Despite years of research and study, the G-Spot remains one of the most sought after parts of a woman’s body. Men hunt for it like they are mining for gold and in a way they are because once you hit the big G you never forget it. Neither does your sweetie.

News about the G-spot seems to be everywhere. How to find it, where to find it, what to do with it, does it even exist? One can’t help but wonder if Dr. Grafenberg had any idea all the hype his bean shaped find would produce in the years to come.

One thing does seem absolute: Women find stimulation of the G-spot very pleasurable. So much so that it can make them ejaculate. That’s right boys. Women ejaculate. It can be just a few drops, it can be up to a cupful or it can be anything in between. It is all normal.

If you want to learn about the G-spot and how to make the most of it to give your partner incredible sexual pleasure, read on and commit the following tips to memory:

Where IS it?

If you feel like the G-spot is an elusive mystery you are certainly not alone. Both men and women search and search sometimes with no results. It seems like the darn thing is hiding on purpose! Here is the deal on what the most recent research says: what is commonly referred to as the G-spot is a collection of tissue with highly sensitive tissue that is located in the vagina. It is not in the exact same place in every woman which is why it can be hard to find. There seems to be a high number of women who report extreme arousal when an area on the anterior wall of the vagina is stimulated. The G-spot must be thought of as more of a region than an actual thing. To find it you have to look for it and you do this by providing stimulation to different areas of the vagina until the woman says stop.

Make the Search Fun

Looking for the G-spot does not have to be a science experiment or an investigation worthy of an FBI commendation. Looking for it can be fun if you keep in mind that there are a lot of ways to touch a woman’s vagina that feels good. Please don’t just stick your finger in there and jam it in and out and all around. Instead just have fun experimenting. You may find ways she likes to be touched without even getting anywhere near the G-spot. Start slowly with one finger and take a while to get to know her vagina. How does the inside feel? Sometimes the G-spot is made of thicker tissue so it may feel differently than the rest. Touch and stroke inside her entire vagina putting pressure on different spots as you go. Let her tell you what feels good and guide you with her reactions. Usually when the G-spot is stimulated it feels very different from other stimulation and is much more pleasurable. In other words, you will know when you find it based on her reaction.

Sex Toys Rock

There are sex toys especially designed to simulate the G-spot and buying one may be the best investment you can make for your sexual pleasure. Vibrators that are curved and inserted in the vagina then pushed up to stimulate the upper vaginal wall are amazing and can send a woman into orbit. Try one that allows you to control the speed and then turn it up very slowly to let her arousal build. It will drive her wild.

Put Pressure on the G-spot, Not on Either of You

By far the most important thing I can say about the G-spot is please do not worry if you do not find it right away or if she doesn’t have an orgasm immediately. The media gives the G-spot a lot of credit for being the end all be all in the world of sex. So much so that if a woman does not experience a G-spot orgasm right away the man sometimes feels like a failure and the woman thinks there is something wrong with her. Indeed, many women have even undergone invasive and dangerous surgery to create what plastic surgeons are dubbing “designer vaginas.” This includes having the wall of their vagina shaved down to supposedly make the G-spot more prevalent. There is no evidence that this works. Putting pressure on each other to have some mind blowing orgasm is certain to do one thing: keep the orgasm from happening.

A couple’s sex life is a live entity. It constantly changes and evolves as couples become more comfortable with each other and try new things. Make sex fun, let things flow and happen naturally while you use the information you learn in the process. If you can do this, then the G-spot is more likely to make an appearance along with the mind blowing orgasm.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more tips and tricks on how to arouse her G-Spot and give her deep vaginal orgasms, check out my program on the subject, G-Spot orgasms made easy.

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“The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.” – Wilhelm Reich

I asked women to give up the wickedly creative tricks they crave, especially when it comes to G-spot orgasms, and they did not hold back! Read ahead to see what’s on their dirty wanted list.

“Don’t be afraid to be a bit aggressive. The struggle for power is a game that can liven things up. Grab my wrists or arms and be the pinner. It shows me that you’re there because you want to be, and not thinking about if your team managed to win the match tonight.” – Eddie
Using your tongue the right way can turn a good cunnilingus into an unforgettable one. Flick it against my labia and clitoris or trace a squiggly line along my inner thighs before going in for it. It feels awesome.” – Janice
“When I’m on top, grab a hold of my neck – not choking, just with your hands clasped behind it – then slowly move your hands down my back, gripping or even clawing on the way down. When you reach my hips, grab them and take control. Throw me on my back, with your hands on my chest so you can ride me” – Zelda
“It’s hot when a guy tells me when and where to climax. But it’s even more of a turn-on if you say something like, “I can’t wait to taste you.” Deep down, girls know our “juices” aren’t that appetizing – so we love it when you make us feel as though it’s the best thing ever.” – Andrea
“I love a bit of bottom massage during an oral workout. Gently rub my scrotum and then apply some pressure to the muscle underneath my cheeks. It will make me go nuts.” – Wendy
“As I’m climaxing, place your hand just above my vagina so you can feel my muscles contract. It makes me feel like some kind of sex goddess to know you’re making my body spasm like that.” – Tracy
“Mid sex, while I’m on top, raise me up and take me to your head and have me kneel on your face so you can give me oral while you’re holding on to the bed frame.” – Maxine
“Touch me in three different places at once. Grab my butt, stroke your penis against my vagina and kiss my nipples. It will be as though you’re a one-man threesome.” – Matilda
“Get me wet on less than a minute. Only dirty talk, no touching allowed. Then put your hand between my legs to see if you won.” – Jordan
“While we’re having sex, look down and tell me how much you love being inside me. It’s so arousing to know that you enjoy it as well.” – Samantha
“The hand is an underrated and underused part of a good oral sex. There isn’t nearly enough friction in just the mouth, so the extra attention is amazing. A little firmness goes a long way.” – Annie
“Challenge me to an X-rated game of Words With Friends during the day. Whoever scores most points gets to make a sex demand that night” – Julia
“Instead of going straight to my ear, kiss along my jawline first. Not many guys do that, but it feels so good.” – Allie
“I sit on top of a washing machine while you stand in front of me, making way so that you can penetrate me. That way, I get to experience both the vibrations of the motor of the washing machine and your deep thrusts.” – Veronica
“When we’re making out, switch between sucking on and biting my neck. Get your inner vampire aroused.” – Audrey

Have a spectacularly sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. The most important thing, keep eye contact while you’re doing all these with your partner. The extra bonding makes it all even more pleasure infused. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“License my roving hands, and let them go before, behind, between, above, below.” – John Donne

When it comes to New Year’s resolutions that you share with your family and friends, “have better sex” is probably not one of them. But I know that this is a pretty common wish among both men and women, so I’ve compiled this steamy calendar. So here it is: twelve months, twelve mind-blowing positions. You will never leave the bedroom again!

January: The Backfire

Kick off the New Year with an update on the reverse cowgirl. While you sit on your knees, your partner backs onto you, enjoying full control of depth and speed, just the way she likes it. Want more bang? With both of you now facing the same direction, why not press play on some adult entertainment for hot eye candy?

February: Backdoor Missionary

If you want to try anal sex but are a bit unsure of how to work it, the missionary position helps both of you ease into it. This one is great for newcomers seeking adventure but without losing the comfort and familiarity. While your partner is lying in the usual position on her back, hold her hips so you can access her butt. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube and take things really slowly.

March: The kneel ‘n’ squeal

The trusty missionary position gets an overhaul this month, with deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Place a pillow underneath her butt – this elevates her body for perfect G-spot contact. The added ability to eye-gaze brings you two even closer together, mentally.

April: The Nutcracker

Despite its wince-inducing name, this position won’t hurt your nether regions. In fact, you will actually enjoy it – a lot. Kneel while she lies in front of you on her back, twisting her legs so that her right leg is hooked over your right shoulder. Readjust her elbows, knees and hands to find her perfect pleasure spot.

May: The Jellyroll

This month, try another variation of the missionary position. Have her lie on her back and twist both legs to one side. The different angle will allow a new level of penetration. You will enjoy deep exploration with erotic views, while you both progress to orgasmic harmony.

June: The Spork

As the heat sets in, chances are you and your partner will be addicted to cuddling, snuggling and spooning. But be warned: spooning can lead to sporking! While you assume the “big spoon” position, you’re able to hold up one of her thighs for full thrusting. For even more fun, take a hands-on approach. This position lends itself to some extra sexy clitoral stimulation – by either of you.

July: The arc de triomphe

To celebrate France’s Bastille Day this month, forget the cheese and croissants and try the Arc de Triomphe instead. Pile pillows under her hips as she lies on her stomach, for a nice raised arch. This sexy variation to traditional doggie style is not only super comfy for receiving, but also gives you perfect aim for her G-spot. Ooh la la!

August: The plush puppy

For a cosy version of a favorite, relocate to the lounge room. Have her kneel on the couch, leaning forward on the back cushions, so she can brace herself against something soft and comfy. From behind, position yourself inside her for a cosy version of the cold wall or hard headboard, and knee bruises are spared for all.

September: The swan dive

Have a spring awakening in September. Kneel and lean back, while she faces you and straddles your lap. With your knees under her hips for support, she’s free to lean back – all the way back! Wild fun is bound to follow, and you’ll have the best view ever.

October: The ball player

Sitting on the end of the bed or couch, she should straddle you cowgirl-style, and then reach down to your family jewels. Savor the slow, erotic rocking and enjoy what her free hands can accomplish. You’re sure to score a touchdown with this one.

November: The leap frog

Get a bonus with this athletic bedroom move. Get her into a squat position on top of the bed, near the edge. Stand on the ground behind her, and pull her hips back and forth into you. It’s a nice and easy position for you, and a thigh-burning workout for her.

December: The banana split

This position, another twist on the reverse cowgirl, is even more satisfying than the sweet treat of the same name. Seriously. Instead of straddling both your legs, she should only straddle one and place her other leg between your legs. Now your penis is right in her G-spot and at a fun angle. You’ll also get the eye candy of her gyrating hips on your love stick.

Have a fun week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Here’s to a year ahead you’ll most definitely be looking forward to! If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “GSpot Orgasms Made Easy“.

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“Sex resembles nothing so much as organ transplantation.” – Laurence Rickels

I perused some of the leading sex surveys created in the last couple of years to find out what are the new naughty, naughty things more and more people are sampling in the sack. The following five carnal crazes aren’t fads that will phase out faster than jelly bracelets. They are brilliant mattress moves every hot blooded couple must add to their randy lineup.

#1. Do it in double digits

No doubt, you’re intimately acquainted with 69. Now may I introduce you to (drumroll, please)… 77. The name 77 refers to the way you and your partner’s bodies look when they meld together in this side entry position. It’s similar to spooning but with a twist. The unique angling practically guides your missile to her G-spot. To reach numeric Nirvana, have her lie on her side with you behind her so that you’re both facing the same direction. Have her wrap her legs around your top leg and pull you close, pushing her butt toward you as you enter her. Once you’re inside, she should straighten her legs in tandem with yours so they’re tightly sandwiched together, toes pointed. Stay connected as you simultaneously bend at your waists, while extending your legs at a 45-degree angle away from your bodies. Folding over and assuming the 77 in this maneuver changes the angle of penetration, creating a direct penile pathway to the front vaginal wall where her G-spot is located.

#2. Try a top-notch toy

In recent years, sex-toy sites have seen a rapid increase in sales, with women being the majority of their clientele. So is it any wonder that adult toys have gone designer? Style-savvy women aren’t satisfied with the cheap, tastelessly packaged vibrators on the market. As a result, vibrators have undergone an extreme makeover. There has been a growing trend of ‘sexual couture’ – fashionable products meant to be played with and admired. Therefore, treat your partner with a top-of-the-line titillator. An electronic toy produces sensations that you or your partner can’t, which adds new dimensions of pleasure. Plus, these designer toys are less threatening to you because you’ll perceive them as fun accessories rather than penis replacements. Pull out this erotic accoutrement the next time you’re doing it doggie-style. From this rear-entry position, you have more access to her clitoris. While you’re penetrating her from behind, guide the vibrator to her bliss button. Then experiment with various speeds and pressures as you continue to thrust. If direct contact is too intense, play around with spots that provide moderate stimulation. The excitement of trying something new coupled with the pulsation you’ll feel on the base of your penis while you’re inside her will be highly erotic for both of you.

#3. Give her a standing O-vation

Apparently all cunnilingus are not created equal. Women are claiming that the hottest new way to be paid lip service is while standing. More blood rushes to the pelvic region while they’re on their feet, resulting in a much more intense orgasm. Ready to blow your woman’s mind? Have her stand upright with her feet staggered, near a chair, countertop, or door-frame (she may need to grab on for support when her legs start quaking). Kneel in front of her using a pillow as a cushion. Then take her labia into your mouth, alternating between sucking and licking. Once she starts shaking in ecstasy, slide two fingers inside her vagina and start gently sucking on her clitoris. Because she’s standing, the clitoris is more engorged than usual. Applying pressure on it creates a tourniquet-like effect, keeping more blood in her nether areas for a truly explosive orgasm.

#4. Fulfill a phone fantasy

These days everyone and their dog has a cell phone. But how is our main mode of communication impacting our sex lives? Turns out, it’s making couples more courageous. Interacting via technology rather than face-to-face provides an anonymity that often makes it easier for partners to express their desires. More couples seem to be exploring this freedom and sharing fantasies this way. If the thought of partaking in phone play leaves you kind of speechless, this passion plan will loosen you up. First thing in the morning, lock your woman in for the evening with a firm text message. (Cancel your plans. U R mine tonight.) At noon, divulge more of your pleasure plot in a second text (My place. 8. Bring a pair of lace panties and whipped cream).

When she shows up, grab the props, make her comfortable on the sofa, and quickly retreat to another room. Then dial up on her cell from behind closed doors and tell her step by step exactly what you wish you were doing to her. Keep up the delicious banter until she has no choice but to hang up and barge right in.

#5. Work the new lube job

Once you’ve greased your woman up and kneaded her into a frenzy, progressing from caressing to sex has always been a no-no. Traditional massage products contain chemicals that could damage a condom and promote infection. Now, companies are rolling out products that double as massage oils and sexual lubricants. The formulas are odorless, not sticky, and condom compatible, allowing couples to experience fully the pleasure of touch. All you have to do is learn these touch techniques. Undress your partner and have her lie facedown. Straddle her back facing her feet so you can focus all of your energy on her butt and thighs. These muscles are among the largest in the body, yet they’re often overlooked. Plus, they’re packed with nerve endings, so handling them can be highly pleasurable. Work a generous amount of lube into your palms. Make loose fists and rapidly pummel her thighs are tush with the sides of both hands in quick succession to awaken her senses. After a few moan-inducing minutes, change to long, sensual strokes, adding more lube as needed. Intermittently tease her by slip-sliding your hands between her inner thighs, dangerously close to her vagina. When you see she’s really fired up, spank her gently, flip her over and use your already slippery hands to firm your erection and treat her with some fingering before riding her.

Have a crazy hot week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Every time a new sensation is introduced, her body has a ‘Wow! What was that?’ reaction, which forces you to take a climax-delaying pause. So lick, suck, scratch, squeeze, and rub her all over. For more tips and tricks on how to arouse her G-Spot and give her deep vaginal orgasms, check out my program on the subject, G-Spot orgasms made easy.

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“Fashion, like sex, is very important. It is life-enhancing and, like everything that gives pleasure, it is worth doing well.” – Vivienne Westwood

It seems like there’s a new sex trend born every minute, so in the interest of staying on top of things (pun very much intended), I recruited some willing volunteers to road-test the latest ones.

The New Vibrator

Amanda and her boyfriend, Ben, tried out the We Vibe 3, a sex toy designed to be used during intercourse to provide internal and clitoral stimulation.

“Ben and I have been together for two years. We usually have sex four times a week, and sometimes every day when work isn’t too busy. We’ve never used toys together though, so we thought it would be a bit of fun to try the We Vibe 3. When We Vibe 3 arrived in the post, I was really excited to try it straight away. Ben had to work late that afternoon, so I had a sneaky try by myself. It was very easy to use and the internal and clitoral stimulation was perfect. It didn’t take long before I was close to orgasm, but I stopped before coming so I could experience it with Ben.

However, the next night we had some relatives staying over and were a little nervous about having sex in our bed, so we decided to improvise and have a play with the We Vibe 3 in the shower. As we were in such a confined area we were unable to have sex with me on top, so we had sex standing up. I generally don’t orgasm when Ben’s behind me, so we used the We Vibe to stimulate me in front and put pressure on my G-spot. Initially it was good for me because I had the clitoral stimulation and Ben’s penis was putting pressure on the toy, so it was pushing on my G-spot. However, after a while it became a bit of a hindrance: we were so concerned with the placement of the toy that it took away the spontaneity of changing positions and tempos. So we removed it and both orgasmed without it.

Overall, I think it’s a well-designed toy that stimulated all the right spots and I can see how it could benefit couples who might struggle sexually. Although we had fun with it, I don’t know if I would use it again during intercourse – maybe more for foreplay or masturbation. For me, having a toy between us that we were constantly aware of somehow lessened the intimacy. That said, if you’re yet to have an orgasm during intercourse, perhaps give the We Vibe 3 a try – it might just get you there.”

The New Massage

Ken took a lesson in bondassage – an erotic massage technique that incorporates bondage. Think Fifty Shades of Grey, minus the scary parts.

“When I heard about bondassage, I was immediately intrigued. The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon has fuelled interest in bondage and dominant/submissive behavior, but many people (myself included!) don’t want to hang out in a dungeon and endure painful prodding. Cue bondassage. After learning the most tantalizing (and not at all creepy or painful) tips, I went home to try them out on my girlfriend. This is what led me to take the following into the bedroom: a fork, to press lightly on her skin, an electric toothbrush, to buzz along her inner thighs and bellow her butt cheeks, and a sarong, to drag slowly over her body. Sensory deprivation is important – blindfolding and putting headphones on your partner heightens the sensitivity of their skin. It also allows for an element of surprise as they never know where you’re going to touch them next (or with what!). And if they’re comfortable with it, you can even tie them up with a rope or a scarf so they’re at your mercy. Having tried it out on my girlfriend, I can tell you that bondassage is definitely a great way to warm up. We were both raring to go afterwards. But it’s not something we’d do every week – you do need to be able to set aside a couple of hours so it’s not rushed.”

Also trending… 

1)    The New Sexting. I said it before and I’ll say it again: sending sexy selfies is a risky business. That’s probably the reason why Snapchat is fast becoming the new sexting tool of choice. Although not specifically designed for sexting, this app allows you to send photos and texts that disappear after a few seconds. Clever.

2)    The New Fifty Shades. Move over Anastasia Steele, there’s a new erotic series in town. The new Breathless trilogy by Maya Banks is based around three hot billionaires who dominate in the boardroom and the bedroom. The first steamy installment in the series, “Rush”, has already hit bookstores, and the second, “Fever”, is due out in April.

Have a hot week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Make it your goal this year to try everything sex-related, at least once. This way you won’t have any regrets and you won’t be able to blame yourself if there’s something not quite right in your sex life. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“When modern woman discovered the orgasm, it was, combined with modern birth control, perhaps the biggest single nail in the coffin of male dominance.” – Eva Figes

Whether you’re having trouble getting there with your partner or just want to make your orgasms stronger, my tips will have you covered… and then some. Consider this: only 30 percent of women have orgasms from intercourse alone. Surprised? I blame movies like The Notebook, where the girl magically climaxes after two-and-a-half minutes of Pin the V action. This is not reality, unfortunately.

The truth is, the way most men and women view sex – as a completely physical, penetrative, in-and-out experience – isn’t doing anybody a favor if you’re on the hunt for the elusive orgasm. Intercourse provides internal stimulation, but for women, the really sensitive parts are outside the vaginal canal. So even though sex feels good that way, you’re not hitting the right spots. It’s like a guy trying to have an orgasm by having someone touch his testicles but never his penis. Good luck with that!

Now back to what the other 70 percent of women who don’t orgasm from sex alone need. Girl-gasms are composed of two things: the right mind-set and the right moves. These mental and physical tips (and a little practice) will help you help your partner find her happy place.

Get into an orgasmic state of mind

If an orgasm just isn’t happening, you’ll need to play a few Jedi mind tricks with her before your clothes come off. We all have different hang-ups (some women get insecure, others get distracted), so try all these tricks to narrow down what works best for her.

Read or watch some sexy stuff. Whether she’s turned on by erotica, porn, a hot indie band (try The xx), or Brian Williams reading the news (hey, different strokes), partake in that activity before engaging in sexytime. You want her to go into sex already experiencing that tingly feeling in her stomach rather than hoping your hookup provides the tingles.
Eliminate distractions. Turn off your phones… or the lights if you think she is going to be self-conscious about her body. You want her to be in the moment, not thinking about her thighs.
Take a shower. All that steam will set the scene… and she won’t be lying there worrying about how she tastes or smells. Instead, she will only be focusing on how to orgasm sooner and stronger.
Don’t freak out if it doesn’t seem like it’s going to happen. On average, it takes a woman 20 minutes of direct stimulation to have an orgasm (some women take more or less – that’s normal too). It’s common for a woman to reach a plateau phase, when she’s turned on but feel like she’s stalling. Stick with what you did that got her to that point and you’ll likely get there. If you don’t, you probably will next time.

2. Find the right touch(es)

Once she’s in the zone, it’s time to get physical. No matter how good you are in bed, don’t make the common mistake of thinking you alone can give her an orgasm. She’s more likely to get her kicks if she takes things into her own hands as well (sometimes literally) and realize that it might take a little multitasking to get her there.

Lend her a hand. Touch her clitoris during sex. Or let her do it. Some women are afraid to do this because they think they might bruise your ego. Make sure you tell her it’s just the opposite – it’s a turn on for you to see her so turned on.
Let her take a peek at your playbook. You guys are usually great at taking charge of a sexual position. You adjust your stimulation, speed and angle to increase the chance of having an orgasm. Most women don’t think to borrow this strategy, but it’s smart to own your needs rather than expect the other party involved to just figure them out.
Give a high school throwback a chance. Dry humping is hugely underrated, probably because it’s called dry humping. But some women have difficulties finding the touch and rhythm that works for them, even with their own hand. When she grinds against your pelvic bone or your penis (before you enter her), animal instinct takes over, allowing her body to go on autopilot and find a motion that will get her off.
Do two things at once. While you’re going down on her, put a finger or two inside her, as she moves her hips against your mouth to help create a rhythm that feels best. Many times, it’s a combination of things, rather than just one move, that hits the magic button.

Have a delicious week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you’re lucky enough to have figured out a go-to, it doesn’t mean your big moment can’t be even bigger. Who couldn’t use more tricks in their repertoire? If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “GSpot Orgasms Made Easy“.

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“I write about sex because often it feels like the most important thing in the world.” – Jeanette Winterson

There’s a hidden pleasure path you can explore on your partner’s body that even she doesn’t know exists. Follow my lead.

When it comes to pleasing themselves, women head straight for the clitoris. But when your girls is in your hands, it pays to take a circuitous path to her button of pleasure. One randy route: the area I’ve dubbed her M zone, which represents the letter M shape you make on her body when you touch her in this region. It can be very pleasurable when this ultrasensitive nerve-packed terrain between her upper thighs and lower stomach is stimulated. To bring pre-sex play to a more exciting level, you need to home in on unexpected places on her body that arouse her in ways she doesn’t experience by herself. Plus, it adds an element of surprise, which can be incredibly erotic and lead to better, more intense sex. To take her to M-spot heaven, follow these three steps.

Sexy Step 1

Tantalize her thighs

Have her lie down on her back on a comfy bed with her legs spread about 6 inches apart. Either kneel beside her body or gently straddle her, sitting back on her lower thighs. Don’t get totally undressed, since you don’t want to distract her visually from the main focus: her tactile pleasure.

Rub your hands together to warm them up (you can also use a bit of massage or warming oil), then rest them palm down on each of her upper thighs. Just go slowly. Women are used to being massaged on their backs, no their front sides, so she might be a little tense at first. Knead her on the outside of her thigh only and, with light contact at first, build up gradually to the point where you’re using considerable pressure (like you’re smoothing creases out of a shirt).

Slowly move up and down and side to side over this outer upper-thigh area, mixing up your moves between long, smooth strokes and circular kneading motions. Switch to softer, lighter feathering motions as you move closer to her inner thighs, where the nerve endings become finer. She will be extra-sensitive there and can be stimulated be the slightest stroke. Warning: she can also become ticklish, so gauge her reactions and facial expressions as you go.

Sexy Step 2

Slide up to her hip bones

When you’ve maxed out her pleasure in her inner-thigh region (she may get a little antsy from so much stimulation and become wet), move your hands upward toward her hips without ever lifting them off her body, stopping right above and inside the hip bones.

Now it’s time to seriously ease up with your hands. A lighter touch will go a longer way, so make gentle circles with the tips of your fingers, then switch to light swirling motions with your tongue. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will tease her, heightening the overall experience.

You can also create tactile surprises for her by rubbing a furry scarf up along the area. It’s a huge turn-on to feel sensations in places that she doesn’t expect to feel them and will send blood coursing through the area. For an added thrill, reach under her body and drag your fingers upward and across her tush very slowly, moving toward the base of the spine. Since any area where the bone is close to the skin is filled with nerve endings, gently massaging her tailbone region extends her pleasure.

Sexy Step 3

Arouse her ‘almost’ area

All it takes is a light touch to stimulate this lava-hot region. Slide your fingers diagonally inward, way below her belly button, just above where her pubic hair starts. You’ll be touching her pubic bone, which is a very erotic, highly sensitive area for women. Since it’s a bone, keep your fingertip motions extra-gentle. Try blowing on the area lightly, segueing into long sensual licks – and is she’s not ultra-sensitive, nibbling – across this smooth stretch of skin.

The key is taking your time. She’s going to assume you’re headed straight for her clitoris, so when you don’t make a beeline for it, you’re really going to be tantalizing her. The longer you wait, the more potentially pleasurable sex will be. Tip: lightly rub a popsicle across her almost area, then lick it up. The cool, then warm sensation will drive her wild. It’s also a perfect prelude to oral sex.

Have a fiery week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Warning: not every part of her body is an arousal-friendly zone, so don’t start stroking and touching every inch of her. She may get uncomfortable. If you are interested in learning more advanced techniques in G-spot orgasms and squirting, then make sure to check out my video “GSpot Orgasms Made Easy“.

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“I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty.” – John Waters

Sometimes, taking the next step (sexually speaking) can be as awkward as tucking your shirt in your underwear. Actually, on a scale of one to no-you-didn’t, going next-level with someone new (that is, deciding to have sex), can turn out to be just as uncomfortable and totally wrong as accepting to go out with a woman you’re grandmother fixed you up with. Whether it’s the long-awaited first sleepover with a shiny new woman or just an overnight romance with that hottie bartender, there are some things men sometimes do during that first trip up Carnal Mountain that, well, make it unlikely a woman will go back for an encore climb. So read on: tell your friends, tell your brothers and cousins, tell anyone who will listen – the following exploits need to be erased, deleted and completely forgotten from your hot-macho repertoire.

The Pancake

Many young players fall prey to The Pancake. In this first-time scenario, everything is going swimmingly when suddenly you start flipping her like a sizzling pancake awaiting delivery of maple syrup. If you’re a pancake man, you’re likely to flip her several times in the course of a single session – leaving her limbos akimbo, face pressed into mattress, and she wandering if she should have stayed home and cleaned the oven instead. And she hadn’t clean that damn oven in over six months, so you can imagine. You clearly think this is the best display of your sexual prowess, but while I’m all for mixing it up, The Pancake used too early on can make the pancake-ee (read, the poor woman’s vagina) feel like an anonymous orifice. First times are not for trying to recreate a porn movie.

The Proposition

This little nugget happens just as things are getting hotter than Jessica Biel sitting in the sun eating an ice cream, in a nurse’s uniform. She’s all primed and ready to go when you say, “So… what do you want me to do?” You hope she’d just smile and tell you this: “Um, to be honest, buddy, I’d really like you to just go at it hell for leather.” If it’s not working and this is not the answer you get, in fact, you don’t get an answer at all, but a whole load of awkward silence, don’t say you weren’t warned. You could at least give it a burl first, before popping this uncomfortable query. This question is best saved for when you know each other’s range inside out, so she can answer with, “I want you to do that thing with my ears, then that thing with your tongue, then back to the ear thing.” Asking someone who you barely know what butters their toast is like a woman showing her boyfriend her wedding dress before he’s proposed – premature and decidedly awkward.

The Panda

We know a panda eats shoots and leaves, but in the case of this particular Panda, it’s a case of eats, shoots and leaves. (Grammar, is there anything it can’t do?) She quite happily welcomed your cargo into her safe deposit box and had a grand ol’ time doing it – but then, instead of hanging around for a snuggle and a kip, you get up and make an early exit. Pulling the Panda after a first-time foray, well, that’s ruder than a naked photo of the Queen on horseback. The basic rules of human conduct stand even when you’re lying down – so let’s all just try to treat each other with a little tenderness. Worst-case scenario we’ll all of us be better lovers for it. Best-case scenario we’ll all be better lovers, sons, daughters, parents and people. And that’s what I call true next-level pleasure.

Have a tender week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. When it comes to first-times, always stick to the basics and change the pace according to the responses you get. You don’t know the person you’re getting hot and heavy with and you don’t want her to get out of there sooner than the foam off a cappuccino. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about G spot orgasms CLICK HERE NOW!

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“The Rubicons which women must cross, the sex barriers which they must breach, are ultimately those that exist in their own minds.” – Freda Adler

On one past season of True Blood, there was one hot sex scene that blew all the others away (and given how naughty this show gets, that’s saying a lot). After it aired, message boards exploded with women writing in about how turned on they were by watching two vampires go at it naked in front of a roaring fire. The unexpected surprise: both characters were guys. And while fangs do have a way of making things sexier, women’s sudden appreciation for man-on-man lovin’ isn’t limited to the undead.

Recently, women have begun reading so much gay erotica that romance-novel publishers – like Harlequin and Running Press – have launched a series solely about male lovers to satisfy female audiences. One author of these books even told the press that close to 90 percent of her fan mail comes from chicks. Why are women suddenly so drawn to double-dude action? I found out.

Man-kissing on the rise. Before Brokeback Mountain, it was a risk for a male star to take on a gay role (and for movie studios to release films about same-sex romance) for fear that it would turn off mainstream audiences. But a combination of that movie’s success and a slew of celebrities coming out as gay or bisexual – from Lance Bass and Neil Patrick to Lady Gaga and Anna Paquin – has opened the door for more story lines involving gay characters and couples. Suddenly, we’re seeing more homosexual sex, and some of those scenarios are turning out to be a hit with women.

In the past, the rare times gay characters were featured, they were usually portrayed as effeminate stereotypes. Now, more are given depth and variety in their personalities. That means there are more characters like the ones in Brokeback and True Blood: confident and powerful. And those are two qualities women have pretty much always found sexy.

A hot mix. A big part of the appeal of gay porn is the fact that it’s something women can’t participate in themselves, which makes it feel tantalizing and off-limits. When females see something that is sexually explicit but that they can’t fully understand, it leaves room for their imagination to go wild. Women can fantasize about what it would feel like to be involved in that kind of sex, and that fantasy can really be anything she wants it to be.

But the forbidden aspect is only half of it. Physically, sex scenes involving two men tend to be more aggressive – adversely, lesbian scenes tend to be more sensual – and that taps in to a craving women have for more intense kind of sex. In other words, if your partner finds herself getting turned on watching two guys, um, manhandle each other, it may mean she’s wishing sex with you would sometimes feel more raw versus romantic. An easy way to turn a tame session more primal is to nip at her lips or neck during foreplay or push her away after kissing her passionately. A soft bite or playful push sends a very animalistic message and lets her know you’re feeling feisty. You may have to do it two or three times before she gets the hint, but once she does, she should get more aggressive with you.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

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“Sex, a great and mysterious motive force in human life, has indisputably been a subject of absorbing interest to mankind through the ages.” – William J. Brennan

They’re the sex questions at the centre of women and men’s conversations everywhere, so I decided to give you the lowdown on what each question actually means and what’s the best answer for it.

Q. Should oral sex always be one-for-one?

Good sex shouldn’t be based on some sort of tally, but if you’re craving a bit of oral action, you have to be prepared to give and not just receive. I mean, if she’s willing, you have to return the favor. It’s selfish if you don’t. That being said, I must warn you about something: you should never give a sexual act just to receive one, but to pleasure your partner and experience pleasure with them. Of course you’d hope there is an equal split of pleasure being given by both people but it’s the intent during the act that you need to be aware of. The solution? How about one-for-one at same time?

Q. Why do some girls enjoy anal sex and some don’t?

Everyone is built differently. Those who have had a painful or uncomfortable experience the first time might not want to visit this again, or those with more traditional views on sex might believe that end is only for one thing. Some girls feel comfortable enough or understand their body well enough to be able to lock into that pleasure zone. And that’s because the guys they are with are able to make them relax and feel safe enough to try it. It is a daunting job, but one that’s perfectly achievable, as you probably already know if you have been reading my columns on this particular topic. Also, more and more guys are getting comfortable asking for this item off the menu because it’s so normal in porn land. However, don’t think that just by asking you’re entitled to force yourself upon your partner. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea so don’t make your significant other feel guilty if she decides to say no.

Q. How regularly should we get tested for STIs?

It’s wise to get tested before every new sexual partner, especially if you’ve had unprotected sex. A lot of men and women carry diseases without even knowing it! It’s always better to be safe than STI positive. However, due to the amazing act of casual sex, this is not always possible. How often you get tested will depend on your sexual behaviors. The more often you get checked the better, but it’s important to find somewhere to go where you won’t feel judged. You need to feel comfortable to get tested as much as you want and be able to discuss what’s on your mind.

Q. Do women still fake it?

Yes. With as many as 80 per cent of women experiencing orgasm via clitoral stimulation, all the energetic thrusting in the world might not get a woman there. Of course, that doesn’t mean it’s always your fault – sometimes a woman just can’t get there. Sex can still be great without an orgasm. The real problem with faking is that women are letting themselves down – if you think you are onto a good thing, you will stick with it. If a woman is well aware of what gets her over the edge and expresses this to her partner, there should be absolutely no problem in climaxing every single time.

Q. How often should a couple have sex?

Sex lives are going to vary from relationships to relationships. No couple is the same. Long-distance partners are going to go at it like rabbits in the small amount of time they have together while people living under the same roof might want to spread the love out a little. There is no set of rules when it comes to how many times you should be having sex. Ideally, as often as possible (if you want to do it twice a day, go for it!). Even though we live in a society where we are obsessed with comparing ourselves to others, when we talk about sex, there is no such thing as normal. If you are happy with the amount of sex you are having, why should it matter what everyone else is doing?

Q. Are women ok with us liking porn?

Depends on what you mean by ‘liking’. There’s owning a few DVDs that hide in the back of your cupboard, then there’s spending hours each day wanking to internet porn. As long as it doesn’t replace sex and it’s not becoming more important than your partner, you shouldn’t worry about it. Also, most girls find men’s ‘addiction’ to porn funny. No women really feels intimidated by something that will not happen in real life. Also, there are girls that are willing to join in on the fun. Now, that’s a healthy attitude!

Have a great week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. If you have questions that you don’t find the answers to in this article, please feel free to ask them in the comments section and I’ll make sure you get your needed replies! Check out my program on the subject, G-Spot orgasms made easy.

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