Oral sex is one of my favorite topics because it’s so complex that it turns me on every time I exchange opinions with other women. And guess what I’m about to tell you: you simply NEED to become an expert because it’s the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm.

Why is oral sex so pleasurable for a woman? I would bet on the tingly sensations she gets when you use your tongue, easily the most powerful muscle in the entire human body. It gives subtle but firm stimulation, which is exactly what she needs to reach the climax. Plus, if you do it right, you hit the main spot: her clitoris. And boom! – an orgasmic journey begins.

But did I tell you some men don’t even know where the clitoris is located? Don’t worry, I’m not trying to be patronizing, just want to make sure you don’t overwork your jaw in vain. Make sure to explore your lady’s sexy area enough to know all of her sensitive spots. You should be able to feel the clitoris with your hand if you massage the area right above her urethra – you’ll be surprised to find out it’s not as close to the vagina opening as you may have thought.

This is the main reason why it’s so hard for women to reach orgasm. It’s nearly impossible to stimulate the clitoris through penetration alone, which is why she’ll enjoy some tongue action in the area.

If you follow my secret steps she will reach erotic euphoria every single time!

1. Tease her first

A lot of men treat oral sex as foreplay, just as they do kissing and touching, but because it’s so intense you should wait a bit more before getting to business. Believe or not, she needs to be wet and aroused to actually enjoy the treat. The clit area is very sensitive, but if she’s not aroused your tongue strokes will just bring physical discomfort. So wait until her breathing becomes heavy and start by gently massaging it with your hand.

2. Explore the WHOLE area

Going straight for the clit won’t bring her the extreme climax I want you to be able to give. The mistake you make is focusing on one spot – instead, treat her V-zone as a whole and explore it gently, slowly. Make her want it so bad that she begs for it. I would say using a combination of hand, lips and tongue will make you a winner in the “best orgasm of the year” category.

3. Start with gentle strokes

Every woman is different, but experience has thought me that most women like gentle strokes at first and then, the more turned on they get, the more pressure you should apply. It’s pretty tricky to get it right at first, but remember to ask her what feels right as you go… It’s the only way you’ll reach perfection. Anyway, if she says “Yes”, “Harder” or pulls your head in closer it means she likes it and wants more of it.

4. Let her take control

Being completely passive isn’t that exciting for your lady. She might feel comfortable lying on her back, but taking control would bring so much pleasure. Most women reach orgasm through grinding against their man’s mouth. Unfortunately, they are ashamed of doing that. If you don’t have anything against it, I suggest you encourage her to grab your head, hold it firmly against her and then push into your lips. It’s one of the most erotic moves you can experience together – with 100% chances of climax!

5. Stop making this unsatisfying move

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is trying to penetrate her vagina with your tongue the same way you would with your penis. This does absolutely nothing for her and for many women is actually very uncomfortable. Use your tongue in the outside area and insert two fingers in the vagina… but only if you feel she’s wet enough.

6. Put a pillow under her butt

This makes it easier for you the reach the famous G-spot while fingering. Plus, it will give her more leverage to move her hips against you in a way that feels more amazing than you imagine. Such a simple but effective trick!

7. Use a sex toy

If you two lovebirds don’t own a vibrator, I feel for you. Especially during oral, it’s a great pleasuring tool because you can use it in her vagina while stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. It will feel ten times better than using your fingers, mainly because of those naughty vibrations.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I appreciate men who take time to learn the tantalizing techniques of oral pleasuring – they are such a rare find! Baby, if you’re willing to discover even more advanced tricks to pleasure your woman with your mouth, I recommend you check out my explosive program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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Cunnilingus – what a complicated name for a complicated business. Just kidding! Pleasing your partner with your mouth shouldn’t be guesswork, but I get why it’s still something you’re not confident about.

If done right, all women LOVE oral sex, because it’s that one form of stimulation most likely to give them an orgasm. That’s because your tongue is the most powerful muscle in your body and also the most sensitive – the chemistry is simply irresistible, and when you add your lips to the mix, she will have no choice but to surrender to waves of continuous pleasure.

Still, many women say they don’t like what their partners are doing and many men actually avoid going down on their lady because they’re not sure what they’re supposed to do. I blame the lack of effective communication for this: if you would be willing to learn more about her preferences on the matter instead of pretending you already know everything, you would become the expert she craves. If she would choose to guide you instead of pretending what you’re doing is right, again – she would receive that orgasm she craves.

It’s not easy to give her exactly what she wants because when it comes to oral sex, intuition is just not enough. Every woman is different, so experience doesn’t really matter. You have to discover together the types of stimulation that make her hungry for more.

The good news is that by now I have a pretty good idea about what most of the women I’ve worked with really want when it comes to oral sex. There are a few techniques they have agreed on, and I’m willing to share them with you.

Here are the women approved techniques you should try on your lady tonight:

Start off with a little hand play

A lot of women agreed on this: they like it when you play with your hand first until they get warmed up. Rub her clitoris slowly using the palm of your hand, but do it over her underwear. You will feel her getting wet. When that happens, take off her underwear and continue to massage her clitoris with your hand. Kiss her mouth, her neck, her breasts… then press your mouth on her clitoris and move slowly in circular motion. This will drive her crazy.

Experiment with your tongue

You don’t have to get it right from the start. Just remember that there are a lot of things you can do with your tongue and she’ll not love all of them. But to find out what she likes, you have to try everything. You can make your tongue flat, pointy, stiff of soft and you can draw circles, suck, or flick – just ask your lady what feels good and you’ll hit the jackpot eventually.

Swirling

A lot of women also suggested swirling your tongue around her clitoris in small circles, clockwise and then counter-clockwise. You’ll certainly find the right spot, just listen to her moans.

Reverse hug technique

A lot of women like the reverse hug technique. If you’re in good shape, you should nail this hot oral position.  Hold her upside down in front of you – her head and shoulders should be on the bed while her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that you ease the pressure around her neck. Then wrap your arms around her waist and lower your face between her legs.

Start with a softer tongue

For a lot of women it’s important that you use the flatter and softer part of your tongue, especially at the start, when she may not be fully aroused and not ready for the pressure and speed that the tip of your tongue will bring.

Make out with her clitoris

A lot of women suggest you treat your intimate area like their mouth – just make out with it. Start with soft kisses all over,  then bring your tongue in, slowly at first. Don’t rush it, just try to be sensual. Let the tongue go deeper, suck the clit AND the whole intimate area, then go back to just using your lips. Have fun with it.

Eat her from behind

A lot of woman like oral stimulation from behind – it feels a bit different and it turns them on. Use your flat tongue to apply pressure on her entire pussy area, use your fingers to penetrate her vagina and then slowly make your way to the clitoris and stimulate it with circular motions.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Baby, oral sex should be fun, so don’t be afraid to experiment. Challenge your partner and try all of the above moves, then let me know what she liked the most. If you want to learn some seriously advanced oral sex techniques, I recommend you check my sexy program – Oral Rapture!

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When it comes to sex, oral play is the cherry on top. You don’t need it to make the act worthwhile but you have to have it in order to make it extraordinary… On one condition: to be good at it.

Cunnilingus is not an easy walk in the park if you aim for intense pleasure and erotic abandonment. It is a complex process, an elusive dance of sensation, intuition, and technique, and it requires very personal knowledge of your partner’s sweet spots in order to offer her the gift of complete pleasure. Despite the effort, it’s all worth it in the end because you’ll become the most powerful activator of unlimited pleasure… The only one to know the code for out-of-this-world pleasure and lust.

See, it’s well known that almost 50 percent of women can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone – no matter how crazy good it feels, they just can’t reach that point of maximum pleasure. Imagine how frustrating that can be.

And the main reason for that is the inability of proper clitoral stimulation during basic penetration. While it’s enough for you to stimulate the penis, your lady’s extra sensitive spot is not the vagina, but the clitoris. This hood-shaped spot located above her urethra is packed with millions of nerve endings which make it pulse once stimulated, giving her the most intense orgasm ever (many women say it’s more intense than the vaginal orgasm).

While there are ways to involve her clitoris more during penetration, the good news is that cunnilingus offers you the opportunity to make it the star of the show. What does that mean for your lady? Intense climax, 100% guaranteed.

Now there is one more detail that could compromise your cunnilingus performance and this one has nothing to do with you. Most women are not comfortable with spreading their legs in front of your eyes/tongue – they feel vulnerable and insecure. Which makes them tense, unable to experience an orgasm. Remember that she needs to feel completely relaxed in order to reach climax.

Here are my favorite techniques of intensifying her pleasure during cunnilingus:

Don’t rush it

Most women who complain about their partner’s technique say he’s turning it into a marathon, thinking that this is the sure way to orgasm. In reality, you’ll only make her tenser. As I said, she needs to be fully relaxed and feel safe around you, which means you have to take your time. Show her how much you enjoy exploring every inch of her vulva and tease her until she begs you to get to the clitoris.

Taking your sweet time means you can also explore and experiment more, getting to know exactly which moves get her off. Because cunnilingus is not an exact science – every woman is different and you need to find out what YOUR woman likes.

Warm up her clit before you “attack”

Most men go straight for the clitoris thinking that it will speed things up and make her come faster. Truth is you will get the opposite result. The clitoris is very sensitive and it needs to be warmed up before stimulation – otherwise, you could even cause physical discomfort.

Teasing is the way to go. I always recommend treating her vulva like a clock (with clitoris being noon) so that you can reach all the other areas while the clit is getting warmed up. That way, when you begin to stimulate it the amount of pleasure will be overwhelming.

Give her variation

As with pleasure of all kinds, variation is key. If you only use one type of stimulation, you’ll get a weaker response over time. I suggest you alternate tongue and lips and even hand. For example, applying pressure with the palm of your hand might feel a lot more pleasurable than inserting fingers while licking her clit. Also, the tongue is not your only asset. A lot of women say they love it when their partner uses the entire mouth to stimulate their intimate area. Pressing your lips on her clit and lightly sucking on it could make her go wild!

Try an exciting position

Yes, there’s more than one position for oral sex. My favorite one is the “Chair” position because you have access to all of her sensitive parts AND you’ll be able to also use your hands for greater stimulation.

Lie on your back with your knees bent and put a pillow underneath your head for support. Have your lady lay on top of you and move her feet by your head while resting her head on your knees. You’ll have an awesome view, not to mention the intense stimulation she’ll get.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Sweetheart, oral sex is one the most intimate and pleasurable experiences you’ll enjoy as a couple but in order to make it truly epic she needs to be comfortable and relaxed. And she needs to trust you completely. If you think you’re not there yet, I recommend this sexy program called Oral Rapture.

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I want to give you an advantage over all the other men your woman has ever met or will ever meet in her life: tongue strategies to make her melt in your mouth.

There are very few men who really know how to please a woman with their mouth, lips, and tongue – so when we finally find one… we become OBSESSED. Why is that? Women can get so frustrated when a man is doing it wrong because they rely on oral to get maximum stimulation and to reach climax.

See, we need A LOT of clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, so penetration is often not enough. The clitoris is such a sensitive spot, and it can create a million tingling sensations in her body that she never even knew she could feel…

So my first thought was to clear out all the misconceptions about oral sex and finally tell you what really works. That’s why I created my Oral Rapture program – full of precious insight and delicious techniques your woman will be mind-blown by.

I feel like there’s so much information surrounding this subject, but it’s just all the same. What about some novelty? You’ve probably already tried every oral technique you found on the internet… so how about I give you something different and much more potent?

Try these spontaneous oral moves to give your lady the ultimate orgasmic pleasure! Let’s have some fun, shall we?

Get more access

What about an all-access oral position? If she’s not shy about it, tell her to sit on her hands and knees while you slide under her body, exactly like an auto-mechanic. You will love this position because it gives you a great view and access to all those hot spots you wanna hit.

I suggest you start with anything but her intimate area. Make her beg for oral by touching, kissing, and licking her nipples, the sides of her stomach (a very sensitive spot), her inner thighs… By the time you get to the clitoris, she’ll be soaking wet.

Alternate the pressure intensity

Many men don’t know that the clitoris craves pressure in order to become completely orgasmic. Sure, lips and tongue are great for stimulation, but when they masturbate women mostly rely on hand pressure. Just press the palm of your hand against her clitoris while making an up and down type of movement, alternating pressure from very low to hard. She’ll go crazy!

Do it somewhere else

It’s summertime and maybe one night you realize you’re alone in the pool. Don’t miss the chance to use this scenery in your favor! Have your lady sit on the edge of the pool with her legs on your shoulders while you’re inside the pool. This view is so sexy that you don’t even need to try too hard to impress. Use your tongue, as well as your lips, to make that clitoris vibrate. You can also rise up from the water and give her a deep kiss on the mouth to make her feel like she’s part of a sexy commercial for swimwear.

Sexy suction moment

Everything will feel even better if you manage to increase the blood flow to the area: her lips and clitoris will engorge, making the orgasm more powerful than ever. So while she’s in a squat position, sitting on your face, use your whole mouth to suck on her labia and clitoris, alternating with pressure moves. She will love it so much that she’ll probably need help maintaining that squat position.

Give her a hot view

Women are just as aroused by porn as men are – 1-2 minutes of X-rated videos can make them seriously horny. So while she might get defensive when you express your desire to watch porn, she will be more than happy to watch some seriously hot videos while you go down on her. You’re busy with kissing and licking so she won’t feel embarrassed by whatever is happening in the video – because she’s the only one watching.

This will help her achieve a more intense orgasm and also to become more inclined to watch porn with you.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: My darling, oral can become your biggest asset if you learn how to master the right techniques. To become the absolute King, check-out my program on the matter – Oral Rapture!

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Men always ask me what is the secret to female orgasm and I always answer: the clitoris. Whether you stimulate it using your tongue, your lips, your hand or even a vibrator, this hot spot will send your lover into an orgasmic mood almost instantly.

But its sensitivity is what also makes it tricky to work with: too much rubbing will turn her off completely. Using your tongue like a pointy knife will have the same effect, even though you’re convinced that this is your best oral trick ever.

When I created my Oral Rapture program, I made sure to uncover the real winning moves when it comes to oral stimulation, so that your lover’s clitoris receives the best of the best.

I’m actually really passionate about oral sex and clitoral stimulation in general because my husband used to be very bad at it. So I had to become better and better at finding out what moves I really like and also at expressing what I want. Because I know women have such a hard time asking for what they really want…

Of course, I fantasized about my husband reading my mind and getting me aroused without any guidance at all, but I slowly began to realize that this wasn’t realistic at all. It was just something that was going to keep us from evolving as a couple.

So after I became an expert in everything related to female orgasm, I shared my knowledge with my husband and now we’re always on the same page.

But not all women share this same story – in fact, most women are still waiting for their partner to read their minds, which means they have little to no chance to receive the right kind of stimulation.

Luckily, I am here to share some universally orgasmic techniques – so read on to find out how to treat her clitoris!

Keep your tongue flat and apply medium pressure on her clitoris while slightly moving the tongue up and down. This will mimic the move she makes with her hand when she masturbates – it’s what allows her to reach orgasm in less than 2 minutes.

Apply pressure around her clitoris, not directly on it. This spot is so sensitive that sometimes direct stimulation actually prevents her from reaching orgasm. Try stimulating the skin around the clitoris, which is packed with millions of nerve endings, and see if she likes it more that way.

Massage it with your erect penis. It’s not only a very erotic view, but it also feels amazing, mostly because of the warmth of your penis. The skin-on-skin contact will feel so good that she will implore you to penetrate her. So tease her as much as you can.

Use some coconut oil. Every move you make down there will feel better if she’s slippery, especially since the clitoris is so sensitive. So apply a small amount of coconut oil on your palm and start massaging her whole intimate area – not just her clitoris. Do it slowly and even insert one or two fingers into her vagina.

Suck on her labia and clitoris while fingering her. This combination will take her by surprise which will amplify every sensation.

Draw circles around and on the clitoris. Studies have shown that ladies adore this type of movement, so do it for about 15 seconds while fingering her. If she starts moaning harder, apply even more pressure with your tongue – especially around her clitoris, not directly on it. Try not to keep your tongue too pointy.

Caress her clit with feather-like touches. Use your fingers to barely touch the area, going up to her belly button. You will awaken her whole body!

Change the angle of approach by kneeling in front of her while she sits on a table. You’ll have more access to the key areas and you’ll be able to create different sensations. This position is also one of the sexiest you can try because it brings a little spark of domination – she’ll feel hot and powerful and this will work in your advantage.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: I can promise you this: your lady craves clit action! If you want to blow her mind with oral techniques she’s never experienced before, check out my program on the matter: Oral Rapture.

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Great oral sex need not be a chore or challenge. I’m going to give you tips on how to get the act right.

Many find oral sex, which involves using your mouth, lips and tongue to provide sexual pleasure to your partner, intimidating. However, it’s a proven fact that it helps enhance a sexual encounter. If you are looking for a complete guide on how to ace the game, look no further. PS: You can thank me later.

Get the basics right

Firstly, hydrate yourself. Oral sex is a lot of effort involving the use of saliva. You don’t want to be tired or dehydrated during the act. Brush your teeth and use a mouthwash. Make sure your partner cleans up his genital area beforehand too, for optimum overall hygiene. Oral sex is about your mouth coming into contact with the most intimate part of your partner’s body. To ensure that there is no cross-transfer of any infections or bacteria, it is vital to maintain hygiene. Genital fluids, urine, sweat, pubic hair, are all carriers of infection. Similarly, your mouth may also be a carrier for bacteria, especially if you are prone to mouth sores and ulcers. So are your hands, if you’re using them on your partner’s genitals. For this reason, hygiene is of utmost importance.

Don’t ignore the foreplay

Be it intercourse or oral sex, foreplay is bound to amplify the pleasure. Even if you’re planning to have oral sex, you needn’t start off there for stimulation. You can turn your partner on with foreplay—kissing, undressing, caressing, and stimulating each other’s erogenous zones. Not only does this prolong the pleasure, but also helps you find the right posture for the experience, and once you do go down on her, she’s more than prepared for it. To set the mood, talk dirty or whisper sweet nothings into her ears.

Get your technique right

A few time-tested methods go a long way in optimizing the experience. Start off gently, then pick up pace. The clitoris and the sides of the labia are sensitive points that react easily to stimulation; focus on them. Once her vagina is adequately moistened, it’s time for your mouth to work its magic. Ensure smooth movement! While some women don’t mind teeth, most find them grazing against delicate skin painful. Ask before you take the plunge! Needless to say, nipping and biting are a strict no-no.

Use your hands

Oral sex doesn’t necessarily translate into a hands-free experience. In fact, oral sex is enhanced with the combined use of hands. While using your tongue on the clitoris, you could also use your hands in tandem to ensure the base of the genital area gets some action as well. Also, it’s difficult to sustain oral sex by using just the mouth, since it can get exhausting. Using your hands interchangeably can help pace it out. Plus, a change of pace can help prolong pleasure and delay the orgasm. For more information on amazing fingering methods, check out my program called Flirting Fingers.

Communicate openly

Just like with penetrative sex, even during oral sex, communication is key. You should take cues from what your partner likes or dislikes. Don’t give into pressure; work within the boundaries of what you’re comfortable with. After all, even with oral sex, you need to be invested in it – it can’t be viewed as an unpleasant task that one needs to get done with; that’s not what your partner would like either. While verbal cues from your partner are important, watch out for non-verbal cues too. Throbbing and twitching are signals that she’s enjoying the experience. Lastly, be confident. A man who acts like he’s in charge of the oral sex experience is always a huge turn-on.

What’s your position?

There are several positions that work for oral sex. Your partner lying on her back, with you straddling her legs and bending over is the most popular and convenient position. Use enough pillows to prop her up, and offer you better leverage. The other option if you’re fit, is her standing, or sitting on a chair, with you kneeling down before her. The 69 position is great, because it also enables your woman to return the favor; however, this can be clumsy unless you guys are pros. A way to work around it is to do the ‘sideways 69’, which involves you two lying down on your sides and replicating the position.

TAKE IT UP A NOTCH

The 69 position ensures equal pleasure for both partners. The key to enjoying is to let yourself go, without worrying about how you’re performing. Use this chance to pleasure body parts that you wouldn’t otherwise have access to during penetrative sex – the outside of her thighs, and even her toes and ankles. For foreplay, let her lie down on the bed sideways, while you stand on the floor over his head. Then start kissing her, and work your way down her body until you’ve reached her vagina. If you’re on top, make sure you’re up for your arms and legs supporting your body through the act. If you’re below, you should be okay with your partner controlling how they maneuver their genitals onto your face. Another way to ensure that 69 is comfortable is to lie down next to each other, with his legs near your face and vice versa. Replicate the position, but with support for each of you.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Oral sex is a heavenly experience for both the giver and the receiver. And if you invite your fingers into the action as well it’s even more awesome. For more information on how to work those hot digits, check out my program on the subject – Flirting Fingers!

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There is nothing quite like the feeling of a warm, wet mouth on the vulva and clitoris. The tongue, with all of its flexibility and maneuvering abilities, has tremendous potential to give a woman erotic pleasure and bring her to orgasm. Some call it “going down,” “eating out,” or “giving head,” but the clinical term for oral stimulation of the vulva or clitoris is cunnilingus. The word is derived from the Latin words “vulva” and “lick.” Licking the vulva of your female lover is a classic way to really get her juices flowing.

Before I get into the nitty gritty of going down the right way, I have to tell you to check my Boobgasm program because it contains very creative ways to use your tongue on her two girls and send her right on the path to an earth-shattering breast orgasm.

One way to get creative and have a little more fun with oral sex is to add some delicious flavors or treats. Stimulating your taste buds can make your sexual experience even more sensual. One option is to purchase flavored lubricants or condoms. Or you can try kissing and passing candy, mints, or gum back and forth between your mouths. Another option is to use syrup or liqueurs. Pour them on each other’s genitals and lick them off. Try smearing food on each other’s erogenous zones and then devour each other. Certain flavors like mint or cinnamon can add a tingly sensation — especially noticeable on the genitals — that your lover may really get into.

Yet another way to get creative is to play with the temperature and sensation. Try using an ice cube in your mouth as you give oral pleasure to your lover’s genitals or other erogenous zones. Sometimes cooling things down can really heat things up! Or warm your mouth with some hot water or tea before performing cunnilingus or fellatio. See how the extra heat adds to your partner’s pleasure.

Essential tip

When exploring your lover’s various erogenous zones with your mouth, you may find a responsive body part. She may communicate this to you verbally with her moans and other sounds of delight or with her body movements. When you find a responsive spot, hang out there for a while. See how much pleasure she can handle in that one area before you move on to another.

Don’t stick to the same old spot all the time

Your lover’s genitals are not the only parts of her body that are capable of deriving erotic pleasure from your mouth. See what other parts might be responsive. Take a tour of your lover’s whole body with your lips, tongue, teeth, and open mouth. Lick, suck, nibble, bite, and blow your way around her magnificent landscape. See the different responses you get from the toes and fingers, ears, neck, nipples, and navel.

Stimulate the G-Spot

Often, if you stimulate a woman’s G-spot while performing cunnilingus, you will send her to the stars. This works best once she is already very aroused and close to orgasm. It can greatly intensify her orgasm. To reach the G-spot you will need to insert one or two fingers, palm side up, inside of her vagina. Press toward her pubic bone, about one and a half to three inches in. You are feeling for a spongy bulb of tissue. When you find it, use a come-hither motion. Check in with your lover and explore any other motions that feel particularly good to her.

Take her all the way there

Bringing your female lover all the way to orgasm may require that you have both patience and endurance. Her arousal has to build at its own pace. It will help if the erotic energy between the two of you has been building for a while before starting cunnilingus. When you feel like she is getting closer, keep up the stimulation in a constant and steady manner. Be careful in your excitement not to overdo the pressure on her clitoris. It is fine to increase the pace a little bit, but let it build gradually. When she starts to come, don’t back off of the stimulation just yet. See her all the way through the end of her orgasm, or until she asks you to stop.

Once your lover has an orgasm, you may need to ease off of her clitoris, which will most likely be very sensitive at this point. Rather than abandoning her vulva altogether, however, you can cup your hand lightly over the entire area. This is a soft way to stay in contact with her as she makes her descent back down to resting. It allows the two of you to bask in the afterglow of her orgasm.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. According to Chinese Taoism, performing cunnilingus is way to increase one’s vitality. The ingestion of vaginal fluids, or feminine elixir, is considered a health practice. You know what else is good for your health – and hers? Bringing her to orgasm by enjoying your favorite activity – playing with her breasts. Check out my Boobgasm program for hot and new ways to make her come via boob play alone.

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There is no bigger bedroom blunder for a woman than when a man doesn’t know how to go down on her properly. That’s because cunnilingus is simply amazing. So when a man just clearly has no idea what he’s doing down there, it really is disappointing for a woman. Nobody wants to be that man, but unfortunately, knowing how to go down on a woman isn’t exactly part of our sex education curriculum. (Though, it should be.) Fortunately, performing cunnilingus is a skill where you can totally up your game, whether you’re new to it or are a vagina-eating veteran. Yep, there is always room for improvement. 

That’s why I decided to dedicate my upcoming Naked U to this precise topic! Naked U Season 8 – The Oral Obsession Edition is cooking and will be live and up for grabs really soon, but while you wait let me give you some starting pointers for you to practice. 

The first step to being amazing at performing cunnilingus is to familiarize yourself with the female anatomy. I mean, you’re not going to win any battle without first understanding the terrain. But let’s assume you know where all the hotspots are (after all, you’ve been reading my blog for a while now) and want to know how to take your techniques to the next level. Well, in that case, here’s what you have to do to earn yourself an enthusiastic thumbs up for going down.

Slow it down

The first thing you want to do when you’re going down is to… slow it down. After all, it’s an orgasm, not a race. Most of us move more quickly than we intend to when we’re excited, nervous and aroused. Whatever your inclination is with regard to speed, cut it in half and then cut it in half again. Trust me!

Build anticipation

When you’re turned on, you might be tempted to rush to the finale, but you’re only selling her short. Create delicious tension by slowly turning up the heat. Don’t make the mistake of rushing and going straight for the goods. Instead, build anticipation by touching, caressing, feeling, licking, kissing, and breathing all over her body — slowly. Make her wait to intensify the impact once she finally gets what she’s begging for.

Use your breath

Most of us overlook one of the best weapons in our sexual arsenal: our breath. Not sure what that means? To use your breath to its greatest and most pleasurable potential, control its temperature by exhaling slowly with a wide-open mouth to release warm air or pursing your lips and breathing gently to release cool air. Once you’ve mastered that technique, lick a line from the fourchette (the fork in the road where her lips meet at the very bottom of the vulva) to the head of the clit at the top — slowly — and then breath subtle, warm air over the wet path you’ve created.

Circle it good

Once you’ve built up the anticipation and driven your partner wild with your breath, don’t blow it with poor clitoral technique. While everyone’s vagina is different, you don’t want to begin with a full-frontal assault. In translation, don’t press it like an elevator button! Instead, continue teasing by slowly circling your tongue around it to tease and tantalize before pressing your flat, wide tongue against it gently to allow the pressure to build.

Pulse for her pleasure

When your partner climaxes, they will experience pleasurable contractions that begin in the pelvic area and radiate out. Give her a helping hand to heighten her pleasure: press a wide, flat surface (for example, your tongue, the palm of your hand, or a flat, vibrating toy) against the length of her vulva or the head of her clitoris and pulse gently.

Keep an open dialogue

If you really want to blow her mind, you need to know what works for your partner, so don’t be afraid to ask for feedback. You may be capable of making miracles in the bedroom, but you don’t have to be a mind reader. Ask simple yes or no questions while you learn what works best for her, as well as watching for the non-verbal cues, like the rhythm of her hips.

If all of this sounds like a lot of work, well, yeah, it can be. But anything worth doing in the bedroom is worth doing well. And I want to help you do just that: ace oral with flying colors. In order to do that, keep your eyes peeled for my latest season of Naked U, the 8th! Called The Oral Obsession edition, it’s got everything you need to become the oral master you strive to be. The launch will happen really soon, so don’t miss out!

Work from the outside in

Your goal when going down on her is not necessarily the destination, but rather, the journey. When it comes to how to go down on a woman, take your time getting to your final destination. Many men enjoy an oral experience that includes some attention to the perineum, the scrotum, and the shaft — not just the head. So, it makes sense that women would also enjoy a comprehensive and varied experience.

It’s not difficult to learn how to perform cunnilingus from the outside in. Start by kissing the sensitive skin of her stomach and inner thighs before licking and kissing around the fourchette and vulva. Slowly make your way up around the clitoral hood before circling around to the clitoris, and you’ll build tantalizing tension that she’ll love.

Use everything you have

Some guys don’t know how to go down on a woman other than using their tongue which, let’s be honest, can be tiring after a while. You’re in for a treat when you realize that the best ways to go down on a woman include using practically anything at your disposal, if she’s game.

Use all that you’ve got to make sensual contact with her pleasure zones. You can get creative with your lips, tongue, nose, chin, facial hair, hands, toys — the options are endless! One of the first and most important cunnilingus tips anyone can learn is that sometimes, nothing is sexier than a little creativity. 

Keep her guessing

Variety is the spice of life, so take this message to heart when going down on a woman. No one wants the same motions over and over again, so keep it sexy and unpredictable. When you switch up your technique, you keep her guessing and on the edge of her seat  — maybe even literally, depending on where you’re doing the deed!  

Different speeds, intensities, and motions can trigger all kinds of sensations. However, keep in mind that when you start to see signs that she’s approaching a climax, keep it consistent and speed it up slightly to bring her over the finish line. 

Even if one particular move hits the spot (so to speak), others can still add to the overall experience and keep your routine from becoming… well, routine. Understanding how to give cunnilingus that blows her mind is both an art and a science, and spontaneity will keep things exciting.

Coordinated stimulation

For some women, a single source of stimulation isn’t enough. Instead, try coordinating movements. For example, if she’s laying on her back, reach up and use your hands to massage her breasts or your thumbs to gently stimulate her nipples. You can lightly run your fingers up and down her torso and thighs for added sensations and foreplay. Want to really impress her? Wrap your arms around her legs to lift her pelvis into different positions and squeeze her thighs as you use your mouth to drive her wild. 

Keep in mind that oral sex isn’t limited to just your mouth. Use your fingers to stimulate her G spot while you flick your tongue across her clit for an earth-shattering orgasm. You can also bring products like dildos or vibrators into the equation. 

Note that for some women, clitoral stimulation is enough, and adding more could feel overwhelming. Other women appreciate additional touching and sensation during oral sex. When figuring out how to go down on a girl, make sure to check in frequently so you know what’s working for her. 

Learning how to go down on a woman isn’t a one-and-done undertaking. When it comes to the best cunnilingus techniques, you’ll find that every woman is unique and likes different things. In other words, you may have to relearn how to go down on a woman to some degree with every new partner. Having a range of cunnilingus techniques in your arsenal can help you better pleasure any partner that comes into your life. 

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Techniques aside, the most important thing to remember when you go down on someone is to do it with passion, curiosity, and the desire to please. If you start there, everything else will follow. 

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Using your mouth to stimulate your lover’s genitals and other erogenous zones is a very gratifying way to help bring her to climax. The oral path to orgasm is a very intimate experience and can be incredibly stimulating for the giver as well. The sight, taste, smell and feel of your lover’s body can be taken in like a smorgasbord of sensual delights. Meanwhile, the warm and wet sensation of your silky mouth on your lover’s body is likely to make her sing out an orgasm like no other.

The art of oral pleasure

Erotic pleasure, delivered via the mouth, is truly an art. Learning to use your mouth, including your lips, teeth, and tongue, to satisfy your lover will likely earn you many bonus points in your intimate relationships. Oral pleasure can be used either as foreplay or as the main path to orgasm. Because mouths are warm and wet, they provide tremendous sensation and ample lubrication to the stimulation you deliver this way. They seem to be designed perfectly for providing such pleasure. Add some simple technique to this perfect design and you can create an erotic experience for your lover that is out of this world.

To help you, I’ve put together an exclusive oral program that will be available soon. I’m talking about Naked U Season 8 – The Oral Obsession Edition. Can you imagine being an absolute master at oral sex? Having your woman fantasise all day long about what your lips and tongue can do? I can’t wait to launch this baby and help you get amazingly good at the number one sex treat on every woman’s menu: oral sex!

Because there are many ways to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for your lover. Above all, you have to make sure she can relax into it. Women may be insecure about the taste or smell of their vulvas. Therefore, it is never a bad idea to let her know how much you love her taste and smell. Reassure her that you are happy to pleasure her. Let her know she can simply receive and enjoy. Then explore and discover the many ways to pleasure her with your mouth, paying attention to what works best for her.

Starting off

Start by getting into a position that is comfortable for you, especially if you have the intention of bringing your lover all the way to orgasm. You might be there for a while! Try lying face down on a flat surface with your head in between her legs. She should be lying face up with knees bent and feet planted on either side of you, or wrapped around your back. You may want to raise her hips with a pillow for her comfort or to lift her pelvis up higher for you. You may also place a pillow under your chest to support you. Another alternative position would be to have her sitting on a chair with her pelvis forward and her legs spread open. In this position she presents her vulva to you as you kneel before her. You can also try having her squat or kneel over your face as you lie down.

Now to the juicy part!

The mouth has many ways of delivering pleasure. You can be creative as you explore the many ways you can use your mouth to create enjoyable sensations for your lover. Try using your tongue in different ways. The variety can include full-blown kitty-cat licks with your whole tongue, making circles and figure eights, or flickering rapidly with just the tip. Play around with sucking, using your lips and teeth to create a vacuum. This can draw more blood to your partner’s genitals and erogenous zones. Use your teeth by gently nibbling or more aggressively biting various parts of your lover’s body. Breathe onto your lover’s genitals or other erogenous zones, either by pressing your open mouth against her or by blowing air through your lips. You can mix and match all of these techniques, discovering whatever you and your lover enjoy.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

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Slow sex was built for women. Women naturally desire sex that is connected, earthy, sensual, and artistic. We want the permission to be turned on. We want our men to help us reach that goal.

But how do you do that? How do you slow down sex and help your partner feel a kind of pleasure she has never felt before?

Before I take you through my very own slow oral sex technique, I have to tell you about my friend Mariah Freya’s Yoni Massage course, which teaches you the right way to treat a woman’s vagina – like royalty! Every couple should study and practice this massage technique!

Part One: Preparation

Make every move a move of drawing her out, rather than going in and finding her. Let your only desire be to extend her desire; to get it to reach for you. In the process you are giving her the rare opportunity to feel the depth, weight, and power of her very own hunger. Help her welcome the experience of high sensation, so she can start to go toward it instead of pulling away. You are giving her that gift when you go slow.

Part Two: Coaxing her orgasm into bloom

If she is not already naked, help your woman take off her clothes. Go slowly; show her that you care about every button, every hook, every zipper. Sit her down on the edge of the bed and kneel down in front of her. Remove her socks one at a time; help her slide her pants off.

Slowly slide up her body, keeping yourself an inch above her. Make sure you are straddling her but not touching her. Reach for both of her arms and spread them open. Press them down into the bed until you feel her let go.

Put your face near her neck, under her jawline, so that your lips almost touch her tender skin. Bring your mouth over her nipple and let the moist heat of your breath cover it, as if you were fogging up a window. Now, hover your mouth over all of her stomach and breasts, breathing against her body with a slow hot breath. Continue down her body, down her thighs.

Part Three: Drawing Out Her Orgasm

With one soft finger, gently skim along her inner labia. Add lubrication if that would feel good. Bring your finger to rest just below her clit, slowly moving one millimeter closer to her clitoris without touching it directly.

Bring your tongue down to her inner thighs. Lick the inside of each thigh as you would lick an ice cream cone that is dripping down the side. As her desire builds, begin to suck very slightly against her inner thigh.

Lick the outer rim of the outer labia on both sides. Then, draw your tongue up the center line of her vagina, slowly washing over her clitoris. After a few gentle strokes, take the whole of her clit into your mouth. Draw it in. Move your tongue along the bottom ridge of the clit, where her inner labia begin to separate. Move in up and down the ridge, sucking gently as you go.

Part Four: Going Deeper

While you are sucking her, take two fingers and slide them inside her. Reach up inside her, to the spot that would be the back of her clit, and you will find a spot right there that is soft, like the top of a baby’s head. Rest your fingers there. You do not need to move. Just press very gently.

Begin to move your tongue in a slow rhythm that she can catch on to. Then continue to apply pressure with your fingers, while sucking and moving your tongue over her. As she climaxes, stay present. Stay connected. Do not try to rush things; simply magnetize her orgasm toward you. When you feel her relax, stretch out and lie on top of her until you can feel every part of her body exhale. 

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Do you know what kind of sex a woman truly desires? The kind that turns her on, the kind she enjoys just as much as you do? 

To learn more advanced tips and techniques on how to make her orgasm, I recommend you check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots. You’ll discover the 5 secret erogenous zones that will drive her wild every night!

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