Here’s a story for you: Many moons ago, guy friend of mine got his first girlfriend. Even though he was just law student, barely getting by, he proceeded to spend a lot of money on the girl in just one short, whirlwind of a month, blowing through expensive wines at restaurants and other unnecessary gifts.

Though he did get to sleep with her several times in that short time span, she left him for another guy. My friend was heartbroken for months afterward, not to mention that he had to get a part-time job to replenish his bank account.

Sound familiar? Are you frustrated when you don’t get a girl to like you, after all the money you’ve spent? Well, here’s the thing: you’re operating on a false assumption. Money spent doesn’t necessarily equal adoration or sex.

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The problem with lavishing money on a woman who hasn’t earned it is what it communicates. And what it communicates to her, loud and clear, is that her value is higher than yours, so you need to earn her approval by purchasing it.

It’s like you’re saying, “OK, I know my value is less than yours, so how’s about I throw in a dozen roses, an expensive dinner, and some really nice diamond earrings?” Get the picture? The reality, however, is that if you know that your value is high, then you don’t need to buy her approval.

I know that saying “don’t buy things for girls” goes against what men logically think. After all, you’re all brought up to believe that if there’s something of value that you want, you need to be willing to shell out what it takes to buy it, right?

Well, in the case of inanimate objects that don’t think for themselves, that’s true. But in the case of women, it’s not true. 

Consider the average super-hot woman.

Most men regard her as highly valuable and thus they grovel before her and worship the ground she walks on. Yet what kind of man does a woman like this typically go for? Usually one with high social status, who sees no need to buy her things in order to win her affections. Oh, sure, he does it later, after he has her, so that she has nice things to show off…but not while he’s getting her.

I want you to start getting a mental picture of yourself as a man of high value. Now, as a man of high value, when you do buy the woman things, never make a big deal out of it. Say something like, “I’ll pay for the coffee. It’s no big deal.” What that says to her is that you’re more interested in the social interaction that the two of you are having and that you’re barely thinking about the drink you just bought her.

It also means that there are no strings attached.

By saying “it’s no big deal,” you make it clear that you’re not putting pressure on her to reciprocate what you’ve done for her. “Buying me things because he wants something later” is a behavior that many women consider manipulative and results in the man being denied sex. And to be quite honest, many men fall right into that trap by making a big production out of buying the woman nice things. Don’t be that guy.

Unfortunately, the average woman has gone out with so many men who bought her things to try to get into her pants that when you start buying her nice stuff, it triggers an automatic negative reaction within her. “Eeew, he’s trying to buy sex,“ she thinks, and then she turns off on you.

Fine, but then what do you do when the check comes?

Well, first off, you shouldn’t take a woman out for a big, fancy date. Your first date should be something informal and inexpensive such as coffee. That way when the check arrives, it’s really no big deal. A basic rule of thumb is to ask yourself whether you’d pay if you’d invited out a casual male friend instead of that chick sitting across from you. If the answer is yes, then by all means do it.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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What do you think is the one thing that makes a man most attractive to women? It’s the impression that you’re a dominant man. And no, you don’t have to grunt, scratch, and boss a women around like a cave man to convey dominance… nor should you! You convey your dominant male status simply by acting the way dominant men do, by consciously controlling the nonverbal cues you send out, thereby creating the impression within a woman that you are alpha.

Here are the nonverbal signs you should stop putting out if you want to easily seduce any woman. And if you want to know more about the right way to attract women, check out my friend Brett’s Silent Seduction program. 

1) Using “ah” and “um,” partial sentences, and partial words. Studies have shown that people consider others who talk like this to lack confidence and not be too bright. It’s a sign of nervousness. The reason we say “um” is because we’re afraid we’re going to be interrupted by the other person. Instead, don’t be afraid to pause for effect. Pausing before important points will make you seem more competent and people will remember what you say.

2) Speaking too fast. This gives off the impression that you feel anxious and have low self-confidence. A normal, comfortable speaking rate varies within a moderate range from 125 to 150 words per minute. Slow down!

3) Speaking with a monotone voice, also known as mumbling. People with a narrow pitch range are viewed as unassertive, uninteresting, and lacking in confidence. So vary your pitch and you will be perceived as outgoing.

4) Pausing too long before responding to a question. This indicates that you’re thinking too hard for your answer, which makes you seem indecisive. It also looks like you’re trying too hard to win the other person’s approval.

5) Pulled-in, closed postures. An alpha male spreads his arms and legs out and is open. When standing, you can force open your body language by hooking your thumbs in your back pockets.

6) Holding your hands in front of you. This is a defensive gesture. Instead hold yourself open and vulnerable. Let your arms relax and be open. Nobody’s going to punch you, so why do you need to block yourself?

7) Twitching your fingers or hands. When you’re across the table from someone there’s a natural inclination to play with sugar packets or straw wrappers with your fingers. Don’t. And don’t drum your fingers on the table—women hate that.

8) Touching your face when you talk. This indicates that you’re thinking too hard, you’re indecisive, or that you feel shy. To convey confidence, hold your hands together in a steeple shape in front of your chest or face. Another posture that will help you when you need a huge display of confidence is holding your hands at your hips. 

9) Rigid or hunched posture. An alpha male has a relaxed posture, whether he’s standing or sitting. Loosen up and spread out.

10) Looking down. Hold your head high. It shows zest. Keep your chin up. Expose your neck. Look at the person you’re talking to.

11) Nervous facial gestures such as lip licking, pursing your lips, twitching your nose, and biting your lips.

12) Walking fast as part of your normal walk. Instead, walk a little slower than normal, almost as if you’re swaggering. If you’re not in a hurry to get somewhere, walk like you’re relaxed and confident. Think: “I am the man. I can make any woman happy.”

13) Walking only with your legs. Don’t be afraid to move your torso and arms. Try this: walk as if you’d just had a massive success and felt on top of the world. Watch what you do with your body. You may find yourself moving your arms along with your shoulders and having a slight bounce in your step. Now, do that all the time.

14) Slouching. You don’t have to stand uncomfortably ramrod straight, but you should have your shoulders back. 

15) Shifting your eyes back and forth when you speak. When you’re in a conversation and you’re doing the talking, gaze at the other person’s face. Nonverbally, this communicates that that you say is important and worth listening to.

16) Holding too much eye contact when the other person speaks. Ignore the dating advice books that tell you to hold non-stop eye contact. Non-stop eye contact makes you look needy, and, frankly, like a weirdo. Instead let your eyes blur and then gaze at her eyes. Look through her rather than at her. Only hold the gaze when she’s telling you something genuinely interesting. Otherwise, focus on other stuff like her breasts, her hair, things going on around you, etc.

17) Looking down before answering a woman’s question. If you do need to look away before answering in order to think, then look up and to the side. Studies have shown that this displays more confidence.

18) Being afraid to touch a woman, and thus being non-touching. Be confident about it when you touch women— any nervousness at all can be fatal for your relations with her. Hold her hand to lead her around, etc. Be gentle—if you use excessive pressure, you reveal your insecurity. It’s natural to touch others, as when you’re emphasizing a point. So let the love flow!

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Here’s something you may not know about us humans: we’re wired to attach more weight to negative information about someone than we do to positive info. That’s why you can be having a great conversation with someone, and then all of a sudden you change your mind about them when they say or do something that you don’t like. It doesn’t matter that for the past half hour the person was being smart and witty… now you mentally stamp their file with big bold red letters that say “NO” based on that thing.

So, since one wrong move can shoot down 100 good ones, it’s crucial to avoid negative behaviors that are characteristic of low status males, if you don’t want women to treat you like crap and lead you on. 

And because I want to help you to ace your date, I’m also going to advise you to check out my friend Brett’s Silent Seduction program. You’ll learn a bunch of interesting things, among them the “pleasure password” that unleashes a woman’s inner erotic attraction. 

But now back to our topic of the day. The characteristics to avoid, especially on a first date, are:

Seeking approval by ending sentences with, “isn’t it” or “right”? 

These questions tacked onto the end of sentences make you sound weak willed, particularly if your vocal pitch rises. Right? And you wouldn’t want a possible lover to perceive you as weak, wouldn’t you?

Trying to dominate. 

Instead, just do it like it’s the most natural thing in the world for you. When you have a strong psychological reality and mindset, you don’t need to try to dominate, you simply do because that’s your nature. Assume women are there to follow you and like you and be attracted to you, because you are an amazing guy. Know, as an article of faith, that you can ask women politely to do what you want them to do, rather than bossing them around.

Being belligerent, either with her or with other men.

The alpha male is able to stay calm under pressure and walk away when he needs to. Starting a fight is a sign that you’re a man with low status. It also goes without saying that fighting in order to gain the affections of a woman is the ultimate form of approval seeking, which lowers your attractiveness. With that said, however, if some guy violates your boundaries and starts something with you (like let’s say you get bullied), there are occasions when you must stand up for yourself.

Following her agenda and talking about what she wants to discuss, even if you find it boring. 

The alpha male only talks about what he wants to. Watch any alpha male in action (e.g., CEOs and politicians) and you will observe this phenomenon. When an alpha male is bored, he doesn’t hide his disinterest. So don’t give a woman your attention until she’s earned it, no matter how beautiful or attractive she is.

Trying to one-up her and prove that you’re smarter than she is. 

Don’t give a woman that ammunition. You’ll be throwing away an important opportunity for pride’s sake. Women routinely drop from their graces those who aren’t smart enough, but also those who are set out to prove they’re smarter than everyone else. If you’re smart, good for you. But be clever. You can make a woman feel good about herself by not pointing out the things where you outsmart her. She’ll respect that. 

Checking out every pretty girl you see

A man who’s getting laid left and right doesn’t have time for this, so you shouldn’t, either. As you stop being impressed by the hot bodies around you, watch the difference in reactions that you get from women. Watch how they start checking you out and wanting to prove themselves to you.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Have you ever wondered what sexual archetype you identify with, and what it says about your preferences when it comes to getting down and dirty? This is important to know, because thus you will finally discover if you and your partner are compatible. Because the truth is many couples out there are sexually dysfunctional – in a lot of cases, someone has to sacrifice their pleasure for the sake of their partner’s. 

But how important is a sexual personality to one’s overall satisfaction between the sheets? Very, if studies are to be believed. Personality traits are important determinants of our sexuality and sexual health. They help establish an ideal lifetime sexual partner, an individual’s involvement in casual sex, infidelity, sexual orientation, homophobic attitudes, symptoms of sexual dysfunction, sexual risk-taking, sexual harassment, and sexually-aggressive behaviour. 

In fact, studies have identified various sexual preference archetypes—the dominant, the submissive, the repressed, the entitled, and the martyr. I believe that every person shares a bit of all of these sexual preference archetypes but has one that they identify with. But the problem is many men and women don’t know what they want. Reading erotica and speaking with intimate health advisors are ways to discover the sexual options, and if they identify with them. 

And if you want to better understand yourself in bed and thus enrich and improve your performance, check out my program, Bigger and Deeper, which tackles issues that are of interest to any man who wants to be satisfied with his performance. 

If you’re wondering which archetype defines you, our quiz might just help you identify your preferences and find your fit:

WHAT IS YOUR SEXUAL PERSONALITY? 

Q When it comes to quality time with your partner, do you find yourself… 

Always initiating sex and taking control 
Agreeing with your partner, and doing what you’re told 
Finding ways to trick your partner into sex, even if they’re not in the mood 
Feel like you’re constantly neglected or being taken advantage of 

Q While in the act, do you ensure that… 

You make suggestions, and expect your partner to obey 
You obey your partner, even if you’re uncomfortable 
Your sexual needs are met no matter what 
You ask for what you want but let it go when you’re ignored 

Q When it comes to experimenting… 

You believe sex is fun, the kinkier the better 
You prefer to be bossed around 
You just do what you want because you can 
You’re detached because your opinions don’t matter 

Q Sex for you is… 

Being in control of your own pleasure 
Letting your partner control your orgasm 
Taking what you want, when you want it 
Unenjoyable and boring 

Q An aphrodisiac for you is… 

A little bondage and watching your partner plead for a release 
Relinquishing control, and not knowing what to expect in bed 
Constant reassurance that you’re the best they’ve ever had 
Finally being able to orgasm

Q When it comes to gratification, you are… 

Confident that you can meet your partner’s needs and be satisfied in return 
Excited by the prospect of complete obedience 
Positive that you’ll climax since you take what you want 
Faking to please your partner, and end up finishing yourself off 

Q Would you rather… 

Take your time and savour every moment with your partner 
Let go and give in to the pleasure you’re experiencing 
Get it over with as soon as you climax 
Sleep with multiple partners in the hope of gratification

HERE ARE YOUR RESULTS 

Mostly As: You identify with the dominant sexual archetype. 

People who prefer the dominant role tend to call the shots during sexual interactions. They won’t only initiate sex, but will also lead the act. A dominant will suggest different positions, guide their partner through the kissing and touching, and be more assertive about what steps they will take to move through the sexual act. However, a person who is dominant in the bedroom may not necessarily be so in life. 

Ideal positions: Doggy style, lowered doggy style, and the V. 

Mostly Bs: You display a preference for the submissive sexual archetype. 

Submissive personalities have a ‘go-with-the-flow’ approach to sex, and are open to their partner’s suggestions. The like being told what to do. However, I believe that people with submissive sexual personalities are truly the dominant ones. People who enjoy a submissive position in sexual encounters are decisive, strong, and sure about who they are, and what they like. They choose to submit, which makes them the ones with the true power in a sexual relationship.

Ideal positions: A submissive archetype works well with the dominant one, and will prefer the same positions. 

Mostly Cs: If you’ve answered mostly C, you belong to the entitled sexual archetype, and are narcissistic in bed. 

Moreover, you tend to manipulate and exploit your partner’s affections, and focus on feeding your sexual appetites. People with this sexual archetype are solely concerned with feeding their own needs because their appetite overshadows any other concern, and have no empathy or interest in a partner’s sexual satisfaction, or sexual experiences—unless if meeting their partner’s needs will benefit their own desires. 

Ideal positions: Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and doggy style. 

Mostly Ds: If your response to most questions is D, you are a martyr. 

While you certainly can have satisfactory sex, you tend to hold out for ‘the one’. This doesn’t mean your sexual desires have diminished. It simply means you always find yourself with the wrong partner. Such people tend to meet the same kind of lover, in the hope of meeting the perfect mate one day. They go from partner to partner, feeling increasingly helpless, hopeless, and unsatisfied.

Ideal positions: Missionary, giver of oral sex, and cowgirl.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Become the Al Pacino of your bedroom in seven easy steps! 

Sure, Christian Gray literally spent a fortune to bring his fave sexual fantasies to life … but he was always a little extra. If you’re nervous to play pretend for hotter sex (or your acting skills are more ‘I was in my grade five play, I think?’ than ‘My Oscars speech is ready to go’), I’m on it. Here’s how to get it right on your first take. 

But before I go into it, let me first really quickly point you to my Squirting Orgasm Shortcuts program, which will definitely prove to be the best way to add some novelty to your erotic endeavours. Try the techniques with your partner and watch her ejaculate freely, like never before. 

PLAY WHAT YOU KNOW 

Actual actors do full character studies, but you can just think of roles you’re already familiar with, from real life (masseuse + client) or pop culture (superhero + whoever’s lucky enough to hook up with superhero). Starting with a known scenario cuts down on prep so you can get right down to business.

SET THE SCENE 

I recommend starting at home, where you’re more likely to feel comfortable. If you can’t get in the headspace of a lusty lit professor boning his top student next to the pile of half-clean clothes on the chair in your bedroom, maybe lead your eager-to-please pupil to new territory, like the living room – as long as, you know, you’re alone in the house. This show doesn’t need an audience.

GET IN COSTUME (OR DON’T!) 

No costume designer or stylist on your ‘set’? Keeping it simple, with a couple of props, can be just as sultry. I suggest improvising with stuff you have at home and imagining the rest. Put a regular old tie on your otherwise shirtless ‘accountant’ (the naked-er, the better, right?), and voilà. 

LOCK DOWN THE PLOT 

No need to write a screenplay, but agreeing on a few basic cues can help with nerves. If you’re a client meeting your sexy personal trainer, maybe you agree (over a series of NSFW texts throughout the day) that she’ll punish you for every squat set you can’t complete. By the time you get to your sweat sesh, you’ll already be warmed up.

LEARN (A FEW) LINES 

Similarly, having a couple of go-to phrases at the ready can help keep things moving along if you’re stumped. Before you get busy, try to think of what you’d say in the actual situation. Then add a kinky kicker: ‘I bet it’s been so hot without the AC… Thank goodness I’m here to fix it! If you get too warm while I work, feel free to strip down…’

LAUGH OFF THE BLOOPERS 

This is so not the time to act all serious or particular. Role-playing is about having fun in the bedroom and reconnecting with your partner. So if somebody says something that’s totally out of character, you can just giggle about it and then jump back into the scene with each other. Aka prepare to crack up. A lot. 

JUST DON’T GO ALL ‘ROTTEN TOMATOES’ ON YOUR PARTNER 

After your grand finales, you can share positive performance notes, like ‘That changed my life!’ But keep negative critiques to yourself, since feelings can get hurt easily when it comes to ~art~. If you’re up for doing the scene again, talk through anything that tripped you up. Or suggest a new fantasy, since you two are obviously now award-worthy at boning.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Sometimes, just sometimes, sex is a bad idea. Stick around because in this article I’m going to list these rare occasions.

Sex is one of the most natural, primal and amazing things in the world. Sometimes, however, what feels so good might be harmful to either you or your partner’s mind and body. In such cases, where you feel like it poses a threat to either you or your partner, abstinence is a good idea. I’ve rounded up five instances that are further complicated by sex.

For those other times, when sex is the best idea in the world, check out my program – G-Spot Orgasms Made Easy – to learn how to give your partner full-body, ecstatic orgasms. You’ll discover tips to get her G-Spot juices flowing which in turn will lead to one of the most powerful orgasms any woman has ever felt and experienced. 

When one of you has an infection 

If you suspect that you may have contracted a sexually transmitted disease (STD), go straight to your doctor and get tested. Even mere suspicion of STDs such as HIV/AIDS, hepatitis or syphilis prompts doctors to advise ‘no sex’ till the suspicion is ruled out through tests. It’s better to be safe than sorry, no?

When your partner has pain down there 

Pain during intercourse may be due to lack of lubrication, untreated genital infections, or rough penetration. It’s ill-advised to tolerate discomfort during sex. Pain is like an alarm, which should urge you to investigate the cause of the problem. Painful intercourse may lead to physical and psychological problems, and cause complications in your relationship.

When there’s no protection 

If your partner isn’t comfortable having sex without a condom, she has every right to turn you down. You shouldn’t make her feel guilty about saying no, because having unprotected sex under duress is neither pleasurable nor safe, for either of you. Talk to your partner about why she’s uncomfortable with unprotected sex. Ask her to help you understand how she feels. Also, try to come up with a way to avoid this situation in the future. Instead of relying solely on one person to bring the condoms – you – maybe you could ask her to keep a couple at her place or in her purse, for emergencies.

When you’re unsure 

There may be times when you want to have sex with someone, but you’re not completely sure about how you feel about her, or if you trust her. In times like these, it’s smarter to wait. Even if you know someone well and still find yourself hesitating, it’s better to pay heed to your gut feeling. Having sex when you’re unsure of it may cause you to feel guilty, agitated and remorseful later.

When you risk hurting someone 

If you are seeing someone who is married or is in a relationship, then you may want to think about whether it’s worth taking things ahead. Do you really want to hurt people along the way? Step back and think twice before you make a decision. Ask yourself if you’re okay with helping someone commit adultery, and if you can trust her word about her sexual past.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Now that we’re done with the (very few!) instances when sex should not be on the cards, let’s direct our attention to the other side of the coin – when sex should and must be on the menu. When it comes to those, you want to raise up to the occasion, so check out my program on achieving G-Spot Bliss – G-Spot Orgasms Made Easy. You’ll learn how to play with the G-Spot and induce mind-blowing ecstasy and throbbing orgasms.

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Ever wonder how you come off in bed? Let me help you figure out if you’re a romantic, a god or an adventurer.

Are you more on the shy side when it comes to sex or are you an expert seducer? Do you let your emotions dictate the pace or are you always ready to get your freak on? Your sexual personality is a combination of your style and habits in the bedroom, and while it doesn’t define you as a person, it certainly determines what your sex life will be like. Curious? Take this simple quiz. 

But before I tell you what your type is, let’s talk for a second about the thing that’s the common thread in all men in the whole wide world. No matter the type, all men want one thing: to last as long as they could in bed. Well, you’re in luck because my program, Last Longer Tonight, is your key to achieving this life-long dream. Your sexual stamina will improve A LOT after you try my techniques. 

You find yourself thinking about sex… 

Maybe thrice a week. 
Once a day. 
All day, every day. 

What’s your idea of a perfect date? 

Good food, wine and a movie. Maybe squeeze in a makeout sesh. 
Going dancing with my woman, so I can rub up against her the whole time. 
Being handcuffed to the bed while she has her way with me.

What’s the riskiest place you’ve had sex at? 

A. In the back of my car while it was parked in a mall’s parking lot.
B. In my parents’ bathroom while they were watching TV in the den. 
C. On the staircase of my apartment building, in broad daylight. 

How would you react to introducing food into the bedroom? 

I wouldn’t mind whipped cream once in a while. 
I’d choose alcohol over food. Drunken sex can be awesome! 
Whipped cream, honey, chocolate—done it all. 

When it comes to undressing, you… 

Would rather do it myself. 
Usually we undress each other at the same time. 
We take turns stripping for each other. Makes the sex even hotter! 

How do you feel about threesomes? 

Not okay with it. I dumped the last girl who suggested it. 
I’m okay with experimenting once in a while, but I wouldn’t go so far as a threesome. 
I would definitely try it if I find willing partners. 

Mostly 1s

You’re a shy romantic who loves tender lovemaking over animalistic sex. The romance and femininity is what does it for you, and while you’re not loathe to trying out new things, you prefer sticking to the basics.

Mostly 2s

You’re a sex god in the making who can be pretty frisky when you want to be. You aren’t shy about the fact that you like sex, but you think twice before trying anything risqué. Give up whatever hang-ups you have left and you’re golden!

Mostly 3s

You’re an erotic adventurer who loves sex in all its glory. You’re completely in touch with your sexual side and are absolutely proud of it. A connoisseur of all things sex, you’re open to trying everything as long as there’s pleasure in it for both you and your partner.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. So how did you fare? Are you the romantic, the alpha male, the naughty adventurer. It doesn’t really matter – as long as you’re not the… One Minute Man. And you won’t be, if you check out my Last Longer Tonight to learn how to delay your orgasm and ejaculation for as long as possible. I’ve put together a list of my most effective tips and techniques that you can use to regain control over your erection. 

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You don’t have to rein in the passion when your partner is pregnant, I promise.

When you’re just about dealing with the knowledge that your partner is pregnant, it can be quite overwhelming at first. But should life as you knew it come to a grinding halt? What about boys’ nights out, going on spontaneous trips, having fun together just like in the beginning? And what about sex? 

Now that the deed is done, can you…um…still have sex?

Absolutely, obstetricians say. If your partner’s pregnancy is uncomplicated, and you both feel up to it, you can dance in the sheets until your water breaks. Men often feel a little ignored because everything is so centered on the baby, so I always encourage couples to have sex because it helps keep them bonded.

Actually, sex may be more fun during pregnancy precisely because the pressure is off. If sex had begun to seem like a chore because you were working overtime to get pregnant, now it’s all fun and games. And if you’ve spent most of your reproductive years trying not to get pregnant, well, you’re out of the woods there too.

Plus, let me tell you that mothers-to-be have sexual urges too, so if you think you have to pace your enthusiasm because she won’t want to do it, think again. I asked some friendly doctors to answer the most common questions they get asked about sex from pregnant couples and here’s what they had to say. 

Is it safe? 

As long as there are no associated conditions like a low-lying placenta, infections of the cervix and vagina, an incompetent cervix or multiple pregnancies, it is safe to have sex during pregnancy. The most important factor is the comfort and readiness of the woman. Having said that, every pregnancy is unique and I suggest you talk to your doctor before you get busy between the sheets.

Any pre-sex precautions? 

It’s important for you to be gentle as the tissues in the vagina are sensitive at this time. Many women also experience extreme sensitivity in their nipples and breasts, so the woman should take the lead and communicate what’s comfortable for her. Some women bleed a bit after sex. While spotting is common, do discuss it with your doctor.

And since we’re talking about nipple sensitivity, maybe during pregnancy you can try giving your woman a breast orgasm instead of the traditional vaginal one. Check out my Boobgasm program and I’ll show you that all women can orgasm via breast stimulation alone. Yes, you read that correctly. And it’s not that difficult either, I promise you. Just check out my program and see for yourself. 

What positions are okay? 

In the early weeks of pregnancy, you can try positions you are used to and comfortable with. When the bump starts to show, it’s better to avoid the missionary position. From the second trimester onwards, the most comfortable position would be sideways or with the woman on top.

Is oral sex allowed? 

My doctors wave the green flag on this one. There should be no problems. Care should be taken not to blow any air into the vagina, as this can lead to the blocking of blood vessels. Also, if you have a viral infection, it’s better to avoid sex until you have recovered. 

What about sex toys? 

If you’ve been using accessories to amp up the fun, you might have to put them back into the cupboard for a little while. It’s better to refrain for reasons of hygiene and safety. The fear with the use of sex toys is that you might not be able to control the depth of penetration. Also, sex toys may be carriers of infection if not cleaned properly.

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore

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Her Orgasm Is in Your Eyes

When you pin her down and force her to hold your gaze, her body betrays her. Her breath hitches. Her vagina clenches. Her mind goes blank—because she knows she’s yours.

Her eyes aren’t just windows to her soul—they’re wired straight into her brain chemistry. The second you lock her stare during dominance, her body floods with oxytocin, the bonding hormone. It’s the same chemical cocktail that makes her cling to you after sex. But when you trigger it mid-thrust, it doesn’t just bond her—it breaks her open.

Every command becomes absolute. Every thrust hits deeper. She can’t escape the way your stare takes her over, even when she tries to look away. And the longer she stays locked in your gaze, the harder her orgasm rips through her body.

This isn’t just dominance. This is possession. And when you master The Eye Lock, she won’t just come harder—she’ll crave the man who made her surrender with nothing more than his eyes.

Inside The Alpha Lover, I show you exactly how to master this with AJ Applegate and Sandy Fantasy. Click here to watch them submit under the power of the Eye Lock: Watch Here

Why Her Brain Melts Under Eye Contact

Research confirms this. A 2017 study published in the Journal of Sex Research found that prolonged mutual eye contact significantly increases oxytocin levels—the same hormone that bonds mothers to their newborns and strengthens long-term relationships. That hormonal flood lowers her defenses, spikes arousal, and makes her body hyper‑responsive to every touch. In dominance play, that surge doesn’t just make her feel close—it makes her feel claimed.

Countless men who’ve practiced The Eye Lock in my trainings tell me the same thing: her moans turn guttural, her grip fierce, her obedience automatic. When you command her with your gaze, you bypass logic and speak straight to her primal wiring. That’s why she surrenders harder, comes faster, and obeys without hesitation.

See how this plays out in real time inside The Alpha Lover, as AJ Applegate loses herself in the gaze that takes her over: Watch Now

The Dominant Stare

Holding her gaze is an art that takes practice. Too soft, and the connection loses intensity. Too harsh, and it feels theatrical instead of real. The true Dominant Stare is calm, unblinking, and absolute—it radiates certainty rather than anger. It’s the kind of look that says without question: you’re mine, and you know it.

Psychologists studying nonverbal dominance have found that steady eye contact conveys authority and trust simultaneously. Women in my workshops consistently describe the moment their partner held their gaze as the instant they felt both exposed and deeply aroused. One student’s girlfriend confessed later: “When he looked at me like that, I couldn’t move… I wanted to.”

Practice by catching her eyes during thrusts and refusing to be the first to look away. Even when she glances down or turns aside, stay steady. Let your stillness, your certainty, and your silence communicate everything—because in that moment, your eyes speak louder than words ever could.

When She Looks Away

She will look away—and that’s not weakness, it’s part of the surrender. Her body instinctively fights the intensity of being seen so deeply. Studies on gaze avoidance show that people break eye contact as a way to regulate overwhelming emotional arousal. In sex, this makes her glance down, close her eyes, or turn her head. Don’t punish her for it. Instead, guide her chin back gently, hold her jaw with authority, and make her meet your eyes again. One woman in my seminars confessed, “When he kept pulling my gaze back, I felt my body give up fighting—it was the most erotic loss of control I’ve ever had.” Each time she returns, her submission deepens. Each cycle of resistance and return reinforces the bond, until she can’t resist anymore and her orgasm arrives with ferocity.

Eye-Locked Positions

Some positions make The Eye Lock effortless, because they naturally align your eyes with hers and amplify the psychological charge of being watched and claimed. In fact, research on sexual intimacy shows that face-to-face positions with sustained eye contact increase perceived closeness and erotic intensity. Men in my courses report that when they use these setups, their partners describe orgasms as deeper and more overwhelming than usual.

Missionary with wrists pinned – maximum dominance, maximum intimacy. She is held open and helpless, yet unable to look away.
Cowgirl with her hands restrained – she rides, but you decide when her eyes stay locked, keeping the illusion of control while you command the reality.
Seated on your lap, facing you – every thrust forces her to drown in your gaze; couples often say this creates the most emotional, soul-binding orgasms.
Doggy with a grip in her hair – pull her head back until her eyes meet yours; many women confess this mix of roughness and intimacy makes them climax harder than any other variation.

Each position doesn’t just connect bodies—it binds eyes, minds, and orgasms together. And when she’s locked in like this, her release isn’t just physical; it’s unforgettable.

Climax Control Through Her Eyes

When you don’t let her break eye contact, her climax transforms from simple release into overwhelming surrender. Studies from the International Journal of Sexual Health suggest that mutual gaze during orgasm intensifies perceived intimacy and amplifies oxytocin surges, binding arousal to emotional memory. In practice, this means that the second she locks eyes with you at the peak, her body doesn’t just orgasm—it floods with chemicals that fuse her pleasure with loyalty and desire.

Couples I’ve coached describe it as unforgettable. One man told me, “Her orgasm was so violent I thought she’d push me away, but when she looked straight into my eyes, she clung tighter instead.” Another woman confessed, “I don’t remember the thrusts—I remember his eyes. That’s what made me break.”

She won’t just remember the orgasm itself—she’ll remember the way you looked at her when you made it happen, and that memory will hook into her body like an unshakable imprint.

These words can guide you, but only the video shows how it looks in her trembling body. Watch AJ Applegate and Sandy Fantasy surrender inside The Alpha Lover: Click Here to Master the Eye Lock

Final Seduction

Mastering the Eye Lock elevates dominance into something elemental. You are not merely entering her body—you are reaching into her mind, her memory, her very sense of belonging. Women who experience this describe it as unforgettable: “I didn’t feel like I was being taken, I felt like I was being claimed.” That is the power of the gaze that holds her through climax.

With nothing more than your eyes, you can direct her pleasure, sustain her orgasm, and imprint yourself into her body’s deepest memory of release. Long after the sheets are changed, she will recall how you looked at her when she broke open—and she will crave it again.

Click here to step into that mastery, inside The Alpha Lover with AJ Applegate & Sandy Fantasy: Watch Now

Hot kisses, 

Gabrielle Moore 

Sex Expert & Author of Naked U

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“Sharing food with another human being is an intimate act that should not be indulged in lightly.” – M.F.K. Fisher

You learn a lot about someone when you share a meal together. If your date makes the experience uptight and restrictive, well, the sex is going to be horrible too. Eating is best when there is spontaneity and variety. Even if you’re a type A, and many things in your life are about control and domination, eating should be a submissive experience, where you let down your guard and enjoy the ride.

I for one don’t have much patience for people who are self-conscious about the act of eating, and it irritates me when someone denies themselves the pleasure of a bloody hunk of steak or a pungent French cheese because of some outdated nonsense about what’s appropriate or attractive. Stop worrying about how your breath’s going to smell, whether there’s beurre blanc on your face, or whether ordering the braised pork belly will make you look greedy or fat. Eating with abandon couldn’t be more of a turn-on: it shows that you’re comfortable with yourself.

A perfect date is with a person who eats without fear, prejudice, or concerns about her appearance. I remember one of my first dates with my partner: he ordered a six-pound lobster. I sat there, enraptured, watching him suck every bit of meat from it – he got a standing ovation from the floor staff. He’s the kind of man who will order filet mignon as an appetizer followed by a T-bone steak. His fearless, open-minded approach to food is completely alluring.

A table for two

It’s also wildly exciting to be open to the unfamiliar, because it just might be delicious. And I know not everyone can travel the world, but wherever you are, you can explore. One of the best things about cuisine these days is that you can ‘travel’ the world without leaving your town. From vibrant Korean food, to amazing Vietnamese recipes, to fantastic South American and Mexican dishes, you’ve got plenty to choose from.

Don’t worry about the wine list, the white table-cloths, the long tasting menu. Eating with a loved one, as is the case with making love, is about having a self-indulgent time. Don’t worry about how you look and don’t try to impress the waiter with what you know. You can eat with a fork, or even with your hands. It’s all about the enjoyment of the moment and the company and food. And if you can be yourself slurping spicy peanut noodles in front of another person, you may have a keeper.

I promise you will go to a more intense place with your date if you try something new. You don’t bond with a safe order. I’ve eaten fermented shark. I’ve eaten cobra heart. I don’t want to experience these foods again, but I’m glad I tried them. What’s the worst-case scenario? You spend some extra time in the bathroom. (Admittedly, not a turn-on for most people.) But you’ll have a good story to tell. You’ll share an experience. And, maybe, you’ll change your palate forever.

For a dinner date, I eat light all day to save room, then I go all in: I choose this meal and this order, and I choose you, the person across me, to share it with. There’s a beautiful intimacy in a meal like that. It’s about exploration and taste. And kissing after dinner. And maybe there’s a little wine and curry on your breath… and that’s nice.

It’s only when you open yourself to the adventure of the unknown, the strange, even the shocking, that you get to enjoy the sensual, passionate, joyful experience of sharing food and a drink. And it sets the stage for whatever might follow.

Sexiest foods (and why they’re turn-ons)

Peaches. They’re beautiful objects with so much flavor and juice. Damn sexy.
Pasta. The Italians have it exactly right: a big family-style, eat-when-it’s-ready meal.
Lobster. Because eating with your hands is incredibly sensual.
Caviar. A woman eating fish eggs? Oh my God, sexy.
BBQ. I’m not saying eating barbecue is the way to achieve world peace, but it won’t hurt.
Ragu. A simmering red sauce and a hank of meat: smells, sounds and tastes like good cooking.
Steak. Animal protein is a beautiful thing.
Korean-American. Current obsession: raw beef with uni (sea urchin), served on a shiso leaf.

Have a delicious week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Take your partner on a dinner date and put her to the taste. How at ease is she when it comes to eating with you, no strings attached? Check out my video program on the matter – Flesh on Flesh

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