What if you could actually convince the women you encounter to make the first move?

I know… seems rather impossible, especially since the burden of initiating a possible relationship almost always falls on the guy.

From playing the game of flirting to slowly teasing and attracting her, you often face many obstacles when it comes to get the woman you want.

It can be hard.

So here are 5 effective tips to persuade any woman you meet to make the first move.

Men who’ve used these tips got the hottest women to pursue them and beg for their attention. This is a guide to help you make that happen too.

Now that you’re ready, let’s explore each of these 5 ways to convince that naughty lady you have your eyes on to try and be the pursuer for once.

If you want to learn more about the method that guarantees you’ll never need to make the first move on a woman again, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – these powerful psychological tricks can compel pretty much any woman to make the first move. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Take advantage of the FOMO

Most women are (very) conservative when it comes to making a move on a guy. They don’t want to risk their reputation. They want to be the ones chased and avoid any bold actions and commitments. So they sit quiet and wait for the men to come to them like bees to a jar of honey.

Here’s what you can do: Create a sense of urgency. Comparing is a great tool for that. Casually mentioning another woman that you’re seeing can trigger a fear of missing out. You can make a strong case by suggesting the ways another woman has successfully peaked your interest (no woman wants to stay behind the competition).

Build your reputation

Any woman would want to pursue more a great guy than the average joe. This is normal. The greatest guys get praise and attention. That’s why your personal brand – your reputation – is of crucial importance. If she’s convinced you’re a great guy, she’ll want to be near you more often than not. That’s why getting noticed is primordial. The more she sees and hears about your qualities, the more she trusts you. And the best way to get her attention is to pay attention to what SHE cares about.

Don’t act insecure, but don’t try to impress her either

A guy who is insecure, behaves in a nervous way and who can barely look a girl in the eye for more than a few seconds is an instant turn off. Girls don’t want to reward weakness with sex, love and devotion.

On the other hand, giving her a lot of compliments or telling her a lot of cool stories about yourself isn’t going to impress her much either. She’s probably heard it all before and if you’re not natural, confident in yourself and your abilities, anything else you do will come across as false, forced or weird to her.

Don’t give up at the first sign of resistance

Women like to test guys to see how much they can get away with and how hard they can push before a guy says “No” or laughs at her for being so high maintenance. Therefore, women will often give out mixed signals, act flaky or pretend to get offended easily. Some guys don’t know how to handle this and simply give up; and fail the test. Don’t do that. Stick to it and see what happens. She’ll be surprised by this proactive attitude and want to know you better.

Have a vibrant vibe

The law of attraction is that like attracts like. By this I mean if you want to attract fun and exciting women, you’ve got to be fun and exciting yourself. If you have the stink face look all night and appear miserable, guess who you’ll be attracting? On the other hand, if you’re enjoying yourself, you’re more likely to attract great women. Men who get approached by quality women always have the vibe that projects I’m loving my night regardless! Plus, having fun is always superior to not having fun.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Admit it, never having to worry about chasing women again sounds rather spectacular, am I right? If you want to learn more about this, I recommend you check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – you’re going to learn a TON from this (he explains how to use these chase triggers step-by-step. And it’s so easy that any guy can do it, with little to no practice). NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Let’s imagine this simple scenario, shall we? You are standing around a bar table with a couple of friends when you notice a gorgeous woman across the room. I mean smoking hot. She walks up to you and says, “There is something about you, I’m not sure what it is but I’d really like to get to know you. Would you like to go someplace quiet and get to know each other?” You go off with her in the corner while your friends wonder how you just pulled this woman – the best looking woman in the bar and way out of your league.

That would be great it that is how it worked with women, wouldn’t it? They come up to you and tell you exactly how they feel and what they want, without the need to play mindless flirtation games that sometimes lead to nowhere and are just a waste of time. Plus, what guy wouldn’t want the woman to do all the work for once? But in our society, this just doesn’t happen. It’s not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make the first move.

If getting a woman to approach you and pursue you sounds like an impossible dream, I have to tell you that it doesn’t have to be. You can get a woman to invite you in her bed without much effort. In fact, the less effort you put into it, the better.

If you want to know more about this innovative method of getting the woman to basically drag you to bed, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique is innocent and ordinary, so you can’t get rejected. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Convince her with your eyes

In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for 10 percent of the total message. The rest is done through non-verbal communication: body language. And the part of your body that most “speaks” to a woman and convinces her are your eyes. But you have to learn the subtle art of the correct eye contact, otherwise you’ll just appear creepy or, worse, desperate. Here are some things to take into consideration:

The extended gaze

Anytime you lock eyes with a woman, show her you are interested by holding her gaze for a second or two longer than what would be considered a normal glance. Warning: holding eye contact is different than starring. You don’t want to find yourself starring at a woman like a crazy man. If she’s with a friend, move your eyes to her companion, but make sure you don’t spend more time looking at her friend than you did at her. This way she’ll sense she has competition, but she will still feel that she’s winning. And this is all she needs in order to start the chase.

The checkout

Choose a more subtle approach when checking her out. Don’t straight stare at her breasts and then quickly look back to her eyes, hoping she didn’t notice. Trust me, she did. Instead, first look at her face intently, than move on to the rest of her body, smiling as if you liked what you saw. Then avert your gaze and force yourself to not look in her direction for at least 5 minutes. Let her stew and fidget. Let her think of ways to have her look at her again. When you finally do look again, she’ll be so relieved and happy she’ll basically be on the verge of throwing herself to you then and there.

Walk the eye-talk

You’ve been conversing with your eyes so far, now it’s time to use the rest of your body language and movement is your best friend at this point. Get up and walk to the bar, making sure she’s watching you, and walk with purpose, with an air of confidence and even a little cockiness. Walk like you’re somebody, walk tall, with your head up, chest out, smiling, perhaps even laughing. Show her that you are having more fun than anyone there. All of these body language messages signal to her that you’re confident, that you’re interesting, that you have something to offer, that you’re fun and fun to be around.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Getting a hot woman in bed and – most importantly – having it be her idea – is not that difficult at all, as you already saw. For more on this thorny topic, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique works fast and basically all women are powerless in the face of it. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Want to amp up your sex appeal? Here’s what you need to bring back that spark in your flirting game and attract any woman fast and easily.

To this day, no-one fully understands why some men have ladies want to rip their clothes off, while others never seem to have any real and solid luck. What I do know is that for many guys this happens often – like really often. They go out, flirt their brains out and nothing works.

There are so many factors at play when it comes to erotic flirting and what women crave when it comes to seduction that it makes analyzing the phenomenon difficult to say the least.

For starters, enticing sexual desire in a woman is an elusive and complex thing. It’s mental, physical, emotional and contextual. It also occurs differently in women than it does in men, which confuses the latter a great deal. And all men have this story in their heads that the hottest the woman is, the more difficult she is to attract. That belief in itself may be limiting you more than you realize. Sexual interest has nothing to do with aesthetics, it’s something as spontaneous as it is inexplicable. It’s an energy between two people that can come about in many ways.

All that said, I have some theories about how you can feed any woman’s hunger for you. Allow me to explain, but not before I tell you this: If you want to learn more about the easiest way to get hot girls interested in you, check out this program called Rise of the Phoenix, by my friend Sebastian Harris – It’s a rejection-proof seduction system that allows thousands of regular guys to attract the hottest women around. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

How to plant the seed of lust

During your initial interaction, you have to make sure you’re forming a deep sensual bond. You want her to crave you almost without realizing it – which is ideal. This way you both view yourself as two sexually hungry people seeking release. When you turn her on sexually before anything else and focus on the carnal aspect of your connection, you prioritize your sexual desires and subconsciously let her know she will have a wild and free night with you.

When a woman gets turned on like this, instead of being lured with mechanical, scripted lines, lusty urges become almost unbearable. And when she feels pursued like this, she will want to share with you the promised pleasure and intimacy.

The problem with being too close

If you’re usually very affectionate and even cuddly when trying to lure a woman, you’re actually ruining your chances. I know it may sound counterintuitive, but a little distance makes her want you even more. Of course, proving that you’re capable of powerful emotional intimacy is important, but it’s just as important to let her know that you’re not desperate to have her and that she’s not the only woman with whom you can share a night of passion. When you relate with her as someone who exists separately from you and your own needs, you plant the seed of real desire. So it’s crucial to keep your distance in order to access and prolong her sexual craving for you.

How to make her hot for you

When a woman think she knows you, she stops being curious about you, that’s why you have to let her know that there’s more for her to explore and discover in you. Try telling her something about you that she can’t possibly imagine with her mind. Even though this game is not overtly sexual, seeing this new, unexpected side of you can pique her curiosity, which can stimulate lust.

If you want a sexier challenge, give yourself a different persona – it doesn’t have to be a big production, but it should be enough to trigger playfulness and arousal.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Making a woman feel the desire to be with you and approach you is actually a lot easier than most guys realize. If you want to learn more about this, I recommend you check out this program called “The Rise of the Phoenix”, created by my friend Sebastian Harris – It’s a proven system that thousands of guys (with way less going for them than you do) have used to attract and get into bed absolutely jaw dropping women. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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With these fail-proof rules, we have you covered on all fronts… time to flirt like a boss, gentlemen.

The word flirting can sound quaint to the point of being lamely outdated. But the ability to banter playfully with someone you’re into is a time-honored and valuable dating skill. It heightens sexual tension and distinguishes your dynamic from a ‘just friends’ situation. It also helps you gauge compatibility and chemistry on so many levels. The only problem? In the era of digital dating, you may never have learned this analogue skill…or you’ve let it expire. Here’s how to signal you’re down to get much closer.

And if you want to learn more about how to get out of that pestering and annoying friend zone, check out this program called Passion & Attraction by my friend Alex Allman. If you’re single and trying to learn how to get taken seriously as a sexual partner from the very first time you meet an attractive woman, you can find the method laid out here. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Lock eyes in a non-creepy way

Some old-school methods are irreplaceable. There’s nothing sexier than two confident people making eye contact from across the room. A glance or two in which you make eye contact (for three seconds, max!) paired with a subtle smile sends a clear message: ‘I’m interested’.

Say something nice

So this hottie picked up what you’re putting down and is approaching. Now what? You can’t go wrong with giving an earnest compliment. Look for something you find flattering about her (her outfit, her choice of drink), or mention something sweet she did, like giving her seat to another person or helping to get the bartender’s attention so someone could order a drink.

Recognize her efforts

If a woman tosses out a line like, ‘You have beautiful eyes’, and your response is, ‘I bet you say that to everybody’, you come off as skeptical (even if it was a total line). If you’re interested in getting to know this woman, instead of deflecting or downplaying her comment (c’mon, she’s trying here!), simply respond with ‘Thank you’, then move the conversation along. If that feels too abrupt, throw some honest praise right back.

Send signals with body language

Consider all the nonverbal hints you give when you’re not interested in someone. You fold your arms, avoid eye contact, and lean back. When you want to show that you’re listening, engaged and intrigued, make sure to uncross your arms, look her in the eyes and casually touch her hand or tuck her hair behind her ear.

Don’t stop once you’re in a relationship

Although there are other motivations (like sex), most happy couples who are long-hauling it keep flirting because it’s fun. As a relationship develops, flirting may not seem as important, but it can show your partner that you’re still attracted to them.

Digital flirting

Use enticing words

Men who write mmm, gorgeous, handsome, cute, or aww, in their messages are six times more likely to swap numbers with a match than their less flirty counterparts. Try a line like, “A gorgeous gal who also likes ice cream? Mmm…”.

Pepper in an emoji

Toss in a wink, a smiley face, or a kiss—the top emojis used by both sexes when flirting on their phones. But do so sparingly—not in lieu of a complete sentence when one is called for.

Shoot over a GIF

When texting, it can be difficult to express yourself, and even more difficult to show emotion, but GIFs take off some of the pressure. You can send a flirty GIF, such as licking your lips, that conveys interest without having to be too forward. It shows your comical side too.

Get a little fresh

When flirting with your thumbs, banter is the only thing you have to go on. It has to create enough rapport that you want to meet up. While chatting, look for moments where you can tease her, or be naughty with an intriguing challenge like, ‘I’ll tell you when I see you’ or ‘Wonder if you’re this charming IRL…’ She’ll bite.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Flirting and getting noticed is all the more difficult in this day and age, but definitely not impossible. If you’re having trouble breaking out of the mischievous pattern that always drags you down in the friend zone, check out this program called Passion & Attraction by my friend Alex Allman. It contains the step-by-step blueprint for becoming the man that women want and desire sexually. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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It’s not about where you put your hands. Or even your lips.

Did it ever happen to you? You like someone and you’re looking forward to kissing them, but when you finally do, it’s so bad – that person is bobbing against your mouth with dry, mechanical rhythm – you’re actually bummed and disappointed? Being a terrible kisser is really a problem. And one that many men don’t think they need to fix.

Imagine you’re on a great date with someone, but as soon as you are in front of their apartment and you start kissing, you go rigid. You just stand there, moving your head with all the ease and finesse of and eighth-grader. No matter how great you actually are in the sack, if you don’t know what to tease and attract a woman with your kissing routine, your romantic career is basically over.

We talk a lot about bad sex as a deal breaker, but I think bad sex is way more workable than bad kissing. With bad sex, you can critique specific things your partner is doing without sounding like you’re critiquing them as a person. (“Less rotary dial, more push-button!”) We’re used to getting feedback about sex—when someone gives us feedback in bed, we just think it’s sexy that they know what they want.

Kissing is different. Kissing is governed by passion, not technique, and it’s much harder to comment on the former. When you acknowledge that you didn’t enjoy a kiss, you’re usually acknowledging that you don’t have chemistry with someone.

That’s why knowing how to kiss is important. If you want to build serious attraction and arouse a prospect partner, you’ve got to really know what to do with those lips of yours. This is actually your first real bonding moment on the path to sex, so you’ve got to make sure you’re doing everything right.

For more information on how you can increase your degree of desirability with the ladies, check out this program called Super Natural by my friend Julian Foxx, which covers everything from how to get the hottest women to how to get out of the friend-zone – if you happen to be in one. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

But what makes a kiss good or bad?

A good kiss is one in which no one feels self-conscious.

As one friend put it, “A good kiss happens when neither person is taking it too seriously, particularly in the early stages. Mid-kiss smiling is great.” Ideally, you’re so consumed by your lust for your partner that you’re not worrying about the mechanics. Sure, you should keep some basic kissing guidelines in mind: Your target should under no circumstances feel as though your tongue will cause them to choke, and everybody’s spit should stay in between the mouths—a terrible kiss requires you to wipe your mouth afterward.

But when neither of you is overthinking it, those logistics come more naturally. You don’t fret about where you’re putting your hands. (I like one in my hair, one at my waist.) Kissing is like breathing: If you start thinking too hard about it, you’re no longer able to do it properly and you start to feel faint. I find it helpful to mentally zero in on the kissee’s most attractive feature. If you cannot isolate an attractive feature, abort.

The real mastery comes in making your kissing counterpart feel comfortable.

Permission is important. For a long time I thought that when a man asked if he could kiss me, he destroyed the spontaneity and thus the romance. But in recent years I’ve started to really like being the arbiter of the kissing—I’ve started to like being the arbiter of everything. Seeking consent is never corny. It’s just hot.

Beyond giving and receiving enthusiastic permission, the best way to make someone feel confident is also the simplest: Tell them they’re a good kisser.

Unless you’re kissing someone with whom you have absolutely no chemistry, someone who is inextricably wound up in their anxieties, or one of those 0.0003 percent of people who really are inherently, clinically bad kissers, affirmation will fix it. Even if they suck (literally), before you write off someone you like as a bad kisser, try a Hail Mary lie. Pause for a breath and say, “Wow, you’re an amazing kisser.” Yes, they might continue doing whatever unsettling thing they’re doing. More likely: They’ll relax, and you’ll have a really good kiss.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. If you haven’t polished your kissing routine in quite some thing – thinking it’s unnecessary – then you shouldn’t wonder why your hookups lead anywhere. For more information on how to really tease the opposite sex and make any woman desire you with all her flesh and blood, check out this program called Super Natural by my friend Julian Foxx. Just doing what Julian teaches you here can literally triple how many women you bed this year. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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So how can you land your dream girl? The one you’ve been fantasizing about for quite some time, but didn’t have the guts to make your move? Whether the woman you desire is a complete stranger or close friend, the following tips will help initiate contact with her.

And if you want to enrich your attraction skillset or learn new routines that will help you get women – any women – check out this program called The Girlfriend Activation System, created by the dating company The Social Man. I loved it because it goes deep into the female psychology and gives simple and practical advice that really help you overcome any and all obstacles that are standing between you and the woman of your dreams. NOTE: This program is for single guys ONLY and was NOT created by me.

How to FINALLY Land: The friend you are secretly crushing on

Your biggest challenge is showing her that you’re more than a best bud. My advice: Ask her out—whether it’s to dinner or for a drink—and make it clear that it’s just going to be the two of you. From there, you need to create a sexy, non-friend dynamic.

Here’s how: As soon as you see her, compliment her on what she’s wearing. Throughout the night, initiate subtle physical contact that you normally wouldn’t make, like putting your arm around her or grabbing her hand as you guide her through a crowded bar. These simple gestures give you space to analyze how she responds. And the understated moves work better than just blurting out that you’re into her, because if she responds coldly to your advances, you can simply return to acting how you normally would.

How to FINALLY land: The babe you see every morning when you go out for coffee

Women like men who know what they want and take the initiative to go after it. So if you run into the same woman every morning when you’re grabbing your daily cup of Joe, make the effort to talk to her. Start small: Flash her a smile and make small talk. If she always orders the same drink, mention you’ve never had it and ask if she recommends it. If you’ve noticed her sweet car, ask her how it drives. Anything that shows you’ve been paying attention to her will be flattering.

Want to really leave a lasting impression? Turn up at the coffee shop a few minutes before your normal ETA, and leave money with the barista to cover your dream girl’s drink. Once she gets her java, approach her and tell her that you’d love to treat her again—but this time, after your 9-to-5.

How to FINALLY land: That gorgeous lady you almost always see at the bar when you go out with the lads

Trying to catch the girl you’ve already met a few times in passing may be the easiest mission of all, because you don’t have to worry about ruining an already-established friendship or breaking the ice. Next time you see her out, jumpstart the conversation by bringing up your common ground. Is she a friend of a friend? Does she work in your building? Does she break a sweat at your gym? Once you’ve initiated contact, buy her a drink and get her to talk about her passions.

Ask questions and listen to her answers. Then, once you find out her passion, run with it. Is she really into music? Invite her to the hot ticket in town next weekend. Does she love baseball? Tell her you’d love to take her to a game. Is she an art fiend? Ask her if she’d accompany you to a local gallery and teach you a thing or two about the paintings.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. If you weren’t lucky enough to meet and date the woman of your dreams yet, now’s your time to change things for the better. She’s out there, you just need to follow the right strategies to get her. And speaking of strategies, check out this program called The Girlfriend Activation System, created by the dating company The Social Man. You may be surprised to find out that getting that special woman is actually easier than you thought. Believe it or not, women are waiting to be swept off their feet and with the help of the advice you’ll find here, you’ll be able to do just that. NOTE: This program is for single guys ONLY and was NOT created by me.

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Stud, when a beautiful woman crosses your path, don’t ruin it. Seize the moment! (Carefully!) Here, I demystify the delicate art of making a completely charming stranger want to sleep with you.

Nobody likes picking up complete strangers. I mean, if you’ve got an ego the size of China or you’re a creepy stalker, you might, but otherwise it’s a pretty scary prospect for any guy. Why? Because it forces you to make yourself vulnerable in front of someone – a lady nonetheless! You feel corny. Hesitant. Plus, what if she’ll bluntly cut you off and make you feel like a fool? The cost-benefit analysis is pretty hazy to say the least.

But you can’t swear off the pickup part entirely. Why? Because for the most part it’s inevitable. You’ll be strutting along, happy with the car you just bought, liking your job, hitting the gym, maybe even taking multivitamins, and then—pow—you’ll see a woman, leafing through her magazine maybe, with her shiny hair, and those gorgeous shoes, and she’ll laugh her pretty laugh and you’ll feel turned on and it’s awesome and you’ll want it all for yourself. What are you going to do in this case? Talk to her or risk never seeing her again? You should definitely talk to her.

If you want to know more about how to make a woman want you and crave you, check out this program called Stealth Attraction, created by my friend Richard La Ruina. This is a rejection-proof seduction system that’s allowing thousands of regular guys to live out a sex life beyond their wildest dreams. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Chris Rock was so right when he said: “A woman knows if she’s gonna sleep with you within the first four to five minutes of meeting you.”

So here’s the deal; here’s how you should make those first minutes count: Look at her face, check out her torso region, her shoes (women love it when a guy notices their shoes), and then back at her lovely face while smiling a medium-size smile. Keep it simple and natural. Looking a woman up and down should take no longer than counting to four, tops. Don’t eye-ball the crap out of her and then lick your lips like a horny animal. If she doesn’t flee, her curiosity is definitely piqued and you’re in the running. Trust me on this.

Let’s say the wonderful girl is at a bar and half-turned towards you—and she stays that way – that’s a good sign. Reassure her by looking a little sheepish and even timid when you’re in her sight line. Your should give off the vibe that says “I know, right? What even is this foolish thing?” Let her think that you don’t think she’s a sure thing. Yet. From there, just say hi. Tell her your name; offer to buy her a cocktail. Depending on how convincing you are when you imply that you’re baffled by this type of encounter (because never do this, ever), now would be the perfect time to make your first move. How do you do that? Well, you aren’t going to stay on those barstools for ever, so an extraction is necessary. Tell her: “Would you be mortified if I suggested we go someplace a little bit more quiet?”

Here’s another scenario: the pavement pickup.

This one rarely works, so you can’t take it personally if she refuses you. Women rarely just go home with someone that picked them out on the street and I’m sure you can understand why. Remember: You are complete strangers. For all that she knows, you could have eight bodies stashed in your closet at home. So this time is also a perfect time for simplicity. So bravely say hi and tell her your name, like I suggested earlier. Don’t say: I love your deep blue eyes, they remind me of the sea during a massive storm. The sidewalk is no place for getting all fancy and cheekily romantic! If she’s not dead-eyed yet, continue. Say: “I know this may sound nuts, but could I buy you a cup of coffee or a glass of wine nearby?”

In any setting, picking your momentum is key. If you can lock some time with her, do it without hesitation. If the situation is complicated and complex, like for example you’re on mass transit and can’t really talk for long, try to get her contact or give her yours and promise you won’t make it weird in case she does decide this doesn’t go anywhere.

Oh, a couple of quick but helpful notes about exchanging contact information: Don’t hand a woman your card, this isn’t a business transaction. If you do get lucky and she does give you her phone number, don’t reach via text, call her. You’ll show her you’re really serious about this.

If the call goes to voice mail, even better, because this is your time to shine. Be adorable and cute. Clear your throat and sound nervous – women love that. Do that funny thing where you say a running commentary of exactly what you’re doing at this exact moment: “This is me calling you on your phone, leaving you this voice mail, hoping you’ll call me back, because then I can finally take you out like we talked about.” That’s great – funny and human! If she calls you back – and she probably will – chances are she’s seriously considering getting intimate with you. There, you’ve done it.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Being rejected by a woman sucks, but regretting not taking a shot is even worse. If you don’t want to experience those nasty feelings again, check out this program called Stealth Attraction, created by my friend Richard La Ruina. He basically guarantees that you’ll get the girl. Any girl. The girl you fancy the most. And I believe him.

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If you go by international statistics, one-night stands are hugely popular among those looking to get some quick action. A study of 1,000 participants by medical portal zavamed.com, had 66 per cent of the participants saying they had had at least one one night stand in their life. And another 2018 Norwegian study found that women were quite happy with a one night stand, as long as they initiated it and enjoyed the encounter.

There is no doubt that with the advent of dating apps and people more open to different experiences, hookups and casual sex are on the rise. Today, there is a nonjudgmental approach to accepting people as sexual beings, and engaging constructively with them is currently more important than preaching about abstinence.

So whether it’s a gal you meet on Tinder, or a friend’s friend you met at a party, or even just a friend whose benefits you decide to exploit, the opportunities for a casual sex encounter are many, if you are eager and available. But while it may be a fun, liberating experience, it could also go awry if you don’t take a few basic precautions. Follow these few guidelines and you will be good to get some action without feeling sorry after!

But before I go into that, there’s this super effective new program, New Obsession Formula, that promises to help you make any woman hungry for you. Basically, it gives you otherworldly sexual power over any woman you meet, so if you’ve been having problems hooking up, this will completely change your odds at picking up women. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Ditch that additional drink

Getting a little high might elevate your sexual experience, but getting completely drunk and out of control is never a good idea. Not only does it put you at risk of doing something you’ll regret later, it may also ruin the night for both of you. Rest assured, she will never call you again if you vomited on her sheets!

Watch out for red flags

Even if you aren’t well acquainted with the woman that you intend to sleep with, there are certain signs that hint you she’s trouble. For example, if she’s the one asking for unprotected sex, be sure to run a mile before you look back. If a woman asks you for unprotected sex, chances are that she has expressed the same preference to most of her partners in the past. She may be at a high risk of having a sexually transmitted disease, and will expose you to it as well.

Keep emotions at bay

Face it, a one night stand does not guarantee any kind of emotional involvement, even if you do end up harboring feelings for her. A no-strings-attached sexual encounter is literally just that, and it’d be naive and a little unfair to expect otherwise. While there have been instances where one night stands have led to longer, more meaningful commitments, it’s best to keep your expectations low. No matter how nice and attractive the woman may be, avoid building emotional anticipations right after having a one night stand. And you should definitely not stalk or chase her after.

Be prepared for some guilt

One night stands don’t just happen to single, unattached people. People in committed relationships are just as likely to be tempted by the lure, so think twice before taking the step. In these situations, you are not only likely to suffer some amount of guilt, but also likely to face consequences if your transgression is discovered. Aside from that, it is likely to affect the primary relationship in a nasty way.

Know your reasons

Having a one night stand when you are depressed or on the rebound is never a good idea. You are not in a state of mind to judge the casual encounter for what it is, and may also be tempted to use the other person as an emotional crutch. There are many scientific studies that have suggested that casual sex and one night stands are strongly related to poor mental health. In most cases, it is rooted in depression, bipolar disorder, or sexual compulsive disorder. In such cases, one night stands further worsen mental health.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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We all constantly vow to work towards self-improvement or decide to resolve nagging issues in our relationships. But what we often miss out on is setting new physical intimacy goals that can be real relationship boosters. After all, as relationship counsellors frequently point out, sex is the glue that binds a couple together. So, while you aim to keep having sex, no matter how humongous your workload gets or how stressful your everyday responsibilities are, here’s a handy guide to making your sex life all the more satisfying. Of course, one size doesn’t fit all, so be creative when it comes to lovemaking. For, without creativity and consent, there may not be any pleasure!

Games people play

Creative, bold, and adventurous are the key words here. Experts strongly recommend role play and sexual games to spice things up. Here’s an example: write naughty instructions such as, ‘take your shirt off’ for your partner on small pieces of paper. Fill a bowl with these pieces of paper and take turns with your partner to pick one, and follow the instructions written on them! If you want to find more such ideas, help is at your fingertips. There are plenty of sex games apps on the internet. You can download the widely Dirty Games Truth or Dare app, available for free on the Android and iOS platforms. This cheeky app suggests several sex games to challenge your partner.

Have more quickies

Sometimes, quickies are far more enjoyable than marathon sex sessions. Let’s look at it this way—we do enjoy a seven-course meal occasionally, but fast food is what gives us the thrill of guilty pleasures. Quickies are all about such short bursts of intense pleasure.

Oral truths

Let’s face it—some of you guys love performing oral, while others take it as a task to be executed. According to experts, sex need not be completely penetration and orgasm driven. There are several ways to bond with your partner and shed inhibitions, and oral sex can be one of them.

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Take turns initiating sex

Your partner is not a passive receptacle of pleasure, so she shouldn’t be shy to initiate sex and express desire. What’s more, initiating sex will not only make her feel empowered, but also help you feel desired. Challenge your partner to break the stereotype that only men can be initiators of sexual intimacy. The good new? If your partner initiates foreplay or switches over to the on-top position, it can make you feel less pressured to perform. Both you and your partner should understand that sex is not a performance; it’s meant for mutual pleasure. So both be proactive as often as you can.

Watch porn

If you haven’t tried it yet, start watching porn together. Of course, you should be mindful of the kind of porn you watch. Experts say that watching hardcore porn isn’t healthy for a relationship, since it tends to objectify women and set unrealistic standards. Instead, watching soft porn can enhance your relationship. For instance, porn made by women for women in heterosexual relationships focusses on conversations and bonding, and not just on hardcore sex. This kind of porn can help a couple shed inhibitions and also facilitate an exchange of ideas.

Sex toys

The sex toy industry around the world is getting more innovative with each passing day. You can order the toys online these days. But, before doing that, do your research. Instead of going for fancy, heavy-duty gadgets, such as vibrating butt plugs, start with basic ones such as handcuffs, blindfolds, and vibrators. These are guaranteed to add some extra thrill to your romps. A note of caution—avoid pointed, sharp, or glass objects for penetrative pleasure. Also, make sure you cover dildos with condoms before use—this will ensure hygiene.

Sex tapes

This can be kinkier than watching porn together! Of course, you need your partner’s consent to go ahead with this. Create an ambience, have your lady wear that sexy lingerie, play some sensual music, and set the camera rolling. But before you say, “action”, ensure that there is no breach of privacy, even unwittingly, by making sure you turn off the share mode on your device. Further, don’t make a video if you don’t have your partner’s consent or if you are not comfortable with it.

Shower sex

If you haven’t tried it yet, you must include it in your erotic to-do list. Shower sex is a widely admired option. Take a 2014 survey by Durex, covering about 1,000 respondents. Assessing an average American’s fantasy versus reality orgasm experience, the survey showed that about 54 per cent of the respondents said they were satisfied with sex in the shower. Needless to say, water can be a great stimulus. Of course, you need to be open to some trial-and-error episodes, in order to get the position right in the shower. For instance, you can sit down on the floor facing each other. While you lean against the wall, your partner can straddle you.

Sex detox

According to experts, sex detox is a relationship booster. It can deepen longing and desire, and reignite the old spark. In his seminal book Sex Detox, author Ian Kerner explains that the proposition is quite simple—with regard to love, sex, and dating, “we tend to get so ‘into’ or involved” with the person that the only thing that prevents things from getting boring is “to start afresh”. So, go ahead and give this a shot too!

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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You may perform like a god in the bedroom for the most part, but every now and then, even the best can slip up, if preoccupied while having sex. From mundane and common errors to the more serious and intense ones, these sex mistakes are best avoided when you’re in the midst of a passionate session!

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Not communicating enough

Your partner isn’t clairvoyant, and it is unfair to expect her to know every little detail when it comes to pleasuring you in bed. While it is natural to expect your partner to know what it takes to push the right buttons, most men set themselves up for disappointment by not explicitly pointing out if something is bothering them, or expressing what is needed to turn them on. And the same is true for you partner. If she needs you to spend more time on foreplay, she should gently indicate it. If she’s uncomfortable, she should say it.

Being distracted by your phone

I can’t tell you how important this is! While the urge to keep checking smartphones and tablets all day long has driven all sense of what is polite out of most people’s minds, it is worse if you do it when you’re in bed with your partner. Making love is an intimate act, and when you extricate yourself from it to check what’s going on with other aspects of your life and the outside world, you’re taking away from the intimacy. If you have something pressing to tend to, make it a point to attend to it before or after sex. If there is an urgent need to communicate with anyone, don’t take or make any phone calls. Wait until you are done. It is hurtful to ignore someone who’s naked with you in bed, and giving you his 100 per cent, while you chatter away with someone else who’s invading the moment.

Saying the wrong things

Bringing up stuff that kills the romance during sex is an absolute no. You don’t need to talk about body parts that you feel are out of shape, or bring up your parents or dog or boss in the conversation, or generally keep jabbering about things that could be potential turn-offs. Leave these generic conversations for other neutral times, or postpone them at least until the post-sex cuddles. While in the act, keep the communication flirty, romantic, and even get bold enough to talk dirty. Most importantly, do not scream out another woman’s name while you are in the throes of passion!

Getting drunk before

There’s nothing wrong with having sex when you’re a little high. The alcohol in your blood stream can heighten feelings and emotions, and help you loosen up a bit in bed. But turning up completely drunk and out of your senses is unacceptable. Not only is it unattractive, it’s probably unsafe as well, since you’re not in control. Also, you don’t want to throw up, faint, start crying, or pass out when you’re in the middle of the act—all possibilities when you’re drunk.

Foregoing the foreplay

Seduction is what will keep a sexual relationship healthy and happy. Don’t forget the foreplay, and assume that ‘wham, bam, and thank you’ is enough for her. Foreplay is as important as sex, since it heightens the eventual orgasm. Prolonged sensory pleasure can intensify the entire experience for both of you. Try to involve all the senses in foreplay—use your best perfume, play with her racy lingerie, whisper sweet nothings, and so on. All this can stimulate arousal, as opposed to ‘quickie’ sex, which can get stale with the passage of time.

Getting emotional

This strictly depends on your relationship status! If you’re in a loving marriage with two kids, it’s probably okay to say, “I love you,” or bring up emotions that are buried inside. If you’re in a new relationship, which hasn’t yet intensified into a solid bond, it isn’t a good idea to offload on your partner—even otherwise—but especially not between the sheets! It takes away from the romance, and feelings that run deep so early can be perceived as intimidating. While there is no harm in being yourself, or being passionate and intense, it is never a good idea to let a new partner into your deepest insecurities, that too while having sex.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

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