“A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.” ? Edmond Rostand

It’s usually the first thing you do with a new partner. In fact, it’s probably the first intimate thing you did with a girl, ever. Kissing. You probably stopped thinking about how you kiss women many, many years ago. When we were all teenagers we spent a lot of time agonizing over kissing techniques and wondering if we were “good kissers,” but when you get older you just get to a point when you stop thinking about it, you have your style down, and you just do what you do.

But, guess what, guys? I’m here to tell you that kissing is a heck of a lot more important that you probably think. Are you absolutely 100% sure that you are an incredible kisser? Sadly, even in adulthood there are a lot of awful kissers out there and you definitely don’t want to be one of them.

So let’s go back in time to when we all thought a lot about how we kissed and brush up on our techniques…

* Slow and sensual to start – You might be all riled up and ready to pop your tongue right in her mouth from the get go, but as you know women take longer to warm up than that. Start off slowly by giving her some sensual and slow kisses with no tongue.

* No slobber please! Men tend to like sloppier, wetter kisses while most women do not like wet kisses. It’s believed that men like wet kisses because saliva is filled with testosterone, which is known to increase the sex drive. Men who really like giving their female partners wet kisses might be subconsciously trying to increase their partner’s sex drive. The problem here? Women who don’t like really wet kisses (which is the majority of women, research says) will actually get turned off by having to wipe her face off after a kiss, no matter how much saliva you swap with her.

* Touch me there – Don’t be afraid to use your hands. Actually, let me rephrase that. USE YOUR HANDS. Cup her face in your hands as you kiss her. Run them through her hair. Touch her neck. Trace her lips lightly with the tip of your finger. Don’t forget that the scalp is one of the erogenous zones. Hold her shoulders, her waist, or the small of her back as you kiss her and draw her into you. Take your time kissing her and touching these areas before touching her breasts, butt or between her legs.

* Know your different kisses and when to use them – It’s important to pay attention to her needs and body language and provide the kiss that she wants. You have your romantic, sensual kiss that you give her when you’re just starting foreplay or when you want a slow sensual sexual experience. You have your lustful kiss that shows your uncontrollable desire for her. And finally you have your intimate kisses, which sometimes might not be more than a sweet peck, that show your connection and comfort with one another.

* Use your tongue, nibble gently, and suck – There are many different methods to kissing. You can slowly move your tongue in and out of her mouth. You can suck on her tongue when she puts it in your mouth. You can suck lightly on her lips. Run your tongue along the edges of her lips. Nibble her lips ever so lightly. Pay close attention to her body language. Does she pull away when you do something? Chances are she doesn’t like it then. When in doubt, ask!

* Kissing isn’t just for the mouth – There are many erogenous zones from the shoulders up, including the neck, nape of the neck, ears, shoulders and upper back. The mouth is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones, but that doesn’t mean that you have to only kiss her on the mouth. Pay attention to these other zones too.

For women kissing is an incredibly important part of foreplay. If done right then it can get her hot and wet in no time flat, but if you try to rush through it or don’t put a lot of effort in, your partner might not be too impressed with your skills and that can greatly affect her desire level. Kissing isn’t just for foreplay either. It increases intimacy between partners during sex and can get her even hotter if you plant lusty kiss on her mouth in the throws of passion. Don’t forget to also kiss her throughout the day to increase intimacy within your relationship on an emotional level. A kiss can transmit so much. Make sure you’re sending her the right kind of message.

Sexy kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Everyone needs to be a little creative when it comes to sex and foreplay. If you’ve found yourself in a sexual rut with your partner, it’s especially important that you change things up. Even if you’re not in a rut, trying new and different things is what is going to keep your sex life hot and steamy. The new, exciting experiences are what stays with your partner and has her fantasizing about the experience the whole next week!

With that in mind, today I’m going to share with your 5 completely unique and sexy types of foreplay. This isn’t the kind of foreplay you’re going to use every night, but the kind that you do once in a while to give her desire (and yours!) a turbo boost.

1. Watch a sexy movie together – While some couples will be up for watching porn together, that might be out of the question for others. That’s okay. That doesn’t mean that you can’t partake in this fun and hot type of foreplay. There are plenty of regular movies that feature very steamy sex scenes. Try watching classics like Basic Instinct or 9 and a Half Weeks. The movie Secretary is a good option if you want to introduce some kink into your relationship and you want to see if your partner might find it sexy. There are a lot of options out there, you just have to search around. For those who want something more hardcore, try watching porn together, but remember to know your audience. You don’t want to put on a porn that’s marketed exclusively for men (for example one with a girl being gang banged..unless of course your partner is into that!). There are a lot of films that are marketed toward women or couples that you both will enjoy.

2. Read a sexy story together – Have you ever read erotica? Well, reading it out loud to your partner and having her read to you can be a fun and hot way to turn each other on. You might not know that romance novels (which are full of steamy sex scenes) are one of the most popular genres among women. This is because women enjoy reading erotica a lot more than they might let on. You can find lots of sexy stories online for free. Some couples might feel too embarrassed to partake in this kind of foreplay, but even if you do it being silly, you will still find yourselves getting turned on by the stories! Give it a try. If nothing else, it’s a fun and different way to spend an evening together.

3. Tie her up – Grab some silk scarves (or a couple of your ties) and lightly tie her wrists to the bedposts. You don’t want to surprise your partner with this one, however, so it’s important to take it slowly. First pull the scarf out and begin sliding it over her naked skin. This will feel amazing. Then slowly run the material all the way down her arm to her wrist. Pin it down with your hand. Then slide the scarf around her wrist and begin to slowly tie it around. All the time you’re doing this you should be studying her reactions. If she seems uncomfortable or scared in any way you should stop and/or ask her, “is this okay?” If she seems open to it, continue, but go very slowly and continue to gauge her reactions. Bring her tied up wrist to the bedpost and begin to tie it there. Make sure not to make it too tight. Once she’s tied up slowly begin kissing her all over her body.

4. Feed each other – You can begin with typically sexy foods like strawberries with whipped cream, chocolate pudding, honey, chocolate or caramel syrup. Try scooping some onto your finger and letting her take it into her mouth to clean it off. This will feel amazing for you and it will make her feel sexy and naughty, as the act is so similar to her giving you a blow job. Use food on each other’s bodies as well for a different kind of fun foreplay.

5. Role play – One of you could be the boss and the other is the assistant. Or you could play teacher and student. There are a lot of fun ways to role play and this can be especially sexy as you get to play out your fantasies in a safe and comfortable environment.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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When it comes to foreplay, most people think that foreplay is more beneficial to women than it is to men. You might even be one of those people who think that foreplay is just something you do to get your partner warmed up for sex. It only has one benefit, getting her hot for you. But guess what? Foreplay does a lot more than that and it really benefits both men and women!

Engaging in foreplay can make you have better, stronger orgasms. It brings you closer to your partner and helps you feel more connected. So what is foreplay? Does it always have to just be kissing to get warmed up? I say no! Foreplay can and should be more creative. Here are some ideas to get you going…

1. Shower together – There is something about being wet and slippery together that is just a huge turn on (oh, yea, and being naked helps too!). Try soaping up your hands and washing her body for her. This feels wonderful for her because your hands glide smoothly over her skin with the help of the soap. It also feels amazing for you to be touch her all over. Just steer clear of her vagina with the soap, if you over wash that area she could end up with an uncomfortable infection.

2. Get naughty in the movies – The movie theater is a great place to start getting down and dirty. It’s dark and everyone’s focus is on the screen in front of them, so you would be surprised at what you can get away with! Start planting the seed for what’s to come after the movies by stroking her inner thigh or drawing little circles on her skin with your finger.

3. Use some flavored lube – It can be fun to spread this around your partner’s erogenous zones and then make sure she is squeaky clean by licking it off with your tongue.

4. Make a romantic gesture – This might not sound like foreplay, but believe me, it is. Send her flowers at work and include a sexy message. Try something like, “I can’t get you off of my mind, so I thought I’d send you a little something to make you think of me.” Or you can write a dirty message, just make sure no one will peak inside the card before she gets it!

5. Start foreplay on the couch – Most couples get into the routine of having sex only in the bedroom and it usually begins and ends there. Try making out on the couch like you did when you were a teenager in your parents’ living room. Who knows, the hormones might even start flowing like they did back then!

6. Leave her a sexy note – Everything is digital these days. We text, we email, we tweet, so it’s extra special when you receive a handwritten note when you least expected it. And it’s especially hot when that letter is a little on the dirty side.

7. Offer to be her slave for the day – Let her know that you will do anything she asks of you for 24 hours, even if it includes picking up her dry cleaning. Tell her that today is just about pleasing her, nothing else.

8. Create a map of her body – Instead of rushing through foreplay to get to sex, treat foreplay like the main event. Take your time touching, caressing, licking, sucking and kissing different parts of her body. Observe how she reacts. Does it tickle? Does she moan? Did she seem to like it? Experiment and learn something new about your partner and what she likes.

9. Use strategically placed mirrors – There is nothing like watching yourself in the act. You might not want to videotape yourself having sex, but if you place a mirror in just the right spot, you can get a live show that is a HUGE turn on. Take a full length mirror and put it on its side on the bed so that you have a full view of what’s going on. Get ready to be seriously turned on!

10. Take turns – In this fun foreplay technique one person is the giver and one person is the receiver here. The receiver isn’t allowed to do anything to stimulate the giver, he/she just has to lie back and enjoy receiving. Obviously, you would be the giver first and then just hope that she’s up for returning the favor!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Exhibitionism comes in many different forms. If you asked most people if they considered themselves to be an exhibitionist and they would immediately say “no!” but if you really thought about it most of us have some degree of exhibitionist tendencies. I’m not talking about masturbating in public or flashing your private parts to grannies on the public bus, but much more innocent forms of exhibitionism that can aid in making you feel sexier and spice things up in your sex life. Not all forms of exhibitionism even require leaving your house and that can be more enticing for the more modest among us. Here are some great ideas for incorporating a little bit of fun and sexy exhibitionism into your sex life:

1. Get naked at home – If you’re just starting out with exhibitionism try getting naked with your partner at home when you’re not having sex or taking a shower. After your shower instead of getting dressed right way, start your day by staying naked and going about your normal routine. Even with the shades tightly closed so one would would ever know you’re going to feel more naughty. Try staying naked all day long, except if you have to go out of course! If you’re feeling extra bad you can even leave your blinds or shades open slightly to give passersby a little surprise.

2. Get down and dirty and leave the windows open – Next time you have sex try leaving the windows wide open and making a lot of noise. The idea that someone else could hear you is a huge turn on for a lot of people. Who knows? You could even inspire your neighbors to make a little love too! Not gutsy enough to do this in your own home? Rent a hotel room for a night and make some serious noise.

3. Show some skin – Another way to be a bit of an exhibitionist is to show some skin in public. Obviously for a man showing some skin isn’t always seen as sexy as it is for a woman. So, in your case, “showing some skin” might just mean wearing an outfit that makes you feel really hot and maybe a pair of pants that is tight in all the right places. When it comes to your partner, she can really get into this small act of exhibitionism and you can participate by buying her a sexy outfit to wear out. I’m not talking about getting naked, but just showing off enough skin to turn heads. It can be a turn on for a lot of guys to see how other men check out their woman. I mean, she’s going home with you at the end of the night and that should make you feel pretty darn good!

4. Get frisky under the table – A lot can happen under the table at even the nicest restaurants. A well placed table cloth or dinner napkin can do wonders for helping you be more discrete. You don’t have to go too far, but some naughty touching and rubbing under the table is a fantastic way to get each other RED HOT for later that night.

5. Visit make out point – Every town has a spot where young couples go to “make out” in their cars. You might feel like the oldest couple there, but that doesn’t matter, no one will be looking too closely into your window anyway! Plus the collective hormones and sexual energy of a place like that, knowing that every car is filled with a hot and sexy couple getting it on is just a thrilling thought.

6. Get it on in public – There are many places and ways couples can have sex in public. You could pick the great outdoors, your own backyard, a public restroom or any other place where you have the risk of being seen or caught. That risk raises your adrenaline levels and makes the experience much hotter.

7. Visit a nudist community – There are communities where people can go and live out their day to day in the buff. You can either visit one of these communities, vacation spots or beaches for the day or you could take a little vacation there. Even though the idea of being a nudist isn’t about sex, it can still be exciting to feel the air flowing over parts of your body you usually only expose in the privacy of your own home!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Sometimes it seems that all anyone ever talks about when it comes to having good sex is foreplay. “You need to be good at foreplay. You can’t forget about foreplay. Women want foreplay!” That’s all well and good, but if you want to make the most out of foreplay, you need to actually know what you’re doing. Because even if you extend foreplay to help her get really warmed up before sex, if you’re not doing things that she really likes, you could do it for hours and it still wouldn’t get the right results.

Instead of giving advice without specific instruction, today we’re going to talk about specific foreplay techniques that you can use to make her wet with desire and trembling with pleasure.

1. A new way to stimulate her nipples – Men love breasts, but when it comes to stimulating them in a way that women really enjoy, a lot of men are clueless. They are so wound up by being able to play with breasts that they give very little thought into what the woman wants and likes. Here is one technique that she is guaranteed to love. Put your mouth around her nipple relaxing your lips. Swirl your tongue around the tips of her nipples, then give her nipple a gentle poke with the tip of your tongue. Alternate between the swirl and the poke. *Extra tip – You can also try this swirl and poke technique on her clitoris during oral sex.

2. Grinding is underrated – Remember when you were a teenager and you used to grind and make out with your girlfriend for hours? Grinding is actually a completely underrated form of foreplay. The benefit it has for the woman is that your penis and pelvic bone rub and stimulate her mons pubis and her clitoris. Women can even cum from just grinding alone if it’s done right. He next time you are kissing, start grinding and then let her take the reigns. She will know how to grind into you in order to make it feel best.

3. Tickle those earlobes – You probably already know that the ears are a sensitive erogenous zone. You might already stimulate them by kissing them, licking them and nibbling them. That’s a great start, but there is another way you can incorporate this erogenous zone when your mouth is busy doing other things. Stroke and gently pull on her earlobes while you’re kissing. Trace line line along the outside of the ear. Use your fingertips to gently tickle the area behind her ears.

4. Be a tease – One of the biggest tricks to good build-up and foreplay is to tease. A lot of people go straight for the obvious erogenous zones (the clitoris and the vagina) without taking their time getting there. A good teasing technique is to make your way to an erogenous zone, like the clit, but then back off as you’re getting really, really close. You might even “accidently” touch it for a second or two before refocusing your energy on a nearby area (like the inner thigh). This will leave her throbbing with desire after a little bit.

5. Go hot and cold – Try playing with temperatures by heating up your mouth before using it to please her sexually. You can do this by sipping a hot drink and then putting your hot mouth on her body. You can also try a warming lube and massage oil. Some women also like the sensation that cold things can create on their bodies. Try tracing an ice cube over her body. If that’s too intense, you can melt the ice cube in your mouth to make your mouth very cold. You can also try licking a part of her body and blowing on it or sucking in to make that area cold.

6. Be controlling – Did you know that there are vibrators out there that come with a separate remote control, or even better, vibrators that can be controlled by connecting them to your smartphone? This can provide a lot of creative ways to get her warmed up way before you’re ready to jump into bed together. You can even have her put the vibrator in her panties during dinner and give her a little buzz whenever the mood strikes. Or if you want to wait until you’re in the bedroom, having the control to her vibrator can still be a really sexy way to turn each other on.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Every guy out there that knows anything about women knows that foreplay is a very important part of providing maximum pleasure for your woman. Women aren’t like men in the sense that they can have a sexy thought, get turned on right away and be ready for sex. They need time and to be physically warmed up before they’re 100% ready. Spending a lot of time on foreplay also helps build up sexual tension, which will make her eventual orgasm even more powerful.

So, we know foreplay is important, but sadly there are a lot of men out there making big mistakes when it comes to foreplay. Do you think you might be one of them? Read my list of the top 10 complaints women have about your foreplay techniques to make sure you don’t commit one of these grave errors.

1. Mary says, “He rushes through it. I get annoyed with my husband during foreplay because I can totally tell that he is trying to rush through it to get to sex. He thinks he can kiss me for 2 minutes, rub my boobs for 30 seconds, then go straight to fingering me and within 3 minutes he’s trying to have sex. If I could tell him one thing it would be to slow WAY down. Don’t even go near my clit or vagina until we’ve been doing other stuff for at least 5 to 10 minutes.”

2. Sara says, “Talk to me, baby. I love when my boyfriend talks dirty in bed. He tells me how sexy I am and makes it really clear that he’s super turned on by me. I love it. It does wonders for turning me on. Even when he doesn’t talk, he moans and breaths heavy in a way that lets me know just how much he’s enjoying what we’re doing. I was with a guy once who never made a peep and it was awful. I never knew if he even liked having sex with me. It was hard to get into it because I felt like I wasn’t getting any feedback.

3. Desiree says, “One boyfriend I had never paid much attention to my breasts during foreplay. I love having them touched and played with so it was really hard to get turned on when he barely touched them.”

4. Laura says, “Be open to feedback. My ex always got offended if I gave him a little direction. I think he thought it meant I didn’t like what he was doing, but that wasn’t the case. I loved getting feedback from him because it helped me please him better, but for him it was like it was an insult to his manhood. The best thing a guy can do is listen to his lady and be open to what she has to say.”

5. Jesse says, “Use a light hand. When my husband and I first got together he would always stimulate my clitoris way too rough. He thought he was being gentle, but he didn’t realize just how sensitive it is! I would always have to tell him, “less pressure” over and over again until he finally got it.”

6. Keisha says, “Undress me. Too many guys rush that whole part and they’re really making a big mistake. The act of undressing a woman can be very sensual and a huge turn on if it’s done the right way.”

7. Maria says, “Easy does it with that tongue. I hate it when men use too much tongue, jam it down my throat or lick my face and get all slobbery. It’s gross and it doesn’t turn me on at all. Sometimes I try to make it obvious that I don’t like it by making a big thing of wiping off my face, but some guys just don’t get the hint.”

8. Jacqui says, “Use both hands to please me. Some guys just use one hand to rub your clit or something like that. You have two hands, so use them both! Do something else with the other hand, make me feel like you can’t keep your hands off of me.”

9. Jill says, “Pay attention to what I have on. If I’m wearing sexy underwear or a short skirt, I’ve done that to get your attention. Don’t just rip my clothes and underwear off without giving me a little appreciation first.”

10. Ellie says, “Learn how to multitask. Seriously, men, you should be good at foreplay, and that means knowing how to do more than one thing to me at once.”

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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Okay, we are at lucky number 13 in “My Top Sex Tips” articles and I have 5 more delicious sexy tips for you once again today!

Vary stimulation

In my last article I told you to not stop whatever stimulation you are doing to your lover when she is at the edge of orgasm.

This article, I want to encourage you to try various types of stimulation, in the way you touch her, but also in the places that you touch.  While she and you may be used to a certain type of stimulation that gets her off every time, you can also explore this a bit, especially during initial foreplay, to find other ways to awaken her libido.  Trying different ways and types of touch can actually create new erotic pathways in the brain to make her even more orgasmic.

So, try new techniques and learn new ways to make love.

Whisper dirty nothings in public

Have you ever whispered “sweet nothings” in your honey’s ear while out in public?  It is hot as heck and a sure fire way to get her turned on even before you get to the bedroom.

So, what should you say?

Keep the whispers to how hot you think she is and what you like to do with her tonight.  Whisper to her at the table during dinner in a fantasy restaurant, during slow dancing on dance floor, or even grocery shopping.  Yes, seriously.  Any activity can be turned sexy with the right words!

Sexy shopping spree

I love doing this with my partner, going on a sexy shopping spree together.

Whether we are shopping for lingerie, sexy costumes, or hot new toys for the bedroom, sexy shopping is fun and naughty.

How to: Plan a date together to go to your local adult store and look around.  You don’t have to have any expectations, or know what you want to get beforehand.  Check out the products, and discuss how you could use certain items to spice it up.

If you don’t like shopping in public, try shopping online in private.  There are lots of reputable adult shops online where you can find great products and awesome deals, shipped discreetly right to your door.

Then the thrill of waiting for your sexy package to arrive will keep you going til it gets there!

Play teacher/student

Have you ever tried sexy roleplaying before?

It is not only for “kinky” couples as some people tend to think. Completely “vanilla” couples can role play certain sexy scenarios in their bedroom together to heat up their sex life.

One of my favorites is the very popular teacher/student role play.  This could be a naughty teacher seducing their student, or a disciplinary school master chastising a bad boy or girl.  You don’t even have to dress up that much to bring this fantasy to life, although hot accessories like a school girl outfit can crank up the sexy dial on this much loved fantasy.

Sex and chocolate

Mmm… I love sex, and chocolate.  Together, they are divine!

Did you know that some people think chocolate is even better than sex?!  What!  Yes, chocolate is also called the “love drug” because it contains chemical compounds like serotonin (the feel-good brain chemical that affects mood, sexual desire and increase libido) and PEA aka phenethylamine or dopamine (a chemical that increases endorphins which affects sexual arousal, pleasure and orgasm) both putting women especially in the mood for love.

So try some chocolate with your sex to boost her libido.  Feed her small square of decadent Belgium chocolate for dessert, or drizzle chocolate sauce over each other to lick off and make yourselves into dessert.

Either way, sex and chocolate are sure to please.

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That’s it for my sexy tip their article guys.  Now dive right in and plan some sexy bedroom activities with her asap!

Until next time, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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A steamy round of tongue tango can lead to great sex, but kissing has loads of benefits in its own right. Research shows that making out relieves stress, helps you determine who you’re attracted to (or not), and deepens your connection to your lover. Sadly, studies also reveal the longer a couple has been together, the less frequently they lock lips as part of sex. I encourage people to keep their sexual menu diverse but to make sure kissing is front and center, because it’s that important. My lusty lips will give you some serious lip-spiration.

Morning smooth

Before you two part for work, hold her hands and pull her close. Aim straight for her mouth and plant one, dead center, on her lips for two to three seconds. Pull back ever so slightly, while still holding hands, then lean in and kiss very quickly once more. When you pull away at last, look her straight in the eyes, squeeze her hands and then let go. Soft, lingering and arousing, this kind of kiss is meant to ignite all of your senses and it says that you’re emotionally present. Not only will the moment leave her craving a replay all day long, but one study reportedly found that men who kiss their partners in the morning live five years longer on average than men who don’t. You can thank me when you blow out the candles on your 100th birthday cake.

Vampire pucker

If you’re feeling frisky and trying to get your partner into that playful sexual spirit, place soft, feathery kisses all over her face, then flutter your lips down her neck until you reach the bottom of it. Plant your lips, using slight suction to bring some flesh between your front teeth, then release. Yep, you’re necking. And it’s so hot. You can also place your hand on a naughty part of her body, like her thigh, close to her lady parts. It’s a signal that you want her, and it will give her confidence to make the next move.

Dirty French

Hold your mouths close together, and take turns letting your tongues flick across each other’s lips. Move the tip of your tongue back and forth, then imitate a figure eight. Not only will she start imagining what else you can do with your tongue (wink!), but guys can transfer testosterone through saliva, which means you are potentially increasing her arousal, making her even hotter for you and eager to take things further. Yep, it’s true. If you thought that a sloppy, messy, saliva-filled kiss is a turn-off for women, think again. Theoretically, the wetter the kiss, the more testosterone you’ll likely send her away and the more aroused she may get. Also, a sloppy smooch can be a way of communicating you’re smitten. Many women associate lots of tongue with passion, since they’ve seen images of couples kissing that way in movies. Think of it as your way of showing enthusiasm about your relationship and your lust level.

The love bite

Gently take her bottom lips between your teeth, and use your lips to pull it into your mouth. Go easy on the pressure, then slowly increase – when you touch your boo, endorphins amp up happy feels and help block pain, which may be why a rough nibble can feel so good.

Champagne make-out

Take a sip of bubbly, and resist the urge to swallow. Now, lean over and kiss her, letting a tiny amount trickle into her mouth. Wait until she realizes what you’re doing before letting out a little more. If some overflows down her chin, you have an excuse to lick it up!

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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It’s easy to fall into a routine, especially when it comes to foreplay – or lack thereof. These sex games concentrate on the journey, making the final act especially naughty.

Time tease

You need: a timer

How to play: Pick a time interval – 15 minutes, let’s say. During this time, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay. But no matter what, absolutely do not go for penetration until that time has elapsed.

Why it works: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science, or rather, routine. Time tease refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before things got serious between the two of you. You’ll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative and really turned on.

Blind bomb

You need: a scarf

How to play: Blindfold her. Lead her to the bed or other locale, then proceed to lavish her – slowly, recklessly, teasingly – however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let her arousal be your guide.

Why it works: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects – it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac. Together they can create a love explosion.

Passion prisoner

You need: Four neckties, or some elaborate restraints available at sex toy stores or online.

How to play: Tie her wrists and ankles to the bedposts and have your way with her.

Why it works: It can be incredibly erotic for a woman to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of your attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.

Hot head

You need: A hairbrush, riding crop of just your hands.

How to play: Ask her to tell you all the things she did wrong today. (She failed to take her coupons to the grocery store. She forgot the name of her new receptionist at work. She told your nagging sister to go to hell.) Then have her kneel on the bed while you spank her using your hands, a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory.

Why it works: Spanking feels good, actually. A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly, alert sensation that combines well with the other feelings of sex. These sensations are especially interesting if you combine them with playing with her other body parts on display during your spanking. This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator.

Carnal cards

You need: A deck of cards and a timer.

How to play: Give each card a sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades are oral. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Take turns picking cards and teasing one another.

Why it works: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more. You can make the moves even more intense by doing them for minutes, not seconds.

Close encounters

You need: Nothing but your lover’s body.

How to play: Either lie back or kneel with your eyes closed and mouth open. Then have your partner tease you by placing different parts of her body against your lips or tongue, like a nipple or a finger, thus encouraging you to please her. Then you can switch places.

Why it works: Aside from how pleasurable it is for your woman to get those parts licked and kissed, it’s erotic for you to wait in anticipation of what piece of her will arrive next.

X marks the spot

You need: Nothing.

How to play: Start by urging her to think of a particular body part that she’s dying for you to kiss. She should keep that body part a secret. You’ll try to guess the spot by kissing a body part – and keep going until you guess correctly. She decides if she wants to be fair and stick to one spot… or keep you guessing.

Why it works: It’s a simple game that doesn’t require any toys or props – perfect for when you want to infuse a lot of excitement for little effort.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Who said playing is just for children? It can be the hottest activity for consenting adults as well. For more tips and advice on spicing things up in the sack, check out my program by clicking this link.

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The ladies open up about the hottest things you can possibly say to them.

“Touch me right there”

After years together, you and her are familiar with each other’s anatomy, but a little verbal reminder of what pushes you over the edge is helpful from time to time. Exploring new touches and sensations can make sex seem like an exciting discovery the two of you are making together.

“@#$%”

If you don’t normally swear, if you let go in bed it will be a very big turn-on for your partner. Shy? Dirty talk doesn’t need to be dirty. Simply narrating the action by noting where her hand – or something else – is and how good it feels is plenty. This helps keep you both in the moment.

“I want to watch”

Being able to actually see each other, instead of fumbling around in the dark, is awesome. Self-conscious? Focus on how things feel – or how her eyes light up as you show everything off.

“So, I had this dream last night”

If you have a fantasy you’ve always wanted to try, setting it up as a dream can help minimize any shyness about discussing it. Fantasies don’t need to be turned into reality to be hugely hot, and getting used to talking about what gets you off – even if it’s never going to happen in real life, such as you and her stranded on a desert island – can do wonders for your sex life.

“I give you permission to wake me up if you get horny”

Having sex on the table as a potential option during the night, even if you don’t actually do it, reminds you that your sex life is important. Setting an alarm for a sex date can also work, especially if you are both beat or likely to be disturbed when you head to bed.

“I want to kiss you down there”

Women love when men want to give them oral sex. She knows you love it, but she never wants you to do it just for her. When you say you want to, it makes her feel like she can really let go. Focusing on how happy your partner gets makes oral sex feel less like, well, a job, and can also enhance pleasure. Conveying enthusiasm is a huge turn-on, and the more turned on she gets, the more confident and masterful you will feel.

“All during my meeting today, I was thinking about doing this”

Knowing that you’re working and you let your mind wander back to her is a huge compliment. Plus, a few dirty daydreams can absolutely make your workday more exciting – and letting your partner in on them will seriously get her going. Thinking about how it feels when she kisses you or slips her fingers underneath your boxers can help switch your brain from feeling exhausted to feeling excited.

“I love the way you smell when we make love”

I know this sounds gross, but hear me out. When you tell her you like the way she smells, even when she’s drenched in sweat, she will really feel like a woman. Scent is so intimate, especially when you’re naked. Sex is all about senses, and letting your partner know the way she gets you going will help put you both in the mood. She may also not realise how much her scent turns you on, and clueing her in is a good reminder of the animal magnetism you have for each other.

“Yup, that was perfect”

If you don’t make a lot of noise in bed, it’s sometimes hard for your partner to tell whether or not the whole thing was great for you. If she just rocked your world, only good can come from letting her know.

“I want you to come”

Sometimes coming feels like a selfish act, and saying “I want you to come” makes it feel not only invited, but celebrated. Eagerness and passion can set your partner over the edge in a heartbeat. Creating a safe space for intimacy during the dirty stuff by saying you want her to feel pleasure shows that you really love all the things during sex, and that you aren’t just doing it because you feel like you have to.”

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more interesting tips on how to turn your partner on like never before, check out my video program on the matter – Dripping Wet Secrets.

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