A romp between the sheets with someone you’ve just met is fun, but what if you encounter awkward situations during the act? I tell you how to deal with them.

You would assume that sex is always “perfect”, with no glitches. However, that’s far from the truth. A few situations are not in one’s control, and bedroom faux pas are more common than you think, especially when you’re with someone new. I tell you what could go wrong and how you could turn it into a lighter moment.

And since we’re on the topic of having sex with a new lady, let me help you get there as well. My friend Mike Wright’s Elixir of Eros program is packed full with information and tips and tricks on how to make any woman be drawn to you and beg you to be taken home for a night of passion. Mike will help you with this part, and below you’ll find my tips on how to make that first night memorable and accident-free. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Gassy glitches

Strange noises (not the ones that turn your significant other on) can catch you unaware; imagine letting out a belch while kissing or hearing her stomach growl almost comically in response to the sweet nothings you’re whispering in her ears. Sounds like quite a scenario, doesn’t it?

What to do: It might seem like a buzz kill in that moment, but it shouldn’t be taken seriously. Yes, it’s embarrassing, but it’s not the end of the world. These are all bodily activities, and no one does it on purpose. Laugh about it, cuddle a bit, and you’ll find it’s perfectly okay.

Animal instinct

The million-dollar question that probably plagues pet owners across the world–is it all right to have your dog watch while you have sex? Experts have concluded dogs and cats consider things like sex normal unlike human beings who think of it as a private act. However, the jury’s still out on this. Your partner and you may feel extremely uncomfortable if you are being watched by your pet when you are in the throes of passion.

What to do: First things first, if you feel so strongly about it, make sure your pet is safe and secure, and doesn’t have access to your room— so bolts in place, please! If your pet does happen to wander in, and it bothers you, swiftly carry it out, and keep it a confined space until you are done. On the downside, the endorphins released during sex may send out signals to your dog that you’re upset or angry, so you may want to be a bit watchful about how your pet reacts to it. If it seems disturbed, aggressive, withdrawn or its behavior changes for the worse immediately after watching you and your partner in the act, ensure you don’t repeat it and antagonise them. In this case, prevention is definitely better than cure.

Safety first

Sometimes, in the middle of heated sex, the condom can slip off–and if you’re lucky, it’s accessible and you can pull it out. However, if the penetration has been deep, and you’ve just pulled out with the condom missing, you are stuck in a tricky situation.

What to do: Firstly, you should both stay calm. If your partner works herself up, her vaginal passage may contract, making it more difficult for you to yank out the condom. She should first try to remove it herself by squatting on the floor, inserting a finger and taking it out gently and gradually. She shouldn’t use any pointed tools like tweezers as there is a possibility of her injuring herself. If she’s still unable to get the condom out, you should seek professional help from a gynaecologist.

While the condom itself is not a problem because you can seek professional help to remove it, the real issue is the fact that you’ve both put yourselves at risk of STDs and unplanned pregnancies. So, to stay safe, get your partner and yourself tested to rule out any of these.

Sex-perimenting

It’s common for couples to try new positions to spruce things up in bed. Ever thought what if your attempt backfires?

What to do: No one is a gold-medal gymnast; perhaps it’s time to cut yourself some slack on the flexibility front. Give a new position time and effort to ease into; don’t expect to get it right initially, even straightforward sex takes time. Don’t push your partner or be pushed into doing something that’s beyond your physical capacity. Baby steps are fine. If you’re unwilling to take time and effort because the spontaneity matters more, stick to positions that you know are reliable, and work for you.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. No two first-time sex stories are the same. But if there’s one thing that’s universally true, it’s that first-time sex is awkward, sweet, embarrassing, messy, nerve-wracking, and hilarious all at once. But how do you make sure you get in bed with that saucy stranger? Well, you follow my friend’s Mike Wright’s program – Elixir of Eros. He’ll show you exactly what you have to do to make women approach you and want to take you home. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Better sex is an equation we all want to know the secret to. You’d think the x and y are almost impossible to decipher sometimes, but let me reassure you of one simple truth: they’re not. Read on to discover my secrets to really steamy grown-up sex.

Rethink scheduled sex

Let go of the myth that sex should be spur-of-the-moment – spontaneous sex isn’t necessarily better. Planning it is often associated with boredom, but change the way you think of it from ‘scheduled sex’ to a ‘tryst’. This essentially means ‘planned sexual encounter’, but sounds more exciting. Organize a tryst with your partner for later that day, or even that week, and spend the time before fantasizing about it. It also gets rid of that whole ‘are we? Aren’t we?’ feeling, and ensures sex actually happens.

Use a “secret weapon”

Lube is one of the best secret weapons for female orgasm. It helps your partner feel more sensation from touch, and a dab of lube on her clitoris makes it easier for her to have an orgasm during intercourse, by helping your body glide against hers. You can use organic coconut oil, but keep in mind oil can break down condoms, so this only works for couples using a different form of protection. For more information on using lube on all the right places on her body – check out my program, Her Secret Hot Spots, and you’ll discover her erotic map and how to make sure you check all of her hot boxes.

Address your partner’s non-sexual needs

It’s quite common for women in long-term relationships to have lower sex drives than their male partners. Think carefully about why she’s not as open to sex. Is it because she’s always too tired? Is it because it takes too long? Once you’re able to pinpoint exactly what’s blocking her, it will become easier to reach a happy medium. Open up a discussion about how you feel by reassuring your partner – make clear that your differing level of desire is not a problem that cannot be fixed. Simply say your bodies doesn’t work in the same way, and that you’d like to come up with a plan together to meet both your needs. Often women feel like they need more intimacy that doesn’t lead to sex, more attention, or more help with daily chores – non-sexual needs are equally as important to address, as the more satisfied you are with the relationship as a whole, the more satisfaction you will have in the bedroom.

Practice pillow talk

If you’re nervous talking about sex with your partner, start by recapping after you’ve had sex. Tell them what you enjoyed about what you just did. It’s low-stress, it’s already on both of your minds, and it’s a great way to get more comfortable talking about sex so you can work your way up to talking about more serious topics. I always recommend starting with positive communication; that way it won’t feel like the only time the two of you ever talk about sex is when there’s a problem.

Try the seven-day sex challenge

It might seem overwhelming, but I recommend trying this ‘sexperiment’: have sex for seven nights in a row. It’s true the more sex you have, the more you want it. You don’t have to continue this forever – according to a study by Society for Personality and Social Psychology, carried out on 30,000 adults, the ‘sweet spot’ is once a week. Another study found the perfect amount of time for sexual intercourse is seven to 13 minutes – everyone can set aside that once a week; you just have to make the time.

Stimulate with sound

Sound can be a powerful element of sex. Try blindfolding your partner, then place headphones on them and use classical music to further enhance their state of sensory deprivation: not only are they unable to see where you’re going to touch them next, but they can’t hear either, which can be exciting. Another night, play the same concerto at dinner – perhaps in company – and see how your partner responds; it’s a secret signal of what’s coming later. Then there’s silence to explore: challenging one another not to make a sound during sex can give things a new dimension. A partner recently asked if we could both keep quiet during sex. I expected to feel restricted, but it was a revelation: we made love with our faces close together, maintaining eye contact. It was so tender and connected.”

Get connected

During sex a man’s arousal is often faster and stronger, which makes it harder for him to remain connected with what the woman is feeling. Try sitting opposite each other and breathing for a few minutes. In this tantric exercise the woman leads; the man follows the speed of the woman’s breathing, allowing him to ‘tune in’. Another way to explore this problem of disconnect is for the man to take the 30-day challenge where he does not ejaculate. During penetrative sex, he slows down, focusing on how the woman responds. Your partner will gain a better understanding of what creates greater levels of arousal.

Recreate the holiday mood back home

Think back to the most recent time you had great sex – what led to this? Did you have a lovely meal? Had you been laughing and joking together? We often have our best and most frequent sex when we’re on holiday; we’re free of responsibilities, more relaxed. Replicate these conditions – maybe by taking your children to a sleepover every few weeks so you can go out and relax together. You can’t sustain passion for years and years, but you can create it in new ways.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. Making sure you’re both happy with the sex you’re having is paramount for a healthy sexual relationship. If you don’t know what you need to pay attention to make sure she’s satisfied with the sex you’re having as well, check out my program – Her Secret Hot Spots – and I’ll teach you all you need to know to make sure she orgasms all the time you have sex.

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We all know that man who exudes charisma with the ladies, whether it’s a devotion-inducing hunk, George Clooney, or that charming colleague who has the whole team of ladies eating out of his palm at the office Christmas party. For the Ancient Greeks, charisma meant “the gift of grace”, and we still think of it as an innate and elusive quality that you’re either born with, or you’re not.

However, my friend Jessica Lastimosa believes it is a trainable skill that can – and should – be learnt if you want to succeed with the ladies. Check out her program – Speak to Spark Arousal – and let her teach you how to trigger the Override Effect in a woman, which is the key to making her lose control and aggressively pursue you. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

When we think about a man having sexual charisma, it’s often the type of man who draws women in by making them feel at ease and sparking their sensual curiosity. But it’s also about having a very strong, Alpha Male identity. Charismatic men don’t change to fit in women’s desires, it’s the other way around.

That’s why there’s this myth that you either have this almost innate quality or you just don’t. I have a lot of male friends who complain to me about this and who tell me this is the reason they don’t get lucky with the ladies. “Whatever sexual charisma is, I don’t have it”, a patient of mine told me at some point during a conversation about his bad luck picking up women. I of course told him that’s not the case and showed him what he had to do to change this around. He’s now in a solid relationship with a woman who he once thought was out of his league.

Even if your likeability is not sky high and you wouldn’t say you’re particularly charismatic or magnetic, that doesn’t mean you can’t get the ladies you want to get. Even if talking to a lady you just met makes you feel shaky, not sparkling, and at parties you’re more likely to be cramming in canapes than holding court, you can still win the dating game. Because yes, one-to-one charisma – the magic ‘it factor’ when it comes to women – can indeed be learnt.

First of all, check out your body language when you are with a woman.

If you’re keeping your legs crossed, arms folded in your lap and shoulders slumped, you’re deliberately making yourself small. But this doesn’t mean you have to run to the other extreme – puffin yourself up to feel powerful. Sure, women are hardwired to be attracted to strength, but if a guy is too dominating, they may feel threatened. Charismatic men naturally take up the right amount of space in a room. Think of the handshake that’s no too firm or too floppy. Also, being charismatic doesn’t always mean being the life and soul of the party. It’s a common misconception that charisma is purely the domain of extroverted men.

Second of all, really listen to how you talk about yourself and how you present yourself to a woman.

If you start confidently enough, but after you’re trailing off into nervous laughter and inventing random hobbies, it’s not great. Pay attention to not use too many filter words – starting with ‘so’ and saying ‘umm’ every other sentence. When you want to use ‘umm’, visualize a full stop and take a breath. Silence is very powerful and short sentences are easier to follow. Also, pay attention to your body language while you’re talking. Use softer, expressive hand gestures that bring the woman into your world. And don’t raise your voice at the end of your statements, because it makes them sound like questions – and this sends the message that you’re asking for approval.

Next off, active listening

This is key to making a woman feel at ease and a big part of charisma. A lot of men think they’re good listeners, but they’re often very quick to rush in empathize – ‘That happened to me, too’; or put words in the woman’s mouth – ‘You must be really excited about that’. By allowing for pauses, you get much more meaningful, nuanced answers. Also, never ask yes or no questions like ‘Did you have a good weekend?’. This makes the woman in front of you unsure how much detail to give. Open-ended questions like ‘How was your weekend?’ are much better. Other no-nos? Breaking eye contact too soon (signals nervousness or disinterest), and too much nodding (Seems insincere – nod once and then remain still). Another neat trick? If she mentions feeling positive about something, reinforce that in a question (‘So you felt pleasantly surprised, did you?’) and she will leave the conversation associating that positive emotion with you.

All in all, you have to get out of your ‘reptilian brain’ (which is our fight or flight mode) and into your ‘human brain’ (which is slower, more thoughtful and more rational). Charismatic men tend to be calm and warm, and naturally get women into this mode too.

Hot kisses,

Fidan Paula

P.S. If you want to change how women see you, you can. It’s not some kind of superpower only select few have. Check out my friend Jessica Lastimosa’s program on the key to making women feel aroused around you – Speak to Spark Arousal – and you’ll learn some very important lessons for making women see you as a sexual beast and approach you. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Game is a collection of beliefs, behaviors, strategies, and tactics that make women more attracted to you while increasing your likelihood of experiencing intimacy. It’s often based on cold approaching, an active strategy where you walk up to a woman you don’t know and present yourself in the best way possible so that she decides, at some point, to have sex with you.

The popular misconception about game is that it’s simply a collection of pick-up lines where you walk up to a lady and say something cheesy while wearing an outlandish hat. Not only is it more strategic than that, but game has evolved into a more holistic program of changing your appearance, behavior, and living habits. I remember the days when boldly approaching a woman was enough for her to think you were confident and attractive, but now that women are approached so frequently, how bold is she going to think you are when you’re the third guy to speak to her that day? As time passes, higher levels of game are required to accomplish the same result.

On the surface, it seems crazy that a man has to put in massive amounts of work in order to have sex with the women he wants, but men who don’t use game, who toil in jobs or businesses to accumulate money and fancy cars in order to impress women, are doing the same thing. They’re just relying on “provider” game that used to work before women made their own money or had a wide choice of who to date. Because having a good job or car is no longer a reliable way to secure the affections of a pretty woman, a more direct method in the form of modern game was developed, which has a far higher return on investment than trying to impress a girl with your career or material possessions.

So how do you do it exactly?

Before I tell you my opinion, check out my friend Adam Lyons’ Kinetic Attraction method training system and let him help you polish your attitude and have women come to you, instead of you running after them. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

Polish your internal game

What does it take to succeed at the game? Effort. You need to put in the work by placing yourself in the company of women and speaking to them. But knowledge is also important. The most important factor for game success is something you cannot see or touch. It’s an invisible force embedded in your mind that control you every second of the day. It’s your belief system. Your beliefs determine your behavior and they not only include what you think about women, but also what you think about yourself. It is often the case that the biggest obstacle to success in any area of life is having negative beliefs, often called “self-limiting” beliefs. Without even knowing it, men sabotage their lives by nurturing beliefs that lead them away from their goals. To be good with women, you need to have these essential beliefs:

“I don’t care if I take this woman home, but I do care about taking someone home”
“A woman primarily evaluates my value based on how I treat her”
“Every time I fail, I take on big step towards success”
“It’s fun to meet new women just to see what happens”
“I will invest my time only in women who add value to my life”
“I ultimately choose how a woman treats me”
“If she pushes away, I must pull away”

In order to be successful with women, not only in casual relationships, but also in long-term relationships with women you want to make a family with, you need to internalize this mindset. But this by itself is not enough. You need to act to make these beliefs work for you in real life.

Tune up your pre-game

Many men mistakenly think that game is simply about walking outside, finding the first attractive woman, and saying a handful of lines that will make her panties wet, but your lines are only a small part of what women use when assessing your value. You need to improve yourself to the extent that you can use less fame. If you make the most of your genetic potential in a way that is attractive to women, you may only need a touch of game to get the women you want. The areas that are most worth improving are your physical health, appearance and hygiene.

Up your attraction levels

Until the end of time, men will ask, “What do women want?” Dozens of theories have been thought up and hundreds of books have been written in an attempt to answer this question. The problem with general theories of attraction is that they fail to take into account that each woman has her own individual quirks. Yes, all women have common patterns when it comes to attraction, but when analyzing an individual woman, you may find that she prefers a stocky drug-dealer over the archetypal tall, successful, and handsome businessman who the culture promotes as being more desirable.

There are three types of attraction: pre-minute, post-minute, and reputational. One of the three has to be present for a girl to show some interest in you and allow the seduction to proceed.

Pre-minute attraction is the attraction a girl has for a man she doesn’t know after she has been exposed to him for less than one minute. It’s a result of his appearance, height, clothing, body language, vibe, and tone of voice.

Post-minute attraction is based on what you say, the stories you tell, your sense of humor, background, job, hobbies, experiences, and how well all of these things connect with your body language, vibe, and general demeanor.

Reputational attraction means that your reputation preceded you and she was interested before you knew she existed.

Make sure you’re at least average when it comes to all three and try and excel at at least one of these and you’re on the path to success.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. No matter what your situation, game is not something you can skip out on if you don’t want girls to skip out on you. For more information on polishing up your game, check out my friend Adam Lyons’ Kinetic Attraction program. You’ll find here many tips and tricks on how to use your body language to attract women quickly and efficiently. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.

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Give your monotonous sex life a boost by slipping into another character.

Itching to bring ‘sexy’ back into your sex life? While there are umpteen ways to do so, roleplay lets you act out your kinkiest fantasies, and thus, is a hot favorite. According to a survey, 54 per cent women expressed their interest in roleplay. The act enables you to be ‘someone else’ while having sex, and offers you the freedom of exploring your sexuality completely. Roleplay can enhance fun and playfulness between the sheets. It also breaks the monotony in the bedroom. Roleplaying can give your sex life the necessary boost, and you will look forward to trying various roles with your partner. I bring you a few ways in which you can spice things up.

And now that we’re on the topic of spicing things up, how about adding a squirting orgasm to your lover’s erotic menu? Wouldn’t that be dripping delicious? Check out my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts to learn more about how you can help your lady ejaculate and experience the most powerful type of orgasm there is.

Figure fantasies

Before you dive into the world of role play, figure out exactly what you want and the boundaries you are comfortable with. Ask yourself what your goal is, and how far do you want to take it. Are you okay with only channeling your inner actor or do you want to go the whole nine yards with costumes, props, et al? Discover which ‘character’ you want to play. Certain characters add a whole new dimension to one’s personality. For example, if in reality you are the dominating one in the relationship, during role play your partner could control the act. This could lead to a change in the sexual dynamics between the two of you. If your partner can pull off a dominating role in bed, there is a possibility that she has that streak in reality as well. This gives the two a deeper understanding of each other. In this day and age, most couples deal with ample insecurities. Roleplaying can help drive them out.

Determine limits

Although you’re open to experimenting with different roles, it’s possible that certain situations are a strict no-no. If either partner feels uncomfortable in any scenario, no matter what it is, it means STOP. Have a detailed discussion with each other. It can go a long way in preventing complications. In case, either party is hesitant to discuss, it is advised that both go with the flow, and then decide where to draw the line. Limits can be specified at any moment since thought processes and consent can change during the course of the sexual encounter. When my husband and I first started roleplaying, I was apprehensive because I had heard from a friend how terribly wrong it had gone for her. She’d taken part in a ‘boss-and-secretary’ scenario with her boyfriend, and was stunned when he entered her from behind without consent. Later, he claimed that he got ‘mixed signals’ from her. Thus, I made sure that my husband and I took it slow, discussed what we wanted and what was off-limits, and, I must admit, we had a great time.

No judgment please!

It’s expected that your partner and you may have a few fantasies that are ‘unusual.’ For instance, you could get turned on by gender-bender roles or want to have wild sex dressed as your favorite cartoon characters; workplace subterfuge where you go down on each other at faux workplace situations, could also be part of your list. If you have good understanding with your partner, there is no reason why you should not give in to your kinks. Judgment has no role in the bedroom, so never shame your partner for his fantasies. I’ve always fantasized about having sex with a stranger. You know, getting down and dirty with a cute pizza delivery guy, who I surprise at the door in sexy lingerie. When I told my husband about what I had in mind, he readily agreed. It was one of the steamiest sessions ever!

Set the scene

Now that all of the above is in place, it is time to enact that fantasy. I always wondered how it would be to meet a stranger in a club and end up having wild sex with him. My husband suggested that we should play out the fantasy. We met at a local bar the next day, and ended up spending a passion-filled night later. If you have a specific idea, you could plan a date in advance, and get the costumes and props ready. After all, setting the mood is important, and you need to make sure that the role play is realistic. If you’re not able to get into character at home, head out and book a hotel room or another house for a night. Push the boundaries.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Before engaging in roleplay, you and your partner should both feel your relationship is loving, trusting, and safe. This will help the quality of your erotic exercise. The more you enjoy it now, the more you are both likely to engage in it in the future. And the same applies if you want to try giving your lady squirting orgasms. Check out my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts to learn how to best approach this and enjoy it with your lady.

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Penetration is often rife with forceful and passionate thrusting that seems to come from a very primal place. This penetrative thrusting can overcome you and seem to have its own sense of purpose and mission that you may or may not agree with. It can take some time to learn how to handle or how to direct this force. But for the sake of more exquisite and refined pleasures, it is a force worth reckoning with.

Learning how to make penetration as delightful as possible requires some practice, exploration, and finesse. You may have already explored a wide range of movements for penetration and discovered some very gratifying moves for you and your lover. But, just in case you haven’t yet caught on to these moves or have forgotten about them, here are a few tried and true methods.

Before we dive into the hot stuff, check out my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts because it contains essential tips and tricks on how to penetrate your woman so deeply and efficiently that she orgasms in a pool of juice.

Take It Slow

Any penetration should always start out slow, unless your lover indicates that she wants something else. In order for the tissues of the vulva and vagina to relax and become aroused and engorged, they need to feel safe. Slow, careful movements will support a sense of safety for her. You can gradually build up the intensity of penetration, including the speed, depth, and force, always checking in with her to make sure it’s working.

Use Lube When Necessary

Penetration often requires added lubrication. If a woman is ovulating or produces a lot of vaginal lubrication, you may not need to add any lube for vaginal intercourse, or even for vaginal penetration with an object. But for any anal play, count on needing a lot of lube. The penis or object that is penetrating the anus or vagina should feel as though it can glide inward and outward, effortlessly and smoothly, without causing any discomfort or pain.

Just the Tip

Penetrating with or engulfing just the tip of the penis (or object) is a wonderful sensation for both of you. This is a great way to start penetration, or to occasionally revisit during a lovemaking encounter. Using just the tip is a way to tease and build arousal, as well as increase lubrication before further penetration or engulfment. You can explore this with slow or quick movements, and everything in between. Try different angles and positions to find out how this feels best to both of you.

Taking Your Time

Gradually working your way to full penetration is a much more skillful and exciting way to approach penetration. This can help increase the sexual tension, get your energies and emotions more in touch with each other, and create a circumstance in which you can delight in the subtleties of sensation. Going slow also creates a sense of safety, which helps immensely with arousal and lubrication for women, providing a much more luscious experience for you both. If you have the urge to hurry things up, try taking some deep breaths, breathing in the pleasurable sensations you are experiencing in that moment.

Long, Slow, and Deep

Long, slow, and deep penetration is a great way to slow time, increase the size of your penis and increase arousal. After having gradually worked your way to full penetration, take some time just enjoying the lusciousness of the entire penis moving in and out of the vagina. Going slow can also create more space to fully recognize your feelings and enjoy your intimate connection with your lover.

All You’ve Got

When your passion peaks, giving all you’ve got and moving fast and forcefully can be just the thing to send you both over the edge, emotionally and physiologically. Wait until you absolutely can’t hold back anymore and make sure that your lover is on the same page. You want to let the passion inside of you and between you and your lover build naturally, rather than forcing your movements.

Essential tip

When your lover is ready to come, she may or may not want the penetration to continue. She may want it to stop so that she can focus on relaxing into the sensations and ride the pulsations and waves without the distraction of thrusting. Or she may want you to keep up the rhythm and groove until she has finished coming.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Stimulating the right spots during penetration can greatly intensify the orgasmic experience. Check my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts and I’ll teach you what spots to aim for during penetration, particularly if you want to send your lover over the edge and help her squirt.

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Watch out for these tell-tale signs on your first date to save yourself from the hassle of getting rejected. 

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could predict within the few first dates if our blooming relationship is going to be for keeps? While the equation between partners is dynamic and changes over time, experts say that women usually figure out during the first few meetings whether there is a future or not. Women, especially those looking for romance, think more with their heads than their hearts. They make a list of what they expect from their dates. Only when they have a blueprint, will they know what to look for. 

Regardless of whether you possess the must-have qualities women look for, making sure you don’t trigger these red flags will help you stay away from unsavoury goodbyes and save you from the heartbreak of rejection.

And since we’re on the topic of rejection and dating red flags, check out my friend Brett’s Silent Seduction video. You’ll find out what you’re doing wrong when trying to meet and attract women and how you can change your luck once and for all. 

You’re disrespectful

If you disrespect her on the first date, there’s little chance that she’s going to believe you are going to treat her well when you are together. A woman can look past things like splitting the bill, age gap, political differences, or a lack of shared interests. However, if a man doesn’t stick to his word, has questionable morals and situational ethics, then she will steer clear of a second date. Actions like disregarding her opinions, belittling her achievements, talking over her, being rude to the staff at the restaurant, says a lot about your character. If you don’t give her your full attention on the first date, then she’ll think priorities are elsewhere. If you spend most of the time talking about yourself than trying to get to know her, then she’ll think you are a narcissist. Also, pay attention to how you handle yourself when something goes wrong. If you’re eager to blame someone else, then there’s a good chance she’ll think she will end up being the scapegoat in the relationship.

You have anger issues

If she suspects from your behaviour that you have anger management issues, she’ll think it wise to not pursue it at all. If she gets the sense that you tend to be violent and abusive, she’ll worry that it won’t be long before it is directed at her. Do you grit your teeth while talking to people when angry? Do you have road rage? Do you swear a lot when upset? Are you usually looking to pick a fight? Watch out for these signs as they may hint to her at a possibility of future violence. Passive aggressive threats are warning signs as well.

You don’t care for her consent

Dealing with a guy’s unwelcome advances can be a struggle but what is more worrying for a woman is the complete disregard for her consent. When a patient of mine met this guy on a popular dating app, they hit it off rather well. “He was an attractive guy and I was excited to meet him. However, after a few drinks, however, he suddenly started coming on too strong. First, I was put off when he tried to forcibly kiss me on the dance floor, but the final straw came when he tried to grope me between my legs. I managed to push him away and went home.” Nowadays, it’s not uncommon to find couples having sex on the first date, and it’s okay when it is consensual. If you coerce her to cave in to having sex against her wishes, she will walk away immediately.

You display toxic masculinity

It is a fact that a sizeable number of men suffer from a deep-seated patriarchal mindset that rears its head at the slightest provocation. If you mansplain or try to have the last word in a conversation, while constantly interrupting her chain of thought, she’ll worry that you have a sense of entitlement and male privilege. If you order drinks or dinner without asking her preferences, she’ll think you’re assuming you know what’s good for her. In some cases, it can be over-enthusiasm, but most of the times, women see it as plain garden-variety sexism. Also, if you use derogatory language for an ex, it reflects your feelings about women in general, and that’s a definite red flag.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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There are several things you need to take into consideration when asking a girl out. This article will guide you through the planning. 

You are likely to come across some tough situations throughout your life-time. However, perhaps one of the toughest will be getting it right when you ask a girl out on a date. You are hoping she will say yes straight away. However, you may not always be that lucky and she may say no, or make excuses as to why she cannot go out with you. 

Here are some tips on how you can get the girl to say yes to your request for a date. 

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Reason for Failure 

If you are a stranger to the girl you are asking out, the chances are she is more likely to say no. You could be ‘Jack the Ripper’ for all she knows. Her response will likely be an act of self-preservation that has little to do with you. She will be applying what she has been taught since early childhood: ‘not to talk, or go with strangers’. You should not allow a rejection to dent your self-confidence. You need to take things slowly and spend some time as acquaintances, getting to know each other. Once she gets to know and starts to feel comfortable with you, she is much more likely to say yes. 

Plan to Do Something Exciting 

Choose some fun activities you can do with a group of friends. That gives you the opportunity to invite the girl to join your group as a friend. You then have a non-threatening opportunity to relax and interact so you can get to know each other better. 

If you succeed in getting the girl to hang out with you and some friends, you will find it much easier to ask her on a date. She is more likely to say yes, because she has seen that you can be a fun guy. 

Be spontaneous, and don’t be afraid to show you have a caring side. Show her you are intelligent and can talk about topics other than what’s going on in sports. Talk about subjects or hobbies that really interest you, and take time to find out what she likes and dislikes. It is all about natural and free flowing communication and getting to know about each other. 

Plan the Logistics of Your Date in Advance 

Plan ahead and know what you intend to do on the date. Then when you ask her if she is free that evening, you can tell her what you have planned and ask if that is OK with her. If she has already said she is free that night, she is unlikely to say no. If she sees you are willing to compromise about what you want to do during the date, it will help to win you brownie points. 

However, if after saying she is free, she then starts to make excuses why she cannot go on the date with you, you should accept it as a sign she is not attracted to you. Alternatively, if she says she already has plans for the evening you want to take her out, you can try some charm and gentle persuasion. If she knows you are a fun person to be with, and she is attracted to you, you may get her to change her plans. Or you can ask her what night would be OK with her. 

You Have to do the Asking

Don’t labor under the misapprehension that a girl will ask you out on a date. Contrary to popular belief, there are only a very small number of girls who will ask you out. If you don’t want to miss out, then be prepared to be the one that asks for a date. 

Choosing the Right Moment 

Making sure you choose the right moment to ask a girl on a date is important. If you rush in and ask her before she has had the chance to get to know you, she will say no. It may take several meetings as friends before you find the right moment. You need to be patient, use your instincts and learn to read the signs she is giving you, and you should know instinctively when she is ready to progress to dating. 

There are several signs that may indicate that the girl is ready to go out on a date with you. In addition to the way she looks at you and her body language, you may notice a more intimate tone in her conversation with you. 

She will show an interest in you, even when you talk about something boring or are saying very little. You need to rely on your instinct and natural ability to know when the time is right to ask her for a date. 

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Most guys see asking a girl out as a task. And some have no idea how to do it. If you approach it with minimal effort, you’ll look as though you’re not interested enough, and at the same time you don’t want to go over the top and seem desperate. My friend Brett has the solution for you. Check out his program, Silent Seduction, to learn how to attract women without fearing they’ll reject you.

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If you are looking for shortcuts to impress a girl, you are wasting your time. She may be attracted to you, but she it unlikely to fall at your feet without some effort on your part. However, first impressions do count, and if you make a poor first impression, you will have to work all the harder to change it. 

Making a good first impression is incredibly important because you only get one shot at it. I know this sounds harsh, but as humans – and particularly women – we are conditioned to judge people within the first second of meeting them—and our opinion often doesn’t change. This is called thin-slicing. 

Thin-slicing is when she takes a mental snapshot of you and guesses your confidence and likability in less than a second. Researchers think this is a survival mechanism that women particularly have developed to decide very quickly if someone is friend or foe. Do you want to make an impression that women won’t be soon to forget?

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Be Aware of Your Body Language 

Be self-aware and know what your body language is saying about you. It is possible for a girl to tell a lot about you from your body language, before you approach or speak to her. Watching other people and thinking about what their body language is saying to you can help you to become more aware of how you come across yourself. 

Keep Some Secrets of Your Personality and Reveal Slowly 

Getting to know each other takes time and we all tend to be on our best behavior until we know the person better. That is OK, unless you are hiding a deep dark secret side to your personality. It is easy to make the excuse that you didn’t want to frighten her off on the first date, but she may feel more aggrieved if she finds out you have not been truthful with her from the start. 

Take Control of Your Date 

You have asked the girl out so you can expect to have some control over what you do and where you go. The girl may well be happy to sit back and let you take charge, but you take that for granted at your peril. You need to remember that you are both equal and you both have a right to your own opinions. On the first date especially, you are getting to know each other, so there should not really be any reason for debates, heated or otherwise. Steer the conversation to keep it away from what could be a controversial subject until you know a bit more about each other. 

Be Funny and Have Fun 

If you have taken time to get to know each other as friends before going on a date, you will probably find it is a lot easier to be natural in each other’s company and you can relax and just have fun. If it is a blind date, or you haven’t had the chance to get to know each other, you will likely be more uptight. It is not the best time to try out a new restaurant or venue you haven’t been to before. The more familiar you both are with the surroundings, the easier it will be to concentrate on each other and relax. 

Wrapping up 

Making a great first impression requires some sensitivity and skill that will come with practice. You are like to have some good, and some bad experiences. You need to learn from the good ones, and put the bad ones behind you so you can move on. You should never let a bad experience dent your confidence because that is the key to getting back on the saddle for your next date. 

Hot embraces, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Because you will have to say something to this blessed girl that caught your eye, right? In short, the conversation phases that you should follow and ace are the following. 

Before you head right in, I must divert your attention for a second to my friend Brett’s Silent Seduction program. Because not only words help you get the girls. Sometimes what you don’t say weighs just as much!

COMFORT

Comfort aims to put the girl at ease. Remember that women are almost never approached in a direct way, so you have to make sure that she is ready for the “emotional blow” she has just received. Imagine it as a light conversation with friends. So, once you have exchanged your names, start a normal and friendly conversation and get it into your head that: YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW HER; YOU DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER! If you start with the idea of “I absolutely have to sleep with her,” she will leave because you have basically focused on yourself and not on the girl.

Before seducing a body, you should seduce a brain!

To get to know her, she must talk! Plus, the less you say about yourself, the more you will create mystery that is synonymous with attraction.

How do you proceed then? After opening, try to go immediately to the personal, try to understand what she does, where she lives, her work/education, etc. But please … DO NOT INTERVIEW HER! 90% of the men who try to approach a girl do it by way of an interview by asking a flurry of endless questions.

“What are you doing?”, “Where are you from?”, “Do you like XY?” These are all trivial questions that a woman hears every day. You may be wondering, “If I don’t ask questions, how will I get to know her? “Simple: assumptions. 

Try to turn every question that passes through your head into a positive phrase, in this way you’ll be much less predictable and you’ll push it to open up and talk. For example: thinking about the question “Where are you from?” You can replace it with “From your accent, I guess you’re not from here …”

ATTRACTION

Attraction is synonymous with emotion. Be aware that by emotion, I mean positive and negative emotions (negative emotions in seduction are FUNDAMENTAL to balance the positive ones).

So, what gives emotion to a woman?

Small ironic criticisms: The small criticisms are GOLD in seduction. They sub-communicate to the girl that you are not treating her like a goddess descending from the sky, that you are not needy and that you have a sense of irony.

Value : Anecdotes full of descriptions and emotional entrainment, gestures and wisdom (maturity) are elements of strong attraction for a woman.

Kino : Kino is all about physical contact. In a first conversation with a girl you just met, you can raise her level of attraction by gradually progressing from lighter touches to touch a little ‘more pushed up even to get to the kiss. Based on the positive, negative or neutral reaction of the girl to your kino stimuli, you can also understand the direction in which the conversation is going.

RAPPORT

Rapport must be the goal of the conversation. Rapport is that phase of the conversation where you two are naked, and you feel that you can tell her anything. The Rapport is also called deep connection. How do you reach a deep connection with a woman?

You reach the Rapport with a woman by doing what I call scaring the soul. In other words, from the first initial soft conversation, you gradually pass to more and more profound subjects, investigating her identity and entering her sphere of trust.

HOBBIES, PASSIONS, AMBIANCES, CHARACTER, QUALITY, PRAYERS AND DEFECTS are just a few examples of the elements that make up the identity of a person in general and of a specific girl.

Bet on investigating these characters and kaboooom! You will have hit the target; you will have a deep connection between your two souls, and you will have created EMPATHY!

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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