminder to those of us who have let our courtship dissolve into the hum-drum mechanics of every day life, but even the coldest engine can be purring in no time with a little jump-start!

Breaking free from debilitating routines can seem incredibly difficult, even impossible, but all you need is a little forethought and an open mind. You may worry about rejection – after all, being laughed or scoffed at by the person you love most can be a huge ego-buster – but it is vital to remember that if you are bored, it’s safe to assume that your wife is too. It might take a few tries before she starts to warm up, but flirting and foreplay are just like everything else in life…. practice makes perfect. Take a deep breath, swallow your fear and dive right in!

Let’s Get Physical

I don’t have to tell you that proper hygiene is essential – you’ve been in the game long enough to know that a shower and a shave go a long way, or that bad breath is a mood killer. But do you know which brand of cologne makes your wife swoon? Has that special suit you look so good in been hiding in the back of the closet along with her sexiest dress? Taking the time to dress up isn’t just about looking nice. It not only shows that you are willing to put out the effort to be noticeable, but it marks the time you spend together as special! Whether you’re going to the most expensive restaurant you can afford or taking a picnic in the park, if you want your evening to end with steam between the sheets, you need to start early by laying the scene.

Hands Off

If your advances are often rebuffed, or if you just follow the same old lesson plan, pay attention to the time line. For men, passion often begins and ends in bed, but a woman’s desire tends to require some smoldering. Why spend days or weeks frustrated when you could be laying the foundation for a mind blowing experience? To start the fires burning, blow some life into the coals with well-placed words! Leave your wife a romantic note, send a quick text telling her how much you miss her, or a sexy email that you can’t wait to kiss her. Flowers always get my juices flowing, and you can gain serious bonus points by sending them when she can brag about her amazing husband who gives her flowers ‘just because’.

Make the Move

With romance in the air, the way is wide open for affection! Think back to the beginning, when everything was fresh and new, when you could barely keep your hands off each other. How would your wife react if, instead of a peck on the cheek when you walked out the door in the morning, she was swept off her feet with an exhilarating smooch that left her in a haze of endorphins with an entire day to want more? Be unexpected! Hold her hand walking down the street, caress her face and hair. Touch her with ease, without any sense of urgency. If she suspects that your romance comes with strings attached, the magic will disappear.

Talk It Out

If flirting outside the bedroom doesn’t lead straight to sexual experimentation – you know what, even if it does! – talking about your sexual desires and preferences is vital to any happy relationship. Don’t joke around and try not to sound sarcastic. Just talk about what you want, what intrigues you and ask her to do the same! You may be surprised if you bring up oral sex, toys or roleplay – she might be yearning for the same… or have a few ideas of her own!

Build Up and Cool Down

We all experience the ups and downs of the libido-coaster, but it is important to maintain intimacy and romance even if we aren’t at peak performance. When you reach new heights of pleasure, don’t use it as an excuse for complacency – no one likes a lazy lover. If you continue to touch and talk to your woman as the sexy seductress you want her to become, she can respond with her own set of creative ideas for sparking your fire! Take your time and remember, if you can nurture her receptive desire, sex can be as special and spontaneous as you can imagine.

Be open and honest, enjoy foreplay before the foreplay, make little changes to your routines one at a time. Most importantly, just do it! Don’t put it off one day more. The time to change your love life for the better is right now.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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“Well, take your time and don’t live too fast. Troubles will come and they will pass. Find a woman and you’ll find love. Don’t forget, son, there is someone up above.”
– Lynard Skynard

Sometimes, when our relationships aren’t as intimate as they used to be and our opportunities for sex don’t pop up as often, we jump at the chance when it is presented. In this heightened, frenzied state, men often rush through the act, barrelling toward the finish line with only one goal in mind. This kind of one-track thinking can leave your partner feeling unappreciated and unfulfilled. So what does it take to let go, enjoy the moment and allow your wife to do the same?

Pampering Passion

According to The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, “About 85% of men report that their partner had an orgasm at the most recent sexual event; this compares to the 64% of women who report having had an orgasm at their most recent sexual event.”  Have you ever had sex and not been able to cum? How would you feel if this was true for almost half of your sexual encounters?

So what do women need to have a really satisfying sexual experience? Overwhelmingly, the answer is passion! While it may seem like married women have a tendency to lose interest in sex entirely, a quick look at the popularity of sexy tv shows, erotic novels and romance movies will prove different – women are just getting their passion somewhere else!

When you recognize the need for passion in your life, there are four great ways to continue to nurture it in your relationship.

Drop the Distractions

When you and your wife go to bed at night, what is foremost on her mind? Is she thinking about how to make you feel good or is she concerned that she didn’t have a chance to finish the dishes or self-conscious because she didn’t have time away from the kids or work to take a shower? If she is distracted by bedtime or worried about what to make for breakfast tomorrow, she can’t tune in to you and get turned on!

So what’s the best way to convince her to drop out of reality for a few moments? Get rid of her distractions! Wash that load of dishes in the sink, offer to take care of breakfast in the morning – go one further and serve it to her in bed with a rose! Put the kids to bed while she takes a shower and slips into something more comfortable…

Stress Relief

People who have less frequent sex have been shown to compensate by working harder, longer hours. If stress is the cause of infrequent intimacy, what do you think the effects of even more stress will be? Stress is a mood-killer for everyone. If stress is making you feel desperate, you’ll be too eager and rush through what could be an extraordinary, mind-blowing, life-changing experience!

If she is stressed about bills, work, kids or anything else, whether it seems rational to you or not, give her the support she needs and encourage her to relax! Draw her a hot bath, give her a long, slow massage and let her forget all about her troubles.

Take It Slow

Once she’s in the moment, don’t blow it by rushing! Take things nice, slow and easy. A very common complaint among women is how little foreplay they experience after marriage. Kissing and caressing is a great way to get her warmed up. Exploring each other’s bodies after an invigorating make-out session is a great way to encourage oral play and warm her up for something exciting and new!

If you are having a hard time staying in the moment, mediation and in particular the breathing techniques of Tantra can help you ground, center and stay focused on creating a safe, inviting atmosphere of pleasure!

Be Spontaneous!

Speaking of exciting and new! We know that a vast majority of women prefer spontaneous sex over planned intimacy. The paradox about spontaneity is that it doesn’t work very often without planning! If you want to surprise your lover, it means getting all the other little things taken care of first, making provisions for time alone somewhere romantic or naughty. She’s bound to appreciate all your planning and effort!

Finding the right moments to do something special seemingly on the spur of the moment will let your wife feel appreciated and encourage a more active, loving sex life on a regular basis!

Your routine is broken and now you have the skills to foster a warm, inviting environment for regular love and intimacy! Are you ready to master advanced foreplay techniques to take your lovemaking to the next level?

Happy lovemaking!

Gabrielle Moore

PS. What other love blunders have you or your friends committed over the years? Share it with me in the comments section.

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It may seem cliche, but there is no hiding from the fact that the key to turning a woman on is through romance. The female brain is designed to seek security and reliability, where the male brain pursues sex much more ruthlessly. Turning on her body, whether it seems easy and straightforward or a maze of complexity, is still only the second step to the sex you seek. Before you even get close, you need to seduce her mind! These six simple steps will have her putty in your hands and eager to explore.

1. Eye Contact
Did you and your wife ever have that moment, early on in your relationship, gazing across the room at each other with the sparks flying? Do you remember how that moment felt, year heart thudding in your chest and your breath fast in your throat? There was a time when I would have given anything to feel that excitement again, and I’m grateful for it every time my husband gives me a playful wink or a suggestive eyebrow-raise from across the room.

2. Kissing
Sure, a smooch on the way out the door and a few hot wet ones before sex are great, but don’t you ever just miss making out for the fun of it? Kissing is one of the best forms of foreplay available! Lots of women appreciate some lip action without the immediate expectation of sex. Why not warm her up a bit in the morning when she wakes up and leave her to simmer all day? When it does come to sex, mix it up a bit! Light kisses on her eyelids, nose, neck and other erogenous zones will have her warmed up and begging for more in no time flat.

3. Taking Control
Who initiates sex in your relationship? If it’s you, what’s your approach? Many people shy away from taking the reigns in sex – if you aren’t very confident or knowledgeable about pleasing your partner, it can be hard to make the first move with grace and strength, but this is what so many women crave!

Let her take control if she expresses an interest and don’t get offended if she gives you suggestions. When you want to start the scene, be open and honest. Tell her your desires and be ready to guide her in giving you what you want. A strong majority of women are interested in having their hair pulled, their bottom spanked or their wrists cuffed during sex, so no matter what your fantasy, open your mind and let her know – chances are she’s into some roleplay too!

4. Communication

Intimate Talk
Stop beating around the bush. We all have dreams, fantasies and desires and who better to help us experience these things than the love of your life? Sitting down to talk about your sexy secrets over an intimate dinner can open up the path to role playing your wife’s rescue fantasy, purchasing a sex toy together or donning a costume or uniform… but only if you’re willing to risk embarrassment and speak up!

Dirty Talk
Once you’re comfortable discussing your sexual fantasies in the low-pressure zone, it’s time to take it up a notch. When things are getting hot and heavy, the easiest way to get the dirty talk going is to talk about what you want your wife to do to you… or what you can’t wait to do to her. When you’re in the moment, you can draw things out by describing how the experience feels. This will not only allow you to spend more time together, but will heighten your excitement and hers.

Non-Verbal Cues
The four main categories of non-verbal clues should come as no surprise: hugging, kissing, touching and looking. The best foreplay involves all four techniques, to stimulate the mind and body in as many ways possible.

5. Support
Trying new things can be scary and she will need your comfort and support when working to define her needs and wants. When you’re in the moment, encourage her when she does something you really like – be clear and concise! If she’s doing something that isn’t particularly pleasing, gently guide her hands or mouth somewhere else, and save the critique for later.

6. Confidence
Aside from praising her skill or technique, practicing the art of compliments in other areas will not only be greatly appreciated, but will allow your partner to feel more comfortable relaxing and opening up to you about her deepest desires. Be honest and tell her what you really love about her.

Foreplay is an art form and there is always more to learn. Once you’ve mastered these steps to smart seduction, why not go even further and learn the 8 essential kissing techniques every husband should have in his repertoire? Click this link and try something new tonight!

Talk dirty to me,

Gabrielle Moore

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“Erogenous zones are either everywhere or nowhere.” – Joseph Heller

There you are – candles glowing, bodies soft and supple with massage oils, primed and ready for some hands-on foreplay. Your lover is laid out like a platter before you, a selection of delectable morsels for you to savor. How often do you ignore the amuse-bouche entirely and go straight for the main course? A foreplay master knows that there are a variety of ways to make her gasp, moan and scream and is eager to explore them!

Erogenous Zones

The most important thing to remember when turning on her body is to pay attention! Her body language – pulling away, pushing towards, writhing or undulating – as well as her breathing and sounds will give important clues, but if you are unsure how she enjoys something, simply ask her. A husky, “Mmm, how does that feel?” will not only get you the information you desire, but is a turn on all by itself!

Breasts
The most obvious areas to focus your foreplay are the breasts. Sensitivity and range of motion can vary greatly depending on the size and composition of both the breasts themselves and the more sensitive nipples. It’s safe to say that, generally, the larger the breasts, the less sensitive they will be to squeezing and rough play (though not in the case of surgical enhancement, which should not be squeeze tight for obvious reasons).

Smaller breasts can bounce more freely, which can be a very exciting experience in a woman-on-top position, with you cupping them gently. Women with breasts that tend to droop will enjoy having them stimulated while on their back, so the pressure regularly on those nerves is relieved and relaxed.

As a general rule, nipples are exponentially more sensitive than the breasts. Take it slow – some women will enjoy very light play, others may be tickled by it. Some women can enjoy very rough nipple play and a surprising number of women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. And did you know that about 3% of women have innies? If this is your wife, keep in mind that she may be extra sensitive about this and require some extra support during play and after.

Surprising Spots
Just about every woman as a different list of body parts that can be licked, sucked, stroked or restrained that really get her wet, but the most popular by far, aside from the breasts which rank number one, are the back, shoulders, bums, legs and feet. This makes a warm-up massage an obvious foreplay move that can hit all her favorite hot spots and maybe find a few that surprise you both!

Body Mapping

This brings us to the more focused skill of body mapping, which can be described as a process to discover the most sensitive areas of each others bodies. Not foreplay itself, but an exercise to help improve your foreplay future forecast, there are a few rules to keep in mind while you explore.

Stay Away
… from the genitals. You already know these are exciting areas, so stay focused on the task. Otherwise, leave no part out!
Stay Sensual
Don’t limit yourself just to touching – kiss, lick and suck while you stroke and squeeze your way around.

Stay Focused
This exercise does often lead to sex, so it’s important to pay attention while you’re playing so you actually remember the things you learn next time!

Hands On

There’s no denying that many women find it easier to climax with their hands or a vibrator, but there’s no reason the hands getting your lover off have to be her own! Clean, groomed hands with clipped and filed fingernails make all the difference, so don’t ignore this basic prep work. After that, go to town! Just as before, pay attention to what she likes and if she clams up, ask her how she feels.

Something Special

The key to an exciting sexual experience is in the variety – different types of touches, kisses, oral and manual stimulation as well as sexual positions can cover a range of sensations that build up to a big bang! When you know what gets her going, try a combo move – put your hand in her hair while you kiss her neck, nibble her ears as you squeeze her breasts, or suck on her nipples while you explore with your hands. A little co-ordination goes a long way!

If It Works: How to Tell If She’s Turned On

If your hard work is paying off, you should be able to tell. Here are eight tell-tale signs that she is really into your new moves:

1. Warm skin
2. Vaginal wetness
3. Swollen clitoris
4. Inflamed labia
5. Erect nipples
6. Quickening breath
7. Glazed eyes
8. Flushed face and neck

If you’re as eager to know about these signs of successful seduction as I am to tell you, click the link below!

Kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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“I regret to say that we of the F.B.I. are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce.”    — J. Edgar Hoover

Going down isn’t exactly an issue for Homeland Security, but it can be stressful for both partners if it’s not something you’ve tried for a while. According to the Kinsey Institute, this is a lot of you – barely more than half of all women aged 30-49 received oral sex from a male partner in the past year, and the numbers for women going down on their men aren’t much better…

So why all the fuss? Oral sex isn’t anything to shy away from! Talk to your wife – does giving or receiving oral sex make her feel anxious, scared or uncomfortable? What about you? Do you suffer from any feelings of inadequacy where your own oral foreplay skills are concerned? Well fret not. The basics of oral sex prep and technique are simple to master!

Getting Ready to Go Down

Grooming
Bodies are sweaty, stinky beasts and though it is our animal instincts we want to get in touch with, we want to get sweaty together between the sheets, not deal with office BO, so get clean first! Take a long, thorough shower before initiating sex and while you’re all wet, take a look at the hair down there. Few people enjoy a face full of fur, so if you want to encourage your wife to keep clean and trim bush, you need to do the same. A body wax isn’t necessary – a trim or some Nair should do the trick and leave her pleasantly surprised!

Negotiations
This isn’t high-stakes finance, so don’t get stressed out, but it’s important to talk about oral sex a bit beforehand, so there is an understanding about protocol when you in particular are closing in on the big O. Whether you want to pause and move on to another position, or push through to climax, it’s important to have an understanding and an early warning system in place! No one likes to be caught off guard and if you want to keep getting blow jobs, you’ll let your wife have a say in how to finish things off.

Technique

Variation is the key for oral foreplay – start a good oral session off right with gentle, smooth strokes around the least sensitive parts of her genitalia, working your way towards the inner lips and clitoris. Be delicate! These bits are soft and sensitive.

A figure 8 motion is great to get her turned on, edging around her little bud as it swells. Alternate between the smooth underside and the rough surface of your tongue’s tip to bring her to the edge of pleasure.

Don’t stick to any one repetitive motion for too long, until she is panting hard and ready to go over the edge. When you’re at this point, find the motion that makes her moan the loudest and take it home!

Positions

You may not be able to think of a lot of different positions for oral sex off the top of your head, but put those tired old favorites out of your mind, if just for a minute. There’s nothing wrong with the standard fare, but why not spice things up once in a while?

Do you and your partner have any classic positions that work every time? How often do you try something new when you lock lips, so to speak? Well now is the time! Don’t worry, you don’t have to worry about trying anything crazy that will end in an embarrassing injury!

One of my favorites is to get my husband to lie over top of me, perpendicular to my body. From this position, he has free range to caress my breasts and can explore an entirely new angle for clitoral stimulation! This position also makes it  much easier for him to use his other hand to penetrate when I’m wet and turned on.

Another that could encourage your partner to explore a whole new realm of both physical and emotional sensations related to power and control is a standing position. With your head hanging over the edge of the bed, your lover can straddle your face and has room to lean forward on the bed for support when her knees start to get weak!

Can’t get enough of these great ideas? Click the link below for 10 more incredible oral sex positions you have to try!

Happy lovemaking!

Gabrielle Moore

PS. What other love blunders have you or your friends committed over the years? Share it with me in the comments section.

On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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“Why did God create men? Because vibrators can’t mow the lawn.” -Madonna

It’s true that many men feel threatened by sex toys, as if they could be replaced, but trust me that this isn’t what your wife wants! Sure, if she has a sex two or a few, she probably enjoys using them on their own… but think of how much better it could feel with you in control of the toy?

What other kind of ‘kinky’ or creative things are you aching to try? There are dozens of ways to step outside your comfort zone and try something new and exciting, but we can start with these five basic categories and expand our repertoire from there! Breaking away from your routine is going to take some confidence, but isn’t it worth it to try some of the sexual fantasies you’ve been dreaming about?

Toys

Sex toys can be intimidating, so don’t get ahead of yourself. Nowadays, just about every town as an adult store. If you are lucky, there will be a “women-friendly” alternative shop in your area – these tend to be the most comfortable for newbies. Show-owners will be more knowledgeable and have a wider selection of body safe premium quality toys, with discreet and even classy packaging.

By far the most common toy used by both men and women is the vibrator, which comes in any variety of shapes, sizes and speeds with any number of other interesting features. One of the standard favorites is the ‘personal massager’ type, which can double function as a tool for relaxing sore, tired muscles in the shoulders, back, legs and other erogenous zones as well!

Don’t forget about all the other things available to enhance sex play – cock rings, bondage gear, lubricants, furniture and games to get things going. Head on over to your local friendly sex shop and ask for a tour of the toy section!

Massage

Did you know that, second to the palms of your hands and the other erogenous zones, the soles of the feet have more nerve endings by surface area than any other body part? 36,000 or so, in fact. People tend to be grossed out by feet, but if we are all clean (as we should be, right?) before getting down and dirty, what’s a little toe-action going to hurt?

A foot massage not only relaxes the muscles in the legs, back and shoulders but stimulates the erogenous zones and makes for great foreplay! The feet are unique in this capacity to effect the entire body, so ignoring them completely is a shameful waste. If you’re paranoid about germs, take a bath together and scrub them clean yourself!

Roleplay

All of us have fantasies and desires that may not seem to make sense in the light of the day-to-day. These feelings can be confusing and sometimes even scary, but through the magic of roleplay we can say and do things that are a little bit (or way) outside our comfort zone from the safety and anonymity of another identity.

If you speak another language, or are keen to learn, this is a great way to get into another frame of mind! Costumes, props and story lines can also help, but your play could also be wordless. Your desires and those of your partner will depend on your personalities, so communication here is very important. Sex, especially the experimental kind, can bring up deep emotional reactions and heal past personal or relationship wounds, so be prepared to give support as well.

Foods

The best picks for food play are things that are fresh and in season. Processed foods containing any kind of starch or sugar can be risky and cause an imbalance in the body if inserted anywhere but the mouth, so save the desserts for feeding each other! Fresh fruits and Popsicles are great for this, and work very nicely for some tasty nipple play as well. Eating sushi from the body of a naked woman is a classic image, and an aphrodisiac if you include some oysters in the mix. In the winter time, warm edible oils like coconut make for a delectable massage and oral enjoyment.

Location, Location, Location

When was the last time you had sex somewhere other than your own bed? Mix it up a little! The backseat of the car, the bathroom at a dance club, the walk in closet at a house party or even your kitchen counter at home all make a great place to start feeling young again. Recapture the spontaneity of your youth and jump at the next opportunity for a quickie.

If sex is a bit boring and your foreplay needs some warming up, you have two options – you can keep to the same monotonous moves or you can use your courage and creativity to try something new and exciting! Which will you choose?

Kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.” – Mae West

Somewhere between foreplay and fornication there are a few special minutes when we can go the extra mile, taking our partner to new heights of ecstasy and memorable love-making moments. In these moments immediately before intercourse, we women can go from gently warmed to boiling over and ready to blow!

If you want to go from having subsistence sex to being the star of your wife’s bragging praise, this brief time must be maximized. Think of it like the last aftertaste of the appetizer on your palate, just as you start to get the first whiffs of the main course coming out of the kitchen. Savour it!

Get Warmed Up

The most obvious signs of arousal is in the place you should place most of your attention during this exciting energetic peak – her genitals. She will likely become wet, but don’t use this as your only gauge. A woman’s lubrication response changes throughout her cycle as well as generally diminishing as she ages, not to mention varying slightly from woman to woman.

The other physical signs of arousal are fairly simple to detect, if you know what you’re looking for – warm, flushed skin; faster breathing, moans and sighs are great signs. If you push the limit and try to give her an orgasm during foreplay, you can have her begging for sex before you even begin! This kind of open communication shows that she is in the now and really enjoying the experience. Follow her lead and if she tells you “Yes, more, don’t stop” then, well, don’t stop!

Love It!

If you’re just going through the motions to get to the orgasm, it will show, and what is there to get excited about that? One of the most important things to get your lover turned on is to emphasis just how much fun you are having! The lusty grin on your face when you get close before oral and get a real good look at her, a soft sigh or moan of “Oh my God”, even just a deep rumbly growl in your throat will let her know that pleasuring her is a big turn on for you too, setting her free on the sensual roller coaster ride.

Make her feel good by doing things that feel good for you too! If you know that you’re going to cum eventually, take your time and make sure she reaches maximum pleasure before you worry about your own erection too much. She’ll definitely appreciate the effort! If you make her orgasm the focus of the experience, you’ll both have fun and have the confidence and desire to fully satisfy each other more often.

Go All the Way

So how do you make sure she gets to that sweet spot? For women, the experience of multiple orgasm is much easier to accomplish, leaving no excuse not to make her cum first. The techniques for pleasuring your wife during foreplay are many, but the key to bringing her over the edge is using multiple moves at once.

Hands and fingers on her breasts and nipples, lips and tongue on her inner thigh and clitoris, along with your encouragement and sounds of enjoyment will bring her over the top in no time. Just don’t approach it like a race, or she’ll feel pressured. Keep mixing it up until you hit her pace and follow it all the way to the finish line… then get ready for another lap! When she seems like maybe she can’t take anymore, be sure to try some manual penetration using your fingers or a dildo to stimulate her G-spot.

Sexplay is the culmination of many foreplay techniques, the masterful execution of several skills that lead to satisfying sex sessions. Who doesn’t want their orgasms to be better, longer, more frequent, more reliable, more exciting? There is no reason to pass up the chance to learn everything you can about the components of foreplay.

Happy lovemaking!

Gabrielle Moore

PS. What other love blunders have you or your friends committed over the years? Share it with me in the comments section.

On another note, if you want to learn advanced foreplay techniques, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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